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Speaker 1: This is the Will and Woody podcast.

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Speaker 2: How he had Ryan Shelton in the studio found out

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Speaker 2: that he carries a tiny wooden egg with him everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Have we got that audio, Jae, have listen.

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Speaker 3: He's alive And what you carry with you everywhere? So

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Speaker 3: you can always touch wood? Do you actually he has

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Speaker 3: actually pulled out a small wooden egg? Is that an

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Speaker 3: Easter thing? No, it's just always in my pocket. Absolutely,

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Speaker 3: you go for a jog, you'll have your wooden with you.

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Speaker 3: If I go for a job.

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Speaker 2: That was your first concern. What are you gonna do

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Speaker 2: when you.

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Speaker 3: Go for a run? I can't believe he's laughing in

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Speaker 3: me though, Like, no, mate, we're laughing at you. You

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Speaker 3: carry a wooden egg everywhere? Don't love at me for

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Speaker 3: using any jogging question.

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Speaker 2: All right, but we are talking about annoying superstitions.

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Speaker 3: Annoying superstitions. Do you carry wooden eggs in your pocket?

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Speaker 2: Now? Up again? I would love to hear from you guys.

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Speaker 2: If you have got an annoying superstition, hit us up Instagram, Facebook,

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Speaker 2: Will and Woodye, you can give us a call. But

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Speaker 2: I didn't touch wood that the phone lines would work

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Speaker 2: this morning, so we're in trouble.

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Speaker 3: Needed Ryan's egg needed Ryan.

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Speaker 2: So and we're going to do this anyway, because it's

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Speaker 2: just unfortunate that you've got to carry the bit now.

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Speaker 2: But you have and pardon the French, a shitload of

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Speaker 2: superstitions like you you're in areas. Yeah, shall we begin?

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Speaker 3: Sure? So, Yeah, there certain things I need to do

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Speaker 3: every day that I'm superstitious about it because if I

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Speaker 3: don't do those things, I just I believe I will

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Speaker 3: have a bad day.

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Speaker 2: At what point do we call this OCD?

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Speaker 3: No, I don't. It's not OCD.

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Speaker 2: It hasn't been. It hasn't been.

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Speaker 3: No, it doesn't Like for example, we were recently on

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Speaker 3: the road. We were supporting Rudiu doing her comedy debut.

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Speaker 3: If you haven't seen that, by the way, just go

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Speaker 3: to our socials. Will and Woody get the podcast. She's

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Speaker 3: the funniest woman of life. But so when we were

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Speaker 3: on the road, yeah, obviously I couldn't do a lot

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Speaker 3: of these things. And it's okay because I'm on the road.

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Speaker 3: I don't know I'm able to justify in my head like,

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Speaker 3: oh no, you're on a trip, so you don't have.

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Speaker 2: To do this thing. So I think it's just when

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Speaker 2: you're in your house.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if I'm at home, I have to do this

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Speaker 3: certain things, I'll crack in and again before I say this,

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Speaker 3: I realized I did a lot of these things when

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Speaker 3: I was alone. But now that I'm living with my

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Speaker 3: now fiance, Mim, She's picked up on these things. She's

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Speaker 3: let me know about it. So once I knew about

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Speaker 3: when I wake up, I have to go outside and

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Speaker 3: take three breaths, like exactly three breaths, and I have

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Speaker 3: to do that every day, big deep breaths, and then

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Speaker 3: I can sort of start my day. So I knew

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Speaker 3: I did that, but okay, well I hope. So it's

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Speaker 3: a gaming thing where I had to do it every

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Speaker 3: single morning, and you know when that started, I think

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Speaker 3: I did it once and I had a good day.

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Speaker 3: That's usually the way it starts. It's like I had

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Speaker 3: a good day because I took three breaths outside and

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Speaker 3: I did it the next day, and then it was like,

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Speaker 3: I have to do.

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Speaker 2: That every day. Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: That's actually a pretty easy one though. Yeah, I can

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Speaker 3: get that one done. So when I put my bun

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Speaker 3: in my hair, yeah, for the first time of the day, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I do it three times?

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Speaker 2: Shut up.

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Speaker 3: So that's just like a yeah, that's just that's just

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Speaker 3: think three times and it doesn't matter. It's because but

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Speaker 3: it's weird though. It's always like no, I didn't get it, No,

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Speaker 3: it didn't get it. Yeah, got it, But it's always

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Speaker 3: three right, Okay, So now did you know that.

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Speaker 2: You did that one?

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Speaker 3: In the mim noticed that one?

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Speaker 3: Right, She's like, you know, your bun was perfect the

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Speaker 3: first two times, and I was like, what are you

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Speaker 3: talking about? And she was like, you do it three

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 3: When I go and get coffee in the morning, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: so I've got to keep cup.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I always take three SIPs of the coffee before I

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Speaker 3: put the lid on. Wow, so coffee comes out right?

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Speaker 2: What is you on the number? Three?

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Speaker 3: Three SIPs and then I.

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Speaker 2: Put three breaths, three buns, three SIPs.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, three is weird.

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Speaker 2: Carrots, Yeah, that is told you carrots. Please me about

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Speaker 2: because a lot of people think that he gets a

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Speaker 2: fake ten, but he insists because he eats too many carrots.

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Speaker 3: It's called carrotinemia. It's a real condition. Ye look it

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Speaker 3: up and it gives me an orange hue. Anyway, I realized.

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Speaker 3: I only realized I did this after a fine him

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Speaker 3: and I. So Nim chopped my carrots for me one morning,

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Speaker 3: she was like, you were running late. I've just chopped

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Speaker 3: your carrots for it, and I was like, you did

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Speaker 2: Like it was like, shut up, shut up. It was

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Speaker 2: a full tup, aware of carrots. Good to go, And

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Speaker 2: you were like, you keep your carrots?

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Speaker 1: Is it?

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Speaker 2: Three carrots?

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Speaker 3: Three carrots? And I chopped the top in what I

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Speaker 3: chopped the top of all of them in one motion

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Speaker 3: and then I tropped them all in half in one motion,

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Speaker 3: and then I individually slice the rest and then they

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Speaker 3: go my typewear and I have to do that. And

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Speaker 3: then there's one more, which is which is really annoyed

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Speaker 3: back on that three things. So when I put on

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Speaker 2: Mate? It's all been three it's all been thread to

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Speaker 3: So deodorant, yes, I go. When I use roll on, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I go. Left arm pit, yeah, right arm pit, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and then I have to go again on the left.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's not that.

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Speaker 3: So one of my arm pits always gets over deodorized.

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Speaker 2: Because it has to be three has to because you

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Speaker 2: couldn't do four, you couldn't double down.

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Speaker 3: It would feel weird. Wow, it would feel weird.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's really astonishing. I had. I had no idea.

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Speaker 2: I've known you for a really long time. I didn't

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I might, and I might at times, like if

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Speaker 3: I would we have done before bloody Earth we have Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I would. I would try really hard to like for

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Speaker 2: That, yeah of course, yeah, yeah, because you get Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's big for you to mention it today, right, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Wow, it's pretty weird. It's hard for him. It's actually

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Speaker 2: Of course.

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Speaker 3: Mim tries to like she's like, I know, you need

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Speaker 3: to do your things, yea. And then the hardest bit

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because she's trying to help. And then you go

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Speaker 2: and then I go chops your carrots for you. You can't.

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Speaker 3: And then because I get I can get angry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's ruined the routine.

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Speaker 3: I can sort of fly off the handle really like

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Speaker 3: something like sometimes you'll put the lid on my coffee

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Speaker 3: for me, yeah, and I'll be like, bludd you get

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Speaker 2: That lid off? Does it apply? Does the three? Sorry?

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Speaker 2: I know we're running late here, but I'm very interested here.

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Speaker 2: Does the three thing apply? Like to everything? Like if

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Speaker 2: you're in the middle of something, if you do something

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Speaker 2: once and you do it twice, do you have to

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Speaker 2: do it a third time?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Nah, it's just it's just those certain things in

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Speaker 3: them all, just those things. And I don't know why three.

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Speaker 3: I probably just picked up on three because it was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: and three that's working now, and it's like wow. And

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Speaker 3: often it all happens. I do it once and then

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Speaker 3: something good happens and that's done. Right, that's that I think.

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Speaker 3: That's what.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it happens. That's amazing, that's what happens.

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Speaker 3: I also don't mind a threesome.

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Speaker 2: No, that's a joke, obviously, that's a joke.

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Speaker 3: That was a joke. I was just trying to light

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Speaker 2: I have to have every more. You know, you know

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Speaker 3: Let's talk about your thirtieth. Take me back, obviously this

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Speaker 3: put me as old as you might look ten years older.

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Speaker 2: But I'm not everyone. I'm younger than.

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Speaker 3: It came up yesterday on the show, or it was

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Speaker 3: readdressed yesterday on the show. Now, I thought I nailed

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Speaker 3: your thirtieth birthday present. I'd heard you mentioned on a

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Speaker 3: photo shoot that we were doing there once. Yes, And

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Speaker 3: that's me as a good friend. I always listen, great

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Speaker 2: I heard you say, I think you were you didn't

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Speaker 2: have a birthday present, so you were just hanging on

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Speaker 2: my every word for anything that you could give me.

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Speaker 3: But you said, wow, aren't those steamers amazing? Look how

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Speaker 3: they're you know, de crinkling our shirts with that steamer.

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Speaker 3: It's so quick and efficient. And I was like, amazing,

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Speaker 3: Will will thirtieth tomorrow? Boom, I'm going to get him.

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Speaker 2: It's just so insane.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to get him a steamer. And actually I

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Speaker 3: his socks off because you're a practical guy.

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Speaker 5: You are.

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Speaker 3: You love things that you can just use. You don't

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Speaker 3: like bs like flowers and decorations and knickknacks. You're a

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Speaker 3: practical guy. And I was like, I have nice sentimental

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Speaker 3: We're just making the point where you didn't ever gift.

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Speaker 2: And you were waiting for me to say something. We

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Speaker 2: had a water fast a street sweeper, and I'd have

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Speaker 2: been like, well, those streets sweepers are cool. You would

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Speaker 2: have rocked up with a brush the next day.

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Speaker 3: Bloody Earth, my friend. I would have got your the

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Speaker 3: whole street sweeper, because money is not a thing when

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Speaker 3: it comes to your birthday's big way.

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Speaker 2: So I got you.

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Speaker 3: I got you the best steamer out there from JB

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Speaker 3: High Fire, I think. Anyway, yes on the show was

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Speaker 3: brought up again and well you said this.

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Speaker 2: Moving house recently. Sam was like, do you want this steamer?

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Speaker 2: And I was like, but I'd be keeping it for

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Speaker 2: It was just like a pile of stuff. It was like,

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Speaker 3: She actually said to me, She was like, Okay, this

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my god, I've cooked it,

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Speaker 3: I think everyone was sort of gaslighting me a bit

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Speaker 3: Here, Isabella, this was your sister who got you something

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Speaker 7: Yes, I think I can beat your steamer too.

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Speaker 7: What she gave me a magazine and I was building

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Speaker 7: subscription never came. It was a magazine go for me,

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Speaker 2: But see again, are you close for there, Isabella?

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Speaker 3: Yeah. You can see the thought behind it though, like

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Speaker 2: You found out so quickly with presents you found out

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Speaker 3: It's like, oh flaws you Yeah, well, you know, let's

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Speaker 2: What about when you got mim Those the the pajamas

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Speaker 3: I got catfished, I got again.

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Speaker 10: You're the victim.

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Speaker 2: You're the victim in your present again my page page. Hi.

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Speaker 5: So my boyfriend at the time, it was my twenty

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Speaker 5: first birthday, she said, we're going out for dinner. We

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Speaker 3: So it was obviously like a pretty high end restaurant

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Speaker 11: First, you'd think so.

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Speaker 2: But it was Hog's Breath, hogs Breath down in the middle. Wow, Okay,

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Speaker 2: that's good story. Areas. Wow, these are quite amazing. Josh

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Speaker 2: Mesher's messages on Instagram. He said his sister gave him

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Speaker 3: So that's a subtle hint he stinks, Josh, if you're listening,

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Speaker 2: That's all right for some reason, because you can't like

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Speaker 2: Let's get around you. I'll rock up to the dinner

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Speaker 3: And I'll text him that, Aaron, this was on your

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Speaker 6: Yeah, my twenty first birthday.

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Speaker 12: My voice friend at the time, now X brought me

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Speaker 6: Stuff on the shelf.

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Speaker 12: He got used to the spoiler paper story.

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Speaker 3: After this, it's win Woody.

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Speaker 2: There are three sorts of people on this planet, as

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Speaker 2: far as I'm concerned. There are decent people who take

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Speaker 12: She does leave a little little tiny sip.

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Speaker 6: You know, you do have a little bit left in.

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Speaker 2: It's even worse so far as I could say, because

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Speaker 2: you know, whenever it is, and you know, help myself

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Speaker 8: I'll wake you up.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's true, that's true. But you have created this

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Speaker 1: So when it's not there, it's just such a show.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, but it's true.

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Speaker 2: This is your fault.

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Speaker 3: Will, this is this is your fault.

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Speaker 2: Will. I agree.

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Speaker 6: It's been too nice for way too long.

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Speaker 2: I see this. I seen this before to my team.

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Speaker 2: I was like, if I keep offering her things, she'll

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Speaker 6: You are because I have to get under the covers,

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Speaker 1: I get cold.

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Speaker 2: Because the other kickie here is if I get you

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Speaker 2: You just want whatever I've got and then and then

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Speaker 6: But it's because you often put.

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Speaker 7: Your hydrolde in yours.

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Speaker 5: Nothing mine.

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Speaker 2: Finds a bit of water, So why don't you, Why

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Speaker 6: Both all the time, just never forget mine.

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Speaker 4: Is there a.

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Speaker 3: Solution here in like getting a big vessel of water?

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Speaker 3: That's what I do in my home. I got a

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Speaker 3: can I have a sip of your water? Or can

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Speaker 3: I don't be working up. But the solution there is

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Speaker 3: Could that potentially solve this dilemma which is going on

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Speaker 2: Don't mind, I don't mind. Itworks either that either.

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Speaker 6: That we could even do like two party straws and

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Speaker 2: You could get your own. You could get your own,

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Speaker 2: or I could just strap you down every time you

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Speaker 2: go to sleep as well, like Hannibal lector so you

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Speaker 2: Do you have do you have bedtime water issues? I mean,

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Speaker 2: it's that broad. I feel like there are so many

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Speaker 2: Who doesn't take the glass of water? Do they steal yours?

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Speaker 2: Are they allowed drinker? Or solve my problem? Do we

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Speaker 2: just need a big a water bottle? Maybe you've been

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Speaker 7: Well, I have a solution.

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Speaker 9: My solution is that I take a six hundred bottle

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Speaker 9: of water. Yeah, and we both share the bottle. But

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Speaker 2: So there's some sort of contribution in the relationship nas,

442
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Speaker 2: which I think most people can expect. I suppose this

443
00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:32,679
Speaker 2: it does broadly go thank you for the corners.

444
00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:32,959
Speaker 4: It does.

445
00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:36,560
Speaker 2: It does sort of broadly go to a discussion in

446
00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:41,240
Speaker 2: general those woods around. Once you start doing something for somebody,

447
00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:44,359
Speaker 2: are they entitled to assume that you're going to keep

448
00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:48,159
Speaker 2: doing that thing? Mmm? Yeah, you know what I mean.

449
00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:53,200
Speaker 2: It's at Sam's defense is it's like, well, you created

450
00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:55,560
Speaker 2: the habit, so don't get angry at me that you

451
00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:57,160
Speaker 2: got rid of the habit. It's like if you take

452
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Speaker 2: the bins out every time, if you take the bins

453
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Speaker 2: out every night, and and one night you just don't

454
00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:02,760
Speaker 2: take them out and the guy misses your bins, you

455
00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:04,879
Speaker 2: can't turn to your partner and go, well that was

456
00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:08,440
Speaker 2: your ball to catch because you've taken that every night previously.

457
00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:08,720
Speaker 1: Damn.

458
00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:09,320
Speaker 2: I agree with her.

459
00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:14,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, very true. Actually, So I think I think what

460
00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:16,359
Speaker 3: you have to go through don't bring up the X

461
00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:18,240
Speaker 3: men defense again. I think what you have to go

462
00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:20,800
Speaker 3: through though, is a little bit of pain for yourself.

463
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,600
Speaker 3: So I think you need a period. Let's say it's

464
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Speaker 3: a week, you know, hopefully only a week where you

465
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Speaker 3: need to sacrifice your water.

466
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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, she'll adapt and eventually.

467
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Speaker 3: No, that's that's what you want. You want her to

468
00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:34,639
Speaker 3: adapt because then she.

469
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Speaker 2: Doesn't need Yes, yes, no, that's a good point.

470
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Speaker 3: Actually, well, you think she'll adapt the other way, she'll

471
00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:43,679
Speaker 3: just become a canister not having I know she's so lazy,

472
00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:45,840
Speaker 3: she'll put laziness above everything.

473
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Speaker 2: This is what happens when you when you're with a

474
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Speaker 2: very lazy person, you do everything. She's gonna hate that

475
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:52,720
Speaker 2: I said that, But she's gone now, so it doesn't matter.

476
00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,280
Speaker 2: Stacy thirty one and six five. Your partner brings you

477
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Speaker 2: your water, she.

478
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Speaker 11: Does, and then I'll drink it like I'll have a

479
00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:03,640
Speaker 11: little bit to have my medication. And then I'll wake

480
00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:06,080
Speaker 11: up in the morning and it's empty because he drink

481
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:06,359
Speaker 11: it all.

482
00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:09,959
Speaker 2: So he finishes it. He finishes Okay, okay, And does

483
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,080
Speaker 2: he do the lean over that we're talking about, Stace,

484
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,280
Speaker 2: do you do you have visions of him hovering above you,

485
00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:17,119
Speaker 2: like the holy ghost in the middle of the night,

486
00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:18,000
Speaker 2: drinking the water.

487
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Speaker 11: Yeah, pretty much. He'll like reach over to his own

488
00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:25,360
Speaker 11: side in case he's left something there like a can

489
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Speaker 11: or something. But then when there's nothing, then.

490
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Speaker 2: It's it's quite it's quite an ungodly thing to do.

491
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Speaker 2: I mean, walk around for God's sake, that's that's probably

492
00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:36,840
Speaker 2: my The other part of this is if you're going

493
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Speaker 2: to steal something from the other person's bedside table which

494
00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:42,680
Speaker 2: they've put there, have the decency to walk around the

495
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Speaker 2: bed like.

496
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Speaker 3: I mean, you're not going to get out of bed though,

497
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Speaker 3: I'm sorry if it's the lazy person who's refusing to

498
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Speaker 3: bring their own glass of water as if they're going

499
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Speaker 3: to get out of bed to walk around to get

500
00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:54,639
Speaker 3: your water, come on with just what I'm asking too much?

501
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Speaker 2: Just what I hope let's wrap it up with Brendan here,

502
00:21:57,240 --> 00:22:00,840
Speaker 2: because yeah, really it's starting to to shine a light

503
00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,639
Speaker 2: on the mother of my child that frankly I think

504
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:09,160
Speaker 2: is a bit ugly. Wow ah wow, I'm very aggressive,

505
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:15,400
Speaker 2: Brendan fire away. Hey, boys, how look you gotta nip

506
00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:16,359
Speaker 2: it in the bard quick. All right.

507
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Speaker 4: It's every man for themselves when it comes to the water. Yeah,

508
00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:21,600
Speaker 4: me and the partner we buy like the thirty packet

509
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:24,639
Speaker 4: of bottles. They're six hundred mil like okay, yeah, we

510
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 4: have an individual one. We keep them on the bedside table.

511
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Speaker 4: But the other day, I've gotten home with my partner

512
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,920
Speaker 4: from an outing that we're on. I've walked into the bedroom.

513
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:35,880
Speaker 4: I've seen that there's a half full bottle of water,

514
00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:38,119
Speaker 4: and I've gone, oh, okay, I'm going to go and

515
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,440
Speaker 4: get myself a fresh one. I went and grabbed it.

516
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 4: I opened it, I had a sip, placed it down

517
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Speaker 4: next to the other one. About five minutes into sitting

518
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:48,960
Speaker 4: on the bed playing on the phone, my partner sees.

519
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,160
Speaker 5: The water, she grabs it, picks it up, has a sip.

520
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 4: I saw that it was the full one that I

521
00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 4: just grabbed, and I didn't really think much of it

522
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:57,080
Speaker 4: at first. I was like, oh, all right, I guess

523
00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 4: she wants the full one and not her one, so

524
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:00,919
Speaker 4: I'll just grab the other one. So I reached across

525
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,359
Speaker 4: her to grab the other bottle of water that was

526
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 4: half full, and she.

527
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 3: Blew up at me about it and she said no.

528
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,200
Speaker 2: And then long story shot, things.

529
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 3: Got so fin and that I had to go for

530
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 3: a drive for about an hour and alm and.

531
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Speaker 9: It was all over water.

532
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 1: Men.

533
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 2: I had the most important fight I've ever had with

534
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,440
Speaker 2: my partner Sam on the weekend, and I genuinely think

535
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,720
Speaker 2: if you haven't had this fight yet with your partner,

536
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:29,400
Speaker 2: I think you're missing out.

537
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:30,160
Speaker 3: Brilliant.

538
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:32,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, it wasn't fun. I'll give you a little bit

539
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,239
Speaker 2: of context. We've just come back from holiday. We've been

540
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:38,119
Speaker 2: in Mexico for nearly four weeks together, and we're in

541
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 2: seventh Heaven. So it's quite normal that when you come

542
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 2: back and you hit the ground running that you know,

543
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 2: she gets ectic when you've got a kid anyway, particularly, Yes,

544
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 2: but I think it was also going back to this

545
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 2: situation where I'm the breadwinner and she's stay at home

546
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:59,560
Speaker 2: with baby. That's that's the situation that we're in. I'm

547
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,399
Speaker 2: the only one who's working and she's the only one. Well, actually, no,

548
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 2: I'm going to rephrase that she's the only one staging

549
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 2: at home with the kid, which, yeah, sure, I've had

550
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,159
Speaker 2: a couple of days with Max one on one and

551
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 2: I reckon after two of them. Yeah, I check out anyway.

552
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:13,680
Speaker 3: Isn't it.

553
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 12: Yeah?

554
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think we're just out of stuff to do.

555
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:18,399
Speaker 3: We don't want to have his argument, but I think

556
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 3: it's a lot easier what we do.

557
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 2: I mean, at the end of the day, mate, I

558
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,639
Speaker 2: think I know, it's a lot easier.

559
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 3: We come in here.

560
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 2: Yes, we make a few.

561
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:31,160
Speaker 3: Jokes, yes, over a couple of hours, Yeah, get paid

562
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 3: for most of them. Mad and then we go home

563
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 3: and then the real work begins.

564
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:34,880
Speaker 12: Yeah.

565
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, well and you just fingers across the jids already.

566
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:42,400
Speaker 2: And anyway, there's no doubt that I felt that Sem

567
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,160
Speaker 2: had a much harder job for coming back. And there's

568
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 2: no doubt. Well, this is the interesting thing. She thought

569
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 2: I had it a lot tougher than her.

570
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, because because of what you like mentally and

571
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 3: physically had to do, or because it's harder for.

572
00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 2: You to Yeah, were leaving the baby going into work.

573
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 2: So what was going on is that we were subconsciously

574
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 2: compensating for the other person, and we weren't communicating that.

575
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 2: So both of us were kind of doing a lot

576
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 2: of what we deemed as extra sort of stuff to

577
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 2: make the other person feel okay because we both thought

578
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:21,920
Speaker 2: we were working really hard. And then simultaneously, both of

579
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 2: us thought that we weren't getting appreciated for what we

580
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:26,200
Speaker 2: were doing because.

581
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:28,159
Speaker 3: You were doing both doing extra ye.

582
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 2: Yes, And it was this like standoff to the point

583
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 2: where it's Sam's Dutch. So you know, as soon as

584
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 2: there's a fly in the ointment, she just kind of

585
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,920
Speaker 2: tools down and says, what's the what the F's going on,

586
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:40,440
Speaker 2: and then we just have to have a conversation about it.

587
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 2: And it was intense. I think ultimately we realized that

588
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 2: we were really resenting each other at the same time

589
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 2: at the same time because we were both doing this

590
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,160
Speaker 2: extra work to make the other person feel better about themselves.

591
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 3: Didn't you run out of jobs? What do you mean, well,

592
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 3: if you're both doing extras, yeah, then it's a washing machine.

593
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 2: Like no, no, no, it wasn't necessarily jobs. It was time. Okay,

594
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 2: it wasn't the jobs we were doing. It was the

595
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 2: time we were allowing each other.

596
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

597
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 2: So we were both going, hey, i'll take the baby here,

598
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 2: I'll take the baby here, I'll take the baby here

599
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:24,919
Speaker 2: without without going I need some time out. Yes, yes, gotcha,

600
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,640
Speaker 2: yeah or I Neither of us said that. We're both

601
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:28,200
Speaker 2: like I've got it.

602
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 3: I've got it.

603
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 2: I've got it.

604
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 3: Because you've been at work all day, so I'll take

605
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 3: the baby. Exactly on the other side, you're going, I'll

606
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 3: take the baby yes, yeah, wow, yeah, totally wild. Yeah.

607
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 2: Anyway, look, I think what it came down to is

608
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 2: that I think, and maybe this is you know, this

609
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 2: is just learning about parenting, is that we need to

610
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 2: make a timetable which really clearly delineates that's your time

611
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 2: with the kid. And as a result, the other person

612
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,680
Speaker 2: has guilt free time because it's agreed that's your time,

613
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 2: which means your time off. Enjoy your time off, yeacause

614
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 2: right now the time off that we're getting, both of

615
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 2: us are just spending our time feeling guilty that we're

616
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 2: not with the baby.

617
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,439
Speaker 3: Him and I like literally trying to organize that now

618
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 3: or I'm going there's in a lot of time every

619
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 3: morning where I'm like, this is the time I can

620
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 3: I can look after the baby. Yes, I'm not at

621
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 3: work at that time, and I want you to go

622
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:18,400
Speaker 3: and do something. But the best thing is I want

623
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:20,919
Speaker 3: to hang out with you. Yes, I want to hang

624
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 3: out with you. And I'm like, yeah, but not with

625
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 3: the baby. Yeah, well but I've got the baby, so

626
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,360
Speaker 3: I want you to have your own. So we're trying

627
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,199
Speaker 3: to figure out, like, well she's trying to figure out

628
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 3: like what can I go and do effectively.

629
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 2: I think it's an age. I think it's a debate,

630
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 2: which a lot of couples have had. Yeah, and I

631
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 2: think it's a development step with having a kid. But

632
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 2: the funny thing was when I spoke to Sam about this,

633
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 2: if we take it away from kids here, because I

634
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 2: know there are lots of people that don't have kids

635
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 2: as well.

636
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 12: Yeah.

637
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 2: I actually called Sam before we started talking about this

638
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 2: on radio, and I said, Hey, can I talk about this?

639
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,359
Speaker 2: And she said yeah, But I don't think it's a

640
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 2: good idea that you suggest that relationships should compare what

641
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:02,639
Speaker 2: they're putting in. Yeah, because that's a really, really toxic

642
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 2: way to have a relationship. I did this, you did that.

643
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 2: I get this time, you get that time. Sam actually

644
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 2: joins us now, So Sam, welcome to the show for

645
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 2: the first time in six years. Well that it's great

646
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 2: to have you on. When you don't use your phone

647
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,879
Speaker 2: for six years, I'm going to have to get on

648
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:28,680
Speaker 2: a good spot. I'll get I'll get deception. But I

649
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 2: want to ask you guys in and amongst Sem coming

650
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:32,879
Speaker 2: on the show, because I think it's a really good question.

651
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 2: Or is it healthy to talk to your partner about

652
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 2: what you're putting into your relationship? Oh? Is that a

653
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 2: healthy conversation to have with them. Hey, look I do this,

654
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 2: you should do that? Or is that the end of

655
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 2: your relationship? Is comparing your effort or your contribution in

656
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 2: your relationship? Is that the end of the relationship or

657
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 2: is it the start?

658
00:28:56,400 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 12: More will and woody goodness after this, it's the women

659
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 12: what you podcast?

660
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Speaker 2: Anyway, Look, Sam joins us now, Sammy, welcome to the show. Hey,

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Speaker 2: we've got a connection. First time on the show in

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Speaker 2: six years. For had been hard to track you down.

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you what it doesn't.

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Speaker 1: The reception out of the house is perfect. Yeahs with me.

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Speaker 8: Great, good to know this is why we don't have

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Speaker 8: it on my reception. I love that a reception updated,

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Speaker 8: It's amazing. Let's let's talk English as a second language.

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Speaker 2: Everyone, don't worry. So we let's talk a little bit

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Speaker 2: about this fight on the weekend. Because when I when

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Speaker 2: I said to you before and to everybody else listening

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Speaker 2: right now, that I wanted to talk about this, you

672
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Speaker 2: said to me, I don't think it's a good idea

673
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Speaker 2: to compare what we're putting in to the relationship or

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Speaker 2: to the baby. Why do you think that?

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Speaker 1: I don't really know why that is actually I just

676
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Speaker 1: I feel like it's just unhealthy way to go about, like,

677
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Speaker 1: because I think relationship is not based on this is

678
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Speaker 1: what I give is what you give? And you know,

679
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Speaker 1: with that, it's almost seems like you always have to

680
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Speaker 1: be imbalanced, and a thing that in a relationship you

681
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Speaker 1: don't always have to be in balanced. You know, there's

682
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Speaker 1: moments where one gives a bit more than the other.

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Speaker 1: And you know you were talking about having big nights

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Speaker 1: on the weekend. Will I mean you have no trouble

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Speaker 1: sleep being the whole day the next.

686
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Speaker 2: Day shots fired? I like it.

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Speaker 3: No, that's actually whether it's nights out or just like

688
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Speaker 3: one of the two in the relationship going through a

689
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Speaker 3: bit of a tough time, Like you know, when your

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Speaker 3: partner is going through a tough trat And I think

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Speaker 3: it's healthy that then just naturally obviously to take up

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Speaker 3: a bit of the slack as opposed to then expect

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Speaker 3: something in return.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like it's not for tet in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: That's awful and yet and yet it's undeniable that the

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Speaker 2: conversation that you and I had on the weekend about

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Speaker 2: what we were putting in was incredibly helpful to how

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Speaker 2: we both felt about each other.

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Speaker 1: I sort of was listening, but I wasn't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, great, hang on to.

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Speaker 3: The conversation on the weekend or just.

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Speaker 1: Now, Max is trying to get caned it on the baby, don't.

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Speaker 11: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: You zone out when I talk, and I says all

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Speaker 2: the time. By the way, we go to a restaurant together,

706
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Speaker 2: she she cannot face the rest of the room because

707
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Speaker 2: she just loses me and I have to wave at her.

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Speaker 2: You're a live radio.

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Speaker 3: Not the time to say so, Mim and I and

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Speaker 3: I welcome on the show. Him and I had the conversation.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you guys can relate to this.

712
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Speaker 3: Either of you can relate to this, But I really

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Speaker 3: need to.

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Speaker 2: Sim sim because this is your way out of conversations

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Speaker 2: as well. This is the selective hearing you. It is

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Speaker 2: undeniable that the conversation that you and I had on

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Speaker 2: the weekend, back at the weekend, about the time that

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Speaker 2: we're back, We're I'm back, God, because there's a people

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Speaker 2: of mind. Jesuys, I'm not listening and I'm like, how

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Speaker 2: can he not listen? Oh my god? No right there?

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Speaker 2: That that was helpful to our relationship. Yes, yes, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Is that all you wanted? No, because you were saying

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Speaker 2: before that were listening to you. No, I was, but

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Speaker 2: I needed to get to that because I wasn't going

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Speaker 2: to able to get to my point. But the point is,

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Speaker 2: but the point, the point is, though yes, I agree

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Speaker 2: with you that on face on face value, not having

728
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Speaker 2: scales to analyze and measure yourself in terms of what

729
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Speaker 2: you're contributing is really important, because that is that's murder,

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Speaker 2: that's awful. We've all been in relationships like that before.

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Speaker 2: They suck. But it was really helpful for you and

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Speaker 2: I to just look at each other honestly and just

733
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Speaker 2: say I feel like I'm putting a lot in at

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Speaker 2: the moment and I'm not getting recognition for it. That

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Speaker 2: was really important for both of us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think for us it was more. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it was about putting in a lot into the really

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Speaker 1: dripping into the care for Max. But I was going

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Speaker 1: to get to a point here and I forgot it.

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Speaker 10: I stopped listening anyway, son, Sam, thanks for coming on.

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Speaker 2: You're welcome. I feel like Djokovic in the Australian Open

742
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 2: and you're like one of those early people. You're some

743
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Speaker 2: foreigner we hate you.

744
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Speaker 3: Know she's in the game.

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Speaker 2: I love you, love you, bye bye.

746
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Speaker 4: There you go.

747
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Speaker 2: That's how you do it. That's how you do it.

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Speaker 2: Everyone absolute masterploss all.

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Speaker 3: Right, I don't mind the sorry I wasn't listening radio.

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Speaker 2: Well it's Will and Woody Meghan Trainor who joins us

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Speaker 2: right now and Willing wood You welcome, Meghan, Hi.

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Speaker 3: Thank you's so much for hav me pleasure now, Megan.

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Speaker 3: And from the show already, we can see that you

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Speaker 3: appear to get along with the other judges. But we

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Speaker 3: spoke to Kyle Sandalans, who's a friend of Will and Iles,

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Speaker 3: and he told us that he had a bit of

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Speaker 3: a rift with one of the judges. We'll play what

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Speaker 3: he said. I don't think I didn't mind him. I

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Speaker 3: feel he got the vibe of me, so I him

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Speaker 3: and I it's a little prickly.

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Speaker 2: Did you have a blow up?

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Speaker 3: Well, yes, we had a bluff So, Megan, the question

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Speaker 3: to you is, if you had to be stuck on

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Speaker 3: a tropical island with one of those guys, Harry or Kyle,

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Speaker 3: which one would you choose?

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Speaker 11: Now?

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Speaker 12: Do this to me, I would choose Amy, I mean survivalise,

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Speaker 12: I bet you Harry could get the job done and

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Speaker 12: keep us alive longer if I want to laugh and

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Speaker 12: die starving.

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Speaker 2: Probably, Kyle, was it a tangible rift between the two

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Speaker 2: of them where you sort of said because we had

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Speaker 2: a good chat with Amy Shark about this recently as well,

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Speaker 2: and you know, it didn't it didn't seem to be

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Speaker 2: as big as as what it has been made out

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Speaker 2: to be.

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Speaker 1: Was it?

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Speaker 2: Was it something that was annoying you on?

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Speaker 12: No, there's really I thought there was like no beef.

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Speaker 12: I think Kyle was just trying to make BEI a

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Speaker 12: watch a show. You know, Kyle, He's very like, He's like,

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Speaker 12: I don't think he liked me, And I'm like, are

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Speaker 12: you a toddler? What is this attitude? What is the lessons?

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Speaker 12: But we're like, we're all body buddies.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Hi, Megan, I was listening to your podcast working

786
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Speaker 3: on it with your chat with Kim Petris, and uh,

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Speaker 3: you revealed in that chat that your parents never gave

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Speaker 3: you the sex talk, and then you actually went on

789
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Speaker 3: to say that you plan on giving the sex talk

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Speaker 3: to Riley when he turns six.

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Speaker 4: Is that true?

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Speaker 12: I mean, yes, that's very young. I do want a

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Speaker 12: sex talk to happen. Maybe not at sex, but like

794
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Speaker 12: I do want my husband I he already knows. I'm like,

795
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Speaker 12: you gotta talk to him about it. You've got to

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Speaker 12: teach him like this of how we treat women, or

797
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 12: this is how you treat your partner, and this is

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Speaker 12: how you respect people and respect your body and yourself.

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Speaker 12: And if you don't like something, like you can say

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Speaker 12: I don't want to do that, you know. So yeah,

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Speaker 12: I just didn't get that talk, and I really like,

802
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Speaker 12: go back and go man, I wish I had that talk.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: Well, and I'll actually both have young girls, both under

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Speaker 3: the age of one. Do you have any advice as

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Speaker 3: to how we could potentially go about the check with

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Speaker 3: our daughters.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, let your wife do it.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 12: I hope to have a daughter someday. I definitely want

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Speaker 12: to sit her down and be like, here's the school, honey.

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Speaker 2: You know. Yeah, well, actually it's funny you say that

813
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Speaker 2: because I know also in your podcast you mentioned that

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Speaker 2: you were trying to conceive a baby in Australia, I mean,

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Speaker 2: without asking, you know, without you know, was that like

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Speaker 2: because you saw Australia is a particularly romantic place, Like

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Speaker 2: you're gonna have more chance of conceiving in Australia. Was

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Speaker 2: it was that sort of moment for you or is

819
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Speaker 2: it just like the timing of it.

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Speaker 10: Well, we like.

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Speaker 12: Always know we want four babies, we want a lot

822
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Speaker 12: of kids, and we thought like how iconic would be

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Speaker 12: if we like made an Australian baby, you know, like

824
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Speaker 12: if we could tell this baby like we got knocked

825
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 12: up with you in Australia, you know, like, oh, we

826
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Speaker 12: thought that would just be so cool. So we were

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Speaker 12: we were definitely calculating my relation while I was there

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Speaker 12: working and.

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Speaker 2: I was like, it's time, you know, wow wow w

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Speaker 2: And then you could name it after one of the

831
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Speaker 2: beautiful Australian cities, you know, you could call your baby

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Speaker 2: Adelaide or Sydney or.

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Speaker 3: Or Wogga Wogga wool and gun right he Meghan, We

834
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Speaker 3: we once had a phone call on our radio show

835
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Speaker 3: and we're hoping that you can get involved with this.

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Speaker 3: We had a girl called Carlie call our show in

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Speaker 3: distress because someone had stolen her Meghan train or CD. Now,

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Speaker 3: would you be open to the idea of giving this

839
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Speaker 3: girl Carlie a call, who is a huge fan of yours?

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Speaker 12: A Coller, Well, I should also just send her like

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Speaker 12: a Signs album like is It Gone Forever?

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Speaker 2: Which CD?

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Speaker 12: Like, I'll help her.

844
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Speaker 2: If you want to throw it in there, that'd be great.

845
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 2: But yeah no, yeah, it's gone forever, I think.

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Speaker 12: Okay, we'll send her a new one.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll call you now, Thanking.

848
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Speaker 12: Hi, this is Ashley, the producer of the radio show.

849
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Speaker 12: We were talking to you about your Megan Trainer album

850
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Speaker 12: that got stolen. Yes, we just have a few questions

851
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 12: before we put you on the show, basically bullet points

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Speaker 12: of like how you were devastated when it got stolen

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Speaker 12: and could you ever forgive that person? And how did

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Speaker 12: it make you feel?

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Speaker 6: I want me to give them to you now, yes, man,

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Speaker 6: thank you.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 6: So I'll have caught upset because it was a special

859
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 6: album that was given to me at Megan Traina's concert

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Speaker 6: and Arlie into one day when she gave me a

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Speaker 6: lift turn from work that I got into the car

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Speaker 6: and as she turned the car on the she had

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Speaker 6: it playing in the car, but she quickly had turned

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Speaker 6: it off and I was like, oh, and she'd turned

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Speaker 6: the channel and I knew instantly that she'd had it,

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Speaker 6: So I was very surprised, very disappointed, but we are

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Speaker 6: still friends. Today's good for you.

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Speaker 12: Wow, this person sounds like they suck, but you know what,

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Speaker 12: you could tell that person that Megan. Meghan Trainer called

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Speaker 12: you herself and said, Hey, it's me Meghan Trainer and

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Speaker 12: we're surprising you clean.

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Speaker 6: How are you? Are you serious?

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Speaker 12: Serious?

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Speaker 8: Yes?

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Speaker 11: Oh my god, Meghan, Oh.

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Speaker 7: My god, oh my.

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Speaker 12: Really mean here my American accents. It's meand I can't

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Speaker 12: even braid now.

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Speaker 6: I took my daughter tonight your concert. It was her

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Speaker 6: first concert and it went so much to me. So

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Speaker 6: you know what, you inspire me as as a woman

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Speaker 6: and as a mother for my daughter as well. She's

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Speaker 6: twenty years old. But you're just amazing.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, we love you.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, I can't like this is actually happening. Daughter,

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Speaker 6: I said, hi, please, and you make me so happy

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Speaker 6: because I ever amazing.

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Speaker 3: Than have a lovely Monday, Love.

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Speaker 2: Megan, Thanks so much for joining us

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Speaker 3: Alight Bay guys,