WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Britt is in a custody battle over Delilah! 🐕

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<v Speaker 1>Laura, come on.

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<v Speaker 2>Here we are Hello, Hello, Hello, bye, Barbie.

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<v Speaker 3>I can who are you speaking to the two of you?

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<v Speaker 2>You're Barbie.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you're more Barbie than that web.

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<v Speaker 2>Radio Barbie work, Yeah, working, mum, Barbie, exhausted Barbie.

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<v Speaker 4>Bobby comes in all different shapes and flavors these days.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you know what you gave my little Lola? She's

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<v Speaker 4>two years old. You gave her a Barbie backpack and

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<v Speaker 4>she is obsessed with that?

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<v Speaker 2>Does she like it?

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<v Speaker 4>Obsessed? I haven't yet explained to her that it was

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<v Speaker 4>actually just some paraphernalia from a gay party that you had.

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<v Speaker 4>Everyone was dressed very inappropriately.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think that's information she needs to ever.

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<v Speaker 4>I did disinfect it, though, bef when you gave it

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<v Speaker 4>to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I think they did with it that part you were

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<v Speaker 2>at the part now, I had a Barbie party with

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<v Speaker 2>all my gay friends about six months ago. I had

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<v Speaker 2>all this leftover Barbie stuff, so I gave it to

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<v Speaker 2>your girls, Laura, and that is I think there might

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<v Speaker 2>still be like half a bottle of tequila in that

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<v Speaker 2>thing in the side pocket.

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<v Speaker 4>You've got to turn it seventeen condoms.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why she loves us so much.

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<v Speaker 2>This is great. Yeah, everyone's talking Barbie at the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's everywhere people are talking Barbie, and they're talking

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<v Speaker 2>celeb breakups this week. I don't want to say I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a trendsetter, but one celeb broke up and announced it

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<v Speaker 2>on the Pickup only a few weeks.

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<v Speaker 4>Ago aka Mitch Cheery. Oh thank you, that's so so

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<v Speaker 4>kind and swere you celebrity loosely.

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<v Speaker 2>But today and this week there's been a string of

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<v Speaker 2>celebt breakups. I think there's a bit of a conspiracy

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<v Speaker 2>theory in the air. So some of your favored couples too,

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<v Speaker 2>So I'll see you all about it next. Also, Taylor

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<v Speaker 2>Swift tickets. You've got them in your hand, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Laura, waving them around a whole row.

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<v Speaker 2>I know you're chance at a full row of Taylor's

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<v Speaker 2>tickets to Eras the World tour coming up on the Pickup.

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<v Speaker 2>Happy Wednesday. We're back on the pick Up Wednesday afternoon

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<v Speaker 2>with Britt, Laura and Mitch rushing to Chemist House to

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<v Speaker 2>get half price off the Go Healthy Vitamin range and

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<v Speaker 2>excludes both sizes Chemist Warehouse, Great savings every day. Listen,

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<v Speaker 2>there's something in the air at the moment. People, it's

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<v Speaker 2>not love. It's not love. It's the opposite of love.

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<v Speaker 2>Couples dying left, right, and center. It is the era

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<v Speaker 2>of the breakup. Ladies and gentlemen.

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<v Speaker 4>Dying is a little bit traumatic, and the relationship's dying.

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<v Speaker 4>Relationship is dead, buried rest.

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<v Speaker 2>And I want to say I started this trend.

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<v Speaker 4>Go away from me if it's catching.

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<v Speaker 2>No. Who announced their breakup publicly? Me months ago? He did.

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<v Speaker 2>It was emotional. I felt for him.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about the third person thing. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you could start to refer to yourself as I you.

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<v Speaker 2>I was sad, but his spurred on a string of

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<v Speaker 2>so of their breakups. Only in the last seven days.

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<v Speaker 2>Sophiagara from Modern Family, she broke up with her husband

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<v Speaker 2>of seven years, Joe men Janello yesterday. Wow, they're done.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's sad for you, Laura.

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<v Speaker 4>I love her. I don't really know much about him,

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<v Speaker 4>but I just want her to be happy.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, they were married. He's in true blood, he's in

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<v Speaker 2>magic mind.

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<v Speaker 3>She's pretty happy. She's the highestped actress in the world.

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<v Speaker 4>She's doing all right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the divorce. They officially announced their divorce. It is done.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, it's very sad. That happened quickly. What about Ricky

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<v Speaker 4>Martin and his husband?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh so, yeah, you heard about that. Ricky Martin and

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<v Speaker 2>Juan Joseph they released a joint statement. Couples love a

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<v Speaker 2>joint statement, don't they. They released a joint statement saying

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<v Speaker 2>we are done after six years of marriage. They're done.

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<v Speaker 4>Usually it's the conscious uncoupling, though, isn't it?

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<v Speaker 3>That was though? That was they've got kids.

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<v Speaker 2>I want drama though. Ariana Grande and Dalton Gomez they

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<v Speaker 2>split up baby after allegations of cheating.

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<v Speaker 3>Who who cheated on?

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<v Speaker 4>Whom?

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<v Speaker 2>Dalton cheated on? Grande shut the front at a party

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<v Speaker 2>apparently she's filming Wicked in the UK. He flew over

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<v Speaker 2>to apologize and she said, you get.

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<v Speaker 1>A cheat on, Ariana Grande.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it just goes. It's got nothing to do

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<v Speaker 4>with looks, does it. Cheating's got nothing to do with looks?

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<v Speaker 2>What about this is eleven couple? This will shake you.

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<v Speaker 2>Taylor Swift and Matt Healy. We know that they broke

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<v Speaker 2>up in the last month.

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<v Speaker 4>Weren't they only dating for like three weeks?

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<v Speaker 2>Still a breakup?

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<v Speaker 3>They're still a breakup.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we won't minimize that, But that was because all

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<v Speaker 1>the swifties hated him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they didn't like him.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they didn't like heally for him.

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<v Speaker 2>One of the biggest celeb couple yet Barricade, the woman

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<v Speaker 2>married to EDWARDA the ghost. Oh, you guys, aren't Barricade.

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<v Speaker 4>What happened to Barricade?

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<v Speaker 2>You know about Barricade, the woman who married a ghost?

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<v Speaker 4>That celebrity wedding about the woman who married a ghost?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Correct, don't you know about this?

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<v Speaker 4>Did they break up?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Barrecade sent shockwaves around the world when she married

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<v Speaker 2>EDUARDA the forty year old, devilish, handsome soldier that she married.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a ghost. He's not real.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh where's he from?

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone's talking about. Well, apparently a forty year old soldier

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<v Speaker 2>burst into her room on a stormy night and they

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<v Speaker 2>got married after only five months of knowing each other,

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<v Speaker 2>and they had their wedding on Halloween of last year.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the only one could talk.

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<v Speaker 4>Did they break up because he ghosted her? It was

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<v Speaker 4>too easy, wasn't it?

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<v Speaker 2>That was very funny?

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<v Speaker 4>Is so funny?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>But they got divorces. No, because she'd be going through

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<v Speaker 3>a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what she said? She said he got so

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<v Speaker 2>drunk on their honeymoon he started getting very possessive.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you reckon? She could just see straight through his ship.

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<v Speaker 2>He developed an unsettling fascination with Marilyn Monroe. Then Barricade

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<v Speaker 2>said that EDWARDA would disappear for days and then he'd

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<v Speaker 2>come back smelling of Chanelle number five, which is Marilyn

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<v Speaker 2>Monroe's signature. Sat he'd been having a ghostly affair, a

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<v Speaker 2>gooly affair.

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<v Speaker 4>I've got the sheep here. While she tried to put

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<v Speaker 4>boundaries on her new husband, they only sent him into anger,

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<v Speaker 4>So I don't have a Satay decided to return to

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<v Speaker 4>the chapel where they exchanged their vowels, only to perform

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<v Speaker 4>an exorcism.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct, this is why. So they didn't get a divorced,

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<v Speaker 2>they got exercised. So, which is what I'm doing at

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<v Speaker 2>the moment too, So it must be.

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<v Speaker 4>She's also in her hotel.

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<v Speaker 2>Error now, if you want Taylor Swift tickets, she's single

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<v Speaker 2>now and she's coming to Australia. Era's tour is heading

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<v Speaker 2>down Under. If you want a full row of tickets,

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<v Speaker 2>it is yours to back into this on the pick up.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Wednesday, Britt, Laura and mitchead into the Chemist's warehouse

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<v Speaker 2>today get great savings every day.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, this is a little bit more of a serious one,

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like over the last few years, especially since COVID,

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<v Speaker 4>there's been more and more conversations around loneliness and people

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<v Speaker 4>feeling lonely. You know, COVID definitely didn't help with that,

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<v Speaker 4>but it's not something that's just miraculously gone away. Now.

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<v Speaker 4>There was an article that came out from ABC News recently.

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<v Speaker 4>Doctor Michelle Lim, she studies loneliness, and she was talking

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<v Speaker 4>about how it used to be described as this thing

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<v Speaker 4>that we would experience, but they've done research now that

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<v Speaker 4>shows just how much loneliness can actually affect your physical health.

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<v Speaker 4>Studies have shown that loneliness can increase the risk of

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<v Speaker 4>death by twenty six percent. It was so wild, twenty

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<v Speaker 4>six percent. And they've likened it these feelings of loneliness,

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<v Speaker 4>the impact it can have on your body, to being

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<v Speaker 4>as deadly as smoking a half pack of cigarettes every day.

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<v Speaker 2>That is crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, it's crazy to me that you can kind

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<v Speaker 4>of put like a physical effect of something like loneliness,

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<v Speaker 4>but we all know what and how huge that feeling

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<v Speaker 4>is when you're in the middle of it and your

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<v Speaker 4>experience all consuming.

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<v Speaker 2>It takes up every part of your being that in

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<v Speaker 2>your stomach you feel with loneliness, and loneliness is a

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<v Speaker 2>weird emotion because it's something that i've you know, I've

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<v Speaker 2>felt recently in the last couple of months. You go,

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<v Speaker 2>you get hit with the loneliness, right, you go, I'm lonely.

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<v Speaker 2>But then when you start to unpack why you're lonely,

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<v Speaker 2>that makes it worse because you go, why, I'm lonely

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm working too much, or I'm lonely because I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I don't know enough friends, I'm lonely because

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<v Speaker 2>I feel overweight, And then every part of that becomes

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<v Speaker 2>even more depressing, and it's a death spiral.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think the reason they link it to the

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<v Speaker 1>like it's the same as half a pack of cigarettes

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<v Speaker 1>to day is because physiologically, it completely impacts your body.

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<v Speaker 1>It increases heart disease, high blood pressure, dementia, increases mental

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<v Speaker 1>health issues like depression and anxiety, which I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>we've known about the depression and anxiety for a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the actual physical impacts that really shook me. The

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<v Speaker 1>fact that literally heart disease.

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<v Speaker 4>Can develop from loneliness.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a really scary thing.

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<v Speaker 4>But I also tr I mean, we live in such

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<v Speaker 4>a digital age. We live in an age that's meant

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<v Speaker 4>to be completely connected. We have access to people whenever

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<v Speaker 4>we want, whoever we want, whenever we want it right,

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<v Speaker 4>it's so instantaneous. But I think it's also led to

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<v Speaker 4>an even bigger caveat because instead of us having community,

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<v Speaker 4>going out and seeing people face to face, we live

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<v Speaker 4>so much of our lives behind screens. And I think

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<v Speaker 4>that's why Traditionally, when we would think of loneliness, we

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<v Speaker 4>would think of how much it affects the elderly people

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<v Speaker 4>who are you know, they're being shipped off into homes

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<v Speaker 4>and now they don't have any friends or family around.

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<v Speaker 4>But the biggest and high rate of loneliness is actually

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<v Speaker 4>around and amongst young people. So people between age fifteen

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<v Speaker 4>and twenty four are reporting the highest rates of loneliness.

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<v Speaker 4>And it makes you just think we're now going to

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<v Speaker 4>have this whole generation of young people who are growing

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<v Speaker 4>up in the world and feeling lonely and having these

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<v Speaker 4>physiological effects.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't surprise me the age thing at all, because

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<v Speaker 1>I think it links quite highly to social media use

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<v Speaker 1>and the people using social media, and the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>social media keeps you connected. It's a bit of a

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<v Speaker 1>double edged sword, keeps you need when you're at home

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<v Speaker 1>and you're feeling lonely, But then you hang up from

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<v Speaker 1>social media, you put your phone away, and you realize

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<v Speaker 1>it's not real.

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<v Speaker 3>They're not really there.

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<v Speaker 1>Half those people don't know who you are or care

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<v Speaker 1>about you, So it's a bit of a false sense

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<v Speaker 1>of stegurey y.

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<v Speaker 2>But those things aren't even connection. It's comparing. You compare yourself,

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<v Speaker 2>and you think it's a false sense of connection. Half

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<v Speaker 2>the people I follow I've never met, I'm never going

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<v Speaker 2>to meet.

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<v Speaker 4>It's also a false sense of validation as well. The

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<v Speaker 4>people that you're getting likes and comments and stuff from,

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<v Speaker 4>for the most part, are people that you don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>They're not people whose opinions and feelings truly should matter

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<v Speaker 4>to you. But we have a warped sense of where

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<v Speaker 4>that priority sits now because we've been conditioned to think

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<v Speaker 4>that likes, comments, and follows have any impact on our

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<v Speaker 4>value as a person.

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<v Speaker 2>So what do we do. What's the answer to this?

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<v Speaker 2>Does it go out talk to more people have a conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>I really think it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's about recognizing that you've gotten and then

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<v Speaker 1>maybe seeking some kind of help for it a especially

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<v Speaker 1>if it's the mental side. If you are getting depression

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<v Speaker 1>and anxiety, speak to somebody.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think there's a lot that we can do.

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes you have to force yourself outside of your.

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<v Speaker 1>Comfort zone and you might be sitting at home being like,

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<v Speaker 1>there is nothing I could think of worse than going

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<v Speaker 1>out right now and socializing.

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<v Speaker 3>But once you're there, you have a good time and

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<v Speaker 3>you love it.

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<v Speaker 1>So sometimes it's about making yourself do something you might

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<v Speaker 1>not feel like doing, and putting yourself in an environment

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<v Speaker 1>with other people, lean on your friends, meet your friend's friends,

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<v Speaker 1>start a new hobby or a sport.

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<v Speaker 4>And I also think it's being really aware of what

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<v Speaker 4>your friends are going through and people in your life,

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<v Speaker 4>because sometimes when you're already in that spiral of feeling

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<v Speaker 4>lonely and all those other awful thoughts come in, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>it's very hard to pull yourself out of it. So

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<v Speaker 4>if you have friends or family members and you think

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<v Speaker 4>maybe they're going through a little bit of a hard

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<v Speaker 4>time at the moment, it's about reaching out. It's about

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<v Speaker 4>being that one to really put in the effort and

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<v Speaker 4>be there and show up in people's lives who we love.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, agreed. And of course, if you or anyone you

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<v Speaker 2>know is struggling with loneliness or depression, thirteen eleven fourteen,

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<v Speaker 2>that's Lifeline's number. You can call them anytime, any day.

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<v Speaker 2>All right. Next, brit what's going on with you and

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<v Speaker 2>your dog? I feel like there's a divorce happening in

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<v Speaker 2>your life.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm yes, it's pretty touch and go at the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>We are in a bit of a shared custody battle.

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<v Speaker 4>Oo wow with her your ex.

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<v Speaker 5>It's worse than that. It's more complicated than that. There's

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<v Speaker 5>multiple people involved.

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<v Speaker 2>It might lose her dog, Delilah. That's insane.

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<v Speaker 3>That is a great book, Witch, Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very quite proud of it. The verdict. Next, I

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<v Speaker 2>have a pickup. Welcome back to the pickup with Brett,

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<v Speaker 2>Laura and Mitch. Thanks to Chemist's Warehouse. Rush into Chemists

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<v Speaker 2>ware House to get half price off the Go Healthy

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<v Speaker 2>you love them.

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<v Speaker 4>Because I take care of myself from the inside.

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<v Speaker 2>House so defensive.

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<v Speaker 4>I know she's so shocked.

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<v Speaker 3>My dog is the apple of my eye.

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<v Speaker 1>I love her very dearly, and you guys give me

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<v Speaker 1>a hard time about how much she means to me.

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<v Speaker 1>But there's a problem that I want to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>because it's really bothering me. I'm currently like a child.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm currently going through like a really big shared custody issue.

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<v Speaker 4>And this is because you used to own Delilah with

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<v Speaker 4>your ex. Is this the thing I would.

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<v Speaker 5>Think that that is what the shed custody is about.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's not what it's about. Okay, let me just

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<v Speaker 1>set the scene for a hot little second. Delilah has

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<v Speaker 1>had an amazing dog walker, and the dog walker had

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<v Speaker 1>to go away for six months, which is quite a

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<v Speaker 1>long time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, God forbid you walk your own dog.

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<v Speaker 1>For six months at work, Mitch, because I would never

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<v Speaker 1>leave her home alone.

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<v Speaker 3>So she has a dog.

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<v Speaker 2>She's a menace, a working dogs made. Have you ever

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<v Speaker 2>seen her work?

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<v Speaker 4>She's a working dog. She's a working dog who lives.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what it's called a Christmas casual at working.

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<v Speaker 3>This is why I can't come chy guys with my problem.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm sorry if we Laura and I are upset

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<v Speaker 2>for you. What's happened?

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<v Speaker 3>How a dog walker? The dog walk went away for

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<v Speaker 3>six months.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to find a new dog walker for that time.

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<v Speaker 3>Found the new dog walker. It's only two days a week.

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<v Speaker 3>The new dog walkers amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Delilah slot write in she knows all the other dogs

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<v Speaker 1>on the dog walkers like play.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like playgroup for your kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Where's the problem? This sounds great now?

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<v Speaker 1>The dog walker came back six months later. She goes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm back and I was like, oh. She's like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>ready to take her back. And I was like, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to disrupt her schooling and her days

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that. So I was like, maybe I'll

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<v Speaker 1>just keep her with who she is. She knows that

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<v Speaker 1>I know it.

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<v Speaker 4>It's easy.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no.

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<v Speaker 1>Then she up said she's like, I really want her back,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, okay, you can have her. But

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<v Speaker 1>then now the dog was like, but but I love

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<v Speaker 1>her too.

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<v Speaker 2>You dog walker goes, but I also love her, yes.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just want what's best for Delilah At the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the day right now that both dog walkers

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<v Speaker 1>want her, and so it became this three way group

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<v Speaker 1>chat about what we're going to do, who we're going.

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<v Speaker 3>To have her, why we're going to have a surely.

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<v Speaker 4>You just pick you're the dog's owner.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well I've said it and shared custody because I

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<v Speaker 1>feel so bad and Delilah is so amazing.

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<v Speaker 4>Everyone just wants her in their life. Delilah has three months.

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<v Speaker 2>Now's awakened dog. She doesn't have time for this stress

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<v Speaker 2>in her life and.

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<v Speaker 1>Now she's got so I said, let's we had to

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<v Speaker 1>go to the court of WhatsApp group chat with all

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<v Speaker 1>of us and we decided on a settlement that who's

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<v Speaker 1>going to take her when? So we're trialing that it's

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<v Speaker 1>the settlement. The new said, I'm gonna started this week.

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<v Speaker 4>How did you mediate this? Well, we just we just gave.

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<v Speaker 1>Each other days, right, and they've got pickups, they've got

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<v Speaker 1>the time ins, and everyone's amazing, like we're all friends.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just this really like underlying like who wants

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<v Speaker 1>to take Delilah? But now I'm getting it's like they're

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<v Speaker 1>up in the ante with the photos of like how

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<v Speaker 1>much fun Delilah has it each day. So I'm getting

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<v Speaker 1>like all these like feedback about how much fun she's having.

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<v Speaker 3>To date.

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<v Speaker 1>The pictures I'm getting not just normal pictures. These are

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<v Speaker 1>taken on portrait mode.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, so the two dog walkers are now competing to

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<v Speaker 4>prove that they are the best of the two dog walkers.

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<v Speaker 3>I think So I got a photo today.

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<v Speaker 5>She was in a Mexican sombrero hat.

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<v Speaker 3>She had a party. Yeah, she was in a burrito.

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<v Speaker 2>Job. Actually she's working the But.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a problem, and now I have to sort

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<v Speaker 1>out who has you.

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<v Speaker 2>Need to pick someone? Yes, why can't you shed? I

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<v Speaker 2>think what you need to do is classic, get them

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<v Speaker 2>both in the room. Okay, one at the front door,

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<v Speaker 2>one at the side door. Hold Delilah, who does she

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<v Speaker 2>go to? Who does she go to? Who does she

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<v Speaker 2>run to? And then me, Now you're the one holding

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<v Speaker 2>and then you push your.

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<v Speaker 4>Off and she will run away from you. She's clock

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<v Speaker 4>on to a shift dog walk with sombrero.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all right? Can you update us? I want you

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<v Speaker 2>to do that and then let us know who she picks.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm interested to see what happens week by week.

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<v Speaker 4>It's going to get better.

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<v Speaker 5>I love the everyone can have a piece of delight.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't worried that one of them is going to

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<v Speaker 4>kidnap her at some point in time. It's still sounding

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit like it.

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<v Speaker 5>It is a high possibility, yes, but I have to

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<v Speaker 5>take that day as it comes.

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<v Speaker 2>All Right, let's go. If you missed any of the

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<v Speaker 2>And don't forget it's very everyone's a bit sick at

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<v Speaker 2>the moment. Don't you think I'm a bit nasily?

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<v Speaker 4>The flu is going around.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going around. When cold and flu does strike you,

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<v Speaker 2>dems and gets it done, always follow the directions for use.

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<v Speaker 4>And coming up next, we've got Will and Woody boys.

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<v Speaker 4>What's on the show today?

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<v Speaker 2>One day until we find out if Woody is the

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<v Speaker 2>fastest parent in Australia to run with a PRAM. Talk

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<v Speaker 2>about it more in a couple of minutes. Nice tomorrow, Yeah,