WEBVTT - Do You Have Celeb Energy? ⭐

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the Flex and Frooms catch up podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Flex and It's Rooms. And I'm here looking at

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<v Speaker 1>my cleaner Strida world water. When will this not be

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<v Speaker 1>a part of my personality?

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<v Speaker 3>And We've got another fresh one at home, so I'm

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<v Speaker 3>worried it's gonna keep continuing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna wait till the half the diamond tees have

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<v Speaker 1>fallen off.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you watched it since the last time you kind

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<v Speaker 3>of watched it?

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<v Speaker 1>Flex, I don't ask me dumb questions.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not asking. I'm just the voice of speaking.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when I brought it out my Life Shows

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of weeks ago, it was the main crowd grown.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, let's get to podcast. Bye, Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 3>How many times can we beat this conversation to death?

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<v Speaker 3>We're talking friends and splitting bills. Initially you think you

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<v Speaker 3>have this conversation because you're brokeie, but it's not just that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>some of us are just money minded. Listen to this.

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<v Speaker 3>I not me. We mind this from the internet. Recently

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<v Speaker 3>went out to dinner with a friend at a high

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<v Speaker 3>end restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>No boot.

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<v Speaker 3>Perhaps Hubert is the barbe key aria uh esther and

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<v Speaker 3>also quay that's key. When the bill came, I was

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<v Speaker 3>shocked to see that my friend had ordered several expensive

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<v Speaker 3>dishes and drinks, which ended up costing much more than

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<v Speaker 3>i'd anticipated. I'd assume that we'd be splitting the bill evenly,

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<v Speaker 3>but now I'm not so sure. I don't mind treating

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<v Speaker 3>my friend to a nice meal every once in a while,

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<v Speaker 3>but I feel that they took advantage of my generosity

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<v Speaker 3>by ordering so much. I'm on a type budget and

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<v Speaker 3>can't afford to spend that much money on one meal,

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<v Speaker 3>so I suggested that I just paid my own food

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<v Speaker 3>and he pays his. After that, he got upset and

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<v Speaker 3>accused me of being a liar and throw a hissy fit.

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<v Speaker 3>Once the situation got to the point where other tables

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<v Speaker 3>were looking for us, I left the amount of money

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<v Speaker 3>to cover my food and left the restaurant. Am I

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<v Speaker 3>the asshole for wanting not to split the bill evenly?

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<v Speaker 3>Or should I just suck it up and pay for

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<v Speaker 3>my friend's expensive taste in food? What is the tea?

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<v Speaker 3>Let me know, frooms, what do you think?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Sickening?

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, Why woudn't she bear that my friend Louis,

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<v Speaker 1>he's gluten free.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do I want to get the baguette?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? So I'm eating a whole duck pete, at least

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<v Speaker 1>two hundred grams of duck pete put it back, and

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<v Speaker 1>a whole baguette.

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<v Speaker 3>So you want him to pay half?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Like, what do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get an expensive dish and he's gluten

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<v Speaker 1>free and thinks the idea of a duck padae is

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<v Speaker 1>the grossest thing on earth?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you do for him?

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<v Speaker 1>He took the whole bill, and I'm waiting for him

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<v Speaker 1>to send me the text that says, hey, this is

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<v Speaker 1>how much am I going to prompt him?

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<v Speaker 2>Probably not not in this economy, love, But.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I think, unless you're going to do the one

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<v Speaker 1>you do dinner once, you do dinner once, Like you just.

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<v Speaker 2>Have to split it. Do you know what I'm saying? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Well so you go with a mutual understanding of

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<v Speaker 1>how much you're gonna pay. I'm not going to go

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<v Speaker 1>to Hubert and get a burgette for twenty dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not, Nah, but you did?

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<v Speaker 2>I did what I did?

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<v Speaker 1>Huh?

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<v Speaker 2>What about neuflix?

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<v Speaker 3>I just feel like people are really naive when it

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<v Speaker 3>comes to dining out. I'm so sorry. Okay, it's not

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<v Speaker 3>meant to be a fiscally responsible event. You go there

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<v Speaker 3>to spend a bag and have a good time, and

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<v Speaker 3>you know, they say, how you end any kind of

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<v Speaker 3>event or social interaction is how you feel about the

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<v Speaker 3>whole interaction. If we're having an amazing dinner and then

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<v Speaker 3>we start doing riff raff over the bill, now I'm

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<v Speaker 3>pisseduff just let it slide through. I never go to

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<v Speaker 3>a dinner expecting it to be to pay a fair

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<v Speaker 3>amount for what I had. Ever, it never feels worth it,

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<v Speaker 3>even when it's a good, good deal, even when no

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<v Speaker 3>one's splitting. So I just feel like, who's the asshole here?

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<v Speaker 3>Both of you? You're the asshole not knowing, not knowing

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<v Speaker 3>the steaks. If you're going out to eat at a

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<v Speaker 3>place where there's expensive stuff on the menu and you're

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<v Speaker 3>in a close enough relationship that just assume that you're splitting,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what you're in for. Pick better friends, or

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<v Speaker 3>don't dine with people who aren't good to you exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know anyone like that. My people know.

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<v Speaker 2>Sparkling with still still.

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<v Speaker 1>Flex See I was on TikTok as Per and I

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<v Speaker 1>came across this TikTok which is about celebrity energy. I

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<v Speaker 1>have heard about certain people having magnetism a certain genet sequa,

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<v Speaker 1>but I haven't seen it spoken about on TikTok until now.

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<v Speaker 2>Please play the tape, mikayla.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So I have this theory about celebrities that if

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<v Speaker 4>you want to be a celebrity, you have to become

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<v Speaker 4>a celebrity before anyone else knows your femist does that

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<v Speaker 4>means like theme is actually just.

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<v Speaker 1>A byproduct or like the result of showing.

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<v Speaker 4>Up like a celebrity, which is what I call celebrity energy.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to think, obviously, you can be famous

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<v Speaker 1>and not have celebrity energy, or you can have celebrity

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<v Speaker 1>energy and not be famous.

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<v Speaker 2>Eg.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone knows that in their area. When you're in high school,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a couple famous faces. Okay, there's a few notable

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<v Speaker 1>names that transcend not just the school yard, but also

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<v Speaker 1>are the schools.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you heard of this before? I still remember their names.

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<v Speaker 1>I won't name them, but like our new chicks from

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<v Speaker 1>like thirteen kilometers this way, I know they're saying and

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<v Speaker 1>their boyfriend history.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do I know that?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think you have celebrity energy?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow? How do you think you called fatter?

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<v Speaker 3>That's true? Do you know what it was? I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know if it's celebrity energy per se, but there are

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<v Speaker 3>certain characteristics and qualities and visual aesthetics that people you

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<v Speaker 3>talk about have. I was that girl going to Tafe

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<v Speaker 3>and private college in heels and a blazer. As if

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't have celebrity energy. If I look back on

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<v Speaker 3>my photos from being a teenager, I always had it

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<v Speaker 3>because when you dusties were wearing what do you call it?

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<v Speaker 3>In my head, I'm saying jay Z, but that's not

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<v Speaker 3>the one JJS. Correct. I was wearing American power disco

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<v Speaker 3>pants saved.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, jump of it.

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<v Speaker 3>We're both here.

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<v Speaker 1>I was doing a wholts of the halt nech okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's how we can determine if you have celebrity energy.

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<v Speaker 3>Do people remember your name? Because a lot of you

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<v Speaker 3>are ruled out, crawled out. Number one. If they don't

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<v Speaker 3>remember your name, does your reputation precede you? Do they

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<v Speaker 3>know something about you before you've told them. That can

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<v Speaker 3>be with anyone the locally coffee shop. I know a

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<v Speaker 3>bunch of people. Like at one of my old gyms,

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<v Speaker 3>there was this guy six foot five Adonis type, look

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<v Speaker 3>like Poseidon's first son. Didn't speak beast, just strut around

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<v Speaker 3>the gym in these short, tiny and they were like

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<v Speaker 3>the cart. They came up at the site we were

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<v Speaker 3>gagging for it. Didn't talk to anyone, didn't engage with anyone.

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<v Speaker 3>But she's to strut and work out celebrity energy.

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<v Speaker 2>Try it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's I think you have it. If you have to

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<v Speaker 3>ask or inquire, you don't have it. You have to ask,

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<v Speaker 3>you can.

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to Flex and Rooms on Kita. Listen, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a cost of living crisis. You've heard it again and

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<v Speaker 1>again and you're probably bored. And I will say I

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<v Speaker 1>live with another woman. We share a house, a sharehouse

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<v Speaker 1>in Sydney Deacn subway.

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<v Speaker 3>You can say you have a house mate we had.

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<v Speaker 2>And live with another one living anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>She has just got a job in London, very very

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<v Speaker 1>very exciting news for her. And this is a quick

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<v Speaker 1>turn around. She's going to be moving out in three weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>So I had a choice, do I move out and

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<v Speaker 1>get a house, get a room in another house, or

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<v Speaker 1>do I stay put and either fill her room or

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<v Speaker 1>make her room a study.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow. This is some big dog.

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<v Speaker 1>Behavior, literally, And what if I chosen flex, We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>make it a study fan. Yeah, we're taking over a

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<v Speaker 1>whole lease on a house a gay guy. Huge. We

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<v Speaker 1>are going to be spending hundreds and hundreds and hundreds

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<v Speaker 1>of dollars a week. Yeah, but I thought, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking at one bedroom properties in the eastern suburbs.

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<v Speaker 2>What are we looking at seven hundred dollars a week? Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>So my place is actually a bargain. But I want

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you, Flexi, you are someone who's lived alone

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<v Speaker 1>for how many years?

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<v Speaker 3>Ten? No?

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<v Speaker 2>You haven't. Yeah, can you tell me?

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<v Speaker 1>I have a few questions. Number one, will I get lonely?

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<v Speaker 3>You are a very social person, and I'm not social

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<v Speaker 3>in the way that you are, so probably.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, great.

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<v Speaker 3>But also you, I'm sure you don't get the bulk

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<v Speaker 3>of your social media filled just by your house mate.

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<v Speaker 3>You proactively leave your house.

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<v Speaker 2>Quite a bit, Yes, I do, always on.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you'll appreciate having a home that's a sanctuary

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<v Speaker 3>that's made as you intend it. The mess that is

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<v Speaker 3>there is because you put it there, and you'll pick

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<v Speaker 3>it up when you're done. You style it in the

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<v Speaker 3>way that you want to. You'll build new habits. I

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<v Speaker 3>think it's a really great thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think you're more productive living alone?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>Why?

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<v Speaker 3>I always say if I live in my best friend,

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<v Speaker 3>I'd be a b for real. Get up, giggle, eat together,

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<v Speaker 3>sit down, giggle, eat together, go out to a movie, giggle,

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<v Speaker 3>eat together. I would not do anything the small time

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<v Speaker 3>I lived with a close friend, it was just it

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<v Speaker 3>was good because we're both DJs, so on the same

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<v Speaker 3>kind of nocturnal schedule. But I was not good at

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<v Speaker 3>getting stuff done in the way that she was, and

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<v Speaker 3>because we were both DJ bums, it just was not

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<v Speaker 3>good for any kind of routine. It just it's like osmosis.

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<v Speaker 3>You develop these habits that you can't break away from

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<v Speaker 3>without physically being separate, which is hard to do when

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<v Speaker 3>you live in a small apartment. Do it, You'll love it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so hard.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited. I'm going to really deck it out.

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<v Speaker 1>As you know, I bought that really expensive chair about

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<v Speaker 1>twelve months ago. I splash out on my most expensive purchase.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been sitting in my parents' house in bubble wrap

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<v Speaker 1>so the cat does not.

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<v Speaker 2>Piss on it.

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<v Speaker 1>That will be ferried up to Sydney and we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>make it design file style rental property. My goal is

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<v Speaker 1>to be featured on some sort of website where that's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 2>It's yet to be.

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<v Speaker 1>But what this space, guys, Clean girl era is activated.

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<v Speaker 2>Story.

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<v Speaker 3>A video on TikTok it hit a spot I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>want it to hit, and I thought, let me share

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<v Speaker 3>this trauma around there some for all the girls listened

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<v Speaker 3>to this. I've come to the realization that I can

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<v Speaker 3>make myself clear, but I cannot make myself understood. I

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<v Speaker 3>can make sure that I'm communicating accurately and clearly, but

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<v Speaker 3>I cannot control the lens with which someone will receive

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<v Speaker 3>the information I've given them. And honestly, that realization has

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<v Speaker 3>been very free. You don't agree?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that all?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Did that not hear?

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<v Speaker 1>This is?

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<v Speaker 3>This is how I know I told you I'm an

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<v Speaker 3>Instagram quotes Girley transition into like a TikTok motivational girlie

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<v Speaker 3>because that clicks for me my whole life. Right when

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<v Speaker 3>I was sixteen, I remember I was telling my friends

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<v Speaker 3>about a book I was reading maybe it was Twilight

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<v Speaker 3>or some other like smutty type fantasy book, but I

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<v Speaker 3>could like physically see them zone out because I couldn't

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<v Speaker 3>articulate myself. I couldn't get to the point. I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>know what I was saying, I didn't know how to

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<v Speaker 3>to say it. And from that bloody moment, I became

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<v Speaker 3>a stickler for words. I was like, people need to understand,

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<v Speaker 3>and they need to pay attention. The frustrating thing is

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<v Speaker 3>the more you emphasize the need for articulation, the less

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<v Speaker 3>you realize the communication. Baby two way Street, I can't

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<v Speaker 3>make you understand if you fundamentally don't understand, and that

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<v Speaker 3>to me makes speaking futile. I don't want to do

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<v Speaker 3>it because if I can't guarantee that you're gonna understand

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<v Speaker 3>me as intended, then what am I even doing. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>getting frustrated just thinking about it. Then I think of

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<v Speaker 3>all the people I'm going to interact with in my lifetime,

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<v Speaker 3>who I really want to connect with, who I just

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<v Speaker 3>can't because I don't know why they don't get me.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, there's a whole lens that you're looking at through

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<v Speaker 1>things that are not words. Body language, tone, okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>don't they.

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<v Speaker 3>Say, like, words are only twenty percent of communication.

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<v Speaker 1>Seven percent At this point for the research, it's dropped, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Chat, GPT, it's out the window.

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<v Speaker 3>Fan.

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<v Speaker 1>All we have is language, ye mind language, I should say,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't get back into morse code at this point.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the only thing that's going to help us.

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<v Speaker 2>Peepeepeep? What am I saying? Pepepeep beep beep? Flex is

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<v Speaker 2>a clown. You've been listening to The Flex and Froom's

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<v Speaker 2>daily podcast.

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