1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:01,600 Speaker 1: My name is Tatasha Bamblet. 2 00:00:01,720 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 2: I'm a proud First Nations woman and I'm here to 3 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:09,399 Speaker 2: acknowledge country. Te Glenn Young Ganya Niana, Kaka Yahi and 4 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 2: beIN ah Waka Nian our gay In Mbini, yakarum jar Dominyagumika, 5 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 2: Umaga Ithawaknedle woman dam and immlan Wima ban gadabomba in 6 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:22,479 Speaker 2: and now in Waka Ghana on yakarum jar water Nadaa. Hello, 7 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:25,920 Speaker 2: beautiful friends, we gather on the lands of the Abiagin people. 8 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 2: We thank acknowledge and respect the abergein people's land that 9 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 2: we're gathering on today. Take pleasure in all the land 10 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 2: and respect all that you see. She's on the Money 11 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 2: podcast acknowledges culture, country, community and connections, bringing you the tools, 12 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 2: knowledge and resources for you to thrive. 13 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 3: She's on the Money. 14 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 4: She's on the Money. 15 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 1: Hello and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast 16 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: that makes personal finance fun, especially on Fridays. Friday is 17 00:00:57,680 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: our favorite day of the week because it's when we 18 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 1: get the team together and celebrate you ow incredible. She's 19 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:05,679 Speaker 1: on the Money community today, Miss Jess Grichi will be 20 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: sharing some of our favorite community Money Wins. Miss bechsayed, 21 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 1: will be sharing your broke tips of the week, and 22 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 1: we'll be helping to answer money dilemma that asks the 23 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: question should you sell your shares to use them for 24 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: your house deposit? And a DM that you slid into 25 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: our inbox with. That's all about an offer to buy 26 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: an investment property with a family member when you haven't 27 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: bought your own home yet, which I think all sounds 28 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 1: very interesting. But we always like to start our show 29 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: with a five star review. Boosts our ego, reminds me 30 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 1: vice while you're here, but also, you're just so nice now, Jess, 31 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: this review isn't just about you this week. Last week's 32 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: was I'm very sorry. I'll power through. But we've got one. 33 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: We've got one. It's from Evangeline. She said, I finally 34 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: could afford the dentists. Oh hear me out. This might 35 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: sound strange, but for at least six years or more, 36 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: I've convinced myself that I can't afford the which is 37 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: beyond terrible. I know, but as someone who struggles to save, 38 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: I've only ever heard stories of people visiting the dentist 39 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: after years and getting bills of more than five thousand dollars, 40 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: and for someone who's always had less than one thousand 41 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 1: dollars in her account, I convinced myself I just couldn't 42 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,239 Speaker 1: afford it. At the start of this year, I started 43 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: listening to Shees on the Money, I signed up to 44 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: the budgeting course, and I have made such big tracks. 45 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 1: I went to the dentist on Monday, and it ended 46 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: up costing me nothing. WHOA, it was covered by my 47 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: private health I have twelve hundred dollars in emergency funds, 48 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: eighty dollars in a holiday fund, seventy five dollars in shares's, 49 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: and I've paid down my debts. I know it's only 50 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: the start, but I'm surprised with how far I've come 51 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 1: in less than a month. I can't tell you how 52 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 1: much I appreciate your content and for giving me the 53 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 1: power and the education to take control of my finances. PS. 54 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: All your messaging around letting go of the guilt for 55 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 1: your past decisions because you didn't have the tools and 56 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 1: resources to make the best decision has been a total 57 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: game changer for the way I approach my finances. That's amazing, 58 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 1: ev Angelie, It's incredible. 59 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 4: Also, your name is beautiful. 60 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 5: That is incredible. The fact that dental care is not 61 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 5: part of medicare or it's wild as well. It actually 62 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 5: makes me angry, but that's the story for another time. 63 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:17,919 Speaker 5: That is incredible. That is really incredible and very very 64 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 5: good for you. 65 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: I'm just excited, Like stories like this they come out 66 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: of the community and I'm like, this is why we 67 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: do what we do. Like, I'm so excited for every 68 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 1: other financial goal, but for people to be able to go. 69 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 1: I'm not scared of the things I need, like you 70 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 1: need to see the dentist, like the fact you avoided 71 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: it because of money. Oh, I'm just so excited that 72 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 1: that's not your reality anymore. 73 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 4: That's amazing. 74 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: All right, now it's time for Question of the Week. 75 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: It's that part of Friday drinks where you get to 76 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 1: ask us one question that you are dying to know. 77 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 1: It could literally be anything, And this week's question comes 78 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 1: from Carly, and she wants to know if you could 79 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 1: have dinner with one person dead or alive, who wouldn't 80 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: be and why? 81 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 5: Oh this is so hard I'm thinking for like because 82 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 5: I might feel shy or awkward and like nobody, Well, like, yeah, 83 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 5: this is really silly, like realistically, because I know it 84 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 5: warn't happen. But if it had to happen and someone 85 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 5: was like, oh, he's a complete stranger. You do like 86 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 5: this person. You may be a fan of this person, 87 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,719 Speaker 5: but it's just you, you guys together having dinner and 88 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 5: already a dinner situation where you're seeing across the table 89 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 5: from someone. I don't like it. No matter who I'm with, 90 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 5: I would just pick my girlfriend. But if it was 91 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 5: if I had, I would and because it was like 92 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 5: just which feels so awkward. 93 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 4: There's a hard one. 94 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 5: I think Amy Taylor from Amalon the Sniffers Wash that 95 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 5: is rogue. I love her. She's so like us, you know, 96 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 5: She's so like just chill down to Earth. I don't 97 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:51,919 Speaker 5: imagine she'd be like I think I wouldn't have to 98 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 5: worry about like spillage or like not putting the fork 99 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 5: on the right side of my plate when I'm finished eating, 100 00:04:57,960 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 5: Like I would have to worry about these little things 101 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 5: like she wouldn't care. So I think it'd be any Taylor. 102 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 4: This question just really sends me for six because I 103 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 4: spiral was like I only get one per and then 104 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 4: I start going, God, who's the person I want to 105 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 4: be the most, who is the person who I could 106 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 4: learn the most from. And then I just like really 107 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 4: like I'm doggie paddling around in my brain basically, like 108 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 4: there's so many people I would love to meet. Like 109 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 4: I would love to meet Dolly Parton. Oh, she does 110 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 4: a lot of charitable stuff. She's funded incredible campaigns that 111 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 4: bring books and education to children. I would love to 112 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 4: be like a lot of historical women. I think it's 113 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 4: very interesting to think about like a Queen Elizabeth or 114 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 4: like which I know is so random and it's not 115 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 4: because I'm a royalist or anything, but it's just it 116 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 4: would be so interesting, or even like a woman from 117 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 4: my ancestry, do you know what I mean back five 118 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 4: hundred years to just see what has changed, or like, 119 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 4: you know, there are so many women that have played 120 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:55,039 Speaker 4: really pivotal roles in things throughout the years, you know, 121 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 4: like Rosa Parks or I can't remember her name, but 122 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 4: the woman who wrote thed for Vanessa, Yes, Sanasa, I 123 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 4: was like, what is the rocket company? But there are 124 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 4: so many women that have just done amazing, amazing, amazing things. 125 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:09,799 Speaker 4: Or Michell Obama. 126 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 5: I would love. 127 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, I would want to be a woman, and I 128 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 4: just have a long, long list. Honestly have a long 129 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:18,720 Speaker 4: I can't just pick one. Taylor Swift, I'd love to 130 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 4: make Taylor Swift. Is that like me? That's bit a vapid, 131 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 4: but like, god, I love that woman. 132 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a vapid. 133 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 4: I can't pick one. I just can't. I'm not good 134 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:31,279 Speaker 4: with favorites. I really struggle to pick your cute, favorite color, 135 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 4: favorite food, Like I can never do it. 136 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 5: But anyway, that's an incredible answer. 137 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 4: It's incredible, wild Card, I can't wait. 138 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 1: I feel like you guys are going to be like 139 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 1: expecting something from me. 140 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 5: Oh, I think I know who Warren Buffet. 141 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 1: Oh, oh my god, yeah, like that that's what I 142 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: think you expect Warren Buffett or like Oprah or something. Yeah, 143 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:55,840 Speaker 1: wild Card, I want you to have dinner with sixty 144 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: year old b Oh. 145 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 5: That's a great that's a gorgeous answer. 146 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 1: I want to have dinner with her and be like 147 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:03,599 Speaker 1: what do you think your regrets are? 148 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 4: What? 149 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: Like how cool would that be to be like what 150 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: do you wish you did more of? Or like what 151 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 1: are you proud of? 152 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 4: Or whatever? 153 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 1: Like how cool would that be? 154 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 3: Amazing? 155 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 1: Again, maybe that's vapid because I would make my own 156 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 1: life better for But I just think that, yeah, I 157 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 1: was thinking about it, and maybe I got the privilege 158 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 1: of thinking about it longer than you guys, because you 159 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 1: were like struggling with it, Beck and. 160 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 3: So did you. 161 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: Just I was thinking, like what do I want? And 162 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you know Michelle Obama and then 163 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 1: you said it. I was like, yeah, like taylorus with 164 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 1: me a year, like all of those people would be 165 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 1: really cool. But I want something that would be impactful. 166 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: And I mean you already said it's not possible, so 167 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 1: amaze will be the old version of me, Like yeah, 168 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: like is botox worth it until I'm sixty? You know? 169 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 5: Yeah? 170 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 1: Not actually? But just you know, what was your best 171 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 1: spending habit? Like, or what do you regret? Or like 172 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 1: how did life pan out? Do I want to know that? 173 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 1: I don't know. 174 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 4: That's like that question that if you knew how you 175 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 4: were going to die, would you want to know if 176 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 4: someone said, hey, this envelope has like the date and 177 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 4: time and circumstances of your death, do you want to 178 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 4: read it? 179 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 2: No? 180 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 4: Would you read it? 181 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 5: I think I would want to know you? Oh no, 182 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 5: don't get it started. 183 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 4: You've already had one existential crisis this week. 184 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 1: I can't. I'm really sorry, Jess. We're going to move 185 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 1: off that because I can't have just having another existential 186 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 1: question taking leave and I just can't thought that right now. 187 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 1: But if you guys have a question that you want 188 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 1: us to answer, please leave it in the comments. We 189 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: would love to get to it now. Talking about getting 190 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: to it is just community, money, wins and confessions. 191 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,680 Speaker 4: What have you got all righty? Firstly this week, I've 192 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 4: got one from Ruby, who said after six months of 193 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 4: her house being on the market and her being screwed 194 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 4: around by the real estate agent, she finally switched agents 195 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:45,560 Speaker 4: and her home sold within five hours. Stop her, Now, 196 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 4: isn't that crazy? Five hours? 197 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 1: That's insane? 198 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 4: Congratulations through me. That must feel so good. I probably 199 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:55,679 Speaker 4: thought it was fake, genuinely like am I being punked? Next, 200 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 4: I've got money in from Casey, who said she found 201 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 4: shampoo and conditioner and the clearance shelvet tea came God, 202 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 4: I love a little T came out. Then I've got 203 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 4: one from Jackie who said Hoyt sent her a ten 204 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 4: dollar movie ticket because they hadn't seen her in a while. 205 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 4: And she got to use that to go on a 206 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 4: solo date by herself. 207 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 5: Beautiful. 208 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 1: We need to do more of that stuff. Yeah, as women, 209 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 1: she screw it all. 210 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 4: Have time for yourself and even better if it's on 211 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:22,560 Speaker 4: the house. Next, I've got a money win from Jasmine, 212 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 4: who said small one this week, but I got two 213 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 4: house keys cut at buttings and they were unsure if 214 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 4: they would work, so they only charged me a dollar each, 215 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 4: and then they worked. And then the last one I've 216 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 4: got is from Iris, who said she bit the bullet 217 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 4: after weeks of thinking about it, and she cut her 218 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:42,200 Speaker 4: own layers into her hair. She said it came out 219 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 4: so risky, I came out so nice. It was so easy. 220 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 4: She shared a link to the YouTube tutory when. 221 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 1: She followed, Oh that's much smart. I would have just 222 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 1: gone rogue in the front of the mirror. Yea historial. 223 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 1: Oh you are. 224 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 4: Fine, wavy hair. It was way easier than a blunt 225 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 4: cut trim. And she says she's gonna do it every 226 00:09:58,360 --> 00:09:58,959 Speaker 4: three months or so. 227 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 1: You cut your own hair, I do. 228 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 5: I've never ever been to a hairdresser. 229 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, but do you follow a YouTube tutorial or how 230 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 1: are we doing it? So safety scissors, kitchen scissors. 231 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 5: I do use any scissors that I can find. Yes, 232 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:13,079 Speaker 5: and then I'll like kind of just because it's like 233 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:14,719 Speaker 5: a bit of a mullet. But even before I had 234 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 5: a bit of a mullet, I did just kind of 235 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 5: like wing it. It's not good, but it's not so 236 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 5: bad either, you know. 237 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 4: I don't think I've never looked your hair. Oh it's 238 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 4: a bad haircut. 239 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 5: Oh my god, thank you so much. 240 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 1: Neither. When you said you'd never been to a hairdresser, 241 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, I didn't realize you did that yourself. 242 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: That's so nice. I didn't. 243 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 3: I guess I thought about it. 244 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 5: Maybe you do get some hairkish when you're doing it 245 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 5: yourself for thirty three years. 246 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: I'm impressed with you. Thank you so much, Thank you well, 247 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:47,719 Speaker 1: thank you for that. Jess misspecsed what broke tips of 248 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:49,319 Speaker 1: the community got for us this week. 249 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 5: The first one comes from Emma, who says, if you 250 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 5: need to pick me up, a Maca's soft serve cone 251 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 5: with a flake is the best happiness and money can 252 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 5: buy for under two dollars, which is I know, a 253 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 5: broke tip in this day and age, but it's used 254 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 5: to be fifty Yeah. 255 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 1: I saw a TikTok the other day. How many times 256 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 1: do I say that? 257 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 5: On this podcast? 258 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 2: I saw a. 259 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 4: TikTok I need a tea talk segment, Like every week 260 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 4: we just the TikTok of the week. 261 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I saw a TikTok and the lady's hook 262 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 1: at the very start of the TikTok was like, follow me, 263 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:23,439 Speaker 1: because I'll show you how I feed my family for 264 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 1: under two hundred dollars a week. And I was like, wait, what, yeah, 265 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 1: what do you mean? Like that's not a flex to 266 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 1: like it obviously is a flex to feed your family 267 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 1: for under two hundred bucks a week, But I remember 268 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 1: like one hundred dollars being the like feeder family of 269 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: four for under one hundred. 270 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 3: Bucks a week? 271 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, what. 272 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 1: Hundred dollars a week? Is the flex getting ahead of itself? 273 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 5: I know, it's really scary out there. This next one 274 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 5: comes from Hannah who says, did you know you can 275 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 5: order a cone and a cup and add Eminem's on 276 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 5: top and it's only one dollar seventy five. It's a 277 00:11:56,880 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 5: mini mcflurry, which is incredible idea. 278 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:01,560 Speaker 1: And they don't even mix mcfluory's anymore. 279 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:02,480 Speaker 5: No, they don't. 280 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Can someone explain to me the 281 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:08,079 Speaker 1: difference between a mcfluury and a Sunday? 282 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 5: I think they're in the same cup, now are they? 283 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:12,200 Speaker 1: I think? 284 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:12,320 Speaker 3: So? 285 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 1: What's the difference? 286 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 4: Is it just like the topping, but a McClary is mixed, 287 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 4: but you're saying they're not anymore. 288 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 1: No, they don't mix them. They just put toppings on 289 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 1: the top and there's nothing underneath. It's a cup of 290 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 1: soft serve with the topping. Is that not what a 291 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:25,319 Speaker 1: Sunday and McDonald's I mean, at least. 292 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 4: For the Sunday they have good grace. Put the sauce 293 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 4: on the bottom as well. 294 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 1: If you get a lunch. This is true Rice true. 295 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:34,719 Speaker 4: On the toll, I asked for a pump on the 296 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 4: bottom as well. 297 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:36,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, because you're a smart woman. 298 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 4: Double up on that strawberry Sunday. 299 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 1: That's a throwback to twenty one podcast. In jest, she 300 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:46,560 Speaker 1: prefers a strawberry Sunday. 301 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 5: That is crazy, That is insane. 302 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 4: And I took it to Instagram so convinced that everyone 303 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 4: would agree with me. 304 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 1: She got humbled and was like, that's sacrilegious. 305 00:12:57,240 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, it is quite eye opening. 306 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 1: Insane. That was one of my pregnancy cravings, Like I 307 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 1: was a ferrel for a strawberrymixed on Sunday's very validating. 308 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 1: I was like, do you want a Sunday And she'd 309 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 1: be like. 310 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 4: Why, But who am I to say? 311 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 2: No? 312 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 5: Hey, well that's it. But the Hungry Jack storm it's huge. 313 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 5: It's huge, just like a mcflury, and they do mix it. 314 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 5: It's flake. You can get flake in there. Maybe we 315 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 5: should have stick as a flake flaked flake. 316 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 1: Oh that's even better. 317 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 5: You add some oreo, you add some hot fudge sauce. 318 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 5: Oh my god, it is the best. It is way 319 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 5: better than any mcflurry could ever be. So we're gonna need. 320 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 1: To test that out because I'm not gonna lie. Sorry, 321 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:39,440 Speaker 1: Hungry Jacks. The burgers are better. But I've never heard 322 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 1: of about your Sunday Sunday. 323 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, and they're so humble about it. I'm like, 324 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 5: tell everyone, it's so good. It's so good. 325 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 3: Do you know what? 326 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: The Hungry Jack's marketing team are like listening to this 327 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 1: right now, and they're like, we do. We tell everybody 328 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 1: not hitting your ears. 329 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:55,840 Speaker 5: If I could just get one free storm, that'd be nice. 330 00:13:56,559 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 5: What else you got. The next one comes from Sierra, 331 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 5: who says, instead of paying sixteen dollars a month for 332 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 5: Spotify Premium, I canceled my subscription and bought a Spotify 333 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 5: twelve month premium gift card on Amazon for one hundred 334 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:09,959 Speaker 5: and forty dollars. That's a fifty two dollars difference. 335 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:13,560 Speaker 1: Hah, very clear, but that is really really smart. 336 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:15,079 Speaker 5: But yeah, it's one of those things where it's like, 337 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 5: if you have enough money to pay for a big 338 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 5: chunk of time, then you will get discounted, which is 339 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 5: very very nice but also a privilege and also a 340 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 5: bit of a privilege, and then you don't have to 341 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 5: think about it for the year as well, which is great. 342 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 5: And then my Brike tip for this week. Some of 343 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:31,360 Speaker 5: you may know, I'm not too sure, but I quit 344 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 5: my job randomly because I'm not very good at regulating 345 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 5: my emotions and now I'm stuck jovelers and poor. But 346 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 5: I called my utility company, my gas and electricity, both 347 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 5: in the same and my housemate, who was also my 348 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:49,560 Speaker 5: friend who live with, got a utility relief grant and 349 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 5: she said, you can apply for this, and I said, 350 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 5: I'm not on send link. I don't have a healthcare 351 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 5: card and a concession card, Like, are you sure I 352 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 5: can do this? 353 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 1: And she's like, yeah. 354 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 5: All you have to do is wait for a bill 355 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 5: to be overdue, and you call the company and you 356 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 5: apply and they help you apply for it. You just 357 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 5: have to send either like your bank statements or a 358 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 5: letter from your employer saying that you're not working or 359 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 5: you're not working as much, whatever it looks like, and 360 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 5: then they apply and then you get I think it's 361 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 5: like six hundred dollars in credit for utility now, and 362 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 5: they keep applying for it until you run out of 363 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 5: your oh nice money, and so I'm like, that's incredible. 364 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 5: So I did it. I applied. I haven't heard back yet, 365 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 5: but it was just yesterday. 366 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 1: That's a very cool scheme. 367 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 5: It's one thing that you can just take off your 368 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 5: list of things you've got to pay for because energy 369 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 5: costs a high crazy so all utility is currently covered. 370 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 5: Isn't that crazy? I love that, son Agan. 371 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 1: That is a genuinely good broke tit. 372 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 4: Thank you so much. 373 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 1: All right, well let's go to a break because I 374 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 1: am very excited to get into the community money dilemma, 375 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 1: which is all about selling shares for a house deposit. 376 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 1: And then the DM of this week is about investing 377 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 1: in a property with someone else before you've actually purchased 378 00:15:56,760 --> 00:15:58,840 Speaker 1: your own property. So guys, don't go anywhere. 379 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 4: Welcome back, everybody. Let's take a listen to this week's 380 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 4: money dilemma. 381 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 1: Hi. There, have you got a money dilemma you just 382 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 1: can't solve? The She's on the Money team is here 383 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: to help. Every week, we tackle your dilemmas, both big 384 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 1: and small, to answer your most burning money, career and 385 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 1: life questions. To get involved, simply head to our website 386 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: and leave us a short voice recording and you might 387 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 1: just find yourself on the show. Now, let's take a 388 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 1: listen to this week's money dilemma. 389 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 3: Hi, She's on the Money. My money dilemma is I 390 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 3: currently have ten thousand dollars in chairs. I decided to 391 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 3: invest my savings one to two years ago when I 392 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:43,480 Speaker 3: was single, thinking I could regularly contribute and want to 393 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 3: grow for about five years and then hopefully use it 394 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 3: towards a house deposit. Since then, I've found a solid 395 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 3: partner who I want to home with eventually, and I 396 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:55,760 Speaker 3: also just came into an inheritance of twenty five thousand 397 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 3: dollars from my family member that past. Suddenly the prospects 398 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 3: of a house to posit with my partner looks possible 399 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 3: for as early as next year. But I've also since 400 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:08,399 Speaker 3: learned the effect of time on my shares from your podcast, 401 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 3: and now I'm inclined to use my shares towards early 402 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:16,680 Speaker 3: retirement or another long term future investment plan. For context, 403 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 3: I'm twenty three years old, so time is definitely on 404 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 3: my side. My partner and I will have enough for 405 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:24,359 Speaker 3: our deposit come next year. However, if we contribute my 406 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 3: shares as well, it could take a bit of pressure 407 00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:29,199 Speaker 3: off the monthly repayments, as I'll still be a student 408 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 3: for the verse six to twelve months of the home line. 409 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 3: Should I take this money out mid next year when 410 00:17:34,320 --> 00:17:36,199 Speaker 3: we are looking to borrow, or should I keep it 411 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 3: in there as a set and forget long term investment plan? 412 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 1: Ooh, I feel like that's a good one. Yeah, I'm 413 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 1: gonna reserve my comment. 414 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 5: Sure. Well, I just want to say I'm so sorry 415 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:50,159 Speaker 5: to hear about the passing of your family member, but 416 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 5: and I know this is not all we're asking, and 417 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 5: if I was in your position, I would completely disregard 418 00:17:56,359 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 5: everything I'm about to say because I would almost be like, 419 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:00,920 Speaker 5: f you for even saying this. But if I could 420 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:04,239 Speaker 5: start my life over and I was going to buy 421 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:06,919 Speaker 5: a house with someone that I could see a future 422 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 5: with at twenty three, I would probably not do that 423 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:13,359 Speaker 5: simply because you don't fair, you don't know what your 424 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:15,159 Speaker 5: lufs can look like. I would be like, there's no rush, Like, 425 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:17,360 Speaker 5: don't rush into that right now. Maybe don't do that 426 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 5: step as far as like taking out shares. Even you're 427 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 5: saying like there's a lot of time in your hands, 428 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 5: I'm like, I would not be doing anything right now, 429 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:28,160 Speaker 5: would be like still saving. I'd be just like kind 430 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:30,159 Speaker 5: of going about my business. I would not be buying 431 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:32,960 Speaker 5: a property with my partner at such a young age. 432 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:35,240 Speaker 5: I would just be doing me. I'd be thinking about me. 433 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:38,400 Speaker 5: I'll be wanting to get my own property. I would 434 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:40,440 Speaker 5: not even be touching anything right now. Because it all 435 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:42,440 Speaker 5: sounds like there's so much time on your hands, you're 436 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:45,480 Speaker 5: not in a rush, don't worry fair mister. 437 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's kind of a catch training to you, 438 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:50,880 Speaker 4: because there's an argument to be made for getting into 439 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 4: the market early. Just inder the better, et cetera, et cetera, 440 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 4: prices likely to continue increasing, you know, time in the market, 441 00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 4: all those sorts of things. However, but I very much 442 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 4: echo your sentiment. Did they say how long they've been 443 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:03,719 Speaker 4: with their partner? 444 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 1: I don't know who might have missed it, but I 445 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 1: don't think they mentioned it. 446 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, so it's very hard. But like, even if you 447 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 4: had been with your partner for let's say five years 448 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:14,119 Speaker 4: or something, that would have meant that you've been together 449 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 4: since what like eighteen? Am I doing that? Maths right? 450 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 4: And so it's I don't want to belittle a relationship 451 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 4: that just because you're young, because I think people can 452 00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:26,639 Speaker 4: experience incredible love at all ages. But I also think 453 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:29,160 Speaker 4: you are still developing and growing as a person. 454 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:30,240 Speaker 1: Just a baby. 455 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 4: You are just a baby by love, and so I 456 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 4: just think there's no rush. You said you're a student 457 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 4: still as well, and so I wouldn't be looking to 458 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 4: undertake a mortgage while I was studying. Generally speaking, you know, 459 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 4: it's especially if you're in your later years. I think 460 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 4: depending what you're studying, you might have placement or whatever. 461 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:51,159 Speaker 4: It sounds just like you've got a lot going on, 462 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 4: and if you're not in a rush. I think exactly 463 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:56,399 Speaker 4: as you were saying, like, having that money sitting in shares, 464 00:19:56,440 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 4: it's compounding, and historically speaking, share market has compounded at 465 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 4: a greater rate than the property markets increase in value. 466 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 4: Is that right? Yes, thank you. I'm looking over that 467 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 4: a mom to be like, is that correct? So it 468 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:12,000 Speaker 4: might very well be that the math is mathing in 469 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 4: the sense of it's also better economically to leave your 470 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:17,679 Speaker 4: money invested in shares. I just think it sounds like 471 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 4: you're at like a very busy point in your life 472 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:22,639 Speaker 4: and maybe you don't need to be making that big 473 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:25,879 Speaker 4: decision right now it a broader scale, like can you 474 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 4: sell investments to Herga's house, Absolutely you can, Like there 475 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:30,439 Speaker 4: are lots of people who do that. It's going to 476 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:33,040 Speaker 4: depend on, you know, are your shares in the green 477 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 4: or the red? Like that's a big factor. You know, 478 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:37,880 Speaker 4: how much capital gains are you going to have to pay? 479 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:40,919 Speaker 4: Like all those sorts of things factoring as well. And 480 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 4: I feel like I'm dancing a little bit around in circles. 481 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 4: But I think if I was you, what I'm saying 482 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 4: is I probably would not be making this decision right now. 483 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 4: Even with the hindsight of like, do I kind of 484 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 4: wish I bought a property when I was that age? Yes, 485 00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:57,200 Speaker 4: But had I bought a property at that age, I 486 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 4: would have been kind of screwed because we had COVID 487 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 4: and all those sorts of things. And I guess not 488 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 4: to be all doom and gloom, but it does feel 489 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:07,399 Speaker 4: a bit like we're coming towards another time of significant 490 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 4: economic uncertainty with everything that's happening in the world, and me, 491 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:13,639 Speaker 4: as we all know, being very risk adverse, you are you, 492 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 4: I just tend to operate with an abundance of caution, 493 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:18,199 Speaker 4: so I would just I would think very deeply about it. 494 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 4: But I think continue saving, save for your deposit, and 495 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,680 Speaker 4: then once you get there, maybe that timing will feel right. 496 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 5: Yes, you talkin's words. I mean, I don't assume, but 497 00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:32,199 Speaker 5: maybe if you're with a male partner, amab assigned male 498 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 5: at birth. I'm just saying these situations sometimes I aren't 499 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:42,440 Speaker 5: as that's new. Never sorry, that's very queer, that's true. 500 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 5: I can teach you all the all the terms. 501 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,640 Speaker 4: All the terms, absolutely all of them. 502 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:48,439 Speaker 1: I don't know when I'm going to use them, but 503 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 1: that's new. 504 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:51,440 Speaker 5: No, I just think be very, very careful, because someone 505 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:53,200 Speaker 5: might be really really sweet the start, of course, because 506 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 5: they're trying to get a little bit. 507 00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:58,880 Speaker 1: It's just she's like, I try and really regret being 508 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 1: in a relationship with them. Man, disgusting. 509 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 5: I want to try not to, but I'm like, think 510 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:05,800 Speaker 5: of how mean someone can be after if things aren't 511 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 5: good and then you want to own something with them. 512 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,680 Speaker 5: Just think about that. Just try and be slower, Just 513 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 5: be slowed, slow down of it. 514 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,200 Speaker 1: I'll put on my hat and not have an opinion 515 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 1: about your relationship. You're gonna get married and your life 516 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,959 Speaker 1: is a fairy tale and they're the one. As a 517 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 1: mortgage broking, girly, go talk to a mortgage broker, like, 518 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 1: go get the numbers, Like, I don't know what your 519 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 1: situation looks like, what does your borrowing capacity even look like? 520 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 1: As somebody who is still studying with a partner who 521 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 1: owns an income, Like are you actually able to service 522 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,640 Speaker 1: a mortgage? Like or is it just a good idea? 523 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:40,680 Speaker 1: Just because you have a deposit doesn't mean you can 524 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 1: service the mortgage that you might want. Talk to a 525 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 1: good mortgage broker who can look into a number of 526 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 1: schemes and grants, you might find yourself in a position 527 00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 1: where you only need a five percent deposit. There's also 528 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:55,159 Speaker 1: the two percent deposit scheme that's going around at the 529 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:58,159 Speaker 1: moment and getting a really good rap that might be 530 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,160 Speaker 1: up your alley if you're purchasing under a certain amount, 531 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:03,600 Speaker 1: so you might not even need to sell your shares 532 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: to get into the property market. You might be able 533 00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 1: to just sit them there. When you don't sell your 534 00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 1: shares to purchase property, the bank still sees it as 535 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 1: an asset, so it's not something that you know is detrimental. 536 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:16,879 Speaker 1: They go, oh, great, she's got ten grand in shares, 537 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 1: like great asset worth ten grand, So that's not a 538 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:23,040 Speaker 1: bad idea. But I'd be literally talking to a mortgage 539 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 1: broker who might take you through all the options, and 540 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:26,640 Speaker 1: then you go, oh, we don't want a mortgage yet, 541 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 1: or you might be spoken through all the options and 542 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 1: it makes perfect sense for you guys to purchase, and 543 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 1: you know you've worked out all of the you know, 544 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 1: drama of all what happens if this relationship doesn't work out. 545 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:39,479 Speaker 1: We're fine with that because lots of people in our 546 00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:42,240 Speaker 1: community do that and then purchase with a partner, breakup 547 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:44,159 Speaker 1: and they're both amicable and they're like, oh, we're just 548 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 1: going to keep the property and lease it out because 549 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:49,119 Speaker 1: it hasn't gotten any extra value and we want to 550 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,680 Speaker 1: sell it once there's value there. So have all those 551 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:55,240 Speaker 1: hard conversations as well. But I wouldn't be not talking 552 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:58,399 Speaker 1: to a broking professional, and I wouldn't be making a 553 00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 1: decision with my partner about like, oh, Jess, will you 554 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 1: sell your shares for a property when you don't even 555 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:05,679 Speaker 1: know your serviceability yet, because like what if you do 556 00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:07,440 Speaker 1: sell your shares and then you talk to a broker 557 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 1: and they're like, why'd you do that? Like that that's 558 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,439 Speaker 1: a great You can't get a mortgage at this point 559 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 1: because it's getting fickle and with the cash rate increasing, 560 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,119 Speaker 1: banks are tightening up as well on who they're lending to, 561 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:22,520 Speaker 1: but also how much they're lending. So that's just quite 562 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,200 Speaker 1: a pickle to be in. So get somebody, get them 563 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,200 Speaker 1: on your team, and they might even go, oh, well, 564 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 1: if you were going to be studying for the next 565 00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 1: six to twelve months, let's line everything up for you 566 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,119 Speaker 1: to purchase in six to twelve months so that you 567 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:35,159 Speaker 1: can get it with a full time income, and that 568 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,160 Speaker 1: will increase your serviceability and get something you actually want. True, 569 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,240 Speaker 1: so it really depends. Yeah, just get a professional on 570 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 1: your team. It's free, it's free. 571 00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:44,440 Speaker 4: We recommend Zella. 572 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:48,000 Speaker 1: Oh, one hundred percent. We recommend Zella. Anyway, would you 573 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: guys like the community DM? 574 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:50,720 Speaker 5: Yes? 575 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:55,400 Speaker 1: Please? That's Campbell trying to join in the podcast recording. 576 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,880 Speaker 1: Campbell's friend said, Hi, she's on the money. My boyfriend 577 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:00,919 Speaker 1: and I are planning to buy our first home together 578 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 1: in the next few years. Recently, he mentioned his brother 579 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 1: wants him to go in on an investment property with 580 00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 1: him and his fiance. The idea is that in one 581 00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: or two years, the brother would buy him out so 582 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 1: that we can buy our place. I'm stressed that timeframe 583 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 1: feels short to build meaningful equity, and I'm worried it 584 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:20,879 Speaker 1: could impact our eligibility for a first home buyers grant. 585 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,960 Speaker 1: I'm also concerned that if his brother can't buy him out, 586 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 1: my partner would be stuck servicing two loans or unable 587 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 1: to say for our goals. They already own a home, 588 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,359 Speaker 1: so they'd end up with two properties while we're still 589 00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,360 Speaker 1: trying to enter the market. How do I raise my concerns, 590 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 1: especially if I'm not comfortable taking on a loan with 591 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:40,240 Speaker 1: him because of serviceability risk. 592 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 5: Don't do it already, I'm singing, there's no real just 593 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 5: don't do it. How do you raise this? I think 594 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 5: read this exact DM to your partner for starters, because 595 00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 5: I think you meant you said it all very very well, 596 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:56,240 Speaker 5: like you needn't say anymore. And if your partner is like, well, 597 00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:59,360 Speaker 5: I'm still going to do it, then that's insane. But yeah, 598 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:03,640 Speaker 5: it would ruin office home buyers chances right, it would 599 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 5: be in here if they're buying together. 600 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 1: It depends on the bank and how that works. See, yeah, 601 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:12,680 Speaker 1: it minds if she's in on it, because she also 602 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:16,359 Speaker 1: said something that makes me think that they're all in it. 603 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:20,240 Speaker 4: Together because each individual qualifies typically right, So like, theoretically, 604 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:22,320 Speaker 4: if a couple are buying a house together, you both 605 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,840 Speaker 4: get your first home owner grant, assuming you each individually 606 00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 4: satisfy all of the requirements done. So, if he bought 607 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,959 Speaker 4: with his brother, use it with his brother, So then 608 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:36,240 Speaker 4: when the couple purchased, she would potentially qualify, but her 609 00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 4: partner would not because he'd already used it. 610 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:39,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 611 00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 5: Well, I just feel like I'm just like don't do 612 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 5: it. It's too risky. It sounds too risky. I don't I 613 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 5: can't think of a single benefit other than like maybe 614 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:51,959 Speaker 5: being a few extra thousand in two years time, maybe potentially, 615 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:52,919 Speaker 5: like other than that. 616 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,919 Speaker 1: I mean, maybe I'm missing something, But I don't think 617 00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,160 Speaker 1: you're missing anything. I think it's a big catch twenty two. Yeah, So, 618 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:02,560 Speaker 1: like if it doesn't increase in value and his brother 619 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,919 Speaker 1: has saved up enough to buy him out, great, no worries. 620 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:07,600 Speaker 1: But what if that property does increase inequity, which is 621 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,440 Speaker 1: what you want, and then his brother can't afford to 622 00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 1: buy him out or doesn't want to buy him out 623 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,639 Speaker 1: at the amount that the property is worth, and then 624 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,960 Speaker 1: you have to sell the whole thing, which in one 625 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,160 Speaker 1: to two years. I think is a terrible idea because 626 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 1: we should never be buying property with the view to 627 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:22,119 Speaker 1: sell it in one to two years. Like that's a 628 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:26,160 Speaker 1: long term asset, Like you're paying stamps and stuff on property, 629 00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,880 Speaker 1: Like that's crazy to me. I would actually sit down 630 00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 1: with your partner and entertain the idea. So I'd sit 631 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,640 Speaker 1: down and be like, oh, hey, let's pretend it's Jess 632 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,119 Speaker 1: and I Hey Jess, Like that sounds like, such a 633 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 1: good idea that you've brought to the table, that's actually 634 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 1: like map it out, like what that would look like 635 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 1: financially for us, and what it looks like to buy 636 00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:42,879 Speaker 1: our own property in one to two years. And I 637 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,199 Speaker 1: can almost guarantee that without you saying, oh, it's a 638 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 1: bad idea, that mapping out process is going to come 639 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:50,959 Speaker 1: to the conclusion that maybe it's not a great idea 640 00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: for you guys to achieve your goals. But hey, I 641 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 1: don't know the opportunity. It might end up being a 642 00:27:56,040 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 1: fantastic opportunity, but like sound it out to to a 643 00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 1: mortgage broker about what's possible and whether that's a good 644 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:08,040 Speaker 1: idea or not financially. Work out what your eligibility criteria 645 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,919 Speaker 1: is on first home owner grants, Like, I don't know 646 00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 1: what your future looks like, but if you're buying an 647 00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:16,000 Speaker 1: expensive property, you might not actually get access to any 648 00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:19,120 Speaker 1: of your first home owner grants anyway. So what do 649 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 1: you qualify for, what don't you qualify for? Et cetera. 650 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:24,679 Speaker 1: Just what would you do as somebody who refused to 651 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 1: buy their first home with a partner. 652 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,760 Speaker 4: I'm just not understanding the buying out of it. All, Like, 653 00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 4: I don't understand. Is it because the brother wants to 654 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:35,919 Speaker 4: get into the market and your partner has said, oh, 655 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 4: like I'll find you the cash, I'll pay half, and 656 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,560 Speaker 4: then you buy me out in two years, in which 657 00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,880 Speaker 4: case I just think there are better ways to go 658 00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:47,560 Speaker 4: around that, like maybe you could look at a garantall situation. 659 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 4: I just the buying out I'm not sure on Like, 660 00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,440 Speaker 4: it's just totally a bit sussed, not sus like, I'm 661 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 4: not saying he's trying to do anything dodgy, but I 662 00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 4: just am not understanding it. Honestly, they don't look in 663 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 4: such a period of time, exactly as you said, to 664 00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:04,960 Speaker 4: sure what the market is going to do. The only 665 00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:06,720 Speaker 4: way that makes sense in my head is the brother 666 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:08,320 Speaker 4: wants to get into the market now he wants to 667 00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 4: buy this investment property and he needs assorted to a capital. 668 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 1: Why is they need doing it but then. 669 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:15,080 Speaker 4: Buy something smaller because you already own a home, so like, 670 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,959 Speaker 4: why are you're not leveraging your existing home or just waiting. 671 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 4: It just doesn't make sense to me, Like I'm not 672 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 4: understanding the upside of it, and I just think it's 673 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,240 Speaker 4: very risky, exactly as you said that he might not 674 00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,400 Speaker 4: be able to afford to buy you out or whatever. 675 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:31,040 Speaker 4: Your partner's then stuck in this investment that he maybe 676 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:34,640 Speaker 4: did or didn't want. I don't know. I just wouldn't 677 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 4: do it personally. I can't really explain that much more. 678 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 4: I think exactly you said, do the numbers and see, 679 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 4: but I can't. I wouldn't do it fair. 680 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,800 Speaker 1: Before we asked the community that exact question, what would 681 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,600 Speaker 1: you do if you were our community member? Forty two 682 00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:53,360 Speaker 1: percent said, revisit the idea after we purchase our own home. 683 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,920 Speaker 1: Thirty six percent said hard no from me, twenty percent 684 00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,480 Speaker 1: said only with a strict legal agreement, and two percent 685 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 1: of you said I would support my boyfriend's decision. 686 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:03,880 Speaker 4: Oh, you're a better person than I am. 687 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:08,400 Speaker 1: Two percent would you ever enter into an agreement like this? 688 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 1: Fifty percent of you said no, it's too risky, thirty 689 00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 1: two percent said depends on our sibling relationship, and eighteen 690 00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 1: percent said yeah if the numbers stuck up. We then 691 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:21,720 Speaker 1: said what's your two cents? And it was similar to 692 00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:25,479 Speaker 1: our conversations. Right first person said the boyfriend should consider 693 00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 1: the impact to the girlfriend and the first home grants 694 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 1: they'll lose. Next person said, if they already have a 695 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,640 Speaker 1: property and this is an investment, it screams they haven't 696 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 1: got their shit in order to do it on their own. 697 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 1: Next person said, this sounds like it's one hundred percent 698 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,880 Speaker 1: a great idea for his brother and one hundred percent 699 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 1: a shitty deal for your partner. Hard No, the next 700 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:49,080 Speaker 1: person said, I did exactly this. Oh t tell us 701 00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 1: more disaster. Steer clear for your mental health, finances and 702 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,120 Speaker 1: your family. Do not do it. Oh my god, there 703 00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:55,400 Speaker 1: you go. 704 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:56,280 Speaker 4: Out of the mouth of. 705 00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:00,960 Speaker 1: The next person said, so many different legal mechanisms to 706 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 1: achieve the same result, but better outcome. And next and 707 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:07,240 Speaker 1: last person said, I'm a lawyer. The slight chance of 708 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: any issue is not worth it. Plus, family law separation 709 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 1: issues don't put you in the best position we go anyway. 710 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,760 Speaker 1: That's a good place to leave it with a lawyer's comment, 711 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,120 Speaker 1: look at us going to the horse's mouth. 712 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,960 Speaker 4: Yeah. Literally, pressure stuff like. 713 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:26,120 Speaker 1: That scares me because I'm always like, they always start 714 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 1: with the best of intentions, but these situations usually favor 715 00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,680 Speaker 1: one person over the other. And when it's like, oh, 716 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 1: I'm going to get my brother to do this with 717 00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,960 Speaker 1: me because I can't afford it. It's you using your 718 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,960 Speaker 1: brother to get to where you want to be and 719 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,160 Speaker 1: you're not. Your brother's not in the best possible position. 720 00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:44,720 Speaker 1: He's just a vehicle to help you get there. 721 00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, potential for things to go wrong high, it's you high. 722 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:49,080 Speaker 1: So you know from me? 723 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:50,040 Speaker 4: Amen? 724 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 3: Amen. 725 00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:53,360 Speaker 1: Well, Cammie's finally decided to go to sleep. So that 726 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:55,560 Speaker 1: is a wrap for the show. 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