1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: There is a new podcast available to download the only 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: place you get your podcasts. iHeart right now and it 3 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:11,959 Speaker 1: features our very own Amanda Keller, who joins us now Amanda, 4 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: good morning, oh. 5 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 2: Clazy and Lisa, I haven't spoken to you for age 6 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:16,639 Speaker 2: and no. 7 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:19,960 Speaker 1: Are you very well going swimming now? I am assuming 8 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: it is double a chattery? It's not doubler chattery? Is it? 9 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:27,639 Speaker 2: No? Double a? This is a podcast I'm doing with 10 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 2: my friend Anita two Ways. 11 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 3: I'm with you now. 12 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:36,199 Speaker 2: Yes, it's a pun and always loved a pun. 13 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 3: I love it fun too, fun with puns? Yeah, yep. 14 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 2: Actually, initially I wanted to call it tea and Therapy 15 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 2: because it is a forensic psychologist and I work in 16 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 2: the media and have a really stupid food through job. 17 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 2: But we thought that people might think it's more about 18 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 2: therapy and it's not because she's as stupid as the 19 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:51,159 Speaker 2: rest of us. 20 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:52,560 Speaker 3: Oh okay, well that's company. 21 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 2: That is. 22 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: I would love a forensic psychologist's best friend. That is 23 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: so awesome. Do you call her up every time you 24 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 1: listen to a real you a crime podcast or watch 25 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: what you know the latest in the Murdoch murders or 26 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 1: something to get on the phone. 27 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 3: She explained this to me. 28 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 2: She's very good in that she doesn't switch into psychology 29 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 2: mode with me, even though I sometimes beg her to. 30 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:17,319 Speaker 2: But she and I walk every Saturday and Sunday. We 31 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 2: walk my dog, and we spend a lot of time together. 32 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 2: We have a million cups of tea together, we drink 33 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 2: wine together, and we never run out of things to say. 34 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 2: And we figured that the stuff we talk about is 35 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 2: the stuff a lot of people are talking about, and 36 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 2: we both have different fields of interest and we come 37 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 2: together to nut it all out. So we thought we'd 38 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 2: do a podcast where we look at all kinds of stuff, 39 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 2: some of it personal, some of it stuff we've read 40 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 2: that week. Yeah, drop every week every Thursday, fresh as 41 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 2: they say. 42 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 1: So that's what we're doing, basically, the stuff that had 43 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: been discussed over a tea or a. 44 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 3: Wine or a walk. 45 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 2: Absolutely, and if we can remember most of the wine 46 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 2: ones while we're on a winner. 47 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're doing well there. You mentioned your dog. Amana. 48 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 3: Is that many who likes doing cross words and helping 49 00:01:58,040 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 3: you out with those? 50 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 2: Aren't you sweat? You saw my picture of her own instident. 51 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 3: Let's talk you every day she's had. 52 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 2: Her haircut since then, and I took it to the park. 53 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 2: She's eleven, and she looks so much younger when she 54 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: has a big haircut. She's a border Collie. And I 55 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 2: went to the park and someone said, what's happened to Minnie? 56 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 2: That she died, and that this was a younger dog. 57 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 2: I said, no, she doesn't. If it worked for all 58 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 2: of us, I'd cut my hair every week if I 59 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 2: could look as young as Mini. 60 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 3: Doesni is very cute. 61 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: My Zigg is also eleven, and she gets her hair 62 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: cut more regularly than me. 63 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 3: It's cast about as much too. 64 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: So that's true, isn't it basically what we're dealing with 65 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: here with double A. It's it's like your conversations around 66 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 1: the wine table have just been recorded pretty much. 67 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 2: The best drops today. The first one today is we 68 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 2: look at I read an article in the New York 69 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,519 Speaker 2: Times about a bookshop that called the Ripped Bodice, and 70 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 2: it only sells romance and romance novels. Is the ripped bottom. 71 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 2: Romance is the only only honor in fiction that's gone up. 72 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:05,679 Speaker 2: Women are buying romance novels at a great rate. I've 73 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 2: all been slightly ashamed of it, but all the shows 74 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:09,959 Speaker 2: that we seeing on TV at the moment, all the 75 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 2: vampire shows that even you know, the big books like 76 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 2: Fifty Shades of Gray, sort of this edgy it's still 77 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 2: kind of edgy romance. Even Yellowstone I would say that, 78 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 2: like a cowboy romance. It's a will he love her 79 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 2: or wonty kind of thing. And so with Anita being 80 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 2: a psychologist, we look at when that tips over into addiction. 81 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:31,239 Speaker 2: And Anita knew of a psychologist a psychiatrist. Actually he 82 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 2: was a forensic though she was an addiction psychiatrist, and 83 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 2: she didn't realize that she had an addiction to the 84 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 2: vampire novels. And so she hear she was treating clients 85 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 2: for all kinds of traditional stuff that we think of 86 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 2: when we come to addiction of drugs and alcohol and gambling, 87 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 2: but she herself wasn't aware that she had this overriding 88 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 2: addiction that had overtaken her life, and it was to 89 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 2: vampire novel at all of that stuff. 90 00:03:57,840 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: All good is the word bought us. And by the way, 91 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: it was a rip one. You know what would be 92 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: a great chat for you and a far be it 93 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 1: for me too. But consider this maybe a request a 94 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: little while ago you probably would have seen this in 95 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: Matterson research came out from someone a psychologist of some sort. 96 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: She said that people who like to relax by listening 97 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 1: to or watching true crime stories. 98 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 3: Our problem. 99 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 1: And I watched, you know, true crime documentaries and listen 100 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: to podcasts all the time, so I beg to differ. 101 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 1: But she said that's a red flag that we are 102 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:37,679 Speaker 1: perhaps psychopaths. 103 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 2: Well, I wonder because I ask Aneta about in terms 104 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 2: of the romance stuff too, how it impacts our actual relationships, 105 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:47,479 Speaker 2: And she'd probably say the same thing with this in 106 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 2: that if it's if it's just you're just watching these 107 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:52,359 Speaker 2: things and then walking away, But if you start to 108 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 2: delve too deeply into it, it changes your worldview and 109 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 2: that's probably not particularly healthy. 110 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 3: I guess you're going to apply to anything. 111 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, if it goes beyond the titillation and the fantasy 112 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:06,280 Speaker 4: kind of thing. 113 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: Day of great words. You give us titillation, titillation and modesty. 114 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 3: Then came. 115 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 2: You're playing scrabble. 116 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:18,600 Speaker 3: I think we need to On another. 117 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: Note, you have just actually we were all required to 118 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 1: do this. Released a personal playlist on the iHeartRadio Yours 119 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 1: is called Biscuit Baking songs. What's your go to song 120 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 1: while you're in the kitchen baking. 121 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 2: Probably a bit of Bob Seger would be my main one, 122 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 2: but I had the style council also, I have together. Yeah, 123 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 2: the AI algorithm went a bit skew with and some 124 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 2: of them. I think I've got a version. It might 125 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 2: have been one of the Bob Segers, but they put 126 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 2: a version in Dennis Walter singing it, which was. 127 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:53,599 Speaker 3: The old crooner Dennis Walter radio man himself. 128 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 2: How did that? Don't judge me? 129 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 3: And I organized over this playlist. 130 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 1: You know what anyone listen think you're listening to? 131 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 4: Dennis Walter does Bob s Oh No, Lisa's got. 132 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 1: Ye yeah absolutely jam that AI. 133 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 4: Well, the beauty of this, Amanda, is it's you and 134 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 4: a friend, and as you and Lisa and I have 135 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 4: had for many years, contact or program directors telling us 136 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 4: to make it sound like we're at a barbecue having 137 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 4: a chat. 138 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 3: Well that's what it's all about. Tick confirmation accomplished. 139 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 1: Double A Chattery is available to download through iHeart right now. 140 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 3: As is Dennis does boss. 141 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: Yeah exactly, Amanda, lovely to chat to you, Thanks to 142 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: both of you. 143 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 3: Nice to chats. The best,