WEBVTT - Outspoken sisters wedding war: Sophie Taeuber vs Amy Taeuber 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:13.520 You are now entering the court of Judge Gina Leano. 0:00:15.680 --> 0:00:19.800 They say a sister is a dearest friend, a closest enemy, 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:23.759 and an angel at a time of need. But when 0:00:23.800 --> 0:00:27.520 your sister has become more devil and less ally, you 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:31.400 come to my courtroom. I am Judge Gina, and my 0:00:31.480 --> 0:00:32.839 decision is final. 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:34.840 You better be ready to hear my ruling. 0:00:36.720 --> 0:00:40.040 These sisters are doing it for themselves. Two out of 0:00:40.080 --> 0:00:44.000 the three Outspoken Triplets have come to Judge Gina's courtroom 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:48.239 to settle a wedding date clash. Sophie Torbo claims that 0:00:48.280 --> 0:00:51.839 her sister, business partner and friend, Amy, has set her 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:56.800 wedding date too close to her own for compensation. Sophie 0:00:56.840 --> 0:01:00.560 is demanding that Amy publicly apologizes at her wedding. 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:03.160 My name is Sophie and you might have heard me 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:06.399 on Outspoken the podcast. I have come to Judge Gina 0:01:06.520 --> 0:01:09.280 because I have an issue with my sister's wedding date. 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:12.600 She has locked in her wedding for seven weeks before mine, 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:15.039 and this was after I had already had mine locked 0:01:15.080 --> 0:01:16.119 in for nine months. 0:01:16.640 --> 0:01:18.959 I'm Amy and I'm from Outspoken the podcast. 0:01:19.240 --> 0:01:21.760 I've been brought to Judge Gina because I'm having my 0:01:21.840 --> 0:01:25.080 wedding two months after my sisters and she's taken great 0:01:25.120 --> 0:01:27.960 offense to this. So growing up as triplets, we've always 0:01:28.000 --> 0:01:30.200 had to share everything. So I was just hoping for 0:01:30.280 --> 0:01:32.120 my wedding, for the lead up to be about me 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:34.399 and my partner and to have things separate for once. 0:01:34.760 --> 0:01:36.319 So my sister Sophie and I. 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:39.240 We also run a business together and also a podcast, 0:01:39.280 --> 0:01:42.199 so we spend nearly twenty four to seven with each other. 0:01:42.840 --> 0:01:45.720 So I'm looking for Amy to make a genuine apology 0:01:45.840 --> 0:01:48.640 during her Mate of Honor speech. I also think it 0:01:48.680 --> 0:01:50.800 would be appropriate if she fit the bill for some 0:01:50.840 --> 0:01:51.120 of the. 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:52.320 Hen's party today. 0:01:52.440 --> 0:01:55.480 I'm Countess doing Sophie for pain and suffering. She's taken 0:01:55.520 --> 0:01:57.320 a bit of fun out of the whole wedding planning 0:01:57.400 --> 0:02:01.480 experience for me because of her overreaction, So I'm wanting 0:02:01.520 --> 0:02:03.680 her to put the bill to have our packers at 0:02:03.680 --> 0:02:05.480 our wedding day, which a little bit random, but it 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:06.400 should be really fun. 0:02:12.160 --> 0:02:13.840 Court is now in session. 0:02:14.400 --> 0:02:16.720 Please rise for Judge. 0:02:16.440 --> 0:02:20.560 Gina, Amy and Sophie. 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:23.720 You are too out of a set of triplets, Is 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:25.320 that right? Yeah? 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:26.000 That's correct? 0:02:26.240 --> 0:02:27.560 So are you living together. 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:30.400 Your sister's Kate, Is that right, So there's Amy, Sophie 0:02:30.400 --> 0:02:30.800 and Kate. 0:02:31.200 --> 0:02:31.440 Yeah. 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:33.800 No, we used to all live together up until we 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:36.880 were thirty, we all, but we all live with our 0:02:36.960 --> 0:02:38.120 fiances and partners. 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:41.440 Now, so did you live together out of home or 0:02:41.520 --> 0:02:44.160 you just grew up together and then all moved to 0:02:44.240 --> 0:02:45.440 your own locations. 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:47.600 No, we all rented together. 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:50.040 So that was an interesting time actually having to be 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:53.120 adults and then live with your sisters. So judged Gina, 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:56.840 the fights that went on at that rental, the poor neighbors. 0:02:57.080 --> 0:02:59.480 Constance at home, your poor parents. 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:02.080 Oh yes, they were happy when we moved out. 0:03:02.560 --> 0:03:04.520 So when did you all start working together? 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:08.840 We started working together three years ago now in podcasting 0:03:08.919 --> 0:03:13.080 and sof and I've been business partners for six years now. 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:16.359 So three years ago in podcasting and six years what's 0:03:16.400 --> 0:03:16.960 your business. 0:03:17.200 --> 0:03:18.200 It's called Hullo Media. 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:21.239 It's a PR and digital agency. So yeah, our lives 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:22.480 are very interlocked. 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:26.800 So well, congratulations girls. You both engaged to be married. 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:30.280 Thank you, and you've come to me today. It seems 0:03:30.320 --> 0:03:33.440 that you both have an issue with each other and 0:03:33.480 --> 0:03:35.440 that is the timing of your wedding plans. 0:03:35.640 --> 0:03:37.800 That's right, Judge Gina, Sophie, how long have you been 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:38.560 with your partner? 0:03:39.040 --> 0:03:41.280 I've been with my partner for almost seven years, and 0:03:41.280 --> 0:03:42.200 what about you, Amy? 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:45.760 For five years? No, six years, sorry, Judge Gina. 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:50.680 On Sophie's application, it says to me that you both 0:03:50.720 --> 0:03:54.160 got engaged on the same day and that your partners 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:56.320 thought Christmas Eve would be a special day to pop 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:59.080 the question, and they were unaware they both had the 0:03:59.120 --> 0:03:59.760 same plan. 0:04:00.080 --> 0:04:03.360 So basically, Judge Gena, what happened is I arrived very 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:07.920 excited that Dale had proposed. Sophie's partner's face dropped when 0:04:07.920 --> 0:04:10.960 he heard the news, and then that's because he'd been 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:13.640 planning to pop the question when Sophie got home that night, 0:04:13.880 --> 0:04:16.320 so he created a sign I see. 0:04:16.440 --> 0:04:16.800 Okay. 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:19.360 He did contact his parents seeing if they could quickly 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:21.800 take the sign down and the lights, but they live 0:04:22.160 --> 0:04:24.240 quite far from us, so they couldn't remove it all 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:26.480 because he really didn't want us to have to share 0:04:26.720 --> 0:04:28.880 another thing, because all through life we've had to share 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:30.240 a lot of moments together. 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:33.719 My issue, Sophie, what's your issue? 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:37.480 My issue is that Amy has planned her wedding seven 0:04:37.520 --> 0:04:42.320 weeks apart from mine. So I started looking for locations 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:45.479 a couple of months after I got engaged. So I 0:04:45.480 --> 0:04:49.560 started looking in April of twenty twenty one, and I 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:53.760 locked in a location that month. So it was it 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:56.960 was almost two years out from my future wedding date. 0:04:57.080 --> 0:05:00.080 So I locked in for March twenty twenty four. I 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:03.360 had about almost two years of planning, and Amy didn't 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:07.920 start looking until nine months after me. So I think 0:05:07.920 --> 0:05:10.160 that she should have been a little bit more considerate 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:12.120 and not planned so close. 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:15.159 Well okay, well I'm going to go to Amy. Now, Amy, 0:05:15.160 --> 0:05:16.800 why didn't you pick another date? 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:20.560 I didn't pick another date because the date that came 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:25.200 available was my grandparents' wedding anniversary. There were three dates available. 0:05:25.240 --> 0:05:28.599 Two were in October twenty twenty three. The other date 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:31.760 was January thirteenth, and so I thought that would be 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:34.680 amazing because it would feel like they were somehow involved 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:38.640 in the day. Also, being January, it's holidays, so if 0:05:38.640 --> 0:05:40.920 we had people coming from inter state, it would make 0:05:40.960 --> 0:05:43.960 it a better advantage they could go on holiday. I 0:05:44.000 --> 0:05:46.479 also think it's disrespectful to your partner because it was 0:05:46.520 --> 0:05:48.960 one day before his actual birthday. So I think you're 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:51.120 taking a bit of shine away from his day as well. 0:05:51.360 --> 0:05:54.280 No, that can be Oh, well. 0:05:54.040 --> 0:05:55.719 It's thirty sixth birthday. 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:57.800 How do you know he might how do you know 0:05:57.920 --> 0:06:01.200 that's taking shine away? He might actually think that's fantastic 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:04.599 because you can celebrate his birthday with everybody at a 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:05.599 wedding the next day. 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:08.280 Well, each to their own. 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:10.200 I suppose that's right. All right. 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:14.800 Well, so you felt sentimental about January thirteen, twenty twenty four, 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:18.800 but you knew the date of the ninth of March. Yeah, 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:21.719 for Sophie, you knew that was her wedding date, that 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:24.760 it was only going to be a couple of months apart. Amy, 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:29.720 When you told Sophie about your plan, did you feel 0:06:29.720 --> 0:06:32.279 like a bit sheepish about? Oh, you have to break 0:06:32.320 --> 0:06:33.880 this to her? How am I going to say it? 0:06:34.000 --> 0:06:36.320 Did you feel like that initially? 0:06:36.320 --> 0:06:40.880 I wasn't. It was the reaction that I from. She's 0:06:40.880 --> 0:06:41.800 actually never told no. 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:44.040 So what happened is I told her the three dates 0:06:44.040 --> 0:06:46.680 and then I said that it looks like we're going 0:06:46.760 --> 0:06:48.760 to have to go with January because. 0:06:49.040 --> 0:06:50.960 You told us three dates to soften the blow. 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:55.360 You already knew you were choosing January. 0:06:55.880 --> 0:06:56.359 Why did you? 0:06:56.600 --> 0:06:59.479 I mean, that doesn't make sense, because Sophie's complained and 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:01.680 you've gone bang genuine. 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:04.479 Well, to be honest, Gina, my concern over October was 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:07.680 because it would take so long to get dresses, bridesmaids 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:08.920 dresses you. 0:07:10.920 --> 0:07:13.360 With no this was in this was this. 0:07:13.360 --> 0:07:17.440 Was December, sorry, December of twenty twenty two, and this 0:07:17.560 --> 0:07:19.000 was October twenty twenty. 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:20.680 Three, so it was less less than a year. 0:07:20.720 --> 0:07:22.000 So ten times. 0:07:23.280 --> 0:07:25.880 Well, I didn't think it was enough time to lock everything. 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:27.160 You're telling me. 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:30.120 You told me it's because it's your grandparents anniversary and 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:33.559 you're sentimental, so you knew that you were only telling 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:36.520 your sister three dates to try and soften the blow. 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:39.280 Don't worry, I don't want to hear any more. Sophie. 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:41.840 How did it go? Did you have an argument together? 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:42.840 Well? 0:07:42.880 --> 0:07:46.040 The worst thing was I thought that she was still deciding, 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:48.320 so she told me that she was thinking about it. 0:07:48.360 --> 0:07:50.560 And the only way that I actually found out was 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:53.200 because I gave my mam a call and I'm like, oh, 0:07:53.240 --> 0:07:53.640 where are. 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:53.960 You off to? 0:07:54.080 --> 0:07:55.760 And she said, oh, I'm just at the bank picking 0:07:55.840 --> 0:07:58.640 up the book deposit for Amy's venue, and I was like, 0:07:58.720 --> 0:07:59.680 what have they gone? Her? 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:02.600 Everybody was too scared to say anything. Even my mom 0:08:03.640 --> 0:08:03.880 was a. 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:08.240 Big deal evolving. Okay, because you knew that it wouldn't 0:08:08.280 --> 0:08:08.800 be nice. 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:11.720 No, because we knew Sophie's reaction is so over the 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:12.680 top about everything. 0:08:12.760 --> 0:08:13.800 She's a bit of a diva. 0:08:14.000 --> 0:08:17.200 You like that, Sophie, It's not no, I'm not at all. 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:20.240 I'm my maintenance is the way i'd say. I don't 0:08:20.240 --> 0:08:21.120 think there's anything. 0:08:20.840 --> 0:08:23.440 Wrong with being home maintenance, but I would more describe 0:08:23.440 --> 0:08:25.120 myself as maybe a sensitive soul. 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:26.520 So I was just a little bit hurt. 0:08:26.760 --> 0:08:27.120 Sophie. 0:08:27.160 --> 0:08:29.200 What did you say? Did you have an argument about it? 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:31.800 Or did you just say, well, I hope you're choosing October? 0:08:33.080 --> 0:08:33.280 Yeah? 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:35.720 I mean I think that it ended up in probably 0:08:35.760 --> 0:08:37.480 an argument. I remember we were on a walk together. 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:39.760 I think you actually ended up storming off Amy because 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:41.320 you didn't want to hear my point. She was also 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:43.600 mentioned at a number of Christmas parties in front of people, 0:08:43.640 --> 0:08:46.400 Sophie decided to ask people's opinions and they got extremely 0:08:46.440 --> 0:08:46.959 heated in. 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:50.040 Front of that wasn't very nice, Sophie. What about Kate 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:52.040 did she brought into the argument? 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:55.720 Kate is team Sophie, So Kate thinks it's a little 0:08:55.720 --> 0:08:57.560 bit sneaky and a bit sonny. 0:08:57.600 --> 0:08:59.440 You say that because Kate's told me differently as well 0:08:59.520 --> 0:08:59.959 judged Gina. 0:09:00.160 --> 0:09:02.440 So you guys have a podcast. Do you work together? 0:09:02.679 --> 0:09:03.839 Is Kate on the podcast? 0:09:04.600 --> 0:09:04.840 Yeah? 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:08.160 We always? How many times have you thrash this out 0:09:08.200 --> 0:09:08.880 for your listeners? 0:09:09.040 --> 0:09:10.880 I think they're bloody overhearing about it. 0:09:11.160 --> 0:09:13.360 So we've got to put it to bed. So will 0:09:13.400 --> 0:09:17.240 you agree when I make a ruling today that that 0:09:17.400 --> 0:09:18.319 will put it to bed? 0:09:19.120 --> 0:09:19.800 Yes? 0:09:20.160 --> 0:09:22.520 I must say we did get messages from listeners of 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:25.160 the podcast who said, I don't know what Soph's going 0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:27.559 on about, like it's too much if us first, or 0:09:27.600 --> 0:09:29.560 I think we'll respect Judge Gena. 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:33.120 Of course, of course I'm happy to put it to bed, but. 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:37.040 I am interested to hear what your listeners have been saying. 0:09:37.120 --> 0:09:39.600 They think that Sophie's overreacting a bit. 0:09:40.120 --> 0:09:42.240 I think this was a handful of people's comments. I 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:45.800 think a selective Who what's the big deal? 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:49.880 It's two months for you and that's why you're here 0:09:50.280 --> 0:09:53.720 because Sophie doesn't agree and Kate doesn't agree. 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:55.360 What about your mum? Mum? 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:57.120 I think is actually on my cycle? 0:09:57.200 --> 0:09:59.880 Why do you think she's on your side what she said, Sophie, 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:02.120 you agree your mum's on Amy's side. 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:06.400 I think mum knows that Amy's a bit disorganized, and 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:09.040 I think Mum just wanted her to lock in a date, 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:11.520 so she was happy for her to choose any date 0:10:11.559 --> 0:10:13.120 that was available, because I think there was a bit 0:10:13.160 --> 0:10:15.640 of fear happening that she might have to wait even longer. 0:10:15.640 --> 0:10:18.040 Can I asked the question though, because the October dates 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:20.920 did fill up really quickly, and you know you you 0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:23.360 even told me I don't think that's enough time for 0:10:23.400 --> 0:10:25.600 you to organize the wedding. When did you want me 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:28.160 to get married? Because that's the issue, Gina, I'm thirty four. 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:30.720 She was saying, you know, if you don't like October, 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:32.880 why don't you get married in January twenty twenty five. 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:33.959 No, I didn't say that. 0:10:34.400 --> 0:10:36.840 If you're getting older and you're running out of time, 0:10:36.920 --> 0:10:41.280 then the October date is better. So that's the date 0:10:41.360 --> 0:10:44.240 she's saying. So I don't think you can take that 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:45.400 argument very far. 0:10:45.880 --> 0:10:47.360 And why did you wait a year to look? 0:10:47.400 --> 0:10:51.080 Then you got proposed to in December twenty twenty December? 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:54.240 She can wait as long as she wants if. 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:56.840 There was such a concern from Sophie and her partner 0:10:56.880 --> 0:10:58.160 about the wedding dates. 0:10:57.920 --> 0:11:01.520 Being so close, but I didn't is she so? Yeah? 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:04.320 So why why does your. 0:11:04.200 --> 0:11:06.439 Partner have an issue about Amy's wedding date. 0:11:07.280 --> 0:11:09.320 Oh, he hasn't verbalized it to her. I think he's 0:11:09.360 --> 0:11:10.720 just a bit up. Just find my back. 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:13.760 You have said in your application, though, that you do 0:11:13.880 --> 0:11:16.720 have guests coming from interstate, so that can be problematic 0:11:16.760 --> 0:11:18.480 because there's a cost associated with. 0:11:18.880 --> 0:11:21.040 Being at the wedding. Tell me about that. 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:24.400 Yeah, I just think we've got family from interstate who 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:27.360 when I told them about the wedding dates, they were 0:11:27.360 --> 0:11:29.520 already telling me that they won't be able to make it. 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:31.439 So that was true. 0:11:31.800 --> 0:11:34.040 What to both or any of them. 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:35.280 That they won't be able to make it. They'll have 0:11:35.320 --> 0:11:36.840 to choose between the two weddings. 0:11:37.200 --> 0:11:39.000 Oh, I don't know what a cousin. 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:43.680 This is one relative and Sophie's already put her invites 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:46.520 out before me, judge genus. So people will be booking 0:11:46.559 --> 0:11:48.240 in to go to hers first, and that's why I 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:50.400 allowed her because of that issue. 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:54.160 No, it doesn't always work like that. Doesn't always work. 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:57.080 Like that, because sometimes people wait for closer to the 0:11:57.120 --> 0:12:01.240 event to book flights, So I don't agree with that. 0:12:01.360 --> 0:12:03.240 I think if there's a wedding in January, or. 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:06.440 Your book your flight maybe November December, some people are 0:12:06.440 --> 0:12:09.000 a bit more organized than that, but we can't anticipate 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:09.680 that entirely. 0:12:09.840 --> 0:12:13.680 I've let Sophie do everything ahead of me, So because 0:12:13.720 --> 0:12:16.760 you've chosen to, that's because you're disorganized. No, she's got 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:18.880 I allowed her to get all her wedding invites out, 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:21.160 set the date for her hens party. I made it 0:12:21.200 --> 0:12:23.680 clear that I didn't want to impact her day. 0:12:23.880 --> 0:12:25.440 How many people have you got at your wedding? 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:28.080 I'm having around one hundred and forty. 0:12:28.360 --> 0:12:31.040 All right? And how many are you having, Sophie. 0:12:30.960 --> 0:12:31.959 I'm having one hundred. 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:34.360 Are you asking for gifts or have you got a 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:36.960 wishing well? Or what's the situation with gifting? 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:38.640 Oh, we both got a wishing well. 0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:43.640 So yeah, it'll be hopefully a monetary contribution being put forward. 0:12:44.559 --> 0:12:48.439 So monetary contribution from your guests, is that what you're saying. 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:51.320 I mean, I can't remember the little polite poem where 0:12:51.360 --> 0:12:53.200 you basically ask for money, but yeah, it will be 0:12:53.200 --> 0:12:53.880 a wishing well. 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:55.800 And what have you put on yours. 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:58.840 Amy, I haven't officially put it out, we haven't sent 0:12:58.920 --> 0:12:59.480 us out yet. 0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:01.600 But being thirty four owning. 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:03.520 A home, we've already got a lot of cooking stuff 0:13:03.559 --> 0:13:05.640 and all that sort of stuff you generally get given 0:13:05.679 --> 0:13:08.680 as a wedding. So we'd prefer money, to be honest. 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:10.800 So how are you going? How do you ask your 0:13:10.800 --> 0:13:14.520 guests for money? Just say, hey, nice thought, but we'd 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:15.640 actually prefer money. 0:13:17.160 --> 0:13:19.120 I think, as Sophie said, there's a cute little poem 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:22.160 that most people put that's say a lot of your attendants. 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:24.360 But well, I had a cute little couple here the 0:13:24.400 --> 0:13:27.480 other day who were asking their guests to pay. 0:13:27.520 --> 0:13:30.240 I saw that that's not a well for the food 0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:33.520 to attend to fifty dollars basically a ticket. 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:37.360 Oh that's cheeky. Yeah, that's not on Amy. 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:40.200 With the cost associated with the wedding in January, have 0:13:40.320 --> 0:13:41.200 you looked into that? 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:45.200 No, to be honest, we haven't particularly looked into it 0:13:45.240 --> 0:13:48.560 because most of our guests are in Adelaide. We actually 0:13:48.559 --> 0:13:53.040 haven't even sent our invites out doing that this week, so. 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:54.960 It's just your family that are into state. Does your 0:13:55.000 --> 0:13:57.360 partner have interstate relatives? 0:13:58.240 --> 0:13:59.520 When we say family's. 0:13:59.679 --> 0:14:02.600 It's a few aunties and cousins are interstate that are 0:14:02.640 --> 0:14:03.800 sort of up in the air. 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:05.360 They're in Sydney and Perth. 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:08.760 How much is an airfare from Adelaide to from Sydney 0:14:08.800 --> 0:14:09.599 to Adelaide? 0:14:11.320 --> 0:14:13.040 Not much, No, A couple hundred dollars. 0:14:13.200 --> 0:14:16.439 Yeah, and I was told some relatives from Sydney might 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:18.920 be coming over anyway around January to make the most 0:14:18.920 --> 0:14:20.240 of the school holidays. 0:14:20.240 --> 0:14:21.200 A holidays, it's right. 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:24.880 So, Sophie, if you're genuinely worried about it, I mean, 0:14:24.920 --> 0:14:27.360 I know you've had it booked for some time, so 0:14:27.600 --> 0:14:30.040 the option may not be available for you to change 0:14:30.120 --> 0:14:30.560 the date. 0:14:30.880 --> 0:14:32.600 But did you explore that I. 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:35.040 Couldn't actually change mine because all of my vendors by 0:14:35.040 --> 0:14:37.280 that stage had been locked in as well. I just 0:14:37.320 --> 0:14:41.040 want her to be mindful that it has caused some issues, 0:14:41.080 --> 0:14:44.000 because now our hens parties are really close. I think 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:45.840 it's quite inconsiderate. 0:14:45.240 --> 0:14:48.720 For why don't you just do them together? After the chase? 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:52.239 You share the wound, share the wedding date, share the photographer, 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:54.480 share the designer. 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:57.240 Just share everything. What's the resistance here? Can't you see? 0:14:57.400 --> 0:14:59.360 The universe has got a hold of you and just 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:02.440 cut a whole you together in everything. 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:02.560 That you do. 0:15:03.160 --> 0:15:04.920 Dud. You know, we just don't want to end up 0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:07.320 in new idea as those freaky sisters who got married 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:08.840 on the same day. That's what saying. 0:15:09.480 --> 0:15:12.280 So, Amy, you will have a Hans Night a couple 0:15:12.320 --> 0:15:14.280 of weeks before your wedding? Would that be right? 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:18.120 I'm having my hands in November and then Soph's having 0:15:18.160 --> 0:15:19.040 hers in December. 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:21.360 Okay, when did you decide on that? 0:15:21.840 --> 0:15:23.960 Well? I did want to have mine closer to my wedding, 0:15:24.000 --> 0:15:27.320 but unfortunately Amy is going on her honeymoon straight after. 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:30.400 Have you got a lot of mutual friends? They will? 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:32.720 They both be coming to We've been. 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:35.880 A very similar friendship group so apart from the friends 0:15:35.880 --> 0:15:38.000 that we've made through our partners, so it will be 0:15:38.000 --> 0:15:39.040 the same group of girls. 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:39.280 Again. 0:15:39.360 --> 0:15:42.800 I feel awkward asking them to all pay so close 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:43.320 to one another. 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:46.320 What's it going to cost? What's your hands not costing 0:15:46.320 --> 0:15:46.640 for them? 0:15:46.840 --> 0:15:48.360 I think like one hundred dollars ahead. 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:50.520 How many guests that your Han's Night? 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:53.160 I think I've got twenty three? 0:15:53.360 --> 0:15:56.880 Twenty three? Okay, all right, what's the plan for the 0:15:56.880 --> 0:15:57.560 Hens party? 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:01.960 So we're just doing just a dinner added a nice 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:04.920 restaurant and then going out to town afterwards. 0:16:04.920 --> 0:16:06.480 So nothing too too much. 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:08.920 Carry too much towards us, nothing like that. 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:12.200 No, no strippers. I'm not judge, Gina. Do you know 0:16:12.280 --> 0:16:13.160 the judge, Gina? 0:16:13.200 --> 0:16:16.360 Do you know the fuss that went into naming Sophie's 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:17.040 hens party? 0:16:17.240 --> 0:16:17.320 No? 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:19.920 Is it? Does it have a name? What's it called? 0:16:20.160 --> 0:16:24.000 It's it's ladulchi vita, And it's why I had. 0:16:24.400 --> 0:16:26.920 You've stolen that from someone else? And what you had 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:28.560 a lot of fus coming up with the name that 0:16:28.600 --> 0:16:29.720 you stole from someone else. 0:16:30.080 --> 0:16:32.120 Yeah, it's a theme. 0:16:32.160 --> 0:16:32.440 It's a. 0:16:34.200 --> 0:16:35.920 Dress up you want to dress like. 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:38.640 Yeah, it's just more of an Italian sort of summer 0:16:39.000 --> 0:16:39.680 summer vibes. 0:16:39.800 --> 0:16:43.720 So i'd see, all right, and what about you Amy? 0:16:44.560 --> 0:16:45.560 How many yours? 0:16:45.800 --> 0:16:45.960 Oh? 0:16:46.120 --> 0:16:50.720 How many guests? Uh? I think it's around thirty five 0:16:50.880 --> 0:16:51.600 or something like that. 0:16:51.720 --> 0:16:52.760 Gosh, where are you going? 0:16:53.320 --> 0:16:56.200 We're actually doing it at my house. So this is 0:16:56.240 --> 0:16:58.120 the other thing, Gina. Maybe this is we have to 0:16:58.160 --> 0:17:00.680 plan her hands party in in her back. So it's 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:02.360 going to be a bit of an it's a tennis theme, 0:17:02.520 --> 0:17:04.880