1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: You are now entering the court of Judge Gina Leano. 2 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 2: They say a sister is a dearest friend, a closest enemy, 3 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 2: and an angel at a time of need. But when 4 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 2: your sister has become more devil and less ally, you 5 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 2: come to my courtroom. I am Judge Gina, and my 6 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 2: decision is final. 7 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:34,840 Speaker 3: You better be ready to hear my ruling. 8 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: These sisters are doing it for themselves. Two out of 9 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 1: the three Outspoken Triplets have come to Judge Gina's courtroom 10 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 1: to settle a wedding date clash. Sophie Torbo claims that 11 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 1: her sister, business partner and friend, Amy, has set her 12 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: wedding date too close to her own for compensation. Sophie 13 00:00:56,840 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 1: is demanding that Amy publicly apologizes at her wedding. 14 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 4: My name is Sophie and you might have heard me 15 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 4: on Outspoken the podcast. I have come to Judge Gina 16 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 4: because I have an issue with my sister's wedding date. 17 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 4: She has locked in her wedding for seven weeks before mine, 18 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 4: and this was after I had already had mine locked 19 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:16,119 Speaker 4: in for nine months. 20 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:18,959 Speaker 5: I'm Amy and I'm from Outspoken the podcast. 21 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 4: I've been brought to Judge Gina because I'm having my 22 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 4: wedding two months after my sisters and she's taken great 23 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 4: offense to this. So growing up as triplets, we've always 24 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 4: had to share everything. So I was just hoping for 25 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 4: my wedding, for the lead up to be about me 26 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 4: and my partner and to have things separate for once. 27 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 5: So my sister Sophie and I. 28 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 4: We also run a business together and also a podcast, 29 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:42,199 Speaker 4: so we spend nearly twenty four to seven with each other. 30 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 4: So I'm looking for Amy to make a genuine apology 31 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 4: during her Mate of Honor speech. I also think it 32 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 4: would be appropriate if she fit the bill for some 33 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 4: of the. 34 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 3: Hen's party today. 35 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 4: I'm Countess doing Sophie for pain and suffering. She's taken 36 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 4: a bit of fun out of the whole wedding planning 37 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 4: experience for me because of her overreaction, So I'm wanting 38 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 4: her to put the bill to have our packers at 39 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 4: our wedding day, which a little bit random, but it 40 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 4: should be really fun. 41 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: Court is now in session. 42 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 3: Please rise for Judge. 43 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 2: Gina, Amy and Sophie. 44 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 3: You are too out of a set of triplets, Is 45 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 3: that right? Yeah? 46 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 5: That's correct? 47 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 3: So are you living together. 48 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 2: Your sister's Kate, Is that right, So there's Amy, Sophie 49 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 2: and Kate. 50 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 51 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 4: No, we used to all live together up until we 52 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 4: were thirty, we all, but we all live with our 53 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 4: fiances and partners. 54 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 2: Now, so did you live together out of home or 55 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 2: you just grew up together and then all moved to 56 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 2: your own locations. 57 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 5: No, we all rented together. 58 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 4: So that was an interesting time actually having to be 59 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 4: adults and then live with your sisters. So judged Gina, 60 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 4: the fights that went on at that rental, the poor neighbors. 61 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 3: Constance at home, your poor parents. 62 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,080 Speaker 5: Oh yes, they were happy when we moved out. 63 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 3: So when did you all start working together? 64 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 4: We started working together three years ago now in podcasting 65 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 4: and sof and I've been business partners for six years now. 66 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 3: So three years ago in podcasting and six years what's 67 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 3: your business. 68 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 5: It's called Hullo Media. 69 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:21,239 Speaker 4: It's a PR and digital agency. So yeah, our lives 70 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 4: are very interlocked. 71 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 2: So well, congratulations girls. You both engaged to be married. 72 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 2: Thank you, and you've come to me today. It seems 73 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 2: that you both have an issue with each other and 74 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 2: that is the timing of your wedding plans. 75 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 3: That's right, Judge Gina, Sophie, how long have you been 76 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 3: with your partner? 77 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 4: I've been with my partner for almost seven years, and 78 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 4: what about you, Amy? 79 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 5: For five years? No, six years, sorry, Judge Gina. 80 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 2: On Sophie's application, it says to me that you both 81 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 2: got engaged on the same day and that your partners 82 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 2: thought Christmas Eve would be a special day to pop 83 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 2: the question, and they were unaware they both had the 84 00:03:59,120 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 2: same plan. 85 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 4: So basically, Judge Gena, what happened is I arrived very 86 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 4: excited that Dale had proposed. Sophie's partner's face dropped when 87 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 4: he heard the news, and then that's because he'd been 88 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 4: planning to pop the question when Sophie got home that night, 89 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 4: so he created a sign I see. 90 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 3: Okay. 91 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 4: He did contact his parents seeing if they could quickly 92 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 4: take the sign down and the lights, but they live 93 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 4: quite far from us, so they couldn't remove it all 94 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,480 Speaker 4: because he really didn't want us to have to share 95 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 4: another thing, because all through life we've had to share 96 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 4: a lot of moments together. 97 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 3: My issue, Sophie, what's your issue? 98 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 4: My issue is that Amy has planned her wedding seven 99 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 4: weeks apart from mine. So I started looking for locations 100 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,479 Speaker 4: a couple of months after I got engaged. So I 101 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 4: started looking in April of twenty twenty one, and I 102 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 4: locked in a location that month. So it was it 103 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 4: was almost two years out from my future wedding date. 104 00:04:57,080 --> 00:05:00,080 Speaker 4: So I locked in for March twenty twenty four. I 105 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 4: had about almost two years of planning, and Amy didn't 106 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 4: start looking until nine months after me. So I think 107 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 4: that she should have been a little bit more considerate 108 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 4: and not planned so close. 109 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 3: Well okay, well I'm going to go to Amy. Now, Amy, 110 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 3: why didn't you pick another date? 111 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 4: I didn't pick another date because the date that came 112 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 4: available was my grandparents' wedding anniversary. There were three dates available. 113 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 4: Two were in October twenty twenty three. The other date 114 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 4: was January thirteenth, and so I thought that would be 115 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 4: amazing because it would feel like they were somehow involved 116 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 4: in the day. Also, being January, it's holidays, so if 117 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 4: we had people coming from inter state, it would make 118 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 4: it a better advantage they could go on holiday. I 119 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:46,479 Speaker 4: also think it's disrespectful to your partner because it was 120 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 4: one day before his actual birthday. So I think you're 121 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 4: taking a bit of shine away from his day as well. 122 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 3: No, that can be Oh, well. 123 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 5: It's thirty sixth birthday. 124 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 2: How do you know he might how do you know 125 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 2: that's taking shine away? He might actually think that's fantastic 126 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 2: because you can celebrate his birthday with everybody at a 127 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:05,599 Speaker 2: wedding the next day. 128 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 5: Well, each to their own. 129 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 3: I suppose that's right. All right. 130 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 2: Well, so you felt sentimental about January thirteen, twenty twenty four, 131 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 2: but you knew the date of the ninth of March. Yeah, 132 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 2: for Sophie, you knew that was her wedding date, that 133 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 2: it was only going to be a couple of months apart. Amy, 134 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:29,720 Speaker 2: When you told Sophie about your plan, did you feel 135 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 2: like a bit sheepish about? Oh, you have to break 136 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 2: this to her? How am I going to say it? 137 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 3: Did you feel like that initially? 138 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 5: I wasn't. It was the reaction that I from. She's 139 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 5: actually never told no. 140 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,040 Speaker 4: So what happened is I told her the three dates 141 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 4: and then I said that it looks like we're going 142 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 4: to have to go with January because. 143 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 3: You told us three dates to soften the blow. 144 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 2: You already knew you were choosing January. 145 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:56,359 Speaker 3: Why did you? 146 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 2: I mean, that doesn't make sense, because Sophie's complained and 147 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 2: you've gone bang genuine. 148 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:04,479 Speaker 4: Well, to be honest, Gina, my concern over October was 149 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 4: because it would take so long to get dresses, bridesmaids 150 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 4: dresses you. 151 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 5: With no this was in this was this. 152 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 4: Was December, sorry, December of twenty twenty two, and this 153 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 4: was October twenty twenty. 154 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 5: Three, so it was less less than a year. 155 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 3: So ten times. 156 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 5: Well, I didn't think it was enough time to lock everything. 157 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 3: You're telling me. 158 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 2: You told me it's because it's your grandparents anniversary and 159 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:33,559 Speaker 2: you're sentimental, so you knew that you were only telling 160 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 2: your sister three dates to try and soften the blow. 161 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 2: Don't worry, I don't want to hear any more. Sophie. 162 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 2: How did it go? Did you have an argument together? 163 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 1: Well? 164 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 4: The worst thing was I thought that she was still deciding, 165 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 4: so she told me that she was thinking about it. 166 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 4: And the only way that I actually found out was 167 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 4: because I gave my mam a call and I'm like, oh, 168 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 4: where are. 169 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 5: You off to? 170 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 4: And she said, oh, I'm just at the bank picking 171 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 4: up the book deposit for Amy's venue, and I was like, 172 00:07:58,720 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 4: what have they gone? Her? 173 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 5: Everybody was too scared to say anything. Even my mom 174 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 5: was a. 175 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 3: Big deal evolving. Okay, because you knew that it wouldn't 176 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 3: be nice. 177 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 4: No, because we knew Sophie's reaction is so over the 178 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 4: top about everything. 179 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 5: She's a bit of a diva. 180 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 3: You like that, Sophie, It's not no, I'm not at all. 181 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 5: I'm my maintenance is the way i'd say. I don't 182 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 5: think there's anything. 183 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 4: Wrong with being home maintenance, but I would more describe 184 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 4: myself as maybe a sensitive soul. 185 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 5: So I was just a little bit hurt. 186 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 3: Sophie. 187 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 2: What did you say? Did you have an argument about it? 188 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 2: Or did you just say, well, I hope you're choosing October? 189 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? 190 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 4: I mean I think that it ended up in probably 191 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 4: an argument. I remember we were on a walk together. 192 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 4: I think you actually ended up storming off Amy because 193 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:41,320 Speaker 4: you didn't want to hear my point. She was also 194 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 4: mentioned at a number of Christmas parties in front of people, 195 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 4: Sophie decided to ask people's opinions and they got extremely 196 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:46,959 Speaker 4: heated in. 197 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 3: Front of that wasn't very nice, Sophie. What about Kate 198 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 3: did she brought into the argument? 199 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 4: Kate is team Sophie, So Kate thinks it's a little 200 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 4: bit sneaky and a bit sonny. 201 00:08:57,600 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 5: You say that because Kate's told me differently as well 202 00:08:59,520 --> 00:08:59,959 Speaker 5: judged Gina. 203 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 2: So you guys have a podcast. Do you work together? 204 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:03,839 Speaker 2: Is Kate on the podcast? 205 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 4: Yeah? 206 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 3: We always? How many times have you thrash this out 207 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 3: for your listeners? 208 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 5: I think they're bloody overhearing about it. 209 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 3: So we've got to put it to bed. So will 210 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 3: you agree when I make a ruling today that that 211 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:18,319 Speaker 3: will put it to bed? 212 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 5: Yes? 213 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 4: I must say we did get messages from listeners of 214 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 4: the podcast who said, I don't know what Soph's going 215 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:27,559 Speaker 4: on about, like it's too much if us first, or 216 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:29,560 Speaker 4: I think we'll respect Judge Gena. 217 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 5: Of course, of course I'm happy to put it to bed, but. 218 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 2: I am interested to hear what your listeners have been saying. 219 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 2: They think that Sophie's overreacting a bit. 220 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 4: I think this was a handful of people's comments. I 221 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 4: think a selective Who what's the big deal? 222 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 2: It's two months for you and that's why you're here 223 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 2: because Sophie doesn't agree and Kate doesn't agree. 224 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 3: What about your mum? Mum? 225 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 5: I think is actually on my cycle? 226 00:09:57,200 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 2: Why do you think she's on your side what she said, Sophie, 227 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 2: you agree your mum's on Amy's side. 228 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 4: I think mum knows that Amy's a bit disorganized, and 229 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 4: I think Mum just wanted her to lock in a date, 230 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 4: so she was happy for her to choose any date 231 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 4: that was available, because I think there was a bit 232 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 4: of fear happening that she might have to wait even longer. 233 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 4: Can I asked the question though, because the October dates 234 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 4: did fill up really quickly, and you know you you 235 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 4: even told me I don't think that's enough time for 236 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 4: you to organize the wedding. When did you want me 237 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 4: to get married? Because that's the issue, Gina, I'm thirty four. 238 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 4: She was saying, you know, if you don't like October, 239 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 4: why don't you get married in January twenty twenty five. 240 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:33,959 Speaker 5: No, I didn't say that. 241 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 2: If you're getting older and you're running out of time, 242 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 2: then the October date is better. So that's the date 243 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 2: she's saying. So I don't think you can take that 244 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 2: argument very far. 245 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 5: And why did you wait a year to look? 246 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:51,080 Speaker 4: Then you got proposed to in December twenty twenty December? 247 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 3: She can wait as long as she wants if. 248 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 4: There was such a concern from Sophie and her partner 249 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 4: about the wedding dates. 250 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 3: Being so close, but I didn't is she so? Yeah? 251 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 5: So why why does your. 252 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:06,439 Speaker 3: Partner have an issue about Amy's wedding date. 253 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 5: Oh, he hasn't verbalized it to her. I think he's 254 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 5: just a bit up. Just find my back. 255 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 2: You have said in your application, though, that you do 256 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:16,720 Speaker 2: have guests coming from interstate, so that can be problematic 257 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 2: because there's a cost associated with. 258 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 3: Being at the wedding. Tell me about that. 259 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, I just think we've got family from interstate who 260 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 4: when I told them about the wedding dates, they were 261 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 4: already telling me that they won't be able to make it. 262 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:31,439 Speaker 5: So that was true. 263 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 3: What to both or any of them. 264 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 4: That they won't be able to make it. They'll have 265 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 4: to choose between the two weddings. 266 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 5: Oh, I don't know what a cousin. 267 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 4: This is one relative and Sophie's already put her invites 268 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 4: out before me, judge genus. So people will be booking 269 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 4: in to go to hers first, and that's why I 270 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 4: allowed her because of that issue. 271 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 3: No, it doesn't always work like that. Doesn't always work. 272 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 2: Like that, because sometimes people wait for closer to the 273 00:11:57,120 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 2: event to book flights, So I don't agree with that. 274 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 3: I think if there's a wedding in January, or. 275 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 2: Your book your flight maybe November December, some people are 276 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 2: a bit more organized than that, but we can't anticipate 277 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:09,680 Speaker 2: that entirely. 278 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:13,680 Speaker 4: I've let Sophie do everything ahead of me, So because 279 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 4: you've chosen to, that's because you're disorganized. No, she's got 280 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 4: I allowed her to get all her wedding invites out, 281 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 4: set the date for her hens party. I made it 282 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:23,680 Speaker 4: clear that I didn't want to impact her day. 283 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 3: How many people have you got at your wedding? 284 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:28,080 Speaker 5: I'm having around one hundred and forty. 285 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 3: All right? And how many are you having, Sophie. 286 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:31,959 Speaker 5: I'm having one hundred. 287 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 3: Are you asking for gifts or have you got a 288 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:36,960 Speaker 3: wishing well? Or what's the situation with gifting? 289 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 5: Oh, we both got a wishing well. 290 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 4: So yeah, it'll be hopefully a monetary contribution being put forward. 291 00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:48,439 Speaker 3: So monetary contribution from your guests, is that what you're saying. 292 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 4: I mean, I can't remember the little polite poem where 293 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:53,200 Speaker 4: you basically ask for money, but yeah, it will be 294 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 4: a wishing well. 295 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 3: And what have you put on yours. 296 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 4: Amy, I haven't officially put it out, we haven't sent 297 00:12:58,920 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 4: us out yet. 298 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 5: But being thirty four owning. 299 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 4: A home, we've already got a lot of cooking stuff 300 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:05,640 Speaker 4: and all that sort of stuff you generally get given 301 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 4: as a wedding. So we'd prefer money, to be honest. 302 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 3: So how are you going? How do you ask your 303 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 3: guests for money? Just say, hey, nice thought, but we'd 304 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 3: actually prefer money. 305 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 4: I think, as Sophie said, there's a cute little poem 306 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 4: that most people put that's say a lot of your attendants. 307 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 2: But well, I had a cute little couple here the 308 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 2: other day who were asking their guests to pay. 309 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 4: I saw that that's not a well for the food 310 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 4: to attend to fifty dollars basically a ticket. 311 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 5: Oh that's cheeky. Yeah, that's not on Amy. 312 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 2: With the cost associated with the wedding in January, have 313 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:41,200 Speaker 2: you looked into that? 314 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:45,200 Speaker 4: No, to be honest, we haven't particularly looked into it 315 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:48,560 Speaker 4: because most of our guests are in Adelaide. We actually 316 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 4: haven't even sent our invites out doing that this week, so. 317 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 2: It's just your family that are into state. Does your 318 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 2: partner have interstate relatives? 319 00:13:58,240 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 5: When we say family's. 320 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 4: It's a few aunties and cousins are interstate that are 321 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 4: sort of up in the air. 322 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 5: They're in Sydney and Perth. 323 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 3: How much is an airfare from Adelaide to from Sydney 324 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:09,599 Speaker 3: to Adelaide? 325 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 5: Not much, No, A couple hundred dollars. 326 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:16,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I was told some relatives from Sydney might 327 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 4: be coming over anyway around January to make the most 328 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 4: of the school holidays. 329 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 3: A holidays, it's right. 330 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 2: So, Sophie, if you're genuinely worried about it, I mean, 331 00:14:24,920 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 2: I know you've had it booked for some time, so 332 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 2: the option may not be available for you to change 333 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 2: the date. 334 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 3: But did you explore that I. 335 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 4: Couldn't actually change mine because all of my vendors by 336 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 4: that stage had been locked in as well. I just 337 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 4: want her to be mindful that it has caused some issues, 338 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 4: because now our hens parties are really close. I think 339 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 4: it's quite inconsiderate. 340 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 3: For why don't you just do them together? After the chase? 341 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:52,239 Speaker 2: You share the wound, share the wedding date, share the photographer, 342 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 2: share the designer. 343 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 3: Just share everything. What's the resistance here? Can't you see? 344 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 2: The universe has got a hold of you and just 345 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 2: cut a whole you together in everything. 346 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 3: That you do. 347 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 4: Dud. You know, we just don't want to end up 348 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 4: in new idea as those freaky sisters who got married 349 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 4: on the same day. That's what saying. 350 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 3: So, Amy, you will have a Hans Night a couple 351 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 3: of weeks before your wedding? Would that be right? 352 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 4: I'm having my hands in November and then Soph's having 353 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 4: hers in December. 354 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 3: Okay, when did you decide on that? 355 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 4: Well? I did want to have mine closer to my wedding, 356 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 4: but unfortunately Amy is going on her honeymoon straight after. 357 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 3: Have you got a lot of mutual friends? They will? 358 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 3: They both be coming to We've been. 359 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 4: A very similar friendship group so apart from the friends 360 00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 4: that we've made through our partners, so it will be 361 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 4: the same group of girls. 362 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 5: Again. 363 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 4: I feel awkward asking them to all pay so close 364 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 4: to one another. 365 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:46,320 Speaker 3: What's it going to cost? What's your hands not costing 366 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 3: for them? 367 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 5: I think like one hundred dollars ahead. 368 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 3: How many guests that your Han's Night? 369 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 5: I think I've got twenty three? 370 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 3: Twenty three? Okay, all right, what's the plan for the 371 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 3: Hens party? 372 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 4: So we're just doing just a dinner added a nice 373 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 4: restaurant and then going out to town afterwards. 374 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 5: So nothing too too much. 375 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 3: Carry too much towards us, nothing like that. 376 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 5: No, no strippers. I'm not judge, Gina. Do you know 377 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 5: the judge, Gina? 378 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 4: Do you know the fuss that went into naming Sophie's 379 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 4: hens party? 380 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 5: No? 381 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 3: Is it? Does it have a name? What's it called? 382 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 5: It's it's ladulchi vita, And it's why I had. 383 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 3: You've stolen that from someone else? And what you had 384 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 3: a lot of fus coming up with the name that 385 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 3: you stole from someone else. 386 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a theme. 387 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 1: It's a. 388 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 3: Dress up you want to dress like. 389 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just more of an Italian sort of summer 390 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 4: summer vibes. 391 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 3: So i'd see, all right, and what about you Amy? 392 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 3: How many yours? 393 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 4: Oh? 394 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 5: How many guests? Uh? I think it's around thirty five 395 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 5: or something like that. 396 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 3: Gosh, where are you going? 397 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 4: We're actually doing it at my house. So this is 398 00:16:56,240 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 4: the other thing, Gina. Maybe this is we have to 399 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 4: plan her hands party in in her back. So it's 400 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 4: going to be a bit of an it's a tennis theme, 401 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:04,880 Speaker 4: so unfortunately I don't have a tennis court. I know, Gena, 402 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:06,680 Speaker 4: you don't like tennis courts, but if I have. 403 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:09,040 Speaker 2: A tennis seat either, I'm sure the whole world knows 404 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 2: that story. 405 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:11,199 Speaker 5: Yeah, you could have worn your heels to mine if 406 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:11,920 Speaker 5: I had one. 407 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:11,920 Speaker 4: But. 408 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:16,200 Speaker 3: I don't own a tracksuit and I don't have runners. 409 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 4: I would have had no issue with your rocking up 410 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 4: to my tennis day in your heels. 411 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:23,879 Speaker 3: But yeah, no tennis court. Okay, So there for a 412 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 3: tennis theme. 413 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:27,640 Speaker 5: Oh, it's it's Wimbledon theme, so everyone can dress it white. 414 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, all right? So and that what's that costing 415 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:33,959 Speaker 2: your head? Do you think for thirty five people at 416 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:34,399 Speaker 2: your house? 417 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 5: I think it's a little bit less. 418 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:39,120 Speaker 4: I think we're doing about because yeah, we're having catering there, 419 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 4: so I think we're still crunching the numbers. I'm assuming 420 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:43,560 Speaker 4: around seventy five dollars ahead just to cover the cost 421 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 4: of alcohol and food. 422 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 2: So, Sophie, what you've said to me in your application, 423 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:52,960 Speaker 2: you would like Amy to apologize in front of everyone 424 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:56,440 Speaker 2: at your wedding and it can't be sarcastic. 425 00:17:57,920 --> 00:17:59,720 Speaker 3: Good, But that one. 426 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:01,200 Speaker 5: I actually did. 427 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 4: I did change my what I wanted. I actually wanted 428 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 4: her to cover the costs of my Hen's party. 429 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 5: Considering I have back flipping. 430 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:11,840 Speaker 4: Sophie, I didn't want it to be too theatrical at 431 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:13,680 Speaker 4: my wedding. So I had a change of heart and thought, 432 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 4: maybe I think you was a. 433 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 2: Change of heart, because why would you drag this dirty 434 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 2: laundry into your wedding speeches? I think that you could 435 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:27,119 Speaker 2: leave that well and truly behind and not tarnish anything. 436 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:30,439 Speaker 2: But it is a funny story, I suppose. Okay, but 437 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 2: what you actually really want is what? 438 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:32,920 Speaker 3: Tell me? 439 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 4: I would just like her to cover the costs of 440 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 4: a chunk of my hens party because. 441 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 3: Your Hens party? 442 00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 5: Well, I mean, bridesmaids do that anyway, don't they. 443 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:45,720 Speaker 3: Well, so why do I need to rule it? Is 444 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 3: she not likely to do it? 445 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: Well? 446 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:50,240 Speaker 4: I think, yeah, she might get out of it. I 447 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:52,879 Speaker 4: don't know, she's got an expensive wedding to pay for us. 448 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:56,120 Speaker 3: Well, were we going to send her down the gurgler 449 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 3: financially a lot of expenses? 450 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:01,640 Speaker 5: Maybe just a donation towards the hands. 451 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 3: I'll see. 452 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 2: All right, Well that's fun, Okay, so that's what you like. 453 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:09,440 Speaker 2: And how much is the donation that you're after? 454 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 4: Well? 455 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 5: I think it was around the thousand dollar. 456 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 3: Mart thousand is at all okay, Amy, your counterclaiming counter 457 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:23,639 Speaker 3: suing for pain and suffering caused by Sophie's overreaction. 458 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 4: It's correct you explain the pain and suffering is because 459 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 4: it was supposed to be a really happy time. When 460 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:33,640 Speaker 4: you announce we've chosen this venue, it's very exciting. 461 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 3: There's more to right this wrong. 462 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 2: I want Sophie to pay for Dale and I to 463 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:44,360 Speaker 2: have what what. 464 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:48,679 Speaker 3: Our packers at your wedding? What we said at the 465 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 3: start we wanted our wedding to be really fun. Is 466 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:55,960 Speaker 3: that fun and not for the packers? I can't imagine. 467 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:59,119 Speaker 2: But as Sophie took away from the initial fun, I 468 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 2: think it's only for her to cover the cost. Oh, 469 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:04,880 Speaker 2: you've given me info and l packers. Did you get 470 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 2: the price on that? 471 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:10,119 Speaker 5: I think it's around the eight hundred dollar mark. 472 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:11,640 Speaker 3: For how many our packers? 473 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 5: Who has? 474 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:13,360 Speaker 3: I mean? 475 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 2: I did marry a European man. His family were all 476 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:19,639 Speaker 2: very hairy. I could have our packers at that wedding. 477 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:24,639 Speaker 5: Well might not like that, but Judgenna, you were a 478 00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 5: wedding celebrate. 479 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:29,639 Speaker 3: You've seen I have seen all sorts at weddings. 480 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:31,720 Speaker 4: There seems to be a lot of fun taken out 481 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:34,880 Speaker 4: of this wedding experience because Sophie has been just ridiculous 482 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 4: about these dates. 483 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:36,480 Speaker 5: Let's be honest. 484 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:38,760 Speaker 3: So you think that the ol packers will put the 485 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 3: fun back into it? 486 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 5: I think so, Judge Gena. 487 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 3: So let's take any equation. Would you seriously have organized 488 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 3: ol packers at your wedding? Yeah? 489 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 5: We were actually donkeys. 490 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:53,200 Speaker 4: Can you see my frustration, Judge Gina, though, this is 491 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 4: what I was concerned about in the lead up. Amy 492 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 4: has a lot of wacky ideas, but she doesn't quite 493 00:20:57,800 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 4: have the organization to make sure that these things are 494 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 4: locked in. 495 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 3: All right, I'm going to make my decision. I'll be 496 00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 3: back in a moment. 497 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:10,400 Speaker 1: Judge Gina is deliberating and will soon hand down her verdict. 498 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:18,359 Speaker 1: Please do not leave the courtroom. 499 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 3: Okay, So I've made my decision. 500 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 2: So, Sophie, you're asking for one thousand dollars from Amy 501 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 2: to pay for your hens night, and Amy you're asking 502 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 2: Sophie to pay eight hundred dollars for ol Packers. What 503 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,719 Speaker 2: I'm going to do is I'm going to make a ruling, 504 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 2: and I'm going to rule right in the middle. 505 00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:35,399 Speaker 3: For both of you. 506 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:40,160 Speaker 2: Sophie to pay Amy four hundred dollars for the ol packers, 507 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:44,400 Speaker 2: and Amy, I'm ruling that you pay five hundred dollars 508 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 2: for Sophie's hens night. So we're meeting in the middle 509 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 2: and you're both going to get half of what you're 510 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 2: asking for. Good luck, and that's my final decision. 511 00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 4: I am really happy with today's outcome. I think it 512 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:01,640 Speaker 4: was really fair and it was just nice for both 513 00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 4: of us to get. 514 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 5: Our point of views out. She really grewed both of us. 515 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 4: I mean I was sweating at one point, thinking, God, 516 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:08,160 Speaker 4: am I being over the top? 517 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:09,160 Speaker 5: Am I in the wrong? 518 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 4: I'm pretty happy with Judge Jana's decision because I was 519 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 4: actually consented quite often throughout the trial that she was 520 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:19,320 Speaker 4: on Sophie's side, So I'm pretty happy with decision. I 521 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,359 Speaker 4: was worried that bringing this up again would cause a 522 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 4: bit of an argument, but I think it was nice 523 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:28,159 Speaker 4: to hear that she wasn't trying to be vindictive in 524 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:30,600 Speaker 4: planning her wedding so close to mine, So I think 525 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:33,359 Speaker 4: it will make things a little bit easier going forward. 526 00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 4: My only concern is it is still up in the 527 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 4: air because whilst Gina acknowledged we were both sort of right, 528 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 4: she also acknowledged that we were both wrong, so I 529 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 4: don't necessarily think it's put an end to things, but 530 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:48,200 Speaker 4: I think it's made one another feel heard and justified. 531 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 4: So hopefully the weddings will be a happy occasion and 532 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:52,119 Speaker 4: we can just forget about it. 533 00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,480 Speaker 3: This is being an iHeart production.