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Speaker 1: Get a I'm long La Berry, nutritionist, author, actor, TV presenter,

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Speaker 1: and professional overshare us. This podcast is all about celebrating

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Speaker 1: failure because I believe it's a chance for us to learn,

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Speaker 1: grow and face our blind spots. Each week, I'll interview

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Speaker 1: a different guest about their highs as well as their lows,

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Speaker 1: all in a bid to inspire us to fearlessly fail. Hello,

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Speaker 1: we have a returning guest coming onto the pod today,

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Speaker 1: David the Medium. His name gives it away. He is

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Speaker 1: a psychic medium and a lot of fun and quite funny.

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Speaker 1: I've got to say.

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Speaker 2: It's actually his.

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Speaker 1: Third full interview vibe on the Part pod. So if

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Speaker 1: you want to go back and hear more of like

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Speaker 1: how it all begun for him his story, then tune

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Speaker 1: into episode two hundred and seventeen. And then after that interview,

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Speaker 1: we did a true crime Los Angeles adventure together and

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Speaker 1: I literally took him unbeknownst to him to different crime

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Speaker 1: sites throughout LA and he would tell me what he

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Speaker 1: was feeling and what he was picking up. It's so fascinating.

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Speaker 1: So that's episode two hundred and thirty four. This is

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Speaker 1: his fourth time because he's done a hot seat as well,

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Speaker 1: so it's fourth time on the pod. I just thought

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Speaker 1: it's the new year, why not get David's take on

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Speaker 1: what to expect for twenty twenty four. He also does

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Speaker 1: a mini reading for me in this pod. If you

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Speaker 1: want to hear him do a full reading, go back

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Speaker 1: and listen to that episode two hundred and seventeen. I

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Speaker 1: do want to give you a little trigger warning. We

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Speaker 1: do touch on suicide in the reading bit of it,

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Speaker 1: so when you hear him start the reading, if that's

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Speaker 1: not for you, just to skip over the reading bit.

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Speaker 1: But the rest of the chat is just it just

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Speaker 1: feels like hanging out with a mate. David, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much jumping on the pod again. It is always

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Speaker 1: a joy. Welcome back to the pod for the third time.

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Speaker 1: I kind of want to say fourth time because I

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Speaker 1: did convince you to do a hot seat as well.

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Speaker 1: So there's four episodes out in the world, well three

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Speaker 1: episodes out in the world on Felasy Failing with David

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for having me back.

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Speaker 3: This is it's so exciting for me to be sat

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Speaker 3: able to sit down with you, so thank you.

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Speaker 1: Well, do you know what I thought I said to

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Speaker 1: Matt it'll be like catching up with a mate. Like, so,

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Speaker 1: I'm quite nervous for the day ahead, and I don't

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Speaker 1: want you to take this the wrong way. But I'm

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Speaker 1: so I can kind of like let you just like

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Speaker 1: share and whatnot. The reason why I have asked you

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Speaker 1: few reasons. First of all, you came highly recommended the

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Speaker 1: first time I ever interviewed you, which was in Los Angeles. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're staying at the Karra Hotel, not to give away

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Speaker 1: where you.

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Speaker 2: Stay, Room two. I won.

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Speaker 1: And then I straight away, so that came highly recommended.

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Speaker 1: People were like, can you please get to have the

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Speaker 1: medium on the podcast. And then afterwards, I think we

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Speaker 1: hang on a sick You're pretty cool. We should do more.

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Speaker 1: And that cut to so the first time you ever

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Speaker 1: back in LA in July that year, and I think

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Speaker 2: then I went and storm chasing. Then came back.

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Speaker 2: I got you the double wham. I was the fortunate one,

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Speaker 2: Lola to be able to spend it with you.

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Speaker 1: Can you share what we did on that second recording day.

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Speaker 3: Every single person listen needs to go and listen to

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Speaker 3: this podcast because we did a true crime La.

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Speaker 2: So Lola took me around to the coolest well.

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Speaker 3: Coolest maybe the wrong word to use, because it's unfortunately

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Speaker 1: The old there was e Glendale, this car head so

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Speaker 3: And that house was on Selling Sunset or one of

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, you did send that to me.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure they'll know the history. But I ended up

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Speaker 1: Am, Oh no, thank you hot. We all who doesn't

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Speaker 1: like a crazy So for people listening, that is episode

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Speaker 1: two hundred and thirty four and the original episode of

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Speaker 1: You on the Pod is two hundred and seventeen, and

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Speaker 1: it was such both with such a joy, and we

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Speaker 1: have planned a second Los Angeles True Crime that we're

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Speaker 1: going to record sometime. Yeah, it has to happen. It

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Speaker 1: now won't be new to you. You are a force

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Speaker 1: to be reckoned with. And I love seeing all the

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Speaker 1: pods that you do. And I was hooked on your

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Speaker 1: Thank you fan over here right back at you. Well,

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Speaker 1: You are medium and do I say it right? Fix me?

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Speaker 1: Medium and psychic psychic medium, psychic medium and particular Oh

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Speaker 1: thank you okay. And so what I noticed when we

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Speaker 1: great way. Yeah, So when that's happening, I know that

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Speaker 3: And Sharon Tate wouldn't be hanging around that restaurant, but

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Speaker 3: be who were these people filming this podcast? Like kind

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Speaker 1: But there is this there's this place. I cannot wait

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Speaker 1: I have fully a friend of mine. I told them

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Speaker 3: People, Yeah, it really does, especially you know, as you

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Speaker 3: So that's just their way when I say their spirits

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Speaker 1: moments when you're ready? Obviously I know you've got to

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Speaker 2: I want to do it every single reading I do.

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Speaker 3: That's the thing, Like, you know, I am the medium,

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Speaker 1: I am blown away by how hard it is to

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Speaker 1: What's that thing where you do You're like, guys, I'm

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Speaker 3: Exactly like if you randomly log in at you know,

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Speaker 1: I think that's what you're like. The Santa Claus of

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Speaker 3: them who they bring in at that moment. Of course,

441
00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,119
Speaker 3: they want to speak to us every single moment of

442
00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:05,280
Speaker 3: every single day. But when they bring people into what

443
00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:08,359
Speaker 3: I call the principal's office, you know you're sitting there

444
00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:10,479
Speaker 3: because there's something very specific that they need you to know,

445
00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:12,040
Speaker 3: or something that's really going on in your life that

446
00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:13,720
Speaker 3: they want to discuss with you, or just provide that

447
00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:15,160
Speaker 3: guidance and clarity as well.

448
00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:18,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my goodness. Okay, so it's something i'd learned

449
00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:20,719
Speaker 1: about you recently. I did not know.

450
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Speaker 2: I interrupted you halfway through, Lola, Sorry, please continue.

451
00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:29,560
Speaker 1: There's no rules in this pod, my friend, but I

452
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Speaker 1: did not know. You can't read your own blood, like

453
00:19:31,760 --> 00:19:35,199
Speaker 1: you can't read for relatives, so you don't get what

454
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Speaker 1: about for yourself? Like obviously your intuition is high or heightened,

455
00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,920
Speaker 1: I imagine, so you would still get gut feelings and stuff,

456
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Speaker 1: but not specific stuff like linking you to loved ones.

457
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Speaker 1: Is that correct?

458
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Speaker 2: That's correct.

459
00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, So my intuition and sort of gut feeling when

460
00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:50,560
Speaker 3: it comes to guidance in my own life is relatively strong.

461
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Speaker 2: You know. It's all gay ConTroll and error at the

462
00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:53,920
Speaker 2: same time as well.

463
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Speaker 3: But yeah, I can't connect and talk and feel and

464
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Speaker 3: see my own loved ones like I would yours for

465
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Speaker 3: example as well, and the way that I word that, and.

466
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Speaker 2: A lot of mediums are the same.

467
00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:06,080
Speaker 3: Some can not many though, but you know, for example,

468
00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:08,120
Speaker 3: like the most special people in my life, like people

469
00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:10,920
Speaker 3: that I love wholeheartedly and deeply, like if they crossed over,

470
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Speaker 3: of course i'd want to be with them in my

471
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Speaker 3: head twenty four to seven. Yeah, And then if I

472
00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:17,480
Speaker 3: was connecting with them in my head twenty four seven,

473
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Speaker 3: I wouldn't.

474
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Speaker 2: Be connected to the world that I'm still in, so

475
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Speaker 2: I wouldn't be continuing to evolve, learn and grow.

476
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Speaker 3: So it kind of acts as a protective barrier totally,

477
00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:27,120
Speaker 3: but also been in the medium.

478
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Speaker 2: Like I have to have that.

479
00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:31,600
Speaker 3: Faith and that all knowing belief from what I do

480
00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,880
Speaker 3: already that of course my loved ones won't be any

481
00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:35,640
Speaker 3: different to everyone else I'm ready to of course they're

482
00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:40,840
Speaker 3: still around. But yeah, even as a psychic medium, I

483
00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:42,400
Speaker 3: life is for living, so.

484
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Speaker 2: I don't know necessarily what I'm up to.

485
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Speaker 3: I've got, like we saying, I've got a good intuition

486
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:49,639
Speaker 3: on maybe what's happening, But for my own life, I

487
00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:51,920
Speaker 3: can't really say what I'm doing next year even that's

488
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Speaker 3: the thing.

489
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Speaker 1: But that's the beauty of you. You've always kind of

490
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Speaker 1: like had. This is what's been so lovely being a

491
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Speaker 1: friend of yours. You've always had this beautiful energy where

492
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:03,359
Speaker 1: you've backed yourself and you've kind of trusted all of

493
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Speaker 1: your choices and wherever they've taken you. Like even like

494
00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 1: leaving La a bit earlier than you expected to leave,

495
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,000
Speaker 1: you were like, hey, babes, I've got to leave. I

496
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:14,040
Speaker 1: just know I've got to leave. And like, I like

497
00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 1: that you have, like once you make a choice, there's

498
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,919
Speaker 1: no oscillation with you. You'll just be like, hey, I

499
00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:20,720
Speaker 1: know that this is what I need right now, and

500
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Speaker 1: I'm going to back myself. And that's probably more of

501
00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:25,359
Speaker 1: even a mental health conversation, but I really admire that

502
00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 1: quality within you. You're just kind of like, this is

503
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Speaker 1: where I am right now, and this is where I

504
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 1: need to be right now, and I'm going to honor.

505
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Speaker 3: That one hundred percent. And I think for all of us,

506
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:34,479
Speaker 3: we have to be our own biggest supporters. We have

507
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Speaker 3: to back your decisions. You have to back what you're

508
00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 3: feeling one hundred percent. Like if you don't back yourself,

509
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:40,560
Speaker 3: no one else will in the universe won't back you either.

510
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:41,879
Speaker 3: That's the thing that's sort of like, you know, the

511
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:44,359
Speaker 3: universe only matches our energy, it meets us halfway. So

512
00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:49,200
Speaker 3: you know, it's you have to be fearlessly in love

513
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,879
Speaker 3: and selfish to yourself. Yeah, put yourself first in every situation.

514
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:54,879
Speaker 3: Doesn't mean you're arrogant, it doesn't mean you're egotistical. It

515
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:56,679
Speaker 3: just means that you're taking the best care of yourself

516
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,080
Speaker 3: to then take best care of everyone else.

517
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Speaker 2: Yeah, to back yourself.

518
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Speaker 1: Yeah, And can I ask that with clients as well,

519
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,000
Speaker 1: because I believe that you're a person that lives true

520
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 1: to their purpose and you kind of use that as

521
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:13,639
Speaker 1: your guest guide throughout life. Yeah, And I know, like

522
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:17,159
Speaker 1: that's how I've chosen to live as well. But it's

523
00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:21,720
Speaker 1: friggin scary some days, and there probably was a safer

524
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Speaker 1: road for me to go down. But my question for

525
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Speaker 1: you is do you notice with clients, like, yes, obviously

526
00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 1: it's often to connect with love and loved ones and

527
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Speaker 1: get a sense of connection that they might be yearning

528
00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 1: for or answers or some kind of resolution. But I

529
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Speaker 1: don't like and I just think when it comes to

530
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Speaker 1: what you do, and it's this kind of like there's

531
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Speaker 1: a healing element to what you do as well, because

532
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Speaker 1: it's that spiritual and emotional and mental healing to a

533
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Speaker 1: certain extent, do you think that there's any correlation with

534
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Speaker 1: when people come to see you they are searching for

535
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Speaker 1: that purpose piece.

536
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Speaker 2: It's been a very.

537
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Speaker 3: Big thing us, you know, since really that forced everyone

538
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,359
Speaker 3: to do a lot of reflection and everyone has a

539
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 3: lot of questions around purpose and why am I here?

540
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:11,919
Speaker 3: And you know, the biggest thing is for everyone, like

541
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 3: a lot of our purposes in our day to day actions,

542
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 3: Like it's how you present yourself to the world. It's

543
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 3: your morals, it's your viewpoints, it's your you know, what

544
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,159
Speaker 3: makes you you. You know, there are some people that

545
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 3: maybe do have a grandiose, huge purpose.

546
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Speaker 2: It affects the whole world.

547
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:29,239
Speaker 3: Not everyone is meant to so don't compare yourself to

548
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Speaker 3: anyone else in that sense.

549
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,640
Speaker 2: Like everyone is here for our own reasons. We've got

550
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 2: our own journey and that is our purpose.

551
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:39,119
Speaker 3: So Okay, there may be people that you know, huge

552
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:42,680
Speaker 3: celebrities or they go into very big business decisions.

553
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Speaker 2: That's our journey.

554
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 3: It doesn't make yours any less important or any less special.

555
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:51,400
Speaker 1: You're going to love this my acting teacher says, comparison

556
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 1: is artistic cancer. Yeah, I agree, Yeah, like we all.

557
00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:01,160
Speaker 3: I look at people for motivation inspiration, but I can

558
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 3: never compare myself to anyone else because we're all different.

559
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:05,159
Speaker 1: So I ain't no other day with the medium.

560
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 3: Well, and there's no other Lola Berry, there's no other

561
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 3: you know, Joe Blow at the end of the day,

562
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 3: sounds like a porn star.

563
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,360
Speaker 2: That's the thing.

564
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 3: It's sort of like if you jealousy and envy and

565
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:22,119
Speaker 3: all that can be very sort of cancerous emotions. Now

566
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 3: as humans, we all feel them because at the end

567
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 3: of the day, we're all human and anyone emotion or

568
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 3: anyone feeling that we feel is not wrong. It's just

569
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Speaker 3: we have to use it as a as a guide

570
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 3: or a motivator as well. So sit in that at

571
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:36,439
Speaker 3: the same time. But you know, look at people that

572
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 3: you admire and don't be jealous of that, look at

573
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 3: them for inspiration. Like everyone has a story to tell.

574
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter if you're.

575
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 3: A famous actress or you know someone who works from

576
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,399
Speaker 3: home or like, everyone's got a story. Every single person

577
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,199
Speaker 3: has a journey, every single person has some kind of

578
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 3: inspiration that they can show the world totally.

579
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Speaker 1: And I don't know about you. I think I'm a

580
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 1: year old at you're thirty seven.

581
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:06,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, my grinder says, I'm twenty nine.

582
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 1: No, well, yes, I'm thirty eight. I'm thirty eight. And

583
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Speaker 1: it's funny because a lot of my friends have got

584
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 1: bambinos and so you're you're seeing a whole different life choice.

585
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 1: And not that that doesn't mean that's not my life

586
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 1: choice one day, But it's so cool to turn the

587
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 1: lens to now like admiration as opposed to well, what

588
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:30,199
Speaker 1: about do I want that? Like it's much different now.

589
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, how cool that you're a mama bear,

590
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,919
Speaker 1: and then also sitting down with boss and being like, actually,

591
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,439
Speaker 1: how lucky that we've got this freedom right now to

592
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 1: chase our dreams. And it takes it from that that

593
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 1: jealousy or envy lens to like how lucky are we?

594
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 1: And it's that roomy quote which is like, act like

595
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 1: everything is rigged in your favor.

596
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,159
Speaker 3: Because everything is rigged in your favor, and honestly, like

597
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 3: your viewpoints there low there is so special because it

598
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 3: does take such a resilience and a strength to.

599
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 2: Evaluate a situation like that you're like no, actually, like

600
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:03,960
Speaker 2: I am lucky and I am.

601
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,719
Speaker 3: This, and I think in general, there's so much pressure

602
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 3: that are placed on women, especially of our generation, because

603
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 3: you know, we're very different to our mothers, who are

604
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 3: completely different to our grandmothers and women. You know, the

605
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 3: younger generation is very different to us again because I

606
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 3: think they've got a bit more sort of freedom in

607
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,919
Speaker 3: that sense. But you know, ladies in their thirties and

608
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 3: their forties in particular, like we were told as we

609
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 3: like I'm a woman, but like we were told as children, oh,

610
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 3: you can have it all, like this is your well

611
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:30,439
Speaker 3: but it's sort of like okay, well you can have

612
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:32,400
Speaker 3: it all, but what what are you forced to sacrifice?

613
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 3: So what are you forced to feel like that you're

614
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:34,879
Speaker 3: falling behind in?

615
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 1: Yeah?

616
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Speaker 3: You know, and you know, make a great point with

617
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 3: women our age you know now have married in families

618
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 3: and it's like, well, we don't have that.

619
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:42,920
Speaker 2: Have you somehow failed?

620
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 3: Have you somehow?

621
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 2: Like? Have I fallen behind? Should I've done this?

622
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:46,679
Speaker 1: It's like absolutely not.

623
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 3: It's all the decisions and the choices that we make

624
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,960
Speaker 3: because everyone is on their own journey. Yeah, what everyone

625
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,919
Speaker 3: should realize that there's so many, especially with you, Lola.

626
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:58,199
Speaker 3: I mean, there's so many people that would look at

627
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 3: you for inspiration, and so many people that would look

628
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 3: at your journey and be like, you know what, she

629
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 3: had that strength and that self determination and really a

630
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 3: self love deep down, Like you know what, I am

631
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 3: going to follow my goals. I am going to go

632
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 3: solo to the other side of the world in a

633
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 3: very shark tank city, and I'm going to give it

634
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,160
Speaker 3: a crack, and I'm going to make something of it

635
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 3: that is a story in itself that is so inspirational. Yeah,

636
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 3: there's nothing that's better than anything else, of course, but

637
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 3: it's always a good remembrance that when we look at

638
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,360
Speaker 3: other people's journings, all their pathways and we see admiration

639
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 3: or aspiration in it, or maybe even sometimes jealousy or envy,

640
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 3: it's that people always do the same towards us as well.

641
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,119
Speaker 3: So no one person or no one journey is better

642
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 3: than anyone else's.

643
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,159
Speaker 1: I feel like I want to call this, David the

644
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 1: Medium Philosophy session.

645
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 2: Today, an espress every morning.

646
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:49,880
Speaker 1: No, I love it and thank you. And that's why

647
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 1: I was so excited when you said yes, because I

648
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:53,879
Speaker 1: knew it to be like just catching up for a

649
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 1: really honest open chat.

650
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 3: I would never say no to you, David. It's two

651
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 3: way in the morning. You want to come up for yes.

652
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:05,160
Speaker 1: Also, this is our first ever Australian interview ever ever. Yeah,

653
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: we've always we've hung out for poke bubbles and whatnot

654
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,120
Speaker 1: in Melbourne, but we've never actually done a pot here,

655
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 1: so I felt this is very special. I can't have

656
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 1: you on without asking if you're comfortable, do you feel

657
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 1: like doing a mini reading?

658
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 2: Of course I don't do that. I know I'm a mediate,

659
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:24,400
Speaker 2: that's right, No, no, God.

660
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 3: Well, it's really interesting because even as we've been talking,

661
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:28,919
Speaker 3: a lot of what I'm saying is really been channeled

662
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 3: from the spirit because it just feels so flowy.

663
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 2: And there's really this elements of.

664
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:37,199
Speaker 3: A very strong female that does come forward that does

665
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 3: actually reference passing very quickly at the same time as well.

666
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 3: And it was sort of a shock to everyone when

667
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 3: I crossed over because they always were fearful of it,

668
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 3: but they didn't think that it would actually ever happen.

669
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 2: Which is what we think to say.

670
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 3: So a lot of what I feel for you, Lola

671
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 3: is all about the next chapters in the new beginnings,

672
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 3: and it says element of like, even as we were

673
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 3: just talking before, have complete faith and trust in you

674
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 3: are what you're doing. And it's sort of like what

675
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 3: the face that we feel internally is what we put

676
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 3: out into the world, and everyone can see you for

677
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 3: who you are, but they're only seeing you for who

678
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 3: you think you are.

679
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, big time.

680
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 3: So, you know, and especially for people in the creative industry,

681
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 3: especially for people that are evolving within the creative industry,

682
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 3: it's a very vulnerable situation. But all their referencing is

683
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 3: get out on that stage. So that's a very interesting

684
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 3: thing because I think they could also be able to

685
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 3: stage work for you, would you ever do stage work? Yeah?

686
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so.

687
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 3: As I know you mentioned returning to La soon. Yeah,

688
00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 3: it is a completely new chapter. Oh, it's sort of

689
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 3: like release this in a stress and tension of like

690
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 3: should I be doing this?

691
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: Yeah? You know that's been my achilles here. Oh yeah,

692
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 1: any one should.

693
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 2: And it's a very natural thing to feel.

694
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, but for everyone it's sort of this element of

695
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 3: like whatever we feel is what we feel, but it's

696
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 3: how we choose to let it dictate or control us. Yeah,

697
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 3: So it's it's completely natural to feel a complete range

698
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 3: of emotions because we are human. Yeah, but pay attention

699
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 3: to what is the deciding dictating factors of these emotions.

700
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 2: Like what are we allowing to control us or dictate

701
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 2: our thoughts?

702
00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it is a choice, Like we can feel stressed,

703
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 3: we can feel anxious, or we can feel exhilarated and

704
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 3: excited based on whatever. You know, life is ninety percent

705
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 3: what happens in ten percent how you react, and.

706
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 1: You know, psychological not psychological Physiologically, excitement and anxiety feel

707
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 1: the same in the body.

708
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 3: It's a nervousness, right. Life is ten percent what happens

709
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 3: in ninety percent how you react apart me.

710
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 1: Oh I like that.

711
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 2: I like that.

712
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.

713
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 3: So moving forward into our light, like you've got the

714
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 3: element of evolution, but the universe will probably test you

715
00:30:55,960 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 3: even harder. Yeah, but there's a remembrance of who you are,

716
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:04,239
Speaker 3: why we're doing this. We're so proud. I remember your

717
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 3: grandmother now, actually I can see her face. This is

718
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 3: mum's mom. Yeah, she's so funny. She said it in

719
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 3: a real like American accent, but she's like, I didn't reason,

720
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 3: no quitter. Yeah, Dorothy or Judy, what does that connect

721
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 3: with you? Her name is Dorothy perfect it's a.

722
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 2: Wizard I was referenced. So when Spirit shows me the

723
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 2: wizard of Dorothy.

724
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 3: Or duty, yeah, this is mum's mum who does bring

725
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 3: forward the younger female with her? Yes, this would be

726
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 3: Aunt yes, so yeah, because it's not a granddaughter, for

727
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 3: it would have to be her daughter.

728
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 2: So this isn't for you.

729
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 3: I think you and Matt, it's just this element of

730
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 3: really anchoring into each other. But it's kind of really

731
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 3: going to be funny because in a relationship sense, it's

732
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,239
Speaker 3: going to test you both because it's sort of like

733
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 3: you'll be exhilarated, but then Matt will be having a

734
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 3: hard time and then Matt will get like a really

735
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 3: deciderating thing, but you might get the reject And so

736
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 3: tell me how we balance the relationship energy of how

737
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 3: we support each other, which I think you in him

738
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 3: at just the absolute kings and queens have been able

739
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 3: to sort of support each other. But Ala just feels

740
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 3: like such an evolution. It's this real remembrance of hustle, hustle, hustle,

741
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:10,959
Speaker 3: But it's all about the elements of what we know

742
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 3: and who we know. So what you know is everything

743
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 3: that you're doing because you've done incredibly well at that.

744
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 3: But now it's this element of like, don't be afraid

745
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 3: to put your name in selling on Sunset.

746
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 1: I love that.

747
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 2: There's something about like your name on Sunset. So Sunset Boulevard,

748
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 2: I would.

749
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 1: Assume that's where the Hollywood stars are.

750
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, well.

751
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 1: On Sunset Oh they're on Hollywood Boulevard, aren't they.

752
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 2: No, we don't want to be there during the day

753
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 2: all night.

754
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 1: Actually, you're doing Jimmy Kimmel.

755
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 3: There's my little potch on at Los Angeles. Don't go

756
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 3: to Hollywood, need to watch it does so, No, there's

757
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 3: definitely something about Sunset Boulevard, the elements of how everyone

758
00:32:56,760 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 3: will see Lola there. Now what I want to everyone

759
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 3: listening to Manifest, I want you to manifest as well.

760
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 2: I'm thinking one of those ten story billboards.

761
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 1: I mean, my brain went this straight away. I'm not gonna.

762
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 3: Lie, but I know there's actually don't know whether there's

763
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,240
Speaker 3: production studios on Sunset but.

764
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, the Netflix is on Sunset Ball but is it

765
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: really Yeah, Netflix head office.

766
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 2: I didn't even know.

767
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 1: That made me sweat, got goosey.

768
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 2: Nothing to say that's off limits.

769
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 1: And there's Sunset Studios. There's a studio called Sunset Studios. Okay,

770
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 1: thank you, Tick says my plan for next year.

771
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 2: But it is just remembrance. You know.

772
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 3: It's a practice of the American accent as well. So

773
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 3: even as we're talking on the podcast, start talking with

774
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 3: an American accent.

775
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 1: Oh, you've got a good one.

776
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can fake it. Well I can't.

777
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 1: It's the rors that get me.

778
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 2: It's the r The West Coast is the rs in

779
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 2: the egs and do you and.

780
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 1: I say she was seen to be evil in the

781
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 1: mean streets where bees feed and schemes are the key.

782
00:33:55,720 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 3: That's my trigger, like wet Wisconsin. So it's see iMIND

783
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 3: of living, breathing and feeling. The spirit doesn't want you

784
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 3: to return to La and feel like.

785
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 2: The Australian in La. Ah, you're returning home?

786
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 1: Oh great, okay.

787
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:17,680
Speaker 3: So it's this fearless fearlessly literally the name of the podcast.

788
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 3: But it's this fearless connection that I'm not returning to

789
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 3: Los Angeles to try and build something there. I'm returning

790
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 3: to the place where everything is already mine. I'm just

791
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:30,799
Speaker 3: connecting with it again.

792
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:33,839
Speaker 1: Do you know what I land in La X, which

793
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 1: everybody calls the asshole of the Earth.

794
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:36,400
Speaker 2: I love that.

795
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,839
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm home. That's the feeling I get,

796
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 1: So hold on to that.

797
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, because when you're in Los Angeles and you're pitching,

798
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 3: or you're auditioning, or you're casting for anything, it already.

799
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 2: Belongs to you.

800
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:51,879
Speaker 3: You're not the one interviewing for it. You're interviewing them

801
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 3: for you sort of like you know, and that's a

802
00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 3: good message from the spirit for everyone listening. You know,

803
00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 3: when we go for job interviews, so we go for

804
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,920
Speaker 3: casting as well, it's as much as an interview as

805
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 3: us being interviewed as.

806
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 2: We are interviewing for them.

807
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. I love that.

808
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 3: You know, don't go into that being like want me,

809
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 3: want me, want me to go into the be like

810
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,959
Speaker 3: do I actually want you? This is the thing because

811
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 3: this is my city and this is my skills, and

812
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 3: we're going to connect.

813
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 1: And trust that intuition. You often know it in meetings,

814
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:18,839
Speaker 1: you know, you get that feeling.

815
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:20,839
Speaker 2: Within first seven seconds. Well, I think that's what they

816
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 2: say with science.

817
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 3: Usually you know, within the first seven seconds of meeting

818
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 3: someone your enerhdy connection with them. So it's all about

819
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 3: opportunity really, I'm excited for you and it's this is

820
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 3: real remembrance, so you'll always have two homes.

821
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for doing that for me. Can

822
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:36,760
Speaker 1: I say now that you finished that, what the quickness?

823
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 1: You know you said the start? Someone passed quick and unexpected? Yes,

824
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:45,360
Speaker 1: so that was my auntie okay, trigger warning, committed suicide.

825
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 1: So none of us saw it coming. But it was

826
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:52,320
Speaker 1: my NaN's daughter. So that's why she stands with Nan. Yeah,

827
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 1: and creative singer, so like being on a stage. She

828
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 1: was always on a stage and my mum would photograph her.

829
00:35:59,400 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 1: How cool.

830
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 2: So yeah, I love of the friend of God and

831
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 2: comes from her.

832
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, it all came through. And NaN's the ballsy like

833
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: don't quit. Yeah, married four times, you know? Save do

834
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 1: you know? I've got my grandma's and my NaN's engagement

835
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 1: ring and I keep saying to Matt, let's put them

836
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 1: together and like, and he's like, your NaN's been divorced

837
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 1: three times. Like I love that energy for I was like,

838
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 1: I like that ballsy like.

839
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 3: Freedom been in relationship doesn't mean we're tired down, but

840
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:31,399
Speaker 3: it means that we're free to make decisions at work.

841
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 1: Can I ask you some questions about just you, because

842
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: I am inhabited with you. I think you're phenomenal. Likewise,

843
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 1: what you know, if we were to look into a

844
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 1: crystal ball, where do you see David the medium in

845
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 1: a couple of years from now. I know you just

846
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 1: trust and go with the journeys into that. But like,

847
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 1: you know, you're such a great speaker. You know, you're

848
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 1: so engaging on podcasts. You're a fantastic friend. Like you're

849
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 1: a very You're a person that just pun the pun

850
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 1: but loves to connect, you know. Like we're like, would

851
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 1: you write a book? Would you could you have your

852
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: own pot? Like what do you see yourself doing?

853
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would love to write a book one day,

854
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 3: but it's I feel like I've got a story to

855
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 3: tell you. Yes, but it just isn't right now, so

856
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 3: the book will definitely be down in the future. I'd

857
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 3: love to do a podcast, but like I'm too lazy

858
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,959
Speaker 3: for that. Everyone's like, guys, you could interview ten people

859
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:22,440
Speaker 3: in two days and then you could just slowly release them, Like, yes,

860
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 3: I could, but.

861
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: Very excited for you. There are so many things that

862
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 1: I'm excited for you about though, Like I just even

863
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 1: being around you, I'm like opportunities feel like they kind

864
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 1: of follow you, and you just seem so open, and

865
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 1: I think that that to the listener, I think that

866
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 1: that is a key if you're in I would say

867
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 1: you're in a creative industry as well. And I think

868
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 1: that as long as you're you have a good sense

869
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 1: of self and real self awareness and you're open, then

870
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 1: I think you're almost like this magnet. And I feel

871
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 1: like that's how you are.

872
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 2: No.

873
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 3: I appreciate that so much because you know, I think

874
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 3: we are our own worst critics are regardless of what

875
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 3: we do and whatever you achieve or whatever is you

876
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 3: perceived success that we have. And I think for me,

877
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 3: like I am very open but heading into twenty twenty

878
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 3: four and you know, when this says, it will be

879
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 3: the beginning of twenty twenty four and this will be

880
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 3: a very strong thing for me.

881
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 2: But it's really about again that word purpose, Like it's

882
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 2: really about.

883
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,320
Speaker 1: That came up last night and alive too.

884
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 2: Yeah it did? Actually yeah. Yeah. So I think for

885
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 2: me it's sort of like, Okay, well what do I want?

886
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's something that I need to work on

887
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 3: a lot better because I completely love what I do

888
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 3: and I never want to stop doing what I do

889
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:27,839
Speaker 3: because I think I'm very fortunate to have discovered one

890
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 3: of the key elements of purpose for me, Like I'm

891
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 3: put here on this plane right now to do what

892
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:32,439
Speaker 3: I'm doing.

893
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm incredibly.

894
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 3: Blessed, not only because I love it, but it's one

895
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 3: of those purpose questions that I've been able to now discover.

896
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:41,760
Speaker 3: So for me moving forward, it really is about locking

897
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:45,280
Speaker 3: it in in a lot of different ways. There will

898
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 3: be elements of David the Medium on TV in twenty

899
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,880
Speaker 3: twenty four, yes, because that's already.

900
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 1: The works amazing. I'm here for it.

901
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:56,359
Speaker 2: I'm here for everyone listening.

902
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 3: Lola Berry will get an exclusive off air on that one.

903
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 2: But by the time it says it may everyone may

904
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 2: know anyway.

905
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 3: So how good I am what I My boundaries have

906
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 3: always been very strong.

907
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:11,799
Speaker 2: I'm very aware and assured of who I am.

908
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:14,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, you are, and that I love thee Yeah.

909
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 3: So I have very strong boundaries of what I accept

910
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 3: and what I don't and who are laying and who

911
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 3: I don't allow in And also you know, just like

912
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,359
Speaker 3: jib a jabbering, So no, I love it. I love

913
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 3: it now that I've know that you built the foundation.

914
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 3: It is about purpose moving forward.

915
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:30,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, and do you think that's a theme for twenty

916
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 1: reading for for the listener as well, like is it

917
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 1: getting really clear on purpose?

918
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 2: Well?

919
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 3: The word for twenty twenty four do you know how

920
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 3: I get into spiritual words? It's the universe gives me

921
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 3: for the year ahead.

922
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: Oh I love this.

923
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 2: The word for twenty twenty four is adapt.

924
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:45,879
Speaker 1: Oh I love that too.

925
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 2: So it's all.

926
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:52,800
Speaker 3: About sort of how you not only go with the flow,

927
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:55,279
Speaker 3: but how you adapt to whatever situations you'll being put

928
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 3: into as well. And that's all about having again very

929
00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 3: strong boundaries of what you're willing to accept, what you're

930
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 3: not willing to accept, what works for you, what doesn't

931
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 3: work for you. It's the age of sort of on

932
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 3: that point, throwing diplomacy away, like you have to put

933
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 3: yourself as and you have.

934
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 2: To do what's right for you.

935
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:11,399
Speaker 1: Oh I love that.

936
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 3: Because the world in twenty twenty four will be rather

937
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 3: chaotic again, Yeah, with again things that are out of

938
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 3: our control. So it's not about how do we try

939
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 3: and control it, because we can't, and it's how you

940
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:21,240
Speaker 3: adapt to it.

941
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:25,919
Speaker 1: It's like being flexible and in yoga there's this there's

942
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:27,759
Speaker 1: a few words. But it's like having the balance of

943
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 1: stirra and suka and so it's a balance of strength

944
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 1: but also knowing when to be soft as well and

945
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 1: kind of like go with it.

946
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 2: That's a perfect explanation.

947
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I love that. For twenty twenty.

948
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:39,800
Speaker 2: Four, strong would be soft.

949
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: Oh and I know you, I know you go on

950
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:46,799
Speaker 1: pods to talk about like what could be the kind

951
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:50,319
Speaker 1: of like the not idea, not the prediction necessarily, although

952
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 1: you're very good at predicting the Australian AFL Grand Final

953
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:54,320
Speaker 1: with it.

954
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 2: Put money on that.

955
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 1: But if it's around adapting, you still think there'll be

956
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 1: a lot of chaos, a lot of movement next year,

957
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 1: a lot of things that we won't be able to

958
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 1: just have to kind of literally go I Ca'm going

959
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 1: with either I'm going with the flow for this one

960
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 1: or not. I'm putting a hard boundary in place, and

961
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 1: this is my stance on is it going to be

962
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 1: literally for the whole year?

963
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:14,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty much for the whole year.

964
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 3: So well everything I mean with the American election, so

965
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 3: that well, you know the presidential election next year as well.

966
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 3: That always throws the universal energy up as well. So yeah,

967
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:25,479
Speaker 3: the world for everyone. Doesn't every yea, I mean, whatever

968
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:27,800
Speaker 3: happens in America reverberates around the world. We know that already,

969
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 3: but especially from a spiritual perspective, so it will be

970
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 3: a bit of a sort of chaotic energy. There's a

971
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:35,359
Speaker 3: reference of you know, just really no, I don't want

972
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 3: to sound negative, but like darker energy. So again, so

973
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 3: that's where that adapting can be really exactly right, Like,

974
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:43,359
Speaker 3: you know, there is elements of pandemic or disease. Again,

975
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:45,280
Speaker 3: what had we adapt that? We've done that already, clearly

976
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,399
Speaker 3: because we all got through that. If there is you know,

977
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 3: the fear around terrorism or war for example, Okay, well

978
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:53,960
Speaker 3: again we can't control terrorism or war. Yeah, in that sense,

979
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 3: how do we adapt? Yeah, not allowing it.

980
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 2: To break us or shake us?

981
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: Oh, and I think I think as well, like the

982
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,319
Speaker 1: two things I felt feel like that you that you're

983
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,760
Speaker 1: really passionate about is this idea of adapting, but also

984
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 1: like staying clear on purpose. And I think that if

985
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 1: you've got that as your anchor, purpose will usually like

986
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:14,839
Speaker 1: it's this like it feels like it sits in your

987
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 1: solar plexus, and it like grounds you even when you're

988
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 1: standing in chaos. And so I think if you've got

989
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:22,919
Speaker 1: those two kind of like hallmarks for twenty twenty four,

990
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 1: that's quite exciting, it is, and sometimes good stuff can

991
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 1: come out of chaos too.

992
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 2: Exactly right. There's always a silver lining, or there's always

993
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:32,240
Speaker 2: the elements of how.

994
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 1: We view it, David the Medium, Can I just hang

995
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: out with you all the time?

996
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 2: Yes?

997
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 3: I say that every single time I see I was like, Lola,

998
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 3: why are we not in a relationship?

999
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: Why does I want to get you up to Byron

1000
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 1: Bay too?

1001
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1002
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 1: That will that's going to.

1003
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 3: Happen, happening in January. So I'll be in Singapore for

1004
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 3: New Years. Why I was in Singapore for New Years?

1005
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 3: Hopefully I made it back Hi guys, but you'll.

1006
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 1: Be coming up to Barron and let's do it. Thank you,

1007
00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:00,359
Speaker 1: my friend, always in honor to have you on the pod.

1008
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: Got to get you back on in Los Angeles in

1009
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 1: twenty twenty four.

1010
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 2: That will be happening. We've got a lot to do

1011
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:07,359
Speaker 2: in twenty twenty a lot.

1012
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 1: I'm holding you to it all.

1013
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:09,280
Speaker 3: Hahaha.

1014
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 2: Thanks Lola, thank you.

1015
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 1: That's a wrap on another episode of Fearlessly Failing. As always,

1016
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 1: thank you to our guests and let's continue the conversation

1017
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 1: on Instagram. I'm at Yamo Lolaberry. This potty my word

1018
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:32,440
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1019
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,520
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1020
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