1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: The Rise and Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of 2 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: the land which this episode is being recorded, the Yugen 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 1: Bear region. We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their 4 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: connections to land, sea and community. We pay our respect 5 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 1: to their elders past and present and extend that respect 6 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: to all Aboriginal and Terrestrate Islander peoples today. Hello and 7 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:36,559 Speaker 1: welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is 8 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: the podcast for ordinary people who want to do extraordinary things. 9 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 1: Often when I'm making a decision, I'm like, am I 10 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: making this because it feels intuitively right? Or am I 11 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:08,040 Speaker 1: deciding out of fear? Hello and welcome back to the potty. 12 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:12,559 Speaker 1: It is your host, Georgie Stevenson, lawyer turned entrepreneur, business owner, 13 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: new mum all the things. These are our fun Friday 14 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 1: epps where you send in your life dilemmas and I 15 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 1: provide you my very unqualified two cents on the situation 16 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: and a tear always joins in. 17 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 2: Two emphasis on the unqualified. 18 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:36,679 Speaker 1: This week, guys, today is all about money, So we 19 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: have a big life question and then we get into 20 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: our hotline questions, which are all about just having money 21 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: make you greedy? You guys should know how I feel 22 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: about this. And we also touch on the current economic 23 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: situation and the talks of a recession happening and basically 24 00:01:57,160 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: how to keep feeling abundant where all these you know, 25 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: fear based money mindset is in the air. 26 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 2: Yes, I love that. It's very difficult. 27 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a week funky time, guys. But yeah, let's 28 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 1: get straight into the show. Oh wait, recommendations like we 29 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:18,639 Speaker 1: do these every week and every week I just forget 30 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,800 Speaker 1: a tea. Watch your recommendation for the week. 31 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 2: My recommendation is a TV show that I binged last 32 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 2: weekend on Netflix called Partner Track. 33 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 1: You can't take my recommendation. I recommended it to you. 34 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 2: Let me get fine, guys. It's a great show. Think 35 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 2: summer I turned pretty crossed with suits. Yeah that's how 36 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 2: i'd described it. I think because it's like. 37 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: Obviously about law, but the biggest rom com and just juicy. 38 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 1: I also watch your recommend I also watch that and 39 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: can confirm it's great. I'm only I'm still only two 40 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:58,679 Speaker 1: EPs in here. 41 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 2: I'm Ted Epps. 42 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 1: It done. 43 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 2: No. 44 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:03,920 Speaker 1: Well, It's like when I find a good show, you 45 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: want to watch it. 46 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 2: Watch it. 47 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, so let's actually pull the audience on this. Put 48 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 1: this in your notes. Sit here. So when I find 49 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:15,239 Speaker 1: a good show, I like to save it where I'm like, no, 50 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: it's for the weekend. Do you do that or is 51 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: that a me thing? No? 52 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 2: Like I watched it all on the weekend. 53 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: During the week If you find a good show, oh, 54 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 1: do you then save it for the weekend? 55 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 2: I don't think I do. But I think also a 56 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 2: lot of the shows I've been watching recently have been 57 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 2: doing me dirty and only releasing an episode a week. 58 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 2: So I very much still savor it because it's like 59 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 2: on Tuesday nights, that's a show I watch because that's. 60 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 1: When the episode comes out. Okay, but They've all kind of. 61 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 2: Finished at the moment. I'm just in limbo, like watching 62 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 2: the block. 63 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 1: What's next. 64 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 65 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: I have this weird thing where the weekends are very 66 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 1: sacred to me, and I savor my favorite shows for 67 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 1: the weekend. 68 00:03:58,120 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 2: And do you Tim. 69 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: Hates it because he's like, let's just watch it, and 70 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, that's a weekend show, Tim, I. 71 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 2: Get what you mean. The other thing, the other question. 72 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: This is a huge part of it is on the weekend, 73 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:14,119 Speaker 1: Like we get takeout and I love watching takeout. I'd 74 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 1: love sorry, eating takeout and watching my favorite show. It's 75 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:17,359 Speaker 1: like a little tradition. 76 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:20,920 Speaker 2: Oh that's cute. I like that. Do you watch TV? 77 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 2: I guess the only way I describe it is like mindfully, 78 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,479 Speaker 2: like you sit down and you watch TV or your 79 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 2: background TV watcher. 80 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 1: When it's a show I like, I will mindfully watch it, 81 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: but mostly during the week twos because like we're trying 82 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 1: to cook dinner and get Ivy down, and it's like 83 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: it feels so rushed. On the weekend, it's usually very 84 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: like slow and sacred. 85 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 2: And do you watch TV while you do cooking during 86 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 2: the week or nothing? 87 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 1: No? 88 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 2: Interesting? 89 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: But then I find if I'm not that interested in 90 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: the show I've got on my phone. Oh and then 91 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, what even happened? I wouldn't actually know where 92 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 1: you whin? 93 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 2: And whatatch your other recommendation? 94 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so my actual recommendation is I have been trialing. 95 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna butcher the name vipisana meditation. 96 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:10,719 Speaker 2: I've not heard of it. 97 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 1: So it's a type of meditation that Buddhists. It's like 98 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 1: their meditation and there's no music and basically the whole 99 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 1: premise is the ones that I've done are guided, but 100 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 1: there's no music and there's just a voice and then 101 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:27,719 Speaker 1: like you don't hear them for a while. So it's 102 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 1: just like you and your thoughts, and the whole premise 103 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 1: is sitting basically in silence but acknowledging. Yeah, I guess sounds. 104 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: But then instead of getting distracted by the sounds, you 105 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: would just go label sound and then for example, if 106 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 1: you have a thought that took you, you know, when 107 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 1: you're meditating and a thought overtation and you have to 108 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 1: like bring yourself back. Yeah, it's like then you label 109 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: that thought and then you have to constantly bring your 110 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:58,919 Speaker 1: attention back as like the challenge. And that's I guess 111 00:05:59,120 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 1: what it is. 112 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 2: I do that and I struggle in normal meditation too. 113 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess it's a little bit harder because of silence. 114 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 2: Yeah there's no music. 115 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 1: Okay, So it says this is a Google definition, guys. 116 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 1: So it's called vip pisana. It's an ancient mindfulness meditation technique. 117 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 1: It involves observing your thoughts and emotions as they are, 118 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: without judging or dwelling on them through More studies are needed. 119 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 1: Research to date has found that vip pasana can reduce 120 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: stress and anxiety follower. So basically the whole thing is 121 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:37,159 Speaker 1: your like the whole concept. Supposedly, if you do this 122 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 1: meditation enough, you can become an observer, an observer sorry 123 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 1: of your thoughts and not let your thoughts control you whoa, 124 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 1: which I think is what we're all chasing, because if 125 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: you think about it, we have thoughts and that can 126 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 1: completely change our whole day, can change our mood, can 127 00:06:56,040 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: change our emotions. So it practices just you sing thoughts 128 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 1: as thoughts rather than your self thoughts as you. Yes, 129 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 1: that's the whole concept, I believe. 130 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 2: So you're kind of like detaching yourself from your thoughts. 131 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. And I was listening to this like potty about 132 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 1: it and they were explaining if you do it for 133 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 1: a number of years, which is, oh god, it's such 134 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: a long practice, but if you do it patience, Yeah, 135 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 1: you get to this point of basically like enlightenment where 136 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: you can understand that you are not your thoughts, and 137 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: you can do it in real life, not just in 138 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 1: the meditation. 139 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 2: So you're like kind of this conscious being separate to 140 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 2: your actual thoughts. I think. 141 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 1: So that's too much pretty, but oh, this is a 142 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: lot for a Friday, you know, a cool meditation because 143 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 1: sometimes I get stuck in the hole. Oh I'm not 144 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 1: going to meditate because I don't have my airpolodzone, have 145 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: my music and blah blah blah. So finding a form 146 00:07:56,200 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: of meditation that is literally you don't need those things, yeah, 147 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 1: has been really cool. 148 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 2: And out of curiosity, where do you do it? Do 149 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 2: you prefer nature so you have natural sound around you? 150 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: All? Like, yeah, well, I've just been doing it. I 151 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 1: don't know if you saw my inscram stories, but I 152 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 1: literally put a video of my Instagram stories my new 153 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 1: meditation spot. And it's our outside room. Our master is 154 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: the top of our house and it's like kind of 155 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: a round trees and I've just got a chair on 156 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 1: the balcony. So I go out there. I shut the 157 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: door so I can't hear Tim and Ivy and I 158 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 1: just sit on the chair, look at the view. I 159 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 1: do close my eyes and that's when I do it. 160 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, nature, that's a nice spot. 161 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. So I'm trialing that and I'm trying to be consistent. 162 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 1: It's hard. Anything new is hard, Yeah, but I'm like 163 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 1: this is good and that is my recommendation. 164 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 2: I love that I might try it out. 165 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 1: You won't, now that you said that, I will. Yeah, okay, 166 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 1: well I cannot wait to hear your thoughts. But on 167 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:54,439 Speaker 1: that note, let's get into the show. 168 00:08:54,679 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 2: Yes, so some of you might have heard this last 169 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:07,439 Speaker 2: time we did it, but I'll just give you an 170 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 2: overview in. 171 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 1: Case give us a recount. 172 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 2: But we have a new segment called Big Questions, and 173 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:16,439 Speaker 2: basically throughout the week month, we'll randomly pull you all 174 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:19,959 Speaker 2: on our Instagram stories of sort of a deep, big 175 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 2: life question that we contemplate or things that come up 176 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 2: in the office. 177 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 1: And then this is usually like Jamie, Jamie has this 178 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:31,679 Speaker 1: like really interesting mind, yes, and she'll come up with 179 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 1: these questions and I'm like, watch that I don't want 180 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: to choose. Yeah, they're really hard, they are. But yeah, 181 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 1: we're going to chat about what we think and then 182 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: we pold you guys, and we're gonna let you know 183 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 1: what everyone else thought. 184 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:48,680 Speaker 2: Yes. Love, So today our question, which I love, is 185 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 2: which would you choose work in your dream job but 186 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 2: it didn't pay well or would you want to work 187 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 2: in an average job with amazing pay? 188 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:01,559 Speaker 1: Like I'm just gonna have to go dream job. Imagine 189 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 1: living a life where you hated your job. 190 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:07,439 Speaker 2: I totally get what you mean, and I am leaning 191 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 2: towards dream job too. 192 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 1: Let me finish, Okay, Sorry, I just think. See if 193 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 1: you would have asked me this when I was younger, 194 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 1: my answer probably would have been different. But now realizing 195 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: how much my job fulfills me when it is my passion, 196 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:28,680 Speaker 1: I just couldn't go back and I couldn't do a 197 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 1: job I'm not in love with because if you think 198 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 1: about it, your dream job is eight hours of you know, 199 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: eighty percent of your week. And I just think, being 200 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 1: the person I am, who is the person I am? 201 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 1: Being the person I am, I think I would fall 202 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: into a depression or like that's a bit bleak, but 203 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: you do you know what I mean? Like, I just yeah, 204 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 1: I couldn't imagine it. But also depends how much they're paying, 205 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,320 Speaker 1: because I've got to live and be able to provide 206 00:10:58,320 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 1: for my family exactly. 207 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 2: And the where my thought went is, tell me what 208 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 2: you think I now, having worked here, I would obviously 209 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 2: go for the dream job because you don't realize it 210 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 2: until you're doing it how much of a difference it 211 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 2: makes to you as a person where you're working a 212 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 2: job that you actually love and that fulfills you because 213 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 2: it is such a large portion of your time, whether 214 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 2: we whether we want to accept that that's the way 215 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:25,959 Speaker 2: society is or not. No matter what, your job will 216 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 2: be a large portion of your time. Yeah, But in 217 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 2: saying that, if it wasn't a job you hated and 218 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 2: the pay was great and it meant you could go 219 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 2: on a four week vacation with your entire family and 220 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 2: not stress about your finances, and you can afford a 221 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:41,079 Speaker 2: nice house to live in so that you enjoy that time, 222 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 2: or you can financially set yourself up with a passive income. 223 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 1: That's not on the question. No, Okay, with that money, 224 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 1: you don't have to work. Let's pay Devil's advocate here, 225 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 1: because what if you have an average job with amazing pay, 226 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: But it did mean you have no stress, You're able 227 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 1: to provide for your family, so you have this beautiful 228 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 1: family life that then counteracts that, and you also have 229 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 1: these amazing hobbies that lift you up and fulfill you. Actually, 230 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with the other one. What did the 231 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 1: audience say, I want to know, Well, straight seventy thirty 232 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 1: percent split to the dream job because I've waited seventy 233 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 1: to the dream job. 234 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, the pole options were written like this dream job 235 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 2: for sure the money will come. 236 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 1: Who wrote that poll? Did you write that? 237 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:35,680 Speaker 2: I don't know it was Jamie. 238 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 1: I think that was you. You need to that's confusing now. 239 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 2: And then average job with amazing holidays was the second option. 240 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 2: You just like making up random things the same option. 241 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 2: I just wanted to be more interactive and engaging. 242 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: Tone down the fucking pole options. All right, I gotta 243 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 1: be bleak and I've well, I. 244 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 2: Just got to be a bit more clear because yeah, 245 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 2: if the money comes and or you'll piake the dream job, 246 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 2: that's what I mean. 247 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 1: So you really, so Drew, you really mess that one up. 248 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:09,079 Speaker 1: But I think I feel like, also, if you listen 249 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 1: to this podcast, you are generally someone who is like 250 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:16,080 Speaker 1: wanting to live your passion and that is such a 251 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:19,520 Speaker 1: super important part of your life. Yeah, but I think 252 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 1: also it's about us not being small minded and thinking that, oh, 253 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 1: you have to live your dream passion otherwise you know 254 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 1: life's gonna be over, because like, look at people like Tim, 255 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 1: who he is so someone that he's like, I don't 256 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:36,960 Speaker 1: actually care too much about what I do. He has 257 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:39,960 Speaker 1: his hobbies outside, he's got his family, and that's like 258 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: his life. 259 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 2: Is complete exactly. And I feel like I am jumping 260 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:47,680 Speaker 2: to conclusions. But when someone says average job, for me, 261 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 2: that's very much. You go there nine to five, you 262 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 2: leave work, you leave work at work. But it could 263 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 2: still be like quite fine, but still quite fine, still 264 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:56,880 Speaker 2: quite fine. It's not like you're gonna hate your life. 265 00:13:56,920 --> 00:13:58,840 Speaker 2: You're just not. Your work just might not. 266 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 1: I'm like opening macad podcast, guys, I need it. Else 267 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: loves honey coated Macadamias because they're just a vibe. I 268 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 1: think this is the end of the intro. Guys, enjoy 269 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 1: the rest of the all line. 270 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 2: Question one. I'm currently doing some manifesting and working through 271 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 2: the R and C project at my own pace, and 272 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 2: I keep running into the limiting belief that I am 273 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 2: being greedy. For example, my desire is to have a 274 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 2: six figure business, but I have this voice in the 275 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 2: back of my head that says this is just greed. 276 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 2: Any tips navigating around this would be much appreciated. 277 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 1: Greedy, Oh, this is a great question. 278 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:51,840 Speaker 2: I love it. I don't even think six figures is 279 00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 2: that greedy. 280 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: No, I'm like, oh, I must be very greedy. No, 281 00:14:57,800 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: I love this. This is just a limiting belief around 282 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 1: money and we all know and the money manifest I 283 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: love that I've just dubbed myself. That is that the 284 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 1: word dubbed. Yes, okay, that's like what the queen does 285 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 1: and yeah, good, that's what I meant. Yeah, I love this. 286 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 1: This is just a limiting belief around money. And this 287 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 1: is like I feel like, this is like the old 288 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 1: school when they talk about money mindset. It's like, you know, 289 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 1: around greed. 290 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 2: So you have. 291 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 1: Picked up somewhere that if you have a lot of money, 292 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 1: it makes you greedy. So whether that's something your parents said, 293 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 1: something you picked up off movies that you were conditioned 294 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:48,600 Speaker 1: to believe, so basically you just need to unlearn this 295 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 1: and find some expanders around this. I'm going to give 296 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 1: myself as an expander because it's really easy to fall 297 00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 1: into this. But for example myself, something that I noticed 298 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:08,320 Speaker 1: when I started accumulating more money and earning more money 299 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 1: is how generous I became. So I have multiple charities 300 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 1: that I give to per month that it's just like 301 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 1: an automatic donation, which is something that I would not 302 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 1: be able to do if I didn't have an overflow 303 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 1: of money, if I only had enough money to pay 304 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 1: my bills, pay employees, you know this, and that I 305 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: would not be able to give to others. 306 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 307 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 1: Another thing I noticed is how much more generous I got, 308 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 1: just even like with family or friends or giving things, 309 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 1: because I felt like I had enough that there would be, 310 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: you know, an overflow to give to others. So like 311 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: my response to that is I had the completely opposite 312 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 1: effect where when I earned more money, I was more generous, 313 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:57,520 Speaker 1: I became less greedy. When I had less money, I 314 00:16:57,640 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 1: was quote unquote more greedy. 315 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 2: Because you're holding onto all your money. 316 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 1: Because I felt like I had to because I felt 317 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 1: like I didn't have enough money for things. And that's 318 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:07,880 Speaker 1: why if you think of greed, that's what we do, 319 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 1: is we hold onto money because we think we're not 320 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 1: going to get more or have enough money for things. 321 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 1: But if you have enough money, you're not greedy. You're 322 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:18,360 Speaker 1: generous because you're like, oh, of course I know there's 323 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 1: more money coming, you know, have some Yeah. 324 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:21,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 325 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:24,160 Speaker 1: And also another big thing that I had to reframe 326 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: with money and earning more money is, for example, this podcast. 327 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 1: This used to be just me and my microphone. I 328 00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:35,160 Speaker 1: would edit everything myself. I do everything myself. Was Now 329 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:38,879 Speaker 1: I've got Jamie and a tea and I'm paying for 330 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 1: someone's wage that is funding their life. You're welcome, thank you, 331 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:47,160 Speaker 1: But do you know what I mean? And like, how 332 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 1: amazing is that I've been able to grow the podcast, 333 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 1: I've been able to reach more people. I now have 334 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:56,360 Speaker 1: a team. They are able to live their life. And 335 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,439 Speaker 1: do you not see that? Like domino effect? Yeah, so 336 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 1: they're just like some little examples of how I would 337 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 1: reframe this mindset. 338 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:06,359 Speaker 2: Yeah. And I think as well, even if it's not 339 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 2: just money, it might even be a limiting belief about abundance. Yes, 340 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 2: in that I think a lot of people will go 341 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 2: I can't have a six figure business because this person 342 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:17,439 Speaker 2: already has this business that owns six figures in a 343 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 2: similar industry, or it sells a similar product. But there 344 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 2: is always more where that came from. Always more, There's 345 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:26,439 Speaker 2: always more, There's always space. 346 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's here. I was reading a book 347 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:30,639 Speaker 1: the other day. I don't want to recommend it yet 348 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:34,479 Speaker 1: because I'm not sure on it. So once I finish it, 349 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:38,159 Speaker 1: I will recommend it. If I do recommend it, but 350 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:41,400 Speaker 1: basically it's like a money book, which I love. And 351 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:47,080 Speaker 1: they were saying that only four percent of money in 352 00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:53,679 Speaker 1: the world is physical money, so you know notes, yeah, coin, yes, 353 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 1: you know how there's like stacks of bills and banks, 354 00:18:56,400 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 1: and there's gold bars, and there's you know, physical represents 355 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 1: of money, and then there's things like you can see 356 00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: a number in your bank account, but that's not a 357 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 1: physical thing. Yes, So the physical money that we can 358 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 1: hold see and is around the world is only four 359 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:17,359 Speaker 1: percent of the wealth in the world. Oh my god, 360 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 1: that's too much for my head. But do you know 361 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:21,959 Speaker 1: what I mean? Like, there is so much wealth, and 362 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:25,520 Speaker 1: there is so much abundance just floating around the world 363 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 1: just in the energy, you know. And so that was 364 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:32,920 Speaker 1: like mine blowing for me, and I was like, there 365 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:34,720 Speaker 1: is so much abundance. 366 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 2: There is literally so much. 367 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I just thought that was interesting. I want 368 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:42,480 Speaker 1: to share it. I love it so Yes, in conclusion, 369 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 1: I think you just need to rework it. I personally 370 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 1: like what I went through with earning, you know, over 371 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,159 Speaker 1: six fingers and getting to that inn a business, and 372 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:54,920 Speaker 1: then what I realized the biggest thing that I would 373 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:58,639 Speaker 1: say is like flip that and be like no. When I, 374 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 1: you know, get to see figures, I am more generous. 375 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 1: I am you know, I'm better with money. I'm able 376 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 1: to then have a team, yeah, and grow my business 377 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 1: and help others. And also generally a business is helping others. 378 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 1: Every single business helps somebody. 379 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:16,920 Speaker 2: Would you agree to do something? 380 00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:20,199 Speaker 1: To do something like whatever it is? And I always 381 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 1: think about, you know, the more money you earn, the 382 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:24,159 Speaker 1: more people you're helping. 383 00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:25,000 Speaker 2: I love that. 384 00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, And especially if you have like a soul aligned 385 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:31,439 Speaker 1: business like I do, it's really easy to you know, 386 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:34,240 Speaker 1: be like no, if i earn more money, it just 387 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:37,399 Speaker 1: means I've helped more people, and you know, the world 388 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 1: is better off, and that's like a really beautiful way 389 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 1: to look at it rather than oh I've been greedy. Yes. 390 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 2: I love that question too, A bit of a deep one. 391 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 1: Mm hm, hey g. 392 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 2: I recently have been thinking about buying a house, but 393 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,680 Speaker 2: with the market changing, I don't know if I should 394 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 2: buy now or wait. I also have a lot of 395 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,360 Speaker 2: fear around buying in this current economy, with their being 396 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 2: talks of recession and interest rates rising. Do you have 397 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,119 Speaker 2: any tips on how to deal with the fear and 398 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 2: anxiety when it comes to the current economy. 399 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love this. I'm so glad we 400 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:13,880 Speaker 1: put this in because I've been thinking about this so much. 401 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:15,880 Speaker 2: Me too, I think everybody has. 402 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:18,880 Speaker 1: Yes, Oh I love this episode. It's like very money 403 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:23,960 Speaker 1: based it is. We love that. So, guys, I've been 404 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,679 Speaker 1: thinking about this a lot. And I'm in a situation 405 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 1: where I have just purchased our next family home that 406 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 1: was very expensive and now I am Brooke. I will 407 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 1: not say those words. 408 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 2: I take it back. 409 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:42,639 Speaker 1: Money minds that, guys, But you know, we have just 410 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 1: purchased this family home. Very exciting, It's our next step 411 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 1: for us. But there has been a lot of times 412 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 1: where I've had this exact doubt and this exact limiting 413 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 1: belief of have we done the right thing? Are we 414 00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:00,440 Speaker 1: about to go into our recession? And you know, the 415 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 1: value of his houses going to go down? Are the 416 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:04,200 Speaker 1: interest rates about. 417 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 2: To go up? 418 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,879 Speaker 1: So I won't be able to afford our mortgage repayments? 419 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:10,880 Speaker 1: So so much fear, Yeah, And I think I can 420 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:14,000 Speaker 1: definitely feel that as a collective, Like, have you been 421 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:15,200 Speaker 1: feeling the fear? A tear? 422 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:17,879 Speaker 2: I have to the point that I've just like stopped 423 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 2: watching the news good, which has been quite good for 424 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 2: my mental health. I just I do not engage with 425 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,439 Speaker 2: it at all in ad breaks if I'm watching, like 426 00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:28,359 Speaker 2: I like watching the blog. So when I'm watching the 427 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:30,199 Speaker 2: blog and the news ad break comes out, I just 428 00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,120 Speaker 2: mute it and I walk away and do something else, 429 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 2: which has helped me because I think with stuff the 430 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 2: news is so fear moggeling. Is it is like even 431 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 2: stuff that you shouldn't really be that scared of. 432 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:45,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it gets Yeah, I have this really I'm trying 433 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 1: to remember this really great quote from Ida, who we 434 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 1: had on the potty years ago, and it was around COVID. Yeah, 435 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: so it was a similar time where there was a 436 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:59,959 Speaker 1: lot of fear and something that she said, which like 437 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 1: has really stuck to me, was honestly because I said, 438 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 1: you know, everyone's scared about COVID. This is just when 439 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:09,480 Speaker 1: it hit. I'm like, you know, everyone's scared about COVID. 440 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 1: You know, some people want to buy a house. Is 441 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 1: it the right time? Is the wrong time? Is there 442 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:18,880 Speaker 1: a recession coming? And she said, honestly, whatever the news 443 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:23,239 Speaker 1: tells you about when to buy and when not to 444 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 1: buy with real estate, do the opposite. 445 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:27,520 Speaker 2: Wow. 446 00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:30,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's She's just like, if the news is like 447 00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:34,200 Speaker 1: don't buy, you know, the interest rates are going up 448 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 1: and this and that, or the market is too you know, 449 00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:40,200 Speaker 1: blowing up too much, She's like, honestly, do the opposite. 450 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:44,840 Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, Well, she's like they don't understand the 451 00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:49,679 Speaker 1: actual market because obviously it controls consumer behavior. But she 452 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:53,359 Speaker 1: was just saying, if you have the deposit for a 453 00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:56,879 Speaker 1: house and you are prepared to hang on to that 454 00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,679 Speaker 1: house for you know, ten or twenty years, it is 455 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 1: never a wrong time to buy, true, because she's like, 456 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,200 Speaker 1: the market will go up and down, the market will 457 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 1: do its thing. Even if we go through a recession 458 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 1: and it like quote unquote crashes, if you can hold 459 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 1: that house for the next ten or twenty years, it 460 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 1: won't matter. Yeah. 461 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:21,160 Speaker 2: It's kind of like shares, yes, exactly, if and buy 462 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 2: them on you thought it was a low but then 463 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:24,640 Speaker 2: it gets even lower, it's not that big a deal 464 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:25,720 Speaker 2: because it will go up again. 465 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:29,199 Speaker 1: Correct. And so she's like, don't listen to the news, 466 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,680 Speaker 1: don't buy into the fear. It's the whole like stay 467 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 1: in your own lane kind of thing. And if you 468 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:38,200 Speaker 1: have enough money to buy a house, you know, if 469 00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:40,719 Speaker 1: that is your next step. If there's a house that 470 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:44,440 Speaker 1: ticks all your boxes, buy the house compared to if 471 00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:47,920 Speaker 1: you don't, then don't. She's like, don't buy into the news. 472 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 1: Don't buy into the because that's what she said. It's 473 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:54,679 Speaker 1: really funny because two years ago she's like, you know, 474 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 1: people are saying don't buy because COVID's about to hear it. Oh, 475 00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:01,920 Speaker 1: and then the market went and she's she's she bought 476 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:04,200 Speaker 1: so many properties because she has like a really big 477 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 1: portfolio of her own properties. Yeah, she bought so many 478 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 1: properties and then everything went nuts because she did the opposite. Yeah, 479 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:14,520 Speaker 1: And that's what she said, is like, you take chances, 480 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: you take risks, like this is life. Just don't be worried. 481 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 1: And I love it so much. And that's what I 482 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 1: had to tell myself. With us. 483 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 2: I was like Georgia, like. 484 00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:27,159 Speaker 1: You know, and also, worst case scenario, we sell the house, 485 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, we sort it out and it's it's fine. 486 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:34,640 Speaker 1: I just I think we shouldn't buy into fear. I 487 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,119 Speaker 1: just think it's the worst thing to do. And often 488 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 1: when I'm making a decision, I'm like, am I making 489 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 1: this because it feels intuitively right? Or am I deciding 490 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:48,199 Speaker 1: out of fear, because if you're deciding out of fear, no, 491 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 1: it's the wrong decision. 492 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think as well, thinking back to the beginning 493 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 2: of COVID, I was actually quite scared as well, but 494 00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:59,200 Speaker 2: I tried to make myself excited about it in a way. 495 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,720 Speaker 2: So I actually it was so long ago now, so 496 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,400 Speaker 2: the stuff I might say now might not be factually 497 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:11,120 Speaker 2: completely correct. I'm pretty sure that after every major recession 498 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:15,920 Speaker 2: you see this crazy wild I'm pretty sure every massive 499 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 2: business aligned with a recession. So like I'm pretty sure 500 00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:24,040 Speaker 2: I'm or like boom, so like Amazon came out of 501 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:27,639 Speaker 2: a recession. Google came out of a recession, or like 502 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:31,320 Speaker 2: these massive industry booms always came out of a recession, 503 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 2: and that was the time it was ready for the 504 00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 2: next sort of like the world is leveling up, so 505 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,440 Speaker 2: it goes through a bit of a funk, and then 506 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 2: you're next the technology evolution had or digital age that 507 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:45,959 Speaker 2: always happens after financial. 508 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 1: You're the queen of positivity. 509 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:47,440 Speaker 2: I love it. 510 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,760 Speaker 1: Well that actually, let's even chat about that, because I 511 00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:55,320 Speaker 1: want to be very transparent and say, you know, I 512 00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:59,400 Speaker 1: think on social media and things can be like, oh, 513 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 1: you know, obviously business is going well and everyone's killing 514 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 1: it and having the best time. And it's like, we 515 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 1: have noticed such a huge dip in consumer spending in 516 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:14,439 Speaker 1: Naked Harvest, just like Hute and obviously even I know 517 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:18,959 Speaker 1: personally from the RNC course of enrollments last year compared 518 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:23,760 Speaker 1: to enrollments this year. Yeah, and it's obviously like circumstances, 519 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:27,480 Speaker 1: we're coming out of that huge you know, COVID stam 520 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 1: where everyone was at home, everyone was spending money because 521 00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 1: they couldn't spend it on travel or but. 522 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:36,680 Speaker 2: Like even just job keeper for like sixteen year olds 523 00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 2: was there having the life. 524 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 1: And so things are changing, and we have had a 525 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,119 Speaker 1: discussion with the team and we're kind of like, look, 526 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:49,800 Speaker 1: things are changing, and it's okay, yea. The best thing 527 00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 1: that we can do is, like you were saying, level up. 528 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 529 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:57,320 Speaker 1: So a big thing we noticed within Naked Harvest is 530 00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:01,080 Speaker 1: our usual marketing activations or things we would do just 531 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,679 Speaker 1: weren't cutting it like they used to. Yeah, And so 532 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,120 Speaker 1: we actually sat down and we had this big team 533 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,439 Speaker 1: meeting where we were like, what can we do to 534 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,680 Speaker 1: level up? Not I would I don't want to say 535 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 1: pivot because it's not like we you know, changed all 536 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:17,679 Speaker 1: these things or anything like that. But it's almost like, 537 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,359 Speaker 1: all right, here's a time where it's a challenge and 538 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 1: it's like let's fucking go, you know. I mean, like 539 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,760 Speaker 1: let's do this. Rather than being like oh my god 540 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,800 Speaker 1: and like leaning into the fear, it's like, no, this 541 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:32,399 Speaker 1: is just a challenge. We're going to have to pivot 542 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,639 Speaker 1: a little bit with how we do things. You know, 543 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 1: marketing is changing, but it's okay, and it's exciting, Like 544 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 1: like you said, like it's exciting. But I think let's 545 00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:46,880 Speaker 1: also be fucking transparent about it because so many businesses 546 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 1: that I've spoken to, you know, huge, they're big giants 547 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:55,200 Speaker 1: in the industry, are feeling the exact same. So if 548 00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 1: you're feeling the same, maybe you have a small business 549 00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:01,240 Speaker 1: and you've noticed consumer spending has you know, dropped or 550 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 1: anything like that, Like I just want to say, you're 551 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 1: not alone. It is so normal. We're obviously going through 552 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 1: something right now. But again, also I just refuse to 553 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:11,520 Speaker 1: let it mean anything. 554 00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:14,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, And you know what is crazy is that it's 555 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:19,719 Speaker 2: like consumer spending is dropping because people are stressed because 556 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 2: interest rates are going up, in cost of living starting 557 00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 2: to go up, but because consumer spending drops, then companies 558 00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 2: aren't getting the money, and then it's kind of just 559 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,720 Speaker 2: like the circle because then they don't make enough money 560 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,760 Speaker 2: to keep stuff on, and then that reduces consumer spending 561 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,160 Speaker 2: even more exactly, and it's just like this hell whole 562 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 2: that everybody starts because they're scared to spend money. 563 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 1: Well, that's what I mean is like, if we don't 564 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,560 Speaker 1: buy into the fear, the recession doesn't happen. 565 00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:45,920 Speaker 2: No. 566 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 1: Literally, But also I think it's locking. So I have 567 00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:55,320 Speaker 1: a core belief of you know, if there is a 568 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:59,160 Speaker 1: recession or if there is something that happens, I'm gonna 569 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,400 Speaker 1: be okay, I'm going to sort it out. And you know, 570 00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,720 Speaker 1: within the business too, we're going to work it out. 571 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 1: This is just another challenge with a business, Jesus, you 572 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 1: have a lot of them, and it's like, I'm going 573 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 1: to work it out. I'm going to you know, sort 574 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:18,000 Speaker 1: it out. And I think it is huge of going 575 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:21,480 Speaker 1: back to the source, which is fear and anxiety. And 576 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,320 Speaker 1: this person has said it like do you have any 577 00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,720 Speaker 1: tips on how to deal with fear and anxiety when 578 00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 1: it comes to the economy. So, first of all, a 579 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 1: TIA that was a great one stop watching the news. Absolutely, 580 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 1: don't buy into it. Cleanse to Instagram, cleanse the gram. 581 00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 1: Second one I want you to do is what I 582 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 1: was saying, like, don't let it mean anything. Something only 583 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 1: has power on you if you let it mean something. 584 00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:50,520 Speaker 1: So just go, Okay, I'm aware I'm noticing some things happening, 585 00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 1: but I refuse to let it mean something that is 586 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:57,400 Speaker 1: fearful for me. Yeah, because that's like, you know, if 587 00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:00,400 Speaker 1: we're getting into the quantum field and like matter festing 588 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 1: and stuff, the more you lean into it, the more 589 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:06,360 Speaker 1: the thing's gonna happen. Absolutely, So it's like nap stopping here, 590 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:10,400 Speaker 1: we're not buying into that today. It's going, yes, locking 591 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 1: in the core beliefs of whatever happens, I sort it out, 592 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,440 Speaker 1: whatever challenge comes, I rise up. 593 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 594 00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:21,320 Speaker 1: And then also I would just be working on your 595 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 1: mental health absolutely so, doing things that do bring you 596 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 1: happiness and joy, doing things that do help you with 597 00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:32,680 Speaker 1: your mental health, like journaling and meditation. A tear had 598 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:36,320 Speaker 1: a really good recommendation in a previous podcast about cleansing 599 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 1: your Instagram, So unfollowing people who just don't, you know, 600 00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,640 Speaker 1: bring joy to your day. Doing little things like that 601 00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:46,240 Speaker 1: is really important and then again I would be finding expanders. 602 00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,920 Speaker 1: I loved what you said a tea of like seeing 603 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 1: what happens after a recession, because it's yeah, you go. 604 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 2: I did a quick Google love here are some companies 605 00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:01,719 Speaker 2: that started during a recession tell us And it blows 606 00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:04,920 Speaker 2: my mind because imagine the nerves these people would have had, going, 607 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:06,680 Speaker 2: this is the right time to start my business. 608 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 1: Should I wait a few years? But this is awesome? 609 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:15,040 Speaker 2: So General Electric, General Motors IBM, which is the computer 610 00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:18,320 Speaker 2: company that was Apple's major rival when they first started. 611 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:26,520 Speaker 2: Disney HP hired to the hotels FedEx, Microsoft, Wow, Salesforce, 612 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:31,720 Speaker 2: Google and Facebook stop that love. 613 00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:37,200 Speaker 1: That yeah, And that's like I also think of because actually, 614 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 1: if I reflect last when COVID first hit, I had 615 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:46,760 Speaker 1: like a mental breakdown. I remember this key day where 616 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 1: everything was happening and they mentioned like lockdown was happening, 617 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,479 Speaker 1: and I had girlfriends who were at the Gold Coast 618 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,479 Speaker 1: and they were about to drive home to Brisbane. They're like, oh, 619 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,040 Speaker 1: we'll just pop in and see you, and they popped 620 00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 1: in and I just started and I just because I 621 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,040 Speaker 1: just was like, I'm so unsure. I don't know what's 622 00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 1: going to happen. Like we had just started Naked Harvest, 623 00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,480 Speaker 1: we had just got in a warehouse, like we had 624 00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 1: just spent so much money on outlays, and I was 625 00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:16,760 Speaker 1: genuinely scared and so fearful, and I remember crying. And 626 00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 1: it's crazy because my best friend, she was literally just 627 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:22,320 Speaker 1: starting her business who does the crystals called Crystal Co. 628 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 1: And like, it's crazy because she was just studying a 629 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:29,000 Speaker 1: business at the start of COVID and she just had 630 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 1: no fear. 631 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:32,240 Speaker 2: She's like, what are you talking. 632 00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:35,080 Speaker 1: About, Georgia, Like basically get your shit together. She's like, 633 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,320 Speaker 1: you know, like she was so positive and she's like, no, 634 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:40,400 Speaker 1: this is exciting. And now I look back, it's the 635 00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:43,479 Speaker 1: biggest blessing in dis Oh my god. Like COVID just 636 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 1: ramped up consumer spending and was huge, except you know, 637 00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,840 Speaker 1: people were at home and they were working out, and 638 00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,600 Speaker 1: you know, it was ended up being really amazing for us. Obviously, 639 00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:56,800 Speaker 1: COVID in general was not amazing. I don't I want 640 00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:00,479 Speaker 1: to stress that, but I look back and I remember 641 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 1: how I felt, and I remember the fear, and now 642 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 1: I know then what happened after that. I'm like, no, 643 00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 1: I'm not doing that again. I'm not buying into the fear. 644 00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:12,040 Speaker 1: I'm not letting it control me because I believe that 645 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:14,160 Speaker 1: it's going to be better than I could have imagined. 646 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:17,560 Speaker 1: And even if there might be a dip or something 647 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:21,239 Speaker 1: happens where it looks a bit not great, I just 648 00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 1: refuse to believe that it's then not going to go 649 00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:27,319 Speaker 1: up and be this amazing opportunity and this amazing thing 650 00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:27,880 Speaker 1: that happens. 651 00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,840 Speaker 2: It's like that quote. I used to say it to 652 00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,360 Speaker 2: myself all the time because I was a bit of 653 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:36,319 Speaker 2: a stress pot. But like stressing and worrying is just 654 00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:40,480 Speaker 2: putting yourself through the pain twice. Yes, So don't I 655 00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,719 Speaker 2: love that? That's Yeah, that's such a good quote to 656 00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:45,920 Speaker 2: finish on a tea. Yeah, I hope you enjoyed that 657 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:49,160 Speaker 2: little recession ranch. It would be really cool to get 658 00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:53,640 Speaker 2: someone actually who has qualification just to talk about player. 659 00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 2: We have no financial qualification whatsoever us And that was 660 00:34:57,239 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 2: not financial advice, just to stilly out on a podcast 661 00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,160 Speaker 2: talking about money and financials. 662 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,719 Speaker 1: But yeah, don't buy into the fear, my loves, You've 663 00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:13,960 Speaker 1: got this. 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