WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Do you get on with your In-Laws? 0:00:14.000 --> 0:00:14.600 Come on in. 0:00:18.720 --> 0:00:22.680 Hello, here we go, guys. 0:00:22.880 --> 0:00:23.400 Do you know what? 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:26.159 I had the most lovely day today. I'm sorry, I mean, 0:00:26.239 --> 0:00:28.400 I love being here. I love seeing you guys. Happy 0:00:28.440 --> 0:00:31.480 three o'clock everyone. But we have been back to back 0:00:31.520 --> 0:00:33.760 with work because we just finished off our live shows 0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:34.279 Life on Cut. 0:00:34.280 --> 0:00:35.720 We've been traveling all over the country. 0:00:36.040 --> 0:00:40.360 It's been this very challenging but fun work a couple 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:42.800 of weeks. But also it means I haven't spent a 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:45.520 lot of time with my kids and the mum guilt 0:00:45.520 --> 0:00:47.600 that I have been feeling over the last few weeks, 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:50.680 and how just like I just have felt like I've 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:52.760 not been very clocked in on them. And today I 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:55.680 got to spend the whole day with Marley and Lola, 0:00:55.800 --> 0:00:57.600 and we had this really beautiful moment Marley and I 0:00:57.680 --> 0:00:59.400 where we were laying in bed having a cuddle. 0:00:59.840 --> 0:01:03.000 And usually you think your kids don't really miss. 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:05.040 You, right, they're always kind of a bit distracted, and 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:07.000 then when you actually put your time and energy into them, 0:01:07.280 --> 0:01:07.679 you're like, do. 0:01:07.720 --> 0:01:09.080 They even really care? 0:01:09.240 --> 0:01:09.479 Yeah? 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:12.080 Being away and now I'm back. And she was so sweet, 0:01:12.120 --> 0:01:14.640 she was like, Mommy, I've missed you so much. That 0:01:14.760 --> 0:01:16.119 had to help with the guilt, doesn't I. 0:01:16.280 --> 0:01:19.000 Know, But honestly, it was just it was exactly what 0:01:19.080 --> 0:01:20.600 I needed to fill my cut back up. And then 0:01:20.640 --> 0:01:22.120 I was like, okay, but their mommy had to come 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:22.960 back to work this afternoon. 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:24.920 Laura don't want to. I don't want to take away. 0:01:24.680 --> 0:01:28.080 From that, but I feel very similar with my dog Delilah. 0:01:28.480 --> 0:01:29.800 She was like, thank god, your home, mummy. 0:01:29.880 --> 0:01:31.840 No, I'm not home yet, but I feel very guilty 0:01:33.240 --> 0:01:35.320 that I leave her unattended and I don't care for 0:01:35.319 --> 0:01:37.240 her enough attention. And I'm sure if she could talk, 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:39.759 she would say something similar to what your girls have said. 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:42.640 I'd just like to clarify my kids were not left unattended. 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:44.360 They were definitely they're well. 0:01:45.520 --> 0:01:47.200 Now, I'm glad you guys have said this. It reminds you. 0:01:47.200 --> 0:01:48.400 I've got a lot of men on Tinder that i 0:01:48.400 --> 0:01:50.480 haven't replied to and it's just been so hard. 0:01:52.600 --> 0:01:55.240 All right, Well, we have a huge show coming up. 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:57.680 But next up, we had one of our favorites. It's 0:01:57.720 --> 0:02:01.160 Asking Cuts, where you guys writing and calling with your deepest, 0:02:01.240 --> 0:02:04.560 darkest burning questions and problems and we do our best 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:05.000 to answer them. 0:02:05.040 --> 0:02:06.520 We have a really really good one. 0:02:06.600 --> 0:02:09.480 Yeah, Burning question next, But on the show today as 0:02:09.520 --> 0:02:11.560 well before four o'clock a thousand dollars cash up for 0:02:11.600 --> 0:02:14.600 grabs thanks to targ That's exciting. Thousand bucks very soon, 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:17.639 let's start to pick up. It's Thursday, which means, ladies, 0:02:17.800 --> 0:02:19.800 it's time for this ask. 0:02:20.000 --> 0:02:26.240 I'm cut Thursday, or how we fondly refer to it, 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:29.560 therapy Thursday ask on cut Day, it's where you guys 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:33.200 write in or call in with your deepest, darkest burning questions, 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:35.680 the most the biggest problem you have of this week. 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:40.360 Menique's on the line. Hi Manique, Hi Many, what do 0:02:40.400 --> 0:02:41.200 you got going on? 0:02:42.400 --> 0:02:44.720 Well, I've been with my both send for that eight 0:02:44.720 --> 0:02:48.240 months now, and that's why I'm going really really great 0:02:48.440 --> 0:02:52.880 love the guys. He's wonderful. He lives with his family 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:56.919 and go over there fairly frequently. I'll see them in 0:02:57.040 --> 0:02:59.680 passionate least like two three times a week have been. 0:03:01.360 --> 0:03:04.720 But I'm really struggling to connect with them or get 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:08.280 to know them. And it's really difficult because we've got 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:11.880 quite an age gap, and while that doesn't really reflect 0:03:11.880 --> 0:03:15.480 in my relationships with my boyfriend, it sort of comes 0:03:15.520 --> 0:03:18.520 to show. So I'm really struggling with the dad. So 0:03:18.520 --> 0:03:21.040 I'm wondering if he's maybe have any tips on, you know, 0:03:21.080 --> 0:03:22.600 how to get to your part OF's family or how 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:25.320 to connect with them better when you just don't. 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:27.760 Really when they count because the age gap they were 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:28.480 talking about. 0:03:28.520 --> 0:03:29.360 Ten years younger. 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:30.720 When you say you having a lot of problems with 0:03:30.720 --> 0:03:33.280 the dad, what problems are we talking like? He's route 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:36.480 and abrasive, he's not welcoming, or he just doesn't open 0:03:36.560 --> 0:03:37.960 up much, he doesn't ask you questions. 0:03:37.960 --> 0:03:39.240 What's the level of problem here? 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:43.240 Mostly just not opening up Sometimes you can tell us 0:03:43.280 --> 0:03:46.920 a bit of a tone shift when they're talking to me. 0:03:47.960 --> 0:03:50.080 Do you think they don't approve of the relationship or 0:03:50.080 --> 0:03:53.000 do you think it's just that maybe it's personality conflicts. 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:56.960 Passively personality conflicts. I've get to broach the subject of 0:03:56.960 --> 0:03:59.360 whether of how they actually feel about me. I'm kind 0:03:59.360 --> 0:03:59.840 of scared to. 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:01.960 I think the big issue here is that he's still 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:04.200 living at home. You know if because the problem is 0:04:04.200 --> 0:04:07.240 is well like it's it is a problem for you 0:04:07.320 --> 0:04:09.600 that you don't get on with the in laws because 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:12.200 you're having to go to their house and be in 0:04:12.240 --> 0:04:14.120 their space and you don't have your own privacy. You 0:04:14.120 --> 0:04:16.800 don't have your own you know, you can't have your 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:19.320 own walls up. Yeah, and you've got to be on 0:04:19.360 --> 0:04:21.440 behavior because mommy and Daddy are there. 0:04:21.720 --> 0:04:22.080 I don't know. 0:04:22.160 --> 0:04:24.479 I think for me, it's not so much about having 0:04:24.520 --> 0:04:26.800 to have the perfect relationship with your in laws. It 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:30.200 does come down to how your partner responds to that though, 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:32.360 like do they is he perceptive to it? 0:04:32.400 --> 0:04:34.400 Is he trying to mend the bridge? 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:37.200 Like how does he respond when they're not kind of 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:40.080 being very nice or welcoming or whatever. 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:40.679 It is that they're doing. 0:04:41.040 --> 0:04:43.920 I think that that shows so much of his personality 0:04:43.960 --> 0:04:46.240 and who he is and how invested is in the relationship. 0:04:46.520 --> 0:04:49.159 But then also I think, if this is challenging for 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:51.200 you and you're not enjoying it, and you guys are 0:04:51.240 --> 0:04:53.359 working towards something together, I think. 0:04:53.160 --> 0:04:55.880 He needs to move out from living with mum and dad. Maniku. 0:04:55.920 --> 0:04:57.800 I thinking that one piece of advice here for you 0:04:57.920 --> 0:04:59.800 is you said you're really shy, and you go over 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:01.640 there and you have a hard time connecting. The number 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:05.000 one piece of advice here for for humans in general 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:09.599 is people want to feel noticed and like someone's interested 0:05:09.640 --> 0:05:12.279 in them. And I say that because it's really important 0:05:12.320 --> 0:05:16.400 for you to maybe find out something about your partner's parents. 0:05:16.920 --> 0:05:19.160 Ask the questions about their life, what they've done, make 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:21.920 them feel like you're genuinely interested, because it does really 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:23.760 go a long way, and I think that that will 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:26.400 help you connect with him. So maybe ask your partner 0:05:26.440 --> 0:05:28.760 a little bit about their life and something you can 0:05:28.839 --> 0:05:29.240 lean into. 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:31.440 Maybe it's a favorite food you can bring over or 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:31.880 bring up. 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:36.760 But when you ask somebody questions about themselves, they feel 0:05:36.800 --> 0:05:39.839 more connected to you and like you are more interested. 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:41.120 They're going to give you more and I think that's 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:41.760 really important. 0:05:41.839 --> 0:05:43.480 Okay, but at the end of the day, you're. 0:05:43.360 --> 0:05:45.440 Not dating his family, so don't it's not a deal breaker. 0:05:45.440 --> 0:05:45.960 You're not going to. 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:49.599 Break out like you and you want to get on 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:49.920 with them. 0:05:50.960 --> 0:05:53.279 Give us an update, Okay, calls back in six months 0:05:53.320 --> 0:05:57.400 and let us know how it goes. Worries, if you 0:05:57.440 --> 0:05:58.760 want to get it touched, you get and ask the 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:00.640 kind of your own to pick up or do you 0:06:00.800 --> 0:06:01.120 right now? 0:06:01.200 --> 0:06:01.440 Yes? 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:03.880 Well, look, speaking of people who live at home with 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:06.040 their parents, I'm coming up next. I want to talk 0:06:06.040 --> 0:06:09.320 about a mum who has recently evicted her adult children 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:10.120 from her house. 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:13.200 Good, yeah, yeah, go for it, and you'll want to 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:16.279 know why you're saying this. Mitch Churry, the guy who lives. 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:19.680 At home, I actually want to bring it up. But okay, 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:22.520 we can get into this. Yeah you are. I've got 0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:24.760 points to argue, and we'll do it next on the 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:25.480 show with the pickup. 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:28.960 All right, I have a story to tell you guys. 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:32.800 Now, one might say that a mother's love knows no bounds, 0:06:33.240 --> 0:06:37.720 but that day though, yeah, well would I yes? 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:40.159 I will love my children togever do. 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:42.560 I want to support my children for the rest of 0:06:42.600 --> 0:06:45.440 their lives, until I am old and on a pension. 0:06:45.839 --> 0:06:46.279 Not really. 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:48.599 I hope that one day they grow up, they spread 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:51.000 their wings and they fly away from my house and 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:52.919 into someone else's family. 0:06:53.160 --> 0:06:55.720 That's the dream from every for every parent. Would you agree? 0:06:56.480 --> 0:06:58.560 I mean I was straight out home at eighteen, and 0:06:58.600 --> 0:06:59.919 I don't have kids, so yeah, I. 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:01.760 Mean I also moved out of home when I was 0:07:01.800 --> 0:07:03.840 nineteen years old, so like we were out of there 0:07:03.839 --> 0:07:04.920 young Mitch, not so much. 0:07:04.920 --> 0:07:06.360 There is going? Where is this? 0:07:06.440 --> 0:07:06.760 Okay? 0:07:06.960 --> 0:07:09.479 Oh right, all right, well look what happened. I'm going 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:11.880 to take you over to Italy. There is a seventy 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:15.760 five year old woman there now, She lives in northern Italy, 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:19.080 in a beautiful place called Pavia, and she has recently 0:07:19.120 --> 0:07:23.040 won a court case suing her two sons. Right, she 0:07:23.120 --> 0:07:26.880 has taken them to court, her own children, her own children, 0:07:26.920 --> 0:07:29.559 her own blood. And the reason for this is because 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:32.480 her children are forty years old and forty two years old, 0:07:32.840 --> 0:07:36.160 and they refused to move out of home. 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:37.240 Refused. 0:07:37.400 --> 0:07:39.840 But not only did they refuse, they refused so much 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:43.080 that she had to take legal action against her own children. Now, 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:46.679 this poor woman, she was spending her entire pension on food. 0:07:46.680 --> 0:07:48.560 Could you imagine how much it costs to feed two 0:07:48.600 --> 0:07:51.200 forty year old men to show she was spending her 0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:54.239 entire pension on food and on maintenance for the house, 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:56.040 and she had not a dollar to stare for herself. 0:07:56.080 --> 0:07:57.920 That's a lot of non as meatballs. 0:07:58.320 --> 0:08:01.400 Because she literally called I'm just now, she literally called 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:02.680 her son's parasites. 0:08:02.760 --> 0:08:06.600 She said, they're parasite. I mean forty forty two. Come on, 0:08:06.680 --> 0:08:08.880 you're halfway. I mean sorry for anyone that's eighty, but 0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:10.760 you're halfway through your life. You're halfway. 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:15.320 You can't be living and smooching off your elderly mother. 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:16.840 What is wrong in those people. 0:08:16.960 --> 0:08:19.160 Do you know what though, The only thing that's worse 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:22.240 than than never moving out of out of home as 0:08:22.240 --> 0:08:24.280 a forty year old, like never, they never ever left 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:26.240 and came back. It's not like they, you know, had 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:28.120 a hard thing that went on in their life and 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:29.200 then they had to move back home. 0:08:29.600 --> 0:08:31.560 They literally never ever moved out. 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:35.320 The only thing that is worse is having your mum 0:08:35.440 --> 0:08:37.920 having to sue you to get you out of the house. 0:08:38.080 --> 0:08:39.520 It is unbelievable. 0:08:40.040 --> 0:08:40.240 You know. 0:08:40.360 --> 0:08:41.240 I used to live in Italy. 0:08:41.320 --> 0:08:43.360 I moved to Italy when I was like eighteen nineteen, 0:08:43.400 --> 0:08:46.680 and I remember I had a really good friend and 0:08:46.760 --> 0:08:48.840 that I had made over there through the nanny and circuit. 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:50.480 And he was thirty five and I've only just thought 0:08:50.480 --> 0:08:52.320 about this now, but he was still living at home. 0:08:52.480 --> 0:08:54.520 The average age in Italy to move out home is 0:08:54.559 --> 0:08:55.600 like thirty one years old. 0:08:55.640 --> 0:08:57.240 Well do you know what that's? I mean, it's weird, 0:08:57.280 --> 0:08:59.280 isn't it. I mean, it's different than what do you 0:08:59.320 --> 0:09:01.480 need to hilarious. 0:09:01.559 --> 0:09:03.440 I was waiting for this to be brought back to me, 0:09:03.559 --> 0:09:06.000 but no, I'm getting off Scott free. My mom wants 0:09:06.000 --> 0:09:07.800 me at the house. That's the of the jury. 0:09:07.800 --> 0:09:09.559 Household do you know what I mean? 0:09:09.760 --> 0:09:11.160 I feel like maybe you have a little bit of 0:09:11.200 --> 0:09:13.240 Italy in your in your blood. There is a term 0:09:13.280 --> 0:09:16.079 which is being coined in Italy and it's called mammony. 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:20.280 Mamony now mammony means and it's used to describe adult men, 0:09:20.360 --> 0:09:23.200 specifically who were too dependent on their mothers. 0:09:23.559 --> 0:09:27.040 Givemoney grown my mom. And I think that that is you. 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:29.439 Mitch Jury, You're a Mitch Jury mamonial. 0:09:29.000 --> 0:09:31.920 Mamoni's of Australia thirteen when I was sixty five? How 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:33.480 old are you and you're still living at home? I 0:09:33.480 --> 0:09:34.280 think it is so fun. 0:09:34.280 --> 0:09:36.839 I'm ahead of you, trying to get safety in numbers here. 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:38.480 Mill We're going to go on a write a strike 0:09:38.520 --> 0:09:39.160 all us adults. 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:43.760 So we're going to call you now, Mitch, Mitch Mamonichury. 0:09:42.840 --> 0:09:45.360 On Jack's called on thirteen six. I've had on mamone. 0:09:45.559 --> 0:09:46.840 How old are you? You're living at home? 0:09:47.679 --> 0:09:49.040 Yes? Nine? 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:52.160 Yeah? 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:54.760 Have you ever moved out of home and come back? 0:09:54.840 --> 0:09:56.040 You've been there the whole time? 0:09:56.679 --> 0:09:58.360 Oh I did move out for a little bit and 0:09:58.400 --> 0:10:01.680 then when I been I Uni, I ended up like 0:10:01.679 --> 0:10:02.280 over COVID. 0:10:02.640 --> 0:10:06.320 Yeah, can I say YouTube Boomers Britain Laura, the economy 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:08.680 is tough, you know for us gen Z's it's so 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:12.360 hard for us. 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:13.320 To us no load of rubbish. It was tougher for us. 0:10:13.440 --> 0:10:15.280 Look we're pretty old, Laura and I yeah. I mean, 0:10:15.320 --> 0:10:17.440 you know, back there in the Great Depression, it was horrible. 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:20.040 Okay, we've got another mim on thirteen one sixty five, 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:21.240 Rebecca Homimo on there. 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:24.480 Okay, so my sister, she's thirty one, Yeah, but she 0:10:24.600 --> 0:10:27.959 still lives at home. She's never in her entire life 0:10:28.000 --> 0:10:34.320 moved out. Yeah, so she literally doesn't understand what living 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:38.240 is like these days. My parents she doesn't pay rent easier. 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:41.800 My parents play the marking and yeah, oh no, no, no, 0:10:42.360 --> 0:10:43.800 she does the shopping. 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:47.520 I mean for herself and everyone, well for everyone, but 0:10:47.720 --> 0:10:49.160 I mean her my mom and my dad. 0:10:49.480 --> 0:10:52.880 So technically what two hundred three Shaw was, Max. 0:10:53.160 --> 0:10:55.319 I mean, there's got to be some of this responsibility 0:10:55.360 --> 0:10:57.120 that falls on the parents, right Like it sounds like 0:10:57.160 --> 0:11:01.760 they're encouraging that moment. This when I have kids, that's second, 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:07.040 they're eighteen, they're out. Actually they're going to boarding school 0:11:07.040 --> 0:11:07.400 at twelve. 0:11:08.040 --> 0:11:10.880 Somewhere in between your Mum and Britt would be a 0:11:10.920 --> 0:11:12.040 really great place to spot. 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:15.599 I think it's you, Laura. I think it's you. You're 0:11:15.640 --> 0:11:16.600 the warm middle ground. 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:17.319 Okay, you lot. 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:20.560 Next up, I am putting something to the test with 0:11:20.679 --> 0:11:23.240 our big big boss of radio, the big boss of 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:23.720 the pickup. 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:25.600 I've been worried about how it's going to go down. 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:28.720 God, all right, that's happening. Next we might lose our jobs. Yea, 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:31.920 thanks for flagging it with Laura and I ahead of time. Britt. 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:32.360 Really cool. 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:34.720 I'm always good to be prepared, respectful like that. 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:35.800 Next on the pickup. 0:11:37.400 --> 0:11:40.880 Look, work politics are hard enough to navigate, I think 0:11:40.920 --> 0:11:43.000 on the best of days, you know, between bosses. 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:43.880 And employees and each other. 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:47.800 And there's a conversation at the moment taking over the 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:52.439 internet between a boss and their employee. Now, the reason 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:55.079 it's gone viral is, and I'm going to surmise this right, 0:11:55.080 --> 0:11:58.720 because there's a text message exchange between the employee and 0:11:58.720 --> 0:12:01.199 the boss that is getting a lot of people talking. 0:12:01.200 --> 0:12:02.360 There's a lot of debates. 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:08.280 Basically, the employee wrote to his boss and said, hey, mate, 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:11.720 I've got really bad hay fever. Like it's gone off 0:12:11.720 --> 0:12:14.400 the charts. I'm sneezing non snot stop. I'm a bit 0:12:14.440 --> 0:12:17.600 snotty because of the seat sneezing. Not sick, just hay fever. 0:12:18.440 --> 0:12:20.760 So I'm gonna work from home today. I've lined up 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:23.160 all my meetings. I'll get everything done. It's going to 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:27.200 be great. And his boss wrote back and said, like, morning, 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:30.120 sorry to hear that you're suffering from hay fever, but 0:12:30.480 --> 0:12:35.640 that excuse quote unquote doesn't fly in the workplace. We 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:39.080 have something in place here that says if you are 0:12:39.120 --> 0:12:42.800 too sick to come to work, then you're too sick 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:44.960 to work from home, and you have to take a 0:12:45.000 --> 0:12:47.240 sick day. So he's trying to say, if you can't 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:49.600 come in because you've your hay fever, we're not gonna 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:52.080 let you work from home. Don't do anything today but 0:12:52.360 --> 0:12:55.160 use one of your sick days. And it has gotten 0:12:55.240 --> 0:12:57.120 so many people talking because so many people were like, 0:12:57.160 --> 0:12:59.200 hang on, no, of course you can still work from home. 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:02.079 Like you have to be forced to take a sick day. 0:13:02.120 --> 0:13:04.520 You're a business owner. You've got staff at Tony Mayo 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:07.000 jewelry brands, So like, what would you do in this situation? 0:13:07.080 --> 0:13:09.120 See, I think it depends on the workplace, right. I 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:11.040 don't think we can give a blanket either way, but 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:13.760 I also kind of agree. I'm like, if you're going 0:13:13.800 --> 0:13:15.920 to be if you're too sick to be able to 0:13:15.920 --> 0:13:17.920 come in and do a face to face meeting or 0:13:17.920 --> 0:13:20.440 a meeting at all, then how you were okay to 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:22.120 do that same meeting over zoom from a home. 0:13:22.440 --> 0:13:26.040 Wouldn't you rather your staff actually complete their job, It 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:29.560 doesn't matter where they are in their nose. Wait? 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:31.880 Wait, this isn't about no, because I think that you 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:33.520 look at this and you think this is about like 0:13:33.679 --> 0:13:36.160 getting the most out of the workers and making sure 0:13:36.200 --> 0:13:38.040 that you squeeze them from everything they worth. 0:13:38.320 --> 0:13:40.320 If someone's sick, I don't want them working at all. 0:13:40.440 --> 0:13:42.760 Take a day off, feel better, and then come in 0:13:42.800 --> 0:13:43.880 and do your job the next day. 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:47.240 But they can still work, they just can't go into work. 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:50.760 If you're contagious for some reason, you can't go into work. 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:55.120 You can still fever. No, that's exactly that's right. He 0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:57.240 work from home. That's the whole point. 0:13:57.360 --> 0:13:59.160 I've got the text here and they're saying, I've got 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:01.679 plenty of stuff I can do from home. Can I 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:03.880 work from home? And the boss is still saying no. 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:07.440 I think that's unreasonable. I think it depends on the workplace. 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:09.000 I think it depends on what you do for a 0:14:09.080 --> 0:14:09.760 job and weather. 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:11.920 Working from home is an option the three of us 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:13.920 not an option everywhere. 0:14:13.960 --> 0:14:16.040 In our bedroom and yell out the window and people 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:18.160 open their car windows and listen to a pickup from bed. 0:14:18.559 --> 0:14:20.280 I have hay fever. I would like to do the 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:21.320 show from my bed. 0:14:21.520 --> 0:14:21.760 Yeah. 0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:23.600 Here's a prime example. Guys. 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:26.400 When I got COVID last year, I couldn't come into 0:14:26.520 --> 0:14:28.040 work because I had COVID. 0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:30.680 I still did the radio show. We phoned in from home. 0:14:30.720 --> 0:14:33.640 That's because you have to be dying to get I 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:36.960 thought I thought i'd test this out with our boss, 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:37.960 our big boss, Tony. 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:38.520 I'm sure. 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:41.200 Did you message? 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:43.480 Yeah? I did, and I thought I was going to 0:14:43.560 --> 0:14:46.000 get fired. I messaged him this morning. I'm I'm going 0:14:46.000 --> 0:14:46.480 to read into you. 0:14:46.560 --> 0:14:48.440 It's always on his phone too. He would have got 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:49.280 this straight away. 0:14:49.600 --> 0:14:50.960 Morning, Tony. 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:54.040 So my hay fever is so bad today it's hit 0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:56.480 me hard. Must be the change in weather. I'm a 0:14:56.520 --> 0:15:00.160 sneezing mess. So I'm going to work from home today. 0:15:00.400 --> 0:15:03.560 I'll just call into the radio. It'll all be organized well, though, 0:15:03.600 --> 0:15:04.200 don't worry. 0:15:04.400 --> 0:15:07.440 Thanks, I'm sure that went down beautiful. 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:09.240 That was more of a statement that wasn't even a question. 0:15:09.640 --> 0:15:11.040 Yeah, I know, that's what I was trying. Just wait 0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:16.840 for it, ready, hey, full stop, morning, full stop. So look, 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:19.840 I'm sorry you were suffering from hay fever. I completely 0:15:19.920 --> 0:15:22.680 know where you were coming from, as I suffer too. Generally, 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:25.840 as a rule, when this has happened to previous team members, 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:29.120 they still come in and continue on, especially on air teams, 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:32.040 as they only need their voice. Also, my view is 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:34.600 that you can work from home, you can come in 0:15:34.640 --> 0:15:37.920 as hay fever won't infect Laura and Mitch. So my 0:15:38.000 --> 0:15:41.880 suggestion is take some Zyrtec from Hemma's warehouse and hop 0:15:41.920 --> 0:15:43.040 in a cab for the show. 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:47.720 Brittany, I think fair hand on. Wait, oh god that 0:15:47.760 --> 0:15:48.240 you went back? 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:49.000 You went pie? 0:15:49.440 --> 0:15:50.440 Oh yeah, you dug in. 0:15:50.720 --> 0:15:53.440 Thanks for the quick response. I totally see where you're 0:15:53.480 --> 0:15:55.840 coming from. But I guess no two humans are cut 0:15:55.880 --> 0:15:57.080 from the same cloth, right. 0:15:57.640 --> 0:16:00.040 Maybe it's hitting me a little different because I work. 0:15:59.880 --> 0:16:02.680 So hard and my stressed stress levels I've been up 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:03.600 so high. 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:04.560 But don't worry no more. 0:16:04.600 --> 0:16:06.760 Even notice I'm having to record from home. I will 0:16:06.760 --> 0:16:07.880 get some of that medication. 0:16:08.080 --> 0:16:08.480 Thank you. 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:12.000 Thanks for your understanding from sneezy brit and heat here 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:13.480 right back he goes get to work. 0:16:17.960 --> 0:16:23.080 And guys, I can report pretty sitting next to us COVID. Now, yeah, 0:16:23.120 --> 0:16:25.200 we're all very very thanks a lot tony. All right, 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:27.480 everyone stand by. I feel like it's snuck up on 0:16:27.560 --> 0:16:31.480 all of us. But it's Christmas time very soon. So 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:35.240 to help with filling the chrissy tree, we've got the 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:37.840 help of Target to give out one thousand dollars cash. 0:16:38.040 --> 0:16:38.200 Mame. 0:16:38.240 --> 0:16:40.280 This makes life a little bit easier, doesn't It wouldn't 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:42.640