1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: Hey, It'swillam Moody. Oh thanks to Demison, play a banger 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: at that time every day to get you to the 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 1: worst of the traffic. Tune elevate you every day drive 4 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 1: with NIS and cash Kai contact your local NIS and 5 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 1: dealer today and prepare to be moved. Right now, though Woods, 6 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 1: it is a Tuesday. 7 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 2: So pick a card. 8 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 1: Pick a card, Pick a card, Pick a card, Pick 9 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 1: a card, pick a card, pick a card. 10 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 2: Don't believe your thoughts in our heat. Pick a card 11 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 2: and take alia card. 12 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 1: Deebrel she's a psycho psycho therapist. She whiz. She's a psychoanalysis. 13 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: Amazing therapist. She's a relationship therapist, probably the best in 14 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: her field in the world. She's released this card game 15 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: called where Shall We Begin to If? Filled with these 16 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 1: really provocative, can be quite emotional questions, can be hilarious 17 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: questions either way. We both play. We're both playing the 18 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: game with our partners at home. I know this sounds 19 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 1: like it actually sounds like a sponsored bit, doesn't it. 20 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 1: This is not a sponsored bit. We were just so 21 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 1: obsessed with the thing that we were like, we've got 22 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 1: to put this on the radio. 23 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 2: So also, yeah, we just know that the chats from 24 00:00:57,600 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 2: it are so good that why wouldn't we lazily just 25 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 2: bring to the radio show and get a great chat 26 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 2: on air. 27 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't have pulled around the curtain that far. 28 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: But yeah, So basically what we're doing here, guys, is 29 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:11,320 Speaker 1: we pick a card here and we just have to 30 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 1: answer that question live on radio. It can be very confronting. 31 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: Now it woulds today I've shortlisted a bunch. Would you 32 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 1: like a shuffle or do you want to take them 33 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 1: as they are? 34 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 2: Now they'll take them as they are, okay, And then 35 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 2: I was just picking them one on the top of. 36 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:24,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, top card. Here we go, Here we go, Here. 37 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 2: We go, Here we go. A cent that makes me nostalgic. 38 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: Wow, different vibe, yea very different. So third and one 39 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 1: O six five if you've if you've got one that 40 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: makes me nostalgia nostyalgic sent for you. 41 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 2: Wow. 42 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: We haven't had a question like this before. I mean 43 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: often they're quite you know, emotionally relationship based. 44 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 2: For me, again, it's just the first thing that's popping 45 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 2: into my head. It's the smell of you know, pre 46 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:00,559 Speaker 2: reign smell. Yeah, I don't know if as a word 47 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 2: for that but I think there's a scent in the 48 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 2: air just before it's about to rain. And actually, actually so, 49 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 2: I'm so obsessed with this smell. By the way, I 50 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 2: actually did a bit of research into I don't know 51 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 2: what it's called, but what you can actually smell is 52 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 2: all the spores of plants opening up getting ready to 53 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 2: take in the rain, and that emits a smell. 54 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 1: Wow. 55 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why it's such a great smell. Anyway, Wow, 56 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:25,639 Speaker 2: that takes me back too. After school I would go 57 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 2: to the park which was near the school, and that 58 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:29,679 Speaker 2: was always just a great I just run around there 59 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 2: and it was just the most fun in the world. 60 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 2: And I don't know why, but the smell of pre 61 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 2: reign reminds me of that nice. 62 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 1: Yeah, Petricore is apparently what that's called. I'm not sure 63 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: if I've pronounced that correctly, but p E. 64 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 2: T R I petric c chr. That's my favorite smell, petricor. 65 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 2: I love it, love what it's about. Okay, what's a 66 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 2: scent that's nostalgic for you? Will? 67 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 1: So I found this the other day where I'm sure 68 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: this will be the same for a lot of people. 69 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 1: But the other thing I'd say about smell, which a 70 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 1: lot of people won't know, which is fascinating for this topic, 71 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: is that the way that your brain works is that 72 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,920 Speaker 1: you don't people think you recall memories. You don't. You 73 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 1: reconstruct memories. That's actually how memories work. They've figured out recently. 74 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 1: So you need the right If you think about memories 75 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 1: as little bits of flint or little bits of metal, 76 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: if you have the right magnet, you will attract all 77 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: the bits of metal right to create the memory right. 78 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: So it kind of flies around as different fragments and 79 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: you put it together. The best recall. The reason why 80 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 1: this is such a good question, The best magnet, if 81 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: you like, for memory fragments is smell. So you know 82 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 1: how often you can't remember something and then you'll open something, 83 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: You'll open a door, you'll open a cupboard or over 84 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 1: and you'll smell something and it will take you back 85 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: to a memory that you thought you've forgotten. Yes, that's 86 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: why it's so powerful. 87 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 2: So what is it here? 88 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:49,119 Speaker 1: When I was moving house recently, we had some old 89 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: books and I opened them up, and the smell of 90 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: this book gave me a memory of my dad reading 91 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 1: this book to me when I was two years old. Too, Yeah, 92 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: like it was transported like right back there to exactly 93 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 1: where we were reading it. 94 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 95 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: No, it wasn't the words of the story. It was 96 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 1: the smell of the book. 97 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 2: What was the book? Was it like the Iliad or something? 98 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 1: It actually was? It was you are Actually it was 99 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 1: Norse mythology. It was a joke, It was serious. What's 100 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: the cow? What's the question on the cardo. 101 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:24,479 Speaker 2: Con scent that makes me nostalgic? 102 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 1: See if you can get one that's relatable for everybody 103 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:30,279 Speaker 1: here as well, everyone listening right now, thirty one and 104 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:32,919 Speaker 1: sixty five. What's a nostalgic smell? It's kiss? William? Were 105 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:33,040 Speaker 1: he