1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 1: I'd like to acknowledge the traditional owners on which this 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 1: episode is being recorded, the combo marry people. We pay 3 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: our respects to elders past, present and emerging and extend 4 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples. 5 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:24,319 Speaker 1: Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, and this is the 6 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 1: Rise and Conquer Podcast. This is the podcast where we 7 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: ch have mindset, self development and becoming your higher self 8 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 1: mix soon with a lot of laughs, plus behind the 9 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 1: scenes of my life running two businesses and being among 10 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: Think of us as the perfect combo of brunch with 11 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: your besties mixed with self development. No matter where you 12 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: are in your journey, We're here to help you be curious, 13 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: pull yourself out, and embrace radical self awareness. 14 00:00:57,560 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 2: If you're ready to get into the. 15 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: Driver's seat of your own life and stop letting life 16 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 1: pass you by, then you're in the right place. Hi, everybody, 17 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: Welcome back to the R and C. 18 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 2: Potty. 19 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 1: Today's episode is the fourth episode in our Motherhood series 20 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: in celebration of our brand new course Rebirth Doing Motherhood 21 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: on your own Terms, And today is a solo app 22 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,680 Speaker 1: who When I say solo, it's like me and a 23 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: TA so and why we say so. 24 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:38,919 Speaker 2: Not a guest with my guest Tody, and. 25 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 1: We are chatting about the concept that I have been 26 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 1: thinking and mulling over for quite some time, and it 27 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: is about being a role model to your child, what 28 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 1: they what that even means, what it encompasses, and I 29 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: guess why it's so so important, And I think this 30 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: comps will be so interesting if you're a mom or 31 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: if you're not a mum. 32 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 2: But also. 33 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 1: I really I hope you feel the feelings because I 34 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: really really shared a lot of my heart in this episode, 35 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:16,239 Speaker 1: and I shared a lot of personal details about my childhood. 36 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 2: So we really get into it, don't we it? 37 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's so beautiful and funny, per fake. But 38 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: before we get into the show. A Tea Weekly recommendations 39 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 1: I have on Yes, it is TV series. It is 40 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 1: the new Queen Charlotte series on Netflix. So it's part 41 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: of the Bridgeton sort of universe, I guess you'd call it, 42 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: except it's focusing on the Queen from the first season, 43 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: so it's further back in time and how she actually 44 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 1: ended up getting married to her husband and their love story, 45 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: and it pulls. 46 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 2: The heart strings. 47 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 1: It really does. It's so I love Bridgeton because it's 48 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: a period piece, but it's I found it more surface 49 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: level and enjoyable and a bit. 50 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 2: Gossip girl vibes. 51 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 1: This is very deep and emotional and seeing how these 52 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: two people, like they obviously didn't know each other before 53 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: they got married, she literally met him on the wedding day. 54 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 1: Seeing how they grow in love for each other despite 55 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,239 Speaker 1: the fact that there was like a bit of apprehension 56 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: at the beginning, is amazing. It's a really beautiful I 57 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 1: was in tears at the end. The last episode really 58 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 1: got me. But highly recommend What about you, What is 59 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: your recommendation? 60 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 2: Love that you should watch it. 61 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 1: I think you'd like it. I'm not watching Oh yeah, well, 62 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 1: as you guys know, I'm not really watching too much 63 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: TV these days. So my recommendation is more like a 64 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: doing recommendation and something that I have realized since you know, 65 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: really limiting my consumption of social media and Netflix and 66 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: all the things, is I think sometimes especially if you're 67 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: a self development galley, you know you love self development. 68 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: You listen to the podcast, you do the courses, and 69 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: it's amazing and you feel really like lit up and activated, 70 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 1: and that's incredible. But the big thing that I have 71 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 1: been working on lately is the implementation of once you 72 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 1: find something activating and being like, Okay, well. 73 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 2: How does this even look in my life? 74 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: And I kind of hinted to this in our Friday 75 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: episode because I went on holidays and I had some 76 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 1: huge downloads of just how I want to change life, 77 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 1: and I was saying to a tea that it's like 78 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 1: I'm telling everyone about it because I don't want to forget, 79 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: because that's like, I think that's a very normal thing. 80 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:54,039 Speaker 2: It's like you have this, you know, you read a 81 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 2: book and you have this. I was thinking. 82 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:01,160 Speaker 1: My girlfriend was telling me she like read like Atomic 83 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 1: Habits and she's like life changing. 84 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 2: She's like, this is incredible. It is life changing. But 85 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 2: then she's like, then I just forgot about it and 86 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 2: I didn't do anything. Literally. 87 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 1: So a big recommendation from me is like, if you're 88 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 1: listening to all the self development things or you know, 89 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: all the things and you love that kind of high 90 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:25,719 Speaker 1: of like cause it's a dope. Mean, it's like you 91 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: love the high of the activation and they're getting excited, 92 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: but you're not implementing. You're actually not moving forward. You're 93 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: just like, yeah, you're just distracting yourself. Yeah. So a 94 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:40,039 Speaker 1: big thing is like if you do learn something new, 95 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 1: Like I'm a calendar person, so like I will put 96 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 1: time in my calendar and I'm like, you know, journal 97 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 1: on this or sust this out. And that's actually what 98 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 1: I've been doing since I got back from my holiday, 99 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 1: is like each night, I've been like journaling of like, well, 100 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 1: what does it look like actually implementing this in my life? Yeah, 101 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:01,160 Speaker 1: And it's so interesting because it's the most simple thing, 102 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 1: but I guarantee you so many people would be listening 103 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 1: being like, yeah, I don't do that. I just listened 104 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,359 Speaker 1: to the podcast on the way to work or the 105 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: whatever and then do nothing. 106 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:11,359 Speaker 2: Yeah. 107 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: I totally agree, because I think that was what something 108 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: I struggle with with self development is like I'll consume 109 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 1: all this incredible content and I feel so motivated to 110 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 1: just change everything. But it's almost like an incubator. Especially 111 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: when you do the court. Of course, you're just so 112 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 1: on a high the whole time, learning and absorbing and 113 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 1: getting so pumped to like change your life. But if 114 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 1: you don't take that incremental action because you kind of 115 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: want to do it all or nothing and that never works, 116 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: but then the motivation falls away and you're stuck. Yes, 117 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:49,679 Speaker 1: And I actually did a post my stories this week 118 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 1: being like I've had zero motivation for gym this week, 119 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: but you bet I went to every single session because 120 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 1: I don't live off motivation anymore. Yeah. I previously used 121 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,159 Speaker 1: to need motivation and to do things, but I'm like, 122 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 1: now I just do things. And that's like, it's amazing 123 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:07,479 Speaker 1: that I've integrated that with, you know, my gym. But 124 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: it's a huging of personal development, of like that integration 125 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 1: of actually implementing that thing, not just getting excited and 126 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: then moving on your day and then acting the same 127 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 1: as you did yesterday. 128 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 2: I love that. 129 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: And my fitness coach said something about motivation is like, 130 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 1: it's not a state of being. It's just an emotion. 131 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: So it will come and go, and you can never 132 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: rely on an emotion to get you to do something, 133 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: like You're not like I'll go to work when I'm happy, 134 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: but when I'm sad, I'm not going to go to work. 135 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: You go anyway. I love that, And so it's just 136 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: flipping how you even see that? Yes? 137 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 2: Oh so good? 138 00:07:46,880 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: All right, guys, let's get into the episode. So, guys, 139 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 1: I really wanted to chat to you about role modeling 140 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 1: and just why I am so passionate about my new 141 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 1: course rebirth, and I guess really why it's come to be. 142 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 1: And it's even funny because if you guys listen to 143 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 1: the episode of the Seven Rules for Being Your Best Friend, 144 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: or even if you came to our end hate event 145 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 1: I spoke about. 146 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 2: Creating those rules was so much. 147 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:40,839 Speaker 1: Around what I wanted for Ivy but through me, and 148 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 1: if I wanted those things for Ivy, it's like, well, 149 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 1: I had to be those things first. I think every 150 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: mother wants the best for their children. Absolutely, of course 151 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 1: they do, but sometimes there's disconnect of I want the 152 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 1: best for my child, but I'm not going to give 153 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: the best to myself. Yeah, you sacrifice yourself so you 154 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 1: can give the best to your child, But what you're 155 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 1: modeling is sacrificing yourself and that's what your child, you know, 156 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: feels And you, guys know I live in the world 157 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 1: of we know that frequency is such a huge thing, 158 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: and so if you're constantly in the frequency of sacrifice, 159 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 1: but you know I want the best for you, they 160 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:36,839 Speaker 1: are going to feel that. And so a huge realization 161 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 1: I had, because you know, I started doing the looking 162 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:44,320 Speaker 1: into what it was going to be like parenting Ivy 163 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 1: and if we were gonna you know, what what was 164 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,960 Speaker 1: punishment going to look like and how to control their behavior? 165 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 1: And I just I wanted to really have all the resources, 166 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: and especially when I went down that route and then 167 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 1: it was like, well I don't want to use physical punishment, 168 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 1: and then it's like, well, you know. 169 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 2: How do I get them to do what I want? 170 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,079 Speaker 2: And it's like such the simple answer. 171 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 1: And this is what Lale really went into in our 172 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 1: first episode of the Motherhood series, which guys, if you 173 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 1: haven't listened to like probably the best episode we've ever done. 174 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:17,680 Speaker 2: I agree, do you agree? 175 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 1: Yeah? And I feel like I learned so much from it, 176 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 1: even I don't have kids, but on how to look 177 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:28,680 Speaker 1: at people around you and form deeper connections with people 178 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 1: around you in general, whether it's your child or not. 179 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, it's amazing. 180 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: And I love that you got so much out of 181 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: that episode a tea or not even you know, being 182 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 1: a mom, but you're but you're so good at that, 183 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 1: You're so good at being able to understand like the 184 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 1: actual deeper concept there. Thank you. 185 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 2: That's why I'm doing the mum couse, guys. 186 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 1: It brought me on this journey of realizing so much 187 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 1: of you know, if I wanted Ivy to be this 188 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 1: most incredible human when I like shun a mirror to myself, 189 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 1: there was actually a lot that I needed to change 190 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:11,360 Speaker 1: and I needed to shift around and rediscover and make 191 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 1: my new normal. And that is because you know, to 192 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 1: get our child to do anything, they look up to you. 193 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 1: They're like you are my world. And I remember that 194 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 1: feeling growing up, and it's so it's like, you just 195 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: need to be embody what you want for your child. 196 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 1: So if you want your child to love themself, you've 197 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 1: got to love yourself. If you want your child to, 198 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 1: you know, make sure they're putting their mental health first 199 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:46,199 Speaker 1: and looking after themselves with healthy food and that sort 200 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:49,319 Speaker 1: of thing, you've got to do that. If you want 201 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 1: your child to have drive and aspirations. 202 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 2: You've got to do that. Do you mean like yeah? 203 00:11:57,559 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 1: And it's so interesting because there's this huge disconnect and 204 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 1: I personally grew up with and I'd love for you 205 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 1: guys to jump in the Facebook group and let us 206 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 1: know kind of what if you were similar, But my 207 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: childhood it was you know, do as I say, not 208 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 1: as I do. And it's funny because I have so 209 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 1: many you know, and I just I want to say 210 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 1: going into this, I had the absolute best parents. They 211 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 1: did the best that they could with you know, the 212 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:33,839 Speaker 1: tools that they had, and obviously they created. 213 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 2: An incredible human. 214 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: They did a great job. So they must have done 215 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 1: something right and this isn't what this is. And I 216 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:41,960 Speaker 1: think that's the first thing I want to say, is like, 217 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 1: when you're doing this work, it can feel like, oh, 218 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: but I don't want, you know, my mom or dad 219 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:49,719 Speaker 1: to think they did something wrong and they didn't. They 220 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:52,840 Speaker 1: created you and you're amazing and you're perfect. But also 221 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 1: there is nothing ever wrong with you wanting to change 222 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:59,439 Speaker 1: and evolve. But I don't think anyone's parents would ever 223 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 1: have a problem with them improving on what they already did. Yeah, 224 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 1: that's the thing, is like they've already got you here 225 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 1: and you just get to take it up a notch 226 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 1: like you have to. 227 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 2: That's what evolution is like. If you're not evolving, like 228 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 2: you're dying, you're dead. 229 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 1: And so it's funny because I have I've been like 230 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 1: really thinking about this and it's very interesting so I 231 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:26,959 Speaker 1: think I've been very honest about this here of having 232 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: like a really rebellious. 233 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:31,439 Speaker 2: Stage in my teenage years. Yeah, have I Yeah, have 234 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 2: I done on the podcast? 235 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 1: Yeah? 236 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 2: Or just do you? 237 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 1: Personally? I struggle to remember, but I think you have 238 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: mentioned it on the podcast that you did rebel. Look, 239 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 1: I'm and I'm so happy just be so open and honest, 240 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:47,839 Speaker 1: like my parents know at this stage. 241 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 2: But like I remember being. 242 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 1: Thirteen fourteen, sneaking out, going to parties, getting in random 243 00:13:56,640 --> 00:14:01,359 Speaker 1: cars with like random people, taking us places, buying us alcohol, 244 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 1: usually older you know guys, and literally like I have 245 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 1: memories of you know, going to parties, drinking, me and 246 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 1: my best friend like walking home at like three am 247 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 1: in the morning, like two little fourteen year olds walking drunk, 248 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 1: like fucking dying in a field, like you know, like 249 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: my god, shit that I'm like thinking, I'm like, oh 250 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 1: my god, if that is Ivy, like I would have 251 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 1: heart palpitations. 252 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 2: Yes, obviously I'm here. I'm fine. She got through a bit. 253 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 1: So many situations I would say, probably thirteen to sixteen 254 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 1: were just like like shoplifting. 255 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 2: You know, did not Yeah, yeah, so bad. I know. 256 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 2: I've never actually admitted that He's like, oh my gosh. 257 00:14:53,360 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like thirteen, you know, I know, yeah, 258 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 1: but this is what I mean. Like in obviously you know, 259 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 1: I was hanging around a certain sort of berth my 260 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: best friend. It's so funny because it's the same best 261 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 1: friend that I have now Tinder. Yeah, Sinda was the 262 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 1: one who led me astray, and Cinda was doing all 263 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 1: this before I was there. Oh my god, I know, 264 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 1: but now she's like this, look at you both, beautiful 265 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 1: angel man. No, but I think you know, a lot 266 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 1: of people could resonate with stage and just getting up 267 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 1: to no good, having a lot of fun. My parents 268 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: were really strict, so it was like no to everything. 269 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:39,560 Speaker 1: So I would just say I'm sleeping over someone's house. 270 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 1: And Cinda's dad was not strict, and we would just 271 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 1: go and do what we want. 272 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 2: But it's very. 273 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 1: Interesting because my family, like I've been very open. My dad, 274 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 1: you know, drinks every night, you know, just a couple 275 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 1: of beers. But I grew up with three older brothers, 276 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 1: so when I was that, I had, you know, my 277 00:16:01,640 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 1: oldest brother really going through his I think maybe he 278 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 1: was like twenty or something, eighteen twenty year old party 279 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:11,720 Speaker 1: stage and also A lot of parties were at our house, 280 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 1: so I saw a lot of drinking, a lot of partying. 281 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 1: My dad also doesn't smoke now, but he smoked my 282 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 1: whole childhood, so I saw him drinking and smoking. So 283 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 1: that was all very normalized to me. But it's so 284 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 1: interesting because my parents were like, no parties, no boys, 285 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 1: but that's what they did, That's what was at my house. Yeah, 286 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: parties are boys, So what do you think I went 287 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 1: and did? And it's really gosh well, and it's funny 288 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 1: because I had never really. 289 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 2: Put that together. 290 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 1: I just thought I was a naughty little girl who 291 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 1: wanted to do naughty things. But I was like, that 292 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 1: had to come from somewhere, and that was normalized to me. 293 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:58,600 Speaker 2: And it's so funny. 294 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 1: My parents would die you're saying that, But like I 295 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 1: really was like, oh wow, Like what we model, what 296 00:17:08,760 --> 00:17:13,639 Speaker 1: we do is actually so so important. And even like 297 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:16,800 Speaker 1: you guys have heard me talking about being sober curious 298 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 1: that has only come since having IVY and being like, 299 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:24,719 Speaker 1: do I want to normalize And because like me and 300 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:27,200 Speaker 1: Tim have never drunk during the week. Yeah, it's only 301 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 1: been on occasions, but I'm like, well, do I want 302 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:32,399 Speaker 1: to normalize to her that you do need alcohol to 303 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:35,119 Speaker 1: have fun, because that's what I felt like growing up, 304 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:38,199 Speaker 1: and do I want to normalize to her that in 305 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 1: order to have a deep chat with someone you need alcohol. 306 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 1: That's also what normalized to me, Like I'm going through 307 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 1: all my interesting patterns and just trying to source and see, 308 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:53,159 Speaker 1: you know, where they have come from. So that's like 309 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:56,679 Speaker 1: that's on that's on a pretty big scale. Yeah. But 310 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:59,880 Speaker 1: then like on the opposite end of that, like obviously 311 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 1: my family so loving, so beautiful, so they normally is 312 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:08,399 Speaker 1: that for me? That's yeah, always good, but also something 313 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 1: they normalized me. We were talking about this off airbit money. 314 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 1: So my parents have always been so open with money. 315 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:20,880 Speaker 1: And also my parents really came from nothing and built 316 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:24,840 Speaker 1: a lot of momentum in their business, but have huge 317 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 1: money belief stories around saving money and being really good 318 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 1: with money, and that was also normalized to me. So 319 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 1: like I bought my first property when I was like 320 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:37,920 Speaker 1: twenty one, because all my brothers did the exact same thing. 321 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:40,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, so of course, I just just what your family did. 322 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 2: It's just what your family. And also my parents got. 323 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 1: Married when they were twenty or nineteen. Yeah, met when 324 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:51,919 Speaker 1: they were sixteen, married when they were nineteen twenty, and 325 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 1: then had my oldest brother, Josh when they were twenty one. 326 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:57,200 Speaker 2: And it's really funny. 327 00:18:57,000 --> 00:19:00,199 Speaker 1: Because my three older brothers all got married and they 328 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:01,439 Speaker 1: were like, twenty twenty one. 329 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 2: Wow, so do you like yeah? 330 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 1: And I also have this kind of theory of like 331 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 1: you're either the exact same as your family or you're 332 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 1: the complete opposite in spite of them. Interesting, So yeah, 333 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 1: you're gonna say yeah, because it's interesting. I got married 334 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,119 Speaker 1: later because I was like, oh. 335 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:20,880 Speaker 2: No, I don't want to get married. 336 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you'd already you were dating Tim, won't you. 337 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:28,359 Speaker 2: Well that's yeah, yeah, look, and that's even something too. 338 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 1: I truly believe I was able to attract Tim so 339 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:35,920 Speaker 1: young because I had such an amazing representation of love 340 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 1: by my parents and they were like, you know, they 341 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:41,360 Speaker 1: met when they were sixteen, they're still together now, and 342 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 1: also they're still the most like they are each other's. 343 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 2: Soul mates, ride or dies, like best friends. 344 00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:51,439 Speaker 1: They don't do anything without each other, and so like 345 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:54,200 Speaker 1: that was modeled to me. And so it's kind of 346 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 1: it's funny because I had a full fuck boy first boyfriend. 347 00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 1: But then of course I then attracted Tim because that 348 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 1: was modeled to me and there was no worthiness issues 349 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 1: of it, of like, of course I'm gonna find my 350 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:09,239 Speaker 1: soul mate when I'm seventeen, So that's even interesting. So 351 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:11,160 Speaker 1: is it all kind of clicking? Do you have any 352 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 1: kind of stories of like what was modeled to you 353 00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 1: and then what happened. Yeah, it's so interesting. Something you 354 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 1: said before actually just reminded me. So my dad also 355 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:25,160 Speaker 1: smoked a lot when I was a kid, and it 356 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 1: was normalized for me. And I know that a lot 357 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:32,080 Speaker 1: of people view it as such a toxic, disgusting habit, 358 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 1: and I didn't click that. I didn't have that attachment 359 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 1: to smoking of it being bad, like obviously I knew 360 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 1: it's bad for you, like it ruined gi lungs, blah 361 00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 1: blah blah. 362 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 2: Where are those? 363 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,280 Speaker 1: Yes, But one of my friends we were out clubbing 364 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 1: or something, and my one time a. 365 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:54,320 Speaker 2: Year we're out clubbing, I was like what she. 366 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 1: Looked at me. She's like, you can't tell my parents 367 00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:58,639 Speaker 1: that I'm about to do. I'm like, are you gonna 368 00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 1: like bring out some drugs because I'm out? And said 369 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 1: she like, witch was so ashamed, and she just pulled 370 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 1: out a cigarette and I'm like, oh, like, goe smoke. 371 00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:10,160 Speaker 2: She's like, I'm so sorry. 372 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:13,920 Speaker 1: You have to see me, Like, what's it going on 373 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:14,880 Speaker 1: right now? 374 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. 375 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:21,399 Speaker 1: And then that's when it clicked for me that like, wow, 376 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:25,120 Speaker 1: it's so dependent on your childhood because like, obviously her 377 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 1: parents would drink quite a bit when she was a kid, 378 00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 1: so alcohol wasn't like this whole. 379 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 2: Thing for her, but smoking was. And that just didn't affect. 380 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:34,200 Speaker 1: Me at all. I was like, oh, yeah, I have 381 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:36,119 Speaker 1: a smoke, Like I didn't care. She was just like 382 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:39,200 Speaker 1: in shock that I didn't care. Yeah, I think she's 383 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 1: expecting your full lecture. This is I'm just going to 384 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 1: quickly ask you something. Yeah, because your dad smoked. Yeah, 385 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 1: obviously very different humans, but like, for example, do you 386 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:52,080 Speaker 1: remember any times during your childhood? I remember, you know, 387 00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:55,200 Speaker 1: the lollies that used to get that little mygrets and 388 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:58,600 Speaker 1: like fake smoking, yeah, and me and my oh my god, 389 00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:01,920 Speaker 1: So I have this memory. My neighbor was a girl 390 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 1: like a couple of years older. We would literally have 391 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:08,879 Speaker 1: our fucking newborns. We would sit on her porch. We 392 00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:12,440 Speaker 1: would have apple juice like its alcohol, and we would 393 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:20,360 Speaker 1: pretend to smoke. You know what I did in zimbabwhere 394 00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:23,640 Speaker 1: my parents had this fabric shop and across the road 395 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 1: was a candy store. Every day I would go get 396 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:30,360 Speaker 1: myself a little box of cigarette lollies and I would 397 00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:34,120 Speaker 1: sit in the shop on the counter. Everyone was shopping 398 00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 1: for their fabric going no, guys, this is this episode 399 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:46,920 Speaker 1: making sense. But on the flip side, On the flip side, keeper, 400 00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 1: I will say, my parents did a very good job 401 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 1: of modeling. 402 00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 2: A little toddler with a big afro to it's funny, wow, 403 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:03,720 Speaker 2: so I keep going. 404 00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:08,400 Speaker 1: They very much modeled to me good communication and unconditional love. 405 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,640 Speaker 1: So in our house it was like never a big 406 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:14,960 Speaker 1: deal if someone was upset with someone, And if my 407 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 1: parents did something to hurt my feelings, even as a kid, 408 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:21,919 Speaker 1: I could tell them, and I could tell any adult 409 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:25,399 Speaker 1: around me if they hurt my feelings or made me uncomfortable, 410 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:29,160 Speaker 1: and my parents would back me up, which, like, we're Indians, 411 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 1: so it's a bit different to almost quote unquote talk 412 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:35,920 Speaker 1: back to adults when you're a kid, because they see 413 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 1: it as very disrespectful. But my mom would back me 414 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 1: up and it was never like you're gonna get yelled 415 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 1: at if you're uncomfortable, you have every right to express 416 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:49,320 Speaker 1: how you feel and will have an open conversation about it, 417 00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 1: which I loved. And also my mom has the most 418 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:58,240 Speaker 1: amazing relationship with her siblings, and that has modeled to 419 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:01,879 Speaker 1: me that like I can confidently say no matter what 420 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 1: my sister ever does, I will love her and she 421 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,120 Speaker 1: is like my person and that's just how it is, 422 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 1: and that's I'm very grateful for that. 423 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 2: That's beautiful. That's really beautiful. 424 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 1: Thank you. My parents did a good. 425 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 2: Job, Yeah, they really did. 426 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. Aside from that, the one thing, the one thing 427 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:27,960 Speaker 1: we can get. 428 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 2: No, your parents did an incredible job with you. 429 00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: But this was like, I, you know, we're completely taking 430 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 1: the piss now, but this is so serious and it's 431 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 1: like you know, and I think for me too, such 432 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:46,159 Speaker 1: a side is what you normalize in regards to your mindset. 433 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,920 Speaker 1: Like that was the biggest takeaway when I was doing 434 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:53,680 Speaker 1: this work around how I wanted to show up differently 435 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:55,440 Speaker 1: now that Ivy. 436 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:56,400 Speaker 2: You know, was here. 437 00:24:56,680 --> 00:25:00,919 Speaker 1: And it's like really doing an audit of you systems, 438 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:05,439 Speaker 1: of your values, of your beliefs, of your identity, and 439 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: you know you're limiting belief stories is going to be 440 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:14,639 Speaker 1: so huge because I like, you're giving these to your child. 441 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, and we all have shit we can work on 442 00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 2: like we just were as humans. You always will. So 443 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 2: it's like, I. 444 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 1: Think such a gift is not only are you working 445 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 1: on this for yourself, but then the huge butterfly effect 446 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:37,600 Speaker 1: that has on your family and the people around you. 447 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 2: It has just given me. 448 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 1: I guess this new inspiration and this new energy to 449 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 1: you know, really up level my internal world because Ivy 450 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:56,119 Speaker 1: is she is going to take so much from me. 451 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,160 Speaker 2: And I think, you know. 452 00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:02,679 Speaker 1: It's like that statistic that by the age seven, you know, 453 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:06,640 Speaker 1: most of your patterns, behaviors, beliefs, and habits are formed. 454 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 2: So it's really important. Like I remember Tim saying so 455 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:13,440 Speaker 2: funny of him. 456 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 1: I was talking to him, how this was last year 457 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:20,160 Speaker 1: when I was really struggling mentally with being a working mum, 458 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 1: and I remember saying to him, but I feel so 459 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 1: guilty when I'm at work. But when I'm at home, 460 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:29,679 Speaker 1: I'm thinking about work and I've got this big like 461 00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,439 Speaker 1: projects coming up, and I've got so much energy for this, 462 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:33,320 Speaker 1: but then I feel so. 463 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 2: Guilty blah blah blah blah. 464 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 1: And I remember him saying babe, she's fucking a newborn, 465 00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:39,679 Speaker 1: like she didn't. 466 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,399 Speaker 2: Know what you're doing. Like, so true, she doesn't know. 467 00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:46,080 Speaker 1: And then he said, but you know, as she becomes 468 00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 1: a toddler and a little human, like she is gonna know. 469 00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:54,120 Speaker 1: And it's even funny because Ivy's only eighteen months old 470 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,639 Speaker 1: and it's already it's this is the stage. Yeah, Like 471 00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:00,479 Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, it's here, Like I I remember him 472 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 1: saying that when she was a newborn and thinking, oh, 473 00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:03,560 Speaker 1: I got time to figure it out. 474 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, and now I'm like, nope, we were here. 475 00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:10,960 Speaker 1: She does everything we do. She copies the noises I make. 476 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,960 Speaker 1: She copies how you know, if I feed the dogs 477 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,439 Speaker 1: at the table, she feeds the dogs at the table. 478 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:18,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 479 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,119 Speaker 1: You know, if I do certain things, like if I'm 480 00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:25,200 Speaker 1: in the toilet, she you know, she's always around me. Yeah, 481 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:28,199 Speaker 1: she will grab the toilet paper off and want to 482 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,400 Speaker 1: put her hand in between my legs. 483 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:34,400 Speaker 2: Oh, because she knows that's what you have to do. Yeah, 484 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,959 Speaker 2: she's one and a half. Yeah, and then she reaches 485 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:38,399 Speaker 2: because she wants to push the button. 486 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 1: So she's she sees everything. And also, like you know, 487 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 1: she is she's getting to tantrums she's getting to her emotions. 488 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:49,840 Speaker 2: So you know, if. 489 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 1: She's having a tantrum and then I yell at her 490 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 1: and I'm like stop, yeah, she's gonna be like, oh, 491 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 1: I can't express myself. Yeah. So true, it's like these 492 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,399 Speaker 1: little all things. And obviously that is more like the 493 00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:03,560 Speaker 1: parenting side. 494 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,679 Speaker 2: But when we are got our. 495 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 1: Shit sort of, we're able to parent and be there 496 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,879 Speaker 1: for our child at the best ability. And I think 497 00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 1: that that is why I'm so passionate about, you know, 498 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:23,959 Speaker 1: this new course and the work we're doing. And I 499 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:26,399 Speaker 1: also like, I was thinking about it and I was like, 500 00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 1: because you know, me and a tear, We're having this 501 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:35,360 Speaker 1: conversation of when we first released Rebirth, they're. 502 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:40,320 Speaker 2: Real ruffling some feathers, few feathers. A few feathers were people. 503 00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:43,800 Speaker 1: Being like, you know, not understanding and being like what 504 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 1: even is this course? You know kind of comment being 505 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 1: like you're not a midwife, what that's not a birthing course? 506 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,560 Speaker 1: Like fuck me, I'm a qualified life coach. Of course, 507 00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 1: it's a mindset course. You know, people not understanding and 508 00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:04,719 Speaker 1: then also you know, comments about the price of the 509 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,720 Speaker 1: course and I'm like, you don't understand, Like I literally 510 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:14,400 Speaker 1: I run two very very high level companies, Like my 511 00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 1: time is precious, and I'm literally choosing it because I 512 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:23,240 Speaker 1: know how important this work is and how like effective 513 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 1: it is going to be and how needed is going 514 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:31,280 Speaker 1: to be. And also it's like you investing in yourself 515 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:34,800 Speaker 1: and in your family like that shit should not be 516 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 1: taken lightly, never ever, Like even me personally, I'm investing 517 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:42,920 Speaker 1: six figures this year in my personal development. 518 00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:47,040 Speaker 2: Do you mean there's a lot of money the fucking 519 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 2: house have to buzz it. 520 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:54,000 Speaker 1: But that's how important this work is and that's how 521 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:58,440 Speaker 1: much weight I have on it. And also like I 522 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:02,000 Speaker 1: know I already see the human I am turning into 523 00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:05,480 Speaker 1: and how proud I am. And that's why I feel, 524 00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 1: you know, so called to bring this, you know, to 525 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,400 Speaker 1: the surface. Because also I think a lot of the 526 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 1: time I personally felt like when I was going through 527 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:19,480 Speaker 1: this transition postpartum, mom's a kind of forgotten about. It's 528 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:22,200 Speaker 1: kind of like, oh, you'll be fine, just figure it out. 529 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:25,680 Speaker 1: You just stay at home and breastfeed and blah blah blah, 530 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 1: and you'll, yeah, you'll figure it out. 531 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 2: Everyone does. 532 00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:33,760 Speaker 1: And I just can't believe how much it isn't normalized 533 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 1: that once you become a mum, you do mindset and 534 00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:41,880 Speaker 1: identity work so you are capable in this next season. 535 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 1: Like just like when I wanted to start a business, 536 00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:49,680 Speaker 1: I went and got a business coach that made sense, 537 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:52,719 Speaker 1: and everyone's like applaud you. They're like amazing, or just 538 00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,720 Speaker 1: like you know, when I wanted to scale in my businesses, 539 00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 1: or when I wanted to, you know, do this and that, 540 00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:00,640 Speaker 1: when I wanted to do a law degree a lawyer, 541 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:02,240 Speaker 1: when I wanted to be a lawyer, I did a 542 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 1: law degree. 543 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 2: Like it just makes sense that when. 544 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:09,160 Speaker 1: You go to new seasons and you want new things 545 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:12,560 Speaker 1: in life, you need to educate yourself. You need to 546 00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:16,040 Speaker 1: do the internal work because we're not like we're not 547 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 1: born with that unless you had a tea's parents. But 548 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,840 Speaker 1: you know, unless you had that sort of stuff, obviously 549 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 1: you have such like a leg up. But it is 550 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 1: just so so important to do this work. I just 551 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:34,840 Speaker 1: really think it should not be missed. Yeah, I think 552 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 1: that's so true. And I've seen obviously your transformation. I've 553 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,200 Speaker 1: seen how people are reacting to this, and it's just 554 00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 1: like so clear how misunderstood it is and how people 555 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 1: are still getting attached to the fact that you don't 556 00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:00,320 Speaker 1: need it when you really do. Yeah, yeah, yeah, well 557 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:02,600 Speaker 1: that's I don't know if that means it. No, no, 558 00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:06,200 Speaker 1: it completely does. And that's why I get so excited 559 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:09,000 Speaker 1: because I remember telling you guys, and I'm like, fuck, 560 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:12,479 Speaker 1: this is exciting because I really hope that in the 561 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:15,160 Speaker 1: future this is normalized. And this is just of course, 562 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:20,880 Speaker 1: just like for example, now hypno birthing is normalized. Yeah, 563 00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:23,240 Speaker 1: so me and all my friends we did hypno birthing 564 00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:26,600 Speaker 1: before we gave birth. Yeah, that fucking five or ten 565 00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 1: years ago was not normalized. Like even my mum was like, well, 566 00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:33,560 Speaker 1: hypno birthing, don't you just give birth? But do you 567 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 1: see what I mean as like, I really hope that 568 00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 1: in the next five to ten years, like what I 569 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 1: you know, this course is going to be normalized. 570 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 2: And I know it's not at the moment, but I'm like, fuck, 571 00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:45,719 Speaker 2: how incredible is that? 572 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:50,400 Speaker 1: Like literally, this is like trailblazing in a whole new 573 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:54,760 Speaker 1: aspect and it's like so like me personally, I'm fucking 574 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 1: so proud of myself because this has come from such 575 00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 1: a responding energy of like, fuck this is needed, and yeah, 576 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,080 Speaker 1: it's going to ruffle some feathers and people are not 577 00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:08,120 Speaker 1: gonna like it. I still don't understand why, but I'm 578 00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 1: going to do it anyway. Yeah, I'm going to show 579 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 1: up because also, like I said, I'm doing this shit 580 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:18,360 Speaker 1: for Ivy. I love that so much. So guys. In conclusion, 581 00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 1: I think the biggest thing is your children are going 582 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:24,920 Speaker 1: to be your mirrors. 583 00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:27,520 Speaker 2: Which is crazy to think about. 584 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh. 585 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,280 Speaker 2: Your children are going to be your mirrors. They are 586 00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:32,160 Speaker 2: going to be. 587 00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:38,400 Speaker 1: Your biggest reflection of what you need to work on 588 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 1: yourself and personally for me too, the self love angle. 589 00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:46,160 Speaker 1: I know this will hit hard with so many mums 590 00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:50,120 Speaker 1: of like, if they don't love themselves, that's what their 591 00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 1: child is going to see and normalize. And I think 592 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:58,840 Speaker 1: so many women saw their moms degrading themselves, not talking 593 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:02,840 Speaker 1: knife about themselves, going on diets, all those things, which 594 00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:05,800 Speaker 1: is why I feel like this generation is really fucked up. 595 00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 2: In that angle. 596 00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:10,040 Speaker 1: To be completely honest with you, I even like, I 597 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,920 Speaker 1: used to listen to my you know, Naan talk about 598 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:16,799 Speaker 1: her weight and just different things. And even though my 599 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:21,279 Speaker 1: mom was like, you know, okay, and that thing, that department, 600 00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:25,920 Speaker 1: it's still there was a lot of what you should 601 00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:29,439 Speaker 1: be and what box you should fit in. 602 00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:32,440 Speaker 2: And that's even like, what's. 603 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 1: So interesting to me is like when I'm talking about 604 00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:38,759 Speaker 1: a course where it's like mothers doing motherhood on their 605 00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:39,680 Speaker 1: own terms. 606 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:41,360 Speaker 2: And it's funny because I had. 607 00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,960 Speaker 1: This DM, a tear of a girl, and she was 608 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:47,680 Speaker 1: saying something about I can't remember the details, but she 609 00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 1: was saying, my version of a working mom isn't her 610 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,520 Speaker 1: version of a working mom? Well, she she said, your 611 00:34:55,560 --> 00:35:00,279 Speaker 1: content isn't very approachable because your version of a working mom, like, 612 00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:03,799 Speaker 1: not everyone owns their own company, so it's like, not 613 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,439 Speaker 1: many people can be your version of working mom. And 614 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,120 Speaker 1: so she was saying she didn't like my recent content. 615 00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:12,560 Speaker 2: That was her whole point of the DM, And I thought, 616 00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,279 Speaker 2: I'm not trying to be your version of anything. Do 617 00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:17,520 Speaker 2: you mean yeah? 618 00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:21,360 Speaker 1: And I even said to her me making my content 619 00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:25,760 Speaker 1: more quote unquote approachable would be a form of manipulation 620 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,760 Speaker 1: to my audience that I'm not. I'm literally just showing 621 00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 1: you this is my exact life. This is how I 622 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:36,399 Speaker 1: do motherhood. You get to do it exactly how you 623 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:38,200 Speaker 1: want to. This is how I do it, and it's 624 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:41,319 Speaker 1: completely on my own terms. And it's funny because it 625 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 1: came off like a piece of content about rebirth, and 626 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:47,319 Speaker 1: I thought, wow, we're literally talking about doing motherhood on 627 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,760 Speaker 1: your own terms, and she's coming at me about content 628 00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:54,000 Speaker 1: not being approachable. I just thought, Yeah, this is actually 629 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:57,759 Speaker 1: the issue. So this is why I'm so passionate about it. 630 00:35:57,800 --> 00:35:59,840 Speaker 1: And I think it's also a big thing. Is like, 631 00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:04,760 Speaker 1: for example, if you have a lot of opinions about 632 00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:10,040 Speaker 1: other mothers doing way like doing life differently, this is 633 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:13,560 Speaker 1: such a reflection of where you would have a lot 634 00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:17,440 Speaker 1: of judgments internally of the way you do life and 635 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:21,200 Speaker 1: how much you have put yourself in a box. And 636 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,960 Speaker 1: that's all well and good, you can do whatever you want, 637 00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:26,839 Speaker 1: but no, your child is going to feel that and 638 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:30,120 Speaker 1: they are going to do the same thing for them. 639 00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:33,359 Speaker 1: They are going to put themselves in a box. And 640 00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:38,480 Speaker 1: I truly believe true happiness comes from when you accept 641 00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:43,160 Speaker 1: your authentic self and you're living and your truest expression. 642 00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,480 Speaker 1: So if you're putting yourself in your in the box, 643 00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:49,239 Speaker 1: your child's going to put themselves in a box. You're 644 00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:52,439 Speaker 1: both not living in your truest expression. You're not going 645 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:56,480 Speaker 1: to feel that, You're not going to feel that happiness, 646 00:36:56,520 --> 00:37:00,480 Speaker 1: and so that's why I just I think it's so 647 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:04,960 Speaker 1: important and I really I do not like, I know, 648 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,000 Speaker 1: if you're listening and you're like, who the fuck is 649 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:08,120 Speaker 1: Georgie to tell me this? 650 00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:09,880 Speaker 2: Like I get it. 651 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:12,839 Speaker 1: I know this could you know, be triggering and kind 652 00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:17,799 Speaker 1: of like confronting. I know it can be confronting, but 653 00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 1: it's like, if you're listening to this podcast and you're 654 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:25,560 Speaker 1: feeling those feelings, it's like, follow the feelings. Yeah, you know, 655 00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:27,479 Speaker 1: we get these feelings for a reason. 656 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:28,240 Speaker 2: It's funny. 657 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,680 Speaker 1: I had a beautiful moment with Cooper the other day 658 00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:32,680 Speaker 1: in his office and I was having a lot of 659 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:36,120 Speaker 1: feelings and I even started getting really emotional and crying, 660 00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:40,040 Speaker 1: and he said, this is amazing. Follow these feelings. Your 661 00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:43,160 Speaker 1: feelings are trying to tell you something. And then it 662 00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:45,880 Speaker 1: was so beautiful because I was like wow, and he's like, 663 00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:46,879 Speaker 1: this isn't a bad thing. 664 00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 2: This is incredible. 665 00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,359 Speaker 1: You're literally just getting told something, and then you get 666 00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:53,080 Speaker 1: to decide if you try and stuff those feelings down 667 00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:55,839 Speaker 1: and don't feel them, or you feel them and then 668 00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:57,000 Speaker 1: you take a different action. 669 00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:03,640 Speaker 2: I love that perspective. So wise, so wise, we need 670 00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:04,560 Speaker 2: Cooper on the podcast. 671 00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:05,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, we do. 672 00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:12,960 Speaker 2: For Lessen of Emotion See a Tear Crime. So my loves. 673 00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:16,319 Speaker 1: I hope this episode was insightful. I know it could 674 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:19,080 Speaker 1: be confronting. And that's the thing is I just want 675 00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:22,000 Speaker 1: to say, like, even though you know I'm hosting this 676 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:25,240 Speaker 1: course and I'm talking about this content, there are still 677 00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:29,400 Speaker 1: so many things that Ivy has mirrored to me that 678 00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:32,920 Speaker 1: I do need to change. So I don't want to, 679 00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:36,000 Speaker 1: you know, come on here and be like I am superior. 680 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:40,360 Speaker 2: I've you know, done all the work. I haven't. I've 681 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,120 Speaker 2: definitely started it. I've definitely you know. 682 00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,680 Speaker 1: Made some huge waves of it. But this is, this 683 00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:49,400 Speaker 1: is a lifelong journey and I know, each you know, 684 00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:53,319 Speaker 1: development Ivy goes through, new stuff is going to come up. 685 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,640 Speaker 1: She's going to show me new things where I'm. 686 00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:58,399 Speaker 2: Like, oh, this is a. 687 00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:02,279 Speaker 1: Thing now, and I get to like change and I 688 00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:06,920 Speaker 1: get to really step into this and really see this 689 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:11,879 Speaker 1: as like my my unlearning of all the shit that 690 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:15,440 Speaker 1: was put on me, you know, growing up. So Ivy 691 00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:19,239 Speaker 1: has been just the most amazing event that has ever 692 00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:23,800 Speaker 1: happened in my life. And I'm gonna get so emotional, 693 00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:29,000 Speaker 1: but it's like, just what Ivy has shown me about 694 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:33,120 Speaker 1: myself and really, like I think just you know, the 695 00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:36,319 Speaker 1: unconditional love that she has given me that I'm like, 696 00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:38,919 Speaker 1: this is all I want to give back to you. 697 00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:43,120 Speaker 1: And sometimes it's hard because you have so much conditioning, 698 00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:46,840 Speaker 1: you have so many stories, you have so much shit, 699 00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:51,560 Speaker 1: like you know inside your head that it does feel like, fuck, 700 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:54,560 Speaker 1: am I gonna be a good mum? And it's like 701 00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 1: this is why this work is so important and it's 702 00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 1: why I'm so like, this is this is needed, and 703 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:05,120 Speaker 1: this is why you know, rebirth was born. But yeah, 704 00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:07,400 Speaker 1: she is just the greatest thing that has happened to me. 705 00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:10,719 Speaker 1: And the last you know, year and a half has 706 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:15,600 Speaker 1: been this really beautiful opening up of me, Like she 707 00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:19,280 Speaker 1: has just come in and cracked me wide open. 708 00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:21,320 Speaker 2: And it's so. 709 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:27,719 Speaker 1: Difficult and it's so beautiful and it's so incredible and 710 00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:32,880 Speaker 1: it literally like it feels like I'm coming home to myself. 711 00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:36,240 Speaker 2: Ah, it really really does. 712 00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:40,640 Speaker 1: And I know that sounds corny, but this journey, guys, like, 713 00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,960 Speaker 1: if you're ready to be on it, your child will 714 00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:49,640 Speaker 1: be the absolute biggest gift and biggest like mirror in 715 00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:51,799 Speaker 1: such an incredible way because. 716 00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:55,440 Speaker 2: They literally like they're half for you. They're a little you. 717 00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:59,759 Speaker 1: It's just I just never thought this is what, you know, 718 00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:03,799 Speaker 1: motherhood would feel like. But I'm like, fuck, it's it's 719 00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:05,360 Speaker 1: like better what it's better. 720 00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:05,960 Speaker 2: Than I ever thought. 721 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:09,080 Speaker 1: Oh, and it's like for you know, someone who didn't 722 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:12,239 Speaker 1: think she was maternal, I was like, you watch me 723 00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,920 Speaker 1: be the best fucking mother you've ever seen. 724 00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:16,239 Speaker 2: I am watching it. 725 00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:19,799 Speaker 1: I love it, and it's it's really beautiful because it's 726 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 1: like my type of mother. You know. I'm sorry, the 727 00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:26,880 Speaker 1: best version of me is going to look so different 728 00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:28,799 Speaker 1: to anyone else and how their mother and how they 729 00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:33,600 Speaker 1: do life. But that is what's so incredible. But anyway, guys, 730 00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:37,240 Speaker 1: you know, if this episode is it's speaking to you, 731 00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,440 Speaker 1: you're like, yes, I want to go on this journey 732 00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:44,440 Speaker 1: with you. Guys. I want to really look at what 733 00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:47,120 Speaker 1: I am modeling and what my child is trying to 734 00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:50,000 Speaker 1: mirror to me, and do this work for myself and 735 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:54,200 Speaker 1: for them. This is what the whole rebirth course is about. 736 00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:59,240 Speaker 1: We are completely cracking you open, and we are looking 737 00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:04,800 Speaker 1: and shaping and defining and strengthening your new identity in 738 00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:09,480 Speaker 1: the most incredible season. And yeah, it's an identity and 739 00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:12,200 Speaker 1: a mindset course. It's four weeks. There is going to 740 00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:15,120 Speaker 1: be four live calls. We have a Facebook group. Also, 741 00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,359 Speaker 1: if you're like you know you hear me and you're 742 00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:20,840 Speaker 1: like I want a mum friend like Georgie, this is 743 00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:24,600 Speaker 1: the place to be. Yeah, all these incredible humans are 744 00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:28,560 Speaker 1: feeling that exact same Paul. So yeah, I'm just so 745 00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:31,640 Speaker 1: bloody excited. And also I don't think this course will 746 00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:33,200 Speaker 1: be like live again this year. 747 00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:35,800 Speaker 2: I we just don't have the time. Do we go 748 00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:39,440 Speaker 2: tear No? I wish we did. Yeah. 749 00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:42,960 Speaker 1: So if this is pulling you this, this is the time. 750 00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,880 Speaker 1: So all the details will be in the show notes. 751 00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,080 Speaker 1: We start May twenty fourth. 752 00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:54,680 Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Thank you so much for listening 753 00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:58,520 Speaker 2: to another episode of the Rise and Conquered Podcast. 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