Speaker 1: Pick up with Laura and come on in.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hello guys, Happy hump Day, Happy hump Happy Aria's Day.
Speaker 2: The ARIA Awards today the.
Speaker 1: Night of Night Humpy Aria's Day. I love the Arias.
Speaker 1: Are you going?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going, I'll be there after the show. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna I'm gonna put a tucks on and I'm going
Speaker 2: to run to the Arias.
Speaker 1: You're you're working right, I'm.
Speaker 2: Gonna be live on the red carpets. Lots of stars.
Speaker 2: I'm excited. I was looking at the least Kyler and
Speaker 2: no potentially making an appearance. Choice of you are?
Speaker 1: I mean Jessica Malboy. We had her on yesterday. She's
Speaker 1: going to be performing and she's nominated again. Do you
Speaker 1: get nervous, Mitch, or like that.
Speaker 3: A star is going to come up to you when
Speaker 3: you have to interview them and you don't know who
Speaker 3: they are, or do you just feel like you're across
Speaker 3: everyone who is everyone.
Speaker 2: In the Absolutely?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: No, you just smile on the wave.
Speaker 4: You go so good to see job, and then you
Speaker 4: have to play it up like you know everyone, and.
Speaker 1: Then what if they stop and say do you want
Speaker 1: to interview me? But you don't know what you like,
Speaker 1: how has it been. It's been a big year for you.
Speaker 2: Hold you on a secret. I've interviewed the Veronica's twelve
Speaker 2: times and never once have I been able to tell
Speaker 2: who is who is held.
Speaker 4: I am not going to be there, but I will
Speaker 4: be watching it on stand five o'clock.
Speaker 2: Isn't that stand at five pm? Will be excited. Might
Speaker 2: see it's in the background.
Speaker 5: I like that, do a little photobomb happy. Well, you
Speaker 5: know what, do you know what a lot of couples
Speaker 5: fight about? They fight about chores? Who does the most
Speaker 5: in the Household's why I live alone?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Well, I mean it's something that comes up.
Speaker 2: That's why you live alone. Sorry, the only reason.
Speaker 4: Okay, it's something that comes up in my relationship. We
Speaker 4: seem to spicker about it all the time. But I
Speaker 4: have a new tool that is going to put it
Speaker 4: to rest finally. And you can take this to your
Speaker 4: partner the next time you're fighting about who does the
Speaker 4: most in the household?
Speaker 1: And a tool is a hammer, Yeah, it's a hammer.
Speaker 2: That's you.
Speaker 1: We go out there, don't stick around.
Speaker 2: That's exactly what it is, all right, Laura's tool coming
Speaker 2: up here at the pickup, heading to the chemists ware
Speaker 2: house today, you'll get grade savings every day.
Speaker 4: I don't know if I'm alone in this, and I'm
Speaker 4: gonna go so far as to say that I'm probably not.
Speaker 4: But one thing that my partner Matt and I, my husband,
Speaker 4: Matt and I fight about pretty often is who does
Speaker 4: the most housework.
Speaker 1: It's like the one common thread. How are you fight about, Laura. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not cheating, it's not lying. It's who did the
Speaker 1: most loads of washing.
Speaker 2: I'd argue that it would often be.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, it used to be the balance used to
Speaker 4: be very different.
Speaker 1: It used to be more me.
Speaker 4: And now recently, because I've been here more, we've been
Speaker 4: working on the podcast more, the balance has skewed, and
Speaker 4: I would say for the majority, Matt is probably doing
Speaker 4: one hundred percent of the load at the moment. I
Speaker 4: do bits and pieces, but he thinks I do absolutely know.
Speaker 1: Oh, how the turn table, How the tables have turned?
Speaker 4: Okay, No, I mean I'm exaggerating. I still do stuff.
Speaker 4: I'll get in there, throw a load of washing on,
Speaker 4: like I make myself useful, and I also am very
Speaker 4: efficient at the house cleaning stuff.
Speaker 2: Don't pitch it to us. We're on your side, and.
Speaker 1: It doesn't take me as long.
Speaker 2: Okay, I clean, you're busy. It's everyone, God damn I clean.
Speaker 4: No, but it's really hard when you're juggling work and
Speaker 4: you're also trying to juggle a household and juggle kids,
Speaker 4: and then your partner's doing the same thing. It's this
Speaker 4: one thing that's this reoccurring fight that I think a
Speaker 4: lot of couples have.
Speaker 1: Because you need to clean, but it's like, who does it.
Speaker 4: We're all tired, we're all busy, and you're always justifying
Speaker 4: that maybe you've done more than your partner actually thinks
Speaker 4: you've done.
Speaker 1: Okay, there is a new system.
Speaker 4: There is a new tool out there that is going
Speaker 4: to help couples across the nation, and it.
Speaker 1: Is a chore calculator.
Speaker 4: We're going to go right back to when you used
Speaker 4: to put it on a fridge and write it down,
Speaker 4: except now it's an app.
Speaker 1: You can download it.
Speaker 4: You log all your hours or all the different things
Speaker 4: that you've done in the week, and so when you
Speaker 4: get to the end of the week, you can sit
Speaker 4: down on date night and say, hah see, I did
Speaker 4: more than you.
Speaker 1: You lazy got so Laura, if this is what you're
Speaker 1: doing on date night going through your chores list in
Speaker 1: an app.
Speaker 2: Somethings more seriously romance, like a calculating.
Speaker 1: Nothing screams romance like being right.
Speaker 3: The thing is with this great, great theory, Laura, I
Speaker 3: wouldn't even look at the app. I'd open it up
Speaker 3: under twenty five hours, just type it in presenter log it.
Speaker 1: And so you're lie, I lie, yeah, that's a real
Speaker 1: Jilly cows come home.
Speaker 2: What do you mean do you talk about sold? I'm
Speaker 2: kind of sold on this although I'm single, but I
Speaker 2: live with my parents, so maybe Mum and I can
Speaker 2: use this, do I do? I Is it like a percentage?
Speaker 2: You got I vacuum for ten hours.
Speaker 4: To go in and you physically log in what you've
Speaker 4: done and the hours that you've done it. So it
Speaker 4: actually like it's very good in terms of, like I mean,
Speaker 4: imagine that this is your job, because the thing is.
Speaker 1: You got to work.
Speaker 4: You log the hours that you work at work like
Speaker 4: you know exactly what you're doing. But when it comes
Speaker 4: to the unpaid domestic load, which we all know often
Speaker 4: falls on the women, not in.
Speaker 1: My household, but in most households across.
Speaker 4: The country and the statistics were, which is what I
Speaker 4: thought was really interesting. Seventy two percent of women think
Speaker 4: that they do the majority share of the household load,
Speaker 4: and only eighteen percent of men in heterosexual relationships agree.
Speaker 4: So I think there is this big mismatch. I mean,
Speaker 4: I don't think it's obvious. The numbers are right there. People,
Speaker 4: there's a big mismatch, And at least something like this
Speaker 4: gives you the proof and the pudding to show what
Speaker 4: you've actually done.
Speaker 3: I mean, you're you're gay, You're in a long term
Speaker 3: gay relationship.
Speaker 1: It's the first finding out about it, which you're gay.
Speaker 1: He just came out for me. Don't want it like
Speaker 1: an accusation.
Speaker 3: Bitch, you're gay. You're in a same sex relationship for
Speaker 3: five years?
Speaker 2: How we lived together?
Speaker 1: Who? In that case? Who did?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 1: Do you think that this chore app would be interesting?
Speaker 1: Who did the chores interesting? He?
Speaker 2: Definitely, My ex definitely did the line's share of the chores,
Speaker 2: did all of it, all of it. But also I
Speaker 2: was paying substantially more in rent.
Speaker 1: But you don't have any kids, there's no reason for
Speaker 1: you not to be doing it.
Speaker 2: We had a lot of really fancy furniture that polishing
Speaker 2: and dusting it many times. That's that's the issue with
Speaker 2: being gay. So gays can't use this app, but it's
Speaker 2: not the same life you can.
Speaker 1: You can still use it.
Speaker 4: There's plenty of gay people who are on the app
Speaker 4: using it interesting.
Speaker 1: To fight with their partners.
Speaker 3: Talking about fighting with your partner, I have unfortunately been
Speaker 3: farting with my beautiful partner Ben, and it's not for
Speaker 3: the reason you might think.
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you about it.
Speaker 2: After the brain right, it's on the way to pick.
Speaker 3: Up Somehow I have managed to not only not live
Speaker 3: with my partner Ben, he lives on the other side
Speaker 3: of the world, he lives in Scotland. But I'm still
Speaker 3: managing to have like pretty big arguments with him.
Speaker 1: And we've had two.
Speaker 3: This week that have been pretty They haven't ended well,
Speaker 3: but they've been completely my fault and completely irrational. Would
Speaker 3: you say that you guys are on the rocks. No,
Speaker 3: we are absolutely not in the rocks because I'm because
Speaker 3: I am self aware enough to know how ridiculous it it.
Speaker 1: It's all my funck.
Speaker 2: This is self awareness, Laura. Would you agree?
Speaker 4: I feel that this has become like a revelation after
Speaker 4: the fact I'm sure that the fights were.
Speaker 1: Completely Let me tell you.
Speaker 3: So, I'm I'm on day ten of my fertility treatment,
Speaker 3: which means day ten of hormone injections, so three times,
Speaker 3: and my fertility is so bad that I'm on extra
Speaker 3: high doses. Right, so for ten days, I've been taking
Speaker 3: double the hormone doses, three injections a day.
Speaker 1: Now, this weighs on you.
Speaker 3: Literally, it's it's like a normal hormone injection on steroids.
Speaker 1: I am crying at everything.
Speaker 3: Everything is like everything is making me angry, Like my
Speaker 3: emotions are red.
Speaker 2: On all time high. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I had the most ridiculous fight with Ben.
Speaker 3: So. Ben has been unwell and he went to I
Speaker 3: made him. I was like, I've had enough of you
Speaker 3: being unwell. You know, I'm worried because obviously, in my mind,
Speaker 3: everyone's gonna die just because you got a cough. I
Speaker 3: was like, you need to go to the doctors and
Speaker 3: get an X ray. It's like, fine, I'll go. So
Speaker 3: he wakes up the next day. I wake up sorry
Speaker 3: to a message that says, hey, babe, went to the
Speaker 3: doctor's got my X ray. Just wanted to fill you in, like,
Speaker 3: just wanted to do the right thing and let you
Speaker 3: know that I did what you wanted, so you'll get
Speaker 3: off my back. Bread but really sweet, right, like, I
Speaker 3: did this for you and I just wanted you to know.
Speaker 3: I went and I said, cool, send me the X
Speaker 3: ray on the phone like a picture. And I said,
Speaker 3: send me the x ray because I have been a
Speaker 3: radiographer and I worked in X ray for thirteen.
Speaker 2: You're gonna look at it and do a diagnosis.
Speaker 1: I wanted to look at it to see what was happening.
Speaker 4: Yeah, did you not think that the person who he
Speaker 4: paid to take the X ray probably would do that
Speaker 4: job anyway?
Speaker 3: Yes, but it takes days to get to that person.
Speaker 3: You take an X ray and it takes days to
Speaker 3: get to a radiologist. I literally have spent over a
Speaker 3: decade all day looking at this.
Speaker 2: You got to bedroom and she's got one of those
Speaker 2: white light boxes. Happen.
Speaker 1: I can see that is still defensive.
Speaker 4: That's the thing, Like, you're still defensive by this, so
Speaker 4: you're still trying to justify.
Speaker 1: Why the anger was there. Yeah, So he goes, oh,
Speaker 1: I don't have the X ray.
Speaker 3: I was like, what do you mean you don't have
Speaker 3: the X ray? He's like, why would I have the
Speaker 3: X ray. And I was like, caause you went and
Speaker 3: got an X ray. It's your body, it's your health.
Speaker 3: And he's like, no, baby, just sells on the screen.
Speaker 3: They send it to a doctor.
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you send me the X ray? Band?
Speaker 3: You know this is my profession, you know this is
Speaker 3: my job. How do I know if you're unwell? Well,
Speaker 3: that's so crazy. Yeah, the specialist is going to look
Speaker 3: at it, babe, That's what they do.
Speaker 1: And I was like, the specialist is going to take
Speaker 1: two days. What if something happens in that two days,
Speaker 1: what's gonna happen to him? He's not dropping dead. The
Speaker 1: guy's got a saw a chair.
Speaker 2: He's a professional athlete. All of us fitness guys.
Speaker 1: I know. That's the problem we got. We go onto
Speaker 1: this huge, huge.
Speaker 3: Fight and he's the sick one, and I was so
Speaker 3: beside myself and upset that he. I actually said to him,
Speaker 3: you don't even consider me. I was like, you didn't
Speaker 3: get like in your hospital visit, you didn't consider me
Speaker 3: in this because if you did consider me, you would
Speaker 3: have sent me the X ray.
Speaker 1: I'm insane. I'm insane. We went into this huge, big fight.
Speaker 2: Is the X ray, I don't know what all that.
Speaker 1: No, this is my point.
Speaker 3: And I got so upset for like two days until
Speaker 3: he messaged me and he was like, it's all clear.
Speaker 1: I'm all, I'm fine. Did you ever worry about, like, yes,
Speaker 1: him dumping me? Just does it ever cross your mind? No?
Speaker 1: So I did say to him, this is how much
Speaker 1: of an angel he is.
Speaker 3: Two days later I did say, look, I realized that
Speaker 3: I may have crossed the line and this was more
Speaker 3: about you than me, and I apologize and I may.
Speaker 1: Managed to make it about myself. And he was like, babous.
Speaker 1: He's like it's fine. I know. He's like, I just
Speaker 1: ignore you now. And I was like, oh, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know what's Oh, dear, all right, well are
Speaker 2: you sleeping soundly at night? It's all okay, good, thanks
Speaker 2: for us. Well, No, I was reading a new study. Actually,
Speaker 2: you'll be shocked the way the position that you sleep
Speaker 2: in every night could actually tell you a lot about
Speaker 2: your personality.
Speaker 4: Brick and Laura, mine's usually with a child's leg up
Speaker 4: in my spleen, says I'm a parent.
Speaker 2: If you're a side sleeper, very very shocking. Facts coming
Speaker 2: home tell you what it means about your psyche. Next
Speaker 2: at the pickup. We've all dated our fair share of
Speaker 2: people Britain, Laura, we've all had a little you know,
Speaker 2: adult sleepover is going. I just feel like sleeping positions
Speaker 2: are really important part of any relationship because I maybe
Speaker 2: we can all say how we sleep. I am a
Speaker 2: definite tummy sleeper.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well I'm a tummy slash running man sleep. Imiche,
Speaker 3: So like tummy but on that forty five degree anger
Speaker 3: with a running man leg.
Speaker 2: Well, kind of like a side sleep.
Speaker 1: No, it's not side. It's more tummy, but just with
Speaker 1: a propped leg.
Speaker 2: It's a hybrid.
Speaker 1: It's a hybrida like coastly with a four year old.
Speaker 4: So usually it's on a time a little slither of
Speaker 4: bed backside or tommy side side.
Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing, sleep expert. Where that he got
Speaker 2: that title front if he's.
Speaker 1: Been to Universe himself, he definitely did.
Speaker 2: Samuel Duncle has revealed that the sleeping position you choose
Speaker 2: every night actually tells you about your personality and your psyche. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so do you have? Oh sure?
Speaker 1: I love this stuff? What does Donkey say?
Speaker 2: Duncan says, sleeping on your stomach? I e me, Mitch
Speaker 2: Jerry means you are sensitive, emotional, and highly impulsive. Sleep
Speaker 2: in the stomach. Would you say that direct that that
Speaker 2: describes me, Grex.
Speaker 4: I don't think you're highly impulsive, you're sensitive.
Speaker 1: Well, hang on, that's me too. Or is there a
Speaker 1: running man? Or am I the belly?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: I give you the hybrid. So if you sleep in
Speaker 2: the fetal position, which is kind.
Speaker 4: Of the running man, I sleep in the fetal position,
Speaker 4: you slept on the side, on the side like little ball.
Speaker 1: I'm not fetal, Doctor farrel very fetal.
Speaker 2: Doctor Funkel has thoughts on the fetal He says, shy, introverted,
Speaker 2: and insecure.
Speaker 1: Oh real close, he's Oh yeah, he's insecure.
Speaker 2: Not shy, all right on side with legs curled up right.
Speaker 1: God, no, but you're not shy, secure but not shy.
Speaker 3: No, it didn't go over my head. Pal insecure question
Speaker 3: mark not shy? I thought there was an.
Speaker 2: Exclamation, goes doctor duncle said anything about oily hair and
Speaker 2: eyes that one?
Speaker 1: No, So do I have any.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yours is nurturing, compassionate and caring. So he's his fake.
Speaker 1: That's cute.
Speaker 2: That is cute.
Speaker 1: I'm nurturing.
Speaker 2: I think The most interesting though, which I don't I
Speaker 2: don't agree with, is sleeping on your back. He claims,
Speaker 2: means you are the king. If you sleep on your back,
Speaker 2: you're confident, you're independent and yourself assured.
Speaker 3: No, I believe that, because that's a body language thing, right,
Speaker 3: Like if you put your if you recoil into yourself,
Speaker 3: or put your hands across yourself, it's like a protection thing.
Speaker 3: But if you're just openly on your back, palms out,
Speaker 3: it means you don't care, you got no ships to
Speaker 3: get well.
Speaker 4: If you do sleep on your back with your arms crossed,
Speaker 4: it actually means you're a vampire.
Speaker 1: So that's that's the one you didn't have on.
Speaker 3: I don't think jumping sleep experts, I don't think you
Speaker 3: did you sleep in a coffin, that makes you a vampire.
Speaker 1: You're dead And if you.
Speaker 2: Don't wake up, that means you're dead. Thanks Laura. Real
Speaker 2: sleep experts breaking stuff there. All right, let's go home, alright, bye,
Speaker 2: Hey guys,