WEBVTT - Wait, They Made A Song About Us? 🎶 🥹🎤 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:03.560 Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms. 0:00:03.600 --> 0:00:06.000 This is the Flex and Frooms catch up podcast. 0:00:07.960 --> 0:00:12.879 Oh sweety Pie, second last Day, don't be sad. Sad 0:00:13.000 --> 0:00:16.759 is helpful, but maybe not in this context. O'meagle is 0:00:17.040 --> 0:00:21.160 dead and the timing is very odd. Ten years of o'meagle. 0:00:21.239 --> 0:00:24.079 I don't understand why it couldn't just stay up at 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:27.680 this point. Is there's not really marketing, there's no promo. 0:00:27.760 --> 0:00:31.920 Why die I know? And to think the amount of 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:35.120 reducted I've seen on that platform though honestly sickening, also 0:00:35.440 --> 0:00:37.360 drinking on first dates. Would you do it? We're going 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:39.000 to talk about it. Let's go over it. 0:00:39.280 --> 0:00:42.120 You're listening to Flex and Frooms on CATA. 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:44.800 It is our last kind of week, I guess on 0:00:44.920 --> 0:00:46.960 cater it's been a pleasure to be here as perp. 0:00:47.000 --> 0:00:49.000 But Mickey has some best of moments to share with 0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:50.080 the audience and with us. 0:00:50.360 --> 0:00:51.280 Just keep the vibes high. 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:52.800 Mickey, please play the tape. 0:00:52.920 --> 0:00:55.560 We're going to go back in time. It predates my 0:00:55.760 --> 0:00:59.480 employment as your producer. I actually couldn't tell you when 0:00:59.600 --> 0:00:59.920 this was. 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:14.720 Yeah, thats for Mickey. I don't know that BM. 0:01:08.240 --> 0:01:10.360 Fleck and Frooms. 0:01:10.720 --> 0:01:13.320 Its Flex on Kita and this week we are making 0:01:13.440 --> 0:01:14.839 dreams come true. 0:01:15.040 --> 0:01:18.160 I swear to you. We surprised rooms. 0:01:18.280 --> 0:01:20.600 My special co host is one of her favorite people 0:01:20.600 --> 0:01:25.160 in the whole room scene from Lux Listing Sydney. We 0:01:25.240 --> 0:01:27.160 had in the studio and when I tell you, she 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:28.520 squealed was. 0:01:28.480 --> 0:01:32.080 In hysterics, puffing, puffing. It was really quite beautiful. 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:33.759 I think there was chemistry all round. 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:35.760 And I think you want to pay attention and stay 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:39.440 tuned so you can hear exactly how it went down. 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:49.160 Oh god, this is phenomenal. 0:01:50.160 --> 0:01:55.080 That is more dramatic the visuals. 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:57.000 You were screaming to you. 0:01:57.240 --> 0:02:01.320 Know, did you no? That was a good get by them. 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:04.000 Am I going to see Simon walk through it? 0:02:04.080 --> 0:02:04.520 You better? 0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:08.840 Simon Common we're friend's on Instagram, so he watches my Sorry. 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:10.280 That was beautiful, And you know what I loved about 0:02:10.320 --> 0:02:10.680 that moment? 0:02:10.880 --> 0:02:11.600 Sheer joy. 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:15.000 You could the joy was palpable at that point because 0:02:15.040 --> 0:02:17.480 at that point it wasn't even about Gavin, but it's 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:20.360 just about us being excited, and he just happened to 0:02:20.520 --> 0:02:24.200 instigate that excitement. But those squeals when they trailed off, 0:02:24.240 --> 0:02:26.480 that was more about just sharing joy between the girls. 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:27.440 He was. 0:02:28.919 --> 0:02:32.880 He knew. Oh what a time. Well, thanks for bringing 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:33.519 that back, Mickey. 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:35.880 It's my pleasure going through. 0:02:35.720 --> 0:02:36.680 The archives hearing that. 0:02:36.840 --> 0:02:42.880 I was like when that was serious, horrible, horrible news. Guys, 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:44.720 out of the world. About a week or two ago, 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:50.079 o'meagle shut down. It closed up shop, it shut its doors. 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:53.400 I do believe there's still chat Roulette though, just right 0:02:53.440 --> 0:02:55.680 off the top of the dome in case you're feeling 0:02:55.840 --> 0:02:59.400 really sad about this one, guys, but o'meagle now looks 0:02:59.480 --> 0:03:01.680 like a great raveyard. We've got a screenshot of what 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:03.960 it looks like. It's a gray screen. And that's not 0:03:04.040 --> 0:03:07.160 just because this is okay, it's because it's rendered in 0:03:07.160 --> 0:03:11.640 brack and light. But okay, this is what I said, 0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:14.840 dear strangers. From the moment I discovered the Internet at 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:17.240 a young age, it has been a magical place to me. 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:20.160 The Internet opened the door to a much larger, more diverse, 0:03:20.200 --> 0:03:22.880 and more vibrant world than I would have otherwise been 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:25.080 able to experience, and enabled me to be an active 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:28.560 participant in and contributor to her the world. I've done 0:03:28.560 --> 0:03:30.200 my best to weather the attacks with the interests of 0:03:30.200 --> 0:03:32.720 her Megle's users and the broader principle in mind. If 0:03:32.720 --> 0:03:34.920 something as simple as meeting round or new people is forbidden, 0:03:35.040 --> 0:03:37.960 what's next that is far and away removed from anything 0:03:37.960 --> 0:03:40.160 that would be considered a reasonable compromise of the principle 0:03:40.200 --> 0:03:43.200 I outlined. Analogies are a limited tool, but a physical 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:45.920 world analogy might be shutting down Central Park because crime 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:50.240 occurs there. Unfortunately, what's right doesn't always prevail. As much 0:03:50.240 --> 0:03:52.720 as I wish circumstances are different. The stress and expense 0:03:52.760 --> 0:03:55.680 of this fight, coupled with the existing stress and expense 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:58.640 of operating a magle and fighting its misuse, are simply 0:03:58.680 --> 0:04:00.560 too much. Operating a mex. 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:01.560 Uses child predators. 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:04.960 Okay, that wasn't clear. Okay, the battle for Ameagle has 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:08.560 been lost, but the warriancy Internet rages on. Virtually every 0:04:08.600 --> 0:04:11.360 online communication service has been subject to the same kinds 0:04:11.360 --> 0:04:14.240 of attacks as o'meagel, and while some of them are 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:17.600 much larger companies with much greater resources, coming. 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:25.000 Respectfully, it's giving. 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:28.480 Crossant like omeagle, omegle O, what. 0:04:28.480 --> 0:04:33.280 Was I saying, ogel, omagel, And while some of them 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:35.480 are much larger companies with the greater resources, they all 0:04:35.480 --> 0:04:38.839 have their breaking points somewhere Okay, then let's go Facebook. 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:41.680 I worry that unless the tide turns through the Internet 0:04:41.680 --> 0:04:44.360 I fell in love with may cease to exist and 0:04:44.480 --> 0:04:46.960 its place, we will have something closer to a souped 0:04:47.000 --> 0:04:51.320 up version of TV, focus largely on passive consumption and 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:55.120 much less opportunity for active participation in general connection. That's 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:58.960 like the Union bubber statement, the manifesto what do we 0:04:59.000 --> 0:04:59.560 think girls? 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:01.480 Wow? 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:04.479 I mean, he's got a point, but the point he 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:07.440 made first was correct. You can know all the ways 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:10.479 that things could be better, but he alone cannot change 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:14.640 the world, and he alone can't be responsible for platforming 0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:17.960 the evildoers of the world, Like he's so closely associated 0:05:18.040 --> 0:05:21.080 that narrative by proxy of making this tool that was 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:23.239 meant to help everyone, or at least connect everyone. 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:25.880 Surely he knew people were going to start showing bits, 0:05:26.520 --> 0:05:27.039 not at all. 0:05:28.160 --> 0:05:30.840 I think we would all be surprised what we as 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:35.120 individuals have consciously and unconsciously encouraged others to do just 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:39.080 by existing. Hmm. That's even without speaking. Now you add 0:05:39.080 --> 0:05:42.640 the speaking into it and you're like, well, where does 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:45.560 this go? How many times we've been how many times 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:51.240 have we been misinterpreted or misunderstood or a joke hasn't landed. 0:05:52.120 --> 0:05:54.800 I could imagine, And luckily we don't have a bunch 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:59.400 of predators associating with us. M imagine if we did scary. 0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:02.880 My favorite amagal memory is I must have been. That 0:06:02.960 --> 0:06:04.760 was more of a chat relate girl. There was like 0:06:04.800 --> 0:06:06.919 this software or something hap people would pretend to be 0:06:07.000 --> 0:06:09.080 Justin Bieber and they'd be like a pre recorded video 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:10.480 of Justin sitting on it and he'd be. 0:06:10.400 --> 0:06:13.040 Like, oh my god, it's Justin Bieber when. 0:06:12.920 --> 0:06:15.840 I was nine. So yeah, long live it. That's an 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:19.560 interesting mission statement by old mate. It is a bit sad. 0:06:19.560 --> 0:06:21.480 I guess I'm glad he said what it was as 0:06:21.480 --> 0:06:23.200 supposed been. Like, it's been a lovely time. 0:06:23.400 --> 0:06:24.200 Goodbye, Ruin. 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:26.960 He's like, you people ruined it. You ruined it, You 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:30.680 ruined everything, and now I have the suffer. Over the 0:06:30.720 --> 0:06:34.440 last couple of years, if not for the entire life 0:06:34.520 --> 0:06:38.680 of humans, people have been speculating that men's friendships aren't complex, 0:06:38.760 --> 0:06:42.520 they're not as deep as women's friendships. You can't expect 0:06:42.600 --> 0:06:45.080 men to know much about their friends. They don't ever 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:48.520 know the details. You can't ask men for clarifying questions 0:06:48.520 --> 0:06:50.960 about their friends because everything is service level and vye 0:06:51.320 --> 0:06:55.400 And you know, I have definitely thought that beforehand, just 0:06:55.440 --> 0:06:56.760 observing some men's friendships. 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:57.599 But then on the other. 0:06:57.440 --> 0:06:59.440 Hand, I have said a lot in my time, I 0:06:59.520 --> 0:07:02.279 really end the bromances. I don't envy a lot of things, 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:06.640 but I like observing the lightness of all, like the 0:07:06.680 --> 0:07:10.960 superficiality of men's friendships sometimes where they feel really immeshed 0:07:10.960 --> 0:07:14.720 and integrated when they're together, very separate when they're apart, 0:07:15.000 --> 0:07:18.120 and that it doesn't become like a negative assessment on 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:20.800 the friendship as a whole. Let's not get into generalizations, 0:07:20.800 --> 0:07:23.760 but let's talk about this video from You've All the Terrible, 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:27.640 a man who is pleading his case for the complexity 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:28.920 of male friendships. 0:07:29.360 --> 0:07:31.880 The reason why male friendships seem to last a lifetime 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:34.080 is because they lack depth. A lot of men have 0:07:34.120 --> 0:07:37.920 surface level friendships with their friends. They only bond over sports, music, 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:40.000 or shared interests like going to the club either. 0:07:40.320 --> 0:07:42.480 I think a lot of this conversation is stepping from 0:07:42.520 --> 0:07:45.840 what I believe to be a fundamental misunderstanding into how 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:50.040 exactly male friendships work. Calling male friendship superficial, I think 0:07:50.080 --> 0:07:54.080 not only misunderstands the things that men value in a 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:57.560 friendship or a relationship, but I also think it misunderstands 0:07:57.560 --> 0:08:00.000 the things that all of us value within a friendship. 0:08:00.160 --> 0:08:00.880 Here's how I see this. 0:08:01.120 --> 0:08:03.920 I believe that men actually value the same kind of 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:07.120 intimate relationships with their friends that women do. I think 0:08:07.160 --> 0:08:09.800 the big fundamental difference is how men and women go 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:13.080 about attaining those intimate and personal relationships. One of the 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:15.600 examples she brings up in terms of how male friendships 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:17.600 can be superficial is the fact that it seems a 0:08:17.640 --> 0:08:20.080 lot of men don't even know their friends' birthdays. 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:21.320 But this is not. 0:08:21.440 --> 0:08:26.200 An indication on how male friendships are actually just really superficial. 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:29.680 This is an example of how men don't really care 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:33.880 about superficial information. It's not that male friendships are superficial. 0:08:33.880 --> 0:08:35.760 In fact, I woud say it's almost exactly the opposite. 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:38.959 I would say it's that men typically are not concerned 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:43.080 with the superficial level, so they almost skip over that entirely. 0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:47.000 You lost me, king, you had me and you lost it. Yeah, 0:08:47.000 --> 0:08:49.240 how did you lose you? What is this about? Then 0:08:49.320 --> 0:08:51.559 saying that that is superficial the birthday? 0:08:51.559 --> 0:08:53.760 Well, then it's interesting that you make that point also 0:08:53.760 --> 0:08:55.480 because in the comments, people are like, you kind of 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:57.520 have me into the birthday thing, because it's not superficial 0:08:57.760 --> 0:09:00.960 to acknowledge when somebody was born, but in the context 0:09:01.000 --> 0:09:03.480 of your relationship. He went on to say, it's very 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:04.959 long video, and there were follow ups, but he goes 0:09:05.000 --> 0:09:09.520 on to say that what I meant is that what 0:09:09.679 --> 0:09:12.920 he meant is that men generally go the distance, and 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:17.280 the longer you engage in that friendship, more information reveals itself. 0:09:17.320 --> 0:09:19.760 So while you may not know the exact date today, 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:22.000 if you're going to be friends for a year, a 0:09:22.040 --> 0:09:24.720 birthday will come up, you'll celebrate it, you'll note it down. 0:09:24.840 --> 0:09:28.840 While you may not know right now what their strengths 0:09:28.880 --> 0:09:32.280 and weaknesses are, and while you may not care to ask, 0:09:32.400 --> 0:09:34.280 you'll make an assessment of that as you get to 0:09:34.320 --> 0:09:36.920 know them when time passes. So the point he was 0:09:36.960 --> 0:09:39.920 going on to make is that it feels like what 0:09:40.360 --> 0:09:43.960 women are observing about women's friendships that isn't superficial is 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:46.280 that we have this want and need to know everything 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:47.920 about who we plan to be friends with. 0:09:48.160 --> 0:09:48.520 Now. 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:50.480 We want to make sure that we're aligned, we have 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:52.839 the same values, the same morals, the same interest, the 0:09:52.880 --> 0:09:55.800 same aesthetics now and if we don't, we'll find a 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:59.520 different friend Whereas men, in his opinion, are willing to 0:09:59.559 --> 0:10:03.280 do the actual soil and toil of a friendship to 0:10:03.320 --> 0:10:06.640 determine if there are equality is there that make them 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:09.920 good friends? Once you can only really discover if you 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:11.160 are actually friends. 0:10:11.240 --> 0:10:14.440 That's quite romantic. It is romantic. See, it just can't be. 0:10:14.520 --> 0:10:18.240 We can't boy this down though, to like gender genzo, 0:10:18.679 --> 0:10:22.600 because tell me why, all of the homosexual men in 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:25.600 my life are just as open as the heterosexual girls, 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:28.240 you know what I'm saying. So it's a socialization thing 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.360 there you go. I'm like, men can do it just 0:10:31.440 --> 0:10:34.640 as well. And then to the men that are socialized 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:37.640 to be straight, and you know, obviously that's a generalization. 0:10:37.760 --> 0:10:41.120 But in my friendship group, for my best these are 0:10:41.120 --> 0:10:44.240 gay men and it's like one of the girlies. So 0:10:44.280 --> 0:10:47.480 I think that is a socialization thing, to which I say, 0:10:47.720 --> 0:10:51.440 my poor straight men, because how boring. I love us 0:10:51.480 --> 0:10:54.040 all having fun together and they love it too. 0:10:54.400 --> 0:10:56.960 Seriously, what I will say, the flaws of friendship are 0:10:57.080 --> 0:11:00.880 universal and genderleist, though, because I think most people struggle 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:05.040 with feeling deep, deep, deep intimacy and always on to like, 0:11:05.280 --> 0:11:07.800 for example, what the back and forth that he was 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:12.640 having with another creator. They got bad are bad, but 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:15.080 points that were made. I'm not going to sign them 0:11:15.080 --> 0:11:17.320 to whatever party just you know, you get the gist. 0:11:17.400 --> 0:11:20.360 But the point that was being made is that regardless 0:11:20.360 --> 0:11:23.160 of whether the positive qualities like the positive qualities, both 0:11:23.160 --> 0:11:25.880 friendships exists. But the negative qualities are universal in the 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:28.960 sense that no matter how deep your friendships feel that 0:11:29.000 --> 0:11:31.640 they are, they're also fragile in the sense that when 0:11:31.640 --> 0:11:33.480 you really feel like you need a friend, you often 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:37.640 can't find one. When you really feel disconnected from the world, 0:11:38.000 --> 0:11:41.680 sometimes friendship doesn't make up for that. And so the 0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:45.200 critique isn't about gender. It's about how we're socialized to 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:48.280 be friends and what that actually looks like in different 0:11:48.320 --> 0:11:52.120 life stages and for different needs states, and how for 0:11:52.200 --> 0:11:54.960 the most part, they're transactional in a way where we're 0:11:55.000 --> 0:11:57.520 honoring the illusion of friendship and not the reality of 0:11:57.559 --> 0:11:59.120 what it is to be each other's friends. 0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:03.160 You're listening to flex and frooms. 0:12:03.000 --> 0:12:05.560 On cater Some new studies have shown that drinking on 0:12:05.679 --> 0:12:09.559 dates is dead, it's played out, it's a faux part. 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:12.520 It's dried up, it's carcass like it's lam. And I'm 0:12:12.559 --> 0:12:16.640 not surprised. I will say five years ago, all of 0:12:16.679 --> 0:12:18.640 a sudden in marketing and events, which is a big 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:21.840 push for zero alcohol drinks, and it was coming out 0:12:21.880 --> 0:12:25.240 of nowhere, and all these brands were claiming that non 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:28.800 alcohol was the new vibe. And because I don't really drink, 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:31.440 people kept approaching me to be their spokespersons for their 0:12:31.480 --> 0:12:34.920 non alcoholic alcohol. But the whole point that I didn't 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:37.600 get was it was like zero percent alcohol but still 0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:39.840 tastes like alcohol, which for me, that's the worst part. 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:43.320 Make a higher end juice. You can't even get juices 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:46.200 that are high end these days. Anyway, Vice came out 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:50.040 and they published a survey from a dating app called Flirtini. 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:50.640 Have you heard of it? 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:55.360 No, sounds very American that claims that one in four 0:12:55.400 --> 0:12:59.240 men and one in five women would turn down a 0:12:59.320 --> 0:13:02.520 second date with someone who got drunk on the first one. 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:04.079 Oh, I have a little bit of fun, guys. 0:13:05.160 --> 0:13:08.560 And they also said that fifty percent of women and 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:11.240 twenty eight percent of men never drink alcohol on the 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:17.559 first date. They're not Australia I'm gonna say this isn't right. 0:13:18.400 --> 0:13:22.920 But but the way that trends move, they start in 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:26.360 America and they make their way to Australia eventually to 0:13:26.440 --> 0:13:29.480 your turnal, I will say, this article is claiming that 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:32.800 it's a broader social shift away from excessive merriment and 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:37.600 more towards intentional experiences, which I don't necessarily think that's it, 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:42.199 because to imply that drinking alcohol in a celibratory way 0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:45.520 can't be intentional is false. And to claim that a 0:13:45.760 --> 0:13:48.679 drink on a date is excessive is false. 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:52.800 And to say that merriment is a thing that's associated 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:53.600 only with alcohol. 0:13:53.720 --> 0:13:56.400 Yeah, it feels like a lot of assumptions being made here. 0:13:56.920 --> 0:14:00.000 But I can understand removing the alcohol from the situation 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:03.120 because I don't think people want to be clouded by 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:06.319 their dating judgments anymore because of how traumatic they are. 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:08.439 So people want to be clear headed, have a lot 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:11.320 of clarity, don't want to invest more time than necessary. 0:14:11.320 --> 0:14:14.160 I want to see things as they are, and unfortunately 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:18.440 that means reducing and removing some of the excesses that 0:14:18.520 --> 0:14:19.480 were initially there. 0:14:20.080 --> 0:14:21.960 I reckon, yeah, one or two on the first day, 0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:27.479 then you know, second date enjoy them. A third, Yeah, 0:14:27.600 --> 0:14:29.680 your with flexing frooms on cater So I'm having a 0:14:29.800 --> 0:14:34.120 why did your lip quiver? Perhaps I'm having traumatic flashbacks. 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:37.840 If I'm perfectly honest, my mind's going. 0:14:37.960 --> 0:14:38.880 You saw that in realty. 0:14:39.120 --> 0:14:39.920 It was freaky. 0:14:40.080 --> 0:14:43.720 Your eyes glazed over and your lips, your chin quivered anything, 0:14:44.320 --> 0:14:45.600 My gosh. 0:14:45.360 --> 0:14:50.160 Regrets your flexing fruits on cater it's flexing frooms on cater. 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:52.400 We are here with you until five pm. It's our 0:14:52.480 --> 0:14:55.320 last time, last times in the studio because we have 0:14:56.040 --> 0:15:00.120 consciously quit. Why have been around the bush? 0:15:00.360 --> 0:15:00.640 No. 0:15:03.920 --> 0:15:07.800 Nicky has organized some surprises for us. 0:15:07.840 --> 0:15:11.800 So far, we've gotten two dozen Krispy Kreme donuts. 0:15:11.880 --> 0:15:12.120 Yep. 0:15:12.440 --> 0:15:17.560 We've received a framed one of one bespoke collection of 0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:21.760 Lucinda Frim's price original artwork created right here in the studio. 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:24.960 One would say that she wasn't concentrating as we were working, 0:15:25.000 --> 0:15:28.000 but others like myself know that she was automatic illustrating. 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:29.680 It's just a gift and a skill. It is what 0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:31.920 was the third surprise? We haven't gotten it yet. 0:15:32.960 --> 0:15:35.960 It is something I made with the help of our 0:15:36.240 --> 0:15:39.280 sound engineer, Andy at Kata. 0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:41.240 Andy works overtime for us we. 0:15:41.200 --> 0:15:43.760 Love it, and we love I will preface, Andy said Mikayla. 0:15:43.800 --> 0:15:47.880 It can't be done, I say, Andy, make it happen. 0:15:48.360 --> 0:15:51.640 Oh my god, I love that already, girl boss yep 0:15:52.200 --> 0:15:54.520 in the heart of the city, where the lights shine bright, 0:15:54.760 --> 0:15:57.040 flax and firms leaving dreams every night. 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:59.600 Two years on the airways, journey's so sweet in the 0:15:59.600 --> 0:16:02.920 word that did Toyota cars on repeat? Flex and Frooms 0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:05.480 the queens of the air, spreading joy, love and Reddit 0:16:05.560 --> 0:16:08.520 to those everywhere, Flex and fromes. What a time would 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:11.320 a ride big Boss energy? You know it's no lie. 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:14.400 Deep in the forest where dark shadows wrong du gremlins 0:16:14.400 --> 0:16:17.280 are dancing and finding new harms. The price has gone up, 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.960 the curtains come down. We sure will be sad that 0:16:20.000 --> 0:16:23.120 you're not around. Flex and Frons, the queens of the air, 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:26.960 spreading joy love and Reddit took those everywhere Flex and fumes. 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:29.560 What a time would a ride big Boss energy? You 0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:38.640 know it's no lie? 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:43.160 Or was it? 0:16:43.240 --> 0:16:49.480 Nott did the lyrics and then Andy got the music 0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:51.960 bed from another like a I generate our website. 0:16:52.240 --> 0:16:54.240 Wait, did you you didn't Martha's lyrics that was from 0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:58.600 chat jabt, But I told chat is okay? Can you 0:16:58.600 --> 0:16:59.080 play it again? 0:16:59.120 --> 0:16:59.400 Please? 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:01.280 Were running over time about. 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:05.160 Three two one in the heart of the city where 0:17:05.200 --> 0:17:08.760 the lights shine bright, Flex and Fons weaving dreams every night. 0:17:08.760 --> 0:17:11.240 Two years on the airwaves, A Journey's so sweet and 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:14.760 the word redacted, Toyota cars on repeat, Flex and Foons, 0:17:14.760 --> 0:17:17.160 the queens of the air, spreading joy, love and Reddit 0:17:17.280 --> 0:17:20.240 to those everywhere, Flex and froomes, What a time would 0:17:20.240 --> 0:17:22.920 a ride? Big Boss Energy? You know it's no lie. 0:17:23.200 --> 0:17:26.120 Deep in the forest where dark shadows roam, two gremlins 0:17:26.119 --> 0:17:29.000 are dancing and finding new homes. The price has gone up, 0:17:29.160 --> 0:17:31.639 the curtains come down. We sure will be sad that 0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:34.840 you're not around. Flex and Frooms, the queens of the air, 0:17:34.880 --> 0:17:38.040 spreading joy, love and Reddit to those everywhere, Flex and 0:17:38.200 --> 0:17:41.119 those what a time would a ride? Big Boss Energy? 0:17:41.200 --> 0:17:42.120 You know it's no lie? 0:17:42.440 --> 0:17:44.240 And this is exactly why they say I can never 0:17:44.280 --> 0:17:45.000 take over music. 0:17:46.359 --> 0:17:48.920 That's what it would all sound like, just right on 0:17:49.080 --> 0:17:52.760 the quantized, no flavor and like you can't help it, 0:17:52.840 --> 0:17:53.280 buck to. 0:17:53.280 --> 0:17:58.600 It, soulless, mindless perfect. That was honestly like I'm crying 0:18:00.160 --> 0:18:03.199 to hear that. Want to send you the file, like 0:18:03.240 --> 0:18:05.199 maybe once every it's annoying, but like, I want to 0:18:05.200 --> 0:18:05.680 listen to it. 0:18:05.640 --> 0:18:10.240 Again, like reata out retail playlist one more time. We 0:18:10.280 --> 0:18:14.480 don't have time. 0:18:14.760 --> 0:18:19.280 Wow. Yeah, honestly, that's incredible, Mickey, that was really good yourself. 0:18:19.600 --> 0:18:23.480 Oh, I feel happy. That's endorphin. You've been listening to 0:18:23.520 --> 0:18:25.280 The Flex and Froom's daily podcast. 0:18:25.520 --> 0:18:28.159 For more, tune Indicater on D A B or stream 0:18:28.160 --> 0:18:29.160 it on iHeartRadio.