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Speaker 2: What our windows down?
Speaker 3: That's my world? Risen the dust only good bugle down.
Speaker 2: I've done March, but yeah, I'm not our.
Speaker 3: Big get and what I want it don't matter where
Speaker 3: does this is the pickup?
Speaker 2: Hello, it's the pickup with Britt Hockley and Laura Burn.
Speaker 4: I am so excited I'm just gonna have I mean,
Speaker 4: this is so excited that you am spilt frape right
Speaker 4: down in the front of yourself.
Speaker 2: Couldn't contain it.
Speaker 3: I was actually going to bypass straight past that, but
Speaker 3: thank you. Yes.
Speaker 4: I wore an all white outfit today and the second
Speaker 4: I walked in here, I had a mocker iced frape.
Speaker 1: So market, a massive frozen frapee. Great, yeah, delicious.
Speaker 4: Spilt it all down my top within thirty seconds.
Speaker 3: The worst parties I didn't know.
Speaker 4: I just kept talking to everyone like normal, and you're
Speaker 4: all laughing at me because I have coffee all down with.
Speaker 2: No one laughed. Everyone just looked at you, like kind
Speaker 2: of sad.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, we all looked at you like, Ah, that's so,
Speaker 1: that's miserable.
Speaker 3: I just turned my shirt around backwards.
Speaker 1: Well I think you were very resourceful, but that is
Speaker 1: not why you're excited.
Speaker 2: But thank you. We kind of took a tangent.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just like, you know, this is our show, Laura.
Speaker 4: We can highlight the things that we want to highlight,
Speaker 4: and I just want to have like a proud fiance
Speaker 4: moment my fiance Ben this weekend. He lives over in Italy.
Speaker 4: He's a football player over there. He plays for a
Speaker 4: team called Genoa. But he's playing the biggest match of
Speaker 4: his career this Sunday night.
Speaker 3: So anyone that's listening that knows football.
Speaker 4: He's in Serie A, that's the league, which is like
Speaker 4: the Italian Premier League, I guess, and he's playing Napali,
Speaker 4: which is the number one team. They're about to win
Speaker 4: the championship. It's a stadium of like sixty or seventy
Speaker 4: thousand people. It's like a really huge deal and I'm
Speaker 4: just super excited and super proud of him. I'm going
Speaker 4: to get up at like three am so I can watch.
Speaker 3: Him from here.
Speaker 4: And these are the moments that is like, I'm so
Speaker 4: thrilled and so proud on one hand.
Speaker 3: On the other hand, I'm.
Speaker 4: Like, oh, these are the sad moments where you're like,
Speaker 4: I'm not there for his biggest moments. I don't get
Speaker 4: to actually see it. I get to like cheer alongside,
Speaker 4: you know, in the TV.
Speaker 2: With every TV.
Speaker 3: But also like, I hope he doesn't hear this. It's
Speaker 3: not expected that.
Speaker 4: They win, Like you know, when they're playing one of
Speaker 4: the best teams ever, it's like no one's expecting them
Speaker 4: to beat them. But on the off chance that he does,
Speaker 4: I won't be there.
Speaker 3: But it's it's cool.
Speaker 4: So I just I'm really thrilled for him, and I
Speaker 4: just wanted to like put it out there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is time for something we do every Thursday,
Speaker 1: and that is ask Guncut. It has become as staple
Speaker 1: of our podcast life on Cut, and it's.
Speaker 2: Where you guys call in with your deep, you're dark and.
Speaker 1: You're burning questions and even though we are completely unqualified,
Speaker 1: we do our best answer them.
Speaker 3: We have it Emily on the phone.
Speaker 2: Hey Emily, Hi Emily, what's the problem?
Speaker 5: Hi guys. Okay, So basically I was a guy I
Speaker 5: dated maybe like three or four years ago. We were
Speaker 5: quite serious, but like we never like were boyfriend and girlfriend,
Speaker 5: and due to like careers and stuff in the sense
Speaker 5: that like I work a normal job and he would
Speaker 5: work weird hours. It just never eventuated and my work
Speaker 5: took me other places. Anyways, I just have never been
Speaker 5: able to stop thinking about him.
Speaker 2: Like you think he's kind of the one that got away.
Speaker 5: Yeah, And the worst bit about it is I'm never
Speaker 5: one to like I'm such a girl's girl, right, Like
Speaker 5: I would never do anything. But he has a girlfriend
Speaker 5: now and they've been together for a year, and I
Speaker 5: thought it would just go away, but it's not.
Speaker 3: Have you dated other people and then it just doesn't
Speaker 3: feel right? Are you in a relationship now? Doesn't feel right?
Speaker 5: I have dated other people in the past, I have
Speaker 5: had a relationship in those three to four years, and yeah,
Speaker 5: I was still thinking about him.
Speaker 3: Do you have any contact with him?
Speaker 5: This is so bad. I swear, I swear such a
Speaker 5: girl's girl, like I would never move in on him,
Speaker 5: but we still chat. Yeah, here and there about like
Speaker 5: whatever's happening in the world, and like things I know
Speaker 5: he likes.
Speaker 2: Okay, so does he I know he likes?
Speaker 1: Does he ever give you the indication like does he
Speaker 1: ever overstep the mark or is he giving you the
Speaker 1: indication that like, had it been different, he would have
Speaker 1: wanted it to work out.
Speaker 5: So basically, back in October, we had like a drunk
Speaker 5: phone call and he was in a relationship at this time,
Speaker 5: and he said, oh, like we just didn't work out
Speaker 5: because our life past didn't go that way. And he
Speaker 5: still thinks of me nicely, but he tells his partner everything,
Speaker 5: and he's completely open with her and trusting with her.
Speaker 5: And I would never do anything to hurt a relationship
Speaker 5: or I wouldn't even like let him do something to
Speaker 5: affect that, because I know what that could mean if
Speaker 5: I were to get in a relationship with him and
Speaker 5: stuff like that.
Speaker 2: Emily, Yes, I do.
Speaker 1: But I also just think that sometimes the fantasy is
Speaker 1: better than the real life. Like I think that you
Speaker 1: can build it up in your head and be like,
Speaker 1: he's the one that's got away if we had another chance,
Speaker 1: maybe he's my person.
Speaker 3: But sometimes they do get away.
Speaker 2: But he's not your person.
Speaker 1: He's got a girlfriend, So if he wanted to be
Speaker 1: your person, he would free up. He's a calendar that
Speaker 1: he hasn't done that and he's definitely stayed committed in
Speaker 1: a relationship.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I kind of think.
Speaker 1: There isn't much that you can do, And I don't
Speaker 1: know if I would be putting myself in the firing
Speaker 1: line of telling him how I feel when he's in
Speaker 1: a relationship.
Speaker 2: But it doesn't agree with me, for it's looking at
Speaker 2: me like.
Speaker 3: She's nos, this doesn't happen. No, I'm not saying that
Speaker 3: doesn't happen often.
Speaker 4: I genuinely don't know what to tell you, because I
Speaker 4: am like a quite a romantic and I like the
Speaker 4: idea of like I do believe that there can be
Speaker 4: right people for each other at wrong times, like I
Speaker 4: know people wherever it's happened.
Speaker 3: I believe in that.
Speaker 4: I do believe in going after what she want, but
Speaker 4: obviously within reason. I don't mean that about like being
Speaker 4: a homewreck and breaking up relationships, but it's if you
Speaker 4: genuinely believe someone is the one that makes me be
Speaker 4: Like if he was in a relationship, I'd be like
Speaker 4: turn up to his house, like tell him. If he
Speaker 4: says he's not interested, it's fine, move on. At least
Speaker 4: you know that and you can put it to bed.
Speaker 4: This is what I think he do. It's wrong to
Speaker 4: try and break up a relationship, is wrong to do
Speaker 4: the wrong thing and emotionally cheat and cheat and things
Speaker 4: like that. You are well, I'm just saying she has
Speaker 4: not stopped thinking about him. She loves him, she thinks
Speaker 4: he's the one.
Speaker 2: This is what I would say, get a dog.
Speaker 4: No, I would say, hey, really, honestly, I don't think
Speaker 4: we can maintain this friendship anymore. I still have feelings
Speaker 4: for you, so I don't think it's right, and I'm
Speaker 4: going to do the right thing by your relationship and me.
Speaker 3: That way, you are being a good person and pulling back.
Speaker 4: As long as you commit to pulling back, you've also
Speaker 4: let him know why, which is like, my feelings are
Speaker 4: still there.
Speaker 3: Then he can go and do with it what he will.
Speaker 4: He'll either feel nothing for you and say like I
Speaker 4: understand and get on with your life, or he'll be like, wow,
Speaker 4: I've always felt the same way and didn't think she did,
Speaker 4: and then.
Speaker 2: Something will come Okay.
Speaker 1: The problem I have with it is that no matter
Speaker 1: what you do, even if you do throw that out
Speaker 1: there and he goes and turns around and says like,
Speaker 1: oh now I have confused feelings the amount of like
Speaker 1: back and forth, because no one's going to receive that
Speaker 1: information and then instantly go, you know what, I have
Speaker 1: those feelings for you too.
Speaker 2: I'm going to break up.
Speaker 1: With my girlfriend, move out of the house, and then
Speaker 1: we can start a consensual relationship together.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna cheat. I'm going to be a stand
Speaker 2: up guy.
Speaker 1: There's nowhere in between except for it to either be
Speaker 1: he agrees, and then there's cheating for him to like
Speaker 1: get the validation that he needs in order to leave
Speaker 1: the relationship. He's not going to from a one line
Speaker 1: of you saying he's still got feelings, break up with
Speaker 1: his current girlfriend and move out of the house they
Speaker 1: live in. He's going to need way more validation, which
Speaker 1: just means you're putting yourself in a drama field unnecessary
Speaker 1: relationship with someone who has got a relationship and I
Speaker 1: just think you don't need this in your life.
Speaker 3: Well, she does need him in his life. He's teguin,
Speaker 3: he's her penguin.
Speaker 1: No, there's more than one person for everyone you meet
Speaker 1: someone else, Emily.
Speaker 3: What are you going to do? Whose advice you're taking?
Speaker 3: Laws of life?
Speaker 5: Part of me is steel, Like do I just suffer
Speaker 5: in silence. Just keep waiting.
Speaker 2: Don't keep waiting, Just don't wait.
Speaker 3: They don't wait.
Speaker 2: Emily date other.
Speaker 3: People I have?
Speaker 5: I have none of them.
Speaker 2: Oh, Emily, I do not envy you.
Speaker 1: Good luck with this, and make sure you us a
Speaker 1: call back and tell us how it all goes.
Speaker 5: I will, Thanks guys.
Speaker 2: Thanks Emily.
Speaker 4: Now I hate Laura that we even have to have
Speaker 4: these conversations. We are talking about something far more serious
Speaker 4: than we usually talk about on the pickup. But I
Speaker 4: think it is so important that people are across this,
Speaker 4: and I guess this is a bit of a PSA
Speaker 4: for anyone right now. The Australian Federal Police have just
Speaker 4: come out and issued a warning about the increase in
Speaker 4: drugs hitting our shore in Australia. They are colloquially known
Speaker 4: as fantasy, but otherwise known as a date rape drug.
Speaker 4: Now this year alone, more than three point eight tons
Speaker 4: of this drug, which we can call fantasy, have been
Speaker 4: seized so far. So three point eight tons seized. Imagine
Speaker 4: how you haven't been seized? Like, imagine how much is
Speaker 4: making it onto ashures. And we're seeing an increase in
Speaker 4: sexual assault cases from these date rape drugs and the
Speaker 4: reason I wanted to talk about this is because it
Speaker 4: personally has happened.
Speaker 3: To me three times.
Speaker 4: I have been drugged three times and by all different
Speaker 4: kinds of people.
Speaker 3: And this is what I think is important.
Speaker 4: A lot of people think in terms of this drug
Speaker 4: or this happening to them, this incident's happening to them,
Speaker 4: that it's usually by a stranger at a bar that
Speaker 4: slips something into your drink and that's it. You don't
Speaker 4: know them, and that does happen absolutely, but often this
Speaker 4: happens by people that you know as well, which is
Speaker 4: so sad to think about. But I want people to
Speaker 4: be super aware that it is not just a stranger
Speaker 4: in the bar when you're out that you have to
Speaker 4: be aware of. It's not just like making sure your
Speaker 4: hand is over your drink. It's being hyper aware of
Speaker 4: the increase that this is happening and also what to
Speaker 4: look out for.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, firstly horrifying that like a federal warning
Speaker 1: has to be released in the first place, but we
Speaker 1: were just talking about it. I mean, the Pickup team
Speaker 1: is a one hundred percent female team. Like you know,
Speaker 1: there's four of us that work in this team, and
Speaker 1: of the four of us, three of us have experienced
Speaker 1: an incident where someone has used or tried to use
Speaker 1: one of these date drugs against us. You've been incredibly
Speaker 1: generous in sharing the things that have happened to you
Speaker 1: over the years, and how this has been something that
Speaker 1: hasn't just happened once, but it's happened three times to
Speaker 1: you my experience of it, I feel so lucky that
Speaker 1: I caught the person who was doing it in the
Speaker 1: midst of them making my drink. And this wasn't a stranger.
Speaker 1: I was at a friend's house. This was my ex
Speaker 1: boyfriend at the times best friend who I had lived with.
Speaker 1: I didn't even fully comprehend what it was that was
Speaker 1: going on until pretty shortly afterwards. I knew it was wrong,
Speaker 1: but I didn't actually realize his intention, if that makes sense.
Speaker 1: I didn't put two and two together because it was
Speaker 1: someone who I trusted so much, and I left and
Speaker 1: I felt so weird about the whole thing. And it
Speaker 1: wasn't until the next day, when I was completely sober,
Speaker 1: that I realized actually how close I came to something
Speaker 1: that could have been so much more horrendous. And I
Speaker 1: think for anyone, like if you have daughters, who are
Speaker 1: going out and they are you know, potentially mixing with
Speaker 1: new people. If this isn't something that you've thought about,
Speaker 1: it is just so crazily prevalent, and I hate that
Speaker 1: it has to be an issue and a warning for women.
Speaker 1: I know it does happen to men as well, and
Speaker 1: it can happen in same sex relationships, but the vast
Speaker 1: majority of sexual assaults that happened to women off the
Speaker 1: back of this, and the problem is is it's so
Speaker 1: underreported because when it does happen, you wake up not
Speaker 1: knowing what it is that you've just experienced. And so
Speaker 1: we really wanted to drive this message home because it's
Speaker 1: something that we all here care about so deeply, and
Speaker 1: if that can make someone a little bit more alert
Speaker 1: to it and save them from an experience that could
Speaker 1: be truly horrifying, then like it's, you know, an important
Speaker 1: conversation to have.
Speaker 3: Well, I want to take it a.
Speaker 4: Step further and tell you what it feels like and
Speaker 4: what's signed to look out for, so you know, if
Speaker 4: it's happening to you, and.
Speaker 3: I want to tell you what to do.
Speaker 4: So it has happened to me with someone from a
Speaker 4: bar like the barman it has happened with someone I
Speaker 4: was on a date with from like an online dating.
Speaker 4: I don't remember the site, but it was just online dating.
Speaker 4: We've been speaking for him for a week, met up
Speaker 4: with him. He did it on the first date. And
Speaker 4: it's happened with someone.
Speaker 3: That I knew.
Speaker 4: Now, I'm very lucky by the third time it happened,
Speaker 4: I say lucky. I'm unlucky, but I'm lucky that I
Speaker 4: was able to recognize what was happening to me because
Speaker 4: it had happened so many times, and.
Speaker 2: You could get out and get to safety.
Speaker 5: Well.
Speaker 4: A lot of people say, like, if you start to
Speaker 4: feel unwell, like make sure you get yourself to a hospital.
Speaker 4: In my experience, you do not have time. Like it
Speaker 4: happens so quickly, it is scary. It goes from zero
Speaker 4: to one hundred in sometimes potentially minutes. If you are out,
Speaker 4: you need to tell someone immediately that what is happening
Speaker 4: to you or what you think is happening to you,
Speaker 4: and get help. So if you are out at a bar,
Speaker 4: the second you don't feel right, you go to someone
Speaker 4: behind the bar, or you go to a friend or
Speaker 4: whoever it is, and you just tell them and one
Speaker 4: time I was with my sister.
Speaker 3: We were overseas and I straightway.
Speaker 4: That was the second time, so I was pretty sure
Speaker 4: something was happening, and I said to her, something's happening
Speaker 4: to me. I think I've been drugged. Win need to
Speaker 4: go now. And minutes later she was physically she's smaller
Speaker 4: than me. I was unconscious on the street. She was
Speaker 4: like dragging me into our hostel. If I hadn't had
Speaker 4: the recognition to know something was wrong and tell her,
Speaker 4: I don't know where I would be or what would
Speaker 4: have happened, but I just want you to recognize that
Speaker 4: it is for me, and I can only speak about
Speaker 4: my experiences, but they've all felt pretty the same. You
Speaker 4: feel very, very drunk, very quickly, but it's not a
Speaker 4: normal drunk, so you start.
Speaker 3: For me, the first sign was like when I would
Speaker 3: move my.
Speaker 4: Head to the side just to look, everything was taking
Speaker 4: too long to catch up, so my sight wasn't moving
Speaker 4: in line with my head, if that makes sense, and
Speaker 4: it started to get blurry.
Speaker 2: If your vision was blurred.
Speaker 4: Yep, And then that is literally You don't really have
Speaker 4: a lot of time to think of other signs and
Speaker 4: symptoms because it just starts to happen, you just start
Speaker 4: to feel really unwell and really really intoxicated. So the
Speaker 4: second you feel that, all I can say is just
Speaker 4: tell someone that you're weird what is happening, because it's
Speaker 4: only minutes away from you not being in control of
Speaker 4: your own body.
Speaker 3: And it's disgusting.
Speaker 4: That we are having these conversations and even the way
Speaker 4: I'm talking about it now, in my mind, I'm back
Speaker 4: in that situation trying to remember what it felt like,
Speaker 4: and it's horrific.
Speaker 3: It's truly truly horrific, and I don't want anyone to
Speaker 3: ever experience it.
Speaker 4: But I think it's important now that we know the
Speaker 4: level of drugs that are coming in and the level
Speaker 4: of people that are doing this for sexual assault, also
Speaker 4: for theft, like some people are just using it to
Speaker 4: rob people. I mean, that would be the best case scenario.
Speaker 4: But please, just like, talk to your daughters about it,
Speaker 4: talk to your sons about it, talk to your friends
Speaker 4: about it. Be hyper aware of what can happen, and
Speaker 4: make sure everyone knows what to do in that situation.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and look, if this news has affected you in
Speaker 1: any way, help is always available. And why don't have
Speaker 1: to respect or you can contact Lifeline twenty four seven
Speaker 1: on one three double one one four. Look, if you
Speaker 1: guys were listening to the show last week, you may
Speaker 1: have heard that we did our gender reveal live here
Speaker 1: on the pickup for baby be number three.
Speaker 3: Very exciting and.
Speaker 2: It is a we're having another girl.
Speaker 4: A girl.
Speaker 1: We're having three girls and look, I am so so thrilled.
Speaker 1: And I even said it on the show, like it's
Speaker 1: really funny when you already have two kids that are
Speaker 1: the same gender, because people instantly assume that the reason
Speaker 1: why you're going for number three is because you want
Speaker 1: to have a boy. And like, it got announced and
Speaker 1: we're all really excited, and we shared it on socials
Speaker 1: and I was reading through some of the comments and
Speaker 1: there's so many people who were like, well, maybe when
Speaker 1: you have number four, you'll get the boy.
Speaker 2: And it's a tricky one because there's no there's no more.
Speaker 1: And secondly, we didn't have number three because we wanted
Speaker 1: to have a boy. We had number three because of
Speaker 1: the experience of being parents and how much we love
Speaker 1: having kids.
Speaker 2: But gender was not a big factor.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 1: We spoke about it a bit the other week, like
Speaker 1: it was probably a slightly bigger factor for Matt.
Speaker 2: I think he cared a bit more than what I did.
Speaker 1: He had this idea of potentially having a boy and
Speaker 1: doing all the things that you do with a boy,
Speaker 1: you know, going to the football and whatnot. And actually
Speaker 1: we were talking to Woody about it earlier in the
Speaker 1: week as well, and he had that similar feeling. But
Speaker 1: I can honestly say for me that I didn't care
Speaker 1: about the gender. But after the show, we were so
Speaker 1: excited to go home and talk to the girls because
Speaker 1: our little girls didn't know whether we were having a
Speaker 1: boy or a girl either. And it's really funny because
Speaker 1: Marley originally was like one hundred percent and she's our oldest.
Speaker 2: She was like, I want a girl.
Speaker 1: It has to be a girl, and one another sister,
Speaker 1: Lola as well, like only wanted a sister. And then
Speaker 1: out of nowhere, Molly had a dream this one night
Speaker 1: and she woke up balling her eyes out from the
Speaker 1: dream and she said, Mommy, you're having a boy and
Speaker 1: I don't want it to be a boy. And she
Speaker 1: was so upset anyway, went back to sleep. Then she
Speaker 1: woke up the next morning and she was like, Mommy,
Speaker 1: you're having a boy. And she was cool with it,
Speaker 1: and then what she wanted switched, and so for the
Speaker 1: last sort of like eight weeks, she's been like, you're
Speaker 1: having a boy.
Speaker 2: You're having a boy. It's a boy.
Speaker 1: Anyway, we sat them down and we told them than,
Speaker 1: in fact, we're not having a boy, we're having a
Speaker 1: little girl. And Lola was so excited, and Marley first
Speaker 1: out crying.
Speaker 3: Oh no.
Speaker 2: She was really.
Speaker 1: Really upset because she had had it in her head
Speaker 1: and she was so convinced that it was absolutely going
Speaker 1: to be a boy.
Speaker 3: Did she say why she wanted to be a boy?
Speaker 2: She did, Yeah, we got to the bottom of it.
Speaker 1: She was so upset that I had to sit her
Speaker 1: down once she like stopped hyperventilating, and I was like, honey,
Speaker 1: what's going on, Like why, Like, it's not a big deal.
Speaker 1: It's you know, you've got a little sister. You love
Speaker 1: your little sister. You guys are best friends. Now you're
Speaker 1: gonna have another little sister. And she said, mommy, I
Speaker 1: realized it means I'm gonna have to share more things.
Speaker 2: She cracked it. She fully understands that.
Speaker 1: She was like, oh, if we have another girl in
Speaker 1: the house, that doesn't work.
Speaker 3: Well for me, I mean it's fair.
Speaker 4: I think that is something to take into consideration as
Speaker 4: a five year old, like you are high, she.
Speaker 1: Doesn't want to share it. She already has to share
Speaker 1: with his sister. She shares a bedroom, she shares a bed,
Speaker 1: they share everything.
Speaker 4: I mean I shared a room my entire life with
Speaker 4: my sister and we turned out so close, Like we
Speaker 4: were in a room until I was sixteen.
Speaker 1: How did you guys go sharing a room for all
Speaker 1: that time though? Like were you amicable or did you
Speaker 1: guys go through a period where you wanted to kill
Speaker 1: each other?
Speaker 3: It went through?
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, we were always really really good friends. Really
Speaker 4: closes two and a half year is difference. We're still
Speaker 4: best is now as adults. But you know when it changed.
Speaker 4: It changed when I was starting to become like a young.
Speaker 3: Adult, like you were cool.
Speaker 4: She was the kid, well you just want your different.
Speaker 4: She was like the little nerd burger at primary school
Speaker 4: and I was like cool. I was like thirteen fourteen,
Speaker 4: getting my period, like coming into a different cool cool,
Speaker 4: like coming into.
Speaker 3: A different time. And that's when I was like, yo,
Speaker 3: you're cramping my style.
Speaker 2: So I don't know if you've ever had real style brute.
Speaker 1: I feel like what Sorry, But I also shared a
Speaker 1: room with my sister until I was about thirteen.
Speaker 2: But I have this.
Speaker 1: Really vivid memory of when we must have been around
Speaker 1: ten years old, and we would fight. Like my sister
Speaker 1: and I are best of friends now, we could not closer.
Speaker 1: But as kids, we fought so hard about everything, and
Speaker 1: we were the hair pulling, hair brush throwing, screaming at
Speaker 1: each other kind of kids, like it was rat bags.
Speaker 1: And my mom came in and she had bought duct tape,
Speaker 1: and she duct taped I'm talking like head height from
Speaker 1: one side of the wall all the way down the middle,
Speaker 1: all the way up the other side of the wall,
Speaker 1: with a little walkway from where we could walk into
Speaker 1: the room. So each kid had their own side of
Speaker 1: the room and you were not allowed to cross on
Speaker 1: to the other side. That is so extreme it had
Speaker 1: to We had it in place for probably about two
Speaker 1: weeks until we were able to get along again.
Speaker 2: I can't remember why, We'll find me you are an animal. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: we were terrible.
Speaker 1: I'm not looking forward to that phase of parenting because
Speaker 1: I think you get back what you gave as a kid,
Speaker 1: and I think it's coful, you.
Speaker 3: Would have been bad. Sober. Well, we're happy for you.
Speaker 3: I hope she's come around full circle. I hope she's
Speaker 3: on board now.
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no, she's getting better. She's getting better.
Speaker 1: She made me a really cute card yesterday of me.
Speaker 1: I was just the shape of a soccer ball and
Speaker 1: I had a baby my belly, so I.
Speaker 2: Think she's just Bristoke.
Speaker 1: And she said I can't wait to get the baby out,
Speaker 1: which sounded ominous.
Speaker 2: I can't wait to get the baby out.
Speaker 1: It don't sound a bit chucky ish, all right, guys,
Speaker 1: Well that's the end of the show for us.