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Speaker 1: This is the pickup, Hi guys, It's the Pickup with
Speaker 1: Britt Hockeley and Laura Ben.
Speaker 4: Welcome back. Oh do you know you're still in cloud nine?
Speaker 3: Well I was just about to say yes, but I'm
Speaker 3: riding some rollercoaster waves.
Speaker 4: So I got married last week.
Speaker 3: If you guys are just catching up to speed, I
Speaker 3: got back to love my life.
Speaker 4: Ben.
Speaker 3: He is here in Australia with me. I say that
Speaker 3: because he lives in Italy. He's here with me for
Speaker 3: another couple of weeks.
Speaker 4: But it's a.
Speaker 3: Funny wave, like I've heard people talk about the low
Speaker 3: that you can get. Like it's like, I guess, the
Speaker 3: wedding equivalent of baby blues, Like when you're on a
Speaker 3: hype for so long looking forward to and then your
Speaker 3: hormones drop, and then the energy drops and you're exhausted
Speaker 3: and your stress and you've got nothing to like plan
Speaker 3: or look forward to any more. Everyone says, you go
Speaker 3: on this low and I feel like I'm hitting it.
Speaker 3: And I said to Ben, I feel really sad and
Speaker 3: like really down, and you know it's over this thing
Speaker 3: that you put on this pedestal and.
Speaker 4: Like it's all you think about for a year. You're like, no,
Speaker 4: I just have the marriage to look forward to. Oh gosh,
Speaker 4: Like now we just have to like spend time with other.
Speaker 5: I was like, what have you.
Speaker 1: Done with your wedding dress? Because for anyone who hasn't
Speaker 1: seen it, Print's wedding dress was the single handedly the
Speaker 1: biggest wedding dress I have ever seen in my entire life.
Speaker 1: It was large, she might get Your aisle was four
Speaker 1: meters across and the wedding dress train touched either side.
Speaker 3: I had to custom build the aisle. Yeah they didn't yourself.
Speaker 4: Yeah no one helped you. You did it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, by yourself in the morning of the wedding,
Speaker 1: because you just really are a can do attitude kind
Speaker 1: of gat.
Speaker 3: It was over in Bali, but we did in advance.
Speaker 3: I said, look, I think we need to do some measurements.
Speaker 3: Because I'm not convinced I'm going to fit down the
Speaker 3: aisle with my dress, and I had to send them
Speaker 3: my dress and my mum and dad both walked me
Speaker 3: down the aisle on either side, so that like added
Speaker 3: to the width anyway. They built a four meter wine
Speaker 3: aisle and I only just fit down. I leave in
Speaker 3: a two bedroom apartment. My dress takes up my living room.
Speaker 3: It's insane.
Speaker 4: Well, look, the wedding did go off without a hitch.
Speaker 4: No thanks true no, thanks.
Speaker 1: To my husband who tried to give it away.
Speaker 4: To all of the media.
Speaker 1: The day of My husband, Matt has been leaking things
Speaker 1: on his podcast, and usually we're on the same page
Speaker 1: with things that is okay for him to talk about
Speaker 1: all things that I talk about on.
Speaker 4: The radio show.
Speaker 1: That he's really crossed the line, and Britt, I'm going
Speaker 1: to tell you about it next.
Speaker 4: It's the pickup on kiss Now. Britt, you and I have.
Speaker 1: Been doing a podcast together, Life on Car podcast or.
Speaker 4: Anyone wants to go and listen.
Speaker 1: We've been doing this together for six years, right, and
Speaker 1: I think between you and I we have a pretty
Speaker 1: good gauge on what is or isn't appropriate to share
Speaker 1: in terms of storytelling because.
Speaker 4: I'd say a perfect gauge.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, I you know my husband and he also
Speaker 1: has a podcast, and like sometimes we tell personal stories,
Speaker 1: whether it be about parenting or it be about what's
Speaker 1: happened in our lives. And Matt and I are pretty
Speaker 1: much always on the same page. Like I don't think
Speaker 1: I've ever crossed a line in sharing a story that
Speaker 1: he wasn't okay with.
Speaker 3: No, And I think this might surprise a lot of
Speaker 3: people because our job is to talk. We do five
Speaker 3: radio shows a week and we do three podcasts a week.
Speaker 4: People think we share everything. We absolutely don't.
Speaker 3: Like there are so many things that we know for
Speaker 3: our relationships or our friendships, like where the line totally
Speaker 3: or for.
Speaker 1: Like privacy, sometimes it's not your own story and so
Speaker 1: like you're not going to share someone else's secrets. But recently,
Speaker 1: I mean we were talking about it and I was
Speaker 1: telling I was telling you, guys, if you were listening
Speaker 1: the other week, how Matt and I have chosen our
Speaker 1: third baby's baby name.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, but you wouldn't actually tell us.
Speaker 5: You kept beeping it out.
Speaker 1: We beat it out because like I just assumed that
Speaker 1: a baby name unless you've had a conversation with your
Speaker 1: partner unless you both have mutually agreed that you're not
Speaker 1: going to tell peop people or that you are going
Speaker 1: to tell people. I feel like that that's the decision
Speaker 1: you come to together. And now, for reference, I'm not
Speaker 1: saying like tell your friends or tell your mom or
Speaker 1: tell you. I'm talking about like talking about it on
Speaker 1: a podcast or saying it on a national radio show.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's one of those things that the
Speaker 1: line you should just kind of check and make sure
Speaker 1: everyone's okay with.
Speaker 4: Yeah, one hundred percent agree.
Speaker 1: So I alluded to the fact that we've chosen a name,
Speaker 1: first name, middle name, and the first name starts with P,
Speaker 1: and we were pretty certain on that. I receive a
Speaker 1: message whilst we're away and BALI for your wedding bread
Speaker 1: by a listener who doesn't listen to our podcast, who
Speaker 1: doesn't listen to this radio show, but she listens to
Speaker 1: Matt's podcast, and she said, I just wanted to say
Speaker 1: the name Poppy is so cute.
Speaker 4: I think you've chosen a great name.
Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm sorry, what, And then she goes, oh,
Speaker 1: was Matt not meant to say it on the podcast?
Speaker 4: I then went.
Speaker 1: Through the transcript of two doting dads, and Matt not
Speaker 1: only did he say the name that we actually chose,
Speaker 1: he don't your onborn baby.
Speaker 4: It gets it worse, so he dogs our unbond baby.
Speaker 1: Now everyone, in case you're curious, we're calling it poppy.
Speaker 1: It's it's not a pick up exclusive.
Speaker 4: So is that out?
Speaker 3: Now?
Speaker 4: It's out pop star, it's out popped up poppy.
Speaker 5: I've got popped up.
Speaker 4: I like that. Yeah, cute, lollipop, popsicle cute. I don't
Speaker 4: call my dad. I love that.
Speaker 1: Poppy means we've got a Marley, a Lola, and a Poppy,
Speaker 1: and I feel like those names fit beautifully together. What
Speaker 1: happens if it comes out she comes out sorry, and
Speaker 1: it doesn't look like a poppy, and you're like, you're
Speaker 1: not poppy. I just feel like babies all look weird anyway.
Speaker 1: I feel like they could be anything.
Speaker 4: So just stick to it.
Speaker 1: Like what baby came out and looked like a David
Speaker 1: it grew into that name or.
Speaker 4: An interesting example.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, continue, No, I get it, like Frank baby.
Speaker 1: So I have something to tell you as well, and
Speaker 1: that is is that there were more things that my
Speaker 1: husband has leaked recently. So you made it very clear.
Speaker 1: I mean, we didn't talk about it on the show.
Speaker 1: We didn't talk about it on the pod. We have
Speaker 1: not spoken about it anywhere. And that was the details
Speaker 1: surrounding your wedding. We all went to Bali on a
Speaker 1: seat mission to get Brit hitched.
Speaker 4: Everyone really, everyone was well aware.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Britt was posting from Italy pretending she was in Europe.
Speaker 1: I was also on a work trip in Bali, so
Speaker 1: I had said I was over there for work and
Speaker 1: managed to kind of, you know, fly under the radar.
Speaker 1: Our friends, all the everyone who's from Australia that was
Speaker 1: traveling over there all pretended as though they were not
Speaker 1: in Bali.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: No, my husband, my husband got on two doting dads
Speaker 1: and said on his podcast, oh yeah.
Speaker 4: We're going over to Bali for.
Speaker 1: BRIT's wedding the day what the day.
Speaker 4: Of your wedding?
Speaker 1: That came out, So that came out at six am in.
Speaker 4: Is he that thirsty for a headline? Do you know
Speaker 4: what he said? He's like, you guys, get everything he goes.
Speaker 4: I even have to give my baby gender reveals to
Speaker 4: the pickup. He's like, give me this the wedding is.
Speaker 3: Not your fair, but the wedding doesn't come into the
Speaker 3: baby gender reveal. No, it was an honest mistake and
Speaker 3: the problem was to be out the location, give coordinates
Speaker 3: like time, Friends, schedule Pandaura Estate.
Speaker 4: Pandal Clip Estate, guest list. Yeah, he put a drop
Speaker 4: and that was just me assurance on the left wing. No,
Speaker 4: he yeah, he was devastated.
Speaker 1: So once again, someone one of his listeners slid into
Speaker 1: my DMS.
Speaker 4: And was like, hey, was Matt meant.
Speaker 1: To give away the fact that you guys are all
Speaker 1: over there for its wedding, which I said, no, No,
Speaker 1: he was it. He made a mistake because he had
Speaker 1: pre recorded that episode and so when he looked at
Speaker 1: the dates, he just assumed that it was going to
Speaker 1: be retrospective, that your wedding would have already happened and
Speaker 1: it would have been okay. He didn't realize it was
Speaker 1: the day.
Speaker 3: I must admit, that would have been very hard to
Speaker 3: cross check your release date with the wedding dates.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's asking a lot.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a big cost, a lot of data there
Speaker 3: to go through.
Speaker 1: Mat he was so sad. I don't think it was sad.
Speaker 4: My wedding got doxed. Baby's name got doxed. Think about
Speaker 4: the children.
Speaker 5: To be fair.
Speaker 1: He was almost in tears when he realized and he
Speaker 1: had the he had the podcast taken down straight away.
Speaker 4: Several thousand people had already listened. But that's okay.
Speaker 3: Put your wedding invites out for Matt, put them on
Speaker 3: the stoop.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll put the baby out for him. Oh my god.
Speaker 3: So if you're just catching up all of us here
Speaker 3: at the pick up went over to Barley last.
Speaker 4: Week for my wedding. It was like my secret little
Speaker 4: squirrel wedding. We ran away. It was wonderful.
Speaker 1: It was beautiful as we just established not that secret,
Speaker 1: but you know, not that secret thanks to my husband.
Speaker 3: But I feel like in Bali there are certain rules
Speaker 3: that just like everyone knows, certain things that you have
Speaker 3: to follow. You don't drink the tapewater ever, you always
Speaker 3: wear a helmet if you ride a scooter, and you'd
Speaker 3: be extra cautious around the monkeys because the monkeys are everywhere.
Speaker 1: Anyone who goes to Bali and goes anywhere near where
Speaker 1: the monkeys are has a monkey story, like everyone does.
Speaker 4: It's just part and parcel of going to Barley.
Speaker 3: There is a monkey still running around Barley somewhere with
Speaker 3: my visa line.
Speaker 4: There is a monkey wearing my visit and it took
Speaker 4: it out of your mouth. You should see them.
Speaker 3: But producer, Grace, you've been to Bali before, right, you
Speaker 3: should know the rules I do.
Speaker 4: What happened to you, Grace?
Speaker 2: A monkey came and ripped my phone out of my
Speaker 2: hand and stole it.
Speaker 4: Okay, you're making that sound a little bit too easy.
Speaker 4: You went into like a monkey temple.
Speaker 2: Okay, So just to set it up a little bit,
Speaker 2: I have had not one, but two close encounters with
Speaker 2: monkeys the last two times I've been to Bali.
Speaker 5: Both times I was bitten. I was viciously attacked.
Speaker 4: You attacked.
Speaker 2: I vowed, never again will I go to a monkey
Speaker 2: forest in Bali.
Speaker 5: I did not realize that monkeys aren't just in monkey.
Speaker 1: Forests, they also live in print like majority of the temples.
Speaker 2: So we went to a temple, we did some sightseeing,
Speaker 2: and a large monkey came up to me and just
Speaker 2: stole it from that.
Speaker 4: What were you doing waving your phone around? Like, well,
Speaker 4: how did I come? How did it come up and take?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Grace, is there filming content? Job?
Speaker 5: Was holding it.
Speaker 2: I was looking at something on my phone and then
Speaker 2: someone called out my name and I dropped my hand
Speaker 2: and looked away.
Speaker 4: Oh, and he just took it straight.
Speaker 5: It was it was like he was casing me.
Speaker 2: He looked at me when this woman is a chump
Speaker 2: and I'm going to take her phone.
Speaker 3: So you didn't see he was there like he was
Speaker 3: like a spy came out of nowhere like monkeys.
Speaker 1: I don't believe this one second. Grace knew that there
Speaker 1: were monkeys all around her.
Speaker 4: I saw the video.
Speaker 5: Yeah, there were a lot of monkeys.
Speaker 4: Okay, so you just let your guard down.
Speaker 5: I let my guard down.
Speaker 2: You're a bit cocky, yes, So I was like, I'm
Speaker 2: not going to get a bit in this time.
Speaker 5: I'm going to be so good.
Speaker 4: I'll give them one thousand dollar iPhone. And so what
Speaker 4: was the monkey's attitude?
Speaker 5: Like like, oh, so cavalier.
Speaker 4: So he not like a bit cheeky, like a bit cheeky.
Speaker 5: He took my screen protector off.
Speaker 4: He's like, I'll show you.
Speaker 5: He went, you know what, I have a posable thumbs
Speaker 5: and I'm going to use them.
Speaker 4: Peeled that screen protector off. He's like trying to crack.
Speaker 4: He's trying to crack the pass code.
Speaker 1: I saw this because it was uploaded onto Instagram. Your
Speaker 1: friend who was there was filming it as well and
Speaker 1: managed to capture the whole thing as it was going down.
Speaker 1: You looking quite concerned, the phone being taken off into
Speaker 1: the forest, and everyone everyone was just standing around filming
Speaker 1: the phone being taken away, but not helping.
Speaker 5: Such a crowd.
Speaker 2: I've never been like so famous. All these people were like, wow,
Speaker 2: look at this loser, got a phone stolen. I'm in
Speaker 2: a film it I'm probably on everyone's TikTok.
Speaker 1: And then one of the monkey handlers or the I
Speaker 1: don't even know what is there.
Speaker 4: They're like in unofficial zookib. They just they control the
Speaker 4: monkeys in the temples.
Speaker 1: And he managed to get the phone back and it
Speaker 1: all was good in the world.
Speaker 2: It was good. He gave me a bit of a
Speaker 2: talking to. He was like, be careful.
Speaker 4: He actually I.
Speaker 3: Saw that he looked at you like you're the biggest idiot,
Speaker 3: and he was just like.
Speaker 4: Keep your phone on you Like, I feel like everyone
Speaker 4: has a story like this.
Speaker 1: I when I was in Bali many many moons ago,
Speaker 1: we went to the monkey temple and there was a
Speaker 1: little monkey and it was so cute. It was like
Speaker 1: a baby monkey that had clearly just ventured away from
Speaker 1: its mum. And it was sitting on a bag of
Speaker 1: powdered concrete and it was eating powdered concrete. I was like,
Speaker 1: and this is back in the day when you couldn't
Speaker 1: good so I know. I was like, the poor thing's gonna.
Speaker 4: Die because when you mix it with water.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And so I wanted to help it because I
Speaker 1: care about amimals. I was like, you, poor little thing.
Speaker 1: So this really over a decade ago. You used to
Speaker 1: be able to take bananas into the monkey forest and
Speaker 1: you could feed them. They obviously don't do that anymore
Speaker 1: because it didn't end well for a lot of people.
Speaker 1: So I had a couple of bananas and I gave one.
Speaker 1: I tried to take the concrete away and hand the
Speaker 1: banana over, thought that'd be a more desirable dish. Anyway,
Speaker 1: the little monkey went absolutely feral, pushed the banana out
Speaker 1: of my hand, grabbed onto my shirt, and bit straight
Speaker 1: through my t shirt into my stomach. And I just
Speaker 1: was like, okay, well I probably should get a raby shop.
Speaker 4: Anyway.
Speaker 1: Two weeks later, I traveled back, but in Bali they're
Speaker 1: actually quite hard to come across, and so sometimes if
Speaker 1: they're at a low on stock, you've got to fly
Speaker 1: to Singapore. And I was like, I'm not flying to
Speaker 1: Singapore to get a raby shop. I'll just get it
Speaker 1: when I get home.
Speaker 4: Yeah, fair for rabies, it's probably worth a.
Speaker 1: Flight, Yeah, one hundred percent. It's so expensive, though.
Speaker 4: So is dying from rabies. That also sucks.
Speaker 2: Laura.
Speaker 1: I was in my twenties and I was, you know,
Speaker 1: I was careless and reckless. So I got home to Australia,
Speaker 1: I book myself straight in, went to the GP, sat
Speaker 1: down and said I got be in by a monkey
Speaker 1: And she was like, oh yeah, when I was like
Speaker 1: two weeks ago.
Speaker 4: She goes, you can't get a raby shot.
Speaker 1: Now you're on the you're outside of the time frame
Speaker 1: that you needed in You're gonna die. And something I
Speaker 1: didn't know about rabies he's awarding to everyone. Apparently the
Speaker 1: side effects of it can present themselves in any time
Speaker 1: up to ten years after being exposed, so you can
Speaker 1: just spontaneously go rabid. Eight years after being bitten by
Speaker 1: a monkey in Balley, how.
Speaker 4: Long ago was that because a lot of things are
Speaker 4: making sense to me right now. I think it was
Speaker 4: ten years. I think I'm in the clue. I think
Speaker 4: you're in the customer. I think I'm in the clue.
Speaker 1: So it's actually okay, there's no there's no rabies in
Speaker 1: the monkeys in BALI.
Speaker 3: Well, so my husband now Ben, so he's spin to
Speaker 3: Balley before, but he's still you know, he's swears and
Speaker 3: they don't spend as much time over there as we have.
Speaker 4: He almost died by a monkey this trip. We were like,
Speaker 4: he has life insurance. We were in each.
Speaker 3: Other's villa in Abula, sorry, in opposite rooms that weren't attached,
Speaker 3: and we could see glass windows right, and that was outside,
Speaker 3: so there's a little hallway between us. And I see
Speaker 3: Ben walk out of his little glass door, walk down
Speaker 3: outside with some fruit in his hand, and I'm like,
Speaker 3: is he going to sit by the pool to eat?
Speaker 4: And then I hear him go here, monkey monkey, And
Speaker 4: I was like what, and he's like monkey, monkey, monkey. Anyway.
Speaker 4: I look out and.
Speaker 3: It's not a cute little baby monkey. It's one of
Speaker 3: those big boys with a mustache. He had like a
Speaker 3: full mustache that was going up. Anyway, Ben's trying to
Speaker 3: Ben's trying to make a peace offering to him.
Speaker 4: He's holding out fruit and this monkey is sitting up.
Speaker 4: They'll mess you up. Launches.
Speaker 3: This monkey is chasing Ben and it's like an ape.
Speaker 3: It's like a gorilla chasing him. Ben realizes very quickly
Speaker 3: that he's made a gray bearer. He throws the fruit
Speaker 3: and I was like, run bend, but I closed my
Speaker 3: door to protect myself.
Speaker 5: And through the glass I say, run band quick.
Speaker 4: This thing's catching him.
Speaker 3: He jumps inside his door, closes the glass as it
Speaker 3: hits the glass. It was like, what what was that
Speaker 3: movie where the monkeys will try and.
Speaker 4: Eat the Jamanji?
Speaker 5: The apes planet.
Speaker 4: Planet of the Apes.
Speaker 3: Anyway, I had to give Ben a talking to and
Speaker 3: I was like, these guys aren't your friends.
Speaker 1: Like they're cute, but you could die here. This is
Speaker 1: your warning to anyone going to Balley.
Speaker 4: I mean, everyone.
Speaker 1: Knows this is not going to come as as a
Speaker 1: surprise for anyone. The monkeys are not that friendly. Stay
Speaker 1: away from them now, Britt. We've obviously just come back
Speaker 1: from a trip to Bali for your wedding. As we
Speaker 1: Wedding of the Century, I feel like we're gonna be
Speaker 1: talking about it every day for the next forever until
Speaker 1: we exhausted all the content.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I haven't even started posting photos.
Speaker 5: Just you wait.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, one thing I have done, and this is
Speaker 1: so unlike me, and I think I already know which
Speaker 1: version of this person you're going to be.
Speaker 4: But I'm curious.
Speaker 1: I came home from this trip with sixty kilos worth
Speaker 1: of luggage because there was me, my husband, and our
Speaker 1: two kids. Now that is three entire suitcases. I am
Speaker 1: the sort of person that normally gets home from a
Speaker 1: holiday and it takes me around a month to fully
Speaker 1: unpack and fully get all the clothes washed out of
Speaker 1: the suitcase and get them all put away.
Speaker 4: We arrived home on Sunday night.
Speaker 1: Sunday morning, I woke up and I was like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to be that person this time. I
Speaker 1: am going to be the person that fully unpacks, washes
Speaker 1: every load, and puts them away in the wardrobe. It
Speaker 1: took me the whole day, mind you, an entire day.
Speaker 1: I feel like I must have gotten distracted on my
Speaker 1: phone several times.
Speaker 3: I'm one hundred percent you've gotten distracted, But it made
Speaker 3: me realize.
Speaker 4: Firstly, I want to know which one you are.
Speaker 1: And secondly, it made me realize that there's always two
Speaker 1: types of people that are traveling. There's the person that
Speaker 1: organizes the trip, the personality A type, the people that
Speaker 1: book the tickets, they book the restaurants, they book the itinery,
Speaker 1: they unpack their suitcase when they arrive on holidays. And
Speaker 1: there's the personality B types, which are me and they're
Speaker 1: just lucky that they've got a visa planned and they.
Speaker 4: Rock up with a ticket. One hundred percent.
Speaker 3: I am person B, but my husband now has forced
Speaker 3: me to be person A because he's more person B
Speaker 3: than I thought was possible.
Speaker 4: I didn't wear pants to the wedding. That's how person
Speaker 4: B is.
Speaker 1: This is weaponized in competence, when you just refuse to
Speaker 1: do something so the other person has to.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, he didn't even have your suit I okay,
Speaker 3: you came home with sixty I'm embarrassed to admit this,
Speaker 3: Ben and I came home with ninety two killers. We
Speaker 3: have only two people, Yeah no, but we had wedding
Speaker 3: dresses and like grooms and stuff.
Speaker 4: And how many suitcases is that?
Speaker 3: We had six suitcases and a wedding dress and a
Speaker 3: little carry on luggage and then backpacks.
Speaker 1: Sorry, how many Ben's own?
Speaker 5: He doesn't believe it.
Speaker 1: So we've really detalked. We're not talking about that anymore.
Speaker 1: Who cares about personality? B you had ninety two kilos?
Speaker 4: Yep, yeah, I'm not even embarrassed. Whatever I'm leaning into it. Yeah,
Speaker 4: so winning. I don't usually travel with that much.
Speaker 3: But what I will say is sometimes I don't unpack
Speaker 3: because I go over to.
Speaker 4: See my film.
Speaker 3: Say Ben, like every eight weeks he lives overseas. Sometimes
Speaker 3: I just don't unpack for eight months. My suitcase stays
Speaker 3: there for two months. Sorry, suitcase stays there, and then
Speaker 3: I just.
Speaker 4: Zip it back up and go.
Speaker 3: I did test unpacking, but Ben is the same, and
Speaker 3: you cannot have two people together that are the same.
Speaker 4: It doesn't work.
Speaker 3: So I was forcing me to be a better person,
Speaker 3: but he's not coming along with me, which I.
Speaker 4: Don't think is fare Like.
Speaker 1: This is why in your own wedding vows, when you said, like,
Speaker 1: you make me a better person, he makes you one,
Speaker 1: I mean I hope you also made him well.
Speaker 3: In my wedding vows, I was like, I hope to
Speaker 3: make you the best version you can be.
Speaker 4: I was like subliminal messages in mybile.
Speaker 1: The thing that made me realize this is because my
Speaker 1: sister came over as well. And now my sister is
Speaker 1: so fundamentally a type a personality that when we travel together,
Speaker 1: I become a complete passenger princess. I don't book a thing,
Speaker 1: I don't look at any restaurants, I don't bother because
Speaker 1: I kind of feel as though one she likes being
Speaker 1: in control, so she likes to know exactly what's going on,
Speaker 1: but also she's doing it anyway, So I'm like you,
Speaker 1: if that's gonna make you feel good about it, you
Speaker 1: go ahead. She's the type of person that arrives at
Speaker 1: midnight and we'll get to the hotel and we'll unpack
Speaker 1: every single thing in their suitcase into the wardrobe.
Speaker 4: So a sociopath, maybe yeah, she will do the whole thing.
Speaker 1: And I am the person that lives out of a
Speaker 1: suitcase for the entire week, and then I just rummage
Speaker 1: around trying to put it all back in.
Speaker 4: Why was it the hang stuff up they do?
Speaker 1: The one and only time I have ever done this
Speaker 1: where I put things into the wardrobe, I was overseas
Speaker 1: in Fiji, my husband and I we traveled and I
Speaker 1: was like, don know what would be so nice to
Speaker 1: hang my dresses up because I'm going to be that
Speaker 1: person personality a guess who left all her dresses in
Speaker 1: PJ in a wardrobe absolutely shure.
Speaker 4: And I never got them back.
Speaker 3: Okay, I feel like I could save this for a
Speaker 3: whole nother day, but I'll throw it in whatever, go
Speaker 3: for it.
Speaker 4: So just to really double down on like the difference
Speaker 4: between Ben and I.
Speaker 3: The only thing I asked Ben to plan basically for
Speaker 3: the wedding was after.
Speaker 4: We got married.
Speaker 3: We had two days in Bali for out the mini honeymoon,
Speaker 3: that's it, two.
Speaker 4: Days before we had to come back here for work.
Speaker 3: I said, Ben, can you just book us those two
Speaker 3: nights somewhere nice, just like for the mini honeymoon?
Speaker 4: On it.
Speaker 3: This is like months and months months ago. Do you
Speaker 3: know when he booked the day after the wedding. Oh no,
Speaker 3: he didn't book We were one hour away from checking
Speaker 3: out to go to the next hotel. In my head,
Speaker 3: I was like, I'll push it as long as I
Speaker 3: can to see when he does it.
Speaker 4: How long one hour to go?
Speaker 3: And one of our grooms men came up and said, hey,
Speaker 3: I understand you gotta know where to go, say as
Speaker 3: a wedding present.
Speaker 4: I've booked it for you.
Speaker 3: So within the one hour, Ben was like, Babe, stop
Speaker 3: pressuring me like you, if you refuse to do something
Speaker 3: long enough, it always gets done for you.
Speaker 4: Terrible. That's his proble.
Speaker 1: Terrible technique, and that probably doesn't end in a happy marriage.
Speaker 1: But good luck.
Speaker 4: Love you Ben, Love you Ben. Oh, I mean if
Speaker 4: we'll end in a hay Bes check there. Okay, Benny
Speaker 4: is in the room.
Speaker 1: No, no, my friend, Oh my gosh, we must go
Speaker 1: because Britain. Ben have to get a marriage counseling already,
Speaker 1: they've only been together.
Speaker 4: Ben's trying to get a hold of a microphone. Well,
Speaker 4: thanks for listening. We will be back tomorrow.