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Speaker 4: Reason the dust only good, fab dogle down.
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Speaker 1: And what I want.
Speaker 2: It don't matter where I done. This is the pick up.
Speaker 1: Hello everyone, it is the pick up with Britt Hockey
Speaker 1: and Laura Burn.
Speaker 5: Well, it's not just with the bridd Hockey and Laura Burn,
Speaker 5: is it.
Speaker 4: Well, there's another person in the room. Yep. Isn't that weird?
Speaker 3: It's not our producer Grace Yeah, or our video editor
Speaker 3: is he?
Speaker 4: It's a baby.
Speaker 3: In case, well, let's just like set the record straight first,
Speaker 3: In case you're just tuning in and you haven't heard
Speaker 3: the news.
Speaker 5: It is not my baby. It is Laura's baby. Well,
Speaker 5: it's actually kiddo and Matt's baby.
Speaker 1: I mean, we share everything. We've been best friends, we
Speaker 1: got so long, we like to.
Speaker 4: Be maybe together, Laura.
Speaker 5: Just so you know, it doesn't work like that.
Speaker 1: You're Annie Brittany, So therefore, like you get some steak
Speaker 1: in this baby, don't you Why I should hope.
Speaker 5: So you have much in life.
Speaker 1: So oh, look, it's very exciting. Oh my god, that
Speaker 1: was so depressing. It was pretty groom's been. It's been
Speaker 1: really exciting today. Matt and I we are having our.
Speaker 4: Third baby, which it's a lot.
Speaker 1: That's a lot of kids. It's a lot of kids,
Speaker 1: and we're very excited. Yeah, and today's show is actually
Speaker 1: going to be a really special and very big show.
Speaker 4: Matt is joining us later. But if you guys stick around, we.
Speaker 1: Are actually going to do a gender reveal on the show.
Speaker 1: We're going to find out what gender the baby is
Speaker 1: because never have I ever we can play that game
Speaker 1: now found out the gender of one of my children
Speaker 1: before actually giving birth, and this is going to be
Speaker 1: the first time that ever happens.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and you guys are going to be finding out
Speaker 5: along with me, along with everyone at the same time.
Speaker 3: This is going to happen live on the pick up
Speaker 3: later today, so you're not gonna want to miss it.
Speaker 5: We can all find out.
Speaker 3: Together whether you're having a little boy or a little girl.
Speaker 1: Well, anyway, guys, let's get into the show. We're going
Speaker 1: to talk about it all next. If you just join
Speaker 1: the show, today's been a really big day for us.
Speaker 1: And that is because finally I'm able to tell everyone
Speaker 1: that I me and my husband, not just me.
Speaker 4: He contributed to this.
Speaker 5: He definitely contributed that we're having another baby.
Speaker 1: Baby number three is currently under construction in our household.
Speaker 5: If I had access to any sound effects right now,
Speaker 5: but they're too far away, I would put some like
Speaker 5: very It is very exciting.
Speaker 1: It is so excited. Also, it's really nice to be
Speaker 1: at a point now. So I'm a little bit further
Speaker 1: along and Matt's going to join us on the show soon.
Speaker 1: But I'm in second trimester now and I feel great,
Speaker 1: like I am back to feeling.
Speaker 3: Normal, and Okay, wasn't always that way, was it?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Because the thing is right, And this is the ridiculous
Speaker 1: thing about pregnancy is that you keep your first trimester
Speaker 1: a secret. Usually, you know, you don't tell you work,
Speaker 1: and you hope your bosses respond positively, thank you they did,
Speaker 1: But also you don't tell people, and the first trimester
Speaker 1: is the hardest. Like I was so sick the first
Speaker 1: trimester and having to come and do the show and
Speaker 1: show up, and every single day I was either vomiting
Speaker 1: or I just had I felt like I was seasick
Speaker 1: every day.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say, part of me feels like a bad
Speaker 3: friend for not noticing. But in my defense, you're always
Speaker 3: tired and sick, and I'm not sick, but I'm tired.
Speaker 3: But you're always like, I feel unwell because of how
Speaker 3: tired you are, because you know, when you don't sleep
Speaker 3: with kids, like being fatigued makes you feel unwell, like
Speaker 3: it's such a big impact on your life, but because
Speaker 3: you're always like, oh, I didn't sleep.
Speaker 4: I'm so tired.
Speaker 5: I just didn't clock it. And now I'm like, looking.
Speaker 4: Back, there were signs, there were signs. You will know
Speaker 4: because there will be signs.
Speaker 3: And you've always told me your other pregnancies, and you
Speaker 3: have lost pregnancies before, but like your pregnancies with Lola
Speaker 3: and Marley and pregnancies that you have lost, you've always
Speaker 3: told me before, Matt, So I was a bit taken
Speaker 3: aback that I wasn't the first to know in this
Speaker 3: announce Do you.
Speaker 1: Know what, though I had, I mean three pregnancies. Every
Speaker 1: single pregnancy is weird because they're all different, right, but
Speaker 1: I have I've never had actual proper morning sickness before,
Speaker 1: and this time I have had raging morning sickness, and
Speaker 1: I think it's because, as the obstetrician likes to call it,
Speaker 1: a geriatric pregnancy. All right, mate, so I'm thirty nine.
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I think it's going to be out
Speaker 1: last one. I think it would be wild if we
Speaker 1: tried to do number four.
Speaker 3: Do you think that it means you're having a boy
Speaker 3: this time because you're sick and you've never been sick before.
Speaker 4: I don't know, is that true?
Speaker 5: All these myths that people put out there.
Speaker 1: Well, look I feel different in terms of I felt
Speaker 1: more sick. If you were going to ask me, I
Speaker 1: still think it's going to be a girl. That's my guess,
Speaker 1: is a girl. Matt is convinced, like absolutely convinced it's
Speaker 1: going to be a boy.
Speaker 4: And then like both our girls that we have, they.
Speaker 1: Keep having debates and fluctuating so they change their mind.
Speaker 5: Well, we are going to find out on the show
Speaker 5: live today.
Speaker 1: I know Matt's going to join us next, so stick
Speaker 1: around for that. But also I wanted to share with
Speaker 1: you guys, Lola, who is my middle child.
Speaker 4: She's up, sorry what she will be? She's my younger,
Speaker 4: she's four.
Speaker 1: Her reaction wasn't always completely excitement positive, but she's really
Speaker 1: come around and we got to reveal that we're having
Speaker 1: you know, we revealed the pregnancy and stuff today with
Speaker 1: truly the cutest little announcement, and it was a video
Speaker 1: that I found in my phone that she had recorded
Speaker 1: of herself.
Speaker 4: She's only four, mine, juice, this is a worry.
Speaker 1: Without she knowing, she took my phone and she was
Speaker 1: I thought she was just taking photos with my phone,
Speaker 1: but actually she filmed a little video and it's possibly
Speaker 1: the sweetest thing I've ever ever heard. Hi, everyone, I
Speaker 1: got a baby and my mom's Tommy, and I saw
Speaker 1: this study.
Speaker 4: To get it out. So it's so excited. So I
Speaker 4: believe like you to get a baby out.
Speaker 6: It's coming out to dad.
Speaker 4: No, really, it's that I really't want the baby come down,
Speaker 4: but short and the baby come out, but it's not
Speaker 4: coming out.
Speaker 2: I really love it.
Speaker 5: But now the journey, it's good. She took us on
Speaker 5: a journey, doesn't she.
Speaker 1: I'm just waiting for that kid to hit like seven
Speaker 1: or eight and be like mama TikTok, like she's already talking.
Speaker 4: Who's she talking to?
Speaker 1: I guess she's so you do it? I don't think
Speaker 1: I have ever gotten on Instagram and being like hi.
Speaker 5: Everybody, Yeah, you do stories all the time, Like.
Speaker 4: Kids, that's what they look at.
Speaker 3: You're just looking at a camera and recording, and like,
Speaker 3: I guess she wanted to put that out there.
Speaker 5: My favorite part was like where she was like.
Speaker 3: Plot twist and she's like it's coming out today, just
Speaker 3: joking like she's.
Speaker 4: Got good comedic timing for a four year old.
Speaker 3: I don't think that was intentional comedic timing. Don't think
Speaker 3: it's just funny. No, but it's very exciting. Like we said,
Speaker 3: stick around, we are gonna do I say we I'm involved,
Speaker 3: but we are doing it.
Speaker 1: It is a We keep calling it a world first
Speaker 1: because it truly is the first ever gender reveal on
Speaker 1: the pick Up. Now, if you're just joining us and
Speaker 1: listening to the show, today is.
Speaker 4: A very big day. Laura got laid.
Speaker 6: I know.
Speaker 1: I am pregnant with the number three babies, so it's
Speaker 1: very exciting for me. But also I'm not the only
Speaker 1: person who's responsible for this whole pregnancy that's going on here.
Speaker 4: What how do you make babies?
Speaker 1: My husband Matt, who has been on the show many times,
Speaker 1: is also someone who I don't know whether we can say,
Speaker 1: is also to blame for this. So congratulations, Sweetheart's right here.
Speaker 6: Look a lot of hard work has gone into this, blood,
Speaker 6: sweat and tears.
Speaker 2: It's not been easy. We got there.
Speaker 6: It's weird that everyone obviously we're married, people know that
Speaker 6: we're going to be being intimate. But yeah, it's weird
Speaker 6: that people know that we've been you know, fourteen weeks
Speaker 6: we've been having sex.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm actually almost eighteen weeks long, So great that.
Speaker 4: You've been paying attention. You're lying, Yeah, I'm eighteen weeks now, Matt,
Speaker 4: because you're.
Speaker 5: Having a baby.
Speaker 6: Pregnancy is flying through. We'll be giving birth any second.
Speaker 1: To be fair, it's because Matt missed out on the
Speaker 1: first half of it. So when I found out that
Speaker 1: I was pregnant, and you know, if you guys have
Speaker 1: been listening to the show, you would know that Matt
Speaker 1: was on I'm a Celebrity this year. So Matt had
Speaker 1: gone into the jungle, he had had his phone taken away,
Speaker 1: and it was two days after he was non contact,
Speaker 1: and so I went and bought a pregnancy test pete
Speaker 1: on the stick, and then I looked at it and
Speaker 1: I just remember sitting there and seeing these two lines.
Speaker 1: And at the same time, your sister was over and
Speaker 1: your mum was downstairs, and I walked downstairs to them
Speaker 1: and I was like, hey, guys, sorry to interrupt. They
Speaker 1: were putting in a Wooly's order, and I was like,
Speaker 1: do you reckon? This is two lines And it was
Speaker 1: the clearest, most evident two lines that there has ever been.
Speaker 5: So you told Matt's family before you talked Matt.
Speaker 1: I pretty much told everyone before I told Matt to
Speaker 1: because he wasn't here.
Speaker 2: We had a rule. We were loosely trying.
Speaker 6: But when I went into the jungle, I said to Laura,
Speaker 6: if I make it as far as the moment on
Speaker 6: the show where you guys come into the jungle, can
Speaker 6: you tell me if you are pregnant? And then she
Speaker 6: came in, and there was a thought in the back
Speaker 6: of my head, I'm like, well, she hasn't said anything.
Speaker 5: Surely you're going to say that on TV.
Speaker 1: No, it was too early because we've had a couple
Speaker 1: of pregnancy losses as well along the way, so I
Speaker 1: didn't want to have that conversation, which felt too early
Speaker 1: to have it, especially publicly. I wanted to make sure
Speaker 1: that we were in the clear in lots of ways.
Speaker 5: So then here's the question.
Speaker 3: You guys haven't been on the same path for a
Speaker 3: long time, for probably the last eighteen months on if
Speaker 3: you wanted more kids, like one of you wanted them
Speaker 3: when the other one didn't, and then it swapped and Laura.
Speaker 5: Would want it and Matt wasn't ready.
Speaker 3: How did you find the balance of getting to the
Speaker 3: same place at the same time.
Speaker 2: Something happened around Christmas time.
Speaker 6: Where we thought we should do this. It was like
Speaker 6: the one little window where we're both like, let's have
Speaker 6: a kid.
Speaker 4: It's hard because number three.
Speaker 1: Like I think for anyone who goes from having two
Speaker 1: kids to three kids, like there's a lot of mental
Speaker 1: gymnastics that has to happen. Because when you've got two kids,
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, we've got a car that fits two kids, Like, you.
Speaker 4: Know, we're not out number it.
Speaker 1: Just two kids, it seems like a relatively manageable family unit.
Speaker 1: And so I was the one who proposed, like, let's
Speaker 1: have another one, And for a little while there Matt
Speaker 1: was like, absolutely not. I think it was whenever I
Speaker 1: was ovulating, I was like, we should have another kid.
Speaker 5: It's interesting that it happened. It you say it happened
Speaker 5: at Christmas.
Speaker 3: It is the number one month of the year that
Speaker 3: people conceive because it's happy and joyful, and people are
Speaker 3: drinking and getting loose, they're stress, they're well.
Speaker 1: Tracking back our when the baby was conceived, it was
Speaker 1: Christmas Day, so it.
Speaker 4: Really was it really was a Christmas miracle.
Speaker 6: Everyone well, they're getting into the Christmas spirit.
Speaker 3: Weren't And so how did you react when Laura told you?
Speaker 4: How did I tell you?
Speaker 6: It was an interesting scenario because it was a couple
Speaker 6: of weeks after we returned from the jungle, and uh,
Speaker 6: before we went to bed, I went to Laura and said, well,
Speaker 6: I guess you're not pregnant because you haven't said anything.
Speaker 6: And then Laura said, yeah, I've been thinking about it
Speaker 6: and I don't know if it was the right idea
Speaker 6: to try and have a kid. And then in my
Speaker 6: head for the next two days that thought process was marinating,
Speaker 6: and then Laura gave me a scratchy.
Speaker 1: It said on the scratchy that you could win one
Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars, but you had to scratch every icon,
Speaker 1: and one of the icons said we're having a baby.
Speaker 2: It was like sixty icons Matt, Matt scratch.
Speaker 1: Matt got over it halfway through and he was like, oh,
Speaker 1: this game sucks. And I was like, been quite annoyed
Speaker 1: at him, and I was like, just scratch all of
Speaker 1: the scratchy, keep playing, and so eventually he scratched the scratchy,
Speaker 1: but he just looked more confused than actually thrilled.
Speaker 6: I think at the time, well, I just I didn't
Speaker 6: know if it was part of the game.
Speaker 2: I was like, have I won the money or not?
Speaker 2: Or if Laura like a baby.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I was like, so there is no money involved, it's
Speaker 6: just a baby, Okay. But now I am excited. I'm
Speaker 6: also very I'm nervous. I look at people with newborns
Speaker 6: and I think to myself, I cannot believe we're going
Speaker 6: back there. It's like we've run a marathon twice and
Speaker 6: now I'm lacing up to go back to the start
Speaker 6: line to do it all the game.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really I mean, I wonder if other people
Speaker 1: have felt this when they've had their third baby. Number
Speaker 1: one and two are like, we were so excited, and
Speaker 1: I guess now going into this pregnancy, it's like the
Speaker 1: blinkers or the rose colored glasses have been taken off.
Speaker 1: And we're very aware that as much as we are
Speaker 1: so excited and like couldn't be more thrilled, we know,
Speaker 1: we know that it's such a privilege to be able
Speaker 1: to have another baby, we're also just bit bloody frightened
Speaker 1: about what next year of our life.
Speaker 4: Friend.
Speaker 1: Look, the reason why you're here is because we do
Speaker 1: have something really exciting that we wanted to do together.
Speaker 1: We both have spoken a little bit about the fact
Speaker 1: that we're having a baby, but something that we've never
Speaker 1: done before when we've been I've been pregnant is find
Speaker 1: out the gender of the baby.
Speaker 4: So it's always been a surprise at birth.
Speaker 2: I bullied Laura into this, by the way, and this.
Speaker 1: Time that was the one who really wanted to find
Speaker 1: out what the gender is and I, you know, he
Speaker 1: wore me down. So we're gonna do it, And if
Speaker 1: you guys stick around, we're going to do it next Yes.
Speaker 3: So live on radio on the Pickup after the break,
Speaker 3: we are going to be finding out the sex of
Speaker 3: Laura and Maddie Jay's baby in a world first on
Speaker 3: the pick Up. In a world first on the Pickup.
Speaker 3: We are doing a very live in studio gender refeel.
Speaker 3: If you've just joined us, Mattie, Jan and Laura have
Speaker 3: just announced to the world that they're expecting a baby.
Speaker 3: We're so happy.
Speaker 6: The very first gender reveal on the pickup is that right'sight?
Speaker 2: Well first, I mean we think so, but I hope
Speaker 2: it's the first of many.
Speaker 4: Look, this is really big for us for a couple
Speaker 4: of reasons.
Speaker 1: I mean, if you guys been following the show for
Speaker 1: a while, you would know we have two little girls already.
Speaker 4: Marley and Lola, five and four.
Speaker 1: And we never found out the gender of our babies
Speaker 1: before the delivery day. It was always that moment of like,
Speaker 1: it's a girl as they kind of put on your chest,
Speaker 1: which I love and I find that so deeply special,
Speaker 1: and I didn't want to find out the gender. However,
Speaker 1: being that this is baby number three, Matt was like,
Speaker 1: just give me something.
Speaker 6: I don't understand why people want to lump in all
Speaker 6: those surprises on the one day.
Speaker 2: Why not spread them out.
Speaker 3: I like that you're meeting halfway and you're letting Matt
Speaker 3: find out. I think that the woman is the one
Speaker 3: that goes through the whole thing. At the end of
Speaker 3: the day, she gets to decide.
Speaker 2: For the first two and the third one. The rule
Speaker 2: is up to the mirror.
Speaker 6: I'm going to say it has to be a water birth,
Speaker 6: but not you fair, We'll discuss that when later.
Speaker 5: Okay, hang on, what do you guys want either way?
Speaker 3: Like if you had to, I know it's the old like,
Speaker 3: we just want a healthy baby, of course, but you
Speaker 3: get to pick what you want hypothetically in this situation.
Speaker 5: What do you have?
Speaker 1: I mean, we really really do just want a healthy baby.
Speaker 4: That's like number one. Of course.
Speaker 2: I I'd like an athlete.
Speaker 5: Okay, tennis or gold.
Speaker 6: Healthy is good, but I want it to be like
Speaker 6: a genetic freak of an athlete.
Speaker 2: I wanted to win gold medals.
Speaker 4: Do you want it to be a boy or a girl?
Speaker 6: Look, I will be happy with the girl. I'm just
Speaker 6: going to say that because I love.
Speaker 2: Being a girl. Dad.
Speaker 6: But at the same time, growing up, I always envisioned
Speaker 6: being a dad with a.
Speaker 3: Son, so you can go and do those like father
Speaker 3: son things. That's how you imagine.
Speaker 2: Obviously you can do it with daughters.
Speaker 1: But you do that all those things that you think
Speaker 1: you might want to do if you had a boy,
Speaker 1: you already do them with Ma like.
Speaker 2: You, Lola hate going to the footage. I'm like, who
Speaker 2: wants to go watch the roosters?
Speaker 3: And they're like.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's But also like, you're very good
Speaker 1: at being a girl dad, like you have no reservations
Speaker 1: going getting your nails painted on a Saturday, or taking
Speaker 1: them out for baby chinos and doing like tea parties
Speaker 1: and stuff like you really slot into girl dad life
Speaker 1: in an incredible way.
Speaker 2: I love it.
Speaker 6: I love it, but I just think it would be
Speaker 6: great to experience being a dad to a son.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just because change of scenery.
Speaker 5: Exactly all right, So we've got Matt answer locked in.
Speaker 3: He would happy other way, but prefer to add a
Speaker 3: male to the already three female scenario. Laura, how are
Speaker 3: you feeling?
Speaker 4: You know what?
Speaker 1: If you'd ask me before having Molly and Laula. I
Speaker 1: always thought that I would be a mum to boys,
Speaker 1: but now that I have two girls, I deeply love
Speaker 1: being a mum to girls.
Speaker 4: So I don't care at all.
Speaker 5: Like I feel as though you're bad at this game.
Speaker 4: No, no, I mean it.
Speaker 2: I like she's such a politician.
Speaker 1: I will be thrilled with either like I'm such a
Speaker 1: fence sitter like I do not care.
Speaker 3: Well, it's your lucky day because you are getting one
Speaker 3: of them.
Speaker 4: I will be happy with a girl.
Speaker 1: I love what we have, and I think three sisters
Speaker 1: for them would be amazing. Rather than having a little
Speaker 1: brother who might be who will be five years younger,
Speaker 1: I think he might get left out a little bit.
Speaker 5: All right, well, we've got the cake. Laura has picked
Speaker 5: up the knife.
Speaker 3: Are you already We are going to live on radio
Speaker 3: find out the sex of your baby.
Speaker 5: This is so right now? Oh my god, are you
Speaker 5: guys excited? You're actually go about to find out where
Speaker 5: you're having.
Speaker 4: Okay, we have a gender reveal cake. I am cutting
Speaker 4: the cake.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm not going to look so that we can
Speaker 1: all see it at the same time.
Speaker 5: Pull it out by hands, by hands, and.
Speaker 1: It's uh, it's a girl.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you're having a.
Speaker 4: Third little girl. Congratulationship.
Speaker 1: Oh my, there's a lot of estrogen in ouse.
Speaker 4: Please dome on that. How are you okay?
Speaker 2: I am I capable of producing boys? Worry. Let's go again.
Speaker 2: Let's go for a four.
Speaker 4: That said we're having three kids, turns out we're having four. No,
Speaker 4: you don't mean a baby girl. How do you feel, honey?
Speaker 1: Are you okay?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: I feel I feel I feel good. I feel good.
Speaker 4: I feel I love you.
Speaker 2: When I look at.
Speaker 6: Young boys and I look how turbo they are, there
Speaker 6: is a part of me that goes I stuff that.
Speaker 2: I don't want to be involved. No, I'm thrilled I
Speaker 2: loving a girl.
Speaker 6: Dad. Obviously that's matched with a feeling of the fact
Speaker 6: that I'm never going to have a son.
Speaker 3: No, you watch now, you're going to go for around
Speaker 3: four guys, I'm tapping out.
Speaker 4: I'm almost forty. I'm not excuse me.
Speaker 3: I haven't started, so you don't have to type out yet.
Speaker 5: Age is butter number.
Speaker 4: I love you, honey.
Speaker 3: Guys, congratulations, thank you, thank you for sharing that with everyone.
Speaker 5: Everyone just found out with you that you're having a
Speaker 5: third baby.
Speaker 3: Girl.
Speaker 5: I think that's really really cool, and I'm really happy
Speaker 5: for you.
Speaker 3: I do think I was hoping for a boy, just
Speaker 3: for some like differentiation, but I do think overall it's
Speaker 3: going to be easier for you. You've already got all
Speaker 3: the girls stuff you guys don't have to convince me.
Speaker 1: I'm thrilled, guys off that I'm happy.
Speaker 6: I don't know if you can tell by the turn
Speaker 6: of my boys, but I'm smiling right now.
Speaker 2: I'm thrilled to have a beautiful girl.
Speaker 1: Well, guys, if you miss any of the show and
Speaker 1: you want to hear the rest of it, you can
Speaker 1: go and search the pick up wherever you listen to
Speaker 1: your podcast.
Speaker 4: All of it will be there.
Speaker 1: You can hear about how Matt found out that I
Speaker 1: was pregnant, and you can find out how I told
Speaker 1: him and all the rest of it.
Speaker 4: Go and have a listen there.
Speaker 2: How we need some names.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, I've got two.
Speaker 5: Are you going to tell you right now?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 4: No, No, that's that's for another day.
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, names.
Speaker 5: God, if you do want to call it Brittany, I
Speaker 5: will be okay with that. All right, it's the pickup, see, guys,