WEBVTT - Guided journaling session: Let’s change your money story

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the

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<v Speaker 1>land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboo

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<v Speaker 1>Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present

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<v Speaker 1>and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and

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<v Speaker 1>Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is the Rise and Conquer podcast. This is

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and

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<v Speaker 1>becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs,

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<v Speaker 1>plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses

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<v Speaker 1>and being among Think of us as the perfect combo

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<v Speaker 1>of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No

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<v Speaker 1>matter where you are in your journey, we're here to

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<v Speaker 1>help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical

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<v Speaker 1>self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's

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<v Speaker 1>seat of your own life and stop letting life pass you.

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<v Speaker 2>By, then you're in the right place.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello everybody, and welcome back to the potty. I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>excited for today's episode because it is the first time

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<v Speaker 1>we have done something like this. So essentially, I'm taking

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<v Speaker 1>you through a guided limiting belief unblocking journaling session. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you have a limiting belief that you're holding around anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Grab your journal and pen, and let's get into it. So, firstly,

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<v Speaker 1>if you guys don't know what a limiting belief is,

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<v Speaker 1>this is language that I've used for a very long time,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just when I talk about a belief that

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<v Speaker 1>you may hold that is essentially something that feels like

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<v Speaker 1>a truth to you because of maybe how you grew

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<v Speaker 1>up with your family, or you know something that has

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<v Speaker 1>happened to you and it feels so true to you

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<v Speaker 1>and it stops you from basically living your dream life.

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<v Speaker 1>So I give you examples in the guided journaling session.

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<v Speaker 1>But a huge limiting belief that I had was I

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<v Speaker 1>could earn money, but it had to I had to

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<v Speaker 1>work really really hard, which led to me getting burnout

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<v Speaker 1>and like you know, various situations that didn't feel good.

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<v Speaker 1>So I had to unlearn this. And that's what an

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<v Speaker 1>example of a limiting belief is. But you could have

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<v Speaker 1>it around anything, And how you know it's a limiting belief.

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<v Speaker 1>It's basically like your excuse of not doing something. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the reason why you think you need to do something

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<v Speaker 1>a certain way. And how you'll know is it feels

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<v Speaker 1>true to you, but to someone else, they have done

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<v Speaker 1>that thing, you know, despite the excuse, despite whatever the

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<v Speaker 1>circumstance is, and that's how you know it's not actually

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<v Speaker 1>a truth, it's just your belief. So grab out a

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<v Speaker 1>journal or in if you're in the car, pause this.

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<v Speaker 1>Highly recommend you come back when you can actually journal

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<v Speaker 1>because it is going to be so powerful. We are

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<v Speaker 1>going to leave some time, but definitely like pause. It

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<v Speaker 1>really get deep and you can replay this as many

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<v Speaker 1>many times as you need, So just a reminder as well.

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<v Speaker 1>We do have a free money Mindset ebook bundle that

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<v Speaker 1>you can download, and this really takes you through how

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<v Speaker 1>to identify your money mindset blocks. So if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to work through limiting beliefs around money, highly recommend to

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<v Speaker 1>download this ebook bundle first, have a read through it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you then have this incredible journaling session. And

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<v Speaker 1>we also have a free meditation which I talk about

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<v Speaker 1>more in the episode, but you can download that as

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<v Speaker 1>well as that in the show notes. So wait, we're

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<v Speaker 1>not getting into it yet. We're going to a weekly recommendations.

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<v Speaker 2>A tear mine is to enjoy the little things.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's Georgia's recommendation.

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<v Speaker 3>Guys, I like, I've been start I just have nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been listening to one song and on repeat. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's like not the greatest recommendation.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll let you guys know what the song's called, but

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<v Speaker 3>I apologize for my lack of preparation in terms of recommendations.

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<v Speaker 3>This week, it's called Champagne Coast by Blood Orange, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's just like a very chill, like relax, put it on,

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<v Speaker 3>have a cook or like while you're showering kind of song.

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<v Speaker 2>It's yeah, I do that too.

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<v Speaker 1>When I fixate on one song and I have to

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<v Speaker 1>based on repeat.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's been me for like two weeks. What about you?

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<v Speaker 2>What's your wreck?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, as we're recording, it is the new full moon,

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<v Speaker 1>and I did a full moon ceremony on the weekend

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<v Speaker 1>with some girlfriends and it's kind of the first time

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<v Speaker 1>that have like met up with some girlfriends, really sat down.

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<v Speaker 1>We did like cocaw so ceremony grade cocaw. We set intentions,

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<v Speaker 1>we drank our cocau. We did this beautiful breathing session,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we journaled out what we're letting go of,

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<v Speaker 1>which is what you do on a full moon. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like what energy you're letting go of and what are

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<v Speaker 1>you calling in? And it was so beautiful and it

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<v Speaker 1>just really reminded me to cultivate. Like I think sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>we get very stuck in what not what we can

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<v Speaker 1>be doing with our friends. But you know, like I

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<v Speaker 1>just think, oh, go to dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>Or go for a walk.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was so good to do something different with

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<v Speaker 1>my friends. Yeah, and really bring in our you know,

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<v Speaker 1>spiritual sides. So highly recommend next new moon or full

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<v Speaker 1>moon to do a little ceremony with your friends and

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<v Speaker 1>like make it fun. Like we had candles, we had

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<v Speaker 1>decks of cards, and you know, we had like a

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<v Speaker 1>whole platter and we just like laughed and it was

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<v Speaker 1>really really beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's a fat idea my recommendation. Shall we get

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<v Speaker 2>into it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, wish out. So this session is going to be

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<v Speaker 1>so powerful. This is a bit of a taste of

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<v Speaker 1>the mindset work we do in the Rise app and

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<v Speaker 1>our courses. So if you loved this, definitely for a

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<v Speaker 1>more in depth training, that is where you will find it.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, grab a tea or coffee, a little snack,

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<v Speaker 1>your journal and pen and let's do this together. I

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<v Speaker 1>really find that when I'm journaling, I like to set

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<v Speaker 1>up my space so it's like light a little candle,

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<v Speaker 1>a bit of sage, set the mood, the tone, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>put on some light music and let's really tap in.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's ground, let's get the most.

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<v Speaker 2>Out of this.

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<v Speaker 1>So I want you, guys to just remember that limiting

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<v Speaker 1>belief work. It can be jarring, it can feel super

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<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable because basically it's showing you where you have had

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<v Speaker 1>beliefs usually your whole life, that have kept you small,

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<v Speaker 1>that have kept you from making the you know, taking

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<v Speaker 1>the risks and making the move to your dream reality.

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<v Speaker 1>So a lot of emotion can come up, and I

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<v Speaker 1>really want you to just be okay with it, just like,

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<v Speaker 1>have no negative feelings around it, be super compassionate to yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>and just be in total awareness because that's really what

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<v Speaker 1>dissolves these blocks. So let's get started. I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to write Step one, become aware. So one of the

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<v Speaker 1>most common things with limiting beliefs is that people don't

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<v Speaker 1>even rea it's a limiting belief. They just think it's fact.

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<v Speaker 1>So because in their life it feels like a truth

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<v Speaker 1>for them, They're like, no, this is just a fact

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<v Speaker 1>in my life. And what is the most life changing

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<v Speaker 1>thing is when you understand that your beliefs aren't facts.

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<v Speaker 1>They may feel true to you, but for example, if

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<v Speaker 1>it's different for someone else, it means it's a limiting belief.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a truth for you. If your current reality

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<v Speaker 1>is not a reflection of your dream life of what

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<v Speaker 1>you want in the future, then you need to work

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<v Speaker 1>through these limiting beliefs in order to have that dream reality,

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<v Speaker 1>because that person who has that dream reality doesn't have

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<v Speaker 1>your current belief system, otherwise you would already have that

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<v Speaker 1>dream reality. It can be hard to even become aware

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<v Speaker 1>of our limiting beliefs because they do feel like just

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<v Speaker 1>facts to us. And a huge thing is to realize

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<v Speaker 1>where someone else has a different reality, a different truth,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is going to be a bit of an

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<v Speaker 1>insight into oh I do have a limiting belief around

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<v Speaker 1>this area, or if it's just a belief that limits you,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't feel good, it feels negative. You also know

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<v Speaker 1>that is a limiting belief. So we're chatting about money today.

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<v Speaker 1>So for example, let's say a big bill comes in.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you avoid it?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you get in a victim mindset of like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>of course I would get this bill. Of course this

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<v Speaker 1>happens to me. Do you leave it to last minute

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<v Speaker 1>to pay it?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you feel super.

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<v Speaker 1>Sad and negative about it? These are going to be

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<v Speaker 1>little moments that are going to show you your limiting beliefs.

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<v Speaker 1>So I wanted to ask yourself, does the most abundant

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<v Speaker 1>version of you make the same decision. If they don't,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this is something you have to change because,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, when bills come in for me, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, what a privilege it is to have electricity,

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<v Speaker 1>to have water, to have these things for Ivy me

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<v Speaker 1>and my family. What a privilege? Or you know, let's

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<v Speaker 1>say a big tax bill comes in and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>what a privilege to earn money and to live in

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<v Speaker 1>a country where the streets are clean, there's lights on,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the streets, there's ambulances, there's public schools. What

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<v Speaker 1>a privilege? Do you see how that is such a

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<v Speaker 1>different mindset from someone who sees a bill and is

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<v Speaker 1>sad unhappy in a victim mindset. So once you're aware

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<v Speaker 1>of that limiting belief and a couple limiting beliefs around

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<v Speaker 1>money is like money is really hard to come by.

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<v Speaker 1>Only greedy people have money. The more money I earn,

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<v Speaker 1>the more responsibilities I have. Only rich people have more

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<v Speaker 1>than enough money. Those are just some examples. So step

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<v Speaker 1>two is identify the belief. So again this can be

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<v Speaker 1>difficult to do because sometimes it's hard to see it.

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<v Speaker 1>But ask yourself, are you someone who avoids checking your

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<v Speaker 1>bank account? Do you feel anxious around money? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you know you can earn money but then

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<v Speaker 1>it leaves you?

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<v Speaker 2>So this step is about.

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<v Speaker 1>Getting really clear about how you feel about this belief.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's go back to our example. So let's say

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<v Speaker 1>someone who avoids checking their bank account. It's because they

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<v Speaker 1>feel anxious when they see the amount in their bank account.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you're feeling anxious about it, it means you

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<v Speaker 1>have anxiety towards money.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's just say so.

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<v Speaker 1>Then another question you could ask yourself is okay, a

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<v Speaker 1>person who feels anxious around money, what would they have

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<v Speaker 1>to believe to be true in order to feel anxious

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<v Speaker 1>around money? So this could be thoughts like my earning

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<v Speaker 1>potential is capped, I don't have enough to live the

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<v Speaker 1>life I want. I'm so far from where I want

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<v Speaker 1>to be financially there is no chance for me to

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<v Speaker 1>make more money in this economy. These are all limiting beliefs.

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<v Speaker 1>So often in a bigger limiting belief and having awareness

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<v Speaker 1>that all I do have limiting beliefs around money, you

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<v Speaker 1>can find smaller, more niche examples of limiting beliefs, which

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<v Speaker 1>is great because the more specific the better because we

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<v Speaker 1>can really find the underlying reason for this limiting belief.

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<v Speaker 1>So step three is all about and guys, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>listening and you want to like, have some more time

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<v Speaker 1>to write things down, pause this, write it down, and then.

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<v Speaker 2>Come back to it.

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<v Speaker 1>So the next step we are going to do is

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<v Speaker 1>really break down the belief. So think of your belief

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<v Speaker 1>like a table. So all of the evidence are like

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<v Speaker 1>legs holding up that table. So depending how this belief

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<v Speaker 1>was ingrained, it could have twenty legs, it could have

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<v Speaker 1>three legs. You know, it's just going to depend. So

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to think about the different legs under

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<v Speaker 1>that table, which is your belief that is really holding

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<v Speaker 1>it up. So how is the belief showing up in

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<v Speaker 1>my life? Ask yourself that what is the pattern here?

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<v Speaker 1>So for example, really think about maybe even evidence in

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<v Speaker 1>your life of you know, how money doesn't show up,

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<v Speaker 1>why you're anxious about money, those sorts of things.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll give you some time to write that down. So

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<v Speaker 2>the next step I.

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<v Speaker 1>Want you to do is attaching pain to this belief.

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<v Speaker 1>Now this is an interesting step, but basically the way

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<v Speaker 1>that the human brain works is we get scared to

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<v Speaker 1>change because change is the unknown, and it's scary, it's uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's a great saying of like, we would rather

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<v Speaker 1>the devil we know than the devil we don't, So

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<v Speaker 1>we hold this belief even if it's uncomfortable, because we

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<v Speaker 1>would rather this belief than a new one that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>let's say, could be worse. So by attaching and illuminating

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<v Speaker 1>more pain in this belief, we will start logically dissolving

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<v Speaker 1>this belief. So with your limiting belief, I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to write down all the ways it creates pain. So,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, let's say you're anxious around money. So attaching

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<v Speaker 1>pain to it was I'm anxious around money. I never

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<v Speaker 1>checked my bank account, so I'm never actually clear how

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<v Speaker 1>much money I can spend how much money I can't spend,

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<v Speaker 1>so I end up in debt. That is a pain

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<v Speaker 1>attached to that belief and I want you to really

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<v Speaker 1>list try and go deep with this, try and really

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<v Speaker 1>show your subconscious mind how much pain is really attached

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<v Speaker 1>to this. So the next step is looking at the

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<v Speaker 1>second hand gain. So we do not and I talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this a lot on the podcast, especially recently because

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<v Speaker 1>it's so insightful, but we do not hold beliefs unless

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<v Speaker 1>we gain something from it, unless we have a benefit.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's say the you feeling anxious about money and

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<v Speaker 1>you get scared to look at your bank account. What

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<v Speaker 1>you gain from that is you don't have to take responsibility.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't actually have to make hard investing choices or

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<v Speaker 1>have clarity about your money, which you get benefit from.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you get benefit from because you get to tell

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<v Speaker 1>your boyfriend that you're bad with money and he indulges

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<v Speaker 1>you and he's like, oh, babe, I'm so sorry you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like that, and you get to feel you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you get that dopamine here, You get to feel good

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<v Speaker 1>because someone is giving you attention. It can literally be

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<v Speaker 1>gain in that way. Again, this is going to be

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<v Speaker 1>a step that can be really uncomfortable because sometimes the

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<v Speaker 1>gain is like, ill, why am I like that?

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<v Speaker 2>Why am I that person?

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<v Speaker 1>But we need to look at it, because without looking

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<v Speaker 1>at it, we cannot change it. So the next step

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to do is really dive into the

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<v Speaker 1>feeling around this limiting belief.

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<v Speaker 2>So is it anxiety? Is it stress? Is it fear?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this feeling new? Or have you felt this before?

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<v Speaker 1>So most of the time we have felt it before,

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<v Speaker 1>And how did the last time you feel it?

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<v Speaker 2>How did you move through it?

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<v Speaker 1>So again, usually we have a pattern of we feel

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<v Speaker 1>this feeling and then we have a way that we

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<v Speaker 1>deal with it. So maybe it's like we feel anxious

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<v Speaker 1>about money, we feel like we can't hold onto wealth,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we go spend all our money. Or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's we feel bad about something else and then we

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<v Speaker 1>go spend all our money and that's like the pattern.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like, what is the feeling anxiety, stress, fear, guilt, shame?

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<v Speaker 1>Attach a feeling to it. Okay, So the next step

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<v Speaker 1>is knocking the table legs down. So it's time to

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<v Speaker 1>start really questioning this belief poke And we're basically going

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<v Speaker 1>to knock it down so we don't want to cling

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<v Speaker 1>onto it or hold it anymore in our subconscious brain.

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<v Speaker 1>So a series of questions that you can ask yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>is is this belief absolutely one hundred percent all of

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<v Speaker 1>the time, no matter what true.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to tell you now it's not. But you

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<v Speaker 2>gotta get to that by yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to also find examples of where this

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<v Speaker 1>has been false in your life, so use that evidence

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<v Speaker 1>to really knock that table down. So go back to

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<v Speaker 1>the step where we wrote down all the table legs,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want you to now knock that down. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, let's say you have a limiting belief around

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<v Speaker 1>money is never there for me, it always goes. I

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<v Speaker 1>guarantee you there is an instance where you have been

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<v Speaker 1>supported by money. It can be literally as simple as

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<v Speaker 1>you have enough money for electric city and water to

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<v Speaker 1>have a shower. That is you being supported by money. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So last thing I want you to do in this

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<v Speaker 1>step is think about the universe or your higher self.

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<v Speaker 1>What would they say about this belief? So the version

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<v Speaker 1>of you that has everything you desire, if they could

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<v Speaker 1>come through to you and tell you something about this belief,

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<v Speaker 1>what would they say, For example, what I said before,

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<v Speaker 1>she would say.

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<v Speaker 2>Georgia, you were so supported by money. You just wait.

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<v Speaker 1>So the next step I want you to do is

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<v Speaker 1>really connect to it from a third person perspective. So

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<v Speaker 1>imagine if your best friend, your partner, a family member,

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<v Speaker 1>or a close person in your life came to you

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<v Speaker 1>with this limiting belief, with this feeling, what would you

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<v Speaker 1>say to them? Write it down and read it back

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<v Speaker 1>to yourself. You're going to be so surprised what wisdom

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<v Speaker 1>like really flows through when you put this from another perspective.

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<v Speaker 1>So the next step I want you to do is

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<v Speaker 1>create a new belief that is going to wipe out

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<v Speaker 1>and go on top of this limiting belief. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>obviously going to support your growth and your evolution and

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<v Speaker 1>your dream reality. It's basically going to be the opposite.

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<v Speaker 2>So if it is I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't feel supported by money, it's going to be I

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<v Speaker 1>am so supportive of money. I constantly have evidence that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm supportive of money. So this belief is going to

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<v Speaker 1>feel really good. It's probably going to be very simple.

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<v Speaker 1>It's going to be like an affirmation. So the last

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<v Speaker 1>thing I want you to do is you need to

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<v Speaker 1>start creating new evidence of this belief. So now you've

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<v Speaker 1>really knocked out the legs, you realize that this belief

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<v Speaker 1>is not serving you and you have a new belief,

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to start creating evidence, really kind of

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<v Speaker 1>gather the evidence for your subconscious brain, for you conscious

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<v Speaker 1>brain of this belief of this new belief being the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is something that you'll go out and do

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<v Speaker 1>after this journaling session. And it's just about, for example,

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<v Speaker 1>if the new belief is I'm so supported by money.

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<v Speaker 1>Every time that you have a shower, that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the paycheck comes in, someone pays you, something good happens,

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<v Speaker 1>reaffirm that belief I am so supported by money. Look

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<v Speaker 1>what's just happened. And again, the big thing with this

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<v Speaker 1>step is realizing that while your new reality is calibrating,

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<v Speaker 1>you are still going to have some evidence of that

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<v Speaker 1>old belief. But I really want you to just ignore it.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that sounds simple, but just ignore it because

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<v Speaker 1>what you focus on expands. So I want you even

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<v Speaker 1>let's say something happens like you get a bill, like

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<v Speaker 1>you get a fine, and it's trying to really reaffirm

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<v Speaker 1>the previous belief of I'm not supported by money. I

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<v Speaker 1>want you in that moment to go, okay, I can

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<v Speaker 1>either pick that or I can pick my new belief.

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<v Speaker 1>My new belief is I'm supported by money, So what's

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<v Speaker 1>something that's happened recently where I'm actually supported by money

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<v Speaker 1>and focus on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really that simple to shift a belief. You need

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<v Speaker 1>to start building out as much evidence as possible to

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<v Speaker 1>support that new belief. And even now, I guarantee you

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of great things that have happened. So

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<v Speaker 1>write down what is that new evidence, and now make

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<v Speaker 1>sure you move through life and correlate, really put that

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<v Speaker 1>evidence gather it, be a little detective, and that is

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<v Speaker 1>going to be your new belief. Now to finish this episode,

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<v Speaker 1>I did just want.

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<v Speaker 2>To remind you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>That you know you will be tested. You will be

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<v Speaker 1>tested on if you want to reaffirm this new belief.

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<v Speaker 1>So the old belief you might have evidence that happens,

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<v Speaker 1>but again it is up to you which belief you reaffirm.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you will be presented opportunities to prove that

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<v Speaker 1>you are the person with the new belief. So that

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<v Speaker 1>is amazing, and really look at it with positivity and

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<v Speaker 1>really engage in repetition. So we know consistency is everything.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not always going to get it right, but you

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<v Speaker 1>always have another opportunity to repeat to reaffirm the new belief,

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<v Speaker 1>and first we.

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<v Speaker 2>Have to change.

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<v Speaker 1>We have to consciously make a change, and then our

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<v Speaker 1>brain pass change. So it just gets easier and easier.

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<v Speaker 1>The more you do this, the more you reaffirm your

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<v Speaker 1>new belief. So, my loves, I hope this was helped obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>if you found this helpful and you want to go deeper,

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<v Speaker 1>we do have a money course coming to Rise and Conquer,

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<v Speaker 1>which we are so excited about. And if you do

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<v Speaker 1>want meditations and activations and pep talks about money, we

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<v Speaker 1>also do have a money month happening in the Rise app,

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<v Speaker 1>so we'll put a link for that. But thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much for listening. I hope this was helpful. Definitely

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<v Speaker 1>save this, to come back to this, to come back

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<v Speaker 1>to this and redo this journaling session, because you really

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<v Speaker 1>can use it for any limiting belief, not just money.

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