1 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: Mom always always said, be careful love those alum boys. 2 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: It'll well use your head. They will tear you up 3 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: like a paper too. 4 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 2: Oh no no no, yeah. 5 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah, oh no no no. 6 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 2: Then it's knowledge you're darning. 7 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: Anyway, It's a little thoughts that'll bring your down, trying 8 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: to get your tipsy like god, drink love drunk girls. 9 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 3: Oh hi, I'm Amanda. 10 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 2: And I'm Hendy. Welcome to its La. We're in a 11 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:16,679 Speaker 2: long distance spread shift that started twenty years ago when we. 12 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 1: Were in time. 13 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 3: We'll be talking all things like love, family, and anything 14 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 3: and everything else under the sun. 15 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 2: Dove deeper with us because in life, you know, genius 16 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 2: my layers. 17 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:40,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, Stack, How are you, my love? 18 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 4: Since we last spoke. 19 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 2: I'm doing alright. I'm doing me good like I think 20 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 2: so you know, I'm good. And how are you are you? 21 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 4: I'm good, I'm good. I was actually sitting on some 22 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 4: grapetizer no tea today. 23 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 2: I'm home. I'm jealous, like I'm I didn't tell you 24 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 2: I found what do they call it? This? Kale? You 25 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 2: know they call it kale and kale, but I know 26 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 2: it as rape. I think it's rape. 27 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 4: I think it's rape. 28 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, whatever it is. I found in the shop 29 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 2: at the grocery store other day and I was like, bitch, oh. 30 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 3: There's nothing that beats finding something from home when you're 31 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 3: not expecting it, or like you want to buy the 32 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:28,920 Speaker 3: whole store. 33 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, for sure, but man, I'm a long way 34 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 2: from home, like you feel it. But yeah, that's bringing 35 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 2: us actually right into the topic for today, you know, 36 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 2: talking about things that I don't think people actually talk 37 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:49,359 Speaker 2: about it often and all you do in your private circles, 38 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 2: but it's kind of no one often shares how it goes, 39 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:55,959 Speaker 2: just like oh that's how it goes, you know. 40 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, there's no like tidbit side. So that's actually quite 41 00:02:59,880 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 4: of a plug. Weing to look for someone to do that, 42 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:07,519 Speaker 4: like how how to? 43 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because it's so many variables. And what we're 44 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 2: talking about before I forget is surviving diaspora, talking about 45 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 2: citizenships and visas, settling in the whole process that goes 46 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 2: in Bomba. Yeah, with the green Bomba like moving from 47 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 2: zim to another country. As many of you know, like 48 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 2: the Zimbabwean economy, a lot of people are I guess 49 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 2: economic refugees you could call it that, or economic migrants. 50 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 2: I don't know if that's what you call it, because 51 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 2: of the state of our economy and a huge population 52 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 2: is all over the world, you know, trying to make 53 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 2: a living, trying to make a dollar out of fifteen stents. Okay, 54 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 2: I don't know why I thought of that analogy. 55 00:03:57,240 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 4: It's true though, we are fifty back home exactly well 56 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 4: with the union. 57 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 2: Of the hassle anyway, into all that, you know, could 58 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 2: you maybe like share a bit of your journey of 59 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 2: leaving ZIM until now and that whole process when it 60 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:28,239 Speaker 2: comes to visus for you, how was that, you know, when. 61 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 1: Did you leave? 62 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 4: Giving me the whole episode? 63 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, kid notes, Well, obviously. 64 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 3: So we were talking about how to find a place 65 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 3: that does like how to and there are a few 66 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 3: or they were a few. When we were looking to 67 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:48,479 Speaker 3: which universities to go to, it was just obvious that 68 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 3: we were going to have to be going outside the country. 69 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:55,359 Speaker 3: So it was more choice of where your parents could 70 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 3: afford or where your parents thought, you know, they should 71 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 3: send you or allow you to go to. So you'd 72 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 3: always have to have that awkward chat maybe like fifth form, 73 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 3: sixth form, about where you see, if you had siblings, 74 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 3: sometimes they already had paved the way for where you're 75 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 3: also going to go. So it just depends on the 76 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 3: setup that you had with your family. But for me personally, 77 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 3: I spoke to my dad and at the time there 78 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:25,919 Speaker 3: was a huge drive to come to Australia. They had 79 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 3: like two places consulting agencies, McPherson and Koala, and you 80 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 3: could choose and they would help you. Like literally, these 81 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 3: unis would pay these consulting agencies to look for international 82 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:42,839 Speaker 3: students to come over. So that's how I got interested 83 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 3: in Australia. Then obviously finding the right degree and all 84 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 3: of that. So first of all, student visa obviously to 85 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 3: get out of ZII, and then once you were here 86 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:57,719 Speaker 3: that has its own implications and its own standards. You 87 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 3: have to like obviously maintain going to school. You can't 88 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 3: be your students studying paying all the fees. 89 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 4: You come here. 90 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:08,600 Speaker 3: You realize you pay like four or five times as 91 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 3: much as Australians. So it was like, oh, okay, so 92 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 3: I'm paying for y'all to come to school, that's what's happening. 93 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. 94 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,119 Speaker 4: You pretty much have zero rights on a student visa. 95 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 3: You can work, but only like very minimally, I think 96 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 3: at the time and I think it still is is 97 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 3: twenty hours a week, which really if you look at 98 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 3: a week with seven days in the week, that's like. 99 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 4: Under three hours a day, which is nothing. 100 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 3: So a lot of students end up working Saturday and 101 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 3: Sunday and they pretty much do maybe in one day 102 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 3: during the week, pretty much do their twenty hour quota 103 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 3: and to supplement of living expenses. So there's that, and 104 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 3: then when you get off that visa, that's when it 105 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:52,600 Speaker 3: starts to get tricky. So once you graduate, what you're 106 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:56,279 Speaker 3: gon't do so you ready think in your last year 107 00:06:56,600 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 3: of school, you're already thinking what next. People go down 108 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 3: the pathway of sponsorship visas, so you can get a 109 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 3: job and your job will sponsor you. Simple go the 110 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 3: path of just being on a work visa. That's just 111 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 3: like I'm here, I'm going to look for a job. 112 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 3: But to be doing that kind of visa, then you 113 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 3: have to have a job that's on a list. So 114 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 3: Australia will like produce a list. 115 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 4: Of approved. 116 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 3: Approved professionals that they want that they're lacking in that 117 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 3: they feel based on the census or whatever, are lacking. 118 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 3: So a lot of people did accounting. Like you meet 119 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 3: a lot of Zimbabweans who did accounting and if you 120 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 3: ask them why, a lot of them are like, well 121 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 3: it was on the list, Like there's a time when 122 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 3: they wanted a lot of accountants. So that's about the 123 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 3: avenue I use. So silly because back then it was 124 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 3: done like on a point form. So you know, being 125 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 3: in Australia for however many years from the student visa, 126 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 3: you get some points and then being like speaking English, 127 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 3: you get another point like just things that you got 128 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 3: the threshold, and then. 129 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 4: You could apply like if you had enough. 130 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 3: Points then apply, yeah, and then you go like I 131 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 3: went to like on a bridging one after that, and 132 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 3: then once you on the bridging kind of waiting for 133 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 3: them to make a decision, which is very nerve wracking 134 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 3: because you're like am I here? 135 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 4: Forever am I not? 136 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 3: And then once they're approved after Snamanta time, you go 137 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 3: on what they call like a you can apply for 138 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 3: permanent residency. 139 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 4: And once you. 140 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 3: Apply for that, which is a whole another set of regulations, 141 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 3: then you apply for you could then apply for citizenship, 142 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:40,319 Speaker 3: which is then what I did, and then here we are, 143 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:44,440 Speaker 3: so a whole lot of steps you get to where 144 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:47,960 Speaker 3: and then you become Australian and then you completely forget 145 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:49,559 Speaker 3: about the whole hassle of everything. 146 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 2: You Yeah, but it was. 147 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 3: I mean I sounded so cavalier talking about it, but 148 00:08:55,840 --> 00:09:00,079 Speaker 3: it was actually hard labor, hard labor, a lot of 149 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 3: hard work, a lot of putting money away, a lot 150 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 3: of paying for things, like even they make it do 151 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 3: an English islets test files whatever they call it test 152 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 3: and then it's like. 153 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,560 Speaker 4: You know you speak good English, you know you write 154 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 4: good English. You know you approve, like you still got 155 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 4: to prove it, you still got to do it. You know, 156 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 4: you do medical exams. 157 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:23,079 Speaker 3: You pay like four five hundred dollars for a doctor 158 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 3: and only does is like check your blood pressure or something. 159 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 4: It's an approved visa plus a doctor. 160 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 3: You know, it's like a lot of just every step 161 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 3: of the way, all their expenses and the waiting times, 162 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 3: and it's like you live your life in limbo until 163 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 3: your visa comes out, and then a limbo again because 164 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 3: I think you're already thinking of the next one when 165 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 3: you're on the one you ready just got. 166 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 2: Absolutely it never end. There's never really truly like a 167 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 2: coast insane, insane. 168 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 3: And a lot of a lot of friends left because 169 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 3: the process was just too complicated and hard. A lot 170 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 3: of people gave up. They just thought, you know what, 171 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 3: better I be home, which I completely. 172 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 4: Understand as well. It's not for everyone. 173 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 3: It's a lot of sacrifices that I made, Like I 174 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 3: personally missed out on my brother's wedding, my oldest brother's 175 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 3: biddy because at that time, when you handed in your application, 176 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:15,440 Speaker 3: you weren't allowed to travel. You just said to Australia, 177 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 3: I love your candidy, I want to stay. 178 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 4: So they're like, well where you want to go? 179 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 2: Boom you past? 180 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 4: Your visa is being processed. You couldn't travel. 181 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:27,839 Speaker 3: So it's heartbreaking because then you're like, you know, but 182 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 3: then at the same time, what do you do? 183 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 2: That's true? 184 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 4: I mean, what about you? How was your journey? 185 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 2: My journey is to the too public rights because you know, 186 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:39,320 Speaker 2: I studied in South Africa. 187 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 3: Just like you said, similarly, you thought about which other 188 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 3: places to go or yes. 189 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:48,839 Speaker 2: I did, and then it was like, well you're doing 190 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:52,679 Speaker 2: you know South Africa. My sister was there. So I 191 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 2: studied in essay student visa and you have to renew 192 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:57,839 Speaker 2: your student visa. I think was every two years at 193 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:03,320 Speaker 2: the time I was studying, and then my visa was 194 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 2: tied to my studies, and when my time was up, 195 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 2: then I looked, I went back home, looked for a job, 196 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 2: got a job, and then you obviously have to get 197 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 2: the work visa and all that and does a long 198 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:20,559 Speaker 2: process paying for people to like for legal support through 199 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 2: through that process. Similarly, South Africa has a lot of 200 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 2: restrictions on which jobs are like skilled, highly high on demand, 201 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 2: and my profession was not deemed as like in demand 202 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 2: at the time, so it made things even harder. And 203 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 2: typically what you should be able to do after five 204 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 2: years is apply for residency. But the at the time 205 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 2: when it was time to apply for residency for me, 206 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:58,440 Speaker 2: the restrictions got more restrictive in South Africa, more complicated, 207 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:02,199 Speaker 2: and also companies were not as willing to like be like, okay, 208 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 2: we want this person because their implications for companies if 209 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 2: they choose a non South African. 210 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:10,439 Speaker 4: So yeah, that's the whole similar. 211 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:14,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, basic breakdown. And then so then I moved back 212 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 2: home trying to decide where I'd go next, and then 213 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 2: the opportunity to come teach here came up, and somebody 214 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 2: was willing to you know, vouch for me, offer the job, 215 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 2: go through the you know the same thing, the hoops, 216 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 2: the all that for me, the many hoops, the many hoops, 217 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 2: and the that process was like long and tedious. Like 218 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:39,440 Speaker 2: you know, red tape in the application process is just 219 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:43,319 Speaker 2: the real thing. And so you know, I had to 220 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 2: go to Zambia to do my applications because there's no 221 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 2: longer a country look for the Czech republican ZIM and 222 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 2: even though I had worked in South Africa, I had 223 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 2: been home, so they're like Zambia Services Zimbabwe go through. Yeah, 224 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 2: it's just it's a long process. I won't bore you. 225 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:07,680 Speaker 2: And then came here and they give you two year visa. 226 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 2: After two years up or up, you apply for a 227 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:14,719 Speaker 2: new visa also tied to your work. It's like a 228 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 2: visa work visa. And that's a summary. I'm really just 229 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 2: breaking it down in the simplest form because you have 230 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 2: to because we all know, like TVs, you have to 231 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 2: set money aside. You need you know, that legal support 232 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 2: even more so like here because I don't speak the language, 233 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 2: and that it's time consuming. So to be like your employee, Yeah, 234 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 2: I'm going away for you know, I need to do this. 235 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:43,560 Speaker 2: It's just not feasible. So yeah, there's all that. It's 236 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 2: it's it's it's a journey. Let me put it that way. 237 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:48,080 Speaker 2: There's it doesn't stop. 238 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:58,319 Speaker 4: Did you have to get your stuff translated room because obviously. 239 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 2: Yes, you have to translate and it needs to be 240 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 2: like verified or they like, yeah, it has to be 241 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:06,320 Speaker 2: officially like and that's all your cvs, your applications, all 242 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 2: that kind of thing has to be done. And even 243 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 2: when you went when I went to the conculate, there 244 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 2: was like one or two documents that they required that 245 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:18,079 Speaker 2: I had on hand that were not I think it 246 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 2: was even like a paragraph or something, and they had 247 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 2: to translate and you pay on top of that and 248 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 2: and and so yeah, it was it was all. I 249 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 2: think that would be the challenge with a country that 250 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 2: is that's not English speaking. 251 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 4: That's the first language. Yeah. 252 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 3: I mean for me, it was so weird to like 253 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 3: sit down for a citizenship test allegiance to. 254 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 4: A new country. 255 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 3: And any of you listeners listening in, you've had to 256 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 3: do that. Can you relate like singing a national anthem 257 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 3: from another country and like you know, handover heart, you know, 258 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 3: from now Australia and like it's weird, right because it's 259 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 3: like a lot of times you do these things for access, 260 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 3: you don't necessarily do it. I'm not pledged, Like please, 261 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 3: if there's any like officers listening in, I do pledge 262 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 3: my leigiers. I am Australian, Please don't refoc my citizenship. 263 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 3: But hey, yeah, you might not always mean it. 264 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 4: You might not always mean yeah. 265 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 3: You know, it's just one of those things you just 266 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 3: have to go through and then that decision. Like I 267 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 3: have quite a few friends who stayed on the permanent 268 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 3: residency for a long time because it couldn't make that jump, right, 269 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 3: And Zimbabwe is similarly South African probably similarly. 270 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 2: Have dual citizenship. 271 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, there's a lot of different Actually Zim changes. 272 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 3: Yes, you can sometimes it depends on the custom officer 273 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:46,320 Speaker 3: who stay in land. 274 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 4: So it's like, and. 275 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 3: That's what I was about it game into like it's 276 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 3: just so different and each country is different. My husband's 277 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 3: German and he's on a permanent residency. He's not even 278 00:15:55,920 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 3: Australian because he's like it's a whole thing to go 279 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 3: through to revoke your German citizenship. He pretty much that 280 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 3: he might have to then abdicate being German, which he 281 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 3: doesn't want to do because it's actually on a German 282 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 3: passport to get to travel to more countries for free. 283 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 3: That my husband has looked this up. But like this 284 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 3: is how a passport becomes like a token that you 285 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 3: can use for further like just for further avenues to 286 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 3: open food. No, you might not pledge allegiance to this 287 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 3: place that you have a passport for, but you know 288 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 3: the doors it will open forth unfairly, but that's the 289 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 3: way our world works. 290 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 2: Yes, definitely, definitely, And I think you know one of 291 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 2: the things too, in terms of the challenges you face, 292 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 2: like living in the diasporas, Like for instance, when I 293 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 2: moved traveling here at the airport, I mean aside from 294 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 2: the visa process back and forth, all that I remember 295 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 2: having to raise the money for me to get here 296 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 2: and to to live here, and shout out to all 297 00:17:10,359 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 2: the listeners who helped me with my it was it 298 00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 2: wasn't go fund but it's like a gofund What what's 299 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 2: the word for those things? What do you call that? Crowdfunding? 300 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 4: Crowdfunding the word? 301 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:24,920 Speaker 2: But like who supported me? Because I wouldn't have been 302 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:26,800 Speaker 2: here without you because you know, you need to be 303 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:30,600 Speaker 2: able to sustain yourself and prove that you can before 304 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:34,479 Speaker 2: coming thankfully with the work visa because they know I'm 305 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 2: going to work. They know then obviously I'll get paid, 306 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:36,920 Speaker 2: but you know. 307 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 4: To get the initial costs costs. 308 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 2: And then when I was traveling here, I remember in 309 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:48,720 Speaker 2: South Africa because I bussed from Zim to Essay. This 310 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 2: was pre COVID and that was a whole other situation. 311 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 2: And in South Africa, when I was boarding the plane 312 00:17:58,320 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 2: or waiting to board, they come and check your passport 313 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 2: to check your visas. They saw mine was the Zimbabwe 314 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 2: and visa and it was showing that I had it 315 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 2: was an entry visas for work access in the Czech Republic. 316 00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 2: Didn't believe me. I have to take your passport. I 317 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:17,120 Speaker 2: have to, you know, verify something. And she just took 318 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:19,400 Speaker 2: it and a It's like you don't just take someone's passport. 319 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:22,239 Speaker 2: You need to be like come with me or you know, 320 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 2: like so she took it and she that looked down 321 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:27,679 Speaker 2: like who are you and how are you getting to? 322 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:31,479 Speaker 2: Where are you and live and work here? I remember 323 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 2: the stank eys I got. I flew through Dubai same situation. 324 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:37,160 Speaker 2: I remember I was like a close to the front 325 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:40,639 Speaker 2: of the line for boarding, and this man was like, ma'am, 326 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:42,680 Speaker 2: you're gonna have to wait and sit down. We need 327 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 2: to verify something on your passport. And I was just 328 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 2: like looking like a criminal, you know. And then they 329 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 2: had to do their checks and I think the consulate 330 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 2: had printed like it was a bit faded, so I think, yes, 331 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 2: so now it looked like I don't know, I got 332 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:04,399 Speaker 2: some somebody to make photo copy photo copy it. So 333 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 2: then they had sorry, man, you're gonna have to sit. 334 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 2: And they don't do discreet e like of course not. 335 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:12,199 Speaker 2: They embarrassed you, like you need to sit down, and 336 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 2: I remember I sat down. I was like, oh my goodness. 337 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:17,720 Speaker 2: And then they checked something. Then after everybody else had boarded, 338 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 2: they come back like, sorry, man, okay, so you're good 339 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:22,960 Speaker 2: to go, apologize for making you wait. I was like, 340 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:24,640 Speaker 2: I wish you could say that in front of everybody 341 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 2: who now thinks I'm some day and. 342 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:29,879 Speaker 3: Now when you're last on the plane, everybody exactly. 343 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 2: So there's that, and of course, you know, certain things 344 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 2: you have to give up, you know, like you know, 345 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 2: you're still trying to establish yourself you don't have the 346 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:46,240 Speaker 2: backing of like money from parents, so you know, missing friends. 347 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:50,439 Speaker 2: I missed friends' weddings back home. I haven't seen my 348 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:56,080 Speaker 2: family in two odd years now because then COVID came. 349 00:19:56,800 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 2: Because you're saving and all that, so building your life 350 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 2: up front on the ground up, because you're dependent on 351 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:04,480 Speaker 2: only you, Like, what are some of the things like 352 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 2: people don't really say when it comes to being in 353 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:11,879 Speaker 2: the diaspora and starting a life for you that or 354 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 2: that whole notion of they expect you to when you 355 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:17,240 Speaker 2: land home you up all this money, but the backstory 356 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:19,080 Speaker 2: of what it takes to actually live. 357 00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's crazy because even like you just talked 358 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 3: about your passport, sorry, your visa fading, My passport was fading, 359 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:32,399 Speaker 3: which is even worse because they were like, I remember 360 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:34,760 Speaker 3: the first time I went to Zoom Start and eight. 361 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 4: They were like, going out was fine. Australia. I don't 362 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:42,160 Speaker 4: care if you're leaving the like, oh, wherever you need 363 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 4: to be going. 364 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:46,680 Speaker 3: But when you're coming back, when you're coming back into 365 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:51,400 Speaker 3: that country, your you're nothing beats And I've traveled a lot. 366 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 3: Nothing beats Australian customs that Australian you don't play. They 367 00:20:57,960 --> 00:20:58,400 Speaker 3: don't play. 368 00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 4: They will open up your weig and investigate inside if. 369 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 3: They need to, Like they don't care, they wouldn't ravel it. 370 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:08,920 Speaker 2: They would look. 371 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:10,960 Speaker 3: At the bottom of your shoe, like to see if 372 00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:13,880 Speaker 3: there's like mad or like it can't be bad, it 373 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 3: can be really bad. So anyway, when I was coming 374 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:20,119 Speaker 3: back my first time I went home, coming back, you know, 375 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 3: really I have been home coming back, feeling refreshed. And 376 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:27,679 Speaker 3: then they're looking at my passport. They're like, this is 377 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:31,240 Speaker 3: not you. Did you get a noose job? Did you 378 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 3: do this? 379 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 4: Did you like all these passions? 380 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 2: Why? 381 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,320 Speaker 3: And I can see what they meant, like somehow it 382 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 3: looked like my passport photo. This wasn't as defined anymore. 383 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:44,920 Speaker 3: It looked like it had been like put under light 384 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 3: or whatever my phone lighter and lighter and lighter. So 385 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:53,200 Speaker 3: like to be honest in like, when I started applying 386 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:55,879 Speaker 3: for permanent residency and stuff, I actually stopped traveling for 387 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 3: a bit because I just I just didn't want the 388 00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:02,359 Speaker 3: hassle of like having to explain because I knew, like 389 00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:04,880 Speaker 3: I would have to go to airport's way before everyone 390 00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:07,119 Speaker 3: else is. I knew my passport was an issue at 391 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:09,160 Speaker 3: the same time, I knew I couldn't just I even 392 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:12,199 Speaker 3: thought of just saying to ZIM people my passport got 393 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 3: stolen and getting a new one. But at that time, 394 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 3: it was like two thousand and eight, thousand and nine, 395 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:17,720 Speaker 3: when things were tough. 396 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 4: Before that we introduced the Australians. 397 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 3: And the US dollars dollar, so like things were not 398 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:27,160 Speaker 3: on the shelves. 399 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 4: There was like there was just people were barely survive. 400 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:32,640 Speaker 2: Other priorities at that point people did yeah. 401 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:34,719 Speaker 3: So I was just like, Okay, I just will have 402 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:35,960 Speaker 3: to just put up with this, and I did a 403 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 3: lot of local travel, domestic travel because I was like, well, 404 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:45,119 Speaker 3: I'm definitely not leaving until like my passport's been swapped. Yeah, 405 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:50,879 Speaker 3: But like it's just there's so many nuances to another 406 00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 3: country that people don't give people who move credit for 407 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 3: unless you're doing a soft landing and someone's waiting there 408 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 3: with big hugs and set up everything for you. 409 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:05,840 Speaker 4: It really is the most loneliest time you can have. 410 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 3: Like I landed, I even to get a work visa 411 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,960 Speaker 3: there and said the student visa you're on, you have 412 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 3: to pay extra then to get the work conditions put 413 00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 3: on there. I haven't said that, and then back in 414 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:19,680 Speaker 3: those days you had to pay using a credit card. 415 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 4: And back in those days you couldn't just get a 416 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:22,399 Speaker 4: credit card. 417 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 2: Of course or that card. 418 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,639 Speaker 3: So like, you know, here I am begging, like my 419 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:30,360 Speaker 3: Canadian friend who she also wanted to work, and her 420 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,040 Speaker 3: parents were gonna pay we using their card credit card, 421 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:35,119 Speaker 3: so I had to give her like she did, the 422 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:38,240 Speaker 3: transduction form her and for myself and then I paid. 423 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:41,400 Speaker 4: I paid my bit to her and OZ dollars. 424 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 3: But it's like that that hustle, right, that thinking outside. 425 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 4: The yes, yes, that oh yeah, and then you're trying 426 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 4: to like not make yourself look like the poor little African. 427 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 3: So it's like you're you're like balancing all these things, 428 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:57,120 Speaker 3: you know, trying to be clever about things. But at 429 00:23:57,119 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 3: the same time, you learning as you go, say, bound 430 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:05,560 Speaker 3: to make financial mistakes, You're bound to make adamin mistakes. 431 00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 3: You have done this stuff before, right, and you expects 432 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:11,000 Speaker 3: you to just know, you know, finding a place to live, 433 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 3: finding good house, finding grocery shopping, like getting you know, 434 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:18,119 Speaker 3: when people steal from you. 435 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 4: I dealing with that, like it's just if I didn't 436 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:25,240 Speaker 4: tell you. It's like adulting on steroids. 437 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 2: You hits you in the face. It's really like you're 438 00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:32,879 Speaker 2: the first year of mebe because in Essay, when I 439 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 2: moved to Essay, I had my sister at least, so 440 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 2: I had that like support, you know, even though like 441 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:40,560 Speaker 2: I was fumbling to discover myself and work. I had 442 00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:44,560 Speaker 2: my sister, family, friends, you know, through university and all that. 443 00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:50,400 Speaker 2: Moving here to a country where I knew nobody here 444 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:55,160 Speaker 2: and a place where I knew nobody. Language is different, 445 00:24:56,320 --> 00:25:03,640 Speaker 2: systems are different. Like it was the most isolating, as 446 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 2: you said, lonely experience ever. I was constantly anxious, constantly 447 00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:12,399 Speaker 2: stressed because you try to make sure you drop all 448 00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 2: your eyes and cross all your te's like you literally 449 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:18,959 Speaker 2: have you know, and trying to figure it out. But 450 00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:21,320 Speaker 2: somehow I don't know how you do it. I think 451 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 2: it's just like you know, single swim buddy, like you 452 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 2: need to get on with it, you know. And I 453 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:30,160 Speaker 2: remember having we had countless conversations and you would say 454 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:34,280 Speaker 2: to me, Amanda, like it's just the journey. It's going 455 00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 2: to be okay, It's just the journey. And at that point, 456 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 2: you know, I'm so grateful that travel in Europe is 457 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 2: so affordable because I had friends come to see me. 458 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:48,840 Speaker 2: I was able to see them, I was able to 459 00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:52,440 Speaker 2: go to Germany, which is next door Hamburg, for Amanda's 460 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:56,399 Speaker 2: engagement party, and then my sister came to visit. And 461 00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 2: I think those are the things that sustained me at 462 00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 2: the time twenty nineteen because it is wildly you cannot 463 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 2: explain it, and there's just so many variables to that. 464 00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 2: So we've obviously like talked a lot about like the struggle, 465 00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,879 Speaker 2: the hustle, and feel free to ask us questions, you know, 466 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,720 Speaker 2: in you know, in our DMS and comments. We could 467 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:21,439 Speaker 2: go on, but all to say, there's a kind of 468 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,680 Speaker 2: knowing when you're in the diaspora to someone else who's 469 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,879 Speaker 2: in the dashper you just know, it's like an understanding 470 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 2: like I know what you've been, Yeah, you know what 471 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:35,160 Speaker 2: the cost the hoops you've had to jump to get 472 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:38,440 Speaker 2: where you are. So that's why, you know, mad respect 473 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:42,720 Speaker 2: for everyone who's done it, who's doing it, But what 474 00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:44,600 Speaker 2: are some of the advantages. I feel like we don't 475 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:49,159 Speaker 2: want it to sound like hey, I know, but like 476 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,560 Speaker 2: why do people do this and what other advantages that 477 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:55,239 Speaker 2: then come with it that people stick it out and 478 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 2: push through? 479 00:26:57,359 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 3: Well, it's kind of like in terms of advantages, you 480 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:03,959 Speaker 3: kind of have to make it as you wanted to 481 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 3: be because there's no there's no real going back when 482 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:11,879 Speaker 3: it comes to zim As you said in a previous episode, 483 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:16,320 Speaker 3: there's like ninety nine plus percent unemployment, So it's not 484 00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:18,159 Speaker 3: like you're going to go back and just you know, 485 00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 3: and a lot of us are doing degrees and fields 486 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,879 Speaker 3: that might not even exist now fully in them yet. 487 00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 4: Like for example, I did forensic toxicology. 488 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:31,360 Speaker 3: Unless I want to know they I don't know if 489 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:37,240 Speaker 3: therapy is hiring, but if they are. 490 00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:40,720 Speaker 4: So I don't know if I'll be doing forensics and zimah. 491 00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 4: But like, it's just that whole notion of the freedom 492 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 4: it affords you, right to choose which career path you 493 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 4: want to do, what you want to do with your life, 494 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 4: on hobbies you like to do. 495 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,719 Speaker 3: You know, you can fully realize who you are and 496 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 3: through all those challenges we just talked about highlighted, you 497 00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,720 Speaker 3: get to know yourself quick fast no other way, and 498 00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 3: you know who is really truly riding and dying for 499 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 3: you because they will have to They will have to 500 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:11,159 Speaker 3: also help you. Can your friends come to the forefront. 501 00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:15,000 Speaker 2: Can I just say, it shows you who's who in 502 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:19,520 Speaker 2: your life, like if I have how that experience because 503 00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 2: when people say when things are good, it's easy to 504 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:28,680 Speaker 2: have friends, they don't. They don't lie like they know life. 505 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,199 Speaker 2: But when things are tough, and you know, I was fortunate, 506 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 2: as I was saying, with the crowd funding, the love 507 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 2: and support I got was like really something amazing. And 508 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:43,200 Speaker 2: then the adjustment process too, shows you who's really there 509 00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 2: for you, because yeah, it gets quiet, let me put 510 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:46,400 Speaker 2: it back. 511 00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, completely completely understand. And even here like 512 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 3: even though we're all on the same trajectory or trying 513 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 3: to get the visa or whatever, people can also fall 514 00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:01,479 Speaker 3: make you all by the wayside, you know, maybe not 515 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 3: going to be good advice, maybe not like they have 516 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 3: come before, you've done it before. Maybe quite moum like 517 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:11,640 Speaker 3: there's something super odd about Zimbabweans and sharing visa info 518 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 3: or like sometimes we'll ask you straight up what vis 519 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,719 Speaker 3: are you on and you're like, I meet you, I 520 00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:21,120 Speaker 3: kind of just meet you, so you Yeah, it's a 521 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:25,600 Speaker 3: weird thing where it's like something we've made into the secretive. 522 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,000 Speaker 4: This people who've sought political asylum. 523 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:32,840 Speaker 3: There's those kind of visinas as well where Yeah, I'm Zimbabwean, 524 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 3: but if I go back home, I'll be in trouble. 525 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 4: So you know, I'm staying in your country forever. 526 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 3: So then it's also hard because you're balancing you people 527 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,840 Speaker 3: don't know people land. Yeah, so you want to ask 528 00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:45,400 Speaker 3: too many inquisitive questions. 529 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:47,640 Speaker 4: It's almost like you here. I mean, I've got friends. 530 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,280 Speaker 3: Who got deported, so obviously they had done something wrong 531 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 3: along the process, and what they had overstayed, they welcome. 532 00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:57,440 Speaker 3: Some people deferred their UNI, like they didn't actually want 533 00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:00,520 Speaker 3: to finish their UNI or maybe four year old they 534 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 3: wanted to work to make the money to then. 535 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:04,720 Speaker 2: Go finish you need. 536 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:09,560 Speaker 3: So it's like you start to all talk about it 537 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 3: less and less because people's situations can be so varied. 538 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,800 Speaker 4: Some people get visas, you know, through marriages. 539 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:21,320 Speaker 3: That's also a thing you find out and then your 540 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 3: partner helps you, you know, so and then the judgment 541 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:29,040 Speaker 3: that comes with that, like oh, you're just with them 542 00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 3: for love or for money for love. Semple have kids, 543 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 3: you know in these countries, and then when they're pregnant, 544 00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 3: hey you gotta stay, you know. So it just becomes 545 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 3: and there's like I feel like it should just be 546 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 3: no judgment zone. People are doing what they can five 547 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 3: to gain that independence, which is a huge advantage to 548 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:53,440 Speaker 3: stand on your own. 549 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:58,680 Speaker 4: To see your own little thing. So yeah, it's. 550 00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 2: Very late, and I think, you know, one of the 551 00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,840 Speaker 2: things that like someone can ask, and I remember I 552 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:07,280 Speaker 2: had these conversations with myself too, is like why would 553 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,600 Speaker 2: you start afresh? Because anyone who knows starting afresh, it's 554 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 2: started from the bottom, Like you're starting from the bottom 555 00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,320 Speaker 2: and building and you're no but nobody in this world 556 00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:21,440 Speaker 2: I'm in, I like starting afresh in all aspects. And 557 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:25,400 Speaker 2: I remember having this conversation with myself like why would 558 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,360 Speaker 2: you want to put yourself you know, you know, even 559 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:31,440 Speaker 2: further behind your peers because we all think about these 560 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 2: things right like where am I? How how am I? 561 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 2: And especially now in our society and community, that was 562 00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:40,400 Speaker 2: a big thing, just like oh just do this. So 563 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:41,760 Speaker 2: and so is doing this, You should do this, you 564 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:44,760 Speaker 2: should why just stay here? Do this? You know? And 565 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,760 Speaker 2: and for me to actively choose to move against the 566 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:52,200 Speaker 2: grain and come start afresh in a field that, to 567 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:55,479 Speaker 2: be honest, like where I come from, it was like 568 00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 2: why would you go and do that? Right? It took 569 00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,840 Speaker 2: a lot, But I think for me, the independence was 570 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:06,120 Speaker 2: a huge thing and I needed space to be and 571 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 2: think and be myself. And I think that's meant more 572 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 2: for me than anything else, you know, and it explains 573 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 2: why I chose and I still choose to It's because 574 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:24,160 Speaker 2: I needed that. I needed to understand myself and know 575 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:27,719 Speaker 2: what I wanted for myself. And so would I do 576 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,240 Speaker 2: it again, one hundred percent. I would do it all 577 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:33,440 Speaker 2: over again because I knew what it meant for me. 578 00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 2: Aside from, you know, the physical and tangible reasons we 579 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 2: speak of, you know, economically and all that, it's also 580 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 2: just like what it is for me. 581 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 3: And kudos to you and being like, really much kudos 582 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,920 Speaker 3: to you starting again, especially when you had kind of 583 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:57,080 Speaker 3: really started in essays. Then it's like you're starting. It's like, oh, oh, 584 00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:01,280 Speaker 3: i'd start again as if I'm nineteen twenty whatever. You know, 585 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:04,880 Speaker 3: So you still took their chance for yourself, and that's 586 00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 3: something I think a lot of people who do decide 587 00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 3: to stay at home or who go back home. 588 00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:11,120 Speaker 4: Kind of. 589 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:15,960 Speaker 3: Kind of forget how tough it can be and they 590 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 3: just think living this grand life. 591 00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 4: Yes, of course, we're so grateful. 592 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:24,040 Speaker 3: There's like electricity, there's water, there's there's the basic necessities, 593 00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 3: of course, but it can be psychologically and emotionally it 594 00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:30,240 Speaker 3: can be. 595 00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:32,040 Speaker 4: Very very taxing. 596 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:32,400 Speaker 2: You know. 597 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,400 Speaker 3: I even speak to people who've got kids outside of 598 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 3: zin and the Zimbabwean and they're like, I always imagine, 599 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 3: like the way I grew up and how different it 600 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:44,320 Speaker 3: is now when I'm raising my own child, you. 601 00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:45,360 Speaker 4: Know, because it's very lonely. 602 00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:45,840 Speaker 2: You know. 603 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:47,920 Speaker 4: My dad always last, He's like, ah, life and that 604 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:49,440 Speaker 4: sport I d I y. 605 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:51,760 Speaker 2: Yourself as it is. 606 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:56,920 Speaker 3: It is d You put your own fuel in, you 607 00:33:57,080 --> 00:34:00,200 Speaker 3: clean your own damn house, you do your own laundry. 608 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:03,040 Speaker 3: Nobody be helping you, And yes, of course you can. 609 00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:06,880 Speaker 3: Maybe you're speaking from a privileged space because but nah, 610 00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 3: in Zim, even if you live in wherever you live, 611 00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:11,880 Speaker 3: you've got someone helping you, whether it's a relative or 612 00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:15,560 Speaker 3: a paid helper, there's always someone to blend their hand 613 00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 3: or if you're struggling, so such and such. 614 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, so like yeah. 615 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:24,960 Speaker 3: It's like literally my next door neighbor could be suffering 616 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 3: or unemployed and I would have no idea. 617 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:29,879 Speaker 4: Rest in Zim there's that community. 618 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 3: You ll band together, you will, and it has its 619 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,360 Speaker 3: drawbacks of course, as we've talked about in the family episode, 620 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:38,759 Speaker 3: the Boomtu and everything, But at the when it comes 621 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,160 Speaker 3: to living in direspora, it's very solitary. 622 00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:42,320 Speaker 4: If you don't make good. 623 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:44,920 Speaker 3: Friends and make them quick, or if you don't have 624 00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 3: family already living with you, it's you pretty much can 625 00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,080 Speaker 3: be like close to suicidal. 626 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:53,000 Speaker 4: Because it's that deep. 627 00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:56,160 Speaker 3: Like a lot of people have lots of mental issues 628 00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:58,960 Speaker 3: when they leave, because first of all, in most of 629 00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,560 Speaker 3: these countries, you don't long you're not the right color, 630 00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:04,760 Speaker 3: not the right class, you're not the right whatever it is, 631 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:09,600 Speaker 3: your other And then to space that every single day 632 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:17,360 Speaker 3: and not have a space to breathe, Oh gosh. 633 00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:19,560 Speaker 2: It's a lot, And honestly it's And then then COVID 634 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 2: hey Comet it was like, so it's a lot of 635 00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:31,319 Speaker 2: panoramic life about this panasmic. I heard Penasania. 636 00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:39,160 Speaker 4: I'm loving all these different parallelo grounds. Thieves are all 637 00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:43,760 Speaker 4: too good, too good. This pandemic has been something something else. 638 00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 2: So no, honestly, it's one of those things you you 639 00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:50,640 Speaker 2: it builds a resilience in you, and yeah, I mean 640 00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:54,439 Speaker 2: it's and for me, I've been asked, people have reached 641 00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:56,319 Speaker 2: out to me, how do I do this? How do 642 00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:59,880 Speaker 2: I like the process? Like you know, you know, And 643 00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:01,799 Speaker 2: I've spoken to a number of people because I'm really 644 00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:05,440 Speaker 2: of the mindset I should share because man to go 645 00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:08,640 Speaker 2: through to navigate alone is so hard. And what I 646 00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:13,880 Speaker 2: can say about the process of relocating is you really 647 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 2: need to want it, Like you can't be like, oh, 648 00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:22,319 Speaker 2: it's too difficult or oh, like you know, Amanda will know. 649 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:26,279 Speaker 2: Like I was chicken bussing from zim to Zambia has 650 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,520 Speaker 2: something like doing the like all sorts of I had 651 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:30,920 Speaker 2: to go to essay I had, Like you're jumping all 652 00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:34,600 Speaker 2: these hoops. You need to put your ego aside and 653 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:37,279 Speaker 2: really just like I want it or not, Like that's 654 00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:42,640 Speaker 2: bottom line and you have to be, you know, someone 655 00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:46,960 Speaker 2: really cooperative. Make it easy if it's a work visa, 656 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,800 Speaker 2: make it easy for your employer as easy as possible. 657 00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,360 Speaker 2: Like there's so many things you have to just really 658 00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:55,760 Speaker 2: kick on your shoulders and willing to do it because 659 00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,640 Speaker 2: it you know what, even. 660 00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:01,719 Speaker 3: The jobs, the casual as you have to do to supplement, 661 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 3: you know, like I throughout my unique career waitressing or cleaning, 662 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:10,200 Speaker 3: cleaning hotel roots. Because it's like and Zim people will 663 00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:13,040 Speaker 3: be like, what you're doing well, because obviously, as we 664 00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:16,400 Speaker 3: talked about in a previous episode about classism, there's certain 665 00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:19,040 Speaker 3: jobs that people don't expect you to do. People here 666 00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:23,440 Speaker 3: come and work in McDonald's, at Henry Jack's ubers. You know, 667 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,400 Speaker 3: because you're doing you know what you're doing it for. 668 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:31,160 Speaker 3: It's not forever. It's just a phase and it will 669 00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 3: get you through. And I think there's a lot of 670 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:38,680 Speaker 3: humility when you move as well, because in Zim depending 671 00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:42,280 Speaker 3: for most people, you're afforded a certain type of lifestyle, yes, 672 00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,719 Speaker 3: and you get used to certain things. We're just talking 673 00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:49,000 Speaker 3: about mazing godness, and you know, and then when you 674 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,400 Speaker 3: come here, you're like, oh, yeah, it is everything is you. 675 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:52,520 Speaker 4: It's on your shoulder. 676 00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:54,960 Speaker 2: Even packing your fruit, like I don't know what it's like. 677 00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:59,480 Speaker 2: You have to weigh and pack your fruit like anybody 678 00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:04,840 Speaker 2: saying pepey, nobody there to wait for you. Your like 679 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,319 Speaker 2: things like that. Like I think people don't realize it's 680 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:11,040 Speaker 2: so di I y to the to the putting fuel. 681 00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:14,680 Speaker 4: In your car. You like, I'm standing there. Yeah, So 682 00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:16,880 Speaker 4: I remember the first time I was like, how do 683 00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:17,680 Speaker 4: you even do this? 684 00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:18,759 Speaker 2: Yeah? 685 00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 4: You pull up and you're like this offel. 686 00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:29,080 Speaker 5: Yes, exactly, exactly feel my car, you know, but also 687 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 5: say you need to know for yourself what you want 688 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:35,719 Speaker 5: and if you're willing to go all the way and 689 00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:37,520 Speaker 5: the process, and you know, it's it's. 690 00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:40,839 Speaker 2: Getting more complex as time goes, as we know, it's 691 00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:42,840 Speaker 2: not as easy. 692 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:46,000 Speaker 4: But yeah, and the options you have at hand, like 693 00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:48,640 Speaker 4: can you move? What does that look like? 694 00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:52,200 Speaker 3: You know, some people can support in a space where 695 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:55,239 Speaker 3: they can and family will support, or they worked in 696 00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:58,680 Speaker 3: an industry that can relate to whatever is happening in 697 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,719 Speaker 3: Zim orherever they're from, and some people can't, and then 698 00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:04,600 Speaker 3: you have to kind of like find that happy medium media. 699 00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:07,600 Speaker 3: And I think only before COVID people went too worried 700 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:09,360 Speaker 3: because they knew at a drop of a hat they 701 00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:13,360 Speaker 3: could travel home, as you said before, But now COVID 702 00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:14,920 Speaker 3: but a lot of things at the forefront, and some 703 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:18,600 Speaker 3: people lost their jobs during COVID, So it was also like, 704 00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:25,040 Speaker 3: how do I support family and support myself? Yeah, that's 705 00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:31,720 Speaker 3: for us, not all I know that. It's yeah, yeah, not. 706 00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:34,000 Speaker 2: All brain bows and butterflies, that's for sure. 707 00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:36,480 Speaker 3: No, And that's why I think sometimes when you go home, 708 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:40,839 Speaker 3: we get turned because we're like thinking of all those 709 00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:43,320 Speaker 3: other times you go to the salon and they can't 710 00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:46,839 Speaker 3: do your hair, we have your own hair, or we're 711 00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 3: thinking of all those times when you know, things like 712 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:52,360 Speaker 3: fruit for example, you know, fruits and sea. 713 00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:56,080 Speaker 4: Fash you know. 714 00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:59,719 Speaker 3: So it's like you have to just when we get home, 715 00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:03,000 Speaker 3: go home. And if you see from Desport being super 716 00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:07,600 Speaker 3: happy and super a lot of it is kathatic. They 717 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,080 Speaker 3: just have that two weeks that they've been looking forward 718 00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:12,399 Speaker 3: to for years. Yes, you know, you never know. 719 00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:16,360 Speaker 4: That's just their time to. 720 00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:21,399 Speaker 2: Feel you to feel normal. Yeah, all right, well thank 721 00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:24,640 Speaker 2: you and I hope you know you garnered something from it. 722 00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 2: I mean, we could have been talking absolutely rubbish, but 723 00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:30,440 Speaker 2: you know, it is what it is, take it or 724 00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:35,920 Speaker 2: leave it, right, But our zoom shout out today before 725 00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:40,400 Speaker 2: we go, it's Chrissy Zemura and Amanda. Could you share 726 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:42,839 Speaker 2: a little bit more about what she's doing and why 727 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:45,959 Speaker 2: we are shouting her out on our platform and yeah, 728 00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:47,640 Speaker 2: please take us away. 729 00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:49,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, funny, I just brought up here as one of 730 00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:55,920 Speaker 3: the last things. But Chrissy is a hairstylist based in Sydney. 731 00:40:57,000 --> 00:41:01,400 Speaker 3: She came to my attention because she during the Black 732 00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:06,319 Speaker 3: Lives Matter movement last year, she started a petition that 733 00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:09,759 Speaker 3: actually brought to the forefront this whole notion of how 734 00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:14,960 Speaker 3: you can be a certified, fully trained hairstylist within Australia 735 00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,520 Speaker 3: and not know how to do certain people's hair, Like 736 00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:20,839 Speaker 3: how can you actually stand up there and say I 737 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,360 Speaker 3: can do hair, but you know there's a whole subset 738 00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:24,440 Speaker 3: of people you can't do. 739 00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,719 Speaker 4: So she was petitioning for. 740 00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:32,759 Speaker 3: All these Australian institutions that teach people how to become 741 00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:37,040 Speaker 3: hair stylists to include how to do hair for black people, 742 00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:41,279 Speaker 3: so Afro hair snaps because it bore a lot of 743 00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:44,200 Speaker 3: conversation to the forefront. You know, even when you do 744 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,000 Speaker 3: enter a black salon, are those girls trained? 745 00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:51,279 Speaker 4: You know? When they're hair? Was that a mistake or 746 00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 4: do they just you know. 747 00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,080 Speaker 3: So it's like all these questions became came up to 748 00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:58,040 Speaker 3: the forefront, you know, not only for us within our 749 00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:01,480 Speaker 3: community and share are all So when these spaces we're 750 00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:05,360 Speaker 3: trying to occupy and these people you know who have salons, 751 00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,640 Speaker 3: is it actually a good idea to make sure that 752 00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:13,040 Speaker 3: everyone's fully trained. So shout out to her. Her instagram 753 00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:17,279 Speaker 3: is at Christy Zemura. That's c h RI I W 754 00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:19,480 Speaker 3: S y z E m U. 755 00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:22,359 Speaker 2: R A h A I R. 756 00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:26,239 Speaker 3: We'll obviously target in our episode as well, and you 757 00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:28,279 Speaker 3: should definitely take a look and if the petition is 758 00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:32,200 Speaker 3: to open, have a sign and let's push this forward 759 00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:35,680 Speaker 3: because you can only make active change at these kind 760 00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:37,000 Speaker 3: of levels for sure. 761 00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:40,440 Speaker 2: Thank you so much and thank you for listening as always. 762 00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:43,600 Speaker 2: Please let us know your thoughts. We're on Instagram at 763 00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:47,839 Speaker 2: its layered you can email us. It's Layered pod at 764 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:52,880 Speaker 2: gmail dot com. We'll put all the links down as well. Amanda, 765 00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:55,520 Speaker 2: it's always a pleasure doing this work, I know. 766 00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:57,520 Speaker 4: Thank you so much. 767 00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:59,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love me too, and we look forward to 768 00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:02,480 Speaker 2: seeing you in episode always. 769 00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:12,120 Speaker 3: Guys, like you know, careful low those alms, little girl, 770 00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:12,719 Speaker 3: use your