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Speaker 1: This is the Will and Woody PODCASTA hate Will and

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Speaker 1: what do you hope you having a great thurs Day? Woods?

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Speaker 1: Last week we got in touch with the woman who's

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Speaker 1: responsible for our favorite call ever on this show. A

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Speaker 1: woman called three Pooh Cassandra, who has a great story.

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Speaker 1: It's a funny nickname, but after seventeen years, she wants

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Speaker 1: to try and get rid of the nickname and find

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Speaker 1: out the truth as to why she got it. Someone says,

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Speaker 1: she did three poos.

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Speaker 2: You wanted me?

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Speaker 1: Did she get a bad nickname? You wanted me?

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Speaker 3: Think all a three pooh Cassie. You wanted me, think

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Speaker 3: all a three pooh Cassie.

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Speaker 4: You wanted me?

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Speaker 5: So I just said we are.

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Speaker 6: By seventeen years, she has been tarnished with the name

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Speaker 6: three poo Cassandra.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, what a sentence. Totally what a sentence. And

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Speaker 1: a couple of days ago, someone that never did it.

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Speaker 5: Now this is the point.

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Speaker 6: So she is claiming now that she never took three

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Speaker 6: poos in a day.

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Speaker 1: Now, this was not that she's never taken three poos

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Speaker 1: in a day. I think we've all been there after

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Speaker 1: a Barlei trip or whatnot? Sure she's saying she never

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Speaker 1: consistently did that, which is what got out. It was like,

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Speaker 1: how you know, how are you doing that every day?

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Speaker 6: Hence why you know the nickname absolutely quarter fire and

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Speaker 6: took off because you know, taking three peers of days extraordinary. Anyway,

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Speaker 6: her best friend Beck joined us on the show yesterday.

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Speaker 6: She confirmed that no, it wasn't Cass who was regularly

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Speaker 6: taking three poos, it was someone else, but she refused

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Speaker 6: to give us the name of the person who was

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Speaker 6: regularly taking three poos. But the exciting thing is we

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Speaker 6: do have a guy on the phone called Andrew. Now

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Speaker 6: he reached out to us because correct me if I'm wrong, Andrew.

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Speaker 6: But you think you were in the room when it

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Speaker 6: was first identified that there was someone who was taking

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Speaker 6: three poos a day.

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Speaker 4: Regularly, and gentlemen in the room.

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Speaker 6: Wow, So wow, Andrew, take us to the room when

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Speaker 6: you first heard that someone was regularly taking three perers

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Speaker 6: a day.

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Speaker 4: I was just sitting down in class, one of my

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Speaker 4: own business next to me talking about someone taking three

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Speaker 4: poods a day, and I couldn't believe my ears at

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Speaker 4: the time. Of course, of course, sixteen seventeen years old,

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Speaker 4: you hear something like that, that's the massive news. So

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Speaker 4: I just bested Vicky Beck to tell me who it was,

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Speaker 4: and she eventually told me that it was.

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Speaker 6: Cass So she yeah, so she said to you that

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Speaker 6: it was cass Yeah.

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Speaker 4: She told me the three tool is Cassandra. I think.

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Speaker 4: I went up to and I said, I can't believe

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Speaker 4: you take through three twos a day because and Cassandra

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Speaker 4: were best friend. So to be fair, she didn't tell

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Speaker 4: proud of the fact that she takes three foods a day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: But then from that point, you then started turning a

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Speaker 6: that she was three pero Cassandra. After this, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 6: I amazement obviously to tell few people.

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Speaker 4: So I went to the guys and said, crazy, you

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Speaker 4: told me Cara takes three through the day. Totally Well,

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Speaker 4: just shocked as me, Oh god, I believe that. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: don't help to many people. Some discussions about when she

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Speaker 4: would would take them breakfast for dinner, or would have

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Speaker 4: been one before school or throughout the school, or would

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Speaker 4: she mash them all out after school?

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Speaker 1: And was it was pretty good, Suffe, that is it's hot.

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Speaker 1: It's hot press at school a rumor like that.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I couldn't look at her. This is a number

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Speaker 6: So hence why Andrew in a position now where finally,

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Speaker 6: after seventeen years, she wants to drop the nickname. I'm

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Speaker 6: not sure if you know this, but we spoke to

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Speaker 6: Beck yesterday. Who's the Who's the person who told you

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Speaker 6: that Cass takes three pers a day? She admitted that

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Speaker 6: it's not, in fact Cass who takes three pers a day.

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Speaker 6: It was the person who Beck was talking to. Oh, yes,

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Speaker 6: this is the bit, right, I'm sure this is mind blow.

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Speaker 6: You can't wait to get on the phone to all

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Speaker 6: someone else was taking three foods a day. Can you

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Speaker 6: remember who Beck was talking to?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Now, so long ago, I can't remember.

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Speaker 1: You're joking.

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Speaker 5: Who would Beck sit next to?

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Speaker 6: Like, surely, who were Beck's close friends outside of Cass?

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Speaker 4: Oh, she had a few friends, But honestly, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I can't remember who was there. I just can't believe

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Speaker 4: it wasn't Cats. I feel like my whole life.

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Speaker 1: Who else in the class year eleven. You know the

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Speaker 1: teacher's name. You said the teacher's name, and to be

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Speaker 4: That's some pretty big accusations there.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be Yeah, of course you don't

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Speaker 1: want to hear somebody else's name with it mind the fun, Okay, Andrew,

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Speaker 1: leave it with us if you if any memory comes

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Speaker 1: to mind, if you just let just let the producers

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Speaker 1: and I hit us up on on the on Instagram

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Speaker 1: and we can do some digging behind the scenes. No, okay,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sure sorry to have to deliver you, you know

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Speaker 1: the blow that is, it's not Cassie who took three

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Speaker 1: pers a day. I mean, are you going to obviously

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Speaker 1: you well.

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Speaker 4: I was missing, but yeah, sure I played my past. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I apologize.

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Speaker 1: You certainly did.

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Speaker 6: You always told about fifty people that much time Tom

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Speaker 6: to give to themselves.

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Speaker 4: Thanks for joining a great day legend.

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Speaker 1: Damn so close. I feel like, you know, one step forward,

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Speaker 6: We have no idea who Beck was talking to.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we'll figure it out.

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Speaker 6: That he gave us the teacher's name. How can we

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Speaker 6: get the teacher, how can we get that? We should

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Speaker 6: get the class lists.

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Speaker 1: Call the teacher and the class list. Get the class list,

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Speaker 1: which one of the most likely to take.

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Speaker 5: Don't mind that, don't mind that.

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Speaker 1: We'll pick it up again tomorrow. Really with you kids,

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Speaker 1: Woods very excited because the imperfect Hugh van Collenberg Josh

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Speaker 1: van Collenberger back in the studio for another edition of

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Speaker 1: the compliment. When things are.

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Speaker 6: Down, you'll need and frown or a kind word.

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Speaker 1: We'll turn you around.

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Speaker 6: It's so compliment.

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Speaker 1: Alrighty boys, welcome back. That's such a big intro, it's huge.

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Speaker 7: I feel immense pressure to say something grand and wonderful

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Speaker 7: after that. All I say is, hey, guys.

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Speaker 6: It's a perfect juxtaposition, isn't it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's got Ryan Shelton written all over it, doesn't it.

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Speaker 1: It really does. And actually, funnily enough, speaking of I

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Speaker 1: was obviously saw you guys live recently, so this still

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Speaker 1: shows you, guys, people can still go and see you

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Speaker 1: guys live. Just mentioning Ryan Shelton, Like my god, so

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Speaker 1: many times I was looking at you guys, going, do

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Speaker 1: you know that he's about to do this? It's just

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Speaker 1: he's he's like a five year oldho had their first Capcake.

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Speaker 8: Is Everywhere, and it's designed to show to show how

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Speaker 8: much he loves the god.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that is the best description nobody really. It's just

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Speaker 7: it's incredible to sit back and watch him do things.

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Speaker 7: We're like, where's that come from?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: There are moments in the show that are quite improvised

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Speaker 8: by him. Yeah, and I genuinely can't keep it together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: He takes it in a different direction and I'm not

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Speaker 8: experienced enough.

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Speaker 1: To be able to hold it keep it together.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, becoming just like one of the audience.

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Speaker 5: How good is that?

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Speaker 6: Though?

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Speaker 1: That's amazing. Yeah, it's incredible. It's a brilliant show. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: keep your eyes field for more shows for the imperfect.

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Speaker 1: But guys, we have got to sevement here that we

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Speaker 1: do every fortnight. Very excited for another edition of the

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Speaker 1: compliment Huge. We are giving each other compliments for lots

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Speaker 7: Well, I don't think we do it correctly. I don't

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Speaker 7: this country, I feel like we're very quick to cut

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Speaker 7: each other down, yep, and give each other crap all

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Speaker 7: the time, and there's definitely a time and a place

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Speaker 7: kind to other people especially. Yeah, and so I just

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Speaker 7: it's also it's also really great for that person as well.

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Speaker 7: We'll talk around toxic masculinity and yeah, I think this

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Speaker 7: just to be very yeah, to give compliments. So and

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Speaker 7: also we talk about when you give a comment, it's

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's right. So it's a two step process, guys.

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Speaker 1: So if you're looking to compliment someone, if you're hearing

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Speaker 1: compliment some of that I love or something that you

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Speaker 1: don't love, then there is the first step, which is

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Speaker 1: and then step two is how it makes you feel.

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Speaker 7: An important add onto that is that we had some

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Speaker 7: of our podcast doctor Emily psychologist Yeah, who said that

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Speaker 7: the main predictor of whether you'll be friends with someone

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Speaker 7: is how they make you feel. So it's not how

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Speaker 7: It's just how that person makes you feel if you

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Speaker 7: want to be friends of them.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 7: That's why vocalizing to someone how they make you feel

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Speaker 7: is a really connecting thing to do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Nice, isn't it.

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Speaker 6: Great when you walk away from an interaction and you

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Speaker 6: actually feel better. On the other side of the coin,

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Speaker 6: when you walk away from seeing someone who maybe you

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Speaker 6: are friends with and you have the realization.

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Speaker 5: Of, oh, I'm not sure that I don't know if

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Speaker 5: you make me.

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Speaker 6: Feel Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, it does go both ways.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Wow. Okay, well look there's lots of that's the

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Speaker 1: science behind the compliment. Right up next, we are going

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Speaker 1: to do a compliment, which I'm very excited about.

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Speaker 5: Whose experiment? Who's that?

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Speaker 1: It's me, It's jos Josh. Josh is going to be

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Speaker 1: complimenting you say, who it is? No, what we can

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Speaker 1: we can say who it is.

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Speaker 5: I'll be complimenting Hugh.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, who hasn't received a compliment yet. It's outrageous

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Speaker 1: They'll be back in a Fortnite The Imperfect for another

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Speaker 1: in Rebecca Sharick or Becky Sharick. Welcome, Welcome Becky, Oh,

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Speaker 10: It's a delight to speak with you this afternoon.

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Speaker 6: The delight is all ours, Rebecca. So you have highly

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Speaker 6: You're one of eighty people who have this, Yeah, who.

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Speaker 10: Are currently known to have this condition. So far, around

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Speaker 6: Okay, and is what Will said before correct? You can

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Speaker 10: Yes, about I'd say ninety five to ninety seven percent

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Speaker 10: When I go back to my earliest memories, of course,

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Speaker 10: I'd always tell Mom about this memory. Yeah, And Mom said,

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Speaker 10: And it was twenty third of December nineteen eighty nine.

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Speaker 10: You were twelve days old.

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Speaker 6: It's I mean, this is maybe a bit of a

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Speaker 6: Can you recall if you can remember things like, you know,

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Speaker 10: Well, when I was that age, I was thinking a lot,

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Speaker 10: I never think about now. And there were certain things

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Speaker 10: For instance, if I'm thirsty, I go through the process

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Speaker 10: And I've tried to retrain myself to think that way again,

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Speaker 1: With your permission, of course, do you mind if we

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Speaker 1: in practice. Yeah right, police cheptical, that's right, No, good point.

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Speaker 1: the Woman that Remembers Everything. It's Will and Woody. We

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Speaker 1: Will and Woodie. But right now, Becky, as you said,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm just going to turn on a second camera here.

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Speaker 5: Who that person is? And have you met that person?

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Speaker 6: So this person here, Hi, Becky, Hi.

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Speaker 4: Did I off?

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Speaker 10: Are you the guy I spoke to in twenty and eighteen?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 4: You are?

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Speaker 6: October October?

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Speaker 5: And what was what was what was the radio show called?

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Speaker 1: That is correct, right, Tommy. Yes, So you interviewed Becky

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Speaker 6: Tom has told me to bring up a very specific

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Speaker 10: Well, the question was, do you recall the day where

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Speaker 6: Idiot, We have audio from that chat five years ago.

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Speaker 6: Here it is one more date that we ran past

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Speaker 1: Because it was before the time where you said that

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Speaker 10: And that was ten years later and made the second

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Speaker 10: So our producers got the date wrong, and thank you,

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Speaker 10: you're amazing mine got it right.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Begy dumbled down. I'm not sure who that producer is,

447
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Speaker 1: but they've just been brought out and publicly stoned twice.

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Speaker 1: All right, amazing? Wow, Becky, Okay, I've got I mean,

449
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Speaker 1: just on the date thing. Do you mind if I

450
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Speaker 1: just throw some more at you?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay. Twenty fourth of June two thy and ten.

452
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Speaker 10: It was a Thursday, and my sister had just had

453
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Speaker 10: her birthday on the thirteenth. In the news there was

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Speaker 10: a lot about both the Icelandic volcano plus the oil spells.

455
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Speaker 10: But I know there was in the news a fair

456
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Speaker 10: bit about Julia Gillard. I don't think around that time

457
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Speaker 10: she was Australia's first female place.

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Speaker 1: It was on the twenty fourth of June two thousand

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Speaker 1: and ten. Julie Gillard not to mention the Icelandic volcano

460
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Speaker 1: and the oil spilter, but wow, I'm just giving you

461
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Speaker 1: a date and you're rewriting it from the date. Final thing.

462
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Speaker 1: I'd love to do here, because I know this is

463
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Speaker 1: something you can do and I think anyone would love

464
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Speaker 1: to hear it. I have a piece of a Harry

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Speaker 1: Potter book in front of me. I'm not going to

466
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Speaker 1: tell you which one it is. There's obviously seven of them. Now,

467
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Speaker 1: the way I'm told this is this will work is

468
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Speaker 1: I can read you a sentence or two and you

469
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Speaker 1: should be able to pick up which part of the

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Speaker 1: book or which page the book I'm reading from, and

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Speaker 1: you can continue what I'm saying.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, is that right, especially from the beginning of the chapter?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, especially.

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Speaker 10: When I learned how to do so. When I was

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Speaker 10: nine with my insomnia, I got sick of just starting,

476
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Speaker 10: just going through from the beginning of Philosopher's Stone because

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Speaker 10: i'd only ever go I'd fall asleep by the time

478
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Speaker 10: I got up to the letters from No One so

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Speaker 10: I just learned every individual chapter so I could just

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Speaker 10: change it up every night. Okay, I'll do this chapter

481
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Speaker 10: one night and then so to be able to follow on,

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Speaker 10: I have to think all the words before it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well let's give it a go. Are

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Speaker 1: you ready? Yeah? Okay, So I'll read you the first sentence. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Does that sound fair?

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, it doesn't sound fair to me at all. But

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Speaker 1: I'll give you the first sentence from a random Harry

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Speaker 1: Pottery book and you have to read the next enders.

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Speaker 1: That is not fair, but you have a gift, so

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Speaker 1: let's have a look. Here we go. Harry Roy and

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Speaker 1: Hermione went up to the Hourly after Breakfast on Sunday

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Speaker 1: to send a letter.

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Speaker 10: To Percy asking how serious has had suggested if he

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Speaker 10: had heard anything from mister Crouch lately.

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Speaker 1: She's done it.

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Speaker 10: They were decided to use Headwig because it had been

498
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Speaker 10: so long since she'd had a job.

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Speaker 1: Oh, Hedwig, that's from chapter twenty eight, The Madness of

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Speaker 1: Mister Crowd.

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Speaker 10: On the Goblet of Fire.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm so impressed, brah becky. Wow. I'm not sure

503
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Speaker 1: how many skeptics are out there, but they can go

504
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Speaker 1: and piss off because you have a gift. You're unbelievable.

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Speaker 1: Rebecca Sheric, thank you so much for joining us. That

506
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Speaker 1: was extreme. You well, that was truly one of the

507
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Speaker 1: most interesting and most enjoyable interviews we've ever done.

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Speaker 10: Oh you're very kind of in French class. I'd say say,

509
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Speaker 10: you're tea messy.

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Speaker 1: Book, mademoiselle. If you want to go more, learn more

511
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Speaker 1: or see more about Rebecca live head too, because we

512
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Speaker 1: have each other dot com for tickets to go and

513
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 1: see her documentary. Becky, it's been a pleasure. Good luck

514
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Speaker 1: with all the future endeavors. Thanks so much for joining us,

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Speaker 1: and you too. It's Will and Woody kiss.

516
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Speaker 6: It's Will and Woody.

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Speaker 1: Now, big question. Everybody in their cars does this bring

518
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Speaker 1: back memories for you? O?

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Speaker 2: My god, Becky, look at her, but it's so big.

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Speaker 11: She looks like one of those rap guys girlfriends. But

521
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Speaker 11: you know who understands those rap guys. They only talk

522
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Speaker 11: to her because she looks like a total prostitute.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean it's just so said.

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Speaker 5: Take it. Oh wow, the song take the song away might.

525
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Speaker 1: Strange?

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Speaker 6: Big take it, That's what I'm you.

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Speaker 1: Know what I mean? Like, no, I don't. People in

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Speaker 1: music don't say you're trying to be cool. People in

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Speaker 1: music don't say, and it makes you unsick.

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Speaker 6: Timberlake always says, take it to the bridge, and that's

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Speaker 6: where I wanted.

532
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Speaker 5: To take it.

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Speaker 1: This is the bridge, right and justin Timberlake's in a

534
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Speaker 1: very safe space right now. All right. So the reason

535
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Speaker 1: we're talking, so, the reason we're talking about this is

536
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Speaker 1: because Amazon recently used in massive words on some of

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Speaker 1: the boxes they've sent out to people. Oh my god, Becky,

538
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Speaker 1: look at this box.

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Speaker 2: Brilliant. Oh my god, Becky, look at her bat.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Millennials are losing it over there. They're like, oh wow,

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Speaker 1: how cool is this? Millennials kids are going I have

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Speaker 1: no idea what that means.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, who's Becky?

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Speaker 1: Who is Becky? A lot of them. Yeah, they're saying,

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Speaker 1: I think this was delivered to the wrong person.

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Speaker 6: We've been giving Becky's box like that's over.

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Speaker 1: The line from you.

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Speaker 6: But yes, the wine is Becky. Look at this box.

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Speaker 6: Come on, you can't be like this for two hours.

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Speaker 1: It's so much fun. I think we were having given

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Speaker 1: a hat in the meeting room about the fact that

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Speaker 1: millennials it's really hard for millennials to admit that they

553
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Speaker 1: are over the hill. And it's really scary when you're

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Speaker 1: making a reference to something which is still super current

555
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Speaker 1: or you think is supercurrent, and then somebody who is

556
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Speaker 1: in gen Z or gen whatever else they're in these

557
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Speaker 1: days comes along and says, mate, that's not cool anymore.

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Speaker 1: No one talks like that. No one references that. I

559
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Speaker 1: haven't even seen that. And you and I get that

560
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Speaker 1: every day because we have an absolute tad poll on

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Speaker 1: our team in junior producer Analyse, who joins is right now, Hey.

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Speaker 3: Guys, oh crampas? Should I say?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Old? And can I say? It was literally a

564
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Speaker 1: case in point just before wards, because you and I

565
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Speaker 1: got sent some tea from the footballer Mason Cox, or

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Speaker 1: you and I got sent some tea, but you hit

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Speaker 1: it from me because you're a tea hogging bastard that

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Speaker 1: you you had the tea, and then you came in

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Speaker 1: here and explained to Analyst that we've been sent some

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Speaker 1: tea from Mason Cox.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and apparently it's a very cool way to say,

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Speaker 6: what's the goss is what's the tea? Yeah, So Analyse

573
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Speaker 6: came in here thinking I had some hot goss from

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Speaker 6: Collingwood Football and Mason Cox and I was like, oh

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Speaker 6: glad you asked analsa And I just lifted up my

576
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Speaker 6: thermos of tea and I was like, it's a combination

577
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Speaker 6: of Green Centshire tea and Melbourne Breakfast. And she was like,

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Speaker 6: oh dude, I actually want the gossip. Yeah, I'm never a.

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Speaker 1: Bit more disappointed in my life flicked here. It was

580
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Speaker 1: just opening that we've got a DM from a footballer.

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Speaker 1: What we're going to do right now, because I think

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Speaker 1: it's it really is fascinating. Like, Abe, you haven't read

583
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Speaker 1: any Harry Potter books. You haven't seen any Harry Potter.

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Speaker 3: I haven't seen Harry Potter.

585
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Speaker 1: Is Harry Potter old? I know. I feel like.

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Speaker 3: It's kind of old, but very like one of those

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Speaker 3: things that lasts a long time.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's got to be a long I haven't.

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Speaker 3: Seen it, haven't read it. I haven't seen Star Wars. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm not in my alley.

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Speaker 5: Okay, not in my alley.

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Speaker 6: Oh not a vibe.

593
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Speaker 5: She's so cool.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So thanks. What we're going to do right now

595
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Speaker 1: is it's a bit weird. But I haven't asked for

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Speaker 1: quite an cli group of people to call. I need

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Speaker 1: people who are over thirty and her people who are

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Speaker 1: under thirty to call. That's everyone, it's pretty much everyone,

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Speaker 1: but I do need a mixture. I do need a

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Speaker 1: mixture here the producer dying out there, but I do

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Speaker 1: we do it in a mission because if I just said people

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Speaker 1: over thirty call, then she'll know you're all over thirty.

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Speaker 1: Because I want to try and see if people over

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Speaker 1: thirty can pretend to be under thirty. Yes, AB is

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Speaker 1: going to be the filter. I obviously do need a

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Speaker 1: couple of younger people who are in her.

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Speaker 3: Click yeah, in my group, in my alley, in your.

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Speaker 1: Zeitgeist, yeah, in my click yeah, click was good, in

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Speaker 1: your flock, your squad, in my team, your team. Just

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Speaker 1: give us a call. AB is going to be able

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Speaker 1: to tell whether you're under thirty just by having a

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Speaker 1: conversation with you and the lingo, the e us and.

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Speaker 6: That has come on and talk to analyst. And then

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Speaker 6: she decides, after a breakfast casual.

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Speaker 1: Love some millennials to try and prove that they think

616
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Speaker 1: they're younger than they are. If you think you can

617
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Speaker 1: do it, please give us a call right now.

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Speaker 9: It's Will and Woody.

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Speaker 1: If you received a package from Amazon recently, it'll have oh,

620
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Speaker 1: my god, Becky at this box printed on it.

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Speaker 2: My god, Becky, look at her.

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Speaker 1: Bat which again is like classic, you know, for anyone

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Speaker 1: over the age of thirty, that is just genius. That's

624
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Speaker 1: great gear. But the truth is that that song came

625
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Speaker 1: out in nineteen ninety two, which means the eldest millennials

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Speaker 1: would have been twelve when it came out, and they're

627
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Speaker 1: turning forty three this year. So if that song's like

628
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Speaker 1: right in your hitting zone, you're old. And we're about

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Speaker 1: to prove that right now. And there's nothing worse than

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Speaker 1: a millennial trying to sound young. So we have brought

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Speaker 1: resident gen Za Annals Junior produced Analyse into the studio.

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Speaker 5: How old were you when that song came out?

633
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Speaker 3: Jul And born negative eight negative eight, negative eight. I wasn't.

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Speaker 3: I don't think my mum and dad weren't even together

635
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Speaker 3: at that point.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 6: Wow, yeah, it is so wild.

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Speaker 1: Wow your parents millennials.

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Speaker 3: Well, no, they're nineteen seventy.

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Speaker 1: No, they're not millennials, they're they're nearly boomers. So little

641
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 1: bit lost in there, lost in the matrix. Okay, so ad,

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Speaker 1: So what we're going to do right now because there

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Speaker 1: are a lot of millennials who think they who think

644
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Speaker 1: they can act younger than they are. We're going to

645
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Speaker 1: set up a bit of an underage nightclub here, all right,

646
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Speaker 1: So it's an under thirties nightclub. You're going to be

647
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Speaker 1: the bouncer, sir. Nice people are going to try and

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Speaker 1: convince you that they're under thirty. Okay, you can either

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Speaker 1: let them in or kick them out.

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Speaker 6: Okay, cool, Okay, we've got Louise here, Louise, you've got

651
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Speaker 6: the bouncer.

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Speaker 4: Hey Louise, Oh my god, my friend? Thank you think something?

653
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Speaker 4: So cringe?

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Speaker 10: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Okay, what was it?

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Speaker 1: She was so slay?

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Speaker 4: I can't even I can't even.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you just said slay? Can you slay again? Like, well,

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Speaker 3: what's slay mean?

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Speaker 4: She's so slay?

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Speaker 1: She's just a ton of wine.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, Louisian not coming.

663
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 1: How old are you? Luise? O?

664
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 3: God, you chried your best?

665
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 1: Louise so slave total vibe? Alright, maya five. It's an

666
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 1: under thirty's nightclub. A B is the bouncer Junior produced

667
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 1: random as can you get past her?

668
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 3: Hey?

669
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 4: Mia?

670
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 3: How are you?

671
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 2: Hey?

672
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 6: Baby girl?

673
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 2: How's the vibe tonight.

674
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 3: The vibe is good.

675
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 12: Okay, yeah, yeah, it's it's it's been fun, it's you know. Anyway,

676
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 12: I'm checking your idea. So like, if you're out for

677
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 12: drinks and you like, saw a snack, what would a

678
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 12: snack be?

679
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:38,959
Speaker 6: Some kind of card potato?

680
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 3: Oh? Oh okay? And can you slain a sentence?

681
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 8: Oh she's slaying you're slaying baby.

682
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 2: What do you mean a baby?

683
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 1: What do you think? Geez, she's spambers with you. She

684
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 1: warmed you at the start, she.

685
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 3: Did, I'm going to go, what do you think under thirty?

686
00:32:58,240 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 1: Do you think she's under?

687
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 3: Only be cause but late late late twenties?

688
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 1: Okay, late twenties. I'm twenty two, oh so still in

689
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 1: still still count good there. She is got a young

690
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 1: and she has a vie. The start, you guys were

691
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 1: really fine.

692
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 6: I had no idea what you were talking about. She

693
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 6: was like, hey, baby girl, you went in and I

694
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 6: was like, winning.

695
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 1: Watch should be winning. Let's go to Gabby. Gabby, it's

696
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 1: an under thirty nine club at Judi Breezer Analysis the bouncer.

697
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 1: She's going to tell whether you're over on that.

698
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 4: Go for it, Hey, Gabby, Hi, Annalie Hi Will, Hi Woody,

699
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 4: I love you vibe.

700
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 5: Oh thank you, Gabby, slay girl slave like old day.

701
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, all day win, win, win, snacks and snacks and winning.

702
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 3: Hey, Gabby, Gabby ship in a sentence.

703
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 4: I totally ship Will and Woody as a couple.

704
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 3: Oh my god, she's under thirty?

705
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 1: Is she? Gabby?

706
00:33:58,600 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 9: I am thirty?

707
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 4: Everyone I managed gen z. I've got the lingo.

708
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 1: Well good, wow, she's a wolf job dam good stuff good.

709
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 1: That's a little win for the over thirty. Isn't going

710
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: to add? I was happy with that.

711
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 3: She slide had.

712
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:27,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely she went. She was winning. Nev the final

713
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 1: one here, try and get into the under thirty night

714
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 1: club abs to bounce out fire away by How are

715
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 1: you going by? You're not trying to hit You want

716
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 1: to get into the club.

717
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:41,920
Speaker 3: Hey, Nev, your friends into your funny message? How are

718
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 3: you replying?

719
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 4: Oh?

720
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:47,240
Speaker 5: Very aggressive?

721
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:49,320
Speaker 3: Is that a funny message?

722
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 6: Or like you upset?

723
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: Or well? I just want to see how they reply

724
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 1: to that, because it couldn't mean anything. You know, people

725
00:34:56,160 --> 00:35:00,800
Speaker 1: post their statuses just as really vague. So status the

726
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 1: word status. I haven't heard's in nineteen ninety two either.

727
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 1: Over there.

728
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:07,320
Speaker 6: I think it's a little bit obvious.

729
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 3: How old are you?

730
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:14,319
Speaker 7: I would be forty eight.

731
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 9: Not coming in, have to go home and more will

732
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 9: and Woody goodness after this, it's the Women Woody Podcast.

733
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 1: It's better get so full on in here, feel it

734
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:30,840
Speaker 1: it is, But I think I need to say this.

735
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 5: Was as happened.

736
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:35,799
Speaker 1: Well. I wasn't sure whether to do this on air

737
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 1: or not. I was going to do it off air,

738
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 1: but then I realized, as I've realized before in our careers,

739
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 1: that if I share this sort of stuff often it

740
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 1: helps a whole lot of people. So and I always

741
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 1: get told that it's really great from those people that

742
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 1: I did that because I shared it with them and

743
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: it made them feel normal. So I'm going to try

744
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 1: and share it. So I'm focusing if you are a

745
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 1: controlling personality type or dominant personality type, which is me. Yeah,

746
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:12,839
Speaker 1: I know, what are the chances I want to talk

747
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 1: to you or if you know somebody who's controlling or dominant,

748
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 1: I want to try and help change your perspective on them.

749
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 6: So, so.

750
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 1: I don't like my I don't like myself very much

751
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:33,320
Speaker 1: at the moment. And when I don't like myself, I I,

752
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 1: let's face it, like I've been a real dick the

753
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,240
Speaker 1: last couple of days and or a couple of weeks,

754
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 1: and I feel really bad about that because I know

755
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: that everyone you guys around me all day every day,

756
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 1: and I can be really trigger to deal with when

757
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 1: I'm like that, because because I am a controlling personality type,

758
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: when I don't like myself, I over control and I

759
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:04,360
Speaker 1: resent anyone who takes that control away from me. And

760
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 1: I think it's important to understand why when you are

761
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 1: a controlling personality type, or you're a dominant personality type

762
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:18,719
Speaker 1: and you don't like yourself or you're suffering, often you

763
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 1: don't know you can't control that, that's what's going on,

764
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 1: and so what happens is because you can't control that thing,

765
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 1: you end up you still want to control things, but

766
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 1: your control goes into overdrive and so you project it

767
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 1: onto everything else around you, which ultimately means that you

768
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 1: just dislike yourself more because you're not dealing with the issue,

769
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 1: and you're hurting the people around you, and it sort

770
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 1: of becomes this really vicious cycle because you see other

771
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:50,319
Speaker 1: people hurt around you, and then you're try and reach

772
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 1: and then ultimately you keep bruising them and you're not

773
00:37:53,640 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 1: listening to what's actually going on underneath. Because the more

774
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 1: you just like yourself, the more you want to control,

775
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 1: and the more you control, the more you just like yourself.

776
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: So it kind of just doesn't end. And it's a

777
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 1: really hard thing for me to tap out of. And

778
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 1: I know yesterday you guys wouldn't have heard it listening

779
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 1: to the show, But yesterday I kind of just realized

780
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 1: how much I was in this state of mind and

781
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 1: how hard it was for me to pull out of it.

782
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:19,320
Speaker 1: So I kind of just had to put my headphones

783
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,919
Speaker 1: in and just do some writing in the studio away

784
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 1: from everyone. And I just wanted to apologize to you

785
00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 1: guys for doing that and for being like that I yesterday,

786
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 1: I well, a couple days ago, I pretty much black

787
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 1: hatted an idea which like had days and weeks of

788
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 1: effort that had gone into it. And then I went

789
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: over the material yesterday and I was like, oh, it's

790
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 1: actually really good stuff, and I think we you know,

791
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:54,520
Speaker 1: we all made a joke about how you know. I

792
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:56,319
Speaker 1: was obviously really hard to deal with on that day,

793
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 1: but I was also a really strong realization for me.

794
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:03,399
Speaker 1: It was like, oh my god, it's really really hard

795
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 1: to deal with, and so I kind of want to

796
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 1: share that with you and you guys like my whole team,

797
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 1: because I'm really sorry, and I suppose I just want to.

798
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:26,439
Speaker 1: Like the reason I wanted to share it is because

799
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:29,279
Speaker 1: I know that lots of people have got people in

800
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 1: their lives who can be over controlling and dominant, and

801
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 1: sometimes those people go upper level and it's really really

802
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 1: hard to bear around. And if you can when that's

803
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 1: going on, it often means they're really struggling. I don't know.

804
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:48,719
Speaker 1: It's the hardest thing to do in the world. And

805
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,400
Speaker 1: poor poop Pants came up to me yesterday in the

806
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 1: kitchen and like tried to get around me, and I

807
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 1: like totally misrated him on the spot, and he came

808
00:39:57,640 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 1: in here and tried to do it again, and I

809
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 1: did it again, and I'm so sorry, mate. Like, it's

810
00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 1: the hardest thing to do.

811
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:03,800
Speaker 7: I know.

812
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:06,800
Speaker 1: It's like that person just becomes like a thundercloud and

813
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 1: you're like, oh my god, that person is so scary

814
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: right now. And I know you deal with me as well,

815
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 1: but it's a really hard thing to do to go

816
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:15,160
Speaker 1: and ask people how they are when they're like that

817
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 1: but I think often with guys as well, when that's

818
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:24,640
Speaker 1: their way of coping, is over controlling and it's really

819
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 1: really tricky to be around. So I just wanted to

820
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 1: say I appreciate all those people that have to be

821
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 1: around over controlling, dominant people. I tip my cap to you,

822
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 1: thank you, and as well to my team, and also

823
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 1: hopefully that that helps a few other people who are

824
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 1: like that and when they spiral, they get over controlling.

825
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:44,920
Speaker 1: And I know how hard it is to stop yourself

826
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 1: and to pull away from it. But the more you

827
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 1: can realize it that that's what's going on, then hopefully

828
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 1: you can start to change your habits and change in

829
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 1: the future, because it's no fun hurting the people around

830
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:57,320
Speaker 1: you like that.

831
00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:00,080
Speaker 6: So firstly, you're forgiven, and I think I speak on

832
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:01,400
Speaker 6: behalf of the entire team when I.

833
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 1: Say that you're forgiven, Like that's yeah, thanks, yeah.

834
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 5: That's a given.

835
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 6: But I think my question is, so you're saying, you know,

836
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 6: get around these people, and like, of course, you know,

837
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 6: we all want to get around you. But then, as

838
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 6: you said, sometimes when you in that attempt to get

839
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 6: around you, sometimes that can come with some heat back,

840
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 6: of course, and there's only I mean, there's only so

841
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 6: much you can.

842
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:27,799
Speaker 5: Take there before you go. I need to look after

843
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 5: myself here and I need to step away from that.

844
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:33,280
Speaker 1: What in your mind?

845
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 6: Because like you said, like this is going to be

846
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:37,839
Speaker 6: so relatable for so many people listening, and whether you're

847
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 6: the person the controlling person, or whether you're the person

848
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 6: trying to help them or get around them.

849
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 5: And I know that's going to be different for everyone.

850
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 5: But is there anything that you can do in that situation?

851
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 5: Because like it's a good question.

852
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 1: Maybe we talk about it tomorrow. I think there is

853
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 1: more to it, definitely, and I think there's the things

854
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:56,319
Speaker 1: that people can do to help themselves. Yeah, but there's

855
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 1: stage one night. Yeah, you need to get off my

856
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:00,360
Speaker 1: chest totally.

857
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 5: All right, brief bear do you brief in?

858
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 1: What do you? I'm about the photo shoot that you

859
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 1: and I.

860
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:15,359
Speaker 5: Don't give it away. Don't give it away.

861
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 1: And yes, they want to do it. They want us

862
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 1: to do a photo shoot tomorrow, and we can't do

863
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 1: it tomorrow. So that's what I was like, Oh damn,

864
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:22,880
Speaker 1: we can't do it tomorrow. But yeah we are we

865
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 1: will be models very surely. Why Why because has approached

866
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 1: us and asked if we could be the face of

867
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: their brand for a little while. You're going to be

868
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 1: a brand face.

869
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I don't think we're the only ones. I

870
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 6: think there's really think we're in like a pack.

871
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:42,839
Speaker 1: I think all my contracts say exclusively for the next month.

872
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 5: Maybe you're maybe you have a different deal.

873
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 6: Maybe you're the leader of the pack in the background.

874
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 1: Uh no, surely not. I think it'll just be billboards.

875
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 1: I don't think so.

876
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:54,840
Speaker 5: I wouldn't think so. I wouldn't think so. Instagram posts.

877
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:56,360
Speaker 1: I think Instagram.

878
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 6: I thought it was their website, and I'm thinking back

879
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 6: of taxis that the sort of vine.

880
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 1: I think it's in their store as well, in their store,

881
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:04,800
Speaker 1: I think so. I think they're going to have a

882
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: thing in the store as well. That's what I read,

883
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:07,319
Speaker 1: too fair.

884
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:09,400
Speaker 6: I skim read a lot of the stuff, so you

885
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 6: would know more than me.

886
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 1: Yes, Pops, we're doing the podcast, mate.

887
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:15,919
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, we're not giving away.

888
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 1: I can tell you where. I saw a billboard for

889
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:21,799
Speaker 1: this brand the other day and I was like, Oh,

890
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:24,280
Speaker 1: that person's a good person for the face of this brand.

891
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:25,760
Speaker 3: It was the person.

892
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:27,399
Speaker 1: No, I'm not going to tell you that ab because

893
00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 1: then you know the brand obviously was it a billboard?

894
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 1: I didn't come down in the last shower. Mate. You

895
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 1: might be a fucking gen z, but I'm not.

896
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:37,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, you did, good effort.

897
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 5: Good try, keep trying.

898
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 1: Man, that's the guy slave. So I'll tell you it

899
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 1: goes you boys, name and image, online and digital and

900
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 1: runs in store for a month.

901
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 5: Oh my god, is in store and.

902
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 1: There's an interview with the newspaper about it as well.

903
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 6: Oh I didn't read that.

904
00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's important that you read what you're subscribing.

905
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 6: Do I have this beautiful thing where if generally speaking.

906
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 1: If you know, you know, will reads it generally speaking?

907
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 5: It was gone through that with a fine tooth.

908
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:10,760
Speaker 1: You ever read in the contract? Never read your contract?

909
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 2: Wow?

910
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 1: Do you read the contracts? Yeah?

911
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 5: Totally see.

912
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:20,839
Speaker 6: And once again the formula words would there's no way

913
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 6: will drop.

914
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 5: Do you guys get paid the same because well, I

915
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 5: was doing more talking.

916
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 6: Word word can't imagine imagine if it was work. It's

917
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:34,319
Speaker 6: based on word camp.

918
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:37,360
Speaker 1: Wow, Well maybe I already do.

919
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:41,719
Speaker 5: That's maybe maybe my feelings. I contribute a lot, you

920
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 5: know today I giggled it a few times.

921
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:43,759
Speaker 7: You do.

922
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 1: Don't listen to him?

923
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 5: I know he's just trying to prod me. He is,

924
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 5: you're a proder sometimes, Tom.

925
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,399
Speaker 1: I don't thank year of prod I think.

926
00:44:56,920 --> 00:45:02,320
Speaker 6: Anyway, not a bad position, John Les. Yeah, that's exciting.

927
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:04,320
Speaker 6: That's excited. So we can't do it tomorrow though, for

928
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:05,320
Speaker 6: our model ensued.

929
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 1: No, I'm going to nurse. Yeah, I am got a

930
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 1: cousin's wedding up there. Yeah. He lives out there. Pretty cool.

931
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 1: He Actually it's an amazing lifestyle. Lives in the Sunshine Coast. Yeah,

932
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: every day, bloody loves it. What's the weather like up there?

933
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:20,879
Speaker 1: I haven't looked actually, you know, I'm not a weather guy.

934
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 5: Look at the like, what have you packed?

935
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:24,399
Speaker 1: Then? I haven't packed? Oh?

936
00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:26,479
Speaker 6: What time do you leave in the morning?

937
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:28,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's enough time to pack.

938
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. If you if you were a flight at like

939
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:33,879
Speaker 1: my flights at like ten am tomorrow.

940
00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 6: Or whatever, I'd pack the night before. Yeah, because then

941
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:40,839
Speaker 6: I can enjoy my morning a bit more. Yeah right, Okay, otherwise.

942
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 5: Then you'll have a few more things that you want

943
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 5: to pack in the morning, yeah.

944
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 6: Because somebody you might need to wash something, dry it

945
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 6: over night. Yeah, and then maybe tracking in the dry

946
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:50,120
Speaker 6: or something. Yeah that you know, you know what I'm

947
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 6: talking about I was just.

948
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 1: More thinking like a phone charger. Oh yeah, i've earned out.

949
00:45:56,160 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 1: Where are you still talking about things you brought or

950
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:01,839
Speaker 1: you're out?

951
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 5: No, we're talking about last minute backing.

952
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, last minute back Yeah, like I back, We

953
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:15,320
Speaker 1: are back now I should mention what. Yeah, So the

954
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:17,359
Speaker 1: three Pookas stuff was great today. One of the things

955
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 1: we spoke about today was obviously the bit that I

956
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 1: was pretty emotional about about people who are controlling and

957
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:25,880
Speaker 1: how annoying those people can be, and how annoying it

958
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 1: is for those people when they are over controlling. And

959
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 1: I realized that it probably I said all I could

960
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 1: say today because it was it was very emotional, and

961
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 1: it was just not a lot of point in me

962
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:38,359
Speaker 1: sitting here crying on the radio. It doesn't really get

963
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: very far. But I think tomorrow will be, yeah, when

964
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 1: we should maybe touch that again. I did have some

965
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 1: more thoughts around what can be useful in trying to

966
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: snap out of your controlling mind, and I think it

967
00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 1: might be useful to try and think about getting a

968
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 1: see if I get a psychologist on or something that

969
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:03,279
Speaker 1: to maybe help for people who are around other people

970
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 1: who are in that sort of controlling mind.

971
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 6: State that's good here.

972
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was one of your questions. And and and

973
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 1: ultimately I can't really answer that for you because I'm

974
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 1: I know what might help me, But as you so

975
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:21,360
Speaker 1: eloquently put Woods, you also have yourself to look out for.

976
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:23,759
Speaker 1: So I can only really tell you what I need,

977
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 1: but what I need might be beyond your capacity and

978
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:31,879
Speaker 1: give me the hands up like sem Sem will tell

979
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:37,239
Speaker 1: me that, as in what if she if her supporting

980
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 1: me is beyond her capacity, Oh, to be honest about it,

981
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 1: but she has to be yeah, oh yeah, because we're

982
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:46,800
Speaker 1: living with each other. She can't just avoid me, or

983
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 1: she can't go into another room. She can't pinch hit

984
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 1: with me. It's like, you know, she's with me. We've

985
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 1: got a bed together.

986
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 6: Obviously, I guess if yesterday's show is anything to go by,

987
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 6: the well, the methodology that I went for when I

988
00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 6: could pinch it but I wasn't yesterday was very much

989
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 6: like I needed to give you a wide berth.

990
00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, really focus on just making sure I.

991
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 1: Was you could do your own show. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

992
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 6: But I think you did the same thing where during breaks, Yeah,

993
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 6: it wasn't chatting here, it was you were I don't

994
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 6: know what were you writing.

995
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: Because as for my novel.

996
00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:21,920
Speaker 6: There, I said, I went downside and I said, I

997
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:26,320
Speaker 6: think Will's writing his book in the songs.

998
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:27,880
Speaker 5: And You're like what, And I was like, yeah, I

999
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:28,760
Speaker 5: think that's.

1000
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 1: What's going on. I told you, like I kind of,

1001
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 1: I mean, it's good. A poo panther's in here. I

1002
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 1: did mention this, like I I was in such a

1003
00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:42,360
Speaker 1: controlling mind state, like so worried about everything that was

1004
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 1: getting out of my grasp that I well, yeah, it

1005
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 1: was kind of like a perfect storm. The first thing

1006
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 1: that happened was I had a whole bunch of tradees

1007
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 1: rocking up to my house for renovating my home at

1008
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 1: the moment, and they were all just delaying and delaying

1009
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 1: each other, and that was slipping through my fingers. And

1010
00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 1: my mother in law is staying with me, and my

1011
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 1: sister in law's coming over and we were going to

1012
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 1: have to move them into different houses and like so

1013
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:10,360
Speaker 1: that was going on. And that happened like half an

1014
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 1: hour before the show, and I'm already in this mind state,

1015
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 1: as you guys know, where I was just being a

1016
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,120
Speaker 1: total dick because I was in a full over, controlling moment,

1017
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:19,880
Speaker 1: so they pretty much just you know, poured petrol all

1018
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 1: over it, and I was like, oh my god. And

1019
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:25,799
Speaker 1: then I walked down too a really really simple, quite

1020
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:30,200
Speaker 1: zany silly conversation where everyone was in a strange mood

1021
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:32,560
Speaker 1: about this dinner that we were meant to have tonight

1022
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:36,719
Speaker 1: for our new audio producer Mark. Anyway, I walked into that,

1023
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 1: I sat down and listened to that for two minutes,

1024
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:39,800
Speaker 1: and I had this thought in my hand where I

1025
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 1: was like, everyone needs to stop being so selfish. Mark

1026
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:47,360
Speaker 1: is new to the team. They're all making about themselves.

1027
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 1: If I was new to the team, I would just

1028
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:53,400
Speaker 1: want to get around Mark full stop. And then I

1029
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 1: literally had these thoughts in my head, the whole team

1030
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 1: a repackage whoa yeah. But also I'll beat that.

1031
00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 5: Maybe we are yeah yeah, may be the end of

1032
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 5: the day.

1033
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:05,840
Speaker 1: Oh look that that's a distinct possibility in all this.

1034
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe I just know you guys better than you

1035
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:14,320
Speaker 1: know yourselves. Anyway, I went to the kitchen and I

1036
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:17,400
Speaker 1: was like, team pack counts Ed came up to me

1037
00:50:17,480 --> 00:50:19,719
Speaker 1: and again flew the flag and did the really hard

1038
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:22,479
Speaker 1: thing to do, which is, you know, I was looking

1039
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 1: out what we call the window of despair, which is

1040
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 1: the only window in this building where you get any sunlight.

1041
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 6: That's where you left your nuts yesterday. You left your nuts?

1042
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 1: Yeah I did ye excellent anyway, So I'm standing out

1043
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 1: the windows. Ed comes up to me and as said,

1044
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:36,120
Speaker 1: as I said in the spot, does the thing that's

1045
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 1: really really hard, and and and and Ed, like I

1046
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 1: said a million times over and over, Kevin poopanc he

1047
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:43,360
Speaker 1: has the hardest job in the building, like being the

1048
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 1: ap of the show. You are the TwixT between the

1049
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:48,400
Speaker 1: bosses and the talent. This is what they call us

1050
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:50,799
Speaker 1: the people on there. They cause talent. It's a shocking name,

1051
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 1: but that's what they cause. And he has to run

1052
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:55,399
Speaker 1: between us. And so he comes up to me, flying

1053
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:56,960
Speaker 1: the flag, being like, we're gonna do my job here.

1054
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: Hey mate, how are you going in the kitchen? I

1055
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 1: try to Andrew and the team of a pack of

1056
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 1: Mark's got a dinner, right, Why can't just go to

1057
00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:14,840
Speaker 1: the fucking dinner? And he was like, right, is that

1058
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 1: all that's wrong? And I was like, that's all that's

1059
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:19,479
Speaker 1: wrong made. They're allusles and they've got to stop making

1060
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:20,720
Speaker 1: it about themselves.

1061
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 6: I hope you guys are all listening to this, by

1062
00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:24,880
Speaker 6: the way, I hope you're all out there having a

1063
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:27,280
Speaker 6: real good thing. And also, ben jeez, howbout the dramma

1064
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:28,880
Speaker 6: marks caused in the team? Can I undersay?

1065
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:35,320
Speaker 1: So? Ah? So anyway, so yeah, going cycling back to

1066
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:38,399
Speaker 1: or circling back to how other people can help. Yeah,

1067
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 1: I understand it is a really really hard job. It's

1068
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 1: not a nice thing to go up to somebody who's

1069
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 1: in that level of domineering control freak over controlling mode

1070
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:52,040
Speaker 1: and try and fly in with a soft touch. As

1071
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:53,799
Speaker 1: Ed learn ed learned it twice because then he came

1072
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:55,319
Speaker 1: into the studio during the film, was like, what are

1073
00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 1: you up to?

1074
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:55,799
Speaker 2: Mate?

1075
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:57,320
Speaker 1: I lifted one head I was like, I'm writing my

1076
00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 1: fucking novel. And then he put my headphone back on

1077
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 1: and he I mean, maybe it's on me to a

1078
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:07,280
Speaker 1: certain point to keep coming back, and yeah, that's fun, rebuke.

1079
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:09,799
Speaker 1: Maybe I should just give up. You're almost like one

1080
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:13,080
Speaker 1: of those like those whack them hole you know, just

1081
00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to your manly. It just keeps popping

1082
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:19,399
Speaker 1: up though. That's his problem. He just keeps coming back

1083
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,440
Speaker 1: for more. No, So I honestly thank you, Ed, thank

1084
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:25,800
Speaker 1: you for trying. I appreciate it, and I realized it

1085
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,440
Speaker 1: was a ship thing to go through and thanks to everyone,

1086
00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:31,320
Speaker 1: and yeah tomorrow, yeah, I think we'll talk about it

1087
00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 1: a bit more. If you are somebody who is controlling

1088
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:36,759
Speaker 1: and over controlling, I can definitely share some stuff which

1089
00:52:36,800 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 1: helps for me.

1090
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:38,399
Speaker 5: Oh that's good.

1091
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:39,680
Speaker 1: Yea, So I can do that. But I think if

1092
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:42,800
Speaker 1: we're going to talk to other people in terms of

1093
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:45,000
Speaker 1: how you can deal with it, and you're on the outside,

1094
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 1: it would be good. I think to talk to a

1095
00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 1: professional there totally. Well.

1096
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 6: We had a girl, the woman who did the quiz, Lisa.

1097
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:53,799
Speaker 6: She was like, I've got someone other in my life

1098
00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 6: that's straight away. So so like there's obviously going to

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Speaker 6: be a lot of people that can I.

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Speaker 1: Think the really yeah, I think the really hard thing

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Speaker 1: about it is that like dominant people, if you are

1102
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 1: if you know someone who is dominant or controlling, like

1103
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:07,920
Speaker 1: that is their personality type, Like that is who they are.

1104
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:10,839
Speaker 1: For a really long time, I tried to deny that, ah,

1105
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:13,359
Speaker 1: because I knew that it wasn't cool and I knew

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00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 1: that it wasn't the person that people wanted to be around.

1107
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:20,720
Speaker 1: They can be really fucking annoying. It's really really hard

1108
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 1: to admit that and then to pile onto that that

1109
00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:27,719
Speaker 1: you don't like yourself for being that person. It's a

1110
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:30,880
Speaker 1: it's it's a it's a black hole, and there's no

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00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:33,520
Speaker 1: real end to it. But I know for a fact

1112
00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:35,840
Speaker 1: that there are lots of people who like being around dominant, dominant,

1113
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 1: peering people and controlling people. Allah you and you know me,

1114
00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1115
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:43,000
Speaker 6: I'm a bit of a bit of an out of myself.

1116
00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 6: You've got two lines in him ruin the roosts.

1117
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 1: But I know that, and it's nice to try and

1118
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 1: remind myself of that as well, that you know, it is.

1119
00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 1: I'm not a bad person for being like that, but

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Speaker 1: when it goes too far, it gets abusive. But that's like.

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00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 5: Everyone's personality traits as well.

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00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 6: Like we've all got things about ourselves that either we

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00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 6: don't like or it's just like a it's who we are,

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00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 6: and then sometimes who we are goes to like I

1125
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 6: can be incredibly aloof and I can be very distant,

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00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:15,240
Speaker 6: and you know, it's like so noncommittal.

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00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 5: That can be great to bear around, because I'm very fluid.

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00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:20,800
Speaker 6: That can be awful to bear around when I'm just

1129
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 6: not coming it down thirty seconds ahead of myself. Yeah right,

1130
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Speaker 6: I think, Yeah, I don't. Obviously you've got some stuff

1131
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:29,800
Speaker 6: to work through and that you know that not liking

1132
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 6: who that is. It's great to hear you say that,

1133
00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 6: Well it is who I am, though, and then now

1134
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:36,879
Speaker 6: we go on the journey of you know, making sure

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Speaker 6: that doesn't go too far that.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know if I don't know if it

1137
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:40,800
Speaker 1: will go on. The journey is not going to be

1138
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:41,720
Speaker 1: this is your life.

1139
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 5: I don't know it's going to be.

1140
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:50,440
Speaker 1: But hopefully we can help some people who can ampathize that,

1141
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:53,000
Speaker 1: and we'll do it tomorrow. Yeah, we've gone for a

1142
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:54,280
Speaker 1: long time here, so thanks for listening.

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Speaker 9: And right now it's Will and Woody