1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: This is a Will and Woody podcast mini. 2 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 2: But when you're in a rush, let's talk a little 3 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:10,559 Speaker 2: bit about maps. Last night on TV. Cody and Selena 4 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 2: currently the ones under the blowtorch, and it really is 5 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 2: a public blowtorch with maths. 6 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: It really is day by day, episode by episode. I mean, 7 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:22,960 Speaker 1: these guys are both still at work at the moment. 8 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, like watching this back, I can't even imagine what 9 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:26,159 Speaker 2: that's like. 10 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 1: We're going to be joined by them. 11 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 2: But for a bit of context, this is what happened 12 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 2: last night on the show. 13 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:36,839 Speaker 3: Is the lack of interest, attraction, and affection due to 14 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 3: my nationality and look to be. 15 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 4: Honest, Yeah, short answers that probably did so. 16 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 2: Selena's half Cambodian, half Chinese. We've got Cody and Selena 17 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 2: who join us right now. 18 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:52,239 Speaker 5: Gooday, guys, thank you so much for joining us. 19 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: Let's start with you. Cody. 20 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 5: Obviously we only see a snippet. You know, people always 21 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 5: talk about the edit, etc. Can you run us through 22 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 5: that moment? 23 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it was a hard watch, wasn't it. But yeah, 24 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 4: obviously it was a super confronting question and I begin 25 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 4: forgret about it is how I handled it. But yeah, 26 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 4: I like one thing I was trying to do with 27 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:13,679 Speaker 4: Selena was be honest, but obviously I wasn't very gentle, 28 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 4: authentsitive with my approach, and that's yeah, really what the 29 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 4: undoing was, I think, yeah, right. 30 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 5: Okay, And Selena, for you, when you know Cody did 31 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 5: say that, how were you feeling at that stage? 32 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: Oh? 33 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 6: I mean, look, I asked for a husband that was 34 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 6: always going to be honest with me, and I definitely 35 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 6: got up for sure. My thing with that question was 36 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 6: stemming more from the fact that I guess it was 37 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 6: early stages and at that point I didn't feel like 38 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 6: Credit was making as much effort to get to know 39 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 6: me on me inside. 40 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 5: So yeah, right, okay, okay, And I mean, look, the 41 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 5: question that everyone's asking, and you know, the topic that's 42 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 5: rage today is you know, was it racist? And I know, Selena, 43 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 5: from your perspective, did you feel it was that at all? 44 00:01:57,920 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 5: Or was that just you know, it was a really 45 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 5: honest answer to a question. 46 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 6: Oh look, Cody was definitely just being honest. And you know, 47 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 6: people can only meet, you know, you to the level 48 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:11,679 Speaker 6: that they've met themselves, and Cody is fortunate enough to 49 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:15,239 Speaker 6: never have to deal with that kind of thing or 50 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:17,919 Speaker 6: people judging him on his skin color or the way 51 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:20,920 Speaker 6: that he looks. So I think the way he answered 52 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 6: that was just being honest, and yeah, I guess you know, 53 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:27,079 Speaker 6: kind of shines a light on you know, you can 54 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 6: speak your truth and you can be honest, but there 55 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:32,279 Speaker 6: is a way to handle that without hurting someone's feelings. 56 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I mean, like couds, I feel like this 57 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 2: is the second time that you've probably shot from the 58 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 2: hip on the show. You did also say when you 59 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 2: were talking about your sexual attraction to Selena that you 60 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 2: slongly wasn't coordinating with your head. 61 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 4: I didn't probably tell fantastic with my word. Yeah, like 62 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 4: it is the tough conversations and yeah, I do. 63 00:02:58,720 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 6: That's that. 64 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,679 Speaker 4: I've got how it handled it. But I can honestly say, 65 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 4: like it did not bother me in the sliders what 66 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 4: nationality my ride was going to be. But at the 67 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 4: same time, like I had never dated an Asian girl, 68 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 4: so to say, the way I interpreted the question was 69 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 4: sort of that sexual attraction or that attraction initially, and 70 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 4: that's what I just tried to reiterate. It's not that 71 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 4: I cared in any way, it was just something that 72 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 4: I had to get used to and that's part of 73 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:22,799 Speaker 4: the experiment. I was still excited to do that. 74 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 5: I'll tell you what though, Based on a couple of 75 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:29,399 Speaker 5: photos from Selena's hometown of Adelaide on December thirty, I mean, 76 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 5: g whiz, yeah, did you sort of get to know 77 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 5: her and get to like her? Because these beat shots? 78 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 1: Wow? 79 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 5: We totally wild, guys said, I said, you weren't a 80 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 5: fan of PDA Cody. 81 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 2: But. 82 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 4: Oh mate, am I rigging those photos? I'm so ashamed 83 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 4: they labeled me as a pet. 84 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, bit sloppy. 85 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: Yeah you Christmas? 86 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 4: Christmas was looking good for. 87 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 1: So wait, want you? 88 00:03:57,840 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 2: I want you, guys ever think about this because right 89 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 2: now you're in different places, aren't you. 90 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: You're both at work. 91 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 2: We're going to go to a song. I want to 92 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 2: hear your answer. On the other side, are you guys 93 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 2: still together? 94 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 6: You guys, We're just going to have to keep to 95 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 6: the song. 96 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: We'll find out on the other side, you can have 97 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: a little bit of time to think about your answer 98 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 1: that answer. 99 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 2: Want surffice Selena Married at First Sight continues Sunday seven 100 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 2: o'clock on Channel nine and nine. Now we've got Cody 101 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 2: and Selena, who join us at the moment now. Selena's 102 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 2: half Cambodian, half Chinese. Last night on the show, would 103 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 2: that Cody was in the spotlight for saying this about her? 104 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 3: Is the lack of interest, attraction and affection due to 105 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 3: my nationality and look to be. 106 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 4: Honest, Yeah, short answers probably did. 107 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 2: So can I just ask Selena, like, do you is 108 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 2: there a part of you that feels like you were 109 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 2: maybe are you traditionally tactile person? 110 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 3: Like? 111 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:57,359 Speaker 2: Do you need that sort of physical affection to feel 112 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 2: like you're in a relationship with someone? No? 113 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 6: Absolutely not. I just want to reiterate my questions stemmed 114 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 6: from the fact that it was early days and I 115 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 6: was just feeling like Cody wasn't making, you know, as 116 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 6: much effort as I was in terms of getting to 117 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 6: know me further, and so that's where that question stemmed from. 118 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 6: I've never had to ask that before. So yeah, it 119 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 6: did take a lot of courage to go there. But 120 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 6: I guess that's what. 121 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: The that's what you're on the show for. Man, You've 122 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 1: got to put yourself out there, say what you want. 123 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 2: And it looks like, judging from some beach shots, if 124 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 2: we can get back there, you guys. 125 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: Are you guys are back together? 126 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 2: I mean canoodling in the waters down in Adelaide in 127 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 2: and around New Year's. 128 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:42,359 Speaker 6: I say, you don't know what. You can never like 129 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 6: judge a photo like that. Could have been old, it 130 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 6: could have been new. You just don't know, so that's true. 131 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: But I think I can judge this photo. You're both 132 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 1: in bees. You've got your arms. 133 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 2: You've got your arms around his near keys, got his 134 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 2: arms around your hips. I mean, I know previously your 135 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 2: schlong wasn't coordinating with your head, Cody, but I'm pretty 136 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 2: sure you'd be glad for the waste depth of water 137 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 2: in this photo. 138 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 1: My friend CD CD shot for you too. 139 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 2: I don't know how you guys are going to dispel 140 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 2: the fact that you aren't together. You both defended each 141 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:20,599 Speaker 2: other to the hilt in this conversation. 142 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 1: Both of you have got around each other. We've got 143 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: a saucy shot of you in the water. 144 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 2: I think we've got a smoking gun here, would look 145 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:29,359 Speaker 2: you know what, You guys don't have to answer the questions. 146 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 6: I know. 147 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 2: I know they're going to tell you at Channel nine, 148 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:33,919 Speaker 2: watch the show, watch the show, etc. Can I just 149 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 2: say if you are still together and you managed to work. 150 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 1: Through this stuff. I think that's pretty bluddy cool. I 151 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 1: want to say that. 152 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 2: They are. 153 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 4: First on sports Man. You would. 154 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 1: Sports We'll go Harvey's Cody, We'll go Harvey. I actually 155 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: really do think that is cool because for two reasons. 156 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 2: Firstly, because, like I think a lot of people as 157 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 2: we discuss, we're calling Cody racist for saying that someone 158 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 2: who had ethnic heritage wasn't his type, but really excellently 159 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 2: in I want to congratulate you because I think that 160 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 2: from somebody who is half Cambodi and half Chinese, it 161 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 2: would be hard for you not to feel hurt from 162 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 2: those comments. And even if you did feel hurt from 163 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 2: those comments, to have the strength, the poise and the 164 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 2: maturity to then forgive someone for those comments and actually 165 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 2: either teach them or grow with them. I think that's 166 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 2: a pretty amazing example for everybody who's you. 167 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 6: I think Math is incredible for airing that because they 168 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 6: could have just you know, put that under the run. 169 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 6: But it was great that they did error and hopefully 170 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 6: will kind of build awareness and conversation around the matter. 171 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 6: And yeah, I mean it is quite you know, prevalent, 172 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 6: and even in this day and age, people might say 173 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 6: things and they don't even mean in that way, but 174 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 6: they just have to be a bit more mindful that 175 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 6: it can come across a certain way and it can 176 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 6: hurt people's feelings. 177 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you had the poise to educate rather than 178 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 2: outrage in that situation. 179 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 6: And we all make mistakes, you know, we're all humans. 180 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, and to tuck you a compliment Cody for thel 181 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 5: just like sharing Selena here, good on you for being honest. 182 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 5: Like you've said a few things from the hip there 183 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 5: early in this show. Your schlung's not coordinating with your brain. 184 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 5: You've then had that very honest answer that question. And yeah, 185 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 5: I think honesty is the only way forward. And again, 186 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 5: as Will said, if you guys are together, you know, 187 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 5: then I think that's a good message to people. That's 188 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 5: be really honest with people, even if they are very 189 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 5: tough conversations early on. It's the only way to really 190 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 5: connect with someone. 191 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 1: Hey, guys, thanks so much for joining us. It's been 192 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: a pleasure. 193 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 4: Thank you so much having 194 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 2: To the show guys speak, So guys, now you're done 195 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 2: with that, why not check out more from Women Woody 196 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:55,559 Speaker 2: on the Full Show podcast.