1
00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:02,880
Speaker 1: This is a Will and Woody podcast Mini.

2
00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:05,520
Speaker 2: But when you're in a rush wards right now, totally

3
00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:07,880
Speaker 2: inappropriate question if I'm being honest with and.

4
00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:08,960
Speaker 1: I don't think so.

5
00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:11,400
Speaker 3: Okay, I mean, we put this to bed after we

6
00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:12,879
Speaker 3: discuss it, but let's get involved.

7
00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:13,280
Speaker 1: Australia.

8
00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:15,920
Speaker 3: Thirteen one oh sixty five is the number? Is it

9
00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:21,279
Speaker 3: okay for the partner to get undressed in the birthing sweet.

10
00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:26,560
Speaker 1: Now we're we're talking about it.

11
00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:29,760
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, because I am considering it. My partner's going

12
00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:32,199
Speaker 3: to be giving birth very very shortly, and you know,

13
00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:33,839
Speaker 3: I went to birth in class on the weekend and

14
00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:36,279
Speaker 3: I'm sorting to understand the specs of how it's all

15
00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:37,680
Speaker 3: going to go down and how it can be the

16
00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:42,440
Speaker 3: best supportive partner. I tend to think that nudity will

17
00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:48,640
Speaker 3: absolutely help in that support role. Wow. Well, so I

18
00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:53,080
Speaker 3: think mim wants to be in water. She feels comfortable

19
00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:55,840
Speaker 3: in the shower, so she will obviously be naked in

20
00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:56,280
Speaker 3: the shower.

21
00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:59,640
Speaker 1: Natural pain relief water for birth Awesome. Awesome.

22
00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:01,280
Speaker 3: The way, if you want to hear more about birthing

23
00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:04,680
Speaker 3: sweet stuff, We've got a new podcast called Dilf Dilemma

24
00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:07,200
Speaker 3: or Dilf's dilemmas. Just look up Will and Woody ready

25
00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:09,000
Speaker 3: get your podcast from And this was actually the first

26
00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:09,920
Speaker 3: place that it came up.

27
00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:12,880
Speaker 1: Did you get naked in the shower with sem when

28
00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:15,560
Speaker 1: she was okay? I just left her alone.

29
00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:17,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't be nerder this year.

30
00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:19,920
Speaker 3: I just thought to be really nice though, to be naked, toget.

31
00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:21,800
Speaker 3: I don't make her feel more comfortable if I'm naked

32
00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:24,560
Speaker 3: as well. That was going on in my head. And

33
00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:28,600
Speaker 3: I think that's a good point past Woody, because if

34
00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:32,720
Speaker 3: she's feeling like self conscious, if I don't know, if.

35
00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:34,600
Speaker 2: I just don't think that's a thing I reckon. There's

36
00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:38,400
Speaker 2: like self consciousness up to a point where like I'm

37
00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:41,160
Speaker 2: not a woman, I've never given birth, but the experience

38
00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:44,320
Speaker 2: that I had there's self self. The idea of self

39
00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:47,000
Speaker 2: consciousness exis, exists up to a point until you're in

40
00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,240
Speaker 2: the worst pain you've ever been in your life.

41
00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,720
Speaker 1: Say that you know it'll be it'll be tough.

42
00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:54,760
Speaker 2: Sure she's going to get until you're like, you know,

43
00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,600
Speaker 2: pooh in front of everyone. Sure, that's when the self

44
00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:59,320
Speaker 2: consciousness tends to go out the window. So I think

45
00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,720
Speaker 2: I should who on the floor also that I.

46
00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:03,920
Speaker 1: Didn't say that. Sorry, that's where I thought you were.

47
00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:05,000
Speaker 1: That's where I thought you were leading.

48
00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:06,080
Speaker 2: No, no, no, you didn't.

49
00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:06,800
Speaker 1: Okay.

50
00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:09,320
Speaker 3: There's a practicality element then, which is you know, so

51
00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:10,040
Speaker 3: she's in the shower.

52
00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:11,720
Speaker 1: I want to be in the shower with a.

53
00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:15,040
Speaker 2: Speedos yeah, and you know, you know, yeah, because lots

54
00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:16,440
Speaker 2: of guys do that, because a lot of women give

55
00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:17,240
Speaker 2: birth in pools.

56
00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:19,720
Speaker 1: Yes, yeaheah, yeah, yeah, guys.

57
00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:23,080
Speaker 2: Aren't nerd in the pool, they're in their speedos. But okay,

58
00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:25,360
Speaker 2: so what about the midwife, what about the doctor?

59
00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,520
Speaker 1: What I think team meeting?

60
00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:30,160
Speaker 3: I think we'd have it. I'd call a team meeting.

61
00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:34,399
Speaker 3: I'd say, men back in five, come on, guys outside

62
00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:38,280
Speaker 3: quick roll call you know Betty you're here? Yeah, anyway,

63
00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:40,920
Speaker 3: And then i'd go, guys, all right, tactics. I'm thinking

64
00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:45,160
Speaker 3: of nerding up who's ridden me? So they'd get, you know,

65
00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:50,000
Speaker 3: fair warning before let's okay. If the obstetrician or a

66
00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:54,520
Speaker 3: midwife said, what he we're so uncomfortable to you being naked, yeah.

67
00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:55,839
Speaker 1: I'm willing to put some speed o's.

68
00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:57,079
Speaker 2: I think there's enough going on.

69
00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:58,280
Speaker 1: But but if mim.

70
00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,840
Speaker 3: Wants it, I don't think by the way, she hasn't

71
00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:03,040
Speaker 3: requested no the chicks as.

72
00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:07,040
Speaker 2: I don't think she wants to look at the thing

73
00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:09,440
Speaker 2: that's put her in that position either. Sure you know

74
00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:11,440
Speaker 2: that'd be almost like a bit of a reminder.

75
00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:14,520
Speaker 3: Sure, okay, my fin to support you don't.

76
00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:16,640
Speaker 2: You're not there to. I don't want to be discussed

77
00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:18,440
Speaker 2: this on the Dial Dilemma podcast as well. You want

78
00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:20,839
Speaker 2: to do whatever you possibly can do to make sure

79
00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:23,600
Speaker 2: that she is most comfortable. Of course, So unless she

80
00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:25,640
Speaker 2: says to you at any point I want you to

81
00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:29,160
Speaker 2: take your job, I just I just try. Not in

82
00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:31,440
Speaker 2: any world can I envision them that be a thing

83
00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:34,680
Speaker 2: that a woman would want during birth? There's enough going on.

84
00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:36,160
Speaker 3: Well the end of the day, you are not a woman.

85
00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:39,480
Speaker 3: So thirteen six five is the question. I'm willing to

86
00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:41,160
Speaker 3: put it to bed after if we get some strong

87
00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,800
Speaker 3: opinions against it. But is it okay or is it good?

88
00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:49,280
Speaker 3: Is it actually helping with the birth? The partners the

89
00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:51,480
Speaker 3: birth and tell me how it would help. They'll explain

90
00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:52,200
Speaker 3: it up next week.

91
00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:56,520
Speaker 2: As a partner, can you be nude in the birth suite?

92
00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,480
Speaker 3: I'm almost taking it further, and I'm saying, are you

93
00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:06,400
Speaker 3: being a more supportive partner if you get nude in

94
00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:07,240
Speaker 3: the birth suite?

95
00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:08,360
Speaker 1: Can I answer that question?

96
00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:10,240
Speaker 2: And then just because we can get rid of that one,

97
00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:10,880
Speaker 2: I reckon.

98
00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:12,720
Speaker 1: No, I'm sticking with it.

99
00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:17,080
Speaker 3: Will your views because I think you're you're regretting not

100
00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,440
Speaker 3: nerding up and you're thinking to you, you're berating yourself.

101
00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:20,320
Speaker 1: I can see it.

102
00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:22,640
Speaker 2: There's not one part of me that thought about taking

103
00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:24,080
Speaker 2: my clothes off in that suite.

104
00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,240
Speaker 3: And you're embarrassed about that, and you're going I thought

105
00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,039
Speaker 3: I was a supportive, but what am I doing in

106
00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:28,840
Speaker 3: normal clothes?

107
00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:32,840
Speaker 2: Let's go, I just want to end this.

108
00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,400
Speaker 1: Let's go to suh. Here you go? So so you're

109
00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:39,240
Speaker 1: you're a midwife. So can I just straight off the bat.

110
00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:41,560
Speaker 3: I've dealt with a few midwives so far, and you

111
00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:44,039
Speaker 3: guys do an incredible job. Can I just say so

112
00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:46,560
Speaker 3: thank you for all you dude? But what are your

113
00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:51,880
Speaker 3: thoughts on the partner nuding up in the birthing suite? Okay,

114
00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:53,559
Speaker 3: you can take your shirt off.

115
00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,080
Speaker 4: You can take your shirt off. But I've had the

116
00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:59,479
Speaker 4: experience where I've walked in, you know, looking after a

117
00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:03,200
Speaker 4: woman that in a bursting pool walked out of the room,

118
00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:05,960
Speaker 4: come back in, and the next thing I see is

119
00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:09,000
Speaker 4: partner there with his penis bobbing up and down in

120
00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:09,440
Speaker 4: the water.

121
00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:17,280
Speaker 2: It's too much, you know. The thing to examine female,

122
00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:21,599
Speaker 2: the male anatomy there woman through something that's fair.

123
00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:25,880
Speaker 4: And it can be very distracting. The other thing is

124
00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:30,839
Speaker 4: what if there's an emergency and he's got ten people

125
00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:33,040
Speaker 4: running into the room.

126
00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:36,320
Speaker 1: That's true probably probably, yeah, But.

127
00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,440
Speaker 4: If it clothes on quick enough.

128
00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:40,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's a that's a very good point. So

129
00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:41,640
Speaker 3: I didn't think about that.

130
00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:43,240
Speaker 2: And if you're in the shower, you have to dry

131
00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:44,719
Speaker 2: down and then get your clothes on.

132
00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:46,200
Speaker 1: You can't be standing there in a towel.

133
00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:48,400
Speaker 2: He going down there with a towel around your ways.

134
00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:49,920
Speaker 2: When there's an emergency arean.

135
00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:52,120
Speaker 1: Happening, that would happens. That happens fast, doesn't it?

136
00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:53,880
Speaker 2: So like if if the day's going to get out,

137
00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:55,760
Speaker 2: it happened fast, okay.

138
00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:58,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, Or even if he doesn't need a cesarean section,

139
00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:02,080
Speaker 4: even if we just need to monitor the baby quickly,

140
00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:04,240
Speaker 4: or you know, a blood pressure goes down and she

141
00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:07,680
Speaker 4: needs some fluids or something. Okay, Really you will have

142
00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,440
Speaker 4: more than one person coming to the room, so he

143
00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:11,600
Speaker 4: just put something on.

144
00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:16,599
Speaker 2: Okay, Sue, what do you reckon? You're going to be

145
00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:18,600
Speaker 2: in the shower or some speedo?

146
00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:22,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, board shorts, whatever your life?

147
00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:26,600
Speaker 2: Can I ask another question to ye? When it was

148
00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:28,200
Speaker 2: you know you walk in there and it's bobbing in

149
00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:33,279
Speaker 2: the water, hm hmm impressive or like you know, like

150
00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:34,560
Speaker 2: when you you know it was? It was it like

151
00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,320
Speaker 2: an average average?

152
00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:47,080
Speaker 1: It was a disappointed It was a disappointed average. And

153
00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:48,600
Speaker 1: we now have average.

154
00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:52,400
Speaker 3: We now have actually the midwife who ran birth in

155
00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:54,760
Speaker 3: class on Saturday.

156
00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:55,400
Speaker 2: Nice.

157
00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:57,680
Speaker 1: Hello, Eron, I.

158
00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:01,719
Speaker 3: Know you'd be supporting of me here, Eron, you know

159
00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:04,240
Speaker 3: I was very engaged in birthing class. You're okay with

160
00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:09,240
Speaker 3: me that you will me getting news in the birthing suite.

161
00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:11,320
Speaker 3: I have no idea what you've been.

162
00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:14,160
Speaker 5: Telling people, and I need I need to vet the

163
00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:15,320
Speaker 5: conversations that you.

164
00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:18,680
Speaker 6: And I have before you start having these conversations.

165
00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:19,760
Speaker 1: Yes, sure, okay.

166
00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:23,680
Speaker 6: I love that you've taken the essence of our conversation.

167
00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:24,320
Speaker 1: Thank you.

168
00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:30,480
Speaker 5: We've got the oxytocin skinner skin contact. You're showing up

169
00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:30,960
Speaker 5: to men.

170
00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:32,360
Speaker 1: What can I do to be.

171
00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:33,240
Speaker 6: The best for her?

172
00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:34,240
Speaker 1: Thank you? Thank you?

173
00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,600
Speaker 5: But the best you can have like Sue said, can

174
00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:40,200
Speaker 5: have budget smugglers on, can have board shorts.

175
00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:41,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay.

176
00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:43,760
Speaker 3: Have you have you ever walked into a room and

177
00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:45,160
Speaker 3: seen a rogue doodle?

178
00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:46,720
Speaker 4: Yeah? I have?

179
00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:51,000
Speaker 5: Right, And listen, there's a reason I got into women's healthcare.

180
00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:57,040
Speaker 5: It was to see less penises. You keep them buried

181
00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:57,960
Speaker 5: and sucked away.

182
00:07:58,640 --> 00:07:59,080
Speaker 4: It is.

183
00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:03,600
Speaker 2: Can I just just chase this back for two seconds

184
00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:07,840
Speaker 2: so you're saying that the sorry, I'm will By the way,

185
00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:13,120
Speaker 2: so your conversation started out with skin to skin contact, right,

186
00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,320
Speaker 2: which is obviously which is very important, by the way,

187
00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:17,720
Speaker 2: for people out there for the baby once the baby

188
00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:20,800
Speaker 2: is born, Yes, for the baby to have skinned skin contact.

189
00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:23,320
Speaker 2: Could you do it with fathers as well, if they

190
00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:25,360
Speaker 2: haven't had any contact with the baby. It's nice that connection,

191
00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:30,920
Speaker 2: But that happens like on your chest, because when the

192
00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:32,959
Speaker 2: when the midwife on the nurse walks in there afterwards

193
00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:34,520
Speaker 2: and goes time for some skinned to skin.

194
00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:38,400
Speaker 1: You don't drop your draws when I'm.

195
00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:41,520
Speaker 5: Talking scrotum, scrot them together side. That's not what we're talking.

196
00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:44,000
Speaker 1: But this is where you came from.

197
00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:47,040
Speaker 6: Is it possible, Is it possible that you went from

198
00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:51,040
Speaker 6: one of our beautiful and more descriptive pictures.

199
00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:52,600
Speaker 4: Was a gorgeous couple.

200
00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:56,200
Speaker 6: He was he had a towel around him because you

201
00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,480
Speaker 6: know early two thousands picture.

202
00:08:58,559 --> 00:08:59,880
Speaker 5: But he had a towel around him.

203
00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,680
Speaker 6: She was naked, and they were in this like locked

204
00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:04,079
Speaker 6: lips and embrace.

205
00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:06,120
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, that this.

206
00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:09,200
Speaker 6: Might be where where it started from it I think

207
00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:12,360
Speaker 6: I said something like, this doesn't have to be the

208
00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:17,280
Speaker 6: only picture of oxytocin and good safe, secure connection, but

209
00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:23,559
Speaker 6: if you want to get more naked, then it's encouraged.

210
00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:25,680
Speaker 3: That's that's That was the line.

211
00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:29,120
Speaker 6: That was That was a line. So maybe, yeah, maybe

212
00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:34,160
Speaker 6: I should have clarified that we again have some article

213
00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:38,880
Speaker 6: of clothing carrying covering your genitalia.

214
00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,320
Speaker 4: What is what is moons in the sower.

215
00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:45,520
Speaker 5: And beautiful water to support her heat great blood flow.

216
00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:48,160
Speaker 6: And then one of the midwives, as we do, we

217
00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:50,280
Speaker 6: come in and we ask for her consent to have

218
00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:51,600
Speaker 6: a listen above heart rate.

219
00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:56,679
Speaker 5: Exactly, so we have to drop to me to listen

220
00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:57,719
Speaker 5: to this gorgeous.

221
00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:00,839
Speaker 1: In the data you're.

222
00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:06,240
Speaker 2: Not comfortable territory, okay, yeah, the things in general, it's

223
00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:06,920
Speaker 2: just a bad idea.

224
00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:08,160
Speaker 1: I think this has been made pretty clear.

225
00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:08,560
Speaker 2: Thanks, so.

226
00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:11,920
Speaker 4: You're welcome pleasure.

227
00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:17,520
Speaker 3: So you're zoning there that out, so speedos well to

228
00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:19,040
Speaker 3: be as from that loin cloth.

229
00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,920
Speaker 6: Hear more of the boys on the Full Show podcast.

230
00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:24,280
Speaker 4: You Know you want to