WEBVTT - Manifesting multiple things, managing guilt and moving overseas ✈️ Hotline with Jayme

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the

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<v Speaker 1>Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present

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<v Speaker 1>and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and

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<v Speaker 1>Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is the Rise and Conquer podcast. This is

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast where which have mindset, self development and becoming

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<v Speaker 1>your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs,

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<v Speaker 1>plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses

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<v Speaker 1>and being among Think of us as the perfect combo

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<v Speaker 1>of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No

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<v Speaker 1>matter where you are in your journey, we're here to

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<v Speaker 1>help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical

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<v Speaker 1>self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's

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<v Speaker 1>seat of your own life and stop letting life pass

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<v Speaker 1>you by, then you're in the right place.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey everyone, Happy Friday and welcome back to the party.

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<v Speaker 2>Today we have a fun hotline with Jamie.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey Jamie, Hello, how are you good?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good and I didn't ask, So today we're answering

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<v Speaker 2>three hotline questions because we're doing the most for you

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<v Speaker 2>So our first question today was about clarity on your

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<v Speaker 2>next level and how you can find it. Our second

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<v Speaker 2>one was actually from our Facebook group where someone was

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<v Speaker 2>unsure whether she should sell her house and go live

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<v Speaker 2>in Dubai for two years or move back home for

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit. And our last one was about how

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<v Speaker 2>you can deal with guilt when you manifest things. So

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<v Speaker 2>we'll get into those in a second, but we just

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to give you all a little reminder that our

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<v Speaker 2>sould out life happens for me. Manifestation journals are back

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<v Speaker 2>in stock, and if you have been on the fence,

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<v Speaker 2>it is a great time to get one.

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<v Speaker 3>I was literally reading through all of my journal entries

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<v Speaker 3>from the start of the year from when we first

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<v Speaker 3>brought them out. I can't I literally have everything that

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<v Speaker 3>I wrote down. It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh. I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I was doing it because I did a big reflection

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<v Speaker 3>on my birthday of like the last year, the lessons

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<v Speaker 3>I've learned, and then set intentions for the new year.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was going back over my journal from the

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<v Speaker 3>year and like how far I've come and the lessons

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<v Speaker 3>I've learned, and I was mind blown. I couldn't believe

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<v Speaker 3>how like everything, It just well, I can believe it,

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<v Speaker 3>but I still.

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<v Speaker 4>Can't believe it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny, though, because I feel like you forget how

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<v Speaker 2>much you wanted to be where you are at sometimes,

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<v Speaker 2>so journals are just such a great reminder of that

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<v Speaker 2>to like go back and be like, wow, like I

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<v Speaker 2>really really wanted this, and because it all like.

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<v Speaker 3>Kind of gradually comes to fruition and then all of

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<v Speaker 3>a sudden, you're like, holy shit, I'm living my dream.

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<v Speaker 4>But so go the best.

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<v Speaker 2>We actually shared a really fun manifesting story on our

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<v Speaker 2>Instagram this week, so go check that out too. I

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<v Speaker 2>might actually we had a voicely sent in from rachelso

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<v Speaker 2>I'll pop that in here, but you can also have

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<v Speaker 2>a look at her story on Instagram and then we'll

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<v Speaker 2>get trained into the episode.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi, R and C Potty, I wanted to share a

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<v Speaker 5>manifesting story with you. I completed round five of the

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<v Speaker 5>project after I had my baby. I was feeling really

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<v Speaker 5>lost and unsure of my future. So I started manifesting

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<v Speaker 5>in all areas of my life, but my purpose and

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<v Speaker 5>my career ambitions felt quite blurry. I did feel called

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<v Speaker 5>during the project to start a new Instagram account, specifically

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<v Speaker 5>around motherhood and around self care. I wasn't sure where

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<v Speaker 5>I was going to go with this, but I just

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<v Speaker 5>started visualizing building a bit of a following, connecting with

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<v Speaker 5>other moms, and working with some brands. I work for

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<v Speaker 5>the company currently that owns Bras and Things, so I

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<v Speaker 5>was really familiar with their operations and I used to

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<v Speaker 5>use that as a bit of an expander to visualize.

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<v Speaker 4>Doing you know, photoshoots.

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<v Speaker 5>And fun things to help me sort of feel really

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<v Speaker 5>expanded in that vision. So I imagine doing that with

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<v Speaker 5>all my other favorite brands. Fast forward to the end

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<v Speaker 5>of my maternity leave. Part of me wanted to stay

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<v Speaker 5>home with my daughter, but I felt the nudge to

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<v Speaker 5>return to my old job part time. This could be

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<v Speaker 5>its own full story about how that's all just come

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<v Speaker 5>together really perfectly. But shortly after returning, I got an

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<v Speaker 5>opportunity in the business to apply for a casting call

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<v Speaker 5>with Bras and Things to be in one of their campaigns.

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<v Speaker 5>So I was tripping out because I'd been visualizing this

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<v Speaker 5>without even really meaning to, and I just.

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<v Speaker 4>Knew I had to apply.

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<v Speaker 5>So, despite having my daughter a year ago and breastfeed

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<v Speaker 5>and all of that, I'd be working on accepting my

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<v Speaker 5>postpart and body, and I felt like this was such

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<v Speaker 5>a good way to do it. And then G came

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<v Speaker 5>out with the best and less campaign, and I couldn't

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<v Speaker 5>believe what an even more perfect expander that was for me.

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<v Speaker 5>So I applied for the casting call and I got it.

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<v Speaker 5>I shot the campaign I've literally never modeled before. It

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<v Speaker 5>was with four other girls from the business. I just

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<v Speaker 5>couldn't believe how it all came together. And it's not

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<v Speaker 5>something I ever thought I would do, and I honestly

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<v Speaker 5>didn't even really do it intentionally, but it just felt

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<v Speaker 5>really aligned and all the steps that I took that

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<v Speaker 5>sort of led me to that opportunity. It's been just

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<v Speaker 5>the most amazing experience. I'm so proud of and I

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<v Speaker 5>couldn't have done it without you, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Love you. Our first question for today is hoping you

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<v Speaker 2>can help you out. I did the last round of

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<v Speaker 2>the R and D project and I manifested my current

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<v Speaker 2>job and life, which blows my mind by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>like I actually did.

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<v Speaker 4>It, crazy crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>But my question is I now want more, but I

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<v Speaker 2>feel so overwhelmed with wanting so much it's almost like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm blocking myself. Does this make sense? It's like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>overwhelmed and don't know where to start, and then procrastinate

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<v Speaker 2>and then nothing happens. But I still feel this burning

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<v Speaker 2>desire for more. I want to do the course again

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<v Speaker 2>and manifest my new desires, but I feel this block

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<v Speaker 2>of wanting so much and it all being too overwhelming.

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<v Speaker 2>Hoping someone can relate and perhaps guide me in the

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<v Speaker 2>right direction.

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<v Speaker 4>I love this question.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like it's something a lot of people go

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<v Speaker 3>through when it comes to manifesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Agree Like as soon as you figure out it works,

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, what next, Yeah, and then all these ideas

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<v Speaker 2>in your head and it is paralyzing how overwhelming it

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<v Speaker 2>can be. Sometimes.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I actually worked with my mentor on this, like

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<v Speaker 3>I think the beginning of this year, because I moved

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<v Speaker 3>to the Gold Coast obviously and have this job and

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<v Speaker 3>had like pretty much everything that I had been working

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<v Speaker 3>to for so many years, and then I got there

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, I don't even know what's next

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<v Speaker 3>because I feel like I'm living my dream and we

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<v Speaker 3>had to work so much on kind of I guess

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<v Speaker 3>I had never had so much like gratitude and appreciation

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<v Speaker 3>for where I was that I didn't even know what

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<v Speaker 3>was next because I was so happy and we kind

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<v Speaker 3>of had to work through that it could It was

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<v Speaker 3>okay that there was like seasons where I was manifesting,

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<v Speaker 3>and I of course always have that desire to like

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<v Speaker 3>want more and go to the next level, but I

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<v Speaker 3>don't have to have that figured out right now. And

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<v Speaker 3>I think a lot of people get stuck in the

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<v Speaker 3>like I just want more, I just want more that

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<v Speaker 3>they forget to just like kind of relish in where

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<v Speaker 3>they are right now and be grateful for where they are,

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<v Speaker 3>and then it almost blocks them because they're just constantly

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<v Speaker 3>looking forward and they're not using that like gratitude and

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<v Speaker 3>momentum to get clear on what their next level is.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I would say I agree with that, like

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<v Speaker 2>gratitude is so important because it's also the highest vibration

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<v Speaker 2>you can be in, so it makes it a lot

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<v Speaker 2>easier to manifest things. I would say when it comes

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<v Speaker 2>to feeling overwhelmed, maybe just start by writing the things

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<v Speaker 2>down as they come to your mind, because I found

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<v Speaker 2>when I would get really overwhelmed with what I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to manifest, it was because I kept a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>it in my head and I didn't write any of

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<v Speaker 2>it down. I was like, and I want financial abundance,

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<v Speaker 2>and I want a happy family, and I want to

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<v Speaker 2>be healthy, and I want this, and I want this,

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<v Speaker 2>and I want this and I want this. But I

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<v Speaker 2>never wrote any of it down, and I as soon

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<v Speaker 2>as I started writing it down, I realized a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of the things I wanted to manifest sort of fell

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<v Speaker 2>into like a few buckets. I would say of overall

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<v Speaker 2>things like, yes, i'd maybe want a business, but that's

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<v Speaker 2>under the bucket of financial abundance. And do I actually

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I need a business with that, or do

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<v Speaker 2>I just want the financial abundance and I'm happy with

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<v Speaker 2>wherever that comes from. So I would start by really

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<v Speaker 2>writing it down, but also just just pair it right back,

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<v Speaker 2>like start at the beginning. You don't need to go

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<v Speaker 2>through the whole project process again. I think that's also

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<v Speaker 2>a reason why g the Manifesting with Momentum masterclass was

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<v Speaker 2>about for these moments when you are sort of manifesting

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of things on the go, just embodying it

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<v Speaker 2>rather than going through the physical process for like one

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<v Speaker 2>hundred different things.

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<v Speaker 3>And also like focus more on the feeling because a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of the time all of those different desires come

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<v Speaker 3>back to one feeling, So if you can just focus

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<v Speaker 3>on the feeling, it kind of takes that like overwhelm

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<v Speaker 3>out because you're not worried about all of the details,

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<v Speaker 3>and it helps you to kind of just focus on

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<v Speaker 3>the one thing, like you know, financial freedom, happiness, all

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<v Speaker 3>that sort of stuff. It all kind of correlates back

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<v Speaker 3>to the same kind of peace and happiness within your

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<v Speaker 3>own life. So I think if you can just like

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<v Speaker 3>focus on the feeling and also don't just I think,

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<v Speaker 3>especially at the moment with social media and everything, there's

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<v Speaker 3>so many people out there talking about manifesting and their

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<v Speaker 3>dream life and all that sort of stuff, and then

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<v Speaker 3>it kind of overwhelms people because they get confused whether

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<v Speaker 3>that's actually their desire or it's someone else's, and they're

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<v Speaker 3>like looking online, they're like I want this, I want this,

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<v Speaker 3>I want this. But it's like and if you're feeling

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<v Speaker 3>overwhelmed and unclear, it might be because you're not actually

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<v Speaker 3>making decisions from an aligned place and what you actually want.

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<v Speaker 3>You're just like caught up in this whole manifesting thing

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<v Speaker 3>and all of the things that you could have because

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<v Speaker 3>all these people are like saying what they want online

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<v Speaker 3>that you're not actually focusing on what you want. So

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<v Speaker 3>I think, like, give yourself the space to also focus

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<v Speaker 3>on like what it is you truly want, and maybe

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<v Speaker 3>are you getting overwhelmed because you're just wanting all these

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<v Speaker 3>things that make sense because other people have said that

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<v Speaker 3>they want them, so true.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like when you watch those tiktoks and someone's like

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<v Speaker 2>I invest this much and I do crypto this way

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<v Speaker 2>blah blah blah, and you're like, I want to invest

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<v Speaker 2>in new crypto and then five minutes later.

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<v Speaker 4>You're like, I don't want to actually do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's actually such a good point. I haven't thought

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<v Speaker 2>of that now. I've been doing that myself.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And I think it's like so many people just

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<v Speaker 3>have these like boxes that they think they should be ticking,

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<v Speaker 3>and then it makes them feel so overwhelmed and unclear

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<v Speaker 3>because they're like, well, actually, is this something that I

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<v Speaker 3>want off? I just picked it up from someone else

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<v Speaker 3>saying it a friend or online or whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 3>So maybe give yourself some space and time to actually

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<v Speaker 3>get clear on like what it is that you want,

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<v Speaker 3>and then use you know, you getting this job that

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<v Speaker 3>you have as motivation and fuel to remind yourself that

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<v Speaker 3>whatever you want is possible, but don't just want it

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<v Speaker 3>because someone else wants it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I love that, and if you do need some

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<v Speaker 2>help and clarity, I highly recommend it for your future self. Course.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we actually have a seven day course, yeah, to

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<v Speaker 3>help you with exactly this and work out your desires

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<v Speaker 3>from a solo line place. So definitely do that. That

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<v Speaker 3>helped me so much to kind of break down even

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<v Speaker 3>like I felt like I was so overwhelmed by the

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<v Speaker 3>next level that I was manifesting because it felt almost

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<v Speaker 3>like far away from where I was. And then I

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<v Speaker 3>kind of do it for your future self, help me

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<v Speaker 3>break that down and look at even like the steps

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<v Speaker 3>that I was taking in my every day life, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I actually am working towards all of these things.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have to get so overwhelmed by like wanting

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<v Speaker 3>them right now. But I know that, you know, what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing in my every day is actually getting me

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<v Speaker 3>closer to that more than I even realize. So I

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<v Speaker 3>think that also helped me too a lot to like

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<v Speaker 3>not feel so overwhelmed by my next level.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that perspective because I'm the same like I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like my desires right now, I'm just so big

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<v Speaker 2>and so far away, and some of them are obviously

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<v Speaker 2>time reliant, and those time aliant factors are like five

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<v Speaker 2>ten years away, so it's like, what could I do

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<v Speaker 2>possibly today that's gonna help you, like gonna make that

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<v Speaker 2>ready for me in ten years time. But it is

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<v Speaker 2>true that every single day counts, and I think Cooper

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<v Speaker 2>gave me this advice and he said it on the

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<v Speaker 2>podcast as well, of pique your desire and just do

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<v Speaker 2>one thing every single day to get to it. It

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't matter how big or how small. The one thing

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<v Speaker 2>is if you miss a day, don't beat yourself up

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<v Speaker 2>about it. Just do something the next day. And the

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<v Speaker 2>more consistent you are, the closer that desire is going

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<v Speaker 2>to come to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, definitely, Yeah, amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay a next question. So myself and my boyfriend bought

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<v Speaker 2>an apartment eighteen months ago as at the time we were

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<v Speaker 2>doing long distance and wanted to close the gap and

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<v Speaker 2>be together. Fast forward to now, we are super happy

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<v Speaker 2>in our relationship and looking forward to the future. However,

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<v Speaker 2>is this the universe calling us? I'm really not that

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<v Speaker 2>happy in the actual area we are in and want

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<v Speaker 2>to move back to the beach. Our mortgage rate has

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<v Speaker 2>just doubled after our term ending, and my brain is

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<v Speaker 2>just telling me that this is happening to redirect us.

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<v Speaker 2>We have two options. We can either work in Dubai

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<v Speaker 2>for two years and live at rent free and tax free.

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<v Speaker 2>My boyfriend is a teacher, so he gets offered free

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<v Speaker 2>accommodation and I'm a freelancer. Or we move back to

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<v Speaker 2>our hometown and unfortunately not be homeowners for a few

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<v Speaker 2>years due to the price, but rent a property that

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<v Speaker 2>would cost similar to our current mortgage. I would be

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<v Speaker 2>happier at home by my friend's family and the beach. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll cut to the chase. I don't mean for this

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<v Speaker 2>to turn into a financial question, but moreover, is this

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<v Speaker 2>the universe telling us to sell up and go live

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<v Speaker 2>our dreams? Kind of question? My angel of a boyfriend

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<v Speaker 2>has been hesitant over the past six months when I

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<v Speaker 2>initially expressed being unhappy in this area. However, since we

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<v Speaker 2>found out about our mortgage rate doubling last week, he's

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<v Speaker 2>jumping at the chance to sell up and move somewhere

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<v Speaker 2>by the beach and thinks we can live a better

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<v Speaker 2>life out there. My hesitation is the fact I feel

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<v Speaker 2>we have taken two steps forward by becoming homeowners and

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<v Speaker 2>then three steps back by risking it all and to

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<v Speaker 2>go and live a more fulfilling life literally selling everything

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<v Speaker 2>we own through huge risk. Any stories, insights, or words

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<v Speaker 2>of wisdom welcome, more than happy for you to unpack

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<v Speaker 2>this on the pod.

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<v Speaker 4>I love this question.

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<v Speaker 2>I love this question too. It was actually posted in

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<v Speaker 2>our Facebook community as well, so this lady has already

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<v Speaker 2>got some advice. And if you're wanting to add your

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<v Speaker 2>two sense in, hop in our podcast Facebook community, which

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<v Speaker 2>will link in the show notes and just search up

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<v Speaker 2>this question.

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<v Speaker 3>I also love our community and the advice that they give.

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<v Speaker 2>I know so good.

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<v Speaker 3>There's just it's just like I feel like there's so

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<v Speaker 3>much conversation happening there at the moment, and so much advice,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's just so sweet to see everyone supporting each other.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I love it.

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<v Speaker 3>I would initially say to this, if you feel like

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<v Speaker 3>the universe is trying to give you a sign, or

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<v Speaker 3>if you have a gut feeling, follow it, like trust

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<v Speaker 3>yourself and don't just wait for a sign or anything

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<v Speaker 3>like that. I think signs are ultimately just you kind

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<v Speaker 3>of finding something that feels good, and if you have

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<v Speaker 3>a pool to do something, go and do it. I

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<v Speaker 3>just think, and I will always choose the option that

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<v Speaker 3>kind of scares me the most and saying that you're

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<v Speaker 3>going to risk it all. Think of every good thing

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<v Speaker 3>that's ever come for like people, and like their dream lives,

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<v Speaker 3>it usually started from a huge risk and doing something

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<v Speaker 3>that scared them so much. But if it has the

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<v Speaker 3>potential to give you a more fulfilling life, I would

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<v Speaker 3>always say, go and do it. Like I initially was

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<v Speaker 3>so scared to move to the Gold Coast because it

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<v Speaker 3>was moving away from everything that I knew, but it

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<v Speaker 3>also I knew that it was going to give me

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<v Speaker 3>the best life ever and it has. So I think

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<v Speaker 3>if you have the option to go and live a

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<v Speaker 3>more fulfilling life and it feels like a risk or

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<v Speaker 3>it feels like a hard choice, usually it'll lead you

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<v Speaker 3>to the best thing. And also I wouldn't worry about

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<v Speaker 3>two steps forward and then three steps back. I just

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<v Speaker 3>don't really believe in taking steps back, like you're still

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<v Speaker 3>taking a step towards a happier life, which is actually

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<v Speaker 3>a step forward.

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<v Speaker 2>I would agree with that, Like where I would ask yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Where have you decided that this is two steps forward

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<v Speaker 2>and three steps back? Like, whose metric is that? Is

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<v Speaker 2>that society is telling you that you need to be

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<v Speaker 2>a homeowner? Is that an internal compass telling you that

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<v Speaker 2>you need to be a homeowner? And if that is

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<v Speaker 2>coming from an internal place, why is that actually value

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<v Speaker 2>of yours? And getting really clear on that, because if

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<v Speaker 2>being a homeowner is a value of yours, absolutely fine.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you actually dig deep and you go, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I only wanted it because that's the thing people do,

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<v Speaker 2>or that means you're settling down or that sort of thing,

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<v Speaker 2>then that's not actually yours and being aware of that

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<v Speaker 2>and the other thing I would just like to point

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<v Speaker 2>out that you wrote was should I risk it all

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<v Speaker 2>to go and live a more fulfilling life? Yes, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like you've kind of answered your question.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And I just think like, if you were to

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<v Speaker 3>have two options in your hands, one of them is

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<v Speaker 3>being a homeowner and being unhappy, and the other one

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<v Speaker 3>is to live a better life, Like, you're probably going

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<v Speaker 3>to choose to live a better life. So if you

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<v Speaker 3>break it, strip it back and just have those two options, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you should always choose the option that's going to make

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<v Speaker 3>you happier, and like, is there another option also or

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<v Speaker 3>are you just putting two options into a box Because

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<v Speaker 3>I know, for me, I have house in Melbourne and

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<v Speaker 3>I had a plan to go and live in it,

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<v Speaker 3>and it wasn't just I either sell it and move

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<v Speaker 3>to the Gold Coast. I also could get renters in

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<v Speaker 3>and rent it out and then go and live and

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<v Speaker 3>rent in the Gold Coast and live a more fulfilling life.

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<v Speaker 3>So is there like also another way where you get

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<v Speaker 3>to have it all and you can still be a homeowner,

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<v Speaker 3>you can rent somewhere that's going to make you happier,

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<v Speaker 3>like so many people do that, So don't put the

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<v Speaker 3>two options into a box, because there could also be

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<v Speaker 3>another way where you get to have the.

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<v Speaker 2>Pure house out and go live in Dubai for two years, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>tax free, Like you.

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<v Speaker 4>Have so many options, it's not just one or the other.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think also make sure that you're not putting

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<v Speaker 3>anything into a box, because that was the option for me,

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<v Speaker 3>and I've never been happier.

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<v Speaker 4>So make sure that you're looking at all options too.

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<v Speaker 2>M I love that idea, and I also just on

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<v Speaker 2>your actual question of is the universe telling us to

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<v Speaker 2>sell up and go live our dreams kind of question,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe ask for another So like, if you don't have

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<v Speaker 2>that full, strong gut feeling, or you're starting to have

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<v Speaker 2>that doubt creep in, just ask for another sign. Or

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<v Speaker 2>One thing I love to do that I used to

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<v Speaker 2>do when I was a kid is like write both

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<v Speaker 2>options or like whatever options on a piece of paper.

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<v Speaker 2>If you have more than two, pop them in a

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<v Speaker 2>hat and pull out the options one by one, and

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<v Speaker 2>you're you will have a gut feeling of yes or no,

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<v Speaker 2>or I'm happy with this option, I'm disappointed with this option,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's going to tell you how you feel and

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<v Speaker 2>you'll know when you get to the one that you

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<v Speaker 2>want that that's the one you want. So I would

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<v Speaker 2>even if you really need to, like, just start writing

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<v Speaker 2>the more on a piece of paper, pull them out

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<v Speaker 2>and see how you feel initially gut like your initial

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<v Speaker 2>gut reaction when you pull it out of the hat.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I love that.

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<v Speaker 3>And I also think like so many people get trapped

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<v Speaker 3>in lives that don't fill them up because they do,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, what they think they should be doing.

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<v Speaker 2>But you should never do what you should do. You

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<v Speaker 2>need to do what you want to do, what you

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<v Speaker 2>desire to do, And if you feel like you're using

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<v Speaker 2>the language of should or have to, then it's not

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<v Speaker 2>coming from an aligned place.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think also if you're doubting where you are,

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<v Speaker 3>or you're even like considering whether you're happy where you are,

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<v Speaker 3>that's usually a good sign that you have outgrown your

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<v Speaker 3>current level and you're ready for your next level. And

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<v Speaker 3>I think you could be blocking yourself just to have this,

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<v Speaker 3>Like maybe you had a desire to be a homeowner,

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<v Speaker 3>but that might not actually be aligned to your next

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<v Speaker 3>level or your desire moving forward. So it's okay if

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<v Speaker 3>like you change your mind or you pivot or whatever

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<v Speaker 3>it is, because if you're questioning where you are or

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<v Speaker 3>saying that you're not happy where you are, it's usually

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<v Speaker 3>a pretty good sign that you're ready for your next

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<v Speaker 3>level and nothing changes. If nothing changes, so picking up

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<v Speaker 3>and moving could be the best thing that ever happens

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<v Speaker 3>to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, and this is like wayside tangent, but Dubai is amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>I know I really want to go.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, the best place ever.

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<v Speaker 4>I love this whole tax free thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I know you don't get tax sair.

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<v Speaker 4>Can we bring that into Australia Government. If you're listening

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<v Speaker 4>tax free.

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<v Speaker 2>Our last question. I moved to a different city with

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<v Speaker 2>my now husband about two years ago, purely for the

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<v Speaker 2>experience and to be closer to family.

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<v Speaker 4>Gosh, is this like a great.

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<v Speaker 2>Follow up question? Wasn't even playing? It was a really

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<v Speaker 2>scary and I was in survival mode for months. I

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<v Speaker 2>had a couple of shitty workplace experiences before fighting my

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<v Speaker 2>dream workplace that actually appreciates me and gives me a

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<v Speaker 2>work life balance. I knew I deserved it. I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>hard worker, that is my belief to my core. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>I walked past this workplace before I started and said,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to work here one day. It's a ten

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<v Speaker 2>minute walk from where we live. Fast forward to almost

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<v Speaker 2>a year and I'm saying those exact words in a

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<v Speaker 2>speech in front of my work colleagues. Because I've worn

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<v Speaker 2>a high performer award, I'm now in the running for

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<v Speaker 2>Employee of the Year, which is a blessing in itself.

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<v Speaker 2>Just recently, my husband and I got married. We had

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<v Speaker 2>our dream wedding, and to top it all off, one

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<v Speaker 2>week after we got back, we bought a little villa.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, has all happened within two years. I

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<v Speaker 2>just cannot believe all of these things have happened since

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<v Speaker 2>moving away from home. It's truly what you make of it,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's about opening yourself up to experiences and people.

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<v Speaker 2>You really have to create a confidence and energy to

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<v Speaker 2>attract things you want in life. Don't get me wrong,

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<v Speaker 2>it hasn't been all sunshine and roses. I have had

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<v Speaker 2>really low times and letting the wrong people in it,

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<v Speaker 2>but boy, they are the biggest lessons. I've been out

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<v Speaker 2>of my comfort zone NonStop, taking on challenges and not

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<v Speaker 2>being hard on myself if I make mistakes. Not sure

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<v Speaker 2>if this is a good topic for your hotline, but

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<v Speaker 2>what's your advice to overcome the guilt of manifesting these

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<v Speaker 2>big things into your life, especially winning awards when you

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<v Speaker 2>have passed trauma of not feeling good enough at previous workplaces.

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<v Speaker 2>With this big awards night, I'm feeling anxious. It would

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<v Speaker 2>be so amazing to win. But I know so many

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<v Speaker 2>other people work just as hard as I do. That

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<v Speaker 2>is the libra and people, please are in me.

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<v Speaker 3>Moral of the story of this whole hotline is move Cities.

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<v Speaker 3>No Oh, I love this question. I have a few

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<v Speaker 3>things to say on this is. I feel like sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>in life we miss out on opportunities or not given

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<v Speaker 3>things so that we can work on ourselves and become

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<v Speaker 3>the person we need to be to hold that level

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<v Speaker 3>or to hold that thing. So I sometimes feel like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, previously I might have missed out on an

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<v Speaker 3>opportunity or not being given something that I wanted but

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<v Speaker 3>it actually was just a really good reflection on me

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<v Speaker 3>to kind of work on either my worthiness or work

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<v Speaker 3>on something that I had not seen before. Like, it's

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<v Speaker 3>a really good opportunity to be seen blind spots. And

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<v Speaker 3>now you've been given the opportunity to win an award, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think you would have been offered an award

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<v Speaker 3>if you weren't worthy of it. So I think just

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<v Speaker 3>going into it and being like I have worked really hard,

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<v Speaker 3>I've gone through things in the past so that I

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<v Speaker 3>could be able to hold this level and to be

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<v Speaker 3>able to feel, you know, amazing winning it, And I

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<v Speaker 3>think would why would you not be worthy of it?

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<v Speaker 3>And someone else would be Like I think we have

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<v Speaker 3>such harsh reflections on ourselves, but we won't see that

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<v Speaker 3>in other people. So I think, just remember that you

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<v Speaker 3>were nominated for it for a reason.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I love I love that perspective. And I think

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<v Speaker 2>that's something that sort of stood out to me as

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<v Speaker 2>well in this question, is that there does seem to

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<v Speaker 2>be a bit of a worthiness thing when it comes

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<v Speaker 2>to work, and I think even with the award, I

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<v Speaker 2>have a bit of a unique Oh, I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if it's a unique point of view. But my point

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<v Speaker 2>of view when it comes to awards is you cannot

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<v Speaker 2>place your worth on whether you win them or not,

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<v Speaker 2>because you could be the best person to win that award,

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<v Speaker 2>you could tick all the boxes and extra boxes, and

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<v Speaker 2>someone who you may not even have done as much

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<v Speaker 2>as you might win it for a different reason or like,

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<v Speaker 2>you have no control over that, And you can't place

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<v Speaker 2>your worthiness on something someone else decides. So obviously, knowing

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<v Speaker 2>yourself and your heart, that you are worthy of this award,

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<v Speaker 2>but do not put that pressure on winning to hold

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<v Speaker 2>that level, like you can hold the level of being

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<v Speaker 2>the employee of the Year whether you win that award

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<v Speaker 2>or not. Like there's always I'm not sure. I love

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<v Speaker 2>award shows, so I do watch this a lot, like

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<v Speaker 2>I watch a lot of award shows. But sometimes someone

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<v Speaker 2>will win, for example, Actress of the Year the Oscar

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<v Speaker 2>and you will see everyone in that room go, oh shit,

0:26:46.600 --> 0:26:49.440
<v Speaker 2>it should have actually been this other person, and they'll

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<v Speaker 2>write articles about it and all that sort of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>And sometimes you'll see someone win Actress of the Year

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<v Speaker 2>and everyone's over the moon for them, and there's all

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<v Speaker 2>the articles going they were the most deserving person. This

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<v Speaker 2>is an incredible performance, and that I think definitely comes

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<v Speaker 2>from the energy with which you hold yourself, not necessarily

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<v Speaker 2>whether you did the best job or not.

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<v Speaker 3>And also like it's so subjective, like there's only so

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<v Speaker 3>suspecting amount of people choosing the award. But obviously, like

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<v Speaker 3>even looking at the start of this question, when she

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<v Speaker 3>was saying that she saw a dream workplace and said,

0:27:24.480 --> 0:27:26.399
<v Speaker 3>I deserve to work there. I'm a hard worker and

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<v Speaker 3>that's the belief to my call, Like, you obviously do

0:27:28.720 --> 0:27:31.679
<v Speaker 3>have that belief inside of you, So try and use that,

0:27:31.760 --> 0:27:34.880
<v Speaker 3>because how is you getting that job and truly believing

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<v Speaker 3>that you deserve that any different to you winning an award,

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<v Speaker 3>Like it's the same thing. And if you have that

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<v Speaker 3>core belief and you know that down to your core,

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<v Speaker 3>use that energy and like hold yourself in a way

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<v Speaker 3>like we always talk about, it's the energy in which

0:27:49.000 --> 0:27:52.320
<v Speaker 3>you're in that kind of attracts you know, things and

0:27:53.040 --> 0:27:55.040
<v Speaker 3>people and all that sort of stuff into your life.

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<v Speaker 3>So use that initial energy that you had in this

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<v Speaker 3>question to then hold yourself in this same situation and

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<v Speaker 3>kind of remind yourself that you've gotten something before for

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<v Speaker 3>being a hard worker.

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<v Speaker 4>You've gotten your dream job, you knew you deserved it.

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<v Speaker 3>So try and place that same belief into this situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And then to answer the second part of her

0:28:16.080 --> 0:28:18.719
<v Speaker 2>question where she asked, what's our advice to overcome the

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<v Speaker 2>guilt of manifesting these big things in your life? I

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<v Speaker 2>think that just comes down to the fact of knowing

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<v Speaker 2>and maybe making it a core belief of yours that

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<v Speaker 2>you can and deserve to have everything you want. Like

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<v Speaker 2>it's almost that thing of I can see sort of

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<v Speaker 2>maybe with your thought process of oh, well, I got

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<v Speaker 2>the job, and I got the house, and I got

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<v Speaker 2>the husband, so I couldn't possibly ask for anything else.

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<v Speaker 2>You absolutely can, and you wouldn't want anything else if

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<v Speaker 2>if it wasn't like you wouldn't have it on your heart,

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<v Speaker 2>if you didn't deserve it, and if it wasn't coming

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<v Speaker 2>your way in one way or the other. So I think,

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<v Speaker 2>don't feel guilty about it, but something that does help me.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess with guilt when it comes to manifesting big things,

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<v Speaker 2>because sometimes you can feel a bit guilty because you

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<v Speaker 2>can go, well, I have all this, and there's people

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<v Speaker 2>struggling and that sort of stuff. Of the more you have,

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<v Speaker 2>the more you have the ability to give and help

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<v Speaker 2>others energetically, financially, whatever way you want to put it,

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<v Speaker 2>but also knowing that your path is so unique and

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<v Speaker 2>different to anyone else that if you just follow your path,

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<v Speaker 2>you're actually not taking anything away from anyone else.

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<v Speaker 4>And yeah, that's the biggest thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like, yes, you got your dream job, but you

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<v Speaker 2>didn't take, for example, my dream job away from me. No,

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<v Speaker 2>because my dream job's different to your dream job. And

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<v Speaker 2>just looking at it that way of you deserve everything

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<v Speaker 2>you want for yourself because that's what's coming your way anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>and the next person will get everything they deserve and more.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And I think something that really helped me with

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<v Speaker 3>this is like whilst manifesting big things into your life.

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<v Speaker 3>And obviously this is coming from a place of like

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<v Speaker 3>if you said that you're a people pleaser, if I

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<v Speaker 3>have all these things, like other people can't have it,

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<v Speaker 3>like you were just saying, but remembering there's like an

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<v Speaker 3>abundance for that to go around for everyone. And I

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<v Speaker 3>think just because don't focus on anyone else or what

0:30:09.040 --> 0:30:11.560
<v Speaker 3>anyone else is doing, focus on yourself and your journey

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<v Speaker 3>and you getting good things should never be an issue

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<v Speaker 3>for the people around you. If anything, it should be

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<v Speaker 3>like motivating and inspiring and hopefully the people around you

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<v Speaker 3>can lift you up and make you feel good for

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<v Speaker 3>having those big things and don't feel guilty for it because.

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<v Speaker 2>You'd be sad time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and you not having the things that you want

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<v Speaker 3>isn't going to change anything for anyone else, So just

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<v Speaker 3>try and focus on you and your journey and know

0:30:37.280 --> 0:30:39.840
<v Speaker 3>that you manifesting these big things into your life isn't

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<v Speaker 3>taking away from anyone else.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I love that.

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<v Speaker 4>Amazing, amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we'll leave that there. We hope you guys liked

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<v Speaker 2>this episode and will pop up a thread in the

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<v Speaker 2>you have anything to say about the second one, you

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<v Speaker 2>can find that in the Facebook group already.

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<v Speaker 4>It's already in there. Bye Hie.

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