1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboo 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present 4 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:22,639 Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, 6 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Conquer podcast. This is 7 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: the podcast where which have mindset, self development and becoming 8 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs, 9 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses 10 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo 11 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No 12 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, we're here to 13 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical 14 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's 15 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: seat of your own life and stop letting life pass 16 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: you by, then you're in the right place. 17 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:11,199 Speaker 2: Hey everyone, Happy Friday and welcome back to the party. 18 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 2: Today we have a fun hotline with Jamie. 19 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:16,479 Speaker 3: Hey Jamie, Hello, how are you good? 20 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 2: I'm good and I didn't ask, So today we're answering 21 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 2: three hotline questions because we're doing the most for you 22 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:36,479 Speaker 2: So our first question today was about clarity on your 23 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:39,400 Speaker 2: next level and how you can find it. Our second 24 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 2: one was actually from our Facebook group where someone was 25 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 2: unsure whether she should sell her house and go live 26 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 2: in Dubai for two years or move back home for 27 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 2: a little bit. And our last one was about how 28 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 2: you can deal with guilt when you manifest things. So 29 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 2: we'll get into those in a second, but we just 30 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 2: wanted to give you all a little reminder that our 31 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 2: sould out life happens for me. Manifestation journals are back 32 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 2: in stock, and if you have been on the fence, 33 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 2: it is a great time to get one. 34 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 3: I was literally reading through all of my journal entries 35 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 3: from the start of the year from when we first 36 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:18,080 Speaker 3: brought them out. I can't I literally have everything that 37 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 3: I wrote down. It's crazy. 38 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. I know. 39 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 3: I was doing it because I did a big reflection 40 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 3: on my birthday of like the last year, the lessons 41 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 3: I've learned, and then set intentions for the new year. 42 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 3: And I was going back over my journal from the 43 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,079 Speaker 3: year and like how far I've come and the lessons 44 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:35,959 Speaker 3: I've learned, and I was mind blown. I couldn't believe 45 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 3: how like everything, It just well, I can believe it, 46 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 3: but I still. 47 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 4: Can't believe it. 48 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 2: It's funny, though, because I feel like you forget how 49 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 2: much you wanted to be where you are at sometimes, 50 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 2: so journals are just such a great reminder of that 51 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:50,800 Speaker 2: to like go back and be like, wow, like I 52 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 2: really really wanted this, and because it all like. 53 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 3: Kind of gradually comes to fruition and then all of 54 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 3: a sudden, you're like, holy shit, I'm living my dream. 55 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 4: But so go the best. 56 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 2: We actually shared a really fun manifesting story on our 57 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:08,800 Speaker 2: Instagram this week, so go check that out too. I 58 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 2: might actually we had a voicely sent in from rachelso 59 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 2: I'll pop that in here, but you can also have 60 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 2: a look at her story on Instagram and then we'll 61 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:18,079 Speaker 2: get trained into the episode. 62 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 5: Hi, R and C Potty, I wanted to share a 63 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 5: manifesting story with you. I completed round five of the 64 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 5: project after I had my baby. I was feeling really 65 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:35,559 Speaker 5: lost and unsure of my future. So I started manifesting 66 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 5: in all areas of my life, but my purpose and 67 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 5: my career ambitions felt quite blurry. I did feel called 68 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 5: during the project to start a new Instagram account, specifically 69 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 5: around motherhood and around self care. I wasn't sure where 70 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 5: I was going to go with this, but I just 71 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 5: started visualizing building a bit of a following, connecting with 72 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 5: other moms, and working with some brands. I work for 73 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 5: the company currently that owns Bras and Things, so I 74 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 5: was really familiar with their operations and I used to 75 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 5: use that as a bit of an expander to visualize. 76 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 4: Doing you know, photoshoots. 77 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 5: And fun things to help me sort of feel really 78 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 5: expanded in that vision. So I imagine doing that with 79 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 5: all my other favorite brands. Fast forward to the end 80 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 5: of my maternity leave. Part of me wanted to stay 81 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,039 Speaker 5: home with my daughter, but I felt the nudge to 82 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 5: return to my old job part time. This could be 83 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 5: its own full story about how that's all just come 84 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 5: together really perfectly. But shortly after returning, I got an 85 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 5: opportunity in the business to apply for a casting call 86 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 5: with Bras and Things to be in one of their campaigns. 87 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 5: So I was tripping out because I'd been visualizing this 88 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 5: without even really meaning to, and I just. 89 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:55,599 Speaker 4: Knew I had to apply. 90 00:04:56,600 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 5: So, despite having my daughter a year ago and breastfeed 91 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 5: and all of that, I'd be working on accepting my 92 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 5: postpart and body, and I felt like this was such 93 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:07,720 Speaker 5: a good way to do it. And then G came 94 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 5: out with the best and less campaign, and I couldn't 95 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:13,039 Speaker 5: believe what an even more perfect expander that was for me. 96 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 5: So I applied for the casting call and I got it. 97 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 5: I shot the campaign I've literally never modeled before. It 98 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 5: was with four other girls from the business. I just 99 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 5: couldn't believe how it all came together. And it's not 100 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 5: something I ever thought I would do, and I honestly 101 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 5: didn't even really do it intentionally, but it just felt 102 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 5: really aligned and all the steps that I took that 103 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 5: sort of led me to that opportunity. It's been just 104 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 5: the most amazing experience. I'm so proud of and I 105 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 5: couldn't have done it without you, guys. 106 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:53,279 Speaker 2: Love you. Our first question for today is hoping you 107 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:55,839 Speaker 2: can help you out. I did the last round of 108 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 2: the R and D project and I manifested my current 109 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 2: job and life, which blows my mind by the way, 110 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:03,479 Speaker 2: like I actually did. 111 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:04,840 Speaker 4: It, crazy crazy. 112 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 2: But my question is I now want more, but I 113 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 2: feel so overwhelmed with wanting so much it's almost like 114 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 2: I'm blocking myself. Does this make sense? It's like I'm 115 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:17,720 Speaker 2: overwhelmed and don't know where to start, and then procrastinate 116 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 2: and then nothing happens. But I still feel this burning 117 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 2: desire for more. I want to do the course again 118 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 2: and manifest my new desires, but I feel this block 119 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 2: of wanting so much and it all being too overwhelming. 120 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:31,599 Speaker 2: Hoping someone can relate and perhaps guide me in the 121 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:32,239 Speaker 2: right direction. 122 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 4: I love this question. 123 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 3: I feel like it's something a lot of people go 124 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 3: through when it comes to manifesting. 125 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 2: Agree Like as soon as you figure out it works, 126 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 2: you're like, what next, Yeah, and then all these ideas 127 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:46,359 Speaker 2: in your head and it is paralyzing how overwhelming it 128 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 2: can be. Sometimes. 129 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. I actually worked with my mentor on this, like 130 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 3: I think the beginning of this year, because I moved 131 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 3: to the Gold Coast obviously and have this job and 132 00:06:57,640 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 3: had like pretty much everything that I had been working 133 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:02,160 Speaker 3: to for so many years, and then I got there 134 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 3: and I was like, I don't even know what's next 135 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 3: because I feel like I'm living my dream and we 136 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 3: had to work so much on kind of I guess 137 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 3: I had never had so much like gratitude and appreciation 138 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 3: for where I was that I didn't even know what 139 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 3: was next because I was so happy and we kind 140 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 3: of had to work through that it could It was 141 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 3: okay that there was like seasons where I was manifesting, 142 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 3: and I of course always have that desire to like 143 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 3: want more and go to the next level, but I 144 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 3: don't have to have that figured out right now. And 145 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 3: I think a lot of people get stuck in the 146 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 3: like I just want more, I just want more that 147 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 3: they forget to just like kind of relish in where 148 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 3: they are right now and be grateful for where they are, 149 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 3: and then it almost blocks them because they're just constantly 150 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 3: looking forward and they're not using that like gratitude and 151 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 3: momentum to get clear on what their next level is. 152 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 2: I think I would say I agree with that, like 153 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 2: gratitude is so important because it's also the highest vibration 154 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 2: you can be in, so it makes it a lot 155 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 2: easier to manifest things. I would say when it comes 156 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 2: to feeling overwhelmed, maybe just start by writing the things 157 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 2: down as they come to your mind, because I found 158 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 2: when I would get really overwhelmed with what I wanted 159 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 2: to manifest, it was because I kept a lot of 160 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 2: it in my head and I didn't write any of 161 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 2: it down. I was like, and I want financial abundance, 162 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 2: and I want a happy family, and I want to 163 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 2: be healthy, and I want this, and I want this, 164 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 2: and I want this and I want this. But I 165 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 2: never wrote any of it down, and I as soon 166 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 2: as I started writing it down, I realized a lot 167 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 2: of the things I wanted to manifest sort of fell 168 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 2: into like a few buckets. I would say of overall 169 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 2: things like, yes, i'd maybe want a business, but that's 170 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 2: under the bucket of financial abundance. And do I actually 171 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:42,079 Speaker 2: feel like I need a business with that, or do 172 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 2: I just want the financial abundance and I'm happy with 173 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 2: wherever that comes from. So I would start by really 174 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 2: writing it down, but also just just pair it right back, 175 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 2: like start at the beginning. You don't need to go 176 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 2: through the whole project process again. I think that's also 177 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 2: a reason why g the Manifesting with Momentum masterclass was 178 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:06,239 Speaker 2: about for these moments when you are sort of manifesting 179 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 2: a lot of things on the go, just embodying it 180 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 2: rather than going through the physical process for like one 181 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 2: hundred different things. 182 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:17,080 Speaker 3: And also like focus more on the feeling because a 183 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:19,959 Speaker 3: lot of the time all of those different desires come 184 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 3: back to one feeling, So if you can just focus 185 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 3: on the feeling, it kind of takes that like overwhelm 186 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 3: out because you're not worried about all of the details, 187 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 3: and it helps you to kind of just focus on 188 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 3: the one thing, like you know, financial freedom, happiness, all 189 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 3: that sort of stuff. It all kind of correlates back 190 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:39,839 Speaker 3: to the same kind of peace and happiness within your 191 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 3: own life. So I think if you can just like 192 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 3: focus on the feeling and also don't just I think, 193 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 3: especially at the moment with social media and everything, there's 194 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 3: so many people out there talking about manifesting and their 195 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 3: dream life and all that sort of stuff, and then 196 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 3: it kind of overwhelms people because they get confused whether 197 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 3: that's actually their desire or it's someone else's, and they're 198 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 3: like looking online, they're like I want this, I want this, 199 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 3: I want this. But it's like and if you're feeling 200 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 3: overwhelmed and unclear, it might be because you're not actually 201 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 3: making decisions from an aligned place and what you actually want. 202 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 3: You're just like caught up in this whole manifesting thing 203 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 3: and all of the things that you could have because 204 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 3: all these people are like saying what they want online 205 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 3: that you're not actually focusing on what you want. So 206 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 3: I think, like, give yourself the space to also focus 207 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 3: on like what it is you truly want, and maybe 208 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 3: are you getting overwhelmed because you're just wanting all these 209 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 3: things that make sense because other people have said that 210 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 3: they want them, so true. 211 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 2: It's like when you watch those tiktoks and someone's like 212 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 2: I invest this much and I do crypto this way 213 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,079 Speaker 2: blah blah blah, and you're like, I want to invest 214 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 2: in new crypto and then five minutes later. 215 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 4: You're like, I don't want to actually do that. 216 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's actually such a good point. I haven't thought 217 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 2: of that now. I've been doing that myself. 218 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think it's like so many people just 219 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 3: have these like boxes that they think they should be ticking, 220 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 3: and then it makes them feel so overwhelmed and unclear 221 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 3: because they're like, well, actually, is this something that I 222 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 3: want off? I just picked it up from someone else 223 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 3: saying it a friend or online or whatever it is. 224 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 3: So maybe give yourself some space and time to actually 225 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:13,679 Speaker 3: get clear on like what it is that you want, 226 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 3: and then use you know, you getting this job that 227 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 3: you have as motivation and fuel to remind yourself that 228 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 3: whatever you want is possible, but don't just want it 229 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 3: because someone else wants it. 230 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:27,679 Speaker 2: Yes, I love that, and if you do need some 231 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 2: help and clarity, I highly recommend it for your future self. Course. 232 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, we actually have a seven day course, yeah, to 233 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 3: help you with exactly this and work out your desires 234 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 3: from a solo line place. So definitely do that. That 235 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 3: helped me so much to kind of break down even 236 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 3: like I felt like I was so overwhelmed by the 237 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 3: next level that I was manifesting because it felt almost 238 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,839 Speaker 3: like far away from where I was. And then I 239 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 3: kind of do it for your future self, help me 240 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:58,559 Speaker 3: break that down and look at even like the steps 241 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 3: that I was taking in my every day life, and 242 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 3: I'm like, I actually am working towards all of these things. 243 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:06,320 Speaker 3: I don't have to get so overwhelmed by like wanting 244 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 3: them right now. But I know that, you know, what 245 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:11,440 Speaker 3: I'm doing in my every day is actually getting me 246 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 3: closer to that more than I even realize. So I 247 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 3: think that also helped me too a lot to like 248 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:19,200 Speaker 3: not feel so overwhelmed by my next level. 249 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 2: I love that perspective because I'm the same like I 250 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 2: feel like my desires right now, I'm just so big 251 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 2: and so far away, and some of them are obviously 252 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 2: time reliant, and those time aliant factors are like five 253 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 2: ten years away, so it's like, what could I do 254 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 2: possibly today that's gonna help you, like gonna make that 255 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:42,840 Speaker 2: ready for me in ten years time. But it is 256 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 2: true that every single day counts, and I think Cooper 257 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 2: gave me this advice and he said it on the 258 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 2: podcast as well, of pique your desire and just do 259 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 2: one thing every single day to get to it. It 260 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 2: doesn't matter how big or how small. The one thing 261 00:12:57,640 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 2: is if you miss a day, don't beat yourself up 262 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 2: about it. Just do something the next day. And the 263 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 2: more consistent you are, the closer that desire is going 264 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 2: to come to you. 265 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely, Yeah, amazing. 266 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 2: Okay a next question. So myself and my boyfriend bought 267 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 2: an apartment eighteen months ago as at the time we were 268 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 2: doing long distance and wanted to close the gap and 269 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 2: be together. Fast forward to now, we are super happy 270 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:27,079 Speaker 2: in our relationship and looking forward to the future. However, 271 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 2: is this the universe calling us? I'm really not that 272 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 2: happy in the actual area we are in and want 273 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 2: to move back to the beach. Our mortgage rate has 274 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 2: just doubled after our term ending, and my brain is 275 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 2: just telling me that this is happening to redirect us. 276 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 2: We have two options. We can either work in Dubai 277 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:47,439 Speaker 2: for two years and live at rent free and tax free. 278 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 2: My boyfriend is a teacher, so he gets offered free 279 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 2: accommodation and I'm a freelancer. Or we move back to 280 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:56,559 Speaker 2: our hometown and unfortunately not be homeowners for a few 281 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 2: years due to the price, but rent a property that 282 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 2: would cost similar to our current mortgage. I would be 283 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 2: happier at home by my friend's family and the beach. Anyway, 284 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 2: I'll cut to the chase. I don't mean for this 285 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:11,079 Speaker 2: to turn into a financial question, but moreover, is this 286 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 2: the universe telling us to sell up and go live 287 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 2: our dreams? Kind of question? My angel of a boyfriend 288 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 2: has been hesitant over the past six months when I 289 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 2: initially expressed being unhappy in this area. However, since we 290 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 2: found out about our mortgage rate doubling last week, he's 291 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 2: jumping at the chance to sell up and move somewhere 292 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 2: by the beach and thinks we can live a better 293 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 2: life out there. My hesitation is the fact I feel 294 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 2: we have taken two steps forward by becoming homeowners and 295 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 2: then three steps back by risking it all and to 296 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 2: go and live a more fulfilling life literally selling everything 297 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 2: we own through huge risk. Any stories, insights, or words 298 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 2: of wisdom welcome, more than happy for you to unpack 299 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 2: this on the pod. 300 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 4: I love this question. 301 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 2: I love this question too. It was actually posted in 302 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:57,400 Speaker 2: our Facebook community as well, so this lady has already 303 00:14:57,440 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 2: got some advice. And if you're wanting to add your 304 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 2: two sense in, hop in our podcast Facebook community, which 305 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 2: will link in the show notes and just search up 306 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 2: this question. 307 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 3: I also love our community and the advice that they give. 308 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 2: I know so good. 309 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 3: There's just it's just like I feel like there's so 310 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 3: much conversation happening there at the moment, and so much advice, 311 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 3: and it's just so sweet to see everyone supporting each other. 312 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 2: I know, I love it. 313 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 3: I would initially say to this, if you feel like 314 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 3: the universe is trying to give you a sign, or 315 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 3: if you have a gut feeling, follow it, like trust 316 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 3: yourself and don't just wait for a sign or anything 317 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 3: like that. I think signs are ultimately just you kind 318 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 3: of finding something that feels good, and if you have 319 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 3: a pool to do something, go and do it. I 320 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 3: just think, and I will always choose the option that 321 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 3: kind of scares me the most and saying that you're 322 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 3: going to risk it all. Think of every good thing 323 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 3: that's ever come for like people, and like their dream lives, 324 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 3: it usually started from a huge risk and doing something 325 00:15:55,600 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 3: that scared them so much. But if it has the 326 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 3: potential to give you a more fulfilling life, I would 327 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:04,080 Speaker 3: always say, go and do it. Like I initially was 328 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 3: so scared to move to the Gold Coast because it 329 00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 3: was moving away from everything that I knew, but it 330 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 3: also I knew that it was going to give me 331 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 3: the best life ever and it has. So I think 332 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 3: if you have the option to go and live a 333 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 3: more fulfilling life and it feels like a risk or 334 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 3: it feels like a hard choice, usually it'll lead you 335 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 3: to the best thing. And also I wouldn't worry about 336 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 3: two steps forward and then three steps back. I just 337 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 3: don't really believe in taking steps back, like you're still 338 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 3: taking a step towards a happier life, which is actually 339 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 3: a step forward. 340 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 2: I would agree with that, Like where I would ask yourself. 341 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 2: Where have you decided that this is two steps forward 342 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 2: and three steps back? Like, whose metric is that? Is 343 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 2: that society is telling you that you need to be 344 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 2: a homeowner? Is that an internal compass telling you that 345 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:56,520 Speaker 2: you need to be a homeowner? And if that is 346 00:16:56,560 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 2: coming from an internal place, why is that actually value 347 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 2: of yours? And getting really clear on that, because if 348 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:06,359 Speaker 2: being a homeowner is a value of yours, absolutely fine. 349 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:11,159 Speaker 2: But if you actually dig deep and you go, oh, 350 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 2: I only wanted it because that's the thing people do, 351 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 2: or that means you're settling down or that sort of thing, 352 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:22,479 Speaker 2: then that's not actually yours and being aware of that 353 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:24,639 Speaker 2: and the other thing I would just like to point 354 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 2: out that you wrote was should I risk it all 355 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 2: to go and live a more fulfilling life? Yes, I 356 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 2: feel like you've kind of answered your question. 357 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I just think like, if you were to 358 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 3: have two options in your hands, one of them is 359 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 3: being a homeowner and being unhappy, and the other one 360 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 3: is to live a better life, Like, you're probably going 361 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 3: to choose to live a better life. So if you 362 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 3: break it, strip it back and just have those two options, like, 363 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 3: you should always choose the option that's going to make 364 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 3: you happier, and like, is there another option also or 365 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 3: are you just putting two options into a box Because 366 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:00,919 Speaker 3: I know, for me, I have house in Melbourne and 367 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:02,919 Speaker 3: I had a plan to go and live in it, 368 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:06,160 Speaker 3: and it wasn't just I either sell it and move 369 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 3: to the Gold Coast. I also could get renters in 370 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:11,239 Speaker 3: and rent it out and then go and live and 371 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:14,000 Speaker 3: rent in the Gold Coast and live a more fulfilling life. 372 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:17,120 Speaker 3: So is there like also another way where you get 373 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 3: to have it all and you can still be a homeowner, 374 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 3: you can rent somewhere that's going to make you happier, 375 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:24,879 Speaker 3: like so many people do that, So don't put the 376 00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 3: two options into a box, because there could also be 377 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 3: another way where you get to have the. 378 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:32,640 Speaker 2: Pure house out and go live in Dubai for two years, yeah, 379 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:34,120 Speaker 2: tax free, Like you. 380 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 4: Have so many options, it's not just one or the other. 381 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:40,359 Speaker 3: So I think also make sure that you're not putting 382 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 3: anything into a box, because that was the option for me, 383 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 3: and I've never been happier. 384 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 4: So make sure that you're looking at all options too. 385 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 2: M I love that idea, and I also just on 386 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 2: your actual question of is the universe telling us to 387 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 2: sell up and go live our dreams kind of question, 388 00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:02,199 Speaker 2: maybe ask for another So like, if you don't have 389 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 2: that full, strong gut feeling, or you're starting to have 390 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 2: that doubt creep in, just ask for another sign. Or 391 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 2: One thing I love to do that I used to 392 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 2: do when I was a kid is like write both 393 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 2: options or like whatever options on a piece of paper. 394 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 2: If you have more than two, pop them in a 395 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 2: hat and pull out the options one by one, and 396 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:24,159 Speaker 2: you're you will have a gut feeling of yes or no, 397 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:27,480 Speaker 2: or I'm happy with this option, I'm disappointed with this option, 398 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 2: and that's going to tell you how you feel and 399 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:32,760 Speaker 2: you'll know when you get to the one that you 400 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 2: want that that's the one you want. So I would 401 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 2: even if you really need to, like, just start writing 402 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 2: the more on a piece of paper, pull them out 403 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 2: and see how you feel initially gut like your initial 404 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 2: gut reaction when you pull it out of the hat. 405 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:46,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, I love that. 406 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:49,440 Speaker 3: And I also think like so many people get trapped 407 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 3: in lives that don't fill them up because they do, 408 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:54,160 Speaker 3: you know, what they think they should be doing. 409 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:57,919 Speaker 2: But you should never do what you should do. You 410 00:19:57,960 --> 00:19:59,520 Speaker 2: need to do what you want to do, what you 411 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 2: desire to do, And if you feel like you're using 412 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:06,880 Speaker 2: the language of should or have to, then it's not 413 00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 2: coming from an aligned place. 414 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 3: And I think also if you're doubting where you are, 415 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:15,200 Speaker 3: or you're even like considering whether you're happy where you are, 416 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:18,600 Speaker 3: that's usually a good sign that you have outgrown your 417 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 3: current level and you're ready for your next level. And 418 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:24,280 Speaker 3: I think you could be blocking yourself just to have this, 419 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:27,200 Speaker 3: Like maybe you had a desire to be a homeowner, 420 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:30,360 Speaker 3: but that might not actually be aligned to your next 421 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 3: level or your desire moving forward. So it's okay if 422 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 3: like you change your mind or you pivot or whatever 423 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:39,159 Speaker 3: it is, because if you're questioning where you are or 424 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 3: saying that you're not happy where you are, it's usually 425 00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:43,400 Speaker 3: a pretty good sign that you're ready for your next 426 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 3: level and nothing changes. If nothing changes, so picking up 427 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 3: and moving could be the best thing that ever happens 428 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 3: to you. 429 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 2: Also, and this is like wayside tangent, but Dubai is amazing. 430 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:56,719 Speaker 3: I know I really want to go. 431 00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 2: Also, the best place ever. 432 00:20:58,440 --> 00:20:59,880 Speaker 4: I love this whole tax free thing. 433 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 2: I know you don't get tax sair. 434 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,639 Speaker 4: Can we bring that into Australia Government. 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Wasn't even playing? It was a really 457 00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:28,199 Speaker 2: scary and I was in survival mode for months. I 458 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:31,200 Speaker 2: had a couple of shitty workplace experiences before fighting my 459 00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:34,040 Speaker 2: dream workplace that actually appreciates me and gives me a 460 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 2: work life balance. I knew I deserved it. I'm a 461 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:39,640 Speaker 2: hard worker, that is my belief to my core. Anyway, 462 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,440 Speaker 2: I walked past this workplace before I started and said, 463 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:44,360 Speaker 2: I'm going to work here one day. It's a ten 464 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 2: minute walk from where we live. Fast forward to almost 465 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 2: a year and I'm saying those exact words in a 466 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 2: speech in front of my work colleagues. Because I've worn 467 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:53,919 Speaker 2: a high performer award, I'm now in the running for 468 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:55,920 Speaker 2: Employee of the Year, which is a blessing in itself. 469 00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 2: Just recently, my husband and I got married. We had 470 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,360 Speaker 2: our dream wedding, and to top it all off, one 471 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 2: week after we got back, we bought a little villa. 472 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:08,360 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, has all happened within two years. I 473 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,680 Speaker 2: just cannot believe all of these things have happened since 474 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,320 Speaker 2: moving away from home. It's truly what you make of it, 475 00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:16,080 Speaker 2: and it's about opening yourself up to experiences and people. 476 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 2: You really have to create a confidence and energy to 477 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 2: attract things you want in life. Don't get me wrong, 478 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 2: it hasn't been all sunshine and roses. I have had 479 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 2: really low times and letting the wrong people in it, 480 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 2: but boy, they are the biggest lessons. I've been out 481 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 2: of my comfort zone NonStop, taking on challenges and not 482 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:35,800 Speaker 2: being hard on myself if I make mistakes. Not sure 483 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 2: if this is a good topic for your hotline, but 484 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:42,040 Speaker 2: what's your advice to overcome the guilt of manifesting these 485 00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:45,320 Speaker 2: big things into your life, especially winning awards when you 486 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:49,120 Speaker 2: have passed trauma of not feeling good enough at previous workplaces. 487 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 2: With this big awards night, I'm feeling anxious. It would 488 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:54,600 Speaker 2: be so amazing to win. But I know so many 489 00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:57,399 Speaker 2: other people work just as hard as I do. That 490 00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:59,639 Speaker 2: is the libra and people, please are in me. 491 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 3: Moral of the story of this whole hotline is move Cities. 492 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 3: No Oh, I love this question. I have a few 493 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:15,120 Speaker 3: things to say on this is. I feel like sometimes 494 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 3: in life we miss out on opportunities or not given 495 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:24,120 Speaker 3: things so that we can work on ourselves and become 496 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,120 Speaker 3: the person we need to be to hold that level 497 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:29,159 Speaker 3: or to hold that thing. So I sometimes feel like, 498 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 3: you know, previously I might have missed out on an 499 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,879 Speaker 3: opportunity or not being given something that I wanted but 500 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:38,199 Speaker 3: it actually was just a really good reflection on me 501 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 3: to kind of work on either my worthiness or work 502 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 3: on something that I had not seen before. Like, it's 503 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:47,479 Speaker 3: a really good opportunity to be seen blind spots. And 504 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 3: now you've been given the opportunity to win an award, Like, 505 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,439 Speaker 3: I don't think you would have been offered an award 506 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 3: if you weren't worthy of it. So I think just 507 00:24:57,240 --> 00:25:00,280 Speaker 3: going into it and being like I have worked really hard, 508 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,000 Speaker 3: I've gone through things in the past so that I 509 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:04,919 Speaker 3: could be able to hold this level and to be 510 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:08,119 Speaker 3: able to feel, you know, amazing winning it, And I 511 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:12,399 Speaker 3: think would why would you not be worthy of it? 512 00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:14,840 Speaker 3: And someone else would be Like I think we have 513 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,240 Speaker 3: such harsh reflections on ourselves, but we won't see that 514 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,919 Speaker 3: in other people. So I think, just remember that you 515 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 3: were nominated for it for a reason. 516 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love I love that perspective. And I think 517 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 2: that's something that sort of stood out to me as 518 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 2: well in this question, is that there does seem to 519 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,520 Speaker 2: be a bit of a worthiness thing when it comes 520 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:39,439 Speaker 2: to work, and I think even with the award, I 521 00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:42,359 Speaker 2: have a bit of a unique Oh, I don't know 522 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:44,120 Speaker 2: if it's a unique point of view. But my point 523 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:48,240 Speaker 2: of view when it comes to awards is you cannot 524 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,719 Speaker 2: place your worth on whether you win them or not, 525 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 2: because you could be the best person to win that award, 526 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:59,119 Speaker 2: you could tick all the boxes and extra boxes, and 527 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 2: someone who you may not even have done as much 528 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 2: as you might win it for a different reason or like, 529 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:10,200 Speaker 2: you have no control over that, And you can't place 530 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 2: your worthiness on something someone else decides. So obviously, knowing 531 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 2: yourself and your heart, that you are worthy of this award, 532 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 2: but do not put that pressure on winning to hold 533 00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:29,120 Speaker 2: that level, like you can hold the level of being 534 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 2: the employee of the Year whether you win that award 535 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,880 Speaker 2: or not. Like there's always I'm not sure. I love 536 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,959 Speaker 2: award shows, so I do watch this a lot, like 537 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:40,440 Speaker 2: I watch a lot of award shows. But sometimes someone 538 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,919 Speaker 2: will win, for example, Actress of the Year the Oscar 539 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 2: and you will see everyone in that room go, oh shit, 540 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:49,440 Speaker 2: it should have actually been this other person, and they'll 541 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 2: write articles about it and all that sort of stuff. 542 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,200 Speaker 2: And sometimes you'll see someone win Actress of the Year 543 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,199 Speaker 2: and everyone's over the moon for them, and there's all 544 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:00,280 Speaker 2: the articles going they were the most deserving person. This 545 00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 2: is an incredible performance, and that I think definitely comes 546 00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 2: from the energy with which you hold yourself, not necessarily 547 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,359 Speaker 2: whether you did the best job or not. 548 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,800 Speaker 3: And also like it's so subjective, like there's only so 549 00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:17,199 Speaker 3: suspecting amount of people choosing the award. But obviously, like 550 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 3: even looking at the start of this question, when she 551 00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:24,000 Speaker 3: was saying that she saw a dream workplace and said, 552 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:26,399 Speaker 3: I deserve to work there. I'm a hard worker and 553 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 3: that's the belief to my call, Like, you obviously do 554 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,679 Speaker 3: have that belief inside of you, So try and use that, 555 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,880 Speaker 3: because how is you getting that job and truly believing 556 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 3: that you deserve that any different to you winning an award, 557 00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,159 Speaker 3: Like it's the same thing. And if you have that 558 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 3: core belief and you know that down to your core, 559 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,680 Speaker 3: use that energy and like hold yourself in a way 560 00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,920 Speaker 3: like we always talk about, it's the energy in which 561 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 3: you're in that kind of attracts you know, things and 562 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 3: people and all that sort of stuff into your life. 563 00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:58,159 Speaker 3: So use that initial energy that you had in this 564 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:01,520 Speaker 3: question to then hold yourself in this same situation and 565 00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:05,199 Speaker 3: kind of remind yourself that you've gotten something before for 566 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:06,080 Speaker 3: being a hard worker. 567 00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:08,480 Speaker 4: You've gotten your dream job, you knew you deserved it. 568 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:12,280 Speaker 3: So try and place that same belief into this situation. 569 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. And then to answer the second part of her 570 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,719 Speaker 2: question where she asked, what's our advice to overcome the 571 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 2: guilt of manifesting these big things in your life? I 572 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,320 Speaker 2: think that just comes down to the fact of knowing 573 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 2: and maybe making it a core belief of yours that 574 00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,919 Speaker 2: you can and deserve to have everything you want. Like 575 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:34,159 Speaker 2: it's almost that thing of I can see sort of 576 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:36,199 Speaker 2: maybe with your thought process of oh, well, I got 577 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 2: the job, and I got the house, and I got 578 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 2: the husband, so I couldn't possibly ask for anything else. 579 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:45,280 Speaker 2: You absolutely can, and you wouldn't want anything else if 580 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,200 Speaker 2: if it wasn't like you wouldn't have it on your heart, 581 00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 2: if you didn't deserve it, and if it wasn't coming 582 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,920 Speaker 2: your way in one way or the other. So I think, 583 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:56,440 Speaker 2: don't feel guilty about it, but something that does help me. 584 00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 2: I guess with guilt when it comes to manifesting big things, 585 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 2: because sometimes you can feel a bit guilty because you 586 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 2: can go, well, I have all this, and there's people 587 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 2: struggling and that sort of stuff. Of the more you have, 588 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,440 Speaker 2: the more you have the ability to give and help 589 00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 2: others energetically, financially, whatever way you want to put it, 590 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 2: but also knowing that your path is so unique and 591 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:21,960 Speaker 2: different to anyone else that if you just follow your path, 592 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 2: you're actually not taking anything away from anyone else. 593 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 4: And yeah, that's the biggest thing. 594 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, yes, you got your dream job, but you 595 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,440 Speaker 2: didn't take, for example, my dream job away from me. No, 596 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 2: because my dream job's different to your dream job. And 597 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:38,600 Speaker 2: just looking at it that way of you deserve everything 598 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,920 Speaker 2: you want for yourself because that's what's coming your way anyway, 599 00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 2: and the next person will get everything they deserve and more. 600 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think something that really helped me with 601 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 3: this is like whilst manifesting big things into your life. 602 00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 3: And obviously this is coming from a place of like 603 00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 3: if you said that you're a people pleaser, if I 604 00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:00,680 Speaker 3: have all these things, like other people can't have it, 605 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 3: like you were just saying, but remembering there's like an 606 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,719 Speaker 3: abundance for that to go around for everyone. And I 607 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,000 Speaker 3: think just because don't focus on anyone else or what 608 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,560 Speaker 3: anyone else is doing, focus on yourself and your journey 609 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 3: and you getting good things should never be an issue 610 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,680 Speaker 3: for the people around you. If anything, it should be 611 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:22,320 Speaker 3: like motivating and inspiring and hopefully the people around you 612 00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 3: can lift you up and make you feel good for 613 00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 3: having those big things and don't feel guilty for it because. 614 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 2: You'd be sad time. 615 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you not having the things that you want 616 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:33,960 Speaker 3: isn't going to change anything for anyone else, So just 617 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 3: try and focus on you and your journey and know 618 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 3: that you manifesting these big things into your life isn't 619 00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 3: taking away from anyone else. 620 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. 621 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,120 Speaker 4: Amazing, amazing. 622 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:48,160 Speaker 2: Well, we'll leave that there. 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