WEBVTT - Would You Rather Relive Your Worst Heartbreak OR Erase Their Memory Forever? 💔

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms flex and fromes. This is the Flex

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<v Speaker 1>and Frooms catch up podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Flexing Frooms on Kita. We have a moral dilemma, as

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<v Speaker 2>you all know, for me included, Brookie included, and you listening.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a big, vast brain, and that brain can

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<v Speaker 2>make many thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>Of those thoughts.

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<v Speaker 2>I was thinking the other day, would you rather relive

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<v Speaker 2>your worst heartbreak like the one that really tore you up?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm talking from start to finish that heartbreak right, or

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<v Speaker 2>erase that person from your memory effective immediately.

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<v Speaker 3>I would take the memory, you would erase them.

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<v Speaker 1>I would relive it. Yeah, okay?

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<v Speaker 2>What is love?

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<v Speaker 1>What is? Don't even started? Would rather have loved and

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<v Speaker 1>lost than not loved at all?

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<v Speaker 2>Speak on it.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just nice to feel emotions so deeply, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>Like it is nice sometimes to feel like it's the

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<v Speaker 4>end of the world and you'll never find someone better

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<v Speaker 4>and you're stuck on someone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I haven't felt that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the prices in us though?

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<v Speaker 5>Is that?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, it's just nice to feel the depth and breathe emotion.

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<v Speaker 2>I like to feel things where the people who listen

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<v Speaker 2>to sad music to feel Okay, So.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to make a distinction. I like to feel

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<v Speaker 4>things and be vulnerable when I haven't made a mistake.

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<v Speaker 4>It's very hard to be vulnerable about mistakes. Like it's

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<v Speaker 4>very hard to like if you hurt someone and then

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<v Speaker 4>you I think there's.

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<v Speaker 2>A time and place and I think when the window passes.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard to apologize when you know you've made a mistake,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean. It's like when it's not fresh,

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, what it's done now? Like I cooked it?

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<v Speaker 4>What about you, Brookie, I'd rather not have done it

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<v Speaker 4>at all, Like eraised the memory?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah totally, whoa yeah, because going from being in a

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<v Speaker 5>relationship to going to being single, Like, I enjoy it,

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<v Speaker 5>but I'd rather not feel the lonely side of it,

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<v Speaker 5>do you know what I mean? So it's like I'd

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<v Speaker 5>rather not know what that felt like before.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy, that is, I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>I just feel like so much of heartbreak is contingent

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<v Speaker 2>on the person you become. One of the things I

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<v Speaker 2>learned about heartbreak is just hurt generally. How like you

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<v Speaker 2>can be the one who is like the conductor of

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<v Speaker 2>your own hurt and not know what to do with

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<v Speaker 2>that information. So many, so much of the way you

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<v Speaker 2>hurt other people can be so like accidental, and you

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<v Speaker 2>can cause so much damage. And I just didn't conceptualize

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<v Speaker 2>that when I was in my own little world being

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<v Speaker 2>like I want to do the things I want to do.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like breaking people's hearts left right and center,

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<v Speaker 2>or just being really flippant with people and not realizing that,

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<v Speaker 2>like they're fragile, shallow people. I don't know if I'd

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<v Speaker 2>be able to figure out shallow people. Uh, fragile, not shallow.

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<v Speaker 2>What's the word I'm looking for.

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<v Speaker 1>Fragile?

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<v Speaker 2>No, easily breakable?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, fragile. Yeah, what's the other word. I'm looking for? Gentle?

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<v Speaker 2>Gentle gentle people, you know. And I don't think I

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<v Speaker 2>would have developed that kind of empathy without having done damage.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, have you ever been damaged? Though? Yeah? Wrecked? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I think we had the same guy broke our heart.

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<v Speaker 4>Did we?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, that was just a root babe, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>dreams at the same time. Nuh not same year broken

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<v Speaker 3>heart though, No, I'm kidding, but he kind of did

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<v Speaker 3>string me along a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>That's vibe it is, isn't it. Yeah? We we we're

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<v Speaker 1>blood sisters. Is that what it's called?

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<v Speaker 4>Nah, what is it called sausage? It's pretty cool though,

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<v Speaker 4>that we are. It's hot, it is.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love more Overlapp to be honest, but not

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<v Speaker 2>in any way that matters. I'm gonna need a list,

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<v Speaker 2>some flippant ones, some rogue ones.

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