1 00:00:01,320 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: My Heart podcasts, hear more gold one on one point 2 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: seven podcasts. 3 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:09,600 Speaker 2: Playlists, and listen live on the Free iHeart app New 4 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:12,119 Speaker 2: Jersey and Amanda jam Nation. 5 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: Fifty years since Where Did I Come From landed on 6 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: our shelves and it changed how a generation learned about 7 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: sex education. These days, I think everyone knows the ins 8 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 1: and outs, but more work is being done around consent. 9 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: At the same time as we're having the Andrew Tates 10 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:33,560 Speaker 1: of the world dictate to young men how they feel 11 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:34,959 Speaker 1: women men should be dominant. 12 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 2: Rise of spicy AI, of all. 13 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 1: That stuff AI faked, of sexting, of pornography. For many 14 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: young people today, pornography is their sex education. 15 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 3: Do you notice you can't write on If you write 16 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:49,520 Speaker 3: anything on X or any of those Facebook you can't 17 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 3: write the word vagina, You've got to. 18 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: Actually and sex comes out as se double GSX. Yes, 19 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: And yet ironically people have access to more stuff than ever. 20 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 3: Then you can create an avatar or a deep fake 21 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 3: and do whatever you want. 22 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 2: What's happened. 23 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 1: I know I had it off with Tom Cruise last night. 24 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: It's outrageous. 25 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 2: It was a deep deep Was that real or not? 26 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, but a zip tab was involved, but 27 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: we were talking about how we learned about sex education. 28 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,680 Speaker 1: My friend or an older woman whose mother in law, 29 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: on the night of her wedding put olive oil in 30 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 1: a flannel next to the bed, making a past and 31 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 1: now it's my wedding night flannel? 32 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 2: Can you just buy a fly? 33 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 1: Just but you know this is things are different now. 34 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: Remember you were saying that Helen had to Helen holding 35 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 1: up either school. 36 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 3: Yes, all the parents had to hold up signs of 37 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 3: reproductive orban parents. Did the parents the room, there'd be 38 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 3: a Filippian tube and over there they'd be uterus and 39 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 3: Helen had to hold on the sign that said scrubb. 40 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: I suggest that she takes it to the airport when 41 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: she's picking. 42 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 3: You up, as if she'd never picked me up with 43 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:56,559 Speaker 3: that sign. 44 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 1: Well, we thought the tribal drama could be for thisvcation. 45 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: Have a ps girls have of that change a good. 46 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 2: Old days, that's all you need. 47 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 1: How did it go for you? What went wrong? What 48 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 1: was embarrassing? Give us all the information? 49 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 2: Anon has joined us. 50 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 1: Oh hello, Anon, why are you and on? Is this 51 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 1: a juicy story? 52 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 4: It's a little embarrassing. 53 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: Please. 54 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 4: In year five, my dad and stepmother sent me to 55 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:31,679 Speaker 4: the school sex education night with the boy across the 56 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 4: road and his dad. 57 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: So talk us through what that was like. You had 58 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: to sit with kind of people that weren't your family 59 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 1: to hear this embarrassing stuff. 60 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 5: Yes, why didn't. 61 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:45,679 Speaker 4: They was mortifying And they gave you a little book 62 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 4: that you had to take home. 63 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: Why did your parents go? They think they just outsource it. 64 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 4: I can't remember. I think maybe they just I don't know. Yeah, 65 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 4: I didn't think it was that important. 66 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: Or so were the man across the road and his kid. 67 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 1: That's dreadful. 68 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 2: You can do anything on uber E think it out 69 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:05,919 Speaker 2: to task. 70 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:10,239 Speaker 3: Take my kid to a sex education Yes, but you 71 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 3: learned everything. 72 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: Were those of the earliest films, and they were the 73 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: most embarrassing. I was an entire film. It was one 74 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: of those old ones that sounded like this through the 75 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 1: projector The whole film was about menstruation. 76 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:21,959 Speaker 2: It was all about it. 77 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:23,959 Speaker 1: But I didn't know that that was periods until a 78 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: year later. The film was so amorphous and so lacking 79 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: in direction, in direct chat. I didn't know what it 80 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: was about. 81 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:33,399 Speaker 2: To find out year later when it actually happened. Yes, 82 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 2: and oh my god, what's happened here. Yeah, that'll be 83 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 2: the worst thing in the world. 84 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 5: Hello Marty, Amanda. 85 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 1: All, how was your sex imocation? 86 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 2: All right? 87 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 5: I was twenty six years of age, a few months 88 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 5: short of twenty seven, and I was to be married 89 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 5: on tomorrow, right Saturday, and this is Friday night. My 90 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 5: mum and dad never ever spoke about sex all to us. 91 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 5: And when I went to school in the sixties and 92 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 5: early seventies, I'm sixty eight years of age, so there 93 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 5: was no sex education. My mum says, now, now regarding 94 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 5: your downstairs bits tomorrow when after you get married, you know, 95 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 5: this is what you might need to do. And I said, 96 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 5: oh yes, She said, now, if you're not too fear 97 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 5: on it, asked your brother? Now, my brother was nineteen, 98 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 5: I'm twenty six. I'm a twenty six year old virgin. 99 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 3: Oh what were you actually a twenty six year old 100 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:37,679 Speaker 3: version or virgin? 101 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 4: Yes? 102 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 5: I was, Yes, I was. 103 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 1: Did you ask your brother. 104 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 4: Whatno? Oh? 105 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 1: My so many questions. Did you Were you aware of 106 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: the ins and outs as it were? 107 00:04:52,920 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 5: Well, thankfully my wife moms the ex wife now my 108 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 5: wife to be at that time, she has did have 109 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 5: experience and led me through the process. 110 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 1: Did Your mom didn't give you any details. Mom just 111 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: said ask your nineteen year old brother. 112 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 4: Yes, right. 113 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 2: Or ask your wife because she's been around the flock. 114 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 5: Well, the girlfriend, you know, the girlfriend, the wife to 115 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 5: be tomorrow. Yes, she'll lead you through it, you. 116 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,679 Speaker 2: Know, Marty. That is I can just see her filing 117 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 2: and nails. 118 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 3: Okay, this is what you Mary. 119 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 2: That was a very awkward story, so very great.