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Speaker 2: All right, let's get it.

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Speaker 4: Welcome back to another episode of Bros and Colm.

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Speaker 2: Let's go, let's go.

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Speaker 3: We've got j Lex, We've got d Malik here, we

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Speaker 3: are still with it today.

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Speaker 2: We've got a what.

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Speaker 1: Are we going to special guests coming in?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, we've got a special guests coming in.

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Speaker 4: Actually, this guy is actually American. He's come from America.

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Speaker 1: We just fought. Well, jump on quickly and answer question.

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Speaker 4: I think what I'm going to do is I'm going

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Speaker 4: to put a questionnaire up on Instagram and I'll save

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Speaker 4: it to our highlights. That way, whoever has questions they

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Speaker 4: can submit it there. That way, going.

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Speaker 1: To every single platform everything.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, live all the time, because that's that's how we

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Speaker 5: have been getting our questions. Guys. If you if you

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Speaker 5: dms uh TikTok Instagram, Yeah, and we just answer it

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Speaker 5: on here. So yeah, they will be easier way to

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Speaker 5: do it. We're just going to upload upload it in

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Speaker 5: the highlights in there. You can submit your questions in there,

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Speaker 5: so it's far more easy accessible.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it.

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Speaker 4: That's the exciting news. We also came here early because

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Speaker 4: we want to catch up. Probably I remember last time,

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Speaker 4: or maybe he was stuck at the barber He's being

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Speaker 4: held hostageers in Sydney around yeah, around.

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Speaker 3: Especially when they see Islanders come here. Bro, you already

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Speaker 3: know they're gonna do damage.

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Speaker 1: They love it.

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Speaker 2: And I think our guest today is a barber as well,

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Speaker 2: isn't he.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so yeah, he opened up his own barbershop in time,

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Speaker 5: So we touch up on.

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Speaker 2: The entrepreneurship everything. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: From what I have heard, he's like he pretty much

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Speaker 3: we'll see, we'll see what he gets here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: For now, we did get a couple of questions in anyway.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, there's a couple of questions.

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Speaker 3: I was just telling the doctor I watched this horror

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Speaker 3: movie last night. Twenty eight years later.

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Speaker 5: This movie, bro, I'm still here to watch it.

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Speaker 3: Right in the opening scene or twenty eight years later,

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Speaker 2: They get slaughtered in the first scene. Damn, bro, I

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Speaker 2: already do straight. That's the opening scene.

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Speaker 1: Bro.

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Speaker 2: My butteers were cleansing the opening, you know.

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Speaker 5: I was like, ah, yeah, if any of yous remember

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Speaker 5: what twenty eight weeks later, it's very very similar. They

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Speaker 5: started off very powerful, you know, it's just family orientation.

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Speaker 5: At the start, it's very dark and you think everything

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Speaker 3: Twenty days later, twenty weeks later. The concept, the way

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Speaker 3: Because I feel like we always have these conversations, what

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Speaker 2: What would you use around?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, shut it out. I hate horror movies now.

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Speaker 4: The way they're making horror movies now, it's just all

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Speaker 4: Hey, you know what I did too much? What I

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Speaker 1: Have you seen it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm late.

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Speaker 3: There, you go, I was gonna leave. I was, I

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Speaker 2: Of the room. But something keeps happening. Let me see

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Speaker 2: what's gonna happen. Sucking for movies, it's huge.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do know.

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Speaker 3: I know, like he done they never learned movie and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was mad.

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Speaker 3: But then again he's probably the only one that's really

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Speaker 3: touched on that. I think the market is massive for Uh,

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Speaker 3: There's still a lot of room to go, room to

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Speaker 2: But that's cracker lad.

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Speaker 5: A lot of the bigger actors in Hollywood though, what'so

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Speaker 3: But apparently Russell Crowe has a mansion in the at

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Speaker 3: the beach lad Bro I had one of I had,

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Speaker 4: But I think one day we should touch based on them,

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Speaker 4: like all of you guys gotta know what's happening in

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Speaker 4: the media. Yeah, it's not very important, but I think

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Speaker 4: think it's very important to know the ozzies that are

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Speaker 4: doing that. Yeah, you guys could get expired inspired for

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Speaker 2: Who do you reckons?

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Speaker 2: What's her name, Blondie, she's in The Wolf of war Street.

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Speaker 5: No, No, it's Robert, isn't it Robert Robbin rob rob Yeah, Robbie,

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Speaker 5: Chris Hens as well. Chris Hemsworth. Yeah, he's Australian. He's

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Speaker 5: That guy thorn a thorn Or.

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Speaker 3: But I've always wanted to be in you know, those

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Speaker 4: Man, the best thing about Australia right now is that

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Speaker 1: So you know, once he cracked the code, like I

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Speaker 6: Bro, what there is this one tongue and guy I

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Speaker 5: Or something, but he's he was Sam. Yeah, shout out

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Speaker 5: to you. He sent us a DM for President cons

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Speaker 5: Man and well, well we're watching, Bro. What a blessing, man,

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Speaker 5: What a blessing.

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Speaker 1: Bro.

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Speaker 3: And that's what I mean, Like like Tongue and Sam's story,

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Speaker 3: Like there's so much, like so much things that have

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Speaker 3: The Underbelly touched up on a lot of the things

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Speaker 3: We've the stories that we've heard when we used to

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Speaker 3: some of these stories, you think, Bro, that's a movie.

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Speaker 4: Like everyone living here is like going for a movie

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Speaker 1: That this is how it's always been. It's just always it's.

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Speaker 3: Just starting to become more vocal. People are starting to

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Speaker 5: Always It's always been the case.

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Speaker 1: That was basically the choices that you had. We've got

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Speaker 3: What's your views on the New Zealand culture and the

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Speaker 2: Bro shout out to New Zealand.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 2: I actually always thought that New Zealand.

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Speaker 3: I actually thought that they were always actually part of us,

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Speaker 3: I think it's because of the heritage we share, uh,

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Speaker 3: a beautiful warrior culture that a lot of us Polynesias

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Speaker 3: we can relate to. But nothing beats the haka man.

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Speaker 3: Oh you bet say, meat pies for these guys, I

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Speaker 3: never hear the.

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Speaker 2: End of it. I'll be honest.

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Speaker 3: You know, I haven't even tried the New Zealand meat pies,

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Speaker 3: so of course I'm gonna be But you guys, are

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Speaker 3: you guys are lacking on the AUSSI pis? You probably

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Speaker 3: probably just getting passed from sevent eleven pies. He actually

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Speaker 5: Like the eleven is already good enough.

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Speaker 2: They're a really good enough. If you go to a

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Speaker 5: Started to stay away from there for years.

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Speaker 3: And you know what, we'll touch on this because the

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Speaker 4: I swear from the star. Like growing up, we started

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Speaker 1: You know, and that's the people you want to keep

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Speaker 4: have true love. So when you actually look for true love,

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00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,560
Speaker 4: look to God and the rest. I feel like it's

446
00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,200
Speaker 4: it should base you should base all your relationships of loyality.

447
00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:55,040
Speaker 5: That's the Yeah. Yeah, I think I think a lot

448
00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:58,120
Speaker 5: of people have that misconception where they think I love,

449
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:01,520
Speaker 5: where they think that they define love should be like

450
00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:02,439
Speaker 5: they feel happy.

451
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:03,080
Speaker 1: You know.

452
00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:06,600
Speaker 5: I feel like that's something wrong, that's wrong. You're not

453
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:09,360
Speaker 5: meant to feel happy. Like when it comes to love.

454
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 5: I feel like love is way more than that.

455
00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's full of tears, it's full of heartbreak, full

456
00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:16,639
Speaker 3: of heartbreaks.

457
00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:25,520
Speaker 5: With love comes war as well, you know happy, you

458
00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:27,520
Speaker 5: know sometimes, Yeah, you've got to do the things that

459
00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:28,120
Speaker 5: you don't love.

460
00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 2: I think he's sending a message.

461
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:39,920
Speaker 1: When it comes to always smoke. You know.

462
00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:43,960
Speaker 3: Someone actually asked me this question the other day and said,

463
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:47,880
Speaker 3: do you regret ever being a part of the streets?

464
00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:51,080
Speaker 3: And I just thought of something as we're talking about loyalty,

465
00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:53,640
Speaker 3: and the reason why I say no is because there's

466
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,719
Speaker 3: certain things that you learn in jail and the streets

467
00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:59,879
Speaker 3: that you cannot find in a normal life. And the

468
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:03,320
Speaker 3: honor and loyalty that you learn in the streets, you

469
00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:05,640
Speaker 3: will not find it in a normal day to day life.

470
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 3: You go on the Like I bet you when if

471
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,440
Speaker 3: you have like a white collar job for you know,

472
00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 3: the rest of your life and you live on Wall Street,

473
00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:15,200
Speaker 3: I bet you, bro your morals will be all over

474
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:17,200
Speaker 3: the place, your ethics will be all over the place,

475
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,440
Speaker 3: because it's a dog eat dog world out there, and

476
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 3: that's how they that's how they function. But when you're

477
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,600
Speaker 3: raised in the street and like it's you know, you're

478
00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 3: coming to you're sharing crumbs with people, you actually learn

479
00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:31,520
Speaker 3: what true honor is and true loyalty. So like there's

480
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:33,880
Speaker 3: things that you learn in the streets that of course

481
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:37,680
Speaker 3: there's good and bad, but some virtues that I've learnt

482
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 3: myself being around the streets. It's helped me to be

483
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:45,040
Speaker 3: able to conduct my life in a good way, even

484
00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:48,439
Speaker 3: in business ways as well. A lot of the ways

485
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:52,960
Speaker 3: that I conduct business. I learned how numbers work because

486
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:56,359
Speaker 3: of you know, dealing in this like not dealing, but

487
00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:58,919
Speaker 3: like yeah, but like you know you know what I mean,

488
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:03,719
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? You know you know, how

489
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 3: to you learn a lot of fundamental things. I'd even

490
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 3: arguably say you learn a bit more than school, like

491
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 3: in the streets teaching, like a lot of values that

492
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,920
Speaker 3: just experience. You get bullied in school and the teacher

493
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:21,399
Speaker 3: just looks the other way, and like in the streets

494
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 3: you learn honor.

495
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 1: You know, it's very deep, and it's it's one of

496
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:28,399
Speaker 1: my it's one of my dreams.

497
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:32,159
Speaker 4: I've had to like show chowcust these people because I

498
00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 4: wanted to give a platform for these people that go

499
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 4: through these A lot of a lot of us, you know,

500
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,160
Speaker 4: have been through hell and back and it's it's really

501
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:44,200
Speaker 4: shaped us to better people. And who would have known

502
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:45,920
Speaker 4: that we'll be here trying to help the youth.

503
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:46,200
Speaker 2: You know.

504
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 1: Look wow and and yeah, I say the same for

505
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 1: a lot of people.

506
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 4: There's there's actually a lot of boys that I've met

507
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 4: and I've known that they've done craziest things. You know,

508
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,560
Speaker 4: the boys that I grew up with would eventually grow

509
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 4: up to commit that heinous and crimes, the most worse

510
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,879
Speaker 4: crimes in Sydney. And but these guys like have just

511
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 4: been in the wrong environment and but they can't they

512
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,920
Speaker 4: have good heart and they they can be definitely be

513
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 4: good people depending on the people that they're around.

514
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:18,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I remember you telling me about this as well.

515
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 3: Like most of the people that you met inside, like

516
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 3: they were like just like being at the wrong place

517
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:25,880
Speaker 3: at the wrong time.

518
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 1: But these were stand up guys, you know, just just

519
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:29,239
Speaker 1: like us.

520
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,440
Speaker 3: They were almost like us. But he was saying that

521
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 3: you listen to the charges. He was talking about old

522
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:37,399
Speaker 3: mate the other day that got into a fight and

523
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 3: then there you go, the bloke.

524
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then lost one mistaken one mistake, one mistake.

525
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:44,720
Speaker 4: And I've learned that with a lot of boys like

526
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:49,479
Speaker 4: that I've met personally in jail. One mistake acrost them everything.

527
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 1: And yeah, it's a.

528
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 4: Very sad story, man. I just I just have hope

529
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:55,919
Speaker 4: for these guys. The most important thing is God at

530
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 4: the end of the day. But I have hope for

531
00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:01,920
Speaker 4: these guys to eventually see freedom. One of my closest mates,

532
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:06,359
Speaker 4: yankit Tan, You're done for very very ugly crime. And

533
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,919
Speaker 4: he's never getting out. He's never getting out, he's never

534
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 4: going to see Yeah, he's never going to see freedom again.

535
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 4: He's got kids and everything. He's already been in there

536
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 4: for like about fifteen years. Yeah he's still got another

537
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 4: thirty years, probably thirty years to live.

538
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 1: And yeah, very sad, but you know that man.

539
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 4: A lot of us And you know what, when you

540
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 4: look at these criminals that done bad things, a lot

541
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 4: of us, it's it's not that rare to see it happened.

542
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,400
Speaker 4: Like a lot of us could fall for the same

543
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 4: same exact crime and make the same mistake. We just

544
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 4: lack an opportunity. Like how we spoke about the islander

545
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 4: that you know where he had a fight and the

546
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:48,960
Speaker 4: guy would pass away. Like how many of us out

547
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 4: there have in that have been in that situation where

548
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:53,879
Speaker 4: we've hit someone or were having a fight and then

549
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 4: you know, someone this And this is why I have

550
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 4: love for these guys because they're just us. They just

551
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 4: had that mistake, you know, and that they can't come

552
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 4: back from. See, a lot of us are lucky. I'm

553
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,640
Speaker 4: blessed that I've had numerous fights where no one would

554
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 4: end up dead, but these I've had very dangerous fights.

555
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 1: And some of you guys have.

556
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 4: Been been driving where you kills something and a lot

557
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 4: of us, a lot of us have times where we

558
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,119
Speaker 4: blow up. We get so aggressive and we want to

559
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 4: kill someone you know, and like, you know, we go

560
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 4: for a lot of the normal person.

561
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 1: Actually does that.

562
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 4: Nearly every second day in the everyday life that we're living,

563
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 4: you come across someone that you don't like, and and

564
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 4: in the Bible it says, once you thought of the crime,

565
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 4: you've actually already committed it. So that's the same way

566
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 4: I treat it like I treat it as everyone's exact same.

567
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 4: You know people, you have people that think of doing

568
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 4: something very bad, but they don't end up doing it.

569
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 4: Doesn't make them any different from my brother. That's that's

570
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 4: actually committed the crime.

571
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 1: And yeah, I believe that.

572
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 5: I believe that as well. If you just even think

573
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 5: about doing it, then you've you've intentionally already committed that thing,

574
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 5: even if you just thought about it.

575
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, because eventually changes the yeah person you are, and

576
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 4: what happens in here, what happens in here eventually comes

577
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 4: out to play. That's the that's the person you become.

578
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 4: And I feel like in the Bible, that's why it's

579
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 4: very important to have faith. People say you can't. Why

580
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 4: do Christians think that you can just be say a

581
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 4: boy having faith? But the reason why it's important to

582
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,159
Speaker 4: have faith, because what happens in here and here eventually

583
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 4: comes out to play. That's the way you act. It

584
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 4: all starts in the mind. You don't just start acting

585
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 4: like you don't just start singing. It happens in the

586
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 4: head first, and then you commit the crime, you know

587
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 4: what I mean.

588
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 3: That's what mental health is so important. That you've got

589
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 3: to be in a good mental space. And that's why drugs.

590
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:50,040
Speaker 3: That's because drugs is it like hinders, the only thing

591
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 3: that makes that drives you your brain. As soon as

592
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 3: the drugs get into your brain, the drugs start talking

593
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 3: for you. They start doing things for you. And some

594
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 3: of the stories I've heard from even the boys in

595
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 3: Jewvie that I think they're in big Boys now because

596
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 3: because of their charges. When I was in Juvie, they

597
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:07,199
Speaker 3: were telling me the charges and that they were going

598
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 3: to head off to big Boys in the later years,

599
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 3: and they probably are still there. And most of their

600
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 3: stories was just being at the wrong place at the

601
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,639
Speaker 3: wrong time. And I heard one of their stories. One

602
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 3: of their stories was, oh man, he was at a

603
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 3: party and there was a broad after like every single

604
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 3: party in the twenty fifteens, and you know, twenty twelve

605
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,920
Speaker 3: twenty thirteen, twenty fourteen, twenty fifteen. You know when we

606
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,160
Speaker 3: used to have those parties at halls and like house

607
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 3: parties and no one was really on social media that

608
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 3: much those days. He was just at one of those

609
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 3: parties that was abroad after.

610
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 2: Old Mat made an accident, and yeah, someone would.

611
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 3: Someone would go on to Yeah, then in a tragic

612
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 3: of fate at the end, and now Old Maid is

613
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 3: he's lost his whole family, like his childhood. Remember my

614
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 3: mom came to visit me, and his mom came to

615
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 3: visit him the same day, and my mom told me

616
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 3: the next day that she was crying with his mom outside.

617
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 3: They were crying together tongue in as well. And yeah, man,

618
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 3: it's it's just sad because I think it made me think,

619
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 3: like how many parties have I been to? How many

620
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 3: I've almost had a fight after every single party I've

621
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 3: been to? And you know what it makes you feel

622
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 3: like now looking at back at it now, I like

623
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 3: to think that it's a higher power that we've survived.

624
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 3: We've survived too many times through too many things to

625
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 3: end up wind up here. So I feel like there's

626
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 3: truly purpose behind what we're doing and I'm happy that

627
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 3: we're finally driving our purpose because but there's no such

628
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 3: thing as luck. If you know the depth of all

629
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 3: of our stories, which we are going to share the

630
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 3: actual depth of everything after, you know, later on, like

631
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 3: so his case is dismissed, mine is pending to be dismissed.

632
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 3: We're going to bring light to everything after the back

633
00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 3: ends of how everything works in streets and things like that.

634
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 3: And yeah, it's it's it's a real ugly lad when

635
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:07,959
Speaker 3: you get to like behind, like, we have a lot

636
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 3: of ugly things that have happened, you know, our stories,

637
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 3: even individually, we all have a big story as well.

638
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 3: But we feel like if we share it to you

639
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 3: a lot of the young'ins and they can understand it,

640
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 3: they can see that they can make different decisions and

641
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 3: pivot from where we didn't.

642
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, one hundred And it's to inspire young into

643
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 4: going for the same thing. Like I didn't mention. I

644
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 4: didn't mention on a TikTok video replying to a comment.

645
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 4: I didn't mention. I've went through a few stab winds

646
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 4: and there's a lot of worse things that's happened in

647
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 4: my life.

648
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 1: No, I'm not ready to share it right now.

649
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 4: I will share it eventually, but yeah, there's a lot

650
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 4: of things in my life that just very bad.

651
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 1: And then, you know, I used to look back because

652
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 1: we've made it to.

653
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 4: How far we are now, and I look back thinking

654
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 4: like everything makes sense now, you know, like there's a

655
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 4: lot of places where God saves you and he stops

656
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 4: you before you make that mistake, and yeah, it's all

657
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 4: for a purpose. And when I look back now, there

658
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 4: could have been a lot of times where we all

659
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 4: could have died, where I could have died, where we

660
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 4: all could have had an accent or killed someone by accident.

661
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 4: And yeah, lucky. I used to say, like what a coincidence?

662
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 4: Or what how lucky?

663
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 3: We used to drink and cheese often think that it

664
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 3: was us.

665
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, we used to think that. How good im I?

666
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 2: You know you could never get me. You know that's

667
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 2: just what I do.

668
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 3: But yeah, you look at it now and you just think, man,

669
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 3: that I was playing with God's grace.

670
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's God and he tries to save you.

671
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, if you if you've been through a situation like that,

672
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 4: we're so close to going for a dark hole or

673
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 4: so close, don't that's good? That's God pulling you out

674
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 4: because he's got a purpose for you. And I truly

675
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 4: believe if there was no purpose of me being in here,

676
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 4: I would have been gone too many times.

677
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 1: The first date.

678
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 4: But yeah, that's another story, bro, we to We're gonna

679
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 4: make a whole podcast for that stuff.

680
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 3: All the mothers and fathers still praying for your kids

681
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 3: even though they're out in the streets doing wrong and

682
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 3: in jail. Never fail your your kids, man, Like I

683
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 3: know that our stories we will save numerous times through grace,

684
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 3: and a lot of it was because of those sleepless

685
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 3: nights that my mum and dad stayed up praying for us,

686
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 3: and they never gave up hope on us. Yeah, so yeah,

687
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 3: everyone everyone has, Man, that's two big subjects already.

688
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 2: Holy Yeah, we can give us a break. Let us breathe.

689
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 2: You just want to come so fast forward, coming fast.

690
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 2: He's a good one. What is the most money you've

691
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 2: made in the week. It's turning into an interrogation, but what.

692
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 5: I think the most over made was earned six thousand

693
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 5: in one week. Six that's still gone lad, after tax

694
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 5: after I don't want to talk too much about that.

695
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 3: For me, I feel like I don't really want to

696
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 3: add like now, as of now, I like to keep

697
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 3: my my net worth and things discrete only because I

698
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 3: feel like it's something very it's.

699
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 2: Very important to me.

700
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 3: I've got certain goals that I haven't even shared with

701
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 3: my close family, and I feel like it's just stupid

702
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 3: if I share it to everyone. I want to reach

703
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 3: these certain goals before I can announce it. But I'm

704
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 3: doing well right now. But what I will tell you

705
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 3: is that in iron form work, I didn't mention I

706
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 3: made ridiculous money. And one of the biggest weeks I

707
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 3: turned over close to fifty K. It was close to

708
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 3: fifty K. And mind you, I was eighteen eighteen at

709
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 3: that time, and you don't see that type of money.

710
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 4: And I think I was so young and even now,

711
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 4: like even now, fifty goes out the window the next day,

712
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 4: you're not careful.

713
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 3: Yeah for me, Oh now, fifty is nothing nothing now, bro,

714
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 3: I know, I know a lot of boys that can

715
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 3: just blow that in one night in the cast, like

716
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 3: you're not even in a full night, probably a couple

717
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:06,120
Speaker 3: of hours.

718
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:09,280
Speaker 4: This is this is actually one of the main reasons

719
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:10,839
Speaker 4: why I wanted to get a job when I got

720
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 4: out of jail. Because I realized how fast money goes,

721
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 4: and it's it's not really about how much you're making

722
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:17,359
Speaker 4: a week.

723
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:19,799
Speaker 1: It's more about how much are you how much are

724
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,319
Speaker 1: you making every week? Yeah, how much are you're making

725
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 1: a year? Like how much you're making in five years,

726
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 1: and that I think, I feel like that's more important.

727
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:28,759
Speaker 4: It kep me ground that I really wanted to get

728
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 4: a job because you keme me ground and you're not

729
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:34,360
Speaker 4: spending for me. Personally, I was a bad spender. So

730
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 4: having a job like taught me to relax, take a

731
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 4: step back. Can't just play your money like that, you know,

732
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 4: And it's really it's really made me appreciate having a

733
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 4: normal job. And I think for any of you guys

734
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:49,919
Speaker 4: who who maybe are looking to try and make big money,

735
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 4: maybe accept what you're getting at the like what you're

736
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,400
Speaker 4: getting that is small, Maybe work on that and you

737
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 4: can slowly.

738
00:34:57,239 --> 00:35:00,960
Speaker 5: I think it's important just to like, I think like

739
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 5: there's different levels of richness. Some people are rich and

740
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 5: they don't really have that much money, and I feel

741
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:10,719
Speaker 5: like it's important to really spending your means. So yeah,

742
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 5: you know, you can be rich with a low income

743
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 5: or you can be rich with you can be.

744
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 2: Poor with a high income. You know that's true.

745
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 5: It's important to spend in your means. Man, I've met

746
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 5: a lot of poor guys that seem like they've got everything.

747
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 3: You know, you know what to add on to what

748
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,759
Speaker 3: he just said, I'm in a position now right where

749
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 3: I've got so many things going that I can't even

750
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 3: really put my finger down to like actually, like look

751
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 3: at a steady number. Because for a lot of people

752
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:45,760
Speaker 3: that are running businesses, you guys, people that do run business,

753
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 3: it says, will tell you. You understand that you need

754
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 3: money aside for stock, itinery, the workers, the insurances, the tax.

755
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 3: You can't really put a number on something. And then

756
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 3: that's just if you have one business. Now imagine if

757
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 3: you have multipiple. Brother, I can't see there and say

758
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 3: give you guys a number. It'd be a lie because

759
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know me. I'd have to

760
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 3: ask an accountant. But you want to be able to

761
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 3: get to a stage where you're not really you don't

762
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,279
Speaker 3: have a target goal of a specific number, You just

763
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 3: you just want to. I think it's a mindset, like

764
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 3: you said, like having that rich mindset where you're just

765
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 3: always wanting to push and you're wanted to grow more.

766
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 3: And I feel like when I used to slap in

767
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 3: the pokeys, you know how you used to make a

768
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 3: target goal. When I reached five k, then that's it father.

769
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 2: When you reach five k, oh man, Oh so it worked.

770
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 2: When I reached ten k. You start making new goals

771
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 2: as your stuff until you reach zero dollars.

772
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:44,080
Speaker 4: I think the most the most I'm made in it

773
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 4: in my scaffold business was about seven thousand, and yeah,

774
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 4: that was that was paying after I paid everyone.

775
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, after you pay everyone.

776
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 1: And to be honest, like that was wor to me.

777
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 1: That was hell.

778
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 2: That was hell.

779
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 1: That was seven thousand going through your hell.

780
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:02,439
Speaker 4: And like, yeah, the times, like I always, they taught

781
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 4: me to just appreciate what you're making, you know, And

782
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:08,839
Speaker 4: like like when I did get into business, I wanted

783
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 4: to I was getting jealous of my boys because I

784
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 4: used to pay my money and I was getting jealous

785
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 4: that these guys were able to get paid and I

786
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 4: haven't seen I had to get like I had to

787
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:18,720
Speaker 4: keep working after.

788
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:21,879
Speaker 1: And yeah, those people don't know that load.

789
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 3: The boss doesn't get paid the most, Yeah, it's paid

790
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 3: less and most of the time he gets paid the less.

791
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 5: And most of the time sometimes he's in minus or

792
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 5: sometimes the job's gone wrong. It's gone wrong and he

793
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 5: has to go back and fix it up, and now

794
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 5: he loses money. So you guys get to see a

795
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 5: lot of the guests that do come on and they

796
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 5: do run businesses, and maybe they can shed a bit

797
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 5: more light on some of the tough and stuff that

798
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 5: they go.

799
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 2: As well as don't rush.

800
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 3: Don't rush the process, bro, don't rush it load, like,

801
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 3: really be in the moment of chasing your dreams, for

802
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 3: filling the dreams, and enjoy the journey with whoever you're

803
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 3: doing with, if you're doing it with your wife or

804
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 3: your missus or your friends, like have a teamer behind you,

805
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:08,319
Speaker 3: enjoy the process. I remember, for me, I've always been

806
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 3: an entrepreneur since young. I've always been a big hustler,

807
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:13,919
Speaker 3: and I've always had that individual mindset, you know, where

808
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 3: like I'm on you know, my mindset's over here, you know,

809
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 3: so I'm always chasing. But then I got to a

810
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:23,360
Speaker 3: stage where, like the brother will tell you, like he

811
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:25,560
Speaker 3: was running his scaffolding company a lot of most of

812
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 3: the times, I didn't even need to be there, but

813
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 3: I just went there to be with my brothers. Yeah,

814
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 3: I just went there because I went because like man,

815
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 3: like you guys don't know that. Like Ronnie said, being

816
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 3: rich and having a poor mindset is different. Because me,

817
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 3: even having the financial freedom to sit at home, it

818
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:44,920
Speaker 3: just it wasn't fulfilling for me. But what is fulfilling

819
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:47,359
Speaker 3: for me is being with my brothers. So I would

820
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 3: go and put on a tool beild and work with

821
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 3: these guys on the scaffold. So for free, I wouldn't

822
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 3: my brother would try to pay me. I'll be like, nah,

823
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 3: I don't want anything. I'll literally just go to just

824
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 3: you know, to crack on the boys.

825
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 4: I'm grateful I had brothers with me because, yeah, I

826
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:03,320
Speaker 4: was in a worse position. It was half for me

827
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 4: to get my license. When I got out of jail,

828
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 4: I hit a pursuit in the city and so I

829
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 4: lost my license for a couple of years. So when

830
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 4: I started my business, I had no license. I was

831
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 4: catching ubers everywhere. I was catching ubers from site to site,

832
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 4: and I was going for at least one thousand and

833
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:17,240
Speaker 4: a week.

834
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 7: Number one do uber, bro, Yeah, when I seen you

835
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 7: remember me, But yeah, I've given the uber.

836
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 4: But that's a that's what you call flipping a bad

837
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 4: situation into something good. If you're struggling, you could use

838
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 4: that struggle as motivation to become bigger. And if it

839
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 4: wasn't for my license, I would have left the business

840
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 4: ages ago got a normal job, but I had no license.

841
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:45,800
Speaker 4: I needed to be making more money, so I was

842
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 4: using that as motivation. So I wasn't spending a lot

843
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 4: on umber, but I was making a lot as well.

844
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 4: I think this one's the important question. I think we

845
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 4: should go for it before specially guests comes. She bring

846
00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 4: on something important, she said, Sorry, so I'm gonna say

847
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,399
Speaker 4: that question again. Well, guidance would you give a young

848
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 4: woman whose partner is involved in the streets. Do you

849
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 4: think it could turn into a healthy marriage if they

850
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 4: stay together and he's on and he's on this path

851
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 4: we used together, we used together.

852
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 3: Before he was in the streets, or like, is this

853
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 3: a thing where you just met him in the streets.

854
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,800
Speaker 3: If you've met him and he's already in that phase,

855
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 3: it's gonna be tough.

856
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:24,960
Speaker 1: It's a tough one.

857
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 2: It's gonna be tough. It's gonna be tough, but.

858
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:32,359
Speaker 5: There must be something. If she she does love him

859
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 5: because she will obviously love him, not because he's in

860
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:39,399
Speaker 5: the streets. It's probably because of something else, maybe because

861
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 5: of his personality. It could be a different reason, and

862
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 5: maybe him being a part of the streets, it just

863
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 5: came with it.

864
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 1: So yeah, that is a bit of a good question,

865
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 1: I think.

866
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 3: I think one of like the the obvious answer would

867
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 3: be given to God, you know, pray about it, give

868
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:02,399
Speaker 3: it to God, Let God do what he does best,

869
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 3: and just continue to help if you still truly love

870
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 3: this man and you don't want to leave him. But

871
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:11,280
Speaker 3: a more practical advice I would give from my experience

872
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 3: would be try to find him some friends that can

873
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,879
Speaker 3: replace that void, you know, because a lot of the time,

874
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,359
Speaker 3: a lot of us guys were just we hang around

875
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 3: the boys because we feel alone. And that's the truth.

876
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 3: The truth is that a lot of us, a lot

877
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 3: of us men in our mental health. It's not strong

878
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 3: when we're on our own because we've been given this

879
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 3: role to look after everyone, and everyone can throw their

880
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:39,880
Speaker 3: load on us and depend on us, and no matter what,

881
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:41,520
Speaker 3: we have to take the four for everything.

882
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:42,840
Speaker 2: We take the risk.

883
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:45,920
Speaker 3: We have to worry about getting a house, we have

884
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 3: to worry about getting a car, paying the bills, and

885
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 3: a lot of these things. A lot of the time,

886
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:52,840
Speaker 3: it takes a big toll on now, you know. So

887
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 3: a lot of the times, most of the times when

888
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 3: you want to, you want to just you're just venting.

889
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 3: You're venting out when you're going to see the other

890
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,320
Speaker 3: boys because you want to share your feelings with the

891
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 3: other boys. So my practical advice to you would be

892
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 3: try and find him some friends. You know that I

893
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 3: have that million dollar monthset that are always trying to

894
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 3: improve themselves, and just some people that are very helpful

895
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 3: for him, you know, because his surroundings will be everything.

896
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:21,680
Speaker 3: Most of the reason why he's with those boys now

897
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:23,239
Speaker 3: is because he doesn't have anyone.

898
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 2: Else, you know.

899
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 5: That's that's the hard truth, man. And I feel like

900
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 5: if he truly loves you, he will eventually subside it

901
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 5: and look at himself and he knows that he needs

902
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 5: to change in order for the relationship to keep occurring

903
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 5: and keep working. It's definitely a two ways straight. It's

904
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 5: a two way street, man.

905
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:43,920
Speaker 1: And she can't.

906
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:46,759
Speaker 3: She can't be held accountable for it, can't. You can't

907
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 3: be held accountable for everything. You can't just keep sitting

908
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 3: there and let him, let him pour everything out on you.

909
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 3: There's only so much he can take before start looking

910
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 3: after your mental health as well, because a lot of

911
00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:00,160
Speaker 3: this stuff is a lot to take in. All of

912
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 3: the things happening on the streets. Now, girls, don't you know,

913
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 3: they don't want to be around that stuff. There's a

914
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 3: lot of ugly things happening on the streets. You don't

915
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:09,320
Speaker 3: want to be a missus with a partner that's spending

916
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 3: ten years. But then it just goes again, how deep

917
00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:16,479
Speaker 3: is your relationship because it's a very generic like taking

918
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:19,240
Speaker 3: the question at face value, is hard to really decipher

919
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 3: what's happening behind you know, but God bless you guys.

920
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 3: Will keep using our prayers. Hopefully you guys can make

921
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 3: it out of the struggle or trouble or anything you

922
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 3: guys going through. Anyways, that's the question segment done. We're

923
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 3: going to invite the docle who has just made it.

924
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:36,800
Speaker 3: He's just made it onto set. Yeah, we'll catch it.