1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: And Amanda jam Nation. 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 2: You would have thought last night's MARREDI first Sight would 3 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:08,400 Speaker 2: become subject for the pub test? And how did it 4 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:12,320 Speaker 2: get to complimenting someone on losing weight doesn't pass the 5 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 2: pub test? This is because Jack the man with man 6 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 2: bun called his other contestants Wales. But he said it 7 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,799 Speaker 2: to John O and then earlier on side speak to John. 8 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 2: I didn't want anyone else to hear it. Then John's 9 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 2: gone and blabbed at the fire pit last night, and 10 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 2: obviously everyone has been upset by that. 11 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 3: Well funny that. 12 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:32,520 Speaker 2: Then we got talking just about you know you can't. 13 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 3: I think society is getting over people comedy on other 14 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 3: people's weight and being defined by our weight. And I 15 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 3: said what you do is as a generic compliment, whether 16 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 3: you mean it or not. You will say, hey, you 17 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 3: look good, you've lost weight? 18 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 2: How well do you know me? 19 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 3: Extremely well? 20 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 2: Well, I wouldn't. I never do it as fakery. I say, 21 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 2: to compliment what I do? 22 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 3: What a miracle that everyone that comes in here seems 23 00:00:57,480 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 3: to have lost weight? 24 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 2: What do you mean example of someone lately? 25 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 3: Most people who come through this door, You say. 26 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 2: So Miguel, where Miguel comes like, may you look good, 27 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 2: you lost weight? Were you working out? And then he 28 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 2: does the big Gun show. 29 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 3: He's one thing to say you look good, and they 30 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 3: can volunteer that they've lost weight or whatever. But I 31 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 3: think I. 32 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 2: Don't just say it, will he you do? I don't 33 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 2: just say. I wouldn't say to someone you put on weight, 34 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 2: and if someone was. 35 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 3: On well, no. I but within those parameters you you 36 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 3: do say a lot you've lost weight. And I'm thinking 37 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:27,559 Speaker 3: you think as a people pleaser, that that's what people 38 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 3: want to hear. 39 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,479 Speaker 2: What I want to see, Kyle said Kyle the other morning, 40 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 2: is it may, big fellow, you look great, you've lost weight? 41 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 2: He gues, thanks, manam off the cake of cola, and 42 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 2: he appreciated that. 43 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, but the glorification of being thin and being skinny 44 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 3: is something that we're trying not to do, as equating 45 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 3: attractiveness with weight and saying you've lost weight, you look good? Well, 46 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 3: how did I look before all these things? I'm interested 47 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 3: to know what people think. Here's how we're phrasing it. 48 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 3: Complimenting someone on losing weight. Does it pass the pub test? 49 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? 50 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 1: I think I think it's a very uprising team to 51 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 1: tell some under their gloss one, and I give them 52 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: a bit of a thrill in a dark world, you know, 53 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: so I record it does upsets No, it does not. 54 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 4: It's offensive because obviously you didn't look good before. I 55 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:13,360 Speaker 4: think it does. 56 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 5: I've just got from my sides eighteen to twelve, and 57 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 5: it really cuts me that some people haven't said anything. 58 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 5: I put a lot of work into it, you know, 59 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:25,240 Speaker 5: getting fit and losing that way. Im I just say something. 60 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:27,079 Speaker 5: I don't think it did anything wrong with it. 61 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 4: No, it definitely doesn't. My daughter suffers from an eating 62 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 4: disorder and shoutably. That's one of the. 63 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 5: Biggest triggers to her. 64 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 4: So many people douggle with this, and I feel there's 65 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 4: so many different ways you can compliment someone without discussing 66 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:42,519 Speaker 4: their appearance at all. Yeah, it does, because it does 67 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 4: makes you feel a little bit good. 68 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:45,359 Speaker 1: I think it does. 69 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:48,239 Speaker 3: I'm mixed bag then say anything, really? 70 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 2: Maybe what about hair? Says hair? 71 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely compliment someone to their hair. 72 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 2: That's from now one. 73 00:02:55,320 --> 00:03:01,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, am I right, legs? Are you look fantastic? 74 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:03,679 Speaker 2: Your leg hair is fantastic.