WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - He Doesn't Want Me To Use Our Embryos 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:12.360 This episode was recorded on Cameragle Land. Hi guys, and 0:00:12.400 --> 0:00:14.920 welcome back to another episode of Life Uncut. I'm Laura, 0:00:15.000 --> 0:00:17.360 I'm Brittany, and this is ask gun Cut where we 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:20.799 answer you're deep, you're dark, and you're burning questions and 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:23.360 britt I have a question for you today. So you 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:26.000 guys might have seen if you listen to Tuesday's episode. 0:00:26.120 --> 0:00:27.800 I don't know how we arrived there, but we were 0:00:27.840 --> 0:00:30.000 talking about people that were hot or things. 0:00:30.400 --> 0:00:31.000 How we arrived. 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:33.040 They just told you I met my hall pass and 0:00:33.280 --> 0:00:34.480 you met him. 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:37.360 You're say, did he waved at me Keisha, He made 0:00:37.360 --> 0:00:39.479 eye conduct and then bloomy kiss and said, britt I'll 0:00:39.520 --> 0:00:39.960 call you later. 0:00:40.080 --> 0:00:42.559 He was on the floor above us, waving to the 0:00:42.720 --> 0:00:44.680 entire crowd, and Brittany's like, it was me, he was 0:00:44.680 --> 0:00:45.760 making eye contact with you. 0:00:46.280 --> 0:00:48.919 To be fair, he might have he did. He looked 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:51.080 down and like this, what was his name again? 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:53.280 Jonathan Bailey? Don't ever forget. 0:00:53.080 --> 0:00:54.280 Yes, sorry, Jonathan Bailey. 0:00:54.400 --> 0:00:57.120 BRIT's hall pass and one of them, and somehow we 0:00:57.160 --> 0:01:00.040 got onto like unexpected hall passes. It wasn't even I 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:02.200 don't even think it was a natural segue. It wasn't 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:05.000 actually unexpected hall passes. We just started talking about Big 0:01:05.000 --> 0:01:06.679 Bird and then Barney came up. 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:09.080 Don't include us in this. I can tell you how 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:11.959 the conversation went. I said, is it okay that my 0:01:12.000 --> 0:01:15.119 hall pass is gay Jonathan Bailey? And you said, fuck brute, 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:17.120 your hall pass could be Barney for all I care. 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:19.120 That was how it wasn't. 0:01:19.640 --> 0:01:22.000 It wasn't an organic segue. You just threw it in 0:01:22.040 --> 0:01:22.480 my face. 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:25.240 Well, we put it up on socials yesterday and some 0:01:25.240 --> 0:01:28.120 people got it. They also could see how Barney could 0:01:28.160 --> 0:01:29.920 be a vibe, strong jawline. 0:01:30.160 --> 0:01:33.920 I get how inanimate or fake people like characters can 0:01:33.959 --> 0:01:34.360 be hot. 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:36.120 I get that, but Barney's not. 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:38.039 It could be hot. 0:01:38.360 --> 0:01:40.080 You take Barney, then I'm taking Aladdin. 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:41.920 Thank you. 0:01:42.040 --> 0:01:43.360 That was what I was going to ask because it 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:45.319 kind of kicked off yesterday and a few people messaged 0:01:45.319 --> 0:01:47.360 me and were like, hey, this would be my character 0:01:47.400 --> 0:01:49.440 hall pass if I was going to go for a cartoon. 0:01:50.040 --> 0:01:52.080 Aladdin is very very high up. 0:01:51.960 --> 0:01:53.680 There, or you know who my other one would be? 0:01:53.840 --> 0:01:56.480 Who Hercules wouldn't be mad about it, bit dumb, but 0:01:56.480 --> 0:01:59.200 you wouldn't kick him out of bed? N a ninja turtle? 0:01:59.560 --> 0:02:00.400 Nah? 0:02:00.520 --> 0:02:04.680 Which one a Leonardo. Maybe you reckon Blue, he's ripped. 0:02:05.160 --> 0:02:07.760 They're all they're fun, That's what I mean. They're fine. 0:02:07.840 --> 0:02:10.160 Say the rat, you can have sense. 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:12.280 Coin vibe. 0:02:12.280 --> 0:02:13.920 There are so there are some super. 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:16.280 Hot character John I just pointed out a really important 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:16.880 flaw in this. 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:17.760 They're teenagers. 0:02:19.000 --> 0:02:23.280 Oh oh, that got weird. Not even only weird because 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:27.120 they're turtle. Because the title is teenage. Yeah yeah, alright, 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:30.959 Bonnie Bla, they wouldn't be teenagers anymore. Actually, that's a 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:31.440 good point. 0:02:31.560 --> 0:02:35.200 Teenagers are still eighteen and nineteen, I think, which is 0:02:35.200 --> 0:02:36.000 of legal age. 0:02:37.400 --> 0:02:38.880 This is true. This is true. 0:02:39.000 --> 0:02:40.440 I had a couple of other ones. I just wanted 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:42.720 to rattle off Tarzan hot. 0:02:42.800 --> 0:02:43.600 D dumb. 0:02:44.160 --> 0:02:46.280 But it's okay, he can't. It can't help that he's dumb. 0:02:46.320 --> 0:02:48.200 He hasn't been around people. He's been out there with 0:02:48.240 --> 0:02:51.960 the wolves. Also, the fox who plays Robin Hood. We've 0:02:51.960 --> 0:02:53.880 seen that one, that guy, the Fox. 0:02:54.480 --> 0:02:57.640 No, okay, it's just weird to me that the animal 0:02:57.680 --> 0:02:59.680 angles weird, Like at least I went with Aladdin. 0:02:59.720 --> 0:03:02.240 He was a human. You've got this real affinity to 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:05.200 these animals. Well, they're very personified. It's been a trend 0:03:05.240 --> 0:03:07.560 on TikTok. It's called the hear me Out. The idea 0:03:07.600 --> 0:03:11.080 behind it is hear me out. But this character is hot, 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:13.640 and people have been listing the people that they find attractive. 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:15.760 My biggest problem is that, like a lot of the 0:03:15.800 --> 0:03:18.400 TikTok audience are jen z right, and so they're talking 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:21.800 about movies or Disney shows and whatever that I have 0:03:21.960 --> 0:03:24.359 no idea who they're talking about, because there's that gap 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:27.160 in the generations where I haven't seen a lot of 0:03:27.200 --> 0:03:29.560 the cartoons for the past, but I don't know decade. 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:31.160 Well, hence why you come to life on cart and 0:03:31.160 --> 0:03:33.240 we're doing a TikTok trend two weeks later. But also 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:35.440 hear me out, I've got two more Eric the Prince 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:37.200 from Little Mermaid Hot. 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:38.560 Would you would? 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:41.760 It's concerning to me how into this you are because 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:44.120 I watched so many kids cartoons and get off on 0:03:44.200 --> 0:03:44.880 so many. 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:51.960 What like, what is the link? I'm so confused. This 0:03:52.040 --> 0:03:56.080 is true, It's true. I'm a faster, very good vibe. Yeah, 0:03:56.120 --> 0:03:59.400 back to the animal thing. Okay, that's it. That's a lot. 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:00.800 Back to the other thing. 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:03.320 You're welcome, guys, and you can all think about it yourselves. 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:06.000 Just take a little mental note, who's that animated character 0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:06.720 that you find hot? 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:09.480 I don't find it strange that you find the human 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:14.320 like the personified versions of cartoons attractive. I do find 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:18.040 it somewhat strange when they're very animalistic, like Barney really. 0:04:17.800 --> 0:04:18.679 Threw me for six. 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:22.160 When you said big Bird, I was like bird like, 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:25.200 I think more Kentucky Fried Chicken when I think about 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:27.479 big Bird, rather than like, oh yeah, I could date 0:04:27.520 --> 0:04:27.960 big Bird. 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:28.920 I would like to be clear. 0:04:28.960 --> 0:04:31.680 I didn't think big Bird was hot, just Martie, why 0:04:31.680 --> 0:04:32.440 did you throw him in. 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:34.760 There against Big Bird? I thought, did big Bird? 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:36.640 Do you? I thought it could be your hall past? 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:38.320 And we've talked about this. 0:04:38.279 --> 0:04:40.720 For too long now, so I didn't want to talk about. 0:04:40.480 --> 0:04:42.400 It at all. To be honest, I'm like, why are 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:45.560 we still here? I have a question for you guys, 0:04:45.560 --> 0:04:47.000 And I guess this is kind of like my own 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:49.719 ask gun cut in some way. And it was basical 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:51.800 of a situation that happened the other night when we 0:04:51.839 --> 0:04:53.520 went out for dinner, and it's a place that we've 0:04:53.520 --> 0:04:56.039 been to before. You know how, they often will print 0:04:56.080 --> 0:04:58.880 out the receipt that your bill right, and they'll bring 0:04:58.920 --> 0:05:00.880 it to your table and and a couple of minutes 0:05:00.960 --> 0:05:03.400 later someone will walk around with either an FBus machine 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:05.760 or an iPad. This one was an iPad for me 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:08.000 to pay, and as I went to pay for it, 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:11.240 I noticed that it was roughly I'm trying to do 0:05:11.279 --> 0:05:14.239 the math in my head, it was about fifteen percent 0:05:14.560 --> 0:05:17.359 more than what the printed out bill had said. And 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:19.280 in my head I was like, oh, maybe it must 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:21.880 have like a service charge, you know, or is it 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:24.840 a public holiday, you know. I didn't really understand why, 0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:28.200 And as I was tapping my phone onto the screen, 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:32.120 I realized that they had automatically selected on their own 0:05:32.160 --> 0:05:35.360 iPad for me to tip. And if that's here, if 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:38.520 I had wanted to not tip, I would have had 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:41.599 to select a different button. So it had already kind 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:44.760 of they had already assumed that I would be tipping, 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:47.440 and they had put the amountain for me to just 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:48.640 directly pay. 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:49.880 Good way to get the tips? 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:53.159 Though, do you think that's really unethical? I thought it 0:05:53.240 --> 0:05:55.640 was really sneaky, and it made me feel a little 0:05:55.640 --> 0:05:58.200 bit uncomfortable. To be honest, we do preach a lot 0:05:58.240 --> 0:06:01.200 about know your worth. Maybe they know they were maybe 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:03.360 like I'm worth a temperside like this bitch was pain 0:06:03.400 --> 0:06:05.840 the ass to deal with it is awkward, Like I 0:06:05.920 --> 0:06:08.760 always feel awkward when they hand you the iPad and 0:06:08.760 --> 0:06:10.919 they're looking. Sometimes they'll look away and give you the 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:13.400 respect of like you put your payment details in, you 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:15.600 put your tip, and I won't do anything. Sometimes they 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:17.599 stand over your shoulder and they watch as you're picking 0:06:17.600 --> 0:06:20.039 the tip. You're really uncomfortable when they're standing next to 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:22.320 me because I feel as though it's this like implied 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:25.360 if you don't do it, you're a really bad person. 0:06:25.800 --> 0:06:28.279 And sometimes like the price of going out for dinner 0:06:28.360 --> 0:06:30.160 right now is really expensive, and I don't want to 0:06:30.160 --> 0:06:32.400 come across as a real tied ass. And I have 0:06:32.520 --> 0:06:34.919 no problem tipping if I've had really nice service or 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:37.520 if it's like a special event. This was like a 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:41.200 chill dinner down the road from somewhere that we order 0:06:41.279 --> 0:06:44.640 from all the time. It was an exceptional service. It 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:47.960 was absolutely fine. It was absolutely average, five out of ten, 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:50.960 nothing to complain about. I got exactly what I expected 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:53.560 out of that situation. I feel a little bit strange 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:56.080 about the fact that in Australia, where we're not a 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:59.200 tipping culture, it's becoming that you're not a very good 0:06:59.240 --> 0:07:01.760 person if you select no tip, And I felt really 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:04.479 awkward about it being automatically assumed that that was what 0:07:04.560 --> 0:07:05.560 I was supposed to do. 0:07:05.839 --> 0:07:06.279 No, it's not. 0:07:06.320 --> 0:07:08.040 I don't think it's implied that you're a bad person. 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:09.640 But I would go against that and say, we are 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:12.640 a tipping culture, but it's not expected. It's like you 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:15.320 have to tip in the USA, you have to, you 0:07:15.360 --> 0:07:16.920 don't have to do it in Australia. But we are 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:18.240 very largely tipping culture. 0:07:18.280 --> 0:07:19.880 Still, do you just think yeah. 0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:22.200 The difference is though, is that our salary is not 0:07:22.240 --> 0:07:24.520 based on a tipping salary. So the reason why it's 0:07:24.640 --> 0:07:27.200 more compulsory in the States is because their wages are 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:29.800 subsidized to buy the tip income that they would make. 0:07:29.880 --> 0:07:30.280 Yeah, they do. 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:32.560 They get four dollars fifteen hour and then they make 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:34.880 their money on tip totally, which is absolutely not the 0:07:34.920 --> 0:07:36.840 case in Australia. And I think it depends on what 0:07:36.960 --> 0:07:39.440 the services that you're being provided, Like you're paying for 0:07:39.920 --> 0:07:43.360 exceptional service, did you get ten percent more from that service? 0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:46.080 And also I think it's different if the restaurant. For example, 0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:50.000 some restaurants have a cheaper price for takeaway versus their 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:51.840 price that they have for the items which you eat 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:53.800 in store. And I think I know the restaurant that 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:55.960 you're talking about, Keisha, and their prices on their items 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:58.400 if you eat in store already slightly more expensive, so 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:00.560 they've already marked up their tip in that. So then 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:02.160 to put the tip on and expect that you're going 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:04.240 to pay for a tip is a mandatory to eat there. 0:08:04.520 --> 0:08:05.800 That to me just feels cheeky. 0:08:06.320 --> 0:08:07.920 I thought it was a bit tcheeky too, And. 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:09.440 No one wants to feel like a tight ask to 0:08:09.480 --> 0:08:10.400 go back and be like no. 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:13.560 Tip for you, Yeah, while they're watching to well, this 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:15.600 was not a fancy, this is not an event. 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:17.120 I think it depends on the restaurant. 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:19.120 I mean I do tip, I don't tip it like 0:08:19.480 --> 0:08:21.120 you know, if it's a fifty dollar meal and I'm 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:23.960 talking like you know, take away that we decided to 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:26.080 just eat there, there's hardly any service. You get your 0:08:26.080 --> 0:08:28.840 own water, like, I'm not tipping for that because there's 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:31.080 been no service. But if it's a nice sit down 0:08:31.120 --> 0:08:33.120 meal where someone's actually come spent the time to bring 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:34.719 my photo to me and brought me a napkin and 0:08:34.720 --> 0:08:36.679 all that sort of stuff, like absolutely I'll tip, but 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:38.920 I think it depends on what the situation is. You're 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:40.840 not tipping for the person who put an ice cream 0:08:40.840 --> 0:08:41.880 into your ice cream cone. 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:43.800 You're not tipping for the person who made your coffee. 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:46.120 So why are you tipping for something that feels like 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:48.480 a takeaway but you just sat at a tableause. 0:08:47.920 --> 0:08:50.880 Coffee in Australia's like ten dollars a coup I've also 0:08:50.960 --> 0:08:53.960 just realized the thing that confuses me the most. You know, 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:57.040 the QR codes where you order yourself. I love a 0:08:57.120 --> 0:08:59.079 QR code because it means that you can have a 0:08:59.120 --> 0:09:01.360 scroll through, there's no pressure on you to make you 0:09:01.360 --> 0:09:03.680 know the time of which it's really easy to split 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:06.200 the bills. But when you get to the end and 0:09:06.240 --> 0:09:08.000 they're like do you want to tip, I'm like, for 0:09:08.160 --> 0:09:12.600 what I ordered myself, I think it's more myself. 0:09:12.600 --> 0:09:13.520 You should be tipping me. 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:15.280 Yeah, But the good thing with that is at least 0:09:15.320 --> 0:09:16.960 you pay for it as you go, so like no 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:19.880 one's watching you say no tip to that. That's the problem. 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:21.920 It's not about whether you should or shouldn't tip. The 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:24.760 option is there. It's when the iPad is brought over 0:09:24.880 --> 0:09:28.240 and it's the expectation that they stand there for you. 0:09:28.200 --> 0:09:30.040 To do it in their presence. That's the difference. 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:31.959 And I think, like, yeah, thank god for the QR 0:09:31.960 --> 0:09:32.600 code system. 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:34.720 All about that. Okay, So I guess what I'm saying 0:09:34.760 --> 0:09:37.760 is that my unsubscribed for the week is assumed tips 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:40.720 on an FBOs machine when you haven't actually told the 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:44.280 person that you want to tip themscribed. 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.320 What are your vibes of the week, assume tipping? Okay, 0:09:45.400 --> 0:09:48.000 well my vibe this week. Look, it's coming into Christmas 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:50.480 at the moment. And before I say this, if you're 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:52.480 a mom and a dad, or if you have little 0:09:52.559 --> 0:09:57.040 kids around you at the moment, please skip ahead right now, 0:09:57.160 --> 0:09:59.880 right now. I don't want to spoil Christmas for any children, 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:02.200 and I will not be responsible for that. So, like 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:04.480 I said, if there are children anywhere within your vicinity 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:07.240 who might listen to this, run to the stop button 0:10:07.520 --> 0:10:08.200 and stop it. 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:08.720 Okay. 0:10:08.800 --> 0:10:10.920 Do you reckon that there's many kids listening to Life 0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:12.679 on Cut? We do swear a lot. 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:13.040 We do. 0:10:13.120 --> 0:10:14.600 But I think there could be a couple of mums 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:16.280 who are like playing it while they're cleaning the house, 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:18.400 or might have kids ambiently around them. Okay, so I 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:20.520 feel like I've given you enough buffer and enough warning. 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:23.080 Now my vibe for this week is a company called 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:25.640 the mail Room Coat. Now it is a small business. 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:29.520 What they specialize in is personalized letters from Santa Claus. 0:10:29.800 --> 0:10:32.120 I'm on the website now. They're fifty four dollars ninety nine, 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:34.600 so fifty five dollars each. And what you can do 0:10:34.720 --> 0:10:37.320 is you can go on and you can personalize a 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:40.360 message from Santa. But it is so much more special 0:10:40.440 --> 0:10:43.320 than that, because the packaging that these come in looks 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:46.400 identical to what you would expect something that came from 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:48.200 the North Pole to look like. They have the most 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:52.480 incredible little stamps on them. They're all calligraphy, handwritten. They 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:54.959 have like a little wax emblem on the back. And 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:57.520 the thought and the care that has gone into creating 0:10:57.559 --> 0:11:01.120 these little customized and personalized letters from Santa are amazing. 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:03.480 And when I got the one, which especially with the 0:11:03.480 --> 0:11:05.319 one that was written for Maley because she's starting school 0:11:05.320 --> 0:11:07.880 next year, it made me cry. It was so beautifully 0:11:07.880 --> 0:11:09.680 done and I cannot wait to give to the girls. 0:11:09.800 --> 0:11:10.839 If you're a parent, like I. 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:14.079 Said, I think that it is such a beautiful idea 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:16.680 and the fact that it has been created by a 0:11:16.720 --> 0:11:19.080 female led small business, like get behind it. 0:11:19.720 --> 0:11:22.319 I didn't realize, and I'd be interested to know from 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:24.720 other parents, but I didn't realize how young some kids 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:27.760 were changing their mind I still, even though you've put 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:29.240 the warning and I'm trying to still be a bit 0:11:29.280 --> 0:11:31.880 diplomatic here, how young kids were when they're changing their 0:11:31.920 --> 0:11:34.840 minds about their idea of Santa. I was listening to 0:11:35.200 --> 0:11:37.600 Vogan Joanne on my therapist Ghost to Me, and Vogue 0:11:37.679 --> 0:11:40.360 was saying something about her little boy and how he 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:43.240 mentioned something the other day about how he doesn't believe anymore, 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:45.520 and I think he's like five years old, and she 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:48.040 was really shocked, and she talked about the way she 0:11:48.080 --> 0:11:49.640 handled it, and she's like, well, don't you ruin that 0:11:49.679 --> 0:11:51.719 for me because I still want my presence. Don't you 0:11:51.760 --> 0:11:53.400 say that out loud, like she was trying. 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:55.640 To lean in, and but I was really shocked at 0:11:55.679 --> 0:11:56.959 I was like, is that that age? 0:11:57.000 --> 0:11:59.240 It's happening now, like five years old. I would have 0:11:59.240 --> 0:11:59.760 been that age. 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:01.320 But I think it's because I had an older brother 0:12:01.400 --> 0:12:03.120 who's ruined it for me. 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:05.800 Now that's really sad for me, because, like I remember, 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:09.120 I mean Marley's five, and she absolutely believes wholeheartedly. And 0:12:09.160 --> 0:12:11.440 for me, it's really interesting the things that she does 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:13.200 believe in and the things that she doesn't. So like 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:16.040 Santa Claus and the Truth fairy and all that, there 0:12:16.080 --> 0:12:18.679 is no question she believes in those things absolutely. But 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:21.160 like monsters, no, they're not real, you know, Like she 0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:24.000 she picks and chooses the things that are fantasy. Unicorns, yeah, 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:26.120 unicorns are real, just haven't seen one yet. Like she 0:12:26.240 --> 0:12:28.560 still has this really beautiful imagination around the things that 0:12:28.600 --> 0:12:32.440 she believes in. But I vividly remember the time that 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:35.040 I was told the alternate and I'm still also being 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:37.760 careful about it. My cousins and my sister one day 0:12:37.920 --> 0:12:40.800 were like, guess what, And I remember how much it 0:12:40.840 --> 0:12:41.360 ruined it for me. 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:42.760 I was devastated when I found out. 0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:46.240 Devastated. I don't remember the age. I don't know the moment. 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:47.200 There wasn't a moment. 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:48.600 I think it was like a slow burn for me, 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:50.240 and I probably faked it a few years, like to 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:51.480 get more from my parents. 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:54.400 Nah, mine was like an instant moment of revelation. Also, 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:56.479 maybe Santa Claus is hot, Okay, continue. 0:12:57.760 --> 0:13:01.080 Santa Claus is seventy. Oh, I get it overweight. If 0:13:01.120 --> 0:13:08.920 you're language gifts, Daddy vibe, you're cooked, Father Christmas, you 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:10.360 are actually so cooked. 0:13:10.679 --> 0:13:13.040 I thought you would have preferred Rudolph to be honest 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:17.800 with the Animal team. 0:13:18.360 --> 0:13:20.440 All right, what is your vibe as a leader? Okay? 0:13:20.480 --> 0:13:22.160 So my vibe is a vibe that I have sort 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:24.800 of vibed multiple times before, and I say that it's 0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:27.560 the same, same but different. You guys might remember the 0:13:27.600 --> 0:13:30.080 podcast I have vibed a few times. It's called The Trial. 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:33.040 Lucy let Be was a big one that I vibed. 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:35.080 She was the nurse that is now one of the 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:37.640 biggest serial killers in the UK. So what it is 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:40.199 is the series is the trial, but they keep focusing 0:13:40.200 --> 0:13:42.360 on different cases, and the one at the moment that 0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:45.240 I am deep in is the trial of Ditty. So 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:48.400 it's a look at what is happening currently to whatever 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:50.840 you want to call him, Puff Daddy, p Diddy, Diddy, 0:13:50.880 --> 0:13:54.480 Sean Combs, whatever. So it's a journalistic look into what 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:57.160 is happening. And so they always go into the trial 0:13:57.200 --> 0:13:59.200 as it's happening, and then they come straight back out 0:13:59.240 --> 0:14:01.360 and they put a pod cast out that day with 0:14:01.480 --> 0:14:04.360 this one with Diddy because the trial hasn't officially started yet, 0:14:04.400 --> 0:14:06.920 but he is in prison. They're doing a lot of 0:14:06.960 --> 0:14:10.480 different interviews about people that were in his life and 0:14:10.960 --> 0:14:13.200 just doing at the moment, they're sort of talking about 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:15.559 things that happened, what it looked like the lens we 0:14:15.640 --> 0:14:18.200 have now, but they were interviewing people that you know, 0:14:18.280 --> 0:14:21.120 he personally hired to go to his parties. 0:14:21.320 --> 0:14:23.960 The story is so horrifying and there are so many 0:14:23.960 --> 0:14:26.440 complexities to it that there's been a couple of times 0:14:26.440 --> 0:14:28.680 where we've discussed whether or not we would unpack it 0:14:28.920 --> 0:14:31.880 on the pod. But I think the fact that it 0:14:31.920 --> 0:14:33.960 is an ongoing case, and the fact that there is 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:36.680 so much to it and so much backstory and so 0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:39.840 many people's stories that intertwine into it, I would worry 0:14:39.840 --> 0:14:42.400 that we wouldn't do it justice or wouldn't be able 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:45.080 to report on it correctly because it's a constantly moving case. 0:14:45.440 --> 0:14:47.360 I will absolutely listen to this because, like I said, 0:14:47.400 --> 0:14:49.560 I find it fascinating but horrifying at the same time. 0:14:49.600 --> 0:14:51.400 And I think anyone who's been reading into some of 0:14:51.440 --> 0:14:54.040 the details around p Diddy, the details around to haunt 0:14:54.080 --> 0:14:56.240 you like it is absolutely petrifying what went on. 0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:59.040 It's interesting to me that this information is coming out 0:14:59.040 --> 0:15:01.800 now because I've seen like their documentary that's been released. 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:03.640 It was either on Disney or Prime, I can't remember, 0:15:03.720 --> 0:15:05.560 but I flicked and I thought, Oh, I really want 0:15:05.560 --> 0:15:07.840 to watch that, but it's so new that you've got 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:10.600 to pay for it. It's interesting to me that they're 0:15:10.600 --> 0:15:13.480 able to make content around this because the trial hasn't 0:15:13.920 --> 0:15:17.160 happened yet. And I'm not saying that to delegitimize any 0:15:17.200 --> 0:15:20.040 of it whatsoever. I absolutely believe the people who are 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:22.760 coming out with these stories. It's only interesting to me 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:24.720 that if they come out in the media, are they 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:26.640 then able to use it in court because of the 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:29.600 whole like fair trial situation, you know how they're like, 0:15:29.680 --> 0:15:33.000 you can't influence a story that's going on in court 0:15:33.120 --> 0:15:35.080 by public perception and whatnot. 0:15:35.520 --> 0:15:38.960 It also shows the incredibly blurred lines now between entertainment 0:15:39.280 --> 0:15:42.640 and also like real crime. And I think that our 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:46.360 insatiable appetite for wanting to know things as it's happening, 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:49.560 like access to the courtroom, access to the trial, We've 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:51.240 had it in the past, and so it's become the 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:54.320 expectation now with these really massive, high profile cases. 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:56.520 It also has things like and I guess you don't 0:15:56.560 --> 0:15:58.560 know the credibility right, Like it is a journalist. It's 0:15:58.560 --> 0:16:00.360 supposed to be as factual as possible, but they have 0:16:00.680 --> 0:16:03.160 sources come out that know his treatment on the inside 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:04.840 at the moment, the way he's been treated in prison, 0:16:04.840 --> 0:16:07.800 that he's getting slightly longer showers and he's getting extra time. 0:16:07.600 --> 0:16:08.240 And things like that. 0:16:08.320 --> 0:16:09.200 So it's called the trial. 0:16:09.280 --> 0:16:11.160 Literally anywhere you get your podcasts and you just go 0:16:11.200 --> 0:16:12.960