WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Ben's Bucks Party & Divorce-y Phone Behaviour

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<v Speaker 1>A good pickup with Britt Hockley and Laura Burn.

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<v Speaker 2>Brady, your worth, our windows done, My world risen the

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<v Speaker 2>dust only good babsug all down.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't much, but yeah I'm not. I'll biget and

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<v Speaker 3>what I want.

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<v Speaker 1>It don't matter where. This is the pickup.

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<v Speaker 2>It's almost the weekend everyone, It's the pickup with Britt

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<v Speaker 2>Hackley and Laura Burn.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you seen the new fashion trend sweeping the world?

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<v Speaker 2>Laura, I am so not into this that it makes

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<v Speaker 2>me feel old, like I'm I don't get it. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not about it, and I wish I had one that

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<v Speaker 2>I could share.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the butt crack. The butt crack is back.

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<v Speaker 2>Who would have thought that butt crack cleavage would become

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<v Speaker 2>the new cleavage that people want to share. I'm not surprised,

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<v Speaker 2>but I also am simultaneously. Did you see Zoey Kravitz

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<v Speaker 2>at the Oscars after party? She's got like a bedazzled

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<v Speaker 2>window of butt crack.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate it. I hate it.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I love her and she barely steps a

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<v Speaker 4>foot wrong. I do not need to see your entire

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<v Speaker 4>butt crack in that beautiful dress. But then at Paris

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<v Speaker 4>and Milan fashion weeks the butt crack has been the

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<v Speaker 4>feature so like, there was an entire fashion show where

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<v Speaker 4>the jeans, every pair of pants and skirt was like

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<v Speaker 4>halfway down the butt.

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<v Speaker 1>The butt was the feature.

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<v Speaker 2>The butt crack the thing is, though, it's like, why

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<v Speaker 2>is it so like? Obviously cleavage has been like a

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<v Speaker 2>fashion it's an unavoidable thing that women have, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>also been a feature of fashion for a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>When did we pivot? When did someone sit down and go,

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<v Speaker 3>do you know what?

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<v Speaker 2>There's a new cleavage that's going to be in town.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's not the plumber's crack. It is the butt

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<v Speaker 2>cleavage about it. This is not even buck This is

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<v Speaker 2>like three quarters butt like it's I mean from the top.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not the pikaboo. It's not like, oh what's there,

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<v Speaker 4>it's the whole It's literally the whole butt crack.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, to be fair, I think I'm just saying

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<v Speaker 2>this because I'm jealous because everyone who's doing it it

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<v Speaker 2>looks great on them. It really does. And if I

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<v Speaker 2>did it, you'd be like if you will be so

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<v Speaker 2>flat and sad, and I would probably get some sort

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<v Speaker 2>of like hay which are irresponsible workplace outfit, whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm appreciate to do what you want.

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<v Speaker 4>But I would die of hysterics if you walked in

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<v Speaker 4>in that dress and you had a cut out window

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<v Speaker 4>of your whole butt. I would be like, someone check

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<v Speaker 4>her in. Something has gone amiss.

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<v Speaker 3>Something is Laura had a big weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>Talking about big weekends.

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<v Speaker 4>My fiance Ben, I recently discovered, is having his Bucks

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<v Speaker 4>party this weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>For me. The fact that you're just finding out screens,

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<v Speaker 2>alarm bells, I know.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna tell you about it after the break. So

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<v Speaker 4>you know, Laura, most of you in the car might know.

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<v Speaker 4>But I am getting married in a few months time.

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<v Speaker 3>Getting married.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm getting married. Yes, beyond dancing with the stars. Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>your husband was in the jungle.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, but I have had my hens planned since like January.

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<v Speaker 2>You have had your hands organized and more organized than

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<v Speaker 2>your actual wedding is organized.

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<v Speaker 4>I would say the wedding's not finished. I haven't finished

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<v Speaker 4>planning it yet, but the hens is locked and loaded.

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<v Speaker 4>I did that early, and I said it. Ben my fiance,

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<v Speaker 4>on the other hand, he lives over in Italy wear

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<v Speaker 4>long distance, and I have been hounding him to get

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<v Speaker 4>his shit together and get organized for a multitude of reasons.

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<v Speaker 4>For the wedding, he hasn't picked suits, there's a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of stuff. But I was like, look, you need to

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<v Speaker 4>organize your Bucks party at least lock in the weekend

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<v Speaker 4>so that people can come and get ready for it.

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<v Speaker 4>And so my sister and her husband live over in

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<v Speaker 4>Europe as well, and they were messaging me last night

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<v Speaker 4>and they were saying, Hey, can you get Ben to

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<v Speaker 4>hurry up and lock in their Bucks because we all need.

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<v Speaker 1>To book flights to get there.

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<v Speaker 4>So I messaged Ben and I said, Ben, you need

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<v Speaker 4>to get it together. Pick a weekend for this Bux,

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<v Speaker 4>lock it in so everyone can book their flights, because

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<v Speaker 4>it's not fair that, like the prices are creeping up

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<v Speaker 4>for airlines.

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<v Speaker 3>And also people just need notice.

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<v Speaker 2>People can't just leave their families, their jobs and everything

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<v Speaker 2>to do a Bucks party in another country.

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<v Speaker 1>He's so disorganized. So anyway, this was last night.

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<v Speaker 4>This morning, I'm talking to him on the way to

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<v Speaker 4>work and he's like, ah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, your little plan didn't work, Brittany.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like what And he's like the plan

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, I was like, Ben, what plan?

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, Babe, I don't know what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, he's like, I figured it out, don't you worry.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm genuinely at this point, I'm like, baby, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know what you figured out.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you need to help me out here.

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<v Speaker 4>And he's like, well, you've obviously tried to throw a

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<v Speaker 4>spanner in the works and trick me. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>tell me what you're I was like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>what you're talking about. He's like, my bucks. I said,

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<v Speaker 4>what about it? He's like this weekend. I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>what tomorrow? And he said, yeah, my bucks is tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 4>And you're obviously trying to throw me off the scent

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, babe, I hate to break it

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<v Speaker 4>to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Your bucks isn't tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 3>But also the fact that he thinks you've organized his bucks. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>was happy and.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, baby, your bucks isn't tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, I was literally speaking to Jay last night,

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<v Speaker 4>like no one knows when it is. He still was adamant.

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<v Speaker 4>He's like, no, no, no, it is. They've told me.

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<v Speaker 4>I need to be ready. Anyway, long story short, I

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<v Speaker 4>have a planned mine for four months in advance. When

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<v Speaker 4>I messaged Ben and said you need to get your

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<v Speaker 4>sh together. He messaged his groomsman and said, hey, Britt said,

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<v Speaker 4>we need to get a hustle on. So they organized

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<v Speaker 4>a Bucks in twenty four hours.

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<v Speaker 2>Good on them, though, it just means they're going to

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<v Speaker 2>go and sit in a pub somewhere.

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<v Speaker 3>Or maybe a strip somewhere. Yeah, cute. I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>it's a pars. I don't know how. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>how much you could organize.

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<v Speaker 2>At least, maybe you don't have to feel as threatened

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<v Speaker 2>because like I don't know how much they could organize

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<v Speaker 2>in that shorter period of time.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's probably a good thing, right, But.

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<v Speaker 2>They're not gonna go on a super yoch. Are they

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<v Speaker 2>gonna have strippers? Like?

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<v Speaker 3>What are they gonna do? Do you know if he's

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<v Speaker 3>having strippers at his Bucks?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I want to know? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to know?

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<v Speaker 3>You want to know, You want to at least be prepared.

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<v Speaker 2>You want them to have communicated with you what's happening,

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<v Speaker 2>But you don't want to know specific details.

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<v Speaker 4>I almost think I want to know after the fact,

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<v Speaker 4>I almost want to like plead ignorance.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 4>I know he'll be responsible and respectable to an extent,

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<v Speaker 4>tell me after, because I think if I know that

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<v Speaker 4>he's going to go to like strip clubs and stuff,

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<v Speaker 4>but I don't that Ben's not.

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<v Speaker 3>Like that Matt told me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking back now, Matt told me they didn't have

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<v Speaker 2>stri but I do question whether they did or they

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<v Speaker 2>did it.

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<v Speaker 3>I wonder if he told me the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't reckon he would have told you the truth, But.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, why lie about it?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not mad, Like I could not care if he

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<v Speaker 2>had strippers or didn't have strippers, So it would be

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<v Speaker 2>a weird thing.

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<v Speaker 3>To lie about.

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<v Speaker 1>But would you want to know before or after?

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<v Speaker 3>Before?

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<v Speaker 2>Before?

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<v Speaker 4>But why then that whole night you're just going to

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<v Speaker 4>be sitting at home thinking like does he have a

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<v Speaker 4>boob in his ves?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't have a stripper at my hands, but I

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<v Speaker 2>did have life drawing class at nine am. So we

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<v Speaker 2>were staying at a lovely Airbnb and a man rocked

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<v Speaker 2>up with some like painting easels and then he took.

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<v Speaker 3>His pants off.

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<v Speaker 1>It was very weird.

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<v Speaker 3>I likekedtop at nine am.

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<v Speaker 1>With like an English breakfast tea and there was.

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<v Speaker 2>Like a and just a flast lighted man just there

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<v Speaker 2>posing in different yeah and then talking about the right

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<v Speaker 2>way to capture the light.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, what is going on here?

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<v Speaker 4>It was weird, especially when he was like, do you

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<v Speaker 4>want me to angle myself a bit differently so the

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<v Speaker 4>light hits.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, no, nope, you're fine, We're good.

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<v Speaker 3>We're good.

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<v Speaker 2>Spread eagle is not what I need at nine am

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<v Speaker 2>in the morning with my pancakes. I reckon, that's what

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<v Speaker 2>Ben's doing. He's gonna have a really wholesome bucks.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought he meant a life drawing. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's worse. I reckon, it will be wholesome.

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<v Speaker 4>I reckon, They're going to go to a nice restaurant.

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<v Speaker 4>They're probably just going to go and play some golf

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<v Speaker 4>for something together. I don't know, maybe get massages, and.

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<v Speaker 3>Then they're going to a titty bar. I think, dude, is.

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to talk about something. I came across this

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<v Speaker 2>couple's therapist. His name's Jonathan van Vegan. What a name,

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<v Speaker 2>Jonathan van Vegan. He is quite vocal around different traits

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<v Speaker 2>that he sees in his couples that who come in

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<v Speaker 2>for therapy, hallmarks that usually indicate that the relationship is

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<v Speaker 2>not going.

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<v Speaker 3>To work out. Now.

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<v Speaker 2>He created a piece of content that was about the

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<v Speaker 2>seven phone traits that you should keep an eye out for,

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<v Speaker 2>and if your partner starts doing these things, they could

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<v Speaker 2>be indications that maybe they're not being completely faithful. And

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<v Speaker 2>I would love to get your opinion on these, britt

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<v Speaker 2>So this is what he thinks are all red flags.

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<v Speaker 2>Number One, their phone is on do not disturb almost

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<v Speaker 2>twenty four to seven.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, okay, I've got it. Mine's on silent twenty

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<v Speaker 1>four to seven. Do not disturb.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a different kettle of fish, I think.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but you can notify anyway. I just did it

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<v Speaker 4>to you when you're on the toilet.

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<v Speaker 3>You did you did else?

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<v Speaker 2>Trying to enjoy my poom piece in that break she was,

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<v Speaker 2>I said, to produce a graes.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just going to message her see where she is.

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<v Speaker 4>And I said, oh, do not disturb, and I went notify.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>Number two, they flip their phone face down whenever you're

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<v Speaker 2>in the room.

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<v Speaker 4>No, not the end of the world, because on its

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<v Speaker 4>own could be seen as respectful. You've got my attention.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not gonna look at my phone. But combined with

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<v Speaker 4>do not disturb and other things. Maybe so.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that this one is a pretty telling sign

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<v Speaker 2>to me anyway. And that was because when I was

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<v Speaker 2>in a long term relationship with a guy who was

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<v Speaker 2>cheating on me, he was so secretive about his phone.

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<v Speaker 2>He would always have it face down. It didn't matter

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<v Speaker 2>where we were or what we were doing. We could

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<v Speaker 2>be like watching a movie, we could be out for dinner,

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<v Speaker 2>wherever it was. I could never see the screen on

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<v Speaker 2>his phone. He was so secretive with it. Number three.

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<v Speaker 2>Their phone is always in their hand, like it's an

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<v Speaker 2>emotional support.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's the red flag anymore because that's

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<v Speaker 1>almost everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>But like, they never leave it around the house, it's

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<v Speaker 2>always on their body. They never leave it unattended. I

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<v Speaker 2>think that's weird. Number four they forget to tell you

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<v Speaker 2>that they've changed their password.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, babe, I just changed it.

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<v Speaker 1>Not weird.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think you need to tell your partner that

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<v Speaker 4>you change password. I'm not sold on this therapist yet.

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<v Speaker 2>Number five they get weirdly defensive when you casually ask

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<v Speaker 2>who's that on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, that's fair. You shouldn't be defensive.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's a questionable one.

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<v Speaker 2>Their phone's war paper includes the kids, but you are

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<v Speaker 2>nowhere in sight.

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<v Speaker 4>Mate, this Van Vegan, it's a bit of a stretch.

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<v Speaker 4>Like if you've got your kids, you're allowed to have

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<v Speaker 4>them on your phone. That's true, but like you could

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<v Speaker 4>also have your partner on there from time to time.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe they're trying to pretend that this single is what.

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<v Speaker 3>He's saying, Kip.

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<v Speaker 1>But also maybe they're a proud parent but.

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<v Speaker 3>Not proud husband or wife. Yeah, exactly, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And number seven they text with their phone tilted away

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<v Speaker 2>from you, like they're hiding a nuclear launch code, so

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<v Speaker 2>they never text that you can see what's on screen,

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<v Speaker 2>or maybe they're a one of those privacy screens that

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<v Speaker 2>you can't see.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, no, because then you don't need to lean away.

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<v Speaker 4>True privacy screens are amazing. Actually, it's so easy to

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<v Speaker 4>cheat these days. I'm not saying that, but like the

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<v Speaker 4>cheating ten years ago was hard because you could get

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<v Speaker 4>caught so easily, but now there's so many like things

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<v Speaker 4>that help you cheat.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about Van Vegen.

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<v Speaker 4>I reckon that these things individually they're not alarm bells.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I agree.

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<v Speaker 4>If your partner's doing all of them, then yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>would be like, Okay, there is something very secretive on

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<v Speaker 4>that phone.

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<v Speaker 2>So he went on to say that privacy in a

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<v Speaker 2>relationship means respect. However, secrecy means that you're hiding something.

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<v Speaker 3>When I read somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>This mean should be winning award means hiding something.

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<v Speaker 2>When I read through this, I was like, individually, some

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<v Speaker 2>of these things could seem really petty, and you could

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<v Speaker 2>seem really crazy to raise them to your partner as

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<v Speaker 2>issues that you have around their like secrecy with their

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<v Speaker 2>phone use. But if you're in a relationship where someone's

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<v Speaker 2>doing lots of these things and being super weird about

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<v Speaker 2>you ever, like touching their phone or being near their phone,

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<v Speaker 2>then I think that sometimes it does pertain that, not

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<v Speaker 2>necessarily that they're cheating, but just that they might not

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<v Speaker 2>be being completely honest with who they're speaking to on

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<v Speaker 2>their phone.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe they're proposing, maybe they've got some stuff on your phone.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what happened to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, Laura, and you haven't learned from that.

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<v Speaker 2>No, Well, to be fair, I've never looked at Matt's

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<v Speaker 2>phone and suspected that he was cheating on me, So

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<v Speaker 2>I think I have. But when Matt was planning on

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<v Speaker 2>proposing to me. He had put photos of diamonds that

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<v Speaker 2>he was looking at and choosing between into a photo

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<v Speaker 2>vault on his phone. And so this one day he

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<v Speaker 2>was showing me something on his phone and then he

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<v Speaker 2>flicked past a photovolt and I was like, well, that's new.

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<v Speaker 3>Why have you got that on your phone?

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<v Speaker 2>And I also had come from a relationship where, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>my ex had had a photo vault on his phone

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<v Speaker 2>and it was filled with photos of girls that he

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<v Speaker 2>had been with, you know, while he cheated on me.

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<v Speaker 2>So like I was a photo vault triggered me bad,

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<v Speaker 2>and Matt was like, it's nothing, I'm not showing you.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, we had a bit.

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<v Speaker 4>Of a fight about it, and it didn't even spring

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<v Speaker 4>to mind that it might be a proposal.

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<v Speaker 3>Never not one positive thing sprung to mind.

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<v Speaker 2>I only thought he was doing the dirty And anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>his sister pulled me aside and was like, Matt is

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<v Speaker 2>trying to do something nice for you and you were

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<v Speaker 2>ruining it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, like pull your head in.

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<v Speaker 2>So what we're taking from this is don't take my

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<v Speaker 2>advice or van vegans.

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<v Speaker 1>And it is time for our little wins of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks to Chemist warehouse.

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<v Speaker 4>All you had to do was call up and tell

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<v Speaker 4>us what your small win of the week was for

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<v Speaker 4>your chance to win five hundred dollars. And we have

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<v Speaker 4>three callers on the line.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to kick start with Eric, what's your little

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<v Speaker 2>winn of the week? A little wind on the week

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<v Speaker 2>was on the weekend having bacon eggs at home cooked

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<v Speaker 2>crack an egg and was met with a double yoka.

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<v Speaker 2>He's the most aussy thing I've ever heard, a double yogo,

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<v Speaker 2>a double.

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<v Speaker 3>Yoka double winning mates two and one?

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<v Speaker 1>I think, isn't that supposed to be good lucker? Are

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<v Speaker 1>we just making that up or not? For the well

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<v Speaker 1>the chicken was dead anyway? Oh no, it was not dead.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually sorry, thanks Eric, Emma. What's your little winn of

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<v Speaker 3>the week?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, guys. My win is that I've finally printed ten

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<v Speaker 1>years worth of photos.

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<v Speaker 3>And hung them in my house.

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<v Speaker 2>Ten years worth of photo That sounds like something I

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<v Speaker 2>need to do. You know how you keep them all

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<v Speaker 2>on your phone for so long, and you always think,

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<v Speaker 2>one day I'll get myself to office works, one day

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<v Speaker 2>I'll go and sit at that chaosk and print.

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<v Speaker 3>Them all out, and you just never do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You might end up like me though. Remember I printed

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<v Speaker 1>those three photos of my shrine on my wall and

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<v Speaker 1>they came in the wrong sizes, and then like really

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<v Speaker 1>mini photos that I've hung up on one huge wall

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<v Speaker 1>looks ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 2>No, okay, how many photos did you print out over

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<v Speaker 2>the past ten years?

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<v Speaker 3>What did you accumulate it?

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<v Speaker 1>I accumulated a bit over thousands that I printed fifty

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<v Speaker 1>and it took me seven hours.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my good nurse.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's I mean, that's a very big win for

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of investment.

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<v Speaker 4>Very different weekend to the man that got the double yocre.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a very different weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>You're calling up for five undred dollars to spend at

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<v Speaker 2>Chemists warehouse.

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<v Speaker 3>Who do we think?

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<v Speaker 4>As someone who has herself tried to interior design and

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<v Speaker 4>print photos, I'm going to have to go, Emma, fifty

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<v Speaker 4>photos is a pretty big deal.

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<v Speaker 2>Emma, you've just won yourself five hundred dollars to spend

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<v Speaker 2>at Chemists Warehouse.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, that's so great. Thank you so much, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you're so amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>The seven hours is well worth it, so worth it now.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Enjoy Emma.

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<v Speaker 4>Well you guys can rush into Chemists warehouse and save

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<v Speaker 4>save on all your favorite beauty, haircare and skin care products.

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<v Speaker 4>Shop instore or online today and that is us done

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<v Speaker 4>for the day.

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<v Speaker 2>It is if you missed any of the show or

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<v Speaker 2>you want to catch up on the week, you can

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<v Speaker 2>search the pickup wherever you listen to your podcast and

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<v Speaker 2>you can get it all there.

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<v Speaker 4>That's it from us, guys, Will and what are you

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<v Speaker 4>driving you home? Have a brilliant weekend. We're going to

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<v Speaker 4>see you back here three pin on Monday.

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<v Speaker 3>Bye bye.