Speaker 1: A good pickup with Britt Hockley and Laura Burn.
Speaker 2: Brady, your worth, our windows done, My world risen the
Speaker 2: dust only good babsug all down.
Speaker 3: I don't much, but yeah I'm not. I'll biget and
Speaker 3: what I want.
Speaker 1: It don't matter where. This is the pickup.
Speaker 2: It's almost the weekend everyone, It's the pickup with Britt
Speaker 2: Hackley and Laura Burn.
Speaker 1: Have you seen the new fashion trend sweeping the world?
Speaker 2: Laura, I am so not into this that it makes
Speaker 2: me feel old, like I'm I don't get it. I'm
Speaker 2: not about it, and I wish I had one that
Speaker 2: I could share.
Speaker 1: It's the butt crack. The butt crack is back.
Speaker 2: Who would have thought that butt crack cleavage would become
Speaker 2: the new cleavage that people want to share. I'm not surprised,
Speaker 2: but I also am simultaneously. Did you see Zoey Kravitz
Speaker 2: at the Oscars after party? She's got like a bedazzled
Speaker 2: window of butt crack.
Speaker 1: I hate it. I hate it.
Speaker 4: I think I love her and she barely steps a
Speaker 4: foot wrong. I do not need to see your entire
Speaker 4: butt crack in that beautiful dress. But then at Paris
Speaker 4: and Milan fashion weeks the butt crack has been the
Speaker 4: feature so like, there was an entire fashion show where
Speaker 4: the jeans, every pair of pants and skirt was like
Speaker 4: halfway down the butt.
Speaker 1: The butt was the feature.
Speaker 2: The butt crack the thing is, though, it's like, why
Speaker 2: is it so like? Obviously cleavage has been like a
Speaker 2: fashion it's an unavoidable thing that women have, but it's
Speaker 2: also been a feature of fashion for a long time.
Speaker 3: When did we pivot? When did someone sit down and go,
Speaker 3: do you know what?
Speaker 2: There's a new cleavage that's going to be in town.
Speaker 2: And it's not the plumber's crack. It is the butt
Speaker 2: cleavage about it. This is not even buck This is
Speaker 2: like three quarters butt like it's I mean from the top.
Speaker 4: It's not the pikaboo. It's not like, oh what's there,
Speaker 4: it's the whole It's literally the whole butt crack.
Speaker 1: Anyway.
Speaker 2: I mean, to be fair, I think I'm just saying
Speaker 2: this because I'm jealous because everyone who's doing it it
Speaker 2: looks great on them. It really does. And if I
Speaker 2: did it, you'd be like if you will be so
Speaker 2: flat and sad, and I would probably get some sort
Speaker 2: of like hay which are irresponsible workplace outfit, whatever it is.
Speaker 1: I'm appreciate to do what you want.
Speaker 4: But I would die of hysterics if you walked in
Speaker 4: in that dress and you had a cut out window
Speaker 4: of your whole butt. I would be like, someone check
Speaker 4: her in. Something has gone amiss.
Speaker 3: Something is Laura had a big weekend.
Speaker 1: Talking about big weekends.
Speaker 4: My fiance Ben, I recently discovered, is having his Bucks
Speaker 4: party this weekend.
Speaker 2: For me. The fact that you're just finding out screens,
Speaker 2: alarm bells, I know.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you about it after the break. So
Speaker 4: you know, Laura, most of you in the car might know.
Speaker 4: But I am getting married in a few months time.
Speaker 3: Getting married.
Speaker 4: I'm getting married. Yes, beyond dancing with the stars. Yes,
Speaker 4: your husband was in the jungle.
Speaker 1: Yes, but I have had my hens planned since like January.
Speaker 2: You have had your hands organized and more organized than
Speaker 2: your actual wedding is organized.
Speaker 4: I would say the wedding's not finished. I haven't finished
Speaker 4: planning it yet, but the hens is locked and loaded.
Speaker 4: I did that early, and I said it. Ben my fiance,
Speaker 4: on the other hand, he lives over in Italy wear
Speaker 4: long distance, and I have been hounding him to get
Speaker 4: his shit together and get organized for a multitude of reasons.
Speaker 4: For the wedding, he hasn't picked suits, there's a lot
Speaker 4: of stuff. But I was like, look, you need to
Speaker 4: organize your Bucks party at least lock in the weekend
Speaker 4: so that people can come and get ready for it.
Speaker 4: And so my sister and her husband live over in
Speaker 4: Europe as well, and they were messaging me last night
Speaker 4: and they were saying, Hey, can you get Ben to
Speaker 4: hurry up and lock in their Bucks because we all need.
Speaker 1: To book flights to get there.
Speaker 4: So I messaged Ben and I said, Ben, you need
Speaker 4: to get it together. Pick a weekend for this Bux,
Speaker 4: lock it in so everyone can book their flights, because
Speaker 4: it's not fair that, like the prices are creeping up
Speaker 4: for airlines.
Speaker 3: And also people just need notice.
Speaker 2: People can't just leave their families, their jobs and everything
Speaker 2: to do a Bucks party in another country.
Speaker 1: He's so disorganized. So anyway, this was last night.
Speaker 4: This morning, I'm talking to him on the way to
Speaker 4: work and he's like, ah.
Speaker 1: Well, your little plan didn't work, Brittany.
Speaker 4: And I was like what And he's like the plan
Speaker 4: And I was like, I was like, Ben, what plan?
Speaker 4: I was like, Babe, I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 1: He's like, he's like, I figured it out, don't you worry.
Speaker 4: And I'm genuinely at this point, I'm like, baby, I
Speaker 4: don't know what you figured out.
Speaker 1: I was like, you need to help me out here.
Speaker 4: And he's like, well, you've obviously tried to throw a
Speaker 4: spanner in the works and trick me. And I was like,
Speaker 4: tell me what you're I was like, I don't know
Speaker 4: what you're talking about. He's like, my bucks. I said,
Speaker 4: what about it? He's like this weekend. I was like,
Speaker 4: what tomorrow? And he said, yeah, my bucks is tomorrow.
Speaker 4: And you're obviously trying to throw me off the scent
Speaker 4: and I was like, babe, I hate to break it
Speaker 4: to you.
Speaker 1: Your bucks isn't tomorrow.
Speaker 3: But also the fact that he thinks you've organized his bucks. Yeah,
Speaker 3: was happy and.
Speaker 1: I was like, baby, your bucks isn't tomorrow.
Speaker 4: I was like, I was literally speaking to Jay last night,
Speaker 4: like no one knows when it is. He still was adamant.
Speaker 4: He's like, no, no, no, it is. They've told me.
Speaker 4: I need to be ready. Anyway, long story short, I
Speaker 4: have a planned mine for four months in advance. When
Speaker 4: I messaged Ben and said you need to get your
Speaker 4: sh together. He messaged his groomsman and said, hey, Britt said,
Speaker 4: we need to get a hustle on. So they organized
Speaker 4: a Bucks in twenty four hours.
Speaker 2: Good on them, though, it just means they're going to
Speaker 2: go and sit in a pub somewhere.
Speaker 3: Or maybe a strip somewhere. Yeah, cute. I don't think
Speaker 3: it's a pars. I don't know how. I don't know
Speaker 3: how much you could organize.
Speaker 2: At least, maybe you don't have to feel as threatened
Speaker 2: because like I don't know how much they could organize
Speaker 2: in that shorter period of time.
Speaker 1: Well, it's probably a good thing, right, But.
Speaker 2: They're not gonna go on a super yoch. Are they
Speaker 2: gonna have strippers? Like?
Speaker 3: What are they gonna do? Do you know if he's
Speaker 3: having strippers at his Bucks?
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to know? Do you
Speaker 1: want to know?
Speaker 3: You want to know, You want to at least be prepared.
Speaker 2: You want them to have communicated with you what's happening,
Speaker 2: But you don't want to know specific details.
Speaker 4: I almost think I want to know after the fact,
Speaker 4: I almost want to like plead ignorance.
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 4: I know he'll be responsible and respectable to an extent,
Speaker 4: tell me after, because I think if I know that
Speaker 4: he's going to go to like strip clubs and stuff,
Speaker 4: but I don't that Ben's not.
Speaker 3: Like that Matt told me.
Speaker 2: I'm thinking back now, Matt told me they didn't have
Speaker 2: stri but I do question whether they did or they
Speaker 2: did it.
Speaker 3: I wonder if he told me the truth.
Speaker 1: I don't reckon he would have told you the truth, But.
Speaker 3: Like, why lie about it?
Speaker 2: I'm not mad, Like I could not care if he
Speaker 2: had strippers or didn't have strippers, So it would be
Speaker 2: a weird thing.
Speaker 3: To lie about.
Speaker 1: But would you want to know before or after?
Speaker 3: Before?
Speaker 2: Before?
Speaker 4: But why then that whole night you're just going to
Speaker 4: be sitting at home thinking like does he have a
Speaker 4: boob in his ves?
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I didn't have a stripper at my hands, but I
Speaker 2: did have life drawing class at nine am. So we
Speaker 2: were staying at a lovely Airbnb and a man rocked
Speaker 2: up with some like painting easels and then he took.
Speaker 3: His pants off.
Speaker 1: It was very weird.
Speaker 3: I likekedtop at nine am.
Speaker 1: With like an English breakfast tea and there was.
Speaker 2: Like a and just a flast lighted man just there
Speaker 2: posing in different yeah and then talking about the right
Speaker 2: way to capture the light.
Speaker 3: I was like, what is going on here?
Speaker 4: It was weird, especially when he was like, do you
Speaker 4: want me to angle myself a bit differently so the
Speaker 4: light hits.
Speaker 1: I was like, no, nope, you're fine, We're good.
Speaker 3: We're good.
Speaker 2: Spread eagle is not what I need at nine am
Speaker 2: in the morning with my pancakes. I reckon, that's what
Speaker 2: Ben's doing. He's gonna have a really wholesome bucks.
Speaker 1: I thought he meant a life drawing. I was like,
Speaker 1: that's worse. I reckon, it will be wholesome.
Speaker 4: I reckon, They're going to go to a nice restaurant.
Speaker 4: They're probably just going to go and play some golf
Speaker 4: for something together. I don't know, maybe get massages, and.
Speaker 3: Then they're going to a titty bar. I think, dude, is.
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about something. I came across this
Speaker 2: couple's therapist. His name's Jonathan van Vegan. What a name,
Speaker 2: Jonathan van Vegan. He is quite vocal around different traits
Speaker 2: that he sees in his couples that who come in
Speaker 2: for therapy, hallmarks that usually indicate that the relationship is
Speaker 2: not going.
Speaker 3: To work out. Now.
Speaker 2: He created a piece of content that was about the
Speaker 2: seven phone traits that you should keep an eye out for,
Speaker 2: and if your partner starts doing these things, they could
Speaker 2: be indications that maybe they're not being completely faithful. And
Speaker 2: I would love to get your opinion on these, britt
Speaker 2: So this is what he thinks are all red flags.
Speaker 2: Number One, their phone is on do not disturb almost
Speaker 2: twenty four to seven.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, okay, I've got it. Mine's on silent twenty
Speaker 1: four to seven. Do not disturb.
Speaker 3: It's a different kettle of fish, I think.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you can notify anyway. I just did it
Speaker 4: to you when you're on the toilet.
Speaker 3: You did you did else?
Speaker 2: Trying to enjoy my poom piece in that break she was,
Speaker 2: I said, to produce a graes.
Speaker 4: I'm just going to message her see where she is.
Speaker 4: And I said, oh, do not disturb, and I went notify.
Speaker 3: Anyway, all right.
Speaker 2: Number two, they flip their phone face down whenever you're
Speaker 2: in the room.
Speaker 4: No, not the end of the world, because on its
Speaker 4: own could be seen as respectful. You've got my attention.
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna look at my phone. But combined with
Speaker 4: do not disturb and other things. Maybe so.
Speaker 2: I think that this one is a pretty telling sign
Speaker 2: to me anyway. And that was because when I was
Speaker 2: in a long term relationship with a guy who was
Speaker 2: cheating on me, he was so secretive about his phone.
Speaker 2: He would always have it face down. It didn't matter
Speaker 2: where we were or what we were doing. We could
Speaker 2: be like watching a movie, we could be out for dinner,
Speaker 2: wherever it was. I could never see the screen on
Speaker 2: his phone. He was so secretive with it. Number three.
Speaker 2: Their phone is always in their hand, like it's an
Speaker 2: emotional support.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's the red flag anymore because that's
Speaker 1: almost everyone.
Speaker 2: But like, they never leave it around the house, it's
Speaker 2: always on their body. They never leave it unattended. I
Speaker 2: think that's weird. Number four they forget to tell you
Speaker 2: that they've changed their password.
Speaker 3: Sorry, babe, I just changed it.
Speaker 1: Not weird.
Speaker 4: I don't think you need to tell your partner that
Speaker 4: you change password. I'm not sold on this therapist yet.
Speaker 2: Number five they get weirdly defensive when you casually ask
Speaker 2: who's that on the phone.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that's fair. You shouldn't be defensive.
Speaker 3: Here's a questionable one.
Speaker 2: Their phone's war paper includes the kids, but you are
Speaker 2: nowhere in sight.
Speaker 4: Mate, this Van Vegan, it's a bit of a stretch.
Speaker 4: Like if you've got your kids, you're allowed to have
Speaker 4: them on your phone. That's true, but like you could
Speaker 4: also have your partner on there from time to time.
Speaker 4: Maybe they're trying to pretend that this single is what.
Speaker 3: He's saying, Kip.
Speaker 1: But also maybe they're a proud parent but.
Speaker 3: Not proud husband or wife. Yeah, exactly, okay.
Speaker 2: And number seven they text with their phone tilted away
Speaker 2: from you, like they're hiding a nuclear launch code, so
Speaker 2: they never text that you can see what's on screen,
Speaker 2: or maybe they're a one of those privacy screens that
Speaker 2: you can't see.
Speaker 4: Well, no, because then you don't need to lean away.
Speaker 4: True privacy screens are amazing. Actually, it's so easy to
Speaker 4: cheat these days. I'm not saying that, but like the
Speaker 4: cheating ten years ago was hard because you could get
Speaker 4: caught so easily, but now there's so many like things
Speaker 4: that help you cheat.
Speaker 1: I don't know about Van Vegen.
Speaker 4: I reckon that these things individually they're not alarm bells.
Speaker 3: No, I agree.
Speaker 4: If your partner's doing all of them, then yeah, I
Speaker 4: would be like, Okay, there is something very secretive on
Speaker 4: that phone.
Speaker 2: So he went on to say that privacy in a
Speaker 2: relationship means respect. However, secrecy means that you're hiding something.
Speaker 3: When I read somebody.
Speaker 1: This mean should be winning award means hiding something.
Speaker 2: When I read through this, I was like, individually, some
Speaker 2: of these things could seem really petty, and you could
Speaker 2: seem really crazy to raise them to your partner as
Speaker 2: issues that you have around their like secrecy with their
Speaker 2: phone use. But if you're in a relationship where someone's
Speaker 2: doing lots of these things and being super weird about
Speaker 2: you ever, like touching their phone or being near their phone,
Speaker 2: then I think that sometimes it does pertain that, not
Speaker 2: necessarily that they're cheating, but just that they might not
Speaker 2: be being completely honest with who they're speaking to on
Speaker 2: their phone.
Speaker 4: Maybe they're proposing, maybe they've got some stuff on your phone.
Speaker 3: That's what happened to me.
Speaker 1: I know, Laura, and you haven't learned from that.
Speaker 2: No, Well, to be fair, I've never looked at Matt's
Speaker 2: phone and suspected that he was cheating on me, So
Speaker 2: I think I have. But when Matt was planning on
Speaker 2: proposing to me. He had put photos of diamonds that
Speaker 2: he was looking at and choosing between into a photo
Speaker 2: vault on his phone. And so this one day he
Speaker 2: was showing me something on his phone and then he
Speaker 2: flicked past a photovolt and I was like, well, that's new.
Speaker 3: Why have you got that on your phone?
Speaker 2: And I also had come from a relationship where, you know,
Speaker 2: my ex had had a photo vault on his phone
Speaker 2: and it was filled with photos of girls that he
Speaker 2: had been with, you know, while he cheated on me.
Speaker 2: So like I was a photo vault triggered me bad,
Speaker 2: and Matt was like, it's nothing, I'm not showing you.
Speaker 3: Anyway, we had a bit.
Speaker 4: Of a fight about it, and it didn't even spring
Speaker 4: to mind that it might be a proposal.
Speaker 3: Never not one positive thing sprung to mind.
Speaker 2: I only thought he was doing the dirty And anyway,
Speaker 2: his sister pulled me aside and was like, Matt is
Speaker 2: trying to do something nice for you and you were
Speaker 2: ruining it.
Speaker 1: Yes, like pull your head in.
Speaker 2: So what we're taking from this is don't take my
Speaker 2: advice or van vegans.
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