WEBVTT - FULLSHOW! Is this woman's dying wish asking for too much?

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<v Speaker 1>L come on, here we go. Hollo girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Happy Monday everybody. I am feeling energized. I am

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<v Speaker 2>ready for the day.

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<v Speaker 3>It is a very big evening.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh what are you going to do?

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<v Speaker 3>It's not what I'm going to do, but it's hopefully

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<v Speaker 3>what the Matildas are going to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Our soccer team, football team, soccer team, now Australia's darlings.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna put my hand up and actually say I

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<v Speaker 3>still don't fully know the rules of football. I will

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<v Speaker 3>say that I love watching it, but I'm a lot

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<v Speaker 3>more invested since I started dating a football player, so

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<v Speaker 3>I have to be more invested now. But I'm obsessed

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<v Speaker 3>with the Matilda's journey. Tonight they're playing Denmark and this

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<v Speaker 3>is what is going to decide if they make it

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<v Speaker 3>to the quarterfinals.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's it is absolute. Mitch couldn't care less.

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<v Speaker 1>Look and there's a ball, Yeah, shop, it's a ball.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the Fever Women's World carp It's right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all across it. I love it, the shin pads

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<v Speaker 1>and everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Which likes to watch the men's version.

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<v Speaker 3>He's not as excited by the females, are you.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm excited for the girls. It actually is getting

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<v Speaker 1>to crunch time, and I think it's very exciting.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you going laws, I'm not going. No, I'm packing

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<v Speaker 4>up my house currently.

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<v Speaker 1>You're moving.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm moving house. Yes, So there's nothing exciting happening in

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<v Speaker 4>my life at the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>But do you know what I do want to talk

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<v Speaker 2>to you guys about.

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<v Speaker 4>Will Smith came out on the weekend and he has

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<v Speaker 4>regretted something he did in his parenting and I think

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<v Speaker 4>it's I mean, it's pretty big.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's an unusual family, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a really and they're always around that red table talking.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the talk shop, the therapy session that they're doing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how they came up with the name. It all

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense. Okay, that's on the way at a very

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<v Speaker 1>big pick up. Let's start the show. Welcome to Monday,

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<v Speaker 1>heading to Chemist's ware House today, great savings every day.

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<v Speaker 1>It is the pick up Monday afternoon. Britt, Laura and Mitch. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>tryvis dabble maybe with a DC ten Sport one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>exclusive to chemist Where for just forty nine ninety nine.

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<v Speaker 2>Will Smith is having a bit of a hard time lately,

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<v Speaker 2>don't you think.

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<v Speaker 1>What since the slap at the things he's.

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<v Speaker 4>Brought on himself most of it, I mean, the slab

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<v Speaker 4>was pretty bad, but okay, the whole you know what

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<v Speaker 4>the red table is that Jada, his wife does where

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<v Speaker 4>they sit around and they I mean a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>the time they seemed to hash out some of their

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<v Speaker 4>family stuff that really shouldn't be hashed out in public.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a chat show, but it's like a personal therapy session.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it really is.

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<v Speaker 4>So recently there was a conversation that happened on there

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<v Speaker 4>with will Smith's daughter and also her brother, so Jaden

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<v Speaker 4>and Willow, and they were talking about all this resentment

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<v Speaker 4>that they had towards their mostly towards their dad, towards

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<v Speaker 4>will from their childhood, and will went on to talk

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<v Speaker 4>about how much he regretted his parenting of them when

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<v Speaker 4>they were younger.

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<v Speaker 2>This is what Willow had to say, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Definitely had to forgive you and Daddy, you know, for

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<v Speaker 3>in that whole with my hair thing.

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<v Speaker 2>It was mostly Daddy because.

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<v Speaker 3>She was so like Horrish right certain times. It was

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<v Speaker 3>like a couple years honestly, like trying to regain trust for.

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<v Speaker 1>Not feeling like I wasn't listened to or no one

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<v Speaker 1>cared what I felt.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, So this is talking about how both Jaden

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<v Speaker 4>and Willow were really thrust into the spotlight as young kids.

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<v Speaker 4>They were so successful in their own ride, but they've

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<v Speaker 4>come out now as adults saying that they actually never

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to be in the spotlight. You might remember Willow

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<v Speaker 4>had that hugely successful song I whip my hair back

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<v Speaker 4>and forth.

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<v Speaker 3>I will my hair back and forth, my hair back

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<v Speaker 3>and forth.

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<v Speaker 2>So she eleven, She.

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<v Speaker 4>Was ten years old when that came out, and then

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<v Speaker 4>she was touring it when she was eleven, So I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if this was very widely reported on

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<v Speaker 4>the time, but during the tour she wanted.

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<v Speaker 2>To cancel it. She wanted to stop touring.

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<v Speaker 4>So as an eleven year old, she said, you know, dad,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to be doing this anymore, and will

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<v Speaker 4>made her continue the tour, and so she shaved her

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<v Speaker 4>own head in protests because she so desperately didn't want

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<v Speaker 4>to be doing that tour. And then also Jaden was

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<v Speaker 4>in things like Pursuit of Happiness. He was only eight

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<v Speaker 4>years old and he was starring alongside his dad, and

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<v Speaker 4>basically Will has come out now with adult kids, and

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<v Speaker 4>he said that he thought the picture of happiness that

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<v Speaker 4>he thought he saw for himself, the picture of being

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<v Speaker 4>perfect parenting, was to be able to set them up

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<v Speaker 4>for them to have the successes that he always dreamed

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<v Speaker 4>of for himself. And so he really pushed them into

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<v Speaker 4>the spotlight and pushed them into being child stars, even

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<v Speaker 4>though no part of them wanted to live that life.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I think it's this idea of being famous equals success.

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<v Speaker 3>It allows happiness, but it doesn't. You hear a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of people, a lot of famous people, a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>Hollywood people. They all, especially the child stars you can look.

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<v Speaker 3>You could name so many, Lindsay Lohan, Britney Spears. They

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<v Speaker 3>all had some really big issues in their life because

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<v Speaker 3>they were pushed into it too young.

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<v Speaker 4>Well it makes you think, at what point was it

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<v Speaker 4>the kids that wanted to get into it at the start,

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<v Speaker 4>But then their careers take off and there's this huge trajectory.

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<v Speaker 2>There's so much interest in them.

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<v Speaker 4>They go from doing something that they love doing, which

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<v Speaker 4>might be performing, into it becoming a career, and then

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<v Speaker 4>there's all the responsibilities they're being forced to not be

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<v Speaker 4>kids and to grow up almost instantaneously. At what point

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<v Speaker 4>do you allow your kid to get off the treadmill?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, if they say I have had enough now,

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<v Speaker 4>this has gone too far. If the balls rolling and

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<v Speaker 4>they're making all this money and their successes are going

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<v Speaker 4>from strength to strength, when do you let the kid

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<v Speaker 4>just be a kid?

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<v Speaker 1>Give? But I'd also argue that it has set them

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<v Speaker 1>up for life. We know who they are. They'll never

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<v Speaker 1>have to work another day in their life. When the kid, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because they've worked when they very kids. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're a kid, what's the difference between being forced

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<v Speaker 1>to put out a song and with your hair back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth and my parents forcing me to play junior

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<v Speaker 1>soccer that I hated and detested and cried every day.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm being serious, like, I still have a bit of

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<v Speaker 1>resentment for them forcing me to do that. It's the same,

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<v Speaker 1>just on a different magnitude.

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<v Speaker 4>Their scale is so much different though, because I think

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<v Speaker 4>it's not just around the activity forcing kid to do

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<v Speaker 4>the activity.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the notoriety. It's being a household name.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not being able to walk down the street without

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<v Speaker 4>people knowing I was at soccer.

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<v Speaker 1>The local area really knew who I was. I La,

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<v Speaker 1>it was terrible.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh bless.

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<v Speaker 3>I imagine the situation with Will and Willow at the time,

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<v Speaker 3>and why he probably forced her to keep going is

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<v Speaker 3>logistically speak, the tickets would have sold. That flow on

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<v Speaker 3>effect of pulling and and tied to it would be

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<v Speaker 3>something that's very long lasting and detrimental to his to

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<v Speaker 3>her career. So I imagine Will as a dad, was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I get it, but you've committed to follow through.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so hold on. So Will regrets it now? Laura,

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<v Speaker 1>you've you've got kids, and your kids are on your

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<v Speaker 1>social media? Is there only part of you that regrets

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<v Speaker 1>putting them out there? And you know, getting baby clothes.

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<v Speaker 4>That Huggies campaign that we did when Marley was three

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<v Speaker 4>months old?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you do that?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean my kids?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, okay, this sounds so bad coming off the

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<v Speaker 4>back of this, but my kids have.

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<v Speaker 2>Done different jobs, like brand.

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<v Speaker 4>Jobs, which they get paid for, and all that money

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<v Speaker 4>is sitting in an account for them somewhere.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, She's like in the Cayman alisty, We're not

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<v Speaker 3>paying any money on it, no, but it's sitting there

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<v Speaker 3>for when they are adults and then they.

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<v Speaker 4>Can tap into it. But there's absolutely parts of this

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<v Speaker 4>that makes me think, well, are they going to turn

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<v Speaker 4>around when they're thirteen years old and say, why was

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<v Speaker 4>my face on that campaign.

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<v Speaker 1>Protest?

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<v Speaker 2>There's a difference. No, there's this brings me this.

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<v Speaker 3>I think a three months old in a nappy on

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<v Speaker 3>an ad because it's not like you were there gone

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<v Speaker 3>crawl crawl like you were. It was gonna sit there

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<v Speaker 3>in the nappy regardless. But I think it's different when

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<v Speaker 3>you're eleven. You have a bit more autonomy over what

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<v Speaker 3>you want and you're like, I'm viscerally uncomfortable with it.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's good that Will has come out and acknowledged.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, Yep, I messed up. Wasn't great? I regret that.

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<v Speaker 2>I love to see the accountability.

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<v Speaker 1>Next on the show, is there any situation? Don't answer now?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there any situation in which you'd allow your partner

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<v Speaker 1>to have one final night with their ex in the bedroom?

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<v Speaker 1>Think about it because that's what we're chatting about. Next

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<v Speaker 1>on the Pickup, It is the Pickup Monday AVO with Britt,

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<v Speaker 1>Laura and Mitch. Thanks to Chemists Warehouse, do yourself a

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<v Speaker 1>favor heading today great savings every day I.

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<v Speaker 3>Have stumbled across possibly the biggest conundrum predicament I have

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<v Speaker 3>ever read in my life. Now this is going viral online.

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<v Speaker 3>This is actually a really sad story, and I think

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<v Speaker 3>you guys are gonna have a lot of feels. There

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<v Speaker 3>is a man that has gone online for advice because

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<v Speaker 3>he doesn't nowhere else to turn. His wife of ten

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<v Speaker 3>years has been diagnosed with a terminal disease and she's

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<v Speaker 3>got about nine.

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<v Speaker 2>Months left to live. Truly horrific.

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<v Speaker 3>They've been married a decade, together longer I'm not sure.

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<v Speaker 3>He says he doesn't remember life without her, and he

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't know what life will be when she's gone, So

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<v Speaker 3>it's really sad.

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<v Speaker 2>But then he said, I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Trying to make every day of her life amazing. Anything

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<v Speaker 3>she wants she gets, I'm helping her live to the fullest.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm helping her.

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<v Speaker 3>Tick off bucket list, like doing what you would do

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<v Speaker 3>if your partner has nine months left to live. She

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<v Speaker 3>has sat him down and said, I have one big

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<v Speaker 3>tick that I want to tick off my list. Her

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<v Speaker 3>dying wish is to sleep with her ex partner.

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<v Speaker 2>What now, it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So in about she has about seven months left

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<v Speaker 3>before she's in a wheelchair, so this is a pretty

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<v Speaker 3>maybe six month period of where she's physically going to

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<v Speaker 3>be able to do it. And she has gone to

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<v Speaker 3>her husband or forever who is trying to look after

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<v Speaker 3>her and love her and nurse her to the afterlife.

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<v Speaker 3>And she has said, dying wishes to sleep with my egg.

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<v Speaker 2>So what is he asking for?

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<v Speaker 4>He obviously doesn't want her to do it, and he's

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<v Speaker 4>what's the question?

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<v Speaker 3>No, he said, So now I'm left with this. Do

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<v Speaker 3>I deny my dying wife a wish for my own

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<v Speaker 3>ego or let her go have sex with another man

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<v Speaker 3>who she feels was better.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, oh, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, it has a very very sad situation. We're not

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<v Speaker 4>gonna deny that. But it doesn't allow you to just

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<v Speaker 4>treat your husband or your partner like absolute piece of

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<v Speaker 4>shi t like you just you don't disregard ten years

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<v Speaker 4>of your relationship and have a complete get out of

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<v Speaker 4>jail free card because you're sick and dying, especially if

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<v Speaker 4>you expect your husband to continue to take care of you.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't think it's a get out of jail

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<v Speaker 3>free cards.

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<v Speaker 2>She knows what it means. But then what I actually

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<v Speaker 2>see so selfish. I'm not so hot. But is okay?

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<v Speaker 3>This is the question he's saying, like, is it selfish

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<v Speaker 3>when she's dying and that's all she wants, And he's.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, how do I? I either let her do.

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<v Speaker 3>It because she's dying and I I live with that forever,

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<v Speaker 3>or he's the jerk that's like, no way you're doing that.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I get the impression he's going to let

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<v Speaker 3>her do it because he doesn't want to be that

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<v Speaker 3>selfish person that keeps her dying wish from her. But

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<v Speaker 3>I feel so heartbroken for him.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually I think it's fine. I think no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I think she should be able to sleep with her eggs.

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<v Speaker 1>You both look me in the eyes of all right now,

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<v Speaker 1>and you Laura and you Britt tell me sex with

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<v Speaker 1>your ex is an incredible God.

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<v Speaker 2>I would vomit in my own mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it good?

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<v Speaker 2>And on him?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it good?

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<v Speaker 3>Urine?

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<v Speaker 2>Sleep with money?

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to okay? This is awful. Like you said, Laura,

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<v Speaker 1>you are going to die. It's that you are looking

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of your life. Yes, I think it's okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's different if she's like my dying wishes.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to sleep with my hall pass. Jason Momo

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<v Speaker 3>is my hall pass. I've actually investigated it, and he's

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<v Speaker 3>down for it. He's going to grant me my wish.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I do it?

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<v Speaker 3>That's the only way I'd be like, do you know what?

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<v Speaker 3>You have wanted to sleep with this super famous hot

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<v Speaker 3>person your whole life?

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<v Speaker 1>Do it?

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<v Speaker 4>This is so just dismissive to your partner. It is

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<v Speaker 4>so unbelievably disrespectful.

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<v Speaker 2>It is.

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<v Speaker 4>And to think that she then wants to, well, not

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<v Speaker 4>that she wants to, but there's an expectation that he

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<v Speaker 4>will go on to care for her after she's completely

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<v Speaker 4>prioritized a physical experience over everything that they've shared for

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<v Speaker 4>the past ten years.

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<v Speaker 2>It makes me mad for him. I feel angry about this.

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<v Speaker 3>It gets worse, she said to him because he goes.

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<v Speaker 3>He's trying to be patient and he said, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Why I'm trying to understand And she pretty much said,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean like, I'm emotionally connected to you, but physically

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<v Speaker 3>he's better.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait what if she what if what if treatment works?

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't die after she after she SEPs the exit.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just an excuse. It's the ultimate cheating excuse

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<v Speaker 2>I was dying.

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<v Speaker 1>I called the X does so many potholes in this? All? Right? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if you've got to if you've got an opinion on that,

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<v Speaker 1>DMS at the pickup, we'd love to hear your thoughts.

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<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Next, the biggest block bust a weekend. Everyone's going to

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<v Speaker 1>watch Barbie, Everyone's going to watch Oppenheimer. I went to

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<v Speaker 1>the movies on the weekend and had an incredibly awkward

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<v Speaker 1>experience leaving the cinema. And if you've seen Oppenheimer, which

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people have, I think you'll be able

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<v Speaker 1>to connect with me on this. We'll do it next

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<v Speaker 1>on the pickup. It is the pick up Monday afternoon. Britt,

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<v Speaker 1>Laura and Mitch. Thanks a Chemist Warehouse. You should do

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<v Speaker 1>yourself a favor and try the new DC ten Sport

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred mil by Dan Carter, new an exclusive to

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<v Speaker 1>everyone is talking about the two big blockbuster hits at

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<v Speaker 1>the moment. You're either going to see Barbie or you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to see Oppenheimer. Oppenheimer is the Christopher Nolan film

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<v Speaker 1>about the creation of the atomic bomb. It's a more

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<v Speaker 1>grim than Barbie All but yeah, very different films. Oppenheimer's intense.

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<v Speaker 2>A man who gave them the power to destroy themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>It's actually a sexy voice and the world is not prepared.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sitting and I'm watching the movie and I enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 1>The movie ends three hours, very long, and I went

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<v Speaker 1>and went and saw it with my little sister, Rachel.

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<v Speaker 1>And I sat there with Rachel and the movie ends

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<v Speaker 1>in the credits roll and Rachel turns to me and

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<v Speaker 1>she goes, geez, that was intense, wasn't it. Go yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a very intense movie. She goes, isn't that insane?

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine if that actually happened? Stop it? And I said, raight, Di,

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<v Speaker 1>I go, what do you mean? She imagine if we

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<v Speaker 1>actually built a bomb that big and dropped it in Japan.

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, Rache, sit back down, grabby popcorns it

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<v Speaker 1>back down, because we've got we've got a lot to.

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<v Speaker 2>Learn, We've got a history lesson to do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's real, it's true. And she said, I thought this

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<v Speaker 1>was fiction. I thought it was She thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>a movie.

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<v Speaker 4>Did she just well, it was a movie, but did

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<v Speaker 4>she just missed that module in history?

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<v Speaker 2>Class or something. What happened?

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<v Speaker 1>Then I felt guilty because I did all her assessments

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<v Speaker 1>for her in high school because she really struggled with

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<v Speaker 1>modern history. So I think I sat the whole Nagasaki

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<v Speaker 1>assignment for her and did it all. She didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>She actually doesn't know it's real.

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<v Speaker 1>She was shocked, very upset too when she found out

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<v Speaker 1>it was real. I'm like, she needs to process the service.

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<v Speaker 1>And Nando's we had some chicken.

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<v Speaker 2>Lots of people died. That reminds me last year.

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<v Speaker 3>I was in America and basically we're having lunch and

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<v Speaker 3>this girl she goes.

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<v Speaker 2>Imagine if the Titanic was real, and I did the

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<v Speaker 2>same thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I just like choked on my chicken Sniozl sandwich. I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, I'm sorry, she's like the Titanic.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like like, who comes up with that? And I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, his history came up with that? Like that's

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<v Speaker 2>a real thing. What do you do when you find

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<v Speaker 2>out that your friends are idiots? What did you do

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<v Speaker 2>when you found out? I feel like, how do I

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<v Speaker 2>unsubscribe for my sister?

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<v Speaker 1>Now? It's hard, but everyone has something like this. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like everyone has has realized something really embarrassingly late

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<v Speaker 1>in their adult life.

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<v Speaker 2>Mine's very dumb. But I also blame my mum. Just

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<v Speaker 2>did it to me.

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<v Speaker 4>You know when you go and you have like Chinese takeout,

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<v Speaker 4>and how they have those Chinese mushrooms and they're quite

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<v Speaker 4>dark on the top and then they're they're like very round.

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<v Speaker 1>Like little button mushroom yummy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>My mum when I was about seven, told me that

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<v Speaker 4>they were fish eyeballs. And I had not eaten them

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<v Speaker 4>until I was in my late twenties and I was

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<v Speaker 4>on a date and I was like, oh, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>eat the fish eyeballs.

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<v Speaker 1>And he was like.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, the fish eyeballs, I can't do them.

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<v Speaker 4>And he was like, they're mushrooms and you're an idiot.

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<v Speaker 2>That is so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'd rather think that identic quizz fake. Let

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<v Speaker 1>us know on the pickup dot com dot au. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>give you a five hundred dollar chemist warehouse. What did

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<v Speaker 1>you realize late in life?

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<v Speaker 2>Tell us how dumb you are to winerprise. Well, it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>if you five hundred dollars, give out your conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go. If you want to podcast the show, you

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<v Speaker 1>can catch up on the iHeartRadio app. Just search the pickup,

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<v Speaker 1>It's all there. Laura regrets some of her parenting choices.

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<v Speaker 1>We'd learned that earlier in the show.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I think I'm a reasonably good parent. You're

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<v Speaker 4>not a parent if you don't regret some things.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you're not a parent if you don't make mistakes.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and a good parent regrets those mistakes. Bad parents

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<v Speaker 4>just keep doing the same thing. And that's it from us.

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<v Speaker 4>See you guys, see tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey,