WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Bathing With The Kids & Age Gap Relationships 0:00:01.320 --> 0:00:05.200 Are you ready good Pickup with Britt Hogley and Laura Burn? 0:00:05.600 --> 0:00:09.959 Brady your what our windows down? That's my world reason 0:00:10.119 --> 0:00:15.640 the dust only good ball down. I don't much, but 0:00:15.840 --> 0:00:19.319 you I'll big get and what I want. It don't 0:00:19.400 --> 0:00:20.040 matter where. 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:21.840 This is the pickup. 0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:25.160 Hi, guys, you're listening to the pick Up with Britt Hockley. 0:00:24.840 --> 0:00:28.640 And Laura Burn and it's almost time for you to 0:00:28.760 --> 0:00:30.440 gallivant to the other side of the world. 0:00:30.800 --> 0:00:34.040 I mean, maybe the context is my husband is currently 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:35.479 in I'm a Celebrity to get me out of here, 0:00:35.479 --> 0:00:38.040 and it is finals week on I'm a Celebrity, And 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:40.640 so if he stays for much longer. 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:42.680 If he makes it to the final, like the final three, 0:00:42.800 --> 0:00:45.000 you'll be jetting over to South Africa to like do 0:00:45.080 --> 0:00:47.720 that emotional greet where you run in slow motion and 0:00:47.720 --> 0:00:49.360 embrace each other and there's tears. 0:00:49.520 --> 0:00:51.800 He's lost so much weight I can tell just from 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:54.600 watching the show, Like he looks so gaunt, just imagining 0:00:54.720 --> 0:00:56.480 running towards him and having a cuddle, and he's gonna 0:00:56.480 --> 0:00:58.920 be all skin and bones. Yeah, like a hungry, cranky 0:00:58.960 --> 0:01:02.520 man that he is. Okay, So, if you haven't been watching, 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:04.840 it is finals week and now is the time that 0:01:04.880 --> 0:01:06.920 your votes count more than anything. So I will do 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:09.520 a shameless call out. Please go to tend play and 0:01:09.600 --> 0:01:11.160 vote for my husband because I'd like a trip to 0:01:11.200 --> 0:01:11.800 South Africa. 0:01:11.959 --> 0:01:12.440 You're taking the. 0:01:12.480 --> 0:01:14.880 Kiddies too, Yeah, I think I would take the kids. 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:18.240 It's I mean, it depends. It's a pretty big trip 0:01:18.800 --> 0:01:21.800 for two little kids and a pretty quick turn around it. 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:23.319 So just like you really want him to make it 0:01:23.319 --> 0:01:24.680 to the end because you want a trip, but then 0:01:24.720 --> 0:01:26.520 you're like, oh my god, a flight to South Africa 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:28.440 alone with your kids is why it's horrible. 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:30.520 So I kind of think, you know, if he does 0:01:30.560 --> 0:01:33.520 make it through to the finale, I worry that he'll 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:35.679 be disappointed if the girls aren't there, Like if it's just. 0:01:35.720 --> 0:01:37.680 Me that rocks up, he'd be like, where are the children? 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:38.160 You know? 0:01:38.360 --> 0:01:40.240 I can only imagine he's been missing them so much 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:42.080 these last couple of weeks. Yeah, or he's been having 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:43.679 a holiday and having a great time with at us. 0:01:43.840 --> 0:01:44.640 I know he's not. 0:01:44.760 --> 0:01:47.760 He's eating the most horrible things. He's starving. It's not 0:01:47.800 --> 0:01:51.800 a holiday, I don't know. It's a holiday from life, 0:01:51.800 --> 0:01:53.520 but not a holiday. Does that make sense? 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:55.080 What if you have kids, though, Like you did it 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:56.920 without kids, So you were just having a holiday from 0:01:56.960 --> 0:01:59.160 your normal like lovely life where you get to soorda 0:01:59.240 --> 0:02:02.000 an ice bath. He's like actually getting a holiday from parenting. 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:03.840 And so maybe he's like I would rather eat a 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:05.360 pigs butt hole than bea at home right now? 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:08.440 Why, Well that's saying a lot. I think we're going 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:10.520 to see him in the final. So if you haven't voted, 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:12.680 now is your time. But let's get into the show. 0:02:14.000 --> 0:02:16.640 So you guys might have heard the news that Hollywood 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:20.840 superstar Renee Zellweger is in town. Bridget Jones Number four 0:02:21.120 --> 0:02:23.360 has just been released on the weekend, and I was 0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:25.440 lucky enough to be able to go to the premiere. 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:27.080 You were flashing yourself on the red carpet. 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:29.160 That's right, Flashmound is on the red car butt in 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:31.440 true Bridget Jones style. Like I felt like that was 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:32.800 an ode to Bridget Jones. 0:02:32.800 --> 0:02:34.200 I didn't even think of that. You embodied it. 0:02:34.360 --> 0:02:36.200 Yeah, I really did. They didn't write that. 0:02:36.240 --> 0:02:39.160 They just wrote that I flash Monday's malfunctioned irrelevant. So 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:41.120 I want to talk about the movie itself. I know 0:02:41.200 --> 0:02:43.240 I mentioned yesterday. If you were listening that I just 0:02:43.280 --> 0:02:45.239 loved it. It was about grief and I had all these 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:47.920 beautiful aspects to it. But there was a part of 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:52.720 the movie that I particularly resonated with. Bridget Jones in 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:56.560 this movie is an older woman that gets into a 0:02:56.720 --> 0:03:00.440 very loving sexual relationship with quite a younger man, Like 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:01.280 I'm talking. 0:03:01.080 --> 0:03:03.880 Handalus, pretty big age gap. It's about twenty years. 0:03:03.880 --> 0:03:06.359 Actually it's also Leo Woodall, So who could blame her? 0:03:06.560 --> 0:03:08.280 Anyone is going for Leo Woodall. 0:03:08.280 --> 0:03:09.440 I don't care what age you are. 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:11.720 I'm so sorry this has just become the Leo Woodall 0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:12.280 fan show. 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:14.600 Like everyone's like, why are you still talking about him? 0:03:14.600 --> 0:03:16.120 It's my fault? Well, Bridgie on. 0:03:16.080 --> 0:03:17.600 The reason, that's all you are. 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:21.280 Bridget Jones's author Helen Fielding has come out and said 0:03:21.320 --> 0:03:24.440 that this was very intentional. She really wanted to smash 0:03:24.480 --> 0:03:27.600 the idea that women have this sexual cell by date. 0:03:28.200 --> 0:03:30.320 Hollywood has always made us believe that you get to 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:33.560 an age and you're no longer desirable, you no longer 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:37.200 want to have those relationships. It's always been okay for men, 0:03:37.560 --> 0:03:41.400 especially in Hollywood, to date women ten, twenty, thirty, forty 0:03:41.520 --> 0:03:44.080 years younger than them, and no one bats an eyelid. 0:03:44.200 --> 0:03:47.560 I mean, look at Leo DiCaprio, for example, the age 0:03:47.600 --> 0:03:50.520 of his girlfriends have never changed. I'm pretty sure he 0:03:50.600 --> 0:03:52.680 was dating twenty year olds when we were all twenty 0:03:52.920 --> 0:03:54.560 Is he like late forties now I don't even know. 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:56.280 He's fifty, He's just fifty. 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:58.880 He's still dating twenty year old twenty five is nothing 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:01.080 kind of yeah, well, actually I have a few things 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:03.320 against it, but like you know, well, people. 0:04:03.040 --> 0:04:04.080 Have started to talk about that. 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:05.920 But this whole narrative is being flipped on its head. 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:08.000 And we've seen quite a few movies in the last 0:04:08.080 --> 0:04:10.720 year where they've had relationships between the older women and 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:13.160 the younger men, like Anne Hathaway did a movie earlier 0:04:13.160 --> 0:04:15.240 this year as well, where she was in a relationship 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:17.360 with a guy in his twenties. I think it's really 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:20.560 cool personally because I've always dated younger, and I've always 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:21.880 made jokes about the fact that. 0:04:21.839 --> 0:04:24.599 I'm a cougar. Now I'm not dating twenty years younger. 0:04:24.640 --> 0:04:28.200 Mine are like between five seven eight years, But eight 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:29.039 years has been my match. 0:04:29.200 --> 0:04:31.080 You're absolutely mac ye, okay, what I would do. 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:33.360 Well, I'm getting married now, but my ex was seven 0:04:33.440 --> 0:04:36.880 years younger. Than me, and I just remember, I remember 0:04:36.880 --> 0:04:39.919 the feelings surrounding that from other people, but also the 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:42.960 feelings that I had myself. It didn't bother me, but 0:04:43.120 --> 0:04:45.560 I felt the judgment from other people because when we 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:47.719 started dating, I was in my thirties and he was 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:50.559 still twenty five, which is very young. 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:54.400 It's interesting to me because, like, I know that I 0:04:54.440 --> 0:04:57.360 have a bias from years of watching you know, just 0:04:57.640 --> 0:05:00.000 men who are older date younger women, and women all 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:03.240 a date older men. I personally have never dated anybody 0:05:03.279 --> 0:05:06.320 that's like significantly younger than me. Funnily enough, my husband 0:05:06.400 --> 0:05:08.400 is actually the youngest man I've ever dated, and he's 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:11.120 only a year and a half younger than me. But 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:13.960 I've always thought, and this is actually kind of sad, 0:05:14.000 --> 0:05:18.719 I've always thought, why would someone younger than me? Like, 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:21.159 why would a younger man want to be with me 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:23.280 when he could be with a twenty year old you know? 0:05:23.320 --> 0:05:25.839 I mean, like like I put the expiration on myself, 0:05:25.880 --> 0:05:27.680 and I know that that is so backwards and it's 0:05:27.800 --> 0:05:31.520 almost the antithesis of this, but it shows the conditioning. 0:05:31.600 --> 0:05:33.680 Like I've never looked at a forty year old man 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:35.960 and being like, God, what would a thirty year old 0:05:36.040 --> 0:05:38.080 see in you. I've always just thought that was completely 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:41.440 statistically normal, Whereas, like for me, as someone who is 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:44.040 surging towards my forties, if I was single, I would 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:46.520 genuinely think, what would a twenty nine year old man 0:05:46.640 --> 0:05:47.080 see in me? 0:05:47.200 --> 0:05:47.800 Do you know what I mean? 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:50.240 And I know that that shouldn't be the case, and 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:53.560 I love that there are movies that are platforming the alternate, 0:05:53.960 --> 0:05:56.480 but I do think that women face so much more 0:05:56.560 --> 0:05:59.280 judgment for dating younger men than what men do. It's like, 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:01.640 I mean, I know, I don't think it. It's absolutely 0:06:01.680 --> 0:06:02.159 just fact. 0:06:02.360 --> 0:06:04.279 Of course they do, which is why it's so important 0:06:04.279 --> 0:06:07.240 that these movies are flipping that narrative on his head. 0:06:07.640 --> 0:06:11.320 It sounds so cliche, but I truly believe that age. 0:06:11.000 --> 0:06:13.120 Is just a number. It depends on what the person is. 0:06:13.120 --> 0:06:15.280 What is that person bringing to the relationship, what are 0:06:15.279 --> 0:06:18.479 they offering, how do they act, their emotional maturity, their 0:06:18.520 --> 0:06:21.040 life experience. And you know, the twenty five year old 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:24.720 that I was dating was so worldly and so mature, 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:26.880 like the position that he was in, what he did, 0:06:26.920 --> 0:06:30.240 what he brought our relationship was amazing. I didn't look 0:06:30.279 --> 0:06:32.720 at him like he was younger. I think we forget 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:35.680 and we put the limitations on ourselves. Yes, society does. 0:06:35.680 --> 0:06:38.160 But what you said is true, Laura, like we say 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:40.640 it to ourselves. Yeah, we say it to ourselves though, 0:06:40.680 --> 0:06:43.120 because it's been said so much. Now, don't get me wrong, 0:06:43.120 --> 0:06:45.279 I'm happily married. I don't not running out there wanting 0:06:45.279 --> 0:06:48.599 to date a twenty year old by But I guess 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:50.560 what I mean by this is when I say, like, 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:52.960 I have this judgment about myself or about you know, 0:06:53.200 --> 0:06:55.920 it's a fleeting thought when I do see these age 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:59.080 disparity in relationships. But the thing is is, like all 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:03.400 that does is reinforces that women must have an expiration date, 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:05.880 that they're not as valuable as they get older as 0:07:05.880 --> 0:07:06.360 what men are. 0:07:06.400 --> 0:07:08.960 Because men retain value, they can still date down. But 0:07:09.000 --> 0:07:11.280 the older you get as a woman, then the expectation 0:07:11.360 --> 0:07:13.480 is that you don't. And that's something that needs to 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:14.440 be looked at for sure. 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:18.840 Except it's actually perfect because men's sexual peak is in 0:07:18.880 --> 0:07:21.560 their twenties and women's sexual peaks they're not peaking till 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:24.560 mid to late thirties, even early forties some women. So 0:07:24.840 --> 0:07:27.840 that's really ideal for a younger man. That's in his peak, 0:07:27.880 --> 0:07:31.640 that wants someone that's like thriving, experienced, knows what they want. 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:34.800 Brittany's selling it. She's like all the younger men slide 0:07:34.800 --> 0:07:37.640 into my note. You're happily engaged. No, fine, No, I'm fine. 0:07:37.680 --> 0:07:40.400 But imagine how amazing it would be to be Rene 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:43.800 Zelwiga when the author and the director brings this to you, right, 0:07:43.840 --> 0:07:45.280 and they're like, hey, we're. 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:46.880 Going to set you up with a man in his twenties. 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:48.680 Take your pick, what actor do you want? And you 0:07:48.720 --> 0:07:50.720 get to like look around Hollywood and be like, oh 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:51.360 my god. 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:54.240 I guess, beg Any, what times are changing? They really are? 0:07:54.320 --> 0:07:54.720 Are They? 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:55.640 Women are in control? 0:07:57.240 --> 0:08:00.520 We're talking about Chrissy Teagan because I do feel like 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:03.200 every year or six months, like she kind of just 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:05.360 comes around and makes people mad again, and it's like 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:08.200 the unfortunate for her, like the Christy Taguan hate train. 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:10.880 I quite like swings background. I like her. 0:08:10.920 --> 0:08:13.680 I don't stand by her past decisions, but I feel like, 0:08:13.800 --> 0:08:16.160 you know, ten years ago, she's stayed pretty. 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:18.680 Clean until now, we didn't. She get got canceled for 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:20.480 She got canceled because she was bullying people. 0:08:20.640 --> 0:08:21.520 Yeah that's pretty bad. 0:08:21.640 --> 0:08:23.480 Oh that's what I'm saying I don't agree with like 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:26.960 fifteen years ago Chrissy Teagan, but I do believe that 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:29.000 people can change if they try, or. 0:08:29.000 --> 0:08:29.920 She's learned some lessons. 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:30.080 Hey. 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:33.240 Well, she posted a photo on Instagram recently which received 0:08:33.240 --> 0:08:36.040 a lot of backlash and I like it made me 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:37.760 ask a few questions, but I want to bring it 0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:39.240 to you Britain, see what you think about this. So 0:08:39.280 --> 0:08:41.120 the photo that she's posted, just to paint a picture 0:08:41.120 --> 0:08:44.280 for you guys, it's her inner bath with three of 0:08:44.320 --> 0:08:47.200 her four children. So she's got Miles in there who's six, 0:08:47.480 --> 0:08:50.679 her daughter st two, and then her youngest son who's 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:53.640 only nineteen months. All of them are in the bath. 0:08:54.160 --> 0:08:57.440 They're all nude, but you can't see anything. Everything's covered, 0:08:57.520 --> 0:09:01.079 like the water is particularly murky, soverathing is quite covered 0:09:01.120 --> 0:09:03.920 and quite dense. The problem is is that the people 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:06.760 in the comments who are outraged by this, the thing 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:08.920 that they seem to have taken issue with is the 0:09:09.000 --> 0:09:11.560 fact that her oldest son is six years old and 0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:14.000 he's in the bath naked with his mum, and a 0:09:14.040 --> 0:09:16.720 lot of people are calling it out as weird or 0:09:16.760 --> 0:09:19.360 that he's too old to be nude with his mom 0:09:19.440 --> 0:09:22.480 and that it's maybe sexualizing him or there's something very 0:09:22.559 --> 0:09:24.600 very off about the fact that he's taking a bath 0:09:24.640 --> 0:09:25.120 with his mom. 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:27.440 I think there is something off about people that think 0:09:27.440 --> 0:09:29.920 it there's something off about him taking a bath. He's 0:09:30.120 --> 0:09:33.040 six years old. If you have a problem with that, 0:09:33.040 --> 0:09:36.280 that's your internalized issues that you were putting on that 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:38.520 child and that family. Like he's a six year old, 0:09:38.600 --> 0:09:41.040 he's just gone to school. He's a small child with 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:44.040 his mum and his family in the bath. I don't 0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:47.400 have kids, I will say that, but I don't see an. 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:48.360 Issue with that at all. 0:09:48.679 --> 0:09:51.440 I think the bigger issue is probably around privacy and 0:09:51.480 --> 0:09:54.000 like posting the photo in that setting in. 0:09:54.000 --> 0:09:54.760 The first place. 0:09:55.120 --> 0:09:57.439 But people that have an issue with him being six 0:09:57.480 --> 0:09:58.800 as if like that's a teenager. 0:09:59.080 --> 0:10:00.880 Yeah, I know he's been on the earth for six years. 0:10:00.960 --> 0:10:03.400 I mean like literally on the earth for six years. 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:04.600 I mean, my daughter's. 0:10:04.280 --> 0:10:06.840 Five Mali, and I was goby to say she doesn't 0:10:06.840 --> 0:10:08.240 know a left from rights, but she does now she 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:08.920 knows a left and right. 0:10:08.960 --> 0:10:10.360 But sometimes she's a child genius. 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:12.440 Next time she's not working, I'd still have a bath 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:12.760 with her. 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:14.960 Like I have no issues having a bath or being 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:18.000 nude around my kids at five and four. I don't 0:10:18.040 --> 0:10:20.000 know what the age is when the cutoff is. Maybe 0:10:20.000 --> 0:10:22.480 every child is a little bit different, depending on how 0:10:23.000 --> 0:10:25.959 mature they are or what kind of questions they start asking. 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:28.360 But I don't think it's at six, that's for sure. 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:30.360 I mean, my kid's not that I'm saying I'm running 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:32.800 around naked with them all the time. But I'm definitely like, 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:35.040 don't see an issue with it now, that's for sure. 0:10:35.280 --> 0:10:38.000 And I do wonder what the issue is with them 0:10:38.040 --> 0:10:41.760 seeing naked bodies anyway, Like it's your family members, Like, 0:10:41.800 --> 0:10:43.640 it's not sexualized, you know what I mean, It's just 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:45.920 the son is not looking at his mum in a 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:47.559 weird way, and the mum's not looking at his son 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:48.079 in a weird way. 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:50.120 I don't think it's that though. I think that everyone 0:10:50.200 --> 0:10:52.640 has a different take on nudity. Like some people grow 0:10:52.720 --> 0:10:55.120 up in families where like they're used to seeing their 0:10:55.160 --> 0:10:57.440 mums and dads naked and it's not a big deal, 0:10:57.480 --> 0:10:59.559 And other people grow up in families where they've never 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:00.920 seen them mum or dad naked. 0:11:01.280 --> 0:11:04.960 Produce a grace, Just put a hand up. Do you 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:06.040 want to get something off your chest. 0:11:06.160 --> 0:11:08.560 You're gonna say, I stayed at my mom's house last 0:11:08.600 --> 0:11:11.080 week and I saw her naked. 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:13.480 Then I had a shower and she just popped in 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:14.600 to do something, And then. 0:11:14.600 --> 0:11:16.760 I think it's different. Yes, and I think it's different. 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:19.319 Like if I saw my mom naked now as an adult, 0:11:19.800 --> 0:11:21.760 not weird. But if I saw my dad naked as 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:23.520 an adult, I'm like weird, So I think. 0:11:23.960 --> 0:11:25.280 And when you think about it, when I. 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:27.400 Was last week, I see your dad naked, it's a while. 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:31.480 Yes, I think. Another maybe it's seven. Maybe it's only 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:32.120 a year away. 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:35.120 For Christy Tiaguan's son, like I feel like the age 0:11:35.160 --> 0:11:37.480 is coming where it starts they become more aware of 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:39.560 their body and things like that. I don't think six 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:41.800 is it, but I don't think it's probably that far off. 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:42.719 We enjoy it. 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:45.280 She does have an older daughter, Luna, who's eight years old, 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:47.040 so you know, only a little bit older than Miles, 0:11:47.080 --> 0:11:49.240 and she wasn't in the bar, so maybe that is 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:49.720 the cutoff. 0:11:49.720 --> 0:11:52.000 Brit Maybe you're right, maybe it is eight. I don't know. 0:11:52.040 --> 0:11:53.560 I think it's a tricky one because if you're gonna 0:11:53.559 --> 0:11:55.439 put that much of your family and your life out 0:11:55.480 --> 0:11:57.839 on Instagram. When you've got that many followers, you've got 0:11:57.880 --> 0:12:01.840 to expect people are going to have opinions or thoughts 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:03.400 on the way that you parent are things that you do. 0:12:03.760 --> 0:12:05.520 And for me, like I don't care about the fact 0:12:05.520 --> 0:12:07.199 that they were having a bath together. I'm impressed that 0:12:07.200 --> 0:12:08.839 they've got a bath big enough to fit for people 0:12:08.840 --> 0:12:09.080 in it. 0:12:09.160 --> 0:12:11.200 I mean, it's Christy Tague and John Legend. 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:11.400 That's true. 0:12:11.440 --> 0:12:13.760 But I guess the thing for me is the concern 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:17.120 that you had brit Is around internet safety. And I 0:12:17.240 --> 0:12:19.960 probably and I know that you might put photos up 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:21.920 of your kids at the beach or whatever, and there 0:12:21.920 --> 0:12:24.360 probably isn't that much difference in terms of the amount 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:26.920 of skin showing. But I definitely think that there's something 0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:29.880 more intimate about being in a bath and all being 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:32.480 implied naked than being at the beach or being somewhere 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:33.120 else where. 0:12:32.920 --> 0:12:34.360 You know you're wearing a bikiti or whatever. 0:12:34.440 --> 0:12:36.240 And maybe this is something we need to unpack more 0:12:36.280 --> 0:12:38.320 when we've got more time. But I've read something just 0:12:38.320 --> 0:12:41.680 this morning, like within the Australian media that was saying 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:45.280 school photos now like back to school photos, they're worried 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:47.440 of falling into the wrong hands on the internet, and 0:12:47.480 --> 0:12:48.240 the question. 0:12:48.080 --> 0:12:49.439 Is, like, where do we stop is? 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:51.600 He answered that I understood share anything. 0:12:51.760 --> 0:12:54.560 Ever, I think school photos are such a scary thing though, 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:57.280 because you're giving every person out there on the internet 0:12:57.320 --> 0:12:59.800 access to where your kid goes to school, like it's 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:02.400 like putting a target on their back. I absolutely think 0:13:02.400 --> 0:13:04.920 that that's something that parents should be way more conscious 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:06.959 about when they're sharing, like, you know, my kid's first 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:07.240 day of. 0:13:07.240 --> 0:13:08.559 School photos and all that sort of stuff. 0:13:08.640 --> 0:13:09.400 Yeah, Perc. 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:14.440 Now, we have been having very big chats after last 0:13:14.480 --> 0:13:17.520 week's announcement from you, Britt, and that is Dancing with 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:18.120 the Stars. 0:13:18.320 --> 0:13:19.680 Yep. I don't know how or why. 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:21.760 No, actually I do know they called me and because 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:23.240 they saw my terrible dance videos. 0:13:23.280 --> 0:13:24.520 We still don't know why though. No. 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:26.920 Well, I've been doing dance rehearsals with my fiancee Ben 0:13:26.960 --> 0:13:29.240 for our wedding and they have not been going well, 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:31.320 and I've been putting them on social media, and Dancing 0:13:31.360 --> 0:13:33.320 saw that and thought bingo. 0:13:33.120 --> 0:13:35.640 Well, yesterday they did the announcement and the release of 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:38.240 the full cast, and you have been telling me that 0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:41.800 you've been doing seemingly surprisingly well, like you seem to. 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:43.719 I wouldn't say I'm killing it, but I've got I've 0:13:43.720 --> 0:13:45.840 put like two feet together, and I can do some 0:13:45.880 --> 0:13:46.600 spins and stuff. 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:49.600 And I've seen some of your dance, like you've shown 0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:51.600 me little bits of like video recordings, and I would 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:53.640 say that in some ways you're doing okay, and in 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:55.160 other ways there might need to be a little bit 0:13:55.160 --> 0:13:56.920 more practice. But I thought it might be good to 0:13:56.920 --> 0:14:00.280 get like an unbiased and impartial view on how you're 0:14:00.320 --> 0:14:02.600 actually going, and get you know, a dancing expert here, 0:14:03.000 --> 0:14:05.640 someone who you might be familiar with. We have Craig 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:08.080 Bondley on the line, who is actually Brittany's dancing partner. 0:14:08.160 --> 0:14:10.320 Yeah, I get very very up close and personal. 0:14:10.360 --> 0:14:11.600 Craig. Welcome to the pick up. 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:13.320 Thank you for having me. 0:14:13.440 --> 0:14:16.920 Hi, Craig. Okay, honest opinion. How do you think brit 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:17.360 is going? 0:14:19.280 --> 0:14:23.480 Hurricane brit Hurricane Brit going. I think she thinks she 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:25.960 signed up for MMA with the start. 0:14:28.640 --> 0:14:29.400 I'm a bit ralf. 0:14:29.480 --> 0:14:29.680 I know. 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:32.800 No, Actually, she's doing pretty good. I have to say 0:14:32.800 --> 0:14:34.000 she's doing really, really well. 0:14:34.880 --> 0:14:35.160 Okay. 0:14:35.480 --> 0:14:38.520 I would I almost want to challenge that because I've 0:14:38.520 --> 0:14:40.240 seen a few videos of you guys trying to do 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:43.160 lists where it's just ended with her crutch in your face. 0:14:43.200 --> 0:14:45.120 And I don't think that that was the desired outcome, 0:14:45.160 --> 0:14:45.720 believe it or not. 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:47.200 Oh, was that not the move, Craig. 0:14:48.520 --> 0:14:51.760 No, that's definitely not the not the desired goal. We'll 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:54.240 get there eventually, I think, hopefully in time for the show. 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:57.240 Eventually, I think hopefully. There were the three terms you 0:14:57.280 --> 0:14:57.640 just shoot. 0:14:57.680 --> 0:14:58.600 It's just in one sentence. 0:14:58.640 --> 0:15:00.760 That didn't give me a lot of faith I did. 0:15:01.720 --> 0:15:04.120 There was a mishap that did happen in the last 0:15:04.120 --> 0:15:07.200 couple of days. I did catch it on film. Craig 0:15:07.320 --> 0:15:09.960 was trying to lift me in the air, and as 0:15:10.000 --> 0:15:12.160 I was in the air, going up towards his shoulder, 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:15.600 something happened. I was like a mermaid flipper dolphin, and 0:15:15.640 --> 0:15:17.920 I flipped my legs and I kicked him in the 0:15:18.000 --> 0:15:19.880 testicles and in the air. 0:15:20.600 --> 0:15:23.920 Now, hang on, before we feel sorry for Craig. He 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:24.560 threw me. 0:15:24.920 --> 0:15:25.720 I was on his shoulder. 0:15:25.720 --> 0:15:29.200 He threw me to the ground. Was a reaction as 0:15:29.200 --> 0:15:31.040 he crumbled to the ground. But I really flipped him 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:31.760 in the testicles. 0:15:32.320 --> 0:15:34.640 You kicked him in the balls, of course he threw you. 0:15:34.920 --> 0:15:36.880 Yeah, what was the pain level Craig out. 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:37.280