1 00:00:10,669 --> 00:00:14,869 Speaker 1: My Heart podcasts, hear more kids podcasts, playlists, and listen 2 00:00:14,909 --> 00:00:20,548 Speaker 1: live on the Free I hard Are you a dad 3 00:00:21,189 --> 00:00:24,188 Speaker 1: and what is the worst gift that made you cry 4 00:00:24,268 --> 00:00:24,749 Speaker 1: as a dad? 5 00:00:24,869 --> 00:00:27,149 Speaker 2: I cried over a painted T shirt yesterday. 6 00:00:26,949 --> 00:00:29,469 Speaker 3: We're wearing the painted T shirt today, mate, Why are 7 00:00:29,469 --> 00:00:31,629 Speaker 3: you embarrassed about your painted tea? 8 00:00:33,189 --> 00:00:34,748 Speaker 2: I love my T shirt and I will wear it. 9 00:00:34,709 --> 00:00:35,349 Speaker 1: Every other day. 10 00:00:35,388 --> 00:00:36,269 Speaker 3: We'll see it tomorrow. 11 00:00:36,829 --> 00:00:38,589 Speaker 2: Yes, I might just need to. 12 00:00:39,108 --> 00:00:40,789 Speaker 3: You'll be on the cameras and your daughter will see 13 00:00:40,789 --> 00:00:41,509 Speaker 3: that I wear that. 14 00:00:41,589 --> 00:00:43,669 Speaker 1: It might just be a rash that develops or something. 15 00:00:43,668 --> 00:00:46,989 Speaker 1: Because quite a lot of paint. It's very heat like 16 00:00:47,108 --> 00:00:50,149 Speaker 1: very strong oil paint undershit. I think it just needs 17 00:00:50,188 --> 00:00:52,188 Speaker 1: to dry off for a little bit longer. It was 18 00:00:52,188 --> 00:00:54,509 Speaker 1: a bit damp when I got it, but I love it. Maxie, 19 00:00:54,589 --> 00:00:56,189 Speaker 1: if you're listening, I love my shirt. I love your shirt. 20 00:00:56,269 --> 00:00:59,509 Speaker 1: Made me cry anyway. Thirty one six five. That's what 21 00:00:59,509 --> 00:01:01,749 Speaker 1: we're taking calls on right now. But before we get 22 00:01:01,749 --> 00:01:03,829 Speaker 1: stuck in, paul you've got some advice for us. 23 00:01:04,349 --> 00:01:06,188 Speaker 4: Goy, you've been doing it all wrong. How are you, 24 00:01:06,349 --> 00:01:06,669 Speaker 4: by the. 25 00:01:06,629 --> 00:01:08,389 Speaker 3: Way, good, Paulie, We're very good. What do you mean 26 00:01:08,429 --> 00:01:09,109 Speaker 3: we're doing it wrong. 27 00:01:09,589 --> 00:01:11,949 Speaker 4: Okay. So here's the thing. When they're little, you've got 28 00:01:11,949 --> 00:01:13,789 Speaker 4: to give them the money to buy it anyway. 29 00:01:14,389 --> 00:01:15,269 Speaker 3: Yeah, that is true. 30 00:01:15,389 --> 00:01:19,709 Speaker 4: Yeah, go and buy yourself whatever you want, whatever you 31 00:01:19,749 --> 00:01:21,629 Speaker 4: need for your man cake, something you want, and buy 32 00:01:21,669 --> 00:01:24,349 Speaker 4: yourself normally because you go, no, that's been a bit 33 00:01:24,869 --> 00:01:27,269 Speaker 4: over the top. I should spend money on shopping. 34 00:01:27,069 --> 00:01:27,949 Speaker 3: On Father's Day. 35 00:01:27,949 --> 00:01:29,189 Speaker 2: You're like, I can treat myself. 36 00:01:29,189 --> 00:01:31,869 Speaker 3: We can double treatment double. So you get the bad 37 00:01:31,909 --> 00:01:34,669 Speaker 3: gift from your child, which is the emotional angle, but 38 00:01:34,709 --> 00:01:36,229 Speaker 3: then you go out and buy yourself. 39 00:01:38,829 --> 00:01:41,869 Speaker 4: Don't let them buy the crap gift. Maybe you get 40 00:01:41,909 --> 00:01:44,189 Speaker 4: the cup, you get the cup from school. I'll accept that, 41 00:01:44,709 --> 00:01:46,749 Speaker 4: but say to them, here you go, lads, and then 42 00:01:47,309 --> 00:01:50,389 Speaker 4: they're happy to you and you can still love them 43 00:01:51,149 --> 00:01:53,229 Speaker 4: that lovely moment. And then you open it and. 44 00:01:53,149 --> 00:01:55,749 Speaker 1: You go, I want to do you give them one 45 00:01:55,789 --> 00:01:58,509 Speaker 1: hundred dollars to go down to the shops buy myself. 46 00:01:58,829 --> 00:02:00,309 Speaker 3: Just go. I think I think what Paul saying is 47 00:02:00,349 --> 00:02:02,349 Speaker 3: you just go and buy whatever you want. Maybe give 48 00:02:02,349 --> 00:02:03,869 Speaker 3: it to them and go can you wrap it for 49 00:02:03,989 --> 00:02:06,029 Speaker 3: me and then give it to me tomorrow morning and 50 00:02:06,069 --> 00:02:06,989 Speaker 3: I'll act surprised. 51 00:02:07,109 --> 00:02:09,789 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's pretty good. That's smart. Howd to do 52 00:02:09,829 --> 00:02:11,029 Speaker 2: that with a three year old? But I love it. 53 00:02:11,508 --> 00:02:13,309 Speaker 1: Laurie is called thirty one and sixty five, Laurie, what 54 00:02:13,309 --> 00:02:15,108 Speaker 1: did you get your husband? What did your husband get? 55 00:02:15,149 --> 00:02:17,389 Speaker 4: Sorry, so, my daughter. 56 00:02:17,229 --> 00:02:19,629 Speaker 2: Who was eight years old at the time, she gave 57 00:02:19,749 --> 00:02:24,629 Speaker 2: my husband a bag of rocks and he cried over them. 58 00:02:25,309 --> 00:02:28,189 Speaker 4: Yeah, kind of cried, not in joy. 59 00:02:28,269 --> 00:02:33,669 Speaker 3: But did she do anything? Did you do anything special to 60 00:02:33,709 --> 00:02:36,749 Speaker 3: the rocks? Lurie? Like, was there like a face strawed 61 00:02:36,789 --> 00:02:38,668 Speaker 3: on the rocks or no? 62 00:02:38,949 --> 00:02:40,789 Speaker 5: Well, she grabbed them from our backyard. 63 00:02:40,909 --> 00:02:42,389 Speaker 6: We had a garden. 64 00:02:42,429 --> 00:02:45,429 Speaker 4: She grabbed him from there and she put she did 65 00:02:45,429 --> 00:02:46,549 Speaker 4: put some x's. 66 00:02:46,349 --> 00:02:48,429 Speaker 6: And o's on there so that he could do naughts 67 00:02:48,429 --> 00:02:49,349 Speaker 6: and crossing with them. 68 00:02:51,309 --> 00:02:55,309 Speaker 1: Nice touch. And five were talking to the dad's after 69 00:02:55,349 --> 00:02:57,549 Speaker 1: Father's Day. The worst gift that actually made you cry? 70 00:02:58,429 --> 00:02:59,668 Speaker 1: A few of this one of us shedd it to 71 00:02:59,709 --> 00:03:02,109 Speaker 1: you in here in the studio over their child's Father's 72 00:03:02,189 --> 00:03:02,469 Speaker 1: Day gift. 73 00:03:02,509 --> 00:03:03,629 Speaker 2: Matt's called on thirty one of. 74 00:03:03,629 --> 00:03:06,508 Speaker 6: Six five, Matt, where are you going? 75 00:03:06,509 --> 00:03:07,709 Speaker 2: What did you get for Father's Day? 76 00:03:09,029 --> 00:03:11,509 Speaker 6: So me and the wife we let the kids go 77 00:03:11,549 --> 00:03:13,989 Speaker 6: and buy our own things for us. So I got 78 00:03:13,989 --> 00:03:18,509 Speaker 6: a bag of pegs, some watermelon seeds, and a little 79 00:03:18,509 --> 00:03:21,909 Speaker 6: bottle of hand sand a tiger and I just thought 80 00:03:21,909 --> 00:03:24,909 Speaker 6: it asiding to throwing a little pony on the Nintendo 81 00:03:24,989 --> 00:03:27,629 Speaker 6: switch because she thought I'd love it. 82 00:03:27,949 --> 00:03:30,388 Speaker 2: You'd love it, did she yes? 83 00:03:30,469 --> 00:03:33,109 Speaker 6: So she thought that it's my game, but she'd love 84 00:03:33,149 --> 00:03:33,589 Speaker 6: to play it. 85 00:03:33,669 --> 00:03:36,229 Speaker 2: Thoughtful, thoughtful And did you cry many? Did you shed 86 00:03:36,229 --> 00:03:36,589 Speaker 2: a tear? 87 00:03:37,229 --> 00:03:37,469 Speaker 4: Oh? 88 00:03:37,549 --> 00:03:39,269 Speaker 6: Of course, of course, got to shed the tear. This 89 00:03:39,349 --> 00:03:41,469 Speaker 6: is what we do every year, so they get to 90 00:03:41,589 --> 00:03:42,749 Speaker 6: enjoy going and getting it. 91 00:03:42,789 --> 00:03:45,109 Speaker 2: And so I think that's what happened. 92 00:03:45,309 --> 00:03:47,589 Speaker 1: And yeah, joy, that's what happened with my little girls. 93 00:03:47,789 --> 00:03:48,109 Speaker 6: She was. 94 00:03:48,549 --> 00:03:50,269 Speaker 1: That was the thing that made me cry, was how 95 00:03:50,309 --> 00:03:53,109 Speaker 1: proud she was about the fact that she'd. 96 00:03:52,909 --> 00:03:53,669 Speaker 2: Done something for me. 97 00:03:54,149 --> 00:03:54,549 Speaker 4: Yeah. 98 00:03:54,709 --> 00:03:58,789 Speaker 1: That was the I was like, oh, you know, yeah, yeah, 99 00:03:58,869 --> 00:04:02,349 Speaker 1: begger parent is bloody challenging sometimes. 100 00:04:02,349 --> 00:04:04,509 Speaker 2: I'm sure we can all agree on that. There was 101 00:04:04,549 --> 00:04:06,829 Speaker 2: a real like reward moment there where I was like, oh, 102 00:04:06,909 --> 00:04:09,189 Speaker 2: this is actually this person loves me so much. 103 00:04:09,709 --> 00:04:11,909 Speaker 1: She'd put everything into it and you could see it 104 00:04:11,949 --> 00:04:12,949 Speaker 1: like she was so pumped. 105 00:04:13,029 --> 00:04:14,629 Speaker 2: So as they woke up like can you open your president? 106 00:04:14,629 --> 00:04:16,388 Speaker 3: Can you open your present? And it was about me. 107 00:04:16,909 --> 00:04:17,309 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was. 108 00:04:17,308 --> 00:04:18,909 Speaker 3: That's a proud parent moment as well. It's like, oh 109 00:04:18,909 --> 00:04:21,789 Speaker 3: my god, you care so much, Yeah, doing something for me, 110 00:04:21,988 --> 00:04:22,909 Speaker 3: Yeah it was. 111 00:04:23,029 --> 00:04:26,989 Speaker 2: It was really lovely. Meles call hey. 112 00:04:28,509 --> 00:04:30,789 Speaker 5: Hi, hate God's going We're asking. 113 00:04:30,549 --> 00:04:32,789 Speaker 1: About awful Father's Day gifts and if they actually made 114 00:04:32,829 --> 00:04:33,669 Speaker 1: the dad cry. 115 00:04:34,109 --> 00:04:37,389 Speaker 5: Yes, so we're actually a mum and Dad's gift and 116 00:04:37,669 --> 00:04:42,349 Speaker 5: we bought the Seashell chocolates for thirty years and they 117 00:04:42,389 --> 00:04:45,029 Speaker 5: didn't tell us that they hated them. 118 00:04:45,629 --> 00:04:48,188 Speaker 3: No, no, why were they were last? 119 00:04:48,349 --> 00:04:48,669 Speaker 4: Sorry? 120 00:04:48,749 --> 00:04:50,909 Speaker 3: What were they doing with them? Every year? You're putting 121 00:04:50,949 --> 00:04:54,749 Speaker 3: them in Oh