1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 1: This is the Will and Woody podcast, which we had 2 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: Martha Calpatita on this show on Friday auftern and she 3 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:09,960 Speaker 1: actually called up. 4 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 2: To play can you hear it? And guess whether it 5 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 2: was beer or soft drink? But we did manage to 6 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:16,319 Speaker 2: talk to her about the fact that she she was 7 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 2: virginally on thirty eight weeks pregnant on Friday, and You 8 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 2: asked her about the gender of the baby, and her 9 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 2: answer led to her making headlines all across the weekend. 10 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 3: I was one hundred percent sure that I was having 11 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 3: a girl, Like I had only opened like girls clothing 12 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 3: tabs on my phone. I had planned my whole life 13 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:40,840 Speaker 3: with this girl. 14 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 2: So are you are you excited for a boy though? 15 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 2: Or is it like a little bit. 16 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 3: Like oh, look, I'll be so honest for you guys. 17 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 3: At the beginning, I was there to say that like, 18 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 3: I was so upset. I just it took me a 19 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 3: few days to come to terms. 20 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: With it, very honest. 21 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 2: I don't see why that has a shred, has a 22 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 2: zephyr of controversy about it. Yeah, for mine, like for me, 23 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 2: that is is because. 24 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: That is that what the stories on the weekend were 25 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 1: making it say, like it's controversial because she said she 26 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: wanted a girl when she's having a boy, I believe, so. 27 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yeah, like you know, just the fact that 28 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 2: she said that, yeah, like confronting for some people. But like, 29 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 2: the funny thing was when I heard that, because I 30 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 2: was exactly the same. I didn't want to have a 31 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 2: boy either, yeah right, yeah, And that, well that was 32 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 2: because I didn't think that I was and I probably 33 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 2: still don't, which is interesting. But I didn't think I 34 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 2: was equipped to raise a man because I'm not the 35 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 2: right man to raise a man, which gets down to 36 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 2: a very point of like what is the right man 37 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 2: and what is a man? Et cetera. 38 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 1: And I think what you've just said means that you 39 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: are absolutely the right man to raise a man. Yes, 40 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 1: I don't want to get too deep with this, but yeah. 41 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 2: Well it was interesting because I hadn't really told anybody 42 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 2: that I told a couple of people that I was 43 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 2: scared about having a boy when I had when I 44 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 2: had a few too many drinks. 45 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: But yeah, you said to me that you were worried 46 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 1: about the birds and bees chat as well, because obviously, 47 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: if you have a girl, that's mum's job. But if 48 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: you give a boy, it's your job, yes. 49 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 2: And I think just having grown up as a boy, 50 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 2: obviously I know where the bodies are buried, you know, 51 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 2: like I know all the pitfalls, Oh sure, growing up 52 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 2: as a. 53 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: Man, I know where all the yeah. Yeah yeah, the 54 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: mind traps are, so you'd have to deal with them. 55 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah that I've got to try and navigate 56 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 2: someone else through it, and I don't think I'm the 57 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 2: right person for it. And it's funny. I hadn't admitted 58 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:32,639 Speaker 2: that to anyone until I heard Adam Hills on Hamish 59 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 2: Blake's podcast. How are the dad's dad? Saying exactly the 60 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 2: same thing? 61 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 4: My daughter's occasionally will ask me this, and I've been 62 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,359 Speaker 4: honest about it. They've kind of said, did you want 63 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 4: to have a boy? And the truth was, especially with 64 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 4: the first one, I was really hoping for a girl 65 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 4: because I didn't consider myself capable of raising a boy, 66 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 4: because I didn't think I was a proper man. 67 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's exactly the same, isn't that funny? 68 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? 69 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 2: So I've got a question for everybody else now, because 70 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 2: I kind of want to put all this, all this 71 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 2: petty biases to one side. I think there's a right 72 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 2: answer here, but I am interested to hear what we 73 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 2: get back. Yeah, what actually is harder to raise? On 74 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 2: third and one and six five between. 75 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: Boy and girl? 76 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 2: Between a boy and a girl? Because I went into 77 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 2: the meeting room before the show and I was like, 78 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 2: I actually wanted to come in here and ask like, 79 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 2: how much harder is it raising a boy? 80 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: Sure? 81 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 2: But our boss abe, who's got a boy, was like, no, mate, 82 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 2: it's way harder raising a girl. Yeah, And I just 83 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 2: wondered whether that's something that we convince ourselves of to 84 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 2: make ourselves feel a bit better about our situation. 85 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. The only difference that I haven't got a boy. 86 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, geez, having a girl's tough. Thank god I haven't 87 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 2: got a boy. 88 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 5: Or when you've got a boy, you're like, oh god, 89 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 5: having a boy is possible, but thank god I haven't. 90 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 2: Heard a girl awful. Yeah, I actually love to know 91 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 2: other side. I want to hear from you on the 92 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 2: other side as well. 93 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, held me back. That'll get people through the round. 94 00:03:58,800 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 1: What do you think? 95 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 6: What is? 96 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 2: What do you think we've got them? Thirty one and 97 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 2: six five? What's harder raising boys or raising girls? Now, 98 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:21,479 Speaker 2: there's obviously no right answer here. But I am very 99 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 2: interested to hear how people. 100 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 1: Justify it, and I like hearing this. We've got Jerome 101 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: here is Gollum, thirty one o six y five. Jerome, 102 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 1: you've had boys, you've had girls. You've had four boys 103 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: and two girls. What's your opinion, Jerome? 104 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 7: The girls are much harder, a lot more money, much 105 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 7: more rewarding in the end. 106 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 2: So expensive but rewarding, Is that right? 107 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 8: Okay? 108 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 7: So I've got four kids from my first marriage. They 109 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 7: live in Israel. 110 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, and all my. 111 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 9: Boys talk to me, but my daughter's the only woman 112 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 9: that actually calls me. 113 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 6: And then and then on the other hand, last week 114 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 6: she said, I want to come and visit you and 115 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:58,919 Speaker 6: see my half brother and sister. 116 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 7: Two and a half grand has to come a visit 117 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 7: us in a couple of weeks. 118 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 2: Okay, So girls, girls are harder, more expensive, but more rewarding. Right, 119 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 2: Gee whiz? How's that for a synopsis? She is you've 120 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 2: got the more expensive gender. 121 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:20,480 Speaker 1: Woods cut that nightmare. Let's go. Let's go to Peter here, Peter, 122 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: what do you think it harder to raise girls? 123 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:25,040 Speaker 9: Definitely? Girls? 124 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 2: Why? Why? 125 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 1: Peter? 126 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 9: Oh Man, I've got three girls and one boy? Yeah, 127 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 9: and the girls that attitude that they have three year 128 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:36,919 Speaker 9: old a three year old up is just it just 129 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 9: gets worse and worse. 130 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: So do you think I mean the girl was easier 131 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 1: from zero to three because honestly, like Remy has been 132 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 1: a dream. So she's going through a four month progression 133 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:46,919 Speaker 1: right now, which is a bit of a nightmare. But 134 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: like I feel like early on I hear that girls 135 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: are really easy but then become a bit harder later on. 136 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 1: Is that your experienced, Peter? 137 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 9: I think just first children are easy and then they 138 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:57,799 Speaker 9: suck you inter having more. 139 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 2: They such a weird Sorry, Peter, you made that decision 140 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 2: in your own time. There was no child coaxing you 141 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 2: to conceive again, that was yeah right, okay, So with Peter, 142 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 2: what's the what's the toughest thing you've had to deal 143 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 2: with with your daughter? For her to be that deemed 144 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 2: is that difficult? 145 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 9: I think the internet is really stressful with girls. 146 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 2: Just things that she absorbs there that you can't sort 147 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 2: of protect her from. 148 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:33,159 Speaker 9: Yeah, yep. That and just trusting people who were talking 149 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 9: to her or that's what's really big. And like my 150 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 9: boy can go out and I don't stress so much. 151 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 9: Is my girl walking home at a certain time. 152 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 2: Does make her difficult. That just makes it vulnerable. But 153 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 2: that's you. 154 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 9: Say, what's the most difficult part difficult is like the 155 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 9: attitude inside doors, that kind of thing. 156 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 7: Yeah, to get over it. 157 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:03,360 Speaker 2: I actually remember when my sister was a teenager. That 158 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 2: was tough times, slaming doors, slaming doors. I don't think 159 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 2: I spoke to her five years. 160 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's a good way to do it. 161 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 2: I reckon she we just would you like ships in 162 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 2: the night? 163 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 10: Yeah? 164 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, because she was a tough patch. 165 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 2: It was tough. 166 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 1: Let's go to Annette here. 167 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 2: It didn't happen. 168 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 1: It happened the five year period. Yeah, selective memory and 169 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 1: that which one do you things harder? Boys or girls 170 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 1: to raise? 171 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 11: I think boys are, especially as a single mom, definitely. 172 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 2: Oh wow, okay, okay, talk to us in it. 173 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 1: Why. 174 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 11: Yeah, well I separated. So my son were five and ten. 175 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 8: I have a bit of a gap. 176 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 11: Yeah, So at that age they were sort of okay. 177 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 11: But as they grew into young men, I found it 178 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 11: a lot harder because it was very hard to relate 179 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 11: to how men relate with each other. So I couldn't 180 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 11: explain and help them when they think situation, what was. 181 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 2: The toughest What was the toughest sort of situation there 182 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 2: that you have to sort of try and reach into 183 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 2: in it. 184 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 11: It's at school, like the way boys relate to each 185 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 11: other at school and those social environments versus how girls. 186 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 2: Ye don't talk, we shut down, we shut down. 187 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 1: We just have a wrestle. Just just tell them to get 188 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 1: in there and have a wrestle. 189 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 11: They do, But I don't like that. 190 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 8: You need to talk it out, no head hits. 191 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 2: What's your tactic then? And then we'll put the wrestling 192 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 2: into one side weekend and what's your what's your what's 193 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 2: your tactic in it? To get your boys? I don't 194 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 2: know if you listening to the show, but I'm very 195 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 2: passionate about this stuff, getting getting men to be that's 196 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 2: a huge part of everything that's right in the DNA, 197 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,440 Speaker 2: and this show is getting more boys to talk more often. 198 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 2: So what's just for other moms out there this thing? 199 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 2: What's your tactic to get your boys to it? 200 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 3: Is? 201 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 8: Yeah? 202 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 11: I try to explain, like you know when because boys 203 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 11: do rough house right and other men say, oh, it's normal, 204 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 11: and I'm like, well, I don't think it's normal. I 205 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 11: think you need to find out why. And I tried 206 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 11: encourage my son. You know, if someone sort of like 207 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 11: bullying him, why do you think they're bullying you? Do 208 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 11: they like even if it's a friend, even if it's 209 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 11: a friend, which confused me. 210 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 2: Like why do you think? 211 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 11: And he goes, oh, yeah, like you've had trouble at 212 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 11: home with his mom. And I'm like, okay, so maybe 213 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 11: you just need to say, look what's going on, like 214 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 11: why are you doing this and give them the opportunity 215 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 11: to say, oh, yeah, maybe I shouldn't have done that. 216 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 11: I've just had a rough night or something. 217 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 9: But very hard. 218 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: I think you're boys lucky to have you as a 219 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: single mum, because more boys need to be getting told that, 220 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 1: rather than this knob over here is than he should 221 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 1: have wrestled with him. Honestly, young boys need to be heard. 222 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 1: Ask him, mate, why do you react like that? That's 223 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 1: really good in it? 224 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, nice in it, really good stuff. Lovely to hear 225 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:42,200 Speaker 2: from you. 226 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 8: Mate. 227 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 2: You can have spinal these pillow for your calls afternoon. 228 00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 2: Sounds like you've had a hell of a time. Thank 229 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 2: you all, Good night's sleep makes all. Thanks for Joordy, 230 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 2: isn't it she is so girls hard to raise until 231 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 2: the net comes home with as much harder to rais 232 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 2: as a mum. 233 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 1: How did a change your boy? I've heard as well, 234 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 1: change change What do you mean as a as a 235 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 1: as a hose? 236 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 2: Oh there's a hard like I know you men change 237 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 2: their personality. There were twosies playing in the super Bowl 238 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 2: today and we've actually got the mentor, coach and very 239 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,599 Speaker 2: close friend of Jordan Malata who played in the Philadelphia 240 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 2: Eagles today. This is Richard Carew's from Bankstown Bulls in 241 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:26,680 Speaker 2: the Rugby League. 242 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 7: Kay, Richard, thanks for having me on the show. 243 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 2: I just want to folks a little bit about your 244 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,079 Speaker 2: time together because I know he played for the Banktown 245 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:37,239 Speaker 2: Bulls in the league, but why didn't he stick to rugby? 246 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 7: Look, he was he was a devastating player in rugby league. 247 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 7: But rugby league's a game which requires a lot of 248 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 7: stamina and generally guys of Jordan's stature, yeah, you know 249 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 7: his size. It's it's quite difficult to sort of get 250 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 7: to that fitness level that's wanted to play at least 251 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 7: fifty sixty minutes. So there's not many players currently playing 252 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 7: in the NRL that are over two hundred centimeters. I've 253 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 7: got a player three or four that's about it in 254 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 7: disguise anyway. I mean, if he was offered a bit 255 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:09,839 Speaker 7: more money, I think I heard South offered him five 256 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 7: thousand dollars. If he'd been offered a bit more money, 257 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 7: he may have stayed and we would never have seen 258 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 7: Jordan reached the heights that he has in the NFL. 259 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 1: What was he What was he like as a kid, Richard. 260 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 7: May Look, he was a gentle giant. You know, you 261 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 7: had to really read him up to sort of get 262 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 7: him going. 263 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 1: Yeah right, okay, so you reckon that the head coach 264 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:32,079 Speaker 1: of the Chiefs was like prodding him or something with 265 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: like some sort of taser before the game just to 266 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 1: fire him up. 267 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 7: Oh no, no, I think as an adult, Look, not 268 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 7: many people can do it. 269 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:39,680 Speaker 10: More. 270 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:41,679 Speaker 7: We've had players that have that have made it in 271 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 7: the NRL that have gone there and tried Jared Haynes, 272 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 7: they couldn't do it, and he's excelled. You know, he 273 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 7: never gave up. And that's something that you know, I 274 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 7: can say obviously from his family as well supporting him, 275 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 7: but that's something that I instilled in him as a 276 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 7: young man. 277 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:58,680 Speaker 2: What a privilege as a teacher and as a mentor 278 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 2: to know someone so and then watch them on TV 279 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 2: today knowing that you know they're there are literally tens 280 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 2: of millions of people watching them today. They must have 281 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:07,439 Speaker 2: felt special for you, Richard. 282 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 7: It was it was you know, and we we got together, 283 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 7: we had like a towerg that WOS Park is all 284 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 7: stumping ground. That it was. It was a momentous occasion. 285 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 7: Like I said, the result in the way we wanted, 286 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 7: but you know his effort was special. Yeah, he's there. 287 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 7: He's going to be Philadelphia for a long time. 288 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:27,200 Speaker 1: And mate, when you were watching the game, did you 289 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:29,359 Speaker 1: happen to catch Rianna's halftime performance? 290 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 3: Yeah? 291 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 7: I mean she was amazing. You know, she's recently had 292 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 7: a baby. She was amazing. I mean it wasn't as 293 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:37,719 Speaker 7: good as last year. Obviously last year, you know it 294 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:40,319 Speaker 7: was amazing. You couldn't you couldn't. 295 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 2: Be that last year. I was last year. 296 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 7: Last year they had they had they had a host. 297 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 2: Oh that's right, they had Big that Snoop Dogg. Yeah, 298 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 2: you're a big fitty man, Richard Big. Yeah, Yeah, you know. 299 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 7: I mean you couldn't be la. I mean, look, it 300 00:12:58,440 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 7: was it was. 301 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 2: I mean, look, Jesus Christ Richard, I thought it was 302 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 2: just gonna be a quick wrap up question. But you 303 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 2: showing that you know a lot more about pop culture 304 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 2: and the half times show that any of us expected. 305 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 2: That's all right, you got a job that you could 306 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:14,839 Speaker 2: moonlight as an entertainment reporter. I thought it was a 307 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 2: regul league coach, Jesus Christ Richard, thanks for joining us. 308 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 2: Richard Cars their former junior coach of Jordan Mallatta, who 309 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 2: played in the Super Bowl today the Chiefs one. But 310 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 2: as he said, he'll be a Philadelphia Eagles player for 311 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 2: a long time and plenty of time for him to 312 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 2: find the spotlight again. Just a huge achievement just changing 313 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 2: codes and playing in a Super Bowl. We genuinely start 314 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:36,559 Speaker 2: to all of Jordan's found me in and around his hometown. 315 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:41,000 Speaker 2: More after this, it's Will and Woody. 316 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 1: I'll get to what my fiance min was caught doing 317 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: in public very shortly, but before I get to that, 318 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: A Hen's party's fun, will Oh. 319 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 2: I don't think so wow. I think they why they fun? 320 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 2: Will Well, I haven't been to one, so I really 321 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 2: want to start by saying that and just back the 322 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 2: truck up in a big way. 323 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:08,080 Speaker 10: Yeah. 324 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 1: Sure, But look, I think there are a certain story. 325 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 2: They look at you. I want to start my saying 326 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:17,080 Speaker 2: I'm not a woman and I haven't been to one, 327 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 2: so I just laying that down. But but my idea 328 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 2: of fun would not be sipping a drink out of 329 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 2: a penis straw. We'll put that there. Yeah, okay, wouldn't be. 330 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 2: But you know, I'm sure the doodle on a donkey, pinning, Yeah, 331 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 2: pinning a doodle on a donkey, I'm not sure. If 332 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 2: it doesn't it doesn't light me up. Yeah, okay, I 333 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 2: don't want to have a mate. I don't want to 334 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 2: have an actual penis in my face either when they 335 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 2: get the mail strippers involved. 336 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:48,600 Speaker 1: But the penis, maybe we do need. What's that? 337 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:49,560 Speaker 2: That's not my bag? 338 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 1: Fair enough, You've made that very clear. 339 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 2: But there are lots of other Yeah. Look, and also 340 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 2: I also find hens and bucks parties is a very 341 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 2: good argument to say that no either of them, they 342 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 2: get to it, they reach a point where they none 343 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 2: of them become fun because everyone's had enough alcohol at 344 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 2: a certain point. Yeah, sure that people are either crying 345 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 2: or very silly, But there's no sure, there's no balancing 346 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 2: out of things. 347 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 1: A Bucks party is much fun than Hens? Though? 348 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 2: What's that? 349 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 1: A Bucks party is more fun than Hen's parties? From 350 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 1: what you know? 351 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 2: That to my lawyer to our question, and my lawyers 352 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 2: kept two pack. 353 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 1: I think we need to hear from some women though. 354 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 1: Thirteen one oh sixty five is our number. Ladies, why 355 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 1: are you saying? 356 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 2: Why are you asking me this? 357 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 1: I'll get to that in a second. But ladies, what's 358 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 1: the most fun you've had on a Hen's party? Or 359 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 1: proved to us that Hen's parties are fun? Because my 360 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 1: beautiful fiance was at a Hen's party on the weekend 361 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 1: and they did a silent disco, which a bit it's 362 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 1: becoming a bit of a thing. 363 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 11: Oh my god. 364 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 2: When you just see twenty to thirty drunk women with 365 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 2: headphones of different colors. If there was ever a time 366 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 2: that I wanted to teleport in my life, it's when 367 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 2: I've been around that. You know, when you see them 368 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 2: coming and you don't you hear them before you see them. 369 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 2: You to like cicadas, you hear them before you see it. 370 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, they just. 371 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 2: Because they're yelling different songs at different times. 372 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 1: It's like a stampede in the gorge. 373 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 2: And if if the gazelles were screaming incongruously to trash pop. 374 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, so and that for me, like, I 375 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: look at that and go, they can't be having a 376 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 1: fun time when they're doing their silent disco. My sister 377 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 1: had her hens a few weeks ago. They did a 378 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 1: twirk class. 379 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 2: One of them falls over. 380 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 1: Oh you're still on the silent disco. All the activities 381 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: I hear about on Hen's pages don't seem like that 382 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 1: much fun. So anyway, so Mim is doing this silent 383 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 1: disco and all of a sudden, this guy that she 384 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 1: knows he didn't realize she was doing the silent disco, 385 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 1: but he posts a store on Instagram, effectively taking a 386 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:04,120 Speaker 1: photo of the Hen's party she was at doing their 387 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:07,360 Speaker 1: silent disco, and he says, I challenge you to name 388 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:11,639 Speaker 1: a more annoying group of people than silent disco hens women. Anyway, 389 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 1: Mim sees this and then messages him back and says like, well, 390 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 1: that's actually me there. 391 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 2: I challenge you that I can't think of a more 392 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:20,720 Speaker 2: annoying group of people in the world. 393 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 1: Well, challenge laves than a Hen's. 394 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:26,639 Speaker 2: A Hen's party with silent disco headphones on, oblivious to 395 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:28,679 Speaker 2: the rest of the world, screaming at each other in 396 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 2: a public place, drunk. But that's up there. 397 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:33,919 Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, you and I 398 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 1: have never been to a Hen's party, So ladies, we haven't. 399 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:39,119 Speaker 1: If you've been to a Hen's party, give us a 400 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 1: call on thirteen one oh six five and tell us 401 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 1: what fun did you have? 402 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:49,119 Speaker 2: Our Hens party is actually fun and look maybit a 403 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 2: cop any flak from this. Neither of us have actually 404 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 2: been to a Hen's party. We just hear about him, 405 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:56,199 Speaker 2: and we're not saying Bucks part Oh. Bucks parties can 406 00:17:56,240 --> 00:17:59,679 Speaker 2: be pretty fun, but they're not like you know, there 407 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 2: are certain points at a Bucks party where you're like, geez, 408 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:03,439 Speaker 2: I've had enough of this. I think anyone has been 409 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 2: to a Hens or a Bucks party knows that every that, 410 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:08,400 Speaker 2: no matter whether it's a Hens or a Bucks, they 411 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:11,640 Speaker 2: reach a point where you go beat me out, Scottie, 412 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 2: I don't want to see any. 413 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 1: More of you anymore. 414 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:19,679 Speaker 2: I think you're now crying. You've just fallen over you know, 415 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 2: it's just not It gets to a point where you, yeah, 416 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:24,880 Speaker 2: you need the other the other gender around. 417 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've run a full oiled up Greco Roman wrestling 418 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 1: contest mid Bucks before and you do things. 419 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 2: Like that and you realize that point I tapped you 420 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:34,520 Speaker 2: on the shoulders that time ago. 421 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:36,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I appreciate that all the time. 422 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 2: But I think when I found it had been going 423 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 2: on for about six hours. By the time I found you. 424 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was undefeated, by the way, not important, but 425 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:46,160 Speaker 1: I was undefeated. I think that to one side going 426 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:47,879 Speaker 1: too hard. I think both of us are saying that 427 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,399 Speaker 1: Bucks are definitely more fun than Hens. Though feels like that. 428 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:52,680 Speaker 1: But we would love to hear from some ladies now 429 00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:55,639 Speaker 1: in thirteen one oh sixty five to protect the sanctity 430 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:57,760 Speaker 1: of the fund that is apparently had on these hands. 431 00:18:57,800 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 1: We're talking about it because my fiance had a Hens 432 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 1: on the weekend and they did the silent disco thing, which. 433 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:06,239 Speaker 2: It's in the playbook for a Hen's party. And I'll 434 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 2: tell you, I'll tell you the five things you know 435 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 2: you're going to be doing at a Hen's party. 436 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 1: Tell me will sipping out of penis straw. Kirsty, Kirsty, 437 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:16,159 Speaker 1: you're there, Kirsty, Yeah, you going before you give your 438 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 1: answer on why Hen's parties are so much fun. Can 439 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 1: you let Will know if these five things happen at 440 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: every single Hen's party? Okay ready? 441 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 2: Did you sip out of a penis straw? 442 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:28,840 Speaker 10: Yes? 443 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 1: All right, we will. 444 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:35,479 Speaker 2: Was there some sort of actual nudity involved from another man? 445 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:38,040 Speaker 1: Whoa like that one? Cursed o? 446 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 2: Did you play some sort of a game which involved 447 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:45,160 Speaker 2: asking questions from the groom and then getting the same 448 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 2: answers from the bride or you know, like comparing their 449 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:48,359 Speaker 2: answers or whatever. 450 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 6: M not really. 451 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 1: Got it anything else there. 452 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:56,880 Speaker 2: I've got more in the What about crying? Was there 453 00:19:56,920 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 2: crying involved? Like and cry? Not a single woman? 454 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 1: Why would you cry? 455 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 9: No tears? 456 00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 2: Interesting to go? 457 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 1: All right, well, Kirsty Will's had a huge miss there. 458 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 1: But why why you got two Kirsty? Why why Hen's 459 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 1: party is so much fun? What sort of stuff do 460 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 1: you get up to? 461 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:17,159 Speaker 6: At the time, I was only eighteen, so it was 462 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 6: very exciting for me. 463 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 10: But my sister's Bessie was getting married. 464 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,320 Speaker 3: So we got Puppetry of the Penis to come around. 465 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 10: Wow, and they did the full show, which was awesome, 466 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 10: and we had bottomless cocktails so everyone just got ship 467 00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 10: faced and watch these guys do stuff with their penises. 468 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 6: Wow, this is this is what it's like to be eighteen. 469 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 2: So you had a great time. Yeah, you had a 470 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:44,199 Speaker 2: great time, kurty is what you're telling you? Yeah, it 471 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 2: was good. 472 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:51,240 Speaker 6: And I had to send Moum home early because she'd 473 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:54,200 Speaker 6: had too many boom boom buruses and she was having 474 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 6: to get a sore head. 475 00:20:58,040 --> 00:20:59,640 Speaker 2: You can have a spinally's pillow. Thanks for the cal 476 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:03,119 Speaker 2: Go to Ellie here. Yeah, have you had fun? Have 477 00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:04,840 Speaker 2: you actually had fun at a Hen's party? 478 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:06,040 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, and you very much. 479 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 10: Guy to the list, and I was four from five. 480 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:15,119 Speaker 10: I think I missed the last question, but I was 481 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 10: answering yes to all of those. 482 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,199 Speaker 2: So there was there was crying, Hey on this is 483 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:20,200 Speaker 2: this is the famous five. 484 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:21,400 Speaker 1: So there was crying. 485 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:22,720 Speaker 2: What else? 486 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 1: Pin the doodle on the donkey? 487 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:32,640 Speaker 2: Yep, there were penis straws. Yes, physical male nudity, male 488 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 2: nudity at some stage. And what was the last one? 489 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 10: So the questions with the bride and the groom, n. 490 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 2: There's the vibe guaranteed. 491 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,439 Speaker 1: So the next the next point is, Ellie, what's the 492 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 1: most fun you've had on a Hen's party. 493 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:50,199 Speaker 10: I've had a lot of fun on all the hens parties. 494 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 10: Most recently, the girls drank too much, and I like 495 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:56,440 Speaker 10: to think I'm a bottomless pit so I drank most 496 00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:58,159 Speaker 10: of the free wine and the limo we went to 497 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 10: after the strip of show, and I was too drunk 498 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:03,400 Speaker 10: for the time we got to the clubs. I had 499 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 10: to be sort of you know, snuck in in the group. 500 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,720 Speaker 10: And then they had these little minim mini like foot 501 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,080 Speaker 10: or two foot podiums, and I went to jump on 502 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 10: one of them in my high heels and just fell 503 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:13,360 Speaker 10: straight on my ass. 504 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:15,000 Speaker 2: Nice. 505 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 1: Nice, It was a great time. 506 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:23,399 Speaker 2: Heywoods, we are here firing shots. We are here the 507 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:28,280 Speaker 2: most as an anti climax. You and I are having 508 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 2: pot shots at Hen's parties. We are we are Yeah, 509 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 2: wrong of us, it's wrong with us. 510 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:32,920 Speaker 1: We'reaughty boys. 511 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 2: It's not fair. 512 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 1: Maybe I'm just jealous because I had the whole day 513 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 1: with the baby bow. 514 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I was actually moving house hens all day. 515 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 1: I think the truth is coming out, coming out. 516 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 2: Would killed for a drink. But if you're in charge 517 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 2: of a Hen's party, yes, get away from the you 518 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,960 Speaker 2: know the stereotypes. What what what are you doing that's 519 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 2: different there? 520 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: If I'm organizing, I'm sitting here having a shot at 521 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 1: a Hen's party. Was under qualified. 522 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:01,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, you know, guys, make it a bit 523 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 2: more inventing, a bit more entertaining. What are you doing? 524 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 1: I build a sex toy, right, so no one, You're 525 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:20,840 Speaker 1: far more qualified. Just a quick one weeks ago and 526 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 1: they gave carrots to all the women with vegetable shavers 527 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 1: and you just had to draw, Willie. 528 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 2: You have loved Dick Woods and I ate wine drawing 529 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:35,600 Speaker 2: Dick eating carrots. Carrots. 530 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 1: I'd love to try Dick. 531 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:45,439 Speaker 2: Anyway, we are celebrating Rihanna playing the halftime show at 532 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 2: the super Bowl. Super Bowl fifty seven Kansas City Chiefs 533 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,560 Speaker 2: ended up winning, but look at the end of the day, 534 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:01,399 Speaker 2: who gets everyone? Rhianna performed, announced she was pregnant on 535 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 2: stage again. 536 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:05,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, so she started, she rubbed her belly a bit, 537 00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 1: and then people obviously online streth is pregnant again. And 538 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:11,679 Speaker 1: then finally a rep after the performance confirmed, yes, she 539 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:12,800 Speaker 1: is pregnant with their second baby. 540 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:15,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, extraordinary. Way to do it anyway, rub it ba, 541 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,399 Speaker 2: do whatever you want. Yeah, half an hour's time, We're 542 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 2: going to play the full performance of Rihanna at the 543 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:23,159 Speaker 2: super Bowl live for the tuned, right, now though, we 544 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 2: are coming up to halftime in will and Woody this afternoon, 545 00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:28,680 Speaker 2: so we thought we'd ask one of you guys called 546 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 2: Rihanna to do the halftime show for us. Welcome Rihanna. Oh, Hi, 547 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:38,119 Speaker 2: guys would be celebrating today, no doubt, no doubt, Rihanna. 548 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 1: Can I ask you what what special skill will you 549 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,919 Speaker 1: be putting on show today for everyone? For halftime? 550 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 11: Oh, for halftime, I will be singing the classic Avelreine 551 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 11: song skater Boy. 552 00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 2: Oh joking, hot track contract compella. 553 00:24:56,480 --> 00:25:02,640 Speaker 10: All right, ready, God, is there any reason? 554 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 2: Do I really appreciate that you're doing this? Rihanna? But 555 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 2: like I can give you a spinal as pillow. But 556 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 2: that's about it. And the other thing is here if 557 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,960 Speaker 2: if we think it's we're just gonna move to the quiz. 558 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 2: If it's no good, okay, so you probably won't hear me. 559 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 10: Well cue the quiz. 560 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,879 Speaker 1: Ready, hang on, hang on, build up a bit, all right, 561 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 1: We'll build you up and then you take it away 562 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 1: right here, halftime show. 563 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:33,560 Speaker 2: Here's my brass, your girl, Rihanna. 564 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 9: He was a boy, He was a girl. 565 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:42,520 Speaker 10: Can I make it any more obvious? He was in 566 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 10: last Having you heard how we rocked each other the world. 567 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 1: More Woman Woody Goodness after this It's the Women Woody podcast. 568 00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 2: Rihanna at Super Bowl fifty seven, she performed the halftime showwards. 569 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:02,439 Speaker 2: The big story that sadly not her performance. Actually, it 570 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 2: was the fact that she touched her belly halfway through 571 00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:09,840 Speaker 2: the performance, indicating that she was pregnant, and then her 572 00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:13,199 Speaker 2: representative lady confirmed that she was pregnant, yes again with 573 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:17,200 Speaker 2: her next child, So that sort of overshadowed the performance, which, 574 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,040 Speaker 2: as I said before, is quite sad because it was 575 00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:19,760 Speaker 2: a hell of a show. 576 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:22,919 Speaker 1: It was pretty interesting that, like without actually knowing that 577 00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 1: she was pregnant for sure, it was a pretty subtle 578 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,720 Speaker 1: move that like rub of her belly, and people were 579 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:30,680 Speaker 1: just online being like, is she pregnant? Rana, are you pregnant? 580 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 1: She's just announcing it, which is. 581 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,360 Speaker 2: Like, guys, the show still going, She's not right, Yeah, 582 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 2: she's not even halfway through the show. 583 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 1: I count Really, you shouldn't really do that to someone 584 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,920 Speaker 1: who hasn't been yet public. 585 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,679 Speaker 2: Hasn't announced it, right, particularly when they're in the middle of, 586 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,480 Speaker 2: you know, doing their craft. Yeah, you're right, take the 587 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:52,440 Speaker 2: limelight away from her. So look, once she got off stage, 588 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 2: Inevitably she's getting a whole bunch of questions, which is hectic. 589 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 2: She just finished. I wonder what the well, I wonder 590 00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 2: what the time was between her walking off stage having 591 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 2: just performed probably the biggest show of her life in 592 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,119 Speaker 2: terms of a number of people that streamed it and 593 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,720 Speaker 2: watched it at the same time. How long do you 594 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:12,520 Speaker 2: think until somebody asked her if she was pregnant? 595 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 1: Who's the first one to ask? Backup, dancer? What's someone 596 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 1: close to hersh hushier. 597 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:26,520 Speaker 2: Like a stage rusher? Is that everything? 598 00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 7: Buddy? 599 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:32,400 Speaker 1: Get out of here? Russia? God, no one cares about 600 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:32,879 Speaker 1: you anymore. 601 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,639 Speaker 2: No, they don't. But yeah, so that so how long 602 00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 2: until she's asked that? Uh? 603 00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:40,920 Speaker 1: Well, well again, she should be should be off in 604 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,359 Speaker 1: an suv somewhere into suv. I don't think anyone would 605 00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:44,760 Speaker 1: have direct contact with it. But as soon as she 606 00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 1: checks out. 607 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:48,119 Speaker 2: Right now, though, like the person driving the car or something, 608 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,400 Speaker 2: turned around, they would have been they would have taken 609 00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:53,719 Speaker 2: the chance. I would have turned around and been like, 610 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 2: oh so, because you touch your belly out there, pregnant? 611 00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,720 Speaker 1: Surely it was everywhere on someone. 612 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:04,439 Speaker 2: You're right. The reason I'm asking that is because I 613 00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,080 Speaker 2: really want to know. And as I said, we've done 614 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,639 Speaker 2: this before and it was super powerful, and it was 615 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 2: it was as interesting to me as it was terrifying 616 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:16,879 Speaker 2: to me. What's the most shocking or controversial question you've 617 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,719 Speaker 2: ever been asked? And this might have been like on 618 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:24,280 Speaker 2: a date at work, maybe just like Rihanna, maybe you 619 00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:26,680 Speaker 2: just finished doing a show and somebody came up. Do 620 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,240 Speaker 2: you want to ask you something totally inappropriate or totally well, 621 00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:31,880 Speaker 2: I'd love to hear from you, what's the most shocking 622 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:35,639 Speaker 2: or controversial question you've ever been asked? Now, this ties 623 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:37,680 Speaker 2: in really well with what's going on at the what 624 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 2: happened at the brit Awards as well. Tom Grannan and 625 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 2: Ellie Goulding on stage. I think this was a planned 626 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:44,880 Speaker 2: bit between the two of them. They're friends and they've 627 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:47,360 Speaker 2: since tweeted that you know, we're mates, and that was 628 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:49,240 Speaker 2: all part of the stick we were going for. Not 629 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,560 Speaker 2: a great example to set for guys asking girls questions. 630 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,440 Speaker 2: I think Tom Grenham recently released a song on toxic masculinity, 631 00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:57,920 Speaker 2: so I'm not sure how that lines up, but I'll 632 00:28:57,960 --> 00:28:59,240 Speaker 2: play this and then we'll go on to the song 633 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 2: because I'd love to have some more from you, guys, 634 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 2: But just if you're willing to share, what's what's the 635 00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 2: most confronting question you've ever been asked? Love to hear 636 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 2: from you, guys. Have listen to this. 637 00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 1: I love what you're doing. You're real, boots. 638 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,720 Speaker 2: These are not these are I wish? 639 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 1: Sorry? 640 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:15,640 Speaker 2: Mine are a lot farther apart. 641 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 1: Oh sadly, okay. 642 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 2: I wish hello everybody. 643 00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:22,560 Speaker 1: Everybody, Just they've just had such a miss there, haven't 644 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 1: they had miss? Clearly, they clearly had the idea of 645 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,400 Speaker 1: they're walking out. I reckon didn't think it through. Yeah, 646 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:28,080 Speaker 1: it's not a good look. 647 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,160 Speaker 2: Love to hear from you, guys. Where again, if it 648 00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:32,960 Speaker 2: was at work, if it was on a date, have 649 00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:36,160 Speaker 2: you been asked a shocking or confronting question and you're 650 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 2: willing to share it, you can stay anonymous if you 651 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:42,280 Speaker 2: like re re bad girl. She's back. I'm not sure 652 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,160 Speaker 2: why I did that in reverse, but anyway. Rihanna pregnant, 653 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 2: announcing she's pregnant and confirmed by her representative of the 654 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 2: Super Bowl halftime show totally wild. She's in the middle 655 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:54,280 Speaker 2: of a show, Everyone stops watching the show and heads 656 00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 2: to Twitter to speculate about her pregnancy halfway through the show. 657 00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, how old is I've forgotten her first child? 658 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:03,400 Speaker 8: Bad girl? 659 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:05,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, how old is her first child? 660 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 10: Ah? 661 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 2: No idea? Why are you asking me? 662 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 1: You're right about nine months old? 663 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,400 Speaker 2: Actually, because I think she's a couple of weeks older 664 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:15,400 Speaker 2: than boy. I think it is a couple of weeks 665 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 2: older than my daughter. Yeah right, okay, nine months old? 666 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,200 Speaker 1: Nine months pregnant again? Yeah right? 667 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, very doable, ads are Yeah, got nine months there? Yes, 668 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 2: breastfeeding is not contraception, despite what some people might tell you, 669 00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 2: now Woods, Yeah, I'd love to hear from some other people. 670 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 2: Most shocking a controversial question you've been asked at work, because, 671 00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:36,040 Speaker 2: no doubt, Rihanna gets off the stage, you're in a 672 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 2: bunch of people come up and say to her, Hey, 673 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:40,560 Speaker 2: are you pregnant or not? Which is a wild thing 674 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:41,360 Speaker 2: to ask a woman. 675 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 1: You just should not do it. 676 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 2: I can tell you then you can have a chat. 677 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 2: We're talking about it as well, because Ellie Goulding was 678 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,959 Speaker 2: asked by Tom Grennan up on stage whether or not 679 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 2: her breasts were real. And now that's a bit of 680 00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 2: a bit that they've done with each other. Actually, I'll 681 00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,080 Speaker 2: play that audio for context because it sounds a lot 682 00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 2: worse than what it actually is. 683 00:30:56,920 --> 00:31:00,720 Speaker 1: I love what you're doing. They you're real boots, These 684 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 1: are not these are I wish mine are a lot 685 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:09,440 Speaker 1: further apart. Okay, I wish hello everybody, everybody. She's also 686 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:14,160 Speaker 1: wearing like a black bust of boobs as like a top. Right, 687 00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,000 Speaker 1: He's not just he's not just pointing to her boob. 688 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,520 Speaker 2: She's wearing like she's wearing chest armor. 689 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:19,920 Speaker 10: Yeah. 690 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,720 Speaker 1: Yes, again, it's a shocking look. You cannot ask some 691 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:24,360 Speaker 1: of that. And but they're clearly as mates. Come up 692 00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 1: with that on the side of the stage, this would 693 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:26,280 Speaker 1: be funny. 694 00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:26,720 Speaker 2: Let's do this. 695 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 1: Not good hasn't gone down well. And again, as you said, well, 696 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 1: even even though they're mates, it's got a good message 697 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,239 Speaker 1: to send other men watching that going. Or you can 698 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:40,200 Speaker 1: walk up to a woman or anyone and say yeah. 699 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, totally wild. Interesting that Howard Sterne wants to de 700 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:46,920 Speaker 2: segment on his show where he felt breasts and decided 701 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:48,360 Speaker 2: which ones are real which ones for a fake? 702 00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:48,960 Speaker 1: Wow? 703 00:31:50,160 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, well yeah, Rachel's called by Rachel. Ye, so you 704 00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:05,200 Speaker 2: just discussed it at my side of the gen pool. Sometimes. Anyway, Rachel, 705 00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:08,120 Speaker 2: we're talking about really controversial, shocking questions. You've been asked, 706 00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:08,640 Speaker 2: what have you got? 707 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:14,040 Speaker 6: So I had two children and one was in daycare, 708 00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,520 Speaker 6: and I was having a meeting about an issue at daycare, 709 00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 6: and I was currently quite pregnant with my third and 710 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,240 Speaker 6: I had a very young manager of the daycare smer 711 00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:24,120 Speaker 6: say to me, oh, so this was an accident. 712 00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 8: Oh my stomach? 713 00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:29,960 Speaker 1: Oh what did so? What did that come off the 714 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,840 Speaker 1: back of though? How does that come up in conversation? Oh, 715 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:34,200 Speaker 1: so this one was a mistake. 716 00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:37,040 Speaker 6: Well, it was off the back of me. So she 717 00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:39,280 Speaker 6: obviously knew that I had one child because he was 718 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 6: a daycare. He hadn't seen my second child, and so 719 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:44,240 Speaker 6: I mentioned that I had another child, and then she 720 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:46,960 Speaker 6: was getting a little bit horrified about the fact that 721 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 6: I had too and then she obviously moved on to 722 00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:51,560 Speaker 6: my very pregnant belly instead. 723 00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 9: So this was an exhibit. 724 00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:57,080 Speaker 2: Three. 725 00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:58,680 Speaker 1: Is not even that many as well? 726 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 2: Like there's too many questions. Well, it's like it's just 727 00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 2: not none of your business. It's just none of your business. Wow, 728 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,440 Speaker 2: Rachel wild Call, Yeah, thanks for that. 729 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,840 Speaker 1: Ways, and like in that situation that even if it 730 00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:13,880 Speaker 1: wasn't planned that You just do not say to someone, Hey, 731 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:18,400 Speaker 1: was that not planned? It's like it's none of your business. 732 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:22,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you can Yeah yeah, Steph, Steph, we're talking 733 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,880 Speaker 2: about the most shocking or controversial thing you've been asked, 734 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:25,760 Speaker 2: what have you got? 735 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 8: Mine was in a social situation. I was having a 736 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 8: date with a guy. I'm a mature aged woman. I 737 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 8: was having a date with a guy who's in pure 738 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:39,640 Speaker 8: age man. He asked me, how do I handle the 739 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,280 Speaker 8: name on sign above my head when I walk into 740 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:45,240 Speaker 8: a burrower and establishment? And I said to him, big 741 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:48,840 Speaker 8: pun what what are you talking about? Yep? And I 742 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:52,160 Speaker 8: said to him sorry, And he said, the name on 743 00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,680 Speaker 8: sign above your head. You're very attractive, he's very beautiful 744 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 8: with a nice personality. How do you handle become? S me? 745 00:33:58,240 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 8: Sign above your head? 746 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,840 Speaker 2: Oh my god? 747 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:06,880 Speaker 8: Nice? Isn't it put the grass of wine down? 748 00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:12,400 Speaker 1: And what did he what he expected you to feel? 749 00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:14,600 Speaker 1: What complimented by that? Come in? 750 00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 2: Who knows? 751 00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:18,480 Speaker 8: He was a lawyer as well? 752 00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:27,480 Speaker 2: Oh right, God, that is a few people in the 753 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:31,360 Speaker 2: pointing at me. I've got a law degree. He pricks. 754 00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:32,800 Speaker 2: Doesn't mean. 755 00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:37,680 Speaker 1: There's some correlation. There's no doubt about it. I was 756 00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:39,239 Speaker 1: going to leave it, but I'm sorry if the whole 757 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:46,680 Speaker 1: team is pointing it, you was it, Will, Steph, You're 758 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,520 Speaker 1: not like that. That's a joke, obviously. The other sad 759 00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 1: thing about this story, Steph, is that like it feels like, obviously, 760 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 1: if this is an early thing, he said to you, 761 00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,200 Speaker 1: this was obviously a line he had done before, and 762 00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,040 Speaker 1: that that is so disgusting that he's done it more 763 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:01,520 Speaker 1: than once and thinks it's okay to keep doing it. 764 00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:03,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, or he read it in a book 765 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,120 Speaker 2: somewhere and I was like, this is a great way 766 00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:08,880 Speaker 2: to get someone to sleep with you. Yeah, did you 767 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,560 Speaker 2: say anything therefore? You walk out? 768 00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:13,800 Speaker 8: Just put the glass of wine down and said, thanks 769 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,920 Speaker 8: very much, you can leave me alone. 770 00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:20,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and I walked on. 771 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:26,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, how about the neon sign on your head saying 772 00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:27,240 Speaker 1: a little prick. 773 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:38,400 Speaker 2: Now it's Will and Woody seeing the penis. It's an unbelievable. 774 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:39,440 Speaker 1: Movieh himself on a trampoline. 775 00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:41,240 Speaker 2: No, it's pretty intense. 776 00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:47,480 Speaker 1: Does he shit himself? Hey, we're in the bookcast, which 777 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,200 Speaker 1: is about the people. 778 00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,479 Speaker 2: Well, just pulling the curtain down here though, because we 779 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:55,560 Speaker 2: we we were talking in the show about this stand 780 00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:56,719 Speaker 2: show called poker Face. 781 00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:58,320 Speaker 1: It's actually really good worth watching. 782 00:35:58,480 --> 00:35:59,279 Speaker 2: It's a creaking show. 783 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:01,759 Speaker 1: It's got the national and I was watching it the 784 00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 1: whole time. She's the main character in the show. Watching 785 00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,919 Speaker 1: it the whole time. I was like, I've seen I've 786 00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:10,960 Speaker 1: seen this woman somewhere. She's the she's Tara Reid's friend 787 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:12,160 Speaker 1: in American Pie. 788 00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:15,239 Speaker 2: Yes, right, yeah, you know you're telling me this. 789 00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:17,359 Speaker 1: Last week and she's really good. 790 00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:19,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's really good. It's a hot show. 791 00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:20,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 792 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,680 Speaker 2: But the interesting thing is we're also talking about Adrian Brodie. 793 00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:23,279 Speaker 1: He's good. 794 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:26,799 Speaker 2: Who's one, Yeah, he's in it one. Now. Before we 795 00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:30,880 Speaker 2: started talking about this Stand show, Analyse, who's our junior 796 00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:32,920 Speaker 2: produced here, and he came in here. He's like, boys, 797 00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:34,400 Speaker 2: you can talk about Stand as much as you like, 798 00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:35,880 Speaker 2: but if we're going to talk about Stand, let's not 799 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,319 Speaker 2: mention how the streaming services. You know, just fair enough, 800 00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:39,000 Speaker 2: common courtesy. 801 00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:41,840 Speaker 1: Right, we're professionals, and we were like Analyse, obviously we 802 00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,400 Speaker 1: get it, we get it. 803 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,120 Speaker 2: So, you know, we were quite careful around the words 804 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:51,640 Speaker 2: Binge and Foxtel and you know, not that Foxtel comes 805 00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:54,759 Speaker 2: up in conversation, but anyway, morning we were careful about that. Yeah, 806 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:56,279 Speaker 2: and we did well, and we did really well. 807 00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 1: Well, someone got arrogant, one of us got get you 808 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:01,600 Speaker 1: did I didn't. 809 00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:03,719 Speaker 2: We were talking about Adrian Brodie. He's in that episode. 810 00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:07,080 Speaker 2: He's in the first episode of poker Face, and he's famous. 811 00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:09,280 Speaker 2: He won the Oscar for his performance in The Pianist. 812 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:12,600 Speaker 1: And unfortunately, because I heard you say pianist, we doubled 813 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:15,040 Speaker 1: down and kept saying the Pianist. 814 00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:17,239 Speaker 2: That was you. And then you didn't miss hear me? 815 00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:19,960 Speaker 2: Did you quite enjoy the fact that pianist sounds like 816 00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 2: the word penis. 817 00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,640 Speaker 1: I am not a child, your father, my father, my father, 818 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:27,640 Speaker 1: and I don't find the word penis funny. I'm sorry, OK, 819 00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 1: it is a funny word. Penis is a funny word, 820 00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:40,480 Speaker 1: and pianist couldn't be closer to the word. I'm sorry, 821 00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:42,680 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. That's good. 822 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:51,560 Speaker 2: So I'm dealing with this. So I said, I said, 823 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:55,759 Speaker 2: Adrian Brodie is in The Pianist, and you said, well, 824 00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:58,160 Speaker 2: then you everyone kind of went silent. You started laughing. 825 00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:01,120 Speaker 2: I didn't realize the big fear was that The Pianist, 826 00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:03,000 Speaker 2: which is a great movie, by the way, Adrian Brady 827 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,319 Speaker 2: winds you keaddingy Award for it might be streaming on 828 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:06,000 Speaker 2: another service. 829 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,279 Speaker 1: We won't say what that service is, but we'll learn 830 00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:11,759 Speaker 1: that it's on Netflix. Okay, Well, and then I think 831 00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,200 Speaker 1: you said pianist. You said pianis three or four. 832 00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,200 Speaker 2: Times, which is fine. 833 00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:18,440 Speaker 1: Well I don't think it was fine. I don't think 834 00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:18,799 Speaker 1: it is fun. 835 00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:21,359 Speaker 2: So angry about that? If I do, you reckon, I've 836 00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:25,239 Speaker 2: breached something, then certainly I have now here we go. 837 00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:28,279 Speaker 2: She's going in poop pants has lived. But this is 838 00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:29,920 Speaker 2: the way that the podcast crumbles. 839 00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,440 Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm pretty I'm not angry. 840 00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 2: I'm just very disappointed. 841 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:35,880 Speaker 1: Are you angry at Will or me? 842 00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:38,840 Speaker 10: Probably both of you? 843 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:41,040 Speaker 1: What the that is so not fair? 844 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:46,840 Speaker 2: It will know the penis, But you're tuvenile around the 845 00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:55,080 Speaker 2: word penis. I didn't play with exactly. Analys is twelve 846 00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:56,960 Speaker 2: to fourteen years younger than you, and she can say 847 00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:58,880 Speaker 2: the word penis without laughing. Analyst, go for it. 848 00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:00,840 Speaker 10: She's laughing. 849 00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:10,840 Speaker 2: She's laughing, laughing, absolutely without laughing. And you're not allowed 850 00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:13,440 Speaker 2: to rock back and laugh. Keep your mic on. 851 00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:19,240 Speaker 1: You're just saying penis. Are you just saying penis? 852 00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:24,520 Speaker 2: It's just saying penis penis without laughing. And she can't 853 00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:24,719 Speaker 2: do it? 854 00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:27,279 Speaker 10: Penis serious? 855 00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:33,040 Speaker 1: You cracked? It is a funny word. I get an analyse. 856 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 1: Do you think do you think who's moment you're out 857 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:35,800 Speaker 1: of man? Analyse? 858 00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:39,239 Speaker 10: What? 859 00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:41,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, Analise, I. 860 00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:43,359 Speaker 2: Think she's more confident than you as well. Like if 861 00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,200 Speaker 2: I said to Analyse, here's who's here's the list to 862 00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,359 Speaker 2: go to the supermarket with you. Oh, that's fair, that's 863 00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:51,640 Speaker 2: fair that she's been that. If I said here's a text, 864 00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:53,480 Speaker 2: here's a text for tend to do, she'd been that. 865 00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:55,520 Speaker 1: Oh hang on, I'm pretty good at balancing Ledger as well. 866 00:39:56,320 --> 00:40:00,239 Speaker 2: If I said to analyse, can you go? And she'd 867 00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,279 Speaker 2: be better at fetching things than news, She'd be better 868 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:04,680 Speaker 2: communicating something in the news. She better at wrangling in 869 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:07,360 Speaker 2: person than you. She'd be better at organizing a. 870 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,760 Speaker 1: Space than you space. 871 00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. So like if I said to her, hey, look 872 00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,279 Speaker 2: I need to go. I need to there's this blank 873 00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:18,880 Speaker 2: face right Taylor swivet or something, and I want to 874 00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:20,719 Speaker 2: put an art gallery there. Can you just sort that 875 00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:21,200 Speaker 2: out for me? 876 00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:21,440 Speaker 3: Yeah? 877 00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:22,440 Speaker 1: Okay, she's got me covered there. 878 00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:24,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I can keep going. It's damaging for 879 00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,200 Speaker 2: you though, but she's pretty much got you covered on everything. 880 00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:30,680 Speaker 1: Okay, now, I'll put that down there. Baby. She can 881 00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:34,200 Speaker 1: be a bit haphazard on the weekends, though, I think no, 882 00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:35,880 Speaker 1: she'd just give me a very stern looks. I'm not 883 00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:36,320 Speaker 1: going into that. 884 00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:39,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I think she's pretty much got you covered. 885 00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, not fair enough. Yeah, I'm just trying. I'm honestly 886 00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:45,759 Speaker 1: racking my mind right now for something I could do 887 00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:51,040 Speaker 1: better than he. You were going to say something sick, 888 00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:52,919 Speaker 1: then I wasn't going to say something sick. 889 00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:54,000 Speaker 2: Look in your eye. 890 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:55,359 Speaker 1: Hike organizing the hike. 891 00:40:56,400 --> 00:41:01,240 Speaker 2: You don't hike? Yeah, but neither its analyst analyst, analyst 892 00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:02,000 Speaker 2: grow up in the country. 893 00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:04,560 Speaker 1: I think I could pack a better bag pre hike 894 00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:07,360 Speaker 1: than an You're a shocking package. I would make a 895 00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,440 Speaker 1: great make a great scruggin. 896 00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 2: You know, totally disagree with the analys. 897 00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:13,719 Speaker 1: What are you putting it in? 898 00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:15,759 Speaker 2: Scrugging? You've gotta make a scrugging. You know what a 899 00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:19,480 Speaker 2: scrougging is? Exactly trail Exactly trail makes. 900 00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:25,479 Speaker 1: Scruggsh mellows, shocking scrubbing, shocking scrugging. See what I'm talking about? 901 00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:30,160 Speaker 5: Okay about you would make a better scrugging than junior 902 00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:36,799 Speaker 5: producer analyts, Yes, all right, that might be it end 903 00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:37,239 Speaker 5: of a high. 904 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,799 Speaker 2: You want to wrap their pants? I'm done, Yeah, you're done? 905 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:43,160 Speaker 7: Yeah? 906 00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:48,760 Speaker 1: Absolutely yeah great. What's in your scrouging well, definitely nuts, 907 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:53,800 Speaker 1: some cranberry, some dried cranberries, some other currents. 908 00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:55,480 Speaker 2: Uh, we're gonna go.