1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: This is Outspoken, the podcast It's not afraid to say 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: exactly what you're thinking. 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 2: Our names are. 4 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 1: Amy Kay and Sophie Torba. We're identical triplets, but we 5 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 1: often don't have identical opinions, so sometimes things can get heated. 6 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 1: Outspoken covers all things reality TV, influencers, entertainment, and issues 7 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:20,600 Speaker 1: facing women. 8 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 2: That is so fat. 9 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: Thank you, Hello, and welcome to a very special Friday 10 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 1: episode about Spoken. Today it's just soph and I as 11 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:33,880 Speaker 1: Kate is a little under the weather, but we're joined 12 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: by og influencer Britney Saunders. Now Brittany made it big 13 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: on YouTube over eight years ago and now runs hugely 14 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:44,959 Speaker 1: successful brands Fate the Label, Form Active and Staple Swim. 15 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 1: In this chat, we touch on some really interesting topics 16 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: such as how to spot a fake influencer, add disclosure 17 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 1: on Instagram, the truth about all those influencer brand trips, 18 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 1: and so much more. This is a really fun chat 19 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: and gives a great insight into the influencer world. 20 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 2: I hope you guys enjoy it. 21 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: Officially, welcome trat Spoken, sof and I am so excited 22 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 1: to have you on because we feel like you're one 23 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 1: of the most down to earth influencers out there. 24 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 3: Oh thank you. I try. I don't try. I mean, 25 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 3: I just be myself, I guess, so I guess that's 26 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 3: why some people feel that way, which is amazing because 27 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:23,759 Speaker 3: I would never want to be perceived as anything other 28 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 3: than just me. So it's nice to know. 29 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, you do seem really real. 30 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: And the fact we obviously did a podcast a few 31 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:34,039 Speaker 1: weeks ago about your stay at the Calais Hotel and 32 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 1: that's how we kind of connected. You kindly reached out 33 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 1: to us and disclosed some pretty interesting information about your 34 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 1: stay there, and that's why I wanted to get you 35 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:45,399 Speaker 1: on to sort of, for want of a better words, 36 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: build a tea and tell us exactly what happened. 37 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, So I had a booked, Like I booked 38 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 3: two nights there months ago, like maybe six months ago, 39 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 3: because we had our friend's wedding on the Saturday night. 40 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 3: I had seen them on Instagram for ages and thought, wow, 41 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 3: like look at that place, like it's so beautiful, and 42 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 3: like obviously none of us have traveled for quite a 43 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 3: long time now, since was going to be our first 44 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 3: time like going anywhere in over a year. So I 45 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 3: was like, yeah, let's do it. Let's book it. You know. 46 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 3: It was one thousand dollars for the two nights, but 47 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 3: we were like, let's just make the most of it 48 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 3: and have an amazing weekend away for our friend's wedding. 49 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,640 Speaker 3: And I hadn't heard about any of this whole, like, 50 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:30,799 Speaker 3: don't tag them or anything. I had no idea because 51 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 3: I guess I don't really read the news or like, 52 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 3: I don't know. So anyway, we got there on the 53 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 3: fridays and then I think it must have been the 54 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 3: friday we went and had a cocktail downstairs in the 55 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 3: little cocktail bar area they've got there, and I just 56 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 3: took a cute little, you know, like aesthetics photo and 57 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 3: popped it on my stories and I was like, oh, 58 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 3: I'll just tag them, like just because it's nice, and 59 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 3: you know a lot of people will be like, where 60 00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 3: is that? You know, so if you tag them, then 61 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 3: you don't have to answer everyone where it is. And then, honestly, 62 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 3: within a few minutes flex who I'm sure you guys 63 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 3: know because we follow one another and we always watch 64 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:13,679 Speaker 3: each other's story, She's like, oh my god, I leave this, 65 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 3: like what is going on? So I quickly deleted it. 66 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 3: Like it had been up for literally a matter of 67 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 3: a minute, and so I just put it up again, 68 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 3: but like didn't put the tag on there. And then 69 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 3: that's when I found out about it. She linked me 70 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 3: to a few articles. I think she actually linked me 71 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 3: to your podcast as well and was like, listen to 72 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 3: this if you have time. Then I had a photo 73 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 3: up as well, which I just took in our hotel room, 74 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 3: like sitting on the little lounge thing, and so in 75 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 3: the second photo, because it was like a little carousel post, 76 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 3: I had tagged my brand because that's the top and 77 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 3: jeans that I was wearing. And then I tagged Billini 78 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 3: shoes just on the photo because you know, when you 79 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 3: post a photo, people say where's the jeans from, where's 80 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 3: the shoes from, where's the top from? So I tagged 81 00:03:57,760 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 3: I had those tags and I was like shit, So 82 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 3: I moved those tags as well because I I was scared. 83 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 3: I was like, what's gonna happen. 84 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 2: We're gonna kick you out of this hotel. 85 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: I know. 86 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 3: And so that's how I found out about it, and 87 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 3: I had let's message me literally straight away. But then 88 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 3: I had one other person like saw my story as well. 89 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 3: While it was up and they were like, oh my god, 90 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 3: delete this because I think they'd listened to your podcast 91 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 3: as well. I was like, badie, Hell, I didn't know 92 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 3: this was a thing, and I didn't know it was 93 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 3: so serious. But I've been doing some digging since, like 94 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 3: I spoke to you guys. Right, yeah, I don't think 95 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 3: it's as serious as we think it is. Because Okay, 96 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 3: so I understand it from and for anyone, like I'm 97 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 3: sure everyone that's listening to the podcast right now, I've 98 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 3: heard like your previous one on it. Like from my 99 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 3: understanding was when this whole thing happened, was it like 100 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 3: someone went there and did a sponsored post at the hotel? 101 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 1: Well, it was it was more of a gifted post. 102 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:00,600 Speaker 1: So the influencer, she's a micro influencer, so she went 103 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: there with a couple of friends and they were putting 104 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: up kind of fashion drived content. But it wasn't actually sponsored. 105 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 1: It was just an item I believe, of jeans that 106 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: was gifted to her. 107 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, right, because I can see, like I can 108 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 3: understand that, like, you know, they don't want people. Maybe 109 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 3: they thought she was getting paid or whatever, like who knows, 110 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 3: but I can understand that it's like, you know, don't 111 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,599 Speaker 3: come there and do a photo shoot that you're getting 112 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 3: paid for or whatever or getting paid to post, you know, 113 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 3: with their stepping. But then I don't think it's like 114 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 3: the lines are kind of blurry, because I was trying 115 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 3: to read like their terms and conditions on their website 116 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 3: and stuff, and it was seemed to be leaning more 117 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 3: towards like the sponsored sort of stuff. Because if you 118 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 3: actually look at their tag photos, I can tell that 119 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 3: they've untagged and selved in a lot, because when you 120 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 3: go through the tag photos, they all like happen to 121 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 3: be nice images, you know what I mean, Like there's 122 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:59,039 Speaker 3: no dodgy tourist photos or whatever, like they all seem 123 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 3: to be there on brand, when I'm sure a lot 124 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 3: of people are uploading like shitty kind of photos of 125 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 3: the pool or whatever and just tagging them. But as 126 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 3: I scrolled through their tag photos, there's a heap of 127 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 3: influencers that have tagged them in there and they haven't 128 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 3: removed it or you know, the post is still there 129 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 3: kind of thing. So I'm like, is it as serious 130 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 3: as we think it is or was it just that 131 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 3: one instance where they thought the influencer was doing like 132 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:27,480 Speaker 3: a you know, a sponsored kind of thing. So I know, 133 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 3: because it's so like, why do they have any tagged photos? 134 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, well we heard from another influencer. We'll just keep 135 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 1: their name out of it, but they said they're quite 136 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 1: a big influencer, and apparently they were also messaged about it, 137 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 1: so it seems to be quite well known what's getting 138 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 1: around in the influencer community. But I think it is 139 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: if you tag them and you don't have other products tagged, 140 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:50,720 Speaker 1: they're okay with it. I was just going to say, 141 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: I can totally understand from a PR perspective that, of 142 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:56,039 Speaker 1: course you don't want to be aligning your brand with 143 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 1: just anyone because particularly now there is there's so many 144 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 1: problematic fluencers, and I can't understand that they have certain 145 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 1: people that they do and do not want to work with. 146 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: But I think where it just becomes a little bit 147 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: murky is I don't know, curating it so much to 148 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: the point where you know, you, as a large influencer 149 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: who is a positive influence, you feel too scared to 150 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 1: even share something about it. 151 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 3: I know, after that, I was like shit, like I'd 152 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 3: had a couple of drinks and I was like a 153 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 3: little bit hot, and I was like, oh my god, 154 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 3: what am I gotta get kicked out of photocells? Like 155 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 3: I was freaking out. But yeah, I think it's really interesting, 156 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 3: and I don't know how serious they are about it, 157 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 3: Like I can kind of understand like the you know, 158 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 3: the whole sponsorship kind of thing that because they don't 159 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 3: want to associate themselves with any brand, you know what 160 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 3: I mean, that an influence that is working with and 161 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 3: you know, you look at their Instagram feed, it is 162 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 3: so like polished and perfect and it's got this whole 163 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 3: vibe and aesthetic, which I understand is what that's the 164 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 3: look they want to go for. Like their social media 165 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 3: completely reflects their venue, like it's all very cohesive and 166 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 3: on brand, and you know, they don't post photos of 167 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 3: people really, it's just all photos of the actual venue itself. 168 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 3: But then also it is kind of strange because it's 169 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 3: like you're basically trying to tell people what they can 170 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 3: and can't tast on their social media, even if they 171 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:24,679 Speaker 3: are paying a thousand dollars to stay at your venue, 172 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. It's kind of like and 173 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 3: it's a missed opportunity for them as well, because you know, 174 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 3: there is people like me who I'll happily tag them 175 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 3: in my photo, you know, and who knows what kind 176 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 3: of business would come from that, which I think is 177 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 3: stilly on their end, But at the end of the day, 178 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 3: like it's up to their marketing team like who they 179 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 3: want promoting them and tagging them and whatever. And at 180 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 3: the end of the day, I was like, oh, like, oh, well, 181 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 3: like I'll delete it, and you know, maybe I can 182 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 3: instead support a smaller business that will actually really appreciate 183 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 3: being tagged kind of thing. It's like, fine, I'll take 184 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 3: my tag else, you know. 185 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:02,080 Speaker 2: I love that. 186 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:05,319 Speaker 1: Well, just moving on to just moving on to influencers 187 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: disclosing ads, because it's been a really hot topic amongst 188 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 1: our outspoken community because there have been some influencers who've 189 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 1: been caught out not being so transparent. And I think 190 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 1: you're one of one of the Ouzsie influencers who is 191 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:20,719 Speaker 1: really transparent and open about the fact when you are 192 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:23,680 Speaker 1: working with a brand. But we've seen some influencers who've 193 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: been caught out. They'll put up an Insta story and 194 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 1: they'll put the hashtag ad in the left hand corner 195 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:31,680 Speaker 1: so their little display pickers over it. 196 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:33,559 Speaker 2: What do you make of. 197 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 3: That man, Like I I just don't get it. You know, 198 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 3: I'll always on my post put like the paid sponsorship 199 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 3: with you know, Canadian Club or whatever, so it's right 200 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:51,680 Speaker 3: there at the top under my name on my post. 201 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 3: I don't have any issue doing that. And I also 202 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 3: just don't understand why anyone would have an issue with 203 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 3: putting those like tags or the paid partnership things, you know, 204 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:04,959 Speaker 3: on their posts and stories, because at the end of 205 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 3: the day, like everyone knows that you're an influencer already, 206 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 3: you know, you're not like you're it's not out of 207 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:17,479 Speaker 3: the ordinary foreign influencer to do something that is sponsored, 208 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 3: you know. So I just don't understand why they wouldn't 209 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 3: want to do it, especially now because you know, there 210 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 3: are these laws that they've recently put in place where 211 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:29,319 Speaker 3: you can be like, you know, slapped with huge fines. Yeah, 212 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 3: Like I don't understand because, like from my point of view, 213 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 3: and who knows, maybe if you know, audiences are younger, 214 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 3: they might be a bit more naive. But every time 215 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 3: I watch someone's stories, I know if it's sponsored or not, 216 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 3: Like I can tell straight off the bat. So like 217 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 3: if people know that it's sponsored, already, then it wouldn't 218 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 3: hurt to just put either hashtag ad or you know, 219 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 3: in paid partnership with blah blah blah brands. Like I 220 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 3: don't get why people wouldn't want to do it. 221 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:58,959 Speaker 1: Exactly, And it looks worse for the brand, I feel like, 222 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: because there's all this call out culture at the moment online. 223 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, my dogs are barking. 224 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I love that your dogs are barking, 225 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: because Sophie's dog interrupts every podcast recording we do, so 226 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:11,360 Speaker 1: it is refreshing. 227 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 3: It's not coming from out of the back and they 228 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 3: hear like a bird and all just stop. What were 229 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:19,439 Speaker 3: you just saying? 230 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 2: Sorry, that's all right? 231 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 1: Oh, I was just saying I think it's almost worse 232 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 1: for the brand that's involved not to have it disclosed 233 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: properly that it's an AD, because there's so many people 234 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,080 Speaker 1: who call out influencers these days for doing the wrong 235 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 1: thing that it's such a bad pr for the brand itself. 236 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 3: I totally agree, And it's like it's to me anyway, like, 237 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 3: and it might the lines might be a little blurred 238 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 3: for viewers that might be younger or whatever. They might 239 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:46,719 Speaker 3: see someone doing a hall of some sort and genuinely 240 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 3: think that it's you know, not sponsored in any way. 241 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:52,079 Speaker 3: But I think for the most part, especially now a days, 242 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 3: like that is so obvious when it's sponsored. You know, 243 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 3: like you'll know when you're watching someone's story. So it 244 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:02,559 Speaker 3: doesn't hurt to put on there AD or paid sponsorship 245 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 3: or whatever it says, paid partnership, Like I don't get 246 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 3: the big deal. Like, and I don't think these days especially, 247 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:13,079 Speaker 3: you're going to pop more backlash for not putting it 248 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 3: than putting it. You know, at least if you put 249 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 3: it there, people go, okay, like this is a sponsored post, 250 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 3: and like it is what it is. Like people know 251 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:23,440 Speaker 3: that influencers work with brands, so it's not like we're 252 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 3: doing something scammy. I think, if anything, it's scamy vibe 253 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 3: to not put it, and you know for brands to 254 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 3: not ask the influencers as well, like that's weird and 255 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 3: not so much lately, but back in the day I 256 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:42,199 Speaker 3: remember as well, like you see people like going out 257 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 3: of their way to kind of try and make it 258 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 3: look like they literally bought it themselves. Yeah, and they'd 259 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 3: be like, oh, I got this, and then the brand 260 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:56,199 Speaker 3: saw my name on their order and then they gave 261 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 3: me a discant code. It's like as fucking if like 262 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:03,439 Speaker 3: nullah fans, But come on, like, what about. 263 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:06,439 Speaker 1: The what about the wanna be influences that pretend something's 264 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: an AD to try and give themselves clout. 265 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the other. 266 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 3: I've seen that as well. That's quite sad, isn't it. 267 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 3: It is sad, like it's we live in a sad world, honestly. Like, 268 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:20,120 Speaker 3: and I always say, like, I'm twenty eight, so I 269 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 3: guess I'm glad I'm a little bit older. Like we 270 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 3: do see a lot of influencers who are in their 271 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 3: early twenties now or even like teen teenagers, And I 272 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 3: just can't imagine growing up in the influencer world if 273 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:34,960 Speaker 3: I was like ten years younger right now, because I 274 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:38,679 Speaker 3: feel like the whole online space kind of was happening 275 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:40,680 Speaker 3: as I was in my late teens and it was 276 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 3: growing into what it is now, but it's completely different, 277 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:46,959 Speaker 3: and I just can't imagine just growing up surrounded by 278 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 3: this shit. 279 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: It's scary, isn't it, Because there's so many young people 280 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:53,320 Speaker 1: that are then watching these these guys and girls in 281 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 1: the early twenties, and we've had a lot of discussion 282 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:58,959 Speaker 1: recently in our group and on the podcast about all 283 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 1: the fake influencers coming out of the woodwork, especially because 284 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:05,440 Speaker 1: likes are now returning to Australia. And I remember I 285 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 1: listened to your podcast last year and you called out 286 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 1: someone who was a fake influencer who reached out to you. 287 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 1: What's your take on how to spot a fake one? 288 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 1: Because so many people keep asking us, oh, how do 289 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 1: you how can you tell their fate? 290 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 3: H It's pretty easy to spot. So one of the 291 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 3: first things is like if it's someone that you've literally 292 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 3: never heard of before, but they've got a shit kind 293 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 3: of followers, so like, you know, it's like, hang on 294 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 3: a second, how do you have one point one million 295 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 3: followers that I've never heard of you before? Like you 296 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 3: haven't been on a reality show, you don't have a 297 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 3: thriving YouTube channel. Like no one gets a bunch of followers, 298 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 3: especially on Instagram, because that is one of the hardest 299 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 3: platforms to grow, Like it's basically impossible to grow your 300 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 3: Instagram following nowadays, in comparison to apps like TikTok and stuff, 301 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 3: where you can post one it'll blow up and you'll 302 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 3: get a few thousand followers out of it, Like Instagram 303 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 3: is so hard to grow. So one of the number 304 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 3: one things will be like if they've got so many followers, 305 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 3: but there's no other source of where they would come from, 306 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 3: kind of thing like usually if someone's got a bunch 307 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 3: of followers on Instagram's because they've got this YouTube channel 308 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 3: whatever one loves, and they've come over from YouTube or whatever. 309 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 3: Another one is if the person does nothing except post 310 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:25,320 Speaker 3: photos that are either like aesthetically pleasing or whatever it 311 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 3: may be. Because once again, like how has someone gotten 312 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 3: so many followers when they're not even posting content that's 313 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 3: like engaging or funny or you know, then they're never 314 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 3: on their story talking like you know, they just post 315 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 3: acute outfit phuto every now and then, Like you're not 316 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 3: going to gain so many followers doing the absolute bare minimum. 317 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 3: But then you know, if they are posting engaging content 318 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 3: or funny reels or igtvs, then that's where a following 319 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 3: will come from. And then another thing that I look 320 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 3: out for as well is you can tell when people 321 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 3: have like a fake following when they have a ridiculous 322 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 3: amount of comments on their photos. So you might see 323 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 3: a girl and she's got fifteen thousand followers or twenty 324 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 3: thousand followers, but then she's getting like two hundred comments 325 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 3: on her photos, which just doesn't make sense. 326 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 1: And they're all from creepy men. Have you noticed they're 327 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 1: all from like European. 328 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, men. So they're either like spamy comments like if 329 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 3: you just scroll through their spammy comments like emojis and stuff, 330 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 3: or you know, comments written in a different language, or 331 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 3: another thing that a lot of people do, which I 332 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 3: mean is very smart, Like the business person inside of 333 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 3: me is like, you know what smart move is a 334 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:41,640 Speaker 3: lot of these younger girls now have all of these 335 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 3: massive game groups which they like do a group DM, 336 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 3: and there could be like, you know, fifty one hundred, 337 00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 3: two hundred and fifty people in these little DM groups 338 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 3: and whenever they post a photos, they post it in 339 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 3: their group and go, hey, guys like interact on my posts. 340 00:16:57,440 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 3: So then they'll all go and leave a comment and 341 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 3: so that way it looks like your engagement is really high, 342 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 3: when really it's all other little micro influencers just commenting 343 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 3: on one another's post. So yeah, it's clever, but it 344 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 3: is something that you can spot because it will be 345 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 3: like a girl that you've never heard of before, but 346 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 3: you've got a lot of followers, and then oh there's 347 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 3: the dogs. 348 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:21,440 Speaker 2: They're talking to each other. 349 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're like hello. Yeah. If you go onto the comments, 350 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 3: it's pretty easy to spot because all the comments would 351 00:17:31,080 --> 00:17:34,639 Speaker 3: just be from like other similar sort of accounts being like, 352 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 3: oh my god, babe, this is amazing. Like, you know, 353 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:41,120 Speaker 3: it's generally pretty easy to spot. But I mean it's 354 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:43,960 Speaker 3: smart doing it that whole like game group thing. And 355 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 3: I remember back in the day I would get emails 356 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 3: and dms like, hey, do you want to join our 357 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:52,960 Speaker 3: game groups? You know, So it's very clever, but it's 358 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:54,680 Speaker 3: very sneaky at the same time. 359 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:56,679 Speaker 1: It's kind of like faking it before you make it, 360 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 1: isn't it exactly? 361 00:17:58,800 --> 00:18:01,399 Speaker 3: And you know what if someone it's like, I'm all 362 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:04,160 Speaker 3: about faking it till you make it, like whilst still 363 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:07,719 Speaker 3: being genuine of course, like don't screw people over in 364 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:12,159 Speaker 3: the in the process. But if someone has created an 365 00:18:12,200 --> 00:18:14,879 Speaker 3: account that way by like joining these game groups and 366 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 3: getting engagement that way, and if they go on to 367 00:18:17,040 --> 00:18:20,120 Speaker 3: actually make a genuine audience off that, then so be it. 368 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 3: But the fact that there's you know, I can't even 369 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:25,919 Speaker 3: begin to imagine how many people out there have, like 370 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:30,920 Speaker 3: you know, grown a fake following and like scammed brands 371 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:33,919 Speaker 3: and like literally gotten paid to do things and gotten 372 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 3: like all the freebies. Like that saddens me because it's like, 373 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 3: you know, you're taking someone's business away from them, kind 374 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 3: of seeing and taking advantage of them. 375 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 1: And often as small brands as well. 376 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 3: Exactly. And these these small brands like maybe they're just 377 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 3: starting out, they don't have a clue when it comes 378 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 3: to influencer marketing. And I guess coming from my influence 379 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 3: the background and doing it for so many years myself 380 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 3: and then moving into owning a business, I'm so grateful 381 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:02,879 Speaker 3: that I have that experience in social media because you know, 382 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 3: people that just start out in business and start on 383 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 3: Instagram and have a website, like they have no real 384 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 3: I here, and they might just see the number of 385 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:14,199 Speaker 3: followers and think, yeah, wow, that's amazing, and then you know, 386 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 3: pay someone and they do a post and they see 387 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 3: no return in terms of followers or you know, conversions, 388 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:22,240 Speaker 3: which is a sad thing. 389 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 1: What about those influencers who they post predominantly bikini photos 390 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: and they do have that large male following, but then 391 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 1: they're approaching brands that are predominantly female related brands and 392 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,639 Speaker 1: they're asking for you know, freebies. 393 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 2: Or they want to work with them. 394 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:41,400 Speaker 1: As a business owner, would you be cautious to work 395 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:43,400 Speaker 1: with these types of people because it's clear that their 396 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:46,240 Speaker 1: followings are just older men, like pervy men. 397 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it depends like what that brand would 398 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:56,879 Speaker 3: want to be getting from working with that influencer. Like 399 00:19:57,320 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 3: just say, if the influencer had type of look that 400 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 3: they were looking for, like maybe they could see it 401 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:06,119 Speaker 3: as they just want the content of the influencer to 402 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:08,120 Speaker 3: then post on their own account, to be like look 403 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:10,280 Speaker 3: at so and so in our bikini kind of thing. 404 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 3: But yeah, I think most times it would fail in 405 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:19,159 Speaker 3: terms of the collaboration, would never result in you gaining 406 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 3: any followers or you know, getting any sales through the door, 407 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:26,399 Speaker 3: which really I think is the main reason why brands 408 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 3: collaborate with influencers is hopefully get some new customers on board. 409 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 3: So yeah, that's really interesting as well. But I think 410 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 3: it's really important for brands to always ask for stats, 411 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 3: you know, like can we see your audience breakdown? All 412 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 3: that kind of stuff. But then again, like so for 413 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 3: all of my brands. I've never worked with influencers, so 414 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 3: in the last three years, like I've just done it 415 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:53,720 Speaker 3: all myself, like we've grown the brands organically. But this 416 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,119 Speaker 3: year we want to start looking at working with a 417 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 3: few influences, but of course, like not be the kind 418 00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:02,880 Speaker 3: of brand that we worked with, you know, every single person, 419 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:06,160 Speaker 3: like just a small group a small group of people. 420 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 3: So we've been actually emailing a few people over the 421 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 3: last couple of weeks, just getting everyone's rates and all that. 422 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 3: And my boyfriend AJ he's heavily involved in my businesses, 423 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 3: like he works for us full time, and so we 424 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:21,400 Speaker 3: must have been showing him some stats that someone sent 425 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:24,040 Speaker 3: through and he's like, but hang on a second. Can't 426 00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 3: people just photo shop this shit? And I'm like, you 427 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:33,879 Speaker 3: know what, they very well could pot Yeah, I'm like, oh, 428 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 3: you could literally like screenshot your own Instagram like your 429 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 3: audience breakdown and then just like go into camber and 430 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 3: change the numbers and stuff and fine, a really similar pond. 431 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:48,120 Speaker 3: And you know, brands wouldn't even think to look twice 432 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:50,359 Speaker 3: at the style of pond through if it's slightly a 433 00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 3: different color or whatever. But you've just got to put 434 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 3: your trust in people, I guess, And I'm just really 435 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:58,879 Speaker 3: glad that I have this like influencer background because I 436 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 3: really know what to look out up for all kind 437 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:04,560 Speaker 3: of thing, and I feel like there's such this there 438 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 3: is a massive negative stigma around influencers. Like even saying 439 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:11,240 Speaker 3: the word influencer makes me cringe. And you know, I'm 440 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:15,720 Speaker 3: sure if you asked most people what they think when 441 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:18,359 Speaker 3: they hear the word influence, who Like, if you just said, like, 442 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,679 Speaker 3: give me one word at answers, I'm sure most of 443 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:22,680 Speaker 3: them would be negative. Like would you guys. 444 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 2: Agree, I'd say so. 445 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:29,480 Speaker 3: Even though there is this you know, negative stigma around it, 446 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,919 Speaker 3: Like so many brands in the world, oh their entire 447 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 3: success to influencer marketing. So it's just really interesting, like 448 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:41,119 Speaker 3: the whole thing. You know, it's interesting to me being 449 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:43,919 Speaker 3: an influencer because I've never seen myself as one, Like 450 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,280 Speaker 3: I'm just written from Newcastle. I just so happened to 451 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:48,879 Speaker 3: get followers, like you know, this whole thing's been so 452 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,720 Speaker 3: interesting to me, and I've just tried to just stay 453 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 3: true to myself and you know, I turned down ten 454 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,280 Speaker 3: brand deals every second day, like as my manager is 455 00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:59,440 Speaker 3: always like, what about this one? Like nope, nope, nope, 456 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,480 Speaker 3: because I guess the business side of me now like 457 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:06,399 Speaker 3: see things completely different. Like my manager, I'm surprised she 458 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,879 Speaker 3: hasn't fired me because she's like, do you want to 459 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 3: work with this brand? Like I reckon to everyone that 460 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 3: I work with, and I only work with a very small, 461 00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 3: like amount of brands nowadays, but I reckon for everyone 462 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:21,160 Speaker 3: that I do. I've probably said no to like over 463 00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 3: twenty and I'm so fussy. I'm like, oh, like I 464 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 3: like their stuff, but their website is a little outdated, 465 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,359 Speaker 3: Like I go so far into it and like no, 466 00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 3: like their website isn't the best, or you know, the 467 00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,359 Speaker 3: whole business side of me is so now invested in 468 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:39,720 Speaker 3: like deciding who I work with kind of thing. 469 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,119 Speaker 2: And that's why people trust you and like you. 470 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:44,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's so refreshing because I mean you just 471 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 1: take a look at celeb spellcheck and where there's been 472 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: incidents and instances where influencers haven't even opened the bottle 473 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 1: of the hair pills that they're scooping or whatever. 474 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 2: It makes me. 475 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 3: That kills me, Like, if you're going to do anything 476 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 3: like that, at least make it look like you've used it. 477 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:05,400 Speaker 3: Like as for me, I would never ever ever promote 478 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 3: something that I don't genuinely love. Like that's just me 479 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,159 Speaker 3: and don't get me wrong. Like I feel like I 480 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 3: could do a dedicated podcast like once every three months 481 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 3: and do a list of brand deals that I've said 482 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:20,440 Speaker 3: no to and tell everyone, like how much money I've 483 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 3: said no to? Because there's some things where I bet 484 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,639 Speaker 3: even my audience would go, brit you should have fucking 485 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 3: done it, because how could you turn down that amount 486 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 3: of money? Because the brand deals that I do, that's 487 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:33,879 Speaker 3: the only money that I personally earned. So that's what 488 00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:36,720 Speaker 3: I live off. That's what I pay, you know, my 489 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 3: brant and all that kind of stuff. So all the 490 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:42,199 Speaker 3: money that all of my brands generate, I don't touch it. 491 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:45,800 Speaker 3: I don't pull a wage from work. So yeah, the 492 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,520 Speaker 3: whole influencing thing is what's keeping me afloat, and that's 493 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 3: how I like to buy my groceries and stuff like that. 494 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 3: Back in the day, I think, when you know, I 495 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,160 Speaker 3: was a lot younger, like nineteen and twenty, I would 496 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:57,960 Speaker 3: have said yes to a lot more. But now I 497 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 3: guess as I'm getting older and I have morals, Basically 498 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 3: now I am really picky and choosy and would only 499 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,159 Speaker 3: ever promote something that I genuinely love or that I 500 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 3: think my audience would get something out of or they'd 501 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 3: love it, or they think it's a good deal or 502 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 3: whatever it may be kind of things. 503 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:19,359 Speaker 1: And I really respect that because I think sophen I 504 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 1: might have had this discussion on a podcast previously about 505 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 1: how I suppose when you're first starting out as an influencer, 506 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:27,399 Speaker 1: because you're new to it and you're obviously not earning 507 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 1: that much money, you're going to jump at every opportunity 508 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:31,679 Speaker 1: to work with a brand. But when you're in a 509 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 1: position like yourself and you have brands coming to you 510 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 1: every day, it's a bit like the Kardashians how they 511 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 1: would choose to do skinny tea detox, you know, advertisements 512 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 1: when they could pick any brand to work with. 513 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 2: I think there's more. 514 00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 1: It's worse if you're a bigger influencer and you do 515 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 1: choose to work with some of those smaller brands because 516 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,280 Speaker 1: you have more of a choice of brands to work with. 517 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. And I don't know. I just think for 518 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,800 Speaker 3: me personally, it's like just a moral thing, Like there's 519 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 3: so so many things that I turned down because I'm like, nah, 520 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:04,600 Speaker 3: like I could, and my manager is always like, are 521 00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 3: you sure, Like you know, they've got a really good 522 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 3: rate that they want to offer you, and I'm like, 523 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:10,720 Speaker 3: I just can't do it because at the end of 524 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,120 Speaker 3: the day, you know, X Y and B like I'll 525 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 3: probably never use it again, or yeah, you know. I 526 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:20,400 Speaker 3: got asked to do one for like like a moisturizer 527 00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 3: that you put on your bum, and I'm like and 528 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't remember what one it was. It's 529 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,480 Speaker 3: one of the new ones that's been gone around on Instagram, 530 00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:32,479 Speaker 3: and I'm just like, you know, I'm sure a lot 531 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,359 Speaker 3: of people that follow me would like affirming bum lotion, 532 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 3: but like, at the end of the day, I would 533 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 3: never fuck use that, like just put the normal moisturizer 534 00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 3: on your bum and call it a day, exactly. And 535 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,439 Speaker 3: there's just so many things where I'm like, I just 536 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:46,919 Speaker 3: could have done it, and you know, I could have 537 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:48,560 Speaker 3: earn a good amount of money to put up a 538 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:52,200 Speaker 3: bloody story, but I'm like, nah, I just I can't 539 00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 3: do it. 540 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:56,119 Speaker 1: Well, just back to celeb spellcheck. What do you think 541 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,679 Speaker 1: about pages like that? Because there seems to be this 542 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 1: rise I feel like it's COVID. A lot of people 543 00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:05,080 Speaker 1: have really been holding influences to account. Do you like 544 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:06,640 Speaker 1: it or do you think it goes too far? 545 00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 3: So I think when she first started the account, like 546 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,280 Speaker 3: the reason it was called the led spell Check is 547 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:19,439 Speaker 3: because it was like a spell checking thing, right, Like 548 00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:23,879 Speaker 3: it was just for pointing out funny typos, which I 549 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,400 Speaker 3: think is something that everyone can have a laugh at 550 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 3: every now and then. Like exactly, I was at work 551 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,560 Speaker 3: earlier and I went to write more and I wrote 552 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:37,320 Speaker 3: meow and then I kissed myself laughing. I was like 553 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 3: scheduling an email to go out two hour subscribers. I'm like, 554 00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:44,920 Speaker 3: imagine if I left me ow more in the title 555 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 3: of the email. So I don't think there's anything wrong 556 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:52,119 Speaker 3: with like having a lighthearted laugh at like you know 557 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 3: something where oh can you guys hear that I've got 558 00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:55,680 Speaker 3: a call coming through? 559 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:56,919 Speaker 2: But oh no, we can't hear it. 560 00:27:56,960 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 3: Actually, okay, I'm just going to decline it anyway. Who 561 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 3: that is? 562 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,600 Speaker 2: It might be the bum firming cream. 563 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:04,800 Speaker 1: Get you on. 564 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:08,840 Speaker 3: That's a funny thing to just quickly going back to 565 00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 3: the whole like brand deals thing, like it's always interesting 566 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:15,160 Speaker 3: as well when brands. Oh my god, they're inning again. 567 00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:19,720 Speaker 3: I'm hanging up. I'm on a podcast. Please be alone. 568 00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:24,480 Speaker 3: One thing that's interesting from a brand point of view 569 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,560 Speaker 3: is a brand will get their mindset on who they 570 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:29,560 Speaker 3: want to work with, like maybe not so much of 571 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 3: it's micro influencers, but like just say, it's a bigger 572 00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:35,080 Speaker 3: influence that like, yes, I really want to work with Britney. 573 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 3: So they'll get their mindset on that before you know 574 00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:42,240 Speaker 3: they've even spoken to me. And like, I say no 575 00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:44,200 Speaker 3: to a lot and one of the questions that you 576 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:48,040 Speaker 3: always get hit with is like why, like why don't 577 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:49,520 Speaker 3: you want to work with us? And then it's like 578 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 3: awkward because it's like, oh, I don't know, I've never 579 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 3: used your shampoo, and additional. 580 00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:56,360 Speaker 1: Or like you I don't agree with you your morals? 581 00:28:56,680 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 3: Yes, literally, And it's interesting because you know, I think 582 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 3: in a lot of brand's minds, they see influences as 583 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 3: the kind of people that would just promote anything because 584 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 3: that's what they do for a job, whereas like with 585 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 3: for me, anyway, like there's so much more to it, 586 00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:14,920 Speaker 3: like I actually have to care about it. But anyway 587 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 3: back to what me going all over the place, there's 588 00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 3: nothing wrong with you know, a bit of lighthearted fun 589 00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 3: like bloopers basically. But I think with the popularity that 590 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 3: that account was gaining, you know, you know how like 591 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,720 Speaker 3: they shut it down, but they're like posting other stuff now, 592 00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,000 Speaker 3: like photos and celebrities. I don't know what's currently going 593 00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 3: on on that page, but I felt like it was 594 00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 3: getting to the point there where the posts were kind 595 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:55,479 Speaker 3: of encouraging bullying in a way, just because you know, 596 00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 3: you'd see a post and then you'd go to the comments, 597 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:01,560 Speaker 3: and then you know, there was just so much unnecessary 598 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:03,960 Speaker 3: stuff said in the comments, which I don't think is 599 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 3: a good thing to encourage. 600 00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:08,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, It's so hard, isn't it, Because while what they 601 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 1: post might not have been bullying, it's a bit like 602 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,160 Speaker 1: you know when the Daily Mail puts up articles and 603 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 1: it's like, oh, look at this gorgeous woman on the 604 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 1: beach like some celebrity, but the photo is a horrendous 605 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 1: photo and it's just inviting people to comment awful. 606 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think that would the problem that the 607 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 3: person behind soleb Belchick was starting to have is that 608 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,000 Speaker 3: the comments were getting out of control, Like it could 609 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 3: just be a typo that someone had made in their 610 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,280 Speaker 3: caption and they would post this and be like, haha, 611 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:40,880 Speaker 3: look at the feeling mistake, like so funny, like ye 612 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 3: wrote me out instead of more. But then the comments 613 00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 3: would then start like ripping that person to shreds, like 614 00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:53,400 Speaker 3: on a completely unrelated topic to the actual post, which 615 00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:56,840 Speaker 3: is not called for, and like like I get it, 616 00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 3: like comments on it and be like ha ha ha 617 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,160 Speaker 3: or whatever, or like a laughing emoji, you know, because 618 00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 3: it's funny. But when you see those comments of people 619 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:08,880 Speaker 3: actually just starting to you know, be nasty and whatever, 620 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 3: like I think that's when it becomes a bit out 621 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:11,680 Speaker 3: of control. 622 00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:16,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, And there's so much nastiness online, isn't there out of. 623 00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 3: So much Like I don't understand it, like you know, 624 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 3: but it's just bad. And once again we just live 625 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,680 Speaker 3: in this mess up world. Like I feel scared for 626 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,760 Speaker 3: kids because like what are they going to do when 627 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,800 Speaker 3: they're eighteen nineteen twenty, Like what is the internet going 628 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:33,480 Speaker 3: to be like then? 629 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:38,520 Speaker 1: You know, I know, like with TikTok as well, and 630 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:39,880 Speaker 1: even just oh. 631 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:44,000 Speaker 3: My god, TikTok is savage, so like you can turn 632 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 3: comment filters on and so I got TikTok like last 633 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,160 Speaker 3: year sometime I'm like, what is this TikTok app that 634 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 3: everyone's talking about? So I just got it, like, yeah, 635 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:58,640 Speaker 3: made an account whatever, posted a few funny, philly like 636 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,440 Speaker 3: videos like I don't know an things thing or whatever 637 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:05,240 Speaker 3: everyone's doing at the time. And then because I've like 638 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:08,440 Speaker 3: had my Instagram audience rages like I literally do not 639 00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 3: have a problematic following. I never get like a hateful 640 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 3: comment on Instagram. And then I guess because TikTok, you know, 641 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,240 Speaker 3: pushes your video out to all these randoms, I started 642 00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 3: getting comments like do you guys know who Adison Ray is? Yeah, 643 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:27,080 Speaker 3: so I've noticed a pattern of comments like oh my god, 644 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,160 Speaker 3: you look like Addison Ray blah blah blah. Oh this 645 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,320 Speaker 3: is Adamson Ray's older sister blah blah blah. But then 646 00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:36,760 Speaker 3: I've also started I also started getting nasty comments like 647 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,560 Speaker 3: oh my god, this is like the fat version of 648 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 3: Addison Ray, like if Addison Ray was so many pounds heavier, 649 00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:48,040 Speaker 3: chubby Addison Ray. So then I'm like, oh my god, 650 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:51,080 Speaker 3: all these twelve year olds are ripping me to shreds. 651 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 1: All. 652 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 3: Lastly, I've worked out like how you can feel the comments, 653 00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 3: so in the settings, I like block the words fat, fatter, chubb, 654 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:02,960 Speaker 3: like so that no one would ever comment that again, 655 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 3: because I was like, oh my god, this is so mean, 656 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 3: you know, yeah, at least I can laugh it off, 657 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 3: you know, like I honestly couldn't care less. But then 658 00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,880 Speaker 3: I think of like young impressionable kids and teenagers, like 659 00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 3: I scroll on the for you page on TikTok sometimes 660 00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 3: and you always go to the comments, and then they 661 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,040 Speaker 3: are so brutal. 662 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:25,840 Speaker 1: Do you remember when we I think we're I think 663 00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:27,520 Speaker 1: we're a little bit older than you, but you might 664 00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:31,200 Speaker 1: remember this page that ask fm and it's just people. 665 00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:32,680 Speaker 3: Could get anonymous questions. 666 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like even worse than that now, isn't it 667 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:38,120 Speaker 1: Because people's photos are attached to it. They don't even 668 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 1: care that you can see who they are, Like they'll 669 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 1: just write the most vile comments and they're not even 670 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:43,520 Speaker 1: concealing it. 671 00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:48,000 Speaker 3: Everyone on everyone on TikTok nowadays, like let's write yeah, 672 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 3: it's not too late to delete this, like about someone's 673 00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:55,160 Speaker 3: video whatever. I'm just like, I don't have the time 674 00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 3: in my day to write back to people in my 675 00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:01,240 Speaker 3: own text or on Facebook, Like I'm shocking, Like I 676 00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:04,080 Speaker 3: let conversations you know, go all the way down the bottom, 677 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 3: So how do people have time to sit there and like, 678 00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:10,320 Speaker 3: you know, have a go at people that are like 679 00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,080 Speaker 3: probably on the other side of the world, Like I 680 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 3: don't understand, like what are you actually doing with your 681 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:17,360 Speaker 3: wife that's productive? And That's what I've always said about, 682 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,040 Speaker 3: you know, people who leave nasty comments or spend time 683 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:23,680 Speaker 3: talking horribly about people online who have never met. It's 684 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:26,600 Speaker 3: like it says so much about the person leaving the comments. 685 00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:28,640 Speaker 1: I think anyway, Yeah, I think I heard you on 686 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,680 Speaker 1: a podcast say that they're normally just a loser on 687 00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,160 Speaker 1: the couch eating chips, and it made me burst out loud. 688 00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:36,239 Speaker 3: Literally like and they're like, oh my god, no I'm not, 689 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:39,200 Speaker 3: Like I'm really successful and I have full time job. 690 00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,240 Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, but you still sit on your lounge 691 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:43,719 Speaker 3: and fucking worry about what I'm doing in my life. 692 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:46,719 Speaker 3: So like who's the real winner here? 693 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 1: And I definitely think there is a difference obviously between 694 00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:53,920 Speaker 1: maybe people holding someone to account whose behavior is actually problematic, 695 00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:58,040 Speaker 1: then someone just flat out bullying and dragging someone's appearance down. 696 00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,360 Speaker 1: Like I feel like people don't realize there is a 697 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:01,520 Speaker 1: line between that. 698 00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:04,200 Speaker 2: Well, there's a different absolutely. 699 00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:07,680 Speaker 3: And you know, there is this huge like cancel culture 700 00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,280 Speaker 3: at the moment, which I feel like on TikTok also 701 00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:12,880 Speaker 3: gets completely out of hand. I feel like it's not 702 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,320 Speaker 3: so much here in Australia, but over in America, like 703 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 3: amongst all those American TikTokers and whatever and YouTubers, like 704 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,480 Speaker 3: you know, selling say is canceled and canceled and canceled. 705 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:27,960 Speaker 3: Like I'm all for you know, people being you know, 706 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:31,959 Speaker 3: held accountable for, you know, something they've done or something 707 00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:35,080 Speaker 3: they've dead, and like them coming out and making a statement, 708 00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:37,440 Speaker 3: you know, like I'll own up for something if I've 709 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 3: ever fucked up or I've ever upset someone or whatever. 710 00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 3: But then even with that, there's that line that gets 711 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:48,759 Speaker 3: crossed by followers, I think where people then instead of 712 00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:52,040 Speaker 3: going like yeah, you're canceled or like you know, you 713 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,719 Speaker 3: shouldn't have said that or you shouldn't have done that, like, 714 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 3: it goes then beyond and then it gets really personal 715 00:35:58,320 --> 00:35:59,440 Speaker 3: and turns into bullying. 716 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 2: Else I would love to ask you about. 717 00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:06,200 Speaker 1: We have spoken a lot about influencer trips and at 718 00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,239 Speaker 1: the moment, obviously as marketing changes and involves a lot 719 00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:11,080 Speaker 1: of people have been saying that they don't think that 720 00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,440 Speaker 1: influencer trips are working anymore because people are sick of 721 00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 1: seeing influencers perhaps you know, getting sent on these luxurious 722 00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:20,440 Speaker 1: holidays and everyone kind of can see through that it 723 00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:24,040 Speaker 1: is an ad. Obviously you're one of the og influencers. 724 00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,520 Speaker 1: Can you tell us, like back in the day, what 725 00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:27,720 Speaker 1: were those trips actually? 726 00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:31,080 Speaker 3: Like, like, I have to agree that I think we're 727 00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:33,439 Speaker 3: going to see less and less of these influencer trip 728 00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:36,920 Speaker 3: because I feel like, you know what, I'm freaking so 729 00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:39,560 Speaker 3: glad that I got to like experience that. I'm like, 730 00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:42,040 Speaker 3: good on me for starting way back in the day 731 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,279 Speaker 3: and jumping on board, because I got to go on 732 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:47,520 Speaker 3: some amazing trips. And I feel like back then when 733 00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:51,080 Speaker 3: you know, I was in my YouTube prime and someone 734 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:54,239 Speaker 3: is on YouTube, you know, I feel like back then 735 00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,960 Speaker 3: and when all those big brand trips were happening, Like 736 00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,759 Speaker 3: I went on some trips with Tart Cosmetics and two 737 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:04,120 Speaker 3: Cosmetics and all that. I feel like influencing was such 738 00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:06,680 Speaker 3: a different thing back then because back then it was 739 00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:09,840 Speaker 3: only about the really big influencers. There was none of 740 00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:13,680 Speaker 3: these like micro influencers. You know, you were either a 741 00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,480 Speaker 3: really big influencer or you weren't an influencer at all 742 00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:20,320 Speaker 3: kinds of things. Whereas now, because we are in this 743 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:24,680 Speaker 3: market which is so flooded and saturated, I feel like 744 00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:29,600 Speaker 3: those brand trips aren't as you know, successful as they 745 00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:32,719 Speaker 3: once were, and they're you know, back then, all those 746 00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,400 Speaker 3: trips were so glamorous and it was like, oh, who's 747 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,800 Speaker 3: going on the next tart trip? You know, like it 748 00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:39,960 Speaker 3: was a really big thing. Whereas now it's like, oh, 749 00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:44,439 Speaker 3: just another bloody influencer events. So I think we will 750 00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:48,000 Speaker 3: definitely see less and less of them. The fact that 751 00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:51,120 Speaker 3: I even got to go on some of those trips 752 00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,560 Speaker 3: is absolutely mind blowing. Like I don't know about anyone else, 753 00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,239 Speaker 3: but you know, when I would get the email to 754 00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:59,200 Speaker 3: be like, Hi, yeah, Diaton wants to fly you to 755 00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:02,920 Speaker 3: New York for them a new air rap thing that 756 00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,840 Speaker 3: they came out with, I was like, what, you know, 757 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,719 Speaker 3: Like I would feel like anyone else would feel getting 758 00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:11,120 Speaker 3: those emails, Like I was like, are you fucking kidding? 759 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,560 Speaker 3: Like they want me to go business class, Like what 760 00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:16,800 Speaker 3: the hell is going on? So like, just from like 761 00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:22,319 Speaker 3: my own personal perspective, like I can't believe I ever 762 00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:23,680 Speaker 3: got invited so. 763 00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,640 Speaker 1: Do they just do they just pay for you to 764 00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:27,919 Speaker 1: go there, or do they actually pay you as well 765 00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:29,040 Speaker 1: to attend a man. 766 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:32,200 Speaker 3: So they don't. They don't pay you to do any 767 00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,160 Speaker 3: of the posts or anything. So I've been on a bunch, 768 00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,120 Speaker 3: like I've been to Coachella. I've been to New York twice, 769 00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:42,400 Speaker 3: LA a few times. Then we went to Hayman Island 770 00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:46,200 Speaker 3: with Tart and a couple of others. I think, Oh, 771 00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:51,880 Speaker 3: I went to Bloody Spain with Maas. Wow, it's absolutely crazy, 772 00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:54,359 Speaker 3: like it doesn't even seem real when I think back 773 00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,359 Speaker 3: on those years in my life, like it was all 774 00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:58,560 Speaker 3: just one matting blur, you know, and I was in 775 00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:02,279 Speaker 3: my early twenties just living it up. But on all 776 00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:06,799 Speaker 3: those trips, never did I get paid to do anything there. 777 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:10,560 Speaker 3: You would have like the flights and the accommodation and all, 778 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:13,600 Speaker 3: like the food and everything covered, and then you would 779 00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:17,120 Speaker 3: also sign a contract to say you will do this 780 00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:21,000 Speaker 3: amount of posts, this amount of stories like as your 781 00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 3: I guess your work that you'd be doing for them 782 00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:25,520 Speaker 3: kind of things. But I never got paid for any 783 00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,120 Speaker 3: of them. In saying that, I don't know if, like 784 00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:32,279 Speaker 3: any of the even bigger influences ever, would like all 785 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:34,520 Speaker 3: the American ones that would be there, Like, I'm really 786 00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 3: not sure, but as to me, I never got paid 787 00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:37,839 Speaker 3: for any of them. 788 00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:38,759 Speaker 2: Are they quite? 789 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:41,120 Speaker 1: Are they a bit painful to be on some of 790 00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,520 Speaker 1: the trips because I personally look at them and go, 791 00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:45,520 Speaker 1: oh wow, that looks amazing to go there. But I 792 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,120 Speaker 1: couldn't put up with all the photo shoots and everything 793 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:48,480 Speaker 1: going on. 794 00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:49,960 Speaker 2: I feel like I get tired of it. 795 00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:51,480 Speaker 1: Is it a bit of like when you've been on 796 00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:53,320 Speaker 1: your fifth trip, you'd be like, oh far out, just 797 00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:54,520 Speaker 1: take the photo and let's move on. 798 00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:59,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean they're literally once in a lifetime opportunities. 799 00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:02,759 Speaker 3: So and like I just loved meeting people and like 800 00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:06,200 Speaker 3: having a blast and making friends. So I was always 801 00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:10,400 Speaker 3: just in absolute or to be there. But like in 802 00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,280 Speaker 3: saying that, like the first time I went to Coachella, 803 00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:16,280 Speaker 3: you know, so guess you had to follow a schedule, 804 00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:17,840 Speaker 3: Like you woke up in the morning, then there was this, 805 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:19,960 Speaker 3: then there was that, then you went to the festival, 806 00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:22,080 Speaker 3: and then you know, I've since been to Coachella with 807 00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,960 Speaker 3: my friends and we had way more fun because then 808 00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:27,000 Speaker 3: you can just like wake up as bloody as ten 809 00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:30,520 Speaker 3: am and then you know, start drinking in your little billa, 810 00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:34,200 Speaker 3: you know. So it's definitely like even though you are 811 00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:37,040 Speaker 3: on a trip and you're on a holiday, you still 812 00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:38,800 Speaker 3: like have to follow a schedule and it might be 813 00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:40,800 Speaker 3: like We're getting up at six am to do yoga 814 00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:48,439 Speaker 3: and I'm like it's great. But for the most part, 815 00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:51,680 Speaker 3: like I never once thought like ever a being on 816 00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:53,920 Speaker 3: one of those trips because I was like, holy shit, 817 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,960 Speaker 3: I cannot believe this brand has paid for me to 818 00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,080 Speaker 3: be here, like paid for the flights and everything. Like 819 00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:01,960 Speaker 3: I was always just like so thankful. 820 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:03,240 Speaker 2: It would have been amazing. 821 00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,920 Speaker 1: I just wanted to quickly touch on the fact you've 822 00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:09,239 Speaker 1: obviously got some amazing brands and we do love the 823 00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:13,400 Speaker 1: fact how inclusive those brands are, and we hear a 824 00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:15,160 Speaker 1: lot of influencers coming out with brands. 825 00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:17,440 Speaker 2: Obviously you were sort of the first one in Australia 826 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:17,960 Speaker 2: to do that. 827 00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:21,080 Speaker 1: But there's always a lot of chat about how they 828 00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:24,120 Speaker 1: can't stock up to certain sizes and you do, is 829 00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:27,000 Speaker 1: it size six to twenty all your range? 830 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:31,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah, we do size six to twenty. So 831 00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:34,719 Speaker 3: I never call like I've never once said that, like 832 00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:39,200 Speaker 3: my brands are size inclusive, just because, of course we 833 00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 3: could add more sizes to our range, but I do 834 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:44,239 Speaker 3: like to say, like, you know, we do offer a 835 00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:46,759 Speaker 3: size six to twenty, which is like kind of unheard of, 836 00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:49,759 Speaker 3: you know, especially for a brand that's only been around 837 00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:51,239 Speaker 3: for a couple of years kind of thing. You know, 838 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,640 Speaker 3: there's brands out there like Glassons who have been around 839 00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:57,960 Speaker 3: since I was in high school, who only go to 840 00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:02,800 Speaker 3: a fourteen. Still like they're huge, like they've got so 841 00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:06,600 Speaker 3: many stores and such a big online presence. Like you know, 842 00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:09,440 Speaker 3: people will sometimes have a goal at knee, you know, 843 00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:11,520 Speaker 3: like oh, like you only go to a twenty, or 844 00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:13,120 Speaker 3: like why don't you do a twenty two twenty four? 845 00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:15,239 Speaker 3: Which I would love to, but it's like men, like 846 00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:17,959 Speaker 3: I think, for the fact that I've only been around 847 00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:19,640 Speaker 3: for a couple of years and that I go to 848 00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,480 Speaker 3: a twenty at least, you know, I think I'm doing 849 00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:26,040 Speaker 3: pretty well for myself when there's huge brands out there 850 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:29,439 Speaker 3: that are like multi million billion dollar companies that still 851 00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:30,520 Speaker 3: only go to a fourteen. 852 00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:32,600 Speaker 2: You know what I mean, Oh, you're doing so well. 853 00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:35,319 Speaker 1: I mean, if you compare your brands to any other 854 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:37,800 Speaker 1: there's not too many people in that space. Doing what 855 00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:40,960 Speaker 1: you're doing, especially you know you're using real women in 856 00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:43,560 Speaker 1: your campaigns. But I suppose that's a thing going back 857 00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:45,239 Speaker 1: to what we were kind of talking about before. And 858 00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:46,359 Speaker 1: nothing's ever good enough? 859 00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:46,560 Speaker 3: Is it? 860 00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:47,800 Speaker 2: Like you're trying so hard? 861 00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:53,279 Speaker 3: Oh exactly, and a lot of people will be, you know, understanding. 862 00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:56,799 Speaker 3: Like I spoke about this. I think it was saw 863 00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:58,680 Speaker 3: my story the other day because like every now and then, 864 00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:00,959 Speaker 3: I like to, you know, chat about like business and stuff. 865 00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:02,840 Speaker 3: So I did a little thing on my story about 866 00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:08,640 Speaker 3: sizing because did you guys know that, Peter Alexander, they've 867 00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,480 Speaker 3: got like their regular sizing range, and then they've got 868 00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:13,480 Speaker 3: their like, I don't know if they call it plus 869 00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:17,759 Speaker 3: or curve, but they charge more for like the same 870 00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:21,319 Speaker 3: ninety in their like extended size range. 871 00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:24,759 Speaker 2: Did you guys know that that's terrible? That's pretty good. 872 00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:29,160 Speaker 3: I remember when they did it last year, and one 873 00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:31,080 Speaker 3: of my followers, I think they said they still do it, 874 00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:33,239 Speaker 3: so I'm not sure, so don't take my word like 875 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:35,200 Speaker 3: maybe last think I'll look at their website after this, 876 00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,600 Speaker 3: but yeah, I remember last year they came under fire 877 00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:41,120 Speaker 3: because they, yeah, came out with these nineties or whatever, 878 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,200 Speaker 3: and then you know, the extended size ones were like 879 00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:49,640 Speaker 3: ten or twenty dollars more kind of thing, you know. Yeah, so, 880 00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:53,839 Speaker 3: which from a behind the scenes point of view makes 881 00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:58,160 Speaker 3: sense because you are using more fabric, which then costs 882 00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:00,279 Speaker 3: you more money because you know, you buy this brick 883 00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:03,680 Speaker 3: by the yard and whatever. But like it's just like 884 00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:06,160 Speaker 3: yet with the times, like work out a happy medium 885 00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:08,279 Speaker 3: where all of your prices can be the same no 886 00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:11,879 Speaker 3: matter you know what the sizes are. But I think 887 00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:14,960 Speaker 3: the reality of it is when people start brands and 888 00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:18,560 Speaker 3: influencers and stuff. I think a lot of the brands 889 00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:21,759 Speaker 3: that you see start up that only do go to 890 00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:25,640 Speaker 3: a certain size. The girls that are starting the brand 891 00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:30,080 Speaker 3: are usually a size six or eight themselves. Yeah, so 892 00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:33,800 Speaker 3: I don't think they've ever even had the thought of 893 00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:38,759 Speaker 3: struggling to shop when you are curbier, So therefore they 894 00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:42,440 Speaker 3: don't even consider those like extended sizes, if you know 895 00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:45,520 Speaker 3: what I mean. They're more so catering to themselves and 896 00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:48,480 Speaker 3: probably what all of their friends look like, which will 897 00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:49,920 Speaker 3: probably look like all of them as well. 898 00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:54,040 Speaker 1: Yeah that's so true because all the events you see, 899 00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:57,200 Speaker 1: I know, of those particular brands, it's just everybody looks 900 00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:58,960 Speaker 1: the same as like a skinny blonde girl at the 901 00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:00,799 Speaker 1: event and you're like, oh my god, all these people 902 00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:02,279 Speaker 1: just identical. 903 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:06,120 Speaker 3: Literally, and you know, I guess you can't blame them 904 00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:09,840 Speaker 3: for their ignorance if they've never been around someone who's 905 00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:13,400 Speaker 3: a bit curver, or if they've never you know, for 906 00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:16,320 Speaker 3: me anyway, like sim a size ten that have like 907 00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 3: a massive bum and hips like you know, So for me, 908 00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:23,239 Speaker 3: it's so important that like everything fits right. And then 909 00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:26,080 Speaker 3: I always think of the girls who are kurby because 910 00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:29,400 Speaker 3: I'm a curvy girl myself. So that's why it's so important, 911 00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:32,320 Speaker 3: you know, for me to have you know, those extended 912 00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:35,800 Speaker 3: sizes and like to make everything true to size, because 913 00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:37,880 Speaker 3: don't even get me started on things that are like 914 00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:42,000 Speaker 3: size wrong. Yeah, like you know those brands where it's like, oh, yeah, 915 00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:43,759 Speaker 3: they've got really nice stuff, but like make sure you 916 00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:45,960 Speaker 3: go up two sides instead of being spit over your 917 00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:49,320 Speaker 3: hits kind of thing. The hard thing is there's no standard, 918 00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:51,320 Speaker 3: so like that, it would be great if there was 919 00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:53,520 Speaker 3: a standard sized guy that you had to follow. That 920 00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:56,640 Speaker 3: would make it a lot easier for consumers, but also 921 00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,800 Speaker 3: for brands to have, you know, a sized guide to follow. 922 00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:02,120 Speaker 3: That would be like the Australian standard or whatever, but 923 00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:06,919 Speaker 3: it just simply doesn't exist. So I think, yeah, first 924 00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:10,799 Speaker 3: of all, like influencers starting brands and the sizing range 925 00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:16,040 Speaker 3: not being great. You know, the one thing is, as 926 00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:18,879 Speaker 3: I said, like maybe they are like a slimmer girl, 927 00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:22,040 Speaker 3: so it's not even in their minds to cater to 928 00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:24,480 Speaker 3: curve your girls. But then the other thing is like 929 00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:26,759 Speaker 3: the more sizes that you do add to your range, 930 00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:29,520 Speaker 3: the more money you're going to be spending. And it 931 00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:32,239 Speaker 3: just depends on the whole business model kind of thing. 932 00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:35,000 Speaker 3: Because you know a lot of influences that start brands, 933 00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:37,600 Speaker 3: it's usually not them. It's like you know another company 934 00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:40,080 Speaker 3: that's kind of doing it all and they're just like 935 00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:42,640 Speaker 3: the name and the face. But whereas for me, like 936 00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:45,160 Speaker 3: I didn't start going to a size twenty, but it's 937 00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:49,040 Speaker 3: something that I worked towards because I fund everything myself, 938 00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:50,719 Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Like I had to start 939 00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:53,560 Speaker 3: from zero and work my way up. And as I 940 00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:56,080 Speaker 3: saw more of a cash flow, then of course, yes, 941 00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:58,640 Speaker 3: we've got more money. Now we can add more sizes 942 00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:02,440 Speaker 3: because we can get more fabric of thing. So I 943 00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:06,080 Speaker 3: always like to have faith when I do see influencers 944 00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:08,520 Speaker 3: come out with brands, you know, and they might only 945 00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:10,200 Speaker 3: go to a size twelve. I'm like, who knows, Like 946 00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:13,280 Speaker 3: maybe in six or twelve months, if they see some success, 947 00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:17,200 Speaker 3: then they might add more sizes. But then also by 948 00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:21,239 Speaker 3: doing those limited size ranges, you might not see that 949 00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:24,120 Speaker 3: growth because you're not going to get a good reputation 950 00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:26,040 Speaker 3: from doing so it's really interesting. 951 00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:28,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it's so interesting as well to hear from 952 00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:32,400 Speaker 1: someone who actually runs brands, because a lot of the 953 00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:34,719 Speaker 1: time influencers do come out and they say that they 954 00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:37,000 Speaker 1: just don't have the money to be able to extend 955 00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:38,719 Speaker 1: the brand. So there's all these different things I think 956 00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:41,080 Speaker 1: that people don't think of. Just last week, because we 957 00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:43,719 Speaker 1: know you're super busy, we had a really requested question 958 00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:46,960 Speaker 1: and it was about Aj because he's your boyfriend. He's 959 00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:49,120 Speaker 1: obviously become a bit of a star in his own 960 00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:52,040 Speaker 1: Instagram account. It seems like he's been taking the piss 961 00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:52,440 Speaker 1: out of you. 962 00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:54,320 Speaker 2: Recently, which is being hilarious. 963 00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:56,680 Speaker 3: I wouldn't. 964 00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:59,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I'd say he's not your typical boyfriend of Instagram, 965 00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:01,799 Speaker 1: Like he just seems like a legend, you know how. 966 00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:03,759 Speaker 1: There's kind of those tossa guys, who are you know 967 00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:04,760 Speaker 1: posing topless? 968 00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:08,000 Speaker 3: No, trust me, I had been there, Like for anyone 969 00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,200 Speaker 3: that's followed me for long enough, they had seen me 970 00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:14,719 Speaker 3: go for those tossa fucking Instagram guys like No, Aj 971 00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:17,680 Speaker 3: and I have been together for four years now and 972 00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:21,320 Speaker 3: we only made his Instagram account last year. So for 973 00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:24,520 Speaker 3: the first like three years, like everyone didn't even know 974 00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:28,279 Speaker 3: about aj, Like they'd go, are you still together? Because like, 975 00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:31,359 Speaker 3: he just doesn't care for social media. But I guess 976 00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:34,719 Speaker 3: because it had been you know, three years of them 977 00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:37,080 Speaker 3: not knowing anything about him, and then we finally made 978 00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:40,319 Speaker 3: his Instagram account, everyone was really excited about. Everyone wants 979 00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:41,440 Speaker 3: to know more about him. 980 00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:43,200 Speaker 2: Oh, it's really cute. 981 00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:47,040 Speaker 1: Do you when you were initially dating, did you find 982 00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:50,000 Speaker 1: it difficult having that following sort of were you sort 983 00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:52,200 Speaker 1: of second guessing some people, thinking, oh, are they just 984 00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,440 Speaker 1: going to use me to become a next the next 985 00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,759 Speaker 1: big influencer. Yes. 986 00:48:57,120 --> 00:49:03,799 Speaker 3: So, like my relationship before Ajas was very public. I'm 987 00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:07,040 Speaker 3: talking like we had a YouTube channel together and all 988 00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:09,240 Speaker 3: of this shit, and it was just the red flag 989 00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:12,279 Speaker 3: from the stars that obviously I didn't see because you know, 990 00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:14,359 Speaker 3: I think I was twenty one or twenty two, when 991 00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,080 Speaker 3: maybe I was a little bit longer. I don't know, 992 00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:20,520 Speaker 3: twenty three. I've just tried to use it all mushed together, honestly. 993 00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:24,160 Speaker 3: But I did have like a very like if you 994 00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:28,279 Speaker 3: literally google like Brittany Saunders breakup, you'll see some news 995 00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:31,359 Speaker 3: articles like it was the break up was a huge thing. 996 00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:36,080 Speaker 3: I had the like Sunrise Morning Show calling me asking 997 00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:39,120 Speaker 3: if I'll go on there to talk about like relationship. 998 00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:42,320 Speaker 3: Yeah you can, like because I went on my snapchout 999 00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:44,080 Speaker 3: and I was fucking crying, like it was just this 1000 00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:48,439 Speaker 3: dramatic thing. But yeah, so this was my relationship prior 1001 00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:53,160 Speaker 3: to AJ, And so when AJ and I were like 1002 00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:56,640 Speaker 3: starting to see each other, I wasn't scared that he 1003 00:49:56,880 --> 00:50:00,239 Speaker 3: was going to try to use me or whatever to 1004 00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:04,400 Speaker 3: gain something social media wise, because he never had social 1005 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:08,880 Speaker 3: media anyway. And if you meet AJ, like he's literally 1006 00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:13,400 Speaker 3: a tradee like he's just a genuine guy. But I 1007 00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:17,680 Speaker 3: was still scared of like sharing him on my social media, 1008 00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:20,200 Speaker 3: and I think that was one of the reasons why 1009 00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:23,600 Speaker 3: I never posted about him much. Also because like he's 1010 00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:26,000 Speaker 3: not a natural on the camera, like he's a bit 1011 00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:28,719 Speaker 3: awkward and whatever. So he kind of went hand in hand, 1012 00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:31,080 Speaker 3: like he wasn't fussed at all about being on the 1013 00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:34,480 Speaker 3: social media and also I was like holding back kind 1014 00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:37,400 Speaker 3: of thing. So yeah, it's only last year that he 1015 00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:40,960 Speaker 3: has started to appear on social media and everyone loves him, 1016 00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:43,320 Speaker 3: even though we literally never post on his account, like 1017 00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:45,759 Speaker 3: he never knows stories. It's always just a stupid post, 1018 00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:49,600 Speaker 3: but everyone loves it. What were people asking you, Well. 1019 00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:54,920 Speaker 1: You just covered it completely about it was intentional to 1020 00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:57,440 Speaker 1: sort of keep AJ away from everyone. But do you 1021 00:50:57,520 --> 00:51:00,160 Speaker 1: know what I feel like, there's nothing more unattractive than 1022 00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,400 Speaker 1: a guy who's really into his Instagram account. 1023 00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:06,600 Speaker 3: So literally, because when you see I mean each to 1024 00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:10,080 Speaker 3: their own. But sometimes the girls and I at work, 1025 00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:13,320 Speaker 3: like one of the girls at work in particular, she's like, 1026 00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,239 Speaker 3: look at this guy, and you know how they like 1027 00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:18,520 Speaker 3: do like they like lipsting a song and they were 1028 00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:21,080 Speaker 3: like the shirt on and they're doing a little power. 1029 00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:25,279 Speaker 3: I'm like, if AJ, for some reason did that, I'd 1030 00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:29,160 Speaker 3: have to kick him out, like like goes back at 1031 00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:32,719 Speaker 3: your mom's house, like I can't take you years or 1032 00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:36,759 Speaker 3: even guys that just like take like posing selfies like 1033 00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:41,400 Speaker 3: that is the instant ere for me, Like no thanks, 1034 00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:44,920 Speaker 3: but you know when I was younger, I was. I 1035 00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:48,719 Speaker 3: think it's because I was in that YouTube space. I was, 1036 00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:52,000 Speaker 3: you know, attracted to the person that I was with 1037 00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:56,000 Speaker 3: previous to AJ, because you know, he took so much 1038 00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:58,800 Speaker 3: interest in what I was doing, which was amazing because 1039 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,560 Speaker 3: no other guy had before. But then it was all 1040 00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:03,240 Speaker 3: for the wrong kind of reason anyway. 1041 00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:06,440 Speaker 1: Oh, I guess we all make the bad decisions with 1042 00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:07,920 Speaker 1: guys in our early twenties, don't we. 1043 00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:11,279 Speaker 3: Yes, Literally, you have to do it because that's how 1044 00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:14,359 Speaker 3: you learn. And it's just so funny to look back 1045 00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:16,400 Speaker 3: on because when I was like twenty one, twenty two, 1046 00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:18,480 Speaker 3: twenty three, I thought I had it all, you know, 1047 00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:21,080 Speaker 3: going on. I was living in Sydney in his apartment 1048 00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:24,560 Speaker 3: by myself. I was so famous on YouTube, Like I 1049 00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:27,360 Speaker 3: just had my life all sorted out. And now I 1050 00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:29,760 Speaker 3: look back and I'm like, I had no bloody idea 1051 00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:33,920 Speaker 3: what I was doing, Like no clue. So yeah, with 1052 00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:36,719 Speaker 3: the whole AJA thing, Like it was kind of intentional 1053 00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:39,839 Speaker 3: to begin with, but I didn't mean to not past 1054 00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:42,279 Speaker 3: about him for like three years. It's just the way 1055 00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:45,800 Speaker 3: it went. And like, yeah, now he does little posts 1056 00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:49,680 Speaker 3: every now and then. Everyone likes it, so love yeah, 1057 00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:50,640 Speaker 3: it's worked out well. 1058 00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:53,600 Speaker 1: Oh well, thank you for being such a legend and 1059 00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:56,000 Speaker 1: giving up all this time to talk to us about 1060 00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:57,040 Speaker 1: so many different things. 1061 00:52:57,320 --> 00:53:01,120 Speaker 3: I'm so glad because we we we started this podcast 1062 00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:02,640 Speaker 3: an hour ago at one o'clock, so I got to 1063 00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:05,160 Speaker 3: leave work early. We finish at four. Every day we 1064 00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:07,800 Speaker 3: do eight till four. And then I said to the girls, 1065 00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:11,040 Speaker 3: I left home. I left work just before one, and 1066 00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:13,279 Speaker 3: I was like, I might be back or I might. 1067 00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:13,759 Speaker 1: Not know. 1068 00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:18,799 Speaker 3: It's o'clock. So I think I'm just going to be like, nah, 1069 00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:22,160 Speaker 3: I cool it a day the afternoon. So you've given 1070 00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:24,600 Speaker 3: me an early March. I'm grateful. 1071 00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:28,000 Speaker 2: I Caitlyn was so lovely to deal with. 1072 00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:31,320 Speaker 1: She's obviously this is an including the podcast, but she 1073 00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,239 Speaker 1: is such a legend, so you've got some. 1074 00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:38,040 Speaker 3: Include this in the podcast. 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