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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex

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<v Speaker 1>and Frooms catch up podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Rimy's love language has to be drawing pretty pictures, because

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<v Speaker 2>if you've never of me, if you've never had the

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<v Speaker 2>pleasure of having yourself drawn by frooms, I would recommend

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<v Speaker 2>it's really lovely to be seen and immortalized in this way.

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms on Keda, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Have some bad news for you. We all have tiny

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<v Speaker 2>little bugs crawling on our face. I didn't find this

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<v Speaker 2>information ourself, it was submitted by a loyal VIP listener, Amy.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for cursing us. I always say to myself,

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<v Speaker 2>it's nicer to stuffer as a community than alone. Let's

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<v Speaker 2>bring that back, Mickeyana, play the tape.

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<v Speaker 3>This eight legged creature is living inside the pores of

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<v Speaker 3>your face right now, Yes, your face, not some people's faces,

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<v Speaker 3>everyone's faces. This is what's called the demodex mite, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's actually distantly related to ticks and spiders because it

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<v Speaker 3>also has eight legs. But it likes to live than

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<v Speaker 3>our pores of the face and eat off our seabum

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<v Speaker 3>or the oil that we produce.

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<v Speaker 2>I fortunately don't have pause. It's been said to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Please so I don't think this is me for the

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<v Speaker 2>rest of you be afraid for more than one reason. Again,

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<v Speaker 2>too much information. I just I don't like cliches. Ignorance

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<v Speaker 2>is bliss, but I often find that information without the

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<v Speaker 2>use of the context, I just feel overloaded and overwhelmed,

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<v Speaker 2>and my instinct is to share the suffering. So now

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<v Speaker 2>you got to know, and you gotta know, and you

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<v Speaker 2>gotta know what help is that? But anyway, tell a

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<v Speaker 2>friend to tell a friend, stay safe, stay vigilant, and

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<v Speaker 2>the real scary person is you.

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<v Speaker 1>We have quite a controversial listener submission here. It does

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<v Speaker 1>involve making someone infertile to it. Frankly, these are my

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<v Speaker 1>not my words, so I'm just going to get straight

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<v Speaker 1>into the story. Please, if you're behind the wheel, hold

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<v Speaker 1>both hands on the steeringwheel ten and two, unless, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>you are driving manual. Hello, Flex and Froomes, tremendous fan

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<v Speaker 1>of your show. What a fantastic word. Listening to the

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<v Speaker 1>potty is now an intrinsic part of my natural function.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for all that you do. I have a confession. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here it is in brackets. It's a little long, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's very much worth it. I promise okay of her

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<v Speaker 1>bost king. For much of my high school life, I

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<v Speaker 1>sat in pools of envy. Okay, we've got a wordsmith. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>being extremely jealous of those who were performing at a

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<v Speaker 1>higher level than me. I was most envious of this girl, who,

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<v Speaker 1>as I observed over the course of six years, evidently

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<v Speaker 1>had no social life or understanding of the world beyond

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<v Speaker 1>our suburban village. I hated her and tried to hexo

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<v Speaker 1>several times in the heat of exams, each spell failing miserably.

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<v Speaker 1>As she eventually received college ducks. Even as we grew

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<v Speaker 1>older and we're exposed to things deemed controversial to her

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<v Speaker 1>conservative mind, she remained stupid. My god, this person is

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<v Speaker 1>a comedian. Said. Stupidity was manifested into her first ever relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>which quickly turned into an engagement like five months in.

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<v Speaker 1>She was twenty two years old and had previously only

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<v Speaker 1>had crushes on them.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's trajectory.

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<v Speaker 1>I would never harbor such hatred for anyone as I

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<v Speaker 1>do her, But this new partner comes to a close second.

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<v Speaker 1>I was still a studying medicine at university, and being

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<v Speaker 1>a discussing and immature person, took a great interest in

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<v Speaker 1>all medicine concerning genitalia.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>These people are doctors. As a timebl and sexy. At

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<v Speaker 1>the time, I was indulged in my own personal study

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<v Speaker 1>of a zoo a zoospermia, the condition in which there

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<v Speaker 1>is no measurable sperm. Said couple were heavily religious and

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<v Speaker 1>committed to upholding Catholic ideals, especially when it came to intimacy.

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<v Speaker 1>They were very keen to exchange their vows and set

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<v Speaker 1>their marriage plans in place, the day of ceremony being

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<v Speaker 1>scheduled for five months later. One cause of a zoo

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<v Speaker 1>spermia is a trauma slash injury to the pelvic region.

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<v Speaker 1>Having studied it, I knew which areas would be catalytic

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<v Speaker 1>to the condition. So one night at a party, I

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<v Speaker 1>decided I wanted to try something. My friend, the host,

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<v Speaker 1>had a super vicious and nasty dog. The morning of

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<v Speaker 1>I rubbed steak all over the partner's pants and underwear.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I lived in a sharehouse and this was easy

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<v Speaker 1>to do. I won't get graphic here, but he ended

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<v Speaker 1>up having to leave the party in an ambulance. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>three years later, the couple are happily married, but he's

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<v Speaker 1>the furthest thing from fertile. This is horrible. They tried

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<v Speaker 1>IVF and she had to drop out of school to

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<v Speaker 1>get two jobs to cover the funds. What the heck?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel bad because their kids would have been

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<v Speaker 1>ugly as by the way, I know, I'm an asshole

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<v Speaker 1>in the instance.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, okay, that's just.

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<v Speaker 1>A crazy story. Can this is a real person. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna, for the sake of my own mental capacity,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to assume this is a fake story. Mikayla,

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<v Speaker 1>can you confirm more than I producing Mikayla, she said

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<v Speaker 1>it was real, but I think it's inconceivably It is

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<v Speaker 1>inconceivably horrible that you would rub steak all over someone's

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<v Speaker 1>pants and underwear. They're a fantastic writer, I must say.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever your name amiss who sent this in? You are

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<v Speaker 1>a very sinister individual freak. Given you are a listener

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<v Speaker 1>of The Flex and FRIM Show, I'm a big fan,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm a big fan of your writing style. Would

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<v Speaker 1>you consider going into fiction or perhaps nonfiction? We can

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<v Speaker 1>try and get some hookups in some publishers, because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>very impressed by your writing style. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>amount of hatred warrants this behavior. I believe horrible behavior

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<v Speaker 1>is often not just warranted by hate. Sometimes it's in

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<v Speaker 1>the heart of the individual for numerous traumatic events, etc.

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<v Speaker 1>It's never okay to seek revenge like this. I would

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<v Speaker 1>never wish for someone to be infertile.

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<v Speaker 2>It's in these instances I commend myself on the ability

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<v Speaker 2>to suppress how I feel about certain situations, because I

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<v Speaker 2>know some people perceive revenge and anger and hatred to

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<v Speaker 2>be really motivating and empowering, and it propels you forward.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it gets you out of this space and

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<v Speaker 2>into a new one. But I also think it can

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<v Speaker 2>be really chaotic and you don't know where you're gonna land.

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<v Speaker 2>But suppression and repression just squash it. They need to

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<v Speaker 2>feel anything about it. My deal of conversation I was

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<v Speaker 2>having over the weekend and we're talking about forgiveness and forgetting,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, I think I'm better at forgetting than forgiving.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the process of forgiving requires too much. In

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<v Speaker 2>my instance, I really need the person to understand, and

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<v Speaker 2>often when people hurt you, they don't understand, and so

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<v Speaker 2>then you're kind of like, well, what are we doing here?

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<v Speaker 2>You don't get it, I don't get it. Let's just

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<v Speaker 2>forget each other. Prone to goho sting. But I also

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<v Speaker 2>say one thing about miss Flexiana. She is like a

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<v Speaker 2>bit of a Massacres in the sense that I enjoy

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of hard things constantly. Like I'm always just

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<v Speaker 2>doing hard things, having hard conversations, being the one who

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<v Speaker 2>says something, being the one who does something. And so

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<v Speaker 2>when I reach my limit, it's only because I've done

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<v Speaker 2>stuff for so long. I think people just like to

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<v Speaker 2>know that you care, so that it mind what response

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<v Speaker 2>you have to them, as long as you're invested. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, no, no more, please. This was really super scary.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope it's fake for everybody's sake. Please be sick freak.

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<v Speaker 1>This is flex and rooms on Cait. I found myself

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<v Speaker 1>at the pub the other day on a Friday night,

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<v Speaker 1>perhaps the most electric moment at a watering hole. I

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<v Speaker 1>was speaking to my friend Ali and we were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about siblings. As you know, I'm as you.

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<v Speaker 2>Do core topics.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and she has a theory about siblings that I

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<v Speaker 1>think will pique your interests.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to hear this, Okay, the idea is that

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<v Speaker 4>I am a better person as a result of having

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<v Speaker 4>been bullied by my siblings. And as much as it

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<v Speaker 4>was painful at the time, like, the reality is that

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<v Speaker 4>siblings know you better than anyone else and they can

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<v Speaker 4>pinpoint your flaws and it was everything that I needed

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<v Speaker 4>to improve anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's a non positive, not trauma, doing what it

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<v Speaker 2>needs to do to keep the cycle going. So she

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I just needed that thing that is still plaguing

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<v Speaker 2>me as an adult that I'm referencing at a at

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<v Speaker 2>a casual chat at the pub.

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<v Speaker 1>Getting bullied by your sibling is a net positive, and

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<v Speaker 1>I must say I agree. She continued to say, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like they find things that are annoying about you and

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<v Speaker 1>nip it in the bud before they grow out of

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<v Speaker 1>hand in the wild with the public.

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<v Speaker 2>Depends which sibling, because the older ones made you so

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<v Speaker 2>I am, but you in a version that you dislike.

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<v Speaker 2>All your worst qualities you gave to me. I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>exist before you put all your influence here. Really, younger

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<v Speaker 2>sibling a bit different, but I don't have any of

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<v Speaker 2>those well as a.

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<v Speaker 1>Younger sibling, I will say there was some some words

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<v Speaker 1>bandied about. Crazy was the operative for you. Yeah, true,

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<v Speaker 1>you're crazy. That was her insult mine to her redacted on.

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<v Speaker 2>Her I mean I got called detached, but it wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>really an insult. It was like a factor that's detached. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>It's like I don't want to be part of the drama.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you changed your waist?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Put me in.

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<v Speaker 2>Put me in, coach, Oh, put me in. So what

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<v Speaker 2>you're saying, let's advocate for bullying sibling to sibling.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, great, intergenerational bullying in the workplace, in the home.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, miss flex and the controversial passion for it coke.

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<v Speaker 2>What has she done my relationship to the internet. People

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<v Speaker 2>often think it must be strategic, you must know and

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<v Speaker 2>you're going to cause a fuss, and I truly do not.

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<v Speaker 2>I've said and done some pretty off kilter things. No

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<v Speaker 2>One's battert aly In and one cute little Sunday morning,

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<v Speaker 2>I find myself at brunch with some of my nearest

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<v Speaker 2>and dearest. I ordered an asy bowl and I thought

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<v Speaker 2>to myself, let's top off some of this health pretty goodness,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, with a bit of preservative based badness. And

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<v Speaker 2>so I ordered myself a coke, but I asked for

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<v Speaker 2>some passion fruit pulp initially to put in the assai,

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<v Speaker 2>but when it arrived they gave me such a big portion.

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<v Speaker 2>There was so much to go around. It brought me

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<v Speaker 2>back to my days of creating various coke based mocktails.

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<v Speaker 2>So initially when I started DJing, I didn't drink alcohol,

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<v Speaker 2>but I used drink a lot of coke. So I

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<v Speaker 2>would make the concoction more enticing by adding, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>one lime, and then two limes, and then three limes,

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<v Speaker 2>than four lime quadrants, not whole lime.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, okay, but you do. That's essentially one whole.

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<v Speaker 2>One whole lime. And then I would mix it up

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<v Speaker 2>and add frozen berries muddle in the bottom, sometimes passion

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<v Speaker 2>fruit pulp. And because I don't dj as often, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't feel the need to gourmet my coke. But in

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<v Speaker 2>this instance, I said, let's bring it back. Took a

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<v Speaker 2>little photo on Instagram, put it on my story. The controversy.

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<v Speaker 2>I now understand that when I posted it, people thought

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<v Speaker 2>I was putting passion rip pulp into a long iced

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<v Speaker 2>black coffee. Oh so now I understand. But with that

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<v Speaker 2>being said, now that I've clarified, it is just putting

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<v Speaker 2>passion frip pulp into Coca Cola. There still is some controversy.

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<v Speaker 2>People aren't too happy. Some people say it's too insane

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<v Speaker 2>not to work. Other people say she's just insane. I say,

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<v Speaker 2>I am a taste maker, through and through decade long.

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<v Speaker 2>The accolades speak for themselves. Rest assured, someone somewhere, probably

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<v Speaker 2>Justin Hem's, is about to take this concept.

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<v Speaker 1>Justin listen, I'm caning for a blowback. I do love

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<v Speaker 1>myself a bit of Maryvale goodness.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm happy to collab.

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<v Speaker 1>I must say I worked with Maraveil on some sponsor

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<v Speaker 1>content last year. Did They were absolutely fantastic to deal with.

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<v Speaker 1>I got a lifelong, life long fan in me. Dolan say,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a shill for Justin Ham's core. You've been listening

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