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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the Flex and Frooms catch up podcast, Happy Thursday.

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<v Speaker 1>We chat about being called baby today.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to say this week the brain was a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit hollow. Yeah, like it was probably half half

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<v Speaker 2>some some some topics.

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<v Speaker 3>I still you had a few profound moments.

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<v Speaker 2>In amongst some fluffier times. Well, we came to the

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<v Speaker 2>conclusion that people like being called baby.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if we came to that conclusion. That

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<v Speaker 3>feels like, actually, that feels like a bit of a

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<v Speaker 3>fighting word. But we also talked about how to scientifically

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<v Speaker 3>increase your luck, and I could say we did feel

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<v Speaker 3>like there was some there was some value.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be taking that all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Enjoy the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Frou Meno through me Boo, Mummy, flex Mom.

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to Flex and Frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>On kait Hey baby, you like being called baby?

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<v Speaker 3>No? Oh is a question?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, I got nervous. Yeah, like all pet names.

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<v Speaker 1>If I would call you baby, would you find that inappropriate?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think you'd say it, well, but I'd let

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<v Speaker 3>it slide.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, allegedly calling a woman baby is good for

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<v Speaker 2>her mental health. The word does do something to the

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<v Speaker 2>female brain. It releases a certain chemical and brain oxytocin.

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<v Speaker 3>Santialization of women.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, dumpack, and I'll provacy this by

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<v Speaker 1>saying this came from Elite Daily, which I went on.

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<v Speaker 2>Not going to Lead Daily every day in twenty thirteen,

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<v Speaker 2>get to go for a breakup, and they were enabling

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<v Speaker 2>my feelings in a way that was actually quite onerous.

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<v Speaker 2>According to numerous catalogs discussing stress reducing techniques, being called

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<v Speaker 2>baby has a positive effect on the female brain.

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<v Speaker 1>When we start saying female brain.

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<v Speaker 2>You know we're going.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're not quite right, and yet here we are.

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<v Speaker 1>There aren't enough specific studies focusing on the word baby.

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<v Speaker 1>They do remind us, but there are reports on.

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<v Speaker 4>The words So someone said, A friend of mine said,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's the study of they're referencing.

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<v Speaker 3>I was having a chat on the weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>This is like in COVID when suddenly everyone had a

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<v Speaker 2>hook up to the infectious disease doctor from a leading

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<v Speaker 2>expert at the Royal Women's Hospital.

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<v Speaker 1>Shut up, stop it.

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<v Speaker 2>For example, when we hear the word no, our bodies

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<v Speaker 2>start producing a stress hormone. The opposite happens when we

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<v Speaker 2>hear baby and yes. When a woman hears that she's

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<v Speaker 2>your baby, she can't help but looking like her baby.

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<v Speaker 3>One more time.

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<v Speaker 4>This is like spreading misinformation. Did you read this article

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<v Speaker 4>in the way Mickey just pointing thing? Your eyes darted

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<v Speaker 4>so quickly to Micky when Ti mak you send it

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<v Speaker 4>to me? I did say that's a fantastic one.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's take it, and then you copy and pasted quotes

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<v Speaker 2>for three.

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<v Speaker 3>There is currently a dating app in the market where

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<v Speaker 3>guys cannot get in unless they are endorsed by a woman.

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<v Speaker 3>The app has two out of five stars on Google

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<v Speaker 3>play less than two hundred reviews. I did my due diligence.

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<v Speaker 3>It's called Hula. Hulah the dating app that empowers Women.

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<v Speaker 3>This is their words, by the way, directly from their

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<v Speaker 3>Google play listing, The dating app that empowers women to

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<v Speaker 3>take control of their dating lives and date only better guys.

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<v Speaker 3>On Hula, any woman in a relationship or single can

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<v Speaker 3>join and become a ringleader. Phrase is very interesting and

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<v Speaker 3>endorse guys for other single women to date. This provides

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<v Speaker 3>real world accountability for every man on the platform, making

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<v Speaker 3>it a safer space for women to connect and date.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's how it works. As a single woman going through men,

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<v Speaker 3>you'll only see the best of the best guys because

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<v Speaker 3>every guy on Huler has been endorsed by a woman

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<v Speaker 3>to be on the platform. If you're a guy who

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<v Speaker 3>is lucky enough to be endorsed by a hula ring leader,

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<v Speaker 3>you'll own points for good gentlemanly behavior. These points can

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<v Speaker 3>lead to some and I quote seriously awesome rewards. So

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<v Speaker 3>it's in everyone's best interest to bring in be the

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<v Speaker 3>best of the best. So girls come, become a ringleader

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<v Speaker 3>and invite your single best friend. I kind of like it,

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<v Speaker 3>like I like the concept. I like it in theory,

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<v Speaker 3>but it also goes back to that fundamental issues. Let's

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<v Speaker 3>say I'm coming to you through me, yeah, and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>telling you about an experience that I've had with a

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<v Speaker 3>guy friend of yours, and you're like, oh, I think

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<v Speaker 3>he's quite great now. I was like, oh, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I felt quite unsafe around him. He made a

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<v Speaker 3>few jokes that I wasn't comfortable with. You know, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I saw the way he interacted with this person. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't like him. And you might say, well, I've only

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<v Speaker 3>had good experiences with him. I've never experienced that side,

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<v Speaker 3>and so you'll go and endorse him on this app.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the tricky thing with dating endorsements is that

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<v Speaker 3>often what happens is the person that you know as

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<v Speaker 3>your friend is not the person you know as a

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<v Speaker 3>partner because they aren't your partner. And everybody's great friend

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<v Speaker 3>is somebody's bad partner, and vice versa. Everyone's a bad

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<v Speaker 3>friend is somebody's good partner. So what I could find

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<v Speaker 3>to be a little bit contradictory or a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit hindering about the experience is that you

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<v Speaker 3>have a bunch of people endorsing their friends about their

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<v Speaker 3>friendship and not really endorsing people who've been in relationships

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<v Speaker 3>with them about their relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's very different.

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<v Speaker 3>It's extremely different.

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<v Speaker 1>How is that that it's different?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it because of because some people are such good friends,

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<v Speaker 2>but then they turn completely different in a relationship setting.

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<v Speaker 3>I just think there are lower expectations in friendships because

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<v Speaker 3>they're really harder. I mean, the number one, you can

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<v Speaker 3>juggle so many friendships at once, So what you don't

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<v Speaker 3>get from one person you will get from thirty four

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<v Speaker 3>others if you so choose. And a lot of what

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<v Speaker 3>people expect from friendships are varied and a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>the stakes are quite low. So if you want a

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<v Speaker 3>few friends to send memes to, a few friends to

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<v Speaker 3>party with, a few friends to go to dinner with,

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<v Speaker 3>you can seek that out quite easily. But in romance,

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<v Speaker 3>generally speaking, you now have to seek at this one

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<v Speaker 3>person to be a lot of things for you in

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<v Speaker 3>a close to excellent way. And so your expectation to

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<v Speaker 3>create this unnecessary, not unnecessary, the very necessary pressure on

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<v Speaker 3>the dynamic, which means that the pressure that you're putting

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<v Speaker 3>onto someone is unlocking a different part of them in return.

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<v Speaker 3>And so yes, you've never seen this type of person.

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<v Speaker 3>You've never seen this type of behavior from a friend

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<v Speaker 3>because you've never had to put pressure or expectations on

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<v Speaker 3>them as you might have if you were in a

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<v Speaker 3>relationship real life. Just keeps laughing, fortunately or unfortunately if

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<v Speaker 3>you end up using this. I'm not sure if it's

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<v Speaker 3>available in Australia. I couldn't find on the apps or

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't try very hard, though I didn't, but I

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<v Speaker 3>will say they're doing their due diligence. On TikTok, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>seeing a few people post about it, you know, not

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<v Speaker 3>posting using it but posting talking about it, so that

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<v Speaker 3>in itself is a little gap in expectation versus reality.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm happy to see that there are more players

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<v Speaker 3>in the market. Always, dating is a lifelong problem that

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<v Speaker 3>needs to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Solved another day, another opportunity for the overlords to come

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<v Speaker 2>to us to sell us a product. I came across

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<v Speaker 2>this TikTok which was about a shark tank. What are

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<v Speaker 2>they called, like, business creators, entrepreneur. Yeah, these guys came

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<v Speaker 2>on shark tank and their idea was to create a

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<v Speaker 2>glove that women could use when taking out their sanitary items.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you heard of this FLEXI?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I have.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you would have done a deep dive

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<v Speaker 2>on this back in the day.

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<v Speaker 3>Perhaps, so things just sound so silly from the jump

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<v Speaker 3>that there's no need to explore further.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally, so, these guys, two of the founders, met in

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<v Speaker 2>the army before moving into a woman's flat and noticing

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<v Speaker 2>that there seemed to be no good solution when it

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<v Speaker 2>came to the disposal of tampons. It goes on to

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<v Speaker 2>say that their inventive spirit was awakened and they just

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<v Speaker 2>had to come up with the solutions. So their solution

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<v Speaker 2>a pink glove that you could put on when you

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<v Speaker 2>take out, say your tampon, and then you wrap it

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<v Speaker 2>like you pull the glove inside out and it becomes

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<v Speaker 2>like a little discreete packaging. And I got to say

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<v Speaker 2>on the outset, if you do have your period on

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<v Speaker 2>the go, sometimes that's a nice little little treat, A

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<v Speaker 2>little treat for the girl of these pops. Say you're

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<v Speaker 2>at someone's house, you don't want to be putting it

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<v Speaker 2>in any bins. Take a home in your bag. We've

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<v Speaker 2>all done it. A pad's another great one that's probably

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<v Speaker 2>a bit more red hot. But obviously people are saying,

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<v Speaker 2>why are you investors coming for these multimillion dollar investment

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<v Speaker 2>deals for a product that only perpetuates the idea that

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<v Speaker 2>periods are gross.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. It kind of reminds me how if you look

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<v Speaker 3>behind the curtain for a lot of prominent brands made

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<v Speaker 3>for women, so women's clothing, women's jewelry, women's sanitary items,

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<v Speaker 3>women's health, it's run by men, and so you start

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<v Speaker 3>to think about the solutions that we've had for us,

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<v Speaker 3>and you kind of think someone's kind of off, Like

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<v Speaker 3>why don't out clothes have pockets and you know, why

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<v Speaker 3>would someone make this thing in that way? And it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>because it wasn't made for you, by you. And that's

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<v Speaker 3>why it was such a big pr moment when Volkswagen no,

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's a Volvo designed a car buy women

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<v Speaker 3>for women, and they changed so many things about like

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<v Speaker 3>the way the seat belts would do up to accommodate

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<v Speaker 3>for a chest or a bust, or the way the

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<v Speaker 3>distance between the actual uh the acceleration the accelerator and

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<v Speaker 3>the break between that and the chair, and the way

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<v Speaker 3>that the chairs would fit to accommodate a wider hip,

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<v Speaker 3>and all of these considerations that had him been made before.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, there was this idea that you know,

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<v Speaker 3>cars have always been made to be adjustable. It's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>adjustable within certain parameters that were made for men.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so cool. I never thought of that.

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<v Speaker 3>And that is oh really you thought you bought I

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<v Speaker 3>want one? Oh you want? And they have done similar

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<v Speaker 3>studies on public transport for example, like you know those

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<v Speaker 3>groupie things and to hold to keep you upright are

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<v Speaker 3>so high up this today so tall. Anyway, you start

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<v Speaker 3>to look too deeply, it gets a bit sinister.

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<v Speaker 1>It gets so sinister. So yeah, the pink gloves, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think they came to fruition.

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<v Speaker 3>Where are they now?

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<v Speaker 1>Where are they now? You're listening to flex and rooms

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<v Speaker 1>on Kita.

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<v Speaker 3>That's proof that you could increase your luck. Would you try?

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<v Speaker 3>That is the question we're asking today. So love Sophie

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<v Speaker 3>Burns on TikTok is talking about this exercise that she

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<v Speaker 3>was made to do in a university class, and her

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<v Speaker 3>lecture was talking about the scientific ways to increase your luck.

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<v Speaker 3>And so what he got them to do was separate

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<v Speaker 3>all into micro groups of five or six people. So

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<v Speaker 3>there could have been six people in this class, could

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<v Speaker 3>have been one hundred, who knows. But when you go

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<v Speaker 3>and separate and break out into these little groups, you

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<v Speaker 3>are told to close your eyes and think about something

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<v Speaker 3>that you need a resource, a connection, You need a

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<v Speaker 3>new car, you need better grades, and you need like

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<v Speaker 3>someone to go shopping with, and you need a book recommendation.

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<v Speaker 3>And so you think about all those things quite clearly

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<v Speaker 3>in your head, and then when you open your eyes,

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<v Speaker 3>you're all instructed to express what it is that you need.

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<v Speaker 3>So I might say to for me, I need someone

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<v Speaker 3>to house it on the weekend and I'm really stressed

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<v Speaker 3>about that because if I don't house it on the weekend,

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<v Speaker 3>then my plants die. I don't have plants that don't

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<v Speaker 3>need a house it up, but for example, and then

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<v Speaker 3>someone else in the grip might say, oh, my goodness,

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<v Speaker 3>I was just thinking that I need a bit of

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<v Speaker 3>extra cash because I just lost my job and I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want the commitment of a full time job and

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<v Speaker 3>I would love an odd job. Suddenly we've just gotten lucky.

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<v Speaker 3>I needed something, you needed something, and we both fulfilled

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<v Speaker 3>each other's needs. And then someone else says, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>that's so crazy, because I was saying that, like it

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<v Speaker 3>might be annoying to say, but I just I'm really

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<v Speaker 3>struggling in this class and I just need some kind

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<v Speaker 3>of clarity. And then someone else says, well, i'm trying

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<v Speaker 3>to get extra credit, and I was told I should

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<v Speaker 3>be a tutor to get some extra credit. What about

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<v Speaker 3>we band together? And so what happens is that, statistically speaking,

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<v Speaker 3>in expressing a need out loud, expressing a need openly publicly,

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<v Speaker 3>with conviction being very clear on it, often there is

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<v Speaker 3>somebody around you that can assist. And so, on the

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<v Speaker 3>odd chance that you were someone in the group who

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<v Speaker 3>didn't get your needs met. What happens to you? Do

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<v Speaker 3>you just resign to the fact that you don't get

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<v Speaker 3>what you want? Well, no, then you're instructed to go

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<v Speaker 3>to another group and express your need there. Go to

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<v Speaker 3>another group and express your need there. And what happened

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<v Speaker 3>is of all the groups that express their needs, the

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<v Speaker 3>majority had their needs met. So the moral to the

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<v Speaker 3>story or the solution here is that people often think

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<v Speaker 3>that luck is this thing that will just happen to you,

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<v Speaker 3>but we're not recognizing that a characteristic of people that

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<v Speaker 3>we need to be lucky are people who are always

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<v Speaker 3>expressing a need and offering assistance for others who express

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<v Speaker 3>needing things. And so if you want something or you

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<v Speaker 3>want to increase your luck, you should say it out

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<v Speaker 3>loud with conviction, and should also make yourself available to

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<v Speaker 3>also help people fulfill their luck.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, this is why I think I saw

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<v Speaker 2>that Instagram and it could have just been like fake

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<v Speaker 2>Instagram news. It's gonna create a thing where you can

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<v Speaker 2>create lists where you do a story that only certain

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<v Speaker 2>people can see, like different to close friends. But it's

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<v Speaker 2>like wider lists and everything in the whole time I

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<v Speaker 2>need something between close friends and everyone else, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>what I need. Damn.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a lava lamp at home?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you do? Whereabouts?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it?

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<v Speaker 3>It's in the cupboard. I don't have it out. We

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<v Speaker 3>have enough powerpoints.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because what's actually in it? Like waks, It's wax.

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<v Speaker 3>So when you turn on the lamp, it melts the

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<v Speaker 3>wax and then the wax moves around in the liquid.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you serious? I would have never known what it was.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so cool.

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<v Speaker 2>They get very hot, they do. I love the look

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<v Speaker 2>somebody's wondering. Is this a bit juvenile for me?

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<v Speaker 3>Now? I love a love lamp. I should bring mine out.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good shout. Yeah, get clacks a lamp with

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<v Speaker 3>a lava lamp.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I saw these lava lamps on TikTok and there

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<v Speaker 2>was like a socio cultural backing to why they're interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna play the crab. It all makes sense once

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<v Speaker 2>you see.

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<v Speaker 1>It's from Jason ka Pagan play the Titiki.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, this rack of one hundred lava lamps is not

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<v Speaker 5>just an art project. That rack of lava lamps is

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<v Speaker 5>key to how internet security works. In fact, it can

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<v Speaker 5>be found at Cloudfare, the IT web security company. The

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<v Speaker 5>key to any kind of computer security is random numbers.

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<v Speaker 5>You need to be able to generate a random value

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<v Speaker 5>that only the user has that they can use to

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<v Speaker 5>log in. If a hacker could guess that value.

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<v Speaker 6>Then it's no good. So in order to generate truly

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<v Speaker 6>random values, they have cameras pointed at this wall of lava,

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<v Speaker 6>lamps taking pictures of it, and the exact position of

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<v Speaker 6>the drops of lava determined the values.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm not gonna lie? Do you think I honested

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<v Speaker 1>what he was saying.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm giving you the benefit of the job.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I'm never going to understand what computers are about.

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<v Speaker 3>You sure, Actually you've got a good grip on it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you really changed my life when you said that, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>all of our assets are somewhere they not, Like the

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<v Speaker 2>cloud is a physical place.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do they call it cloud then?

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<v Speaker 3>To confuse us?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, up in the cloud. What's going to happen when

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<v Speaker 2>everyone dies to our digital data?

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<v Speaker 3>What happens to everything when everything is gone?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>The memories remains.

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<v Speaker 2>On that note, guys, I will be going to the

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<v Speaker 2>vending machine now to go get a little chocolate too.

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