WEBVTT - The TikTok Robbery 0:00:03.680 --> 0:00:06.760 Hello, and welcome to Outspoken. It's your dose of the 0:00:06.800 --> 0:00:10.520 hottest influencer and pop culture news twice a week. I'm 0:00:10.560 --> 0:00:14.400 Sophie Torba and coming up on today's show, the TikTok 0:00:14.480 --> 0:00:18.040 couple forced to flee their new home, Why Sky Wheatley 0:00:18.120 --> 0:00:22.880 can't stop complimenting strangers, and Zoe Haig's surprise wedding budget. 0:00:23.400 --> 0:00:27.080 But first, Sarah's Day is livid with her husband Kurt 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:30.280 for his night our antics. A pregnant Sarah, who is 0:00:30.320 --> 0:00:33.559 a self confessed early bird, says she's been led astray 0:00:33.680 --> 0:00:37.320 by his late night routine. I let it happen again 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:41.839 my best friend aka night Our husband infiltrated my night 0:00:41.920 --> 0:00:43.680 and has effectively ruined my day. 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:47.640 Yep, room him. He has ruined my day. I know 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:50.680 I'm in charge of my own bedtime. Like I am 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:54.600 thirty one years old, I'm twenty seven weeks pregnant. 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:57.000 But like I just I have fomo if he's awake 0:00:57.040 --> 0:00:57.600 at midnight. 0:00:57.880 --> 0:00:59.240 I don't want to be awake at midnight, but like 0:00:59.280 --> 0:00:59.880 I want to chat. 0:01:01.080 --> 0:01:03.760 Sarah went on to say how terrible she was feeling 0:01:03.800 --> 0:01:06.000 with the lack of quality sleep, and it made her 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:08.319 reflect on the fact that she is going to be 0:01:08.360 --> 0:01:11.479 feeling shit like this all the time when baby number 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:14.639 three is here and she's doing overnight feeds. I'm always 0:01:14.720 --> 0:01:17.560 curious to find out what different couples do when it 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:21.560 comes to their sleeping habits, because my partner, he tends 0:01:21.640 --> 0:01:23.759 to go to bed a lot earlier than me. I'm 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:26.479 kurt in this situation. I am the night out, but it. 0:01:26.400 --> 0:01:27.600 Seems to work for us. 0:01:27.760 --> 0:01:29.880 When I first moved in with Brandon, I thought I'd 0:01:29.880 --> 0:01:32.040 be like you and be staying up late and he'd 0:01:32.040 --> 0:01:34.680 be going to bed early. But we have this routine 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:36.319 where we go to bed at the same time. And 0:01:36.360 --> 0:01:39.000 I think that's because we watch the same shows. We'll 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:41.119 give each other shows a go so you don't feel 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:43.080 like you have to be staying up late to get 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:44.839 finally a turn to watch your show. 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:46.200 But it's more so. 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:48.800 Sometimes he starts as early as four point thirty in 0:01:48.840 --> 0:01:51.800 the morning, or I mean most mornings he'll get to 0:01:51.800 --> 0:01:54.600 work at about six am, so he goes to bed 0:01:54.720 --> 0:01:58.040 super early, and I'm just I'm not about that. 0:01:58.440 --> 0:01:59.560 No, I couldn't do that. 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:02.320 I think you can suddenly become a morning person. No, 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:04.280 I don't think so. I think you were either born 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:06.840 a night hour or a morning person, and it's very, 0:02:07.040 --> 0:02:09.720 very difficult to change me. 0:02:09.919 --> 0:02:13.480 After realizing that everything I own is being stolen. 0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:18.720 Popular TikTok couple Isabel Peltz and Mitch O'Leary have been 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:22.000 forced to flee their new home after just three nights. 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:25.079 The couple were targeted by thieves who broke into their 0:02:25.080 --> 0:02:28.440 home whilst they were at an influencer event in Sydney 0:02:28.680 --> 0:02:30.959 now Amy. For those who haven't heard of the couple, 0:02:31.160 --> 0:02:34.160 what are they best known for? Well, they went viral 0:02:34.240 --> 0:02:37.160 on TikTok last year after they shared a video each 0:02:37.240 --> 0:02:40.200 morning of them dancing to wake up via the vamps 0:02:40.240 --> 0:02:42.919 and this song is all about seizing the day and 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:46.280 being grateful for what you have. They now boast over 0:02:46.400 --> 0:02:49.400 six hundred thousand followers on TikTok and are known for 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:50.960 their fun, positive content. 0:02:51.120 --> 0:02:51.200 So. 0:02:51.720 --> 0:02:55.080 Isabelle is just nineteen and she works as an influencer, 0:02:55.520 --> 0:02:58.760 so she's done collaborations with brands like Beginning Boutique and 0:02:58.840 --> 0:03:02.080 pepper Mao Whilse. Mitch is twenty two and he owns 0:03:02.120 --> 0:03:05.840 Popular Street where brand outdated Now. They used to live 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:09.079 in Queensland, but they recently moved to Adelaide. That's a 0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:13.360 weird decision as an Adelaide person, Why when you're building 0:03:13.400 --> 0:03:17.360 an influencer career would you move from Brisbane to Adelaide 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:20.480 Because there are not that many pr opportunities here. 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:21.079 We don't have. 0:03:21.080 --> 0:03:25.919 Big influencer events. It's a very small influencer community. Arguably 0:03:26.000 --> 0:03:28.560 a lot of the influencers in Adelaide don't have many 0:03:28.639 --> 0:03:32.080 genuine folds. I think Mitch is originally from Adelaide, so 0:03:32.160 --> 0:03:35.360 that was part of their decision. So just last week, 0:03:35.600 --> 0:03:38.920 isabel shared a series of tiktoks which she dubbed her 0:03:39.000 --> 0:03:42.200 Moving Diaries, and she took followers along the journey of 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:45.840 moving into their new rental. And isabel not only showed 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:49.560 shots of the interior of the house, but also the exterior, 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:50.960 including vision of. 0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:52.040 Their house number. 0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:55.080 Now I won't say what suburb it is in Adelaide, 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:57.280 just in case they choose to live around there again. 0:03:57.760 --> 0:03:58.800 But if you know the. 0:03:58.840 --> 0:04:02.720 Area, you would have been able to instantly identify where 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:06.600 it was. Now thieves took their chance when Isabelle shared 0:04:06.600 --> 0:04:08.720 that she and Mitch were heading to Sydney for an 0:04:08.800 --> 0:04:12.600 influencer event, and when the couple returned home, they found 0:04:12.600 --> 0:04:16.560 their bedroom window had been smashed, and bizarrely, only Mitch's 0:04:16.560 --> 0:04:18.160 belongings had been stolen. 0:04:18.360 --> 0:04:19.960 Let's have a listen to what went down. 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:23.720 If you did this, I don't know what Mitch did 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:25.120 to you, but thanks to. 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:28.920 Leaving my staff for someone obviously, but anyway, enjoy everything 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:31.200 that you stole of mine in the house. So yeah, 0:04:31.360 --> 0:04:33.480 Mitch pretty much doesn't really have much to his name 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:34.000 at the minute. 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:38.080 One thing they didn't steal my humor, I didn't take 0:04:38.120 --> 0:04:39.680 that on now. 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:42.960 Thieves also took Mitch's spare key to his you and 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:46.359 whilst they didn't steal the car, they did access it 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:49.480 and they took coins and the sunglasses he'd left in there. 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:50.479 They did leave one pair. 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:54.000 They were joking that maybe they weren't the robbers type. 0:04:54.360 --> 0:04:57.440 This is reminding me of when Shiny Grimman got robbed 0:04:57.520 --> 0:05:02.320 because the thieves had her car keys, so in this 0:05:02.440 --> 0:05:04.480 instance it meant they could come back and use her 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:08.200 car whenever they wanted. But they also left random things 0:05:08.279 --> 0:05:10.480 that weren't to their liking. It makes me feel like 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:13.159 these it's a gang of very young people. 0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:14.040 I wonder if it has. 0:05:13.960 --> 0:05:17.039 Something to do with Mitch's business success because I see 0:05:17.080 --> 0:05:20.560 those outdated hoodies everywhere, so people would be jealous of it. 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:23.120 I don't think they're necessarily doing it and targeting him 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:24.840 because they're jealous of him. I think they just saw 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:28.040 an opportunity and thought, well, if he's running this successful brand, 0:05:28.080 --> 0:05:29.839 he probably has a lot of cash. 0:05:29.880 --> 0:05:31.040 And it was pretty easy for. 0:05:31.040 --> 0:05:34.040 Them because they've been brazen enough to put where they live. 0:05:34.400 --> 0:05:36.920 They you know, you just go to real estate dot 0:05:36.920 --> 0:05:39.520 com you can figure out where most rentals are. You 0:05:39.560 --> 0:05:42.200 would stem from jealousy, though, people would see that a 0:05:42.240 --> 0:05:45.000 lot of these influencers have a lot of flashy things, 0:05:45.040 --> 0:05:47.000 and then they're jealous, so people want to break in. 0:05:46.960 --> 0:05:47.440 And steal it. 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:51.480 I think that it's either the jealousy or it's maybe 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:54.520 the thieves got disturbed and they had just started taking 0:05:54.520 --> 0:05:56.440 Mitch's stuff, because you can see in the vision that 0:05:56.480 --> 0:05:58.760 there's a few socks and different items that are just 0:05:58.839 --> 0:06:02.400 strewn all over their driveways, so it's clear the thieves 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:03.400 left in a hurry. 0:06:03.760 --> 0:06:06.039 My favorite part of this story. 0:06:05.760 --> 0:06:09.000 Though, is the fact that Mitch and Isabelle decided to 0:06:09.040 --> 0:06:11.800 set up their own sting, so they put up a 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:14.880 series of fake posts saying that they were heading back 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:18.239 into state following the robbery to see if the thieves 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:21.480 would return. It's clever, but it's also dangerous because they 0:06:21.520 --> 0:06:25.040 were almost sitting ducks waiting for thieves thieves to return 0:06:25.080 --> 0:06:29.720 and potentially I mean, stats show that most home invasions 0:06:29.760 --> 0:06:32.520 do turn vile. Well, they shared a TikTok days later 0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:35.080 and it showed them giggling in bed as they armed 0:06:35.120 --> 0:06:37.839 themselves with household items to protect themselves. 0:06:38.120 --> 0:06:38.920 Let's have a listen. 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:43.960 So Mitchell's weapon of choice is hammer, so we've gotten 0:06:44.000 --> 0:06:50.280 this podcast or everything else? Mine mine is two screen 0:06:51.760 --> 0:06:57.279 and enough that was used to cut up your state. 0:06:56.800 --> 0:07:00.880 And now they were clearly joking, but this gives me 0:07:00.920 --> 0:07:04.120 so much anxiety. Because the thieves had the keys to 0:07:04.160 --> 0:07:07.440 Mitch's car, it was likely they were going to return. 0:07:07.480 --> 0:07:09.600 I know it's supposed to be a joke, but generally 0:07:09.600 --> 0:07:12.920 with home invasions, the people in the home generally get 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:16.520 the weapons turned back on them and things escalate from there. Well, 0:07:16.560 --> 0:07:19.120 the scariest thing is the robbers actually did return, So 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:21.680 poor Mitch and Isabel were woken in the middle of 0:07:21.720 --> 0:07:24.600 the night by the sound of multiple people trying to 0:07:24.640 --> 0:07:28.240 break into the house. However, once the robbers realized the 0:07:28.280 --> 0:07:31.760 couple were inside, they fled and there hasn't been any 0:07:31.840 --> 0:07:34.840 update yet from Essay Police about whether any arrests have 0:07:34.920 --> 0:07:37.520 been made, did they set up any security cameras or 0:07:37.520 --> 0:07:41.440 anything like that. Don't understand why you would antagonize someone 0:07:41.880 --> 0:07:44.800 but then not have a proper plan of attack, because 0:07:44.840 --> 0:07:48.520 in this situation, they haven't caught anyone on camera robbing 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:52.000 from them. They've just put themselves in a dangerous situation. 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:55.440 There's no police action taking place, and subsequently it sounds 0:07:55.480 --> 0:07:58.200 like they've been forced to move out of this rental 0:07:58.240 --> 0:08:00.400 and go and find safety else. 0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:00.640 Yeah. 0:08:00.680 --> 0:08:03.480 Well, we've spoken in the past about influencers like Molly 0:08:03.560 --> 0:08:06.360 May and Chloe Zett being robbed, and I'm just so 0:08:06.560 --> 0:08:12.000 surprised that influencers continue to share so many identifiable features 0:08:12.040 --> 0:08:13.640 about their houses online. 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:15.000 It's a double edged sword. 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:18.720 Though, because I can see from the perspective of an influencer, 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:21.840 it's great to take your followers on a journey with you, 0:08:22.040 --> 0:08:24.960 and it's relatable to be moving into a new rental 0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:25.720 into state. 0:08:26.560 --> 0:08:28.160 However, just think you need to be careful. 0:08:28.600 --> 0:08:31.080 Don't ever show the outside of your house don't ever 0:08:31.160 --> 0:08:34.760 show your house number, don't ever identify which suburb you 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:37.679 live in. Those things are crucial because people will take 0:08:37.720 --> 0:08:41.120 advantage of you. Well, they clearly were foolish for doing that, 0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:44.200 but we've got to remember they're nineteen and twenty two. 0:08:44.559 --> 0:08:46.480 And I have to say I hadn't heard of them 0:08:46.559 --> 0:08:49.439 until I saw this story pop up, and I actually 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:52.280 quite like them from watching their tiktoks. They seem really positive, 0:08:52.360 --> 0:08:54.800 like they weren't winging about it. You know, sometimes when 0:08:54.840 --> 0:08:57.800 something terrible happens and you see these big named influencers 0:08:57.840 --> 0:08:58.720 who crack the shits. 0:08:58.880 --> 0:09:01.760 They were actually very cool about the whole thing. They 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:02.439 laughed at all. 0:09:02.520 --> 0:09:05.040 We often get people asking in our Facebook community who 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:07.679 can I follow online? Who's someone new? And it sounds 0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:10.080 like they're quite a good couple. Yeah, one that's actually 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:12.559 is sharing about their life. Maybe they need to set 0:09:12.640 --> 0:09:15.600 up a few more boundaries. But it's always fun following 0:09:15.640 --> 0:09:18.160 people when they're starting out their career or. 0:09:18.160 --> 0:09:21.080 They happen quiet. They've got six hundred thousand followers on TikTok. 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:24.120 Six hundred thousand on TikTok isn't that big? Like some 0:09:24.120 --> 0:09:26.280 people have a million followers and they're still not making 0:09:26.320 --> 0:09:28.840 a full time living off it. 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:35.040 Something non genuine about two hot girls, but already probably 0:09:35.040 --> 0:09:37.560 get a million compliments compliment each. 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:41.320 Other, Sophie, I wantn't know where do you stand on 0:09:41.440 --> 0:09:45.440 complimenting strangers in public, because Sky Wheatley and her partner 0:09:45.520 --> 0:09:49.400 Lockey have sparked debate about the sincerity behind it. I'm 0:09:49.440 --> 0:09:51.880 a big one for giving strangers compliments. 0:09:52.600 --> 0:09:53.760 I am known. 0:09:53.600 --> 0:09:56.880 If I go order food or if I buy something 0:09:56.880 --> 0:09:59.680 at the shop, I will often generally girls, I don't 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:00.640 give compliments. 0:10:00.679 --> 0:10:03.199 I will always give a girl a compliment. Yeah, you're always. 0:10:03.080 --> 0:10:05.920 Every time someone serves you, you will notice their nails. 0:10:05.960 --> 0:10:07.240 You're like, oh my god, I love your nails. And 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:09.760 it's genuine. They always have really nice names. 0:10:09.880 --> 0:10:10.280 Genuine. 0:10:10.280 --> 0:10:12.440 But I also think it's I do it because I 0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:15.120 think it's a way to almost make someone's day. Like 0:10:15.160 --> 0:10:17.079 I know that set might sound to be over the top, 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:18.680 but if I notice something, I think. 0:10:18.559 --> 0:10:21.000 Oh, that's really cute, I think why not say it? 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:24.640 Because sometimes those comments can really bolster you up if 0:10:24.640 --> 0:10:27.599 you're having a shit day. And again, it's also a 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:29.680 good way to strike up a conversation with someone and 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:32.920 be friendly. Yeah, well, Skywheatley is the same as you, 0:10:33.000 --> 0:10:36.280 because she was in Kmart when a woman approached her 0:10:36.360 --> 0:10:40.240 saying you're so pretty, and she replied you too, babe. Now, 0:10:40.280 --> 0:10:43.720 Sky told Locky she genuinely thought the woman was attractive 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:45.680 when she walked past her, so that's why she was 0:10:45.720 --> 0:10:48.600 so quick to repay the compliment. However, this is what 0:10:48.679 --> 0:10:49.760 Lockie had to say. 0:10:50.960 --> 0:10:53.400 I just think that when girls say that to other girls, 0:10:53.440 --> 0:10:56.240 it's just like, I feel it's a bit fake. 0:10:56.679 --> 0:10:59.120 I don't think it's quite genuine. I think it's more 0:10:59.200 --> 0:10:59.920 like a jealousy. 0:11:01.120 --> 0:11:05.600 Oh oh my gosh. Do you know how many times 0:11:05.760 --> 0:11:10.320 I compliment strangers. I've always been like that. I always 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:11.319 compliment strangers. 0:11:11.360 --> 0:11:13.240 I always say you have nice eyes, you have a 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:16.400 beautiful smile, like it's a nice thing to do. 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:21.480 Oh my god, this man, I just can't. I can't 0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:22.640 quite put my finger on it. 0:11:23.040 --> 0:11:26.000 I really can't. But I just feel like it'd be 0:11:26.120 --> 0:11:28.600 like it'd be like one male going up to another male. 0:11:28.440 --> 0:11:30.400 Saying, Oh, you're really hot, bro. 0:11:30.600 --> 0:11:33.120 You're no. It's not completely different. 0:11:33.400 --> 0:11:37.960 Why, because females and men are completely different. I don't 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:40.960 understand his point about it being a jealousy. Thing, because 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:45.120 quite often I find if people are jealous, it's human 0:11:45.280 --> 0:11:49.120 nature to then not bring forth the great qualities about 0:11:49.120 --> 0:11:51.080 that person. If anything, you're trying and drag them down. 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:53.400 I think I think he's getting confused, and I think 0:11:53.440 --> 0:11:56.000 he thinks it's a bit like on Mean Girls, the movie, 0:11:56.000 --> 0:11:57.800 you know, when they're like, I love your embrace and 0:11:57.840 --> 0:12:00.000 they're like, that's the fucking ugliest bracelet I've ever seen. 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:03.600 I think he thinks that they're fake compliments. I don't 0:12:03.640 --> 0:12:06.080 know people doing that in the shops though, or just 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:10.200 in public. Maybe it's fake compliments if it's to someone 0:12:10.280 --> 0:12:13.360 you don't like in your life friends. I have another 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:16.720 take on Lockey's point about male compliments. While I agree, 0:12:16.720 --> 0:12:19.320 I've never heard two men compliment each other at the 0:12:19.320 --> 0:12:21.960 shop by telling each other they're hot. I do think 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:25.360 men compliment each other in other ways. So they might 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:29.199 compliment them about their cut or they're bid is a 0:12:29.200 --> 0:12:32.720 big one. That's the male equivalent of clothes. They'd be like, oh, 0:12:32.760 --> 0:12:35.079 look at it, how lush that guy's beard is, or 0:12:35.120 --> 0:12:37.440 that's very nicely I was gonna say, manicureed I don't 0:12:37.440 --> 0:12:39.320 know what the corect is, or they'll be like, oh, 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:41.760 you're looking jack like you've been in the gym. That's 0:12:41.800 --> 0:12:43.960 what men will say to each other. So it's another 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:47.040 form of basically saying, oh, you look pretty. But it's 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:50.000 it's an interesting one with men too, because men will 0:12:50.040 --> 0:12:53.720 absolutely rip into each other and say the most awful things, 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:56.120 and it's all under the guise of it being a 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:59.040 bit of a joke, whereas women would never make those comments. 0:12:59.040 --> 0:13:01.720 They'd only do it behind other women's backs. Yeah, which, 0:13:01.720 --> 0:13:03.880 I don't know what's worse. So if there's one more 0:13:03.960 --> 0:13:05.920 part of the TikTok I have to play you that 0:13:06.080 --> 0:13:06.880 cracked me up. 0:13:07.080 --> 0:13:07.840 Let's have a listen. 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:11.320 If both girls are pretty, why do they need to 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:12.240 tell each other they're pretty? 0:13:12.440 --> 0:13:15.200 Because they don't. 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:18.560 Though not all pretty girls know that they're pretty, lots 0:13:18.559 --> 0:13:21.000 the pretty girls are very insecure, like. 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:23.960 Me, I don't think I think you were pretty. 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:26.040 You wouldn't be posting yourself twenty four seven hours. I 0:13:26.080 --> 0:13:27.200 don't don't. 0:13:27.600 --> 0:13:29.640 I don't think I'm ugly, but I don't look in 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:32.880 the mirror and go, oh, you're so dropped at gorgeous. 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:35.160 I look in the mirror and I pick at myself. 0:13:35.160 --> 0:13:39.199 And that's what most women do. So it's uplifting, it's kind, 0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:40.239 it's nice. 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:44.160 I get what Sky is saying, because often you can 0:13:44.200 --> 0:13:48.640 assume that someone is up themselves, or that they're overly 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:51.120 confident because they're putting themselves out there, or maybe they 0:13:51.120 --> 0:13:53.720 wear a lot of makeup, whatever it may be. But 0:13:53.840 --> 0:13:56.200 quite often the person is having to go to that 0:13:56.320 --> 0:13:58.920 extent to do themselves up or put themselves out there 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:01.200 because they are in secure and they want the validation. 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:02.120 Well, I think the. 0:14:02.080 --> 0:14:04.959 Moral of this story is continue to pay people compliments. 0:14:05.800 --> 0:14:07.360 So you won't let me pay for anything for the 0:14:07.400 --> 0:14:08.360 weddings I've gotten to. 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:11.079 That was another question, who's paid for the wedding? 0:14:11.960 --> 0:14:12.800 I've got the DJ? 0:14:13.040 --> 0:14:20.480 All right, look, you lot can go on Google at 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:22.720 Google my wage. 0:14:23.360 --> 0:14:27.400 Yeah no, but if if I'm still on army wage, 0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:28.760 we'd have just scheduled everything down. 0:14:29.120 --> 0:14:30.400 No, no, yeah, we would have done it. 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:32.880 It just means that like all the money I've saved 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:37.000 up would well would be gone on a wedding, which 0:14:37.000 --> 0:14:40.880 is what everyone does. Yeah, whereas we're in a nice 0:14:40.920 --> 0:14:44.920 fortunate team position where I'm still able to keep them 0:14:44.960 --> 0:14:46.280 most of my savings. 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:48.280 We've kind of done it off, like percentages of earnings. 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:50.080 That's I think that's probably what most people do. 0:14:50.200 --> 0:14:52.480 Yeah, like we're not going to go fifty to fifty 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:53.000 on something. 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:56.280 No, I've got no problem or qualms with the fact 0:14:56.320 --> 0:14:59.240 that you know, you earn more money than I do 0:14:59.280 --> 0:15:00.000 and we've got to combine. 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:04.040 And is such a taboo, But it doesn't need to be. 0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:07.200 Ye, Like, it doesn't to hide what I am because 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:07.920 you could google it. 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:10.960 Listen to an episode of the Yeah very true. 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:13.000 I was listening to an episode of the Girl's Barroom 0:15:13.040 --> 0:15:14.840 and they were talking loads about money, and one of 0:15:14.880 --> 0:15:16.640 the questions was like when you go on dates, how 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:18.960 like how do you split a date? And like the 0:15:19.000 --> 0:15:22.120 main thing that people came back with was you sort 0:15:22.160 --> 0:15:25.120 of do it on percentage of earnings. Yeah, so like 0:15:25.240 --> 0:15:27.880 if someone earns more, that'll get maybe two to like 0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:29.040 one dinner dates. 0:15:29.280 --> 0:15:31.960 Yeah, I've just seen a good question about divorced parents 0:15:31.960 --> 0:15:33.040 and stuff and feel intention. 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:39.320 UK influencer Zoe Haig has broken her YouTube silence after 0:15:39.400 --> 0:15:43.920 her much anticipated wedding to partner Danny ray So. Zoe 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:47.720 is the sister of Molly May Haig, and she explained 0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:51.120 that her three week radio silence from YouTube was due 0:15:51.120 --> 0:15:54.400 to a family member ruining her SD card. So this 0:15:54.640 --> 0:15:58.680 SD card contained vision of the lead up to her wedding, which. 0:15:58.480 --> 0:15:59.400 She was going to share. 0:15:59.640 --> 0:16:03.440 What an absolute nightmare, like, not only if you're a YouTuber, 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:06.560 but just in general, if you'd captured these important memories 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:08.080 and the lead up to your wedding and they'd been 0:16:08.080 --> 0:16:11.320 destroyed by someone. And this SD card was destroyed in 0:16:11.360 --> 0:16:15.280 the most bizarre circumstances because Zoe and her family were 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:17.920 out on a boat and one of the family members 0:16:17.920 --> 0:16:19.760 had a drone and they were like, oh, I'd love 0:16:19.840 --> 0:16:22.200 to fly the drone, but I don't have an SD card. 0:16:22.520 --> 0:16:24.920 And Zoe had a camera with her, so she's like, oh, here, 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:27.000 you can borrow my SD card, and she made a 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:29.120 joke about but do not lose this. 0:16:29.040 --> 0:16:30.600 Because it's really really important. 0:16:30.800 --> 0:16:33.000 So as they're going along in the boat, they start 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:37.160 up the drone. The drone falls into the water and 0:16:37.200 --> 0:16:39.000 it destroys the SD card. 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:42.000 Oh my god, what an absolute nightmare. 0:16:42.640 --> 0:16:44.960 I always get nervous when people fly drones, and it 0:16:45.040 --> 0:16:47.520 is for this reason because you can never trust them, 0:16:47.560 --> 0:16:50.200 like they get out of your eyesight, they can fall 0:16:50.240 --> 0:16:50.840 into water. 0:16:51.000 --> 0:16:52.760 Like it's just there's. 0:16:52.560 --> 0:16:54.280 A lot going on when you fly drone. I've flown 0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:56.960 them before and it is quite scary. Now a few 0:16:57.000 --> 0:17:00.440 people have messaged us saying please talk about Zoe's wedding, 0:17:00.840 --> 0:17:04.160 and we are talking about it now because Zoe and 0:17:04.320 --> 0:17:07.879 Danny have finally released a few more details about this wedding. 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:10.280 This wedding was getting a lot of press in the 0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:12.560 UK when it happened a few weeks ago. It was 0:17:12.600 --> 0:17:15.199 all over my TikTok feed and I was dying to 0:17:15.280 --> 0:17:17.960 find out more details about the wedding. I found it 0:17:18.040 --> 0:17:21.480 quite surprising all of the media coverage because Zoe is 0:17:21.520 --> 0:17:24.000 known as being the more down to earth sister, so 0:17:24.040 --> 0:17:26.160 she used to work in the army, and it's only 0:17:26.200 --> 0:17:28.840 been over the last year or so that she's focused 0:17:28.880 --> 0:17:30.439 on her social media career. 0:17:30.640 --> 0:17:31.480 So it was a bit of a. 0:17:31.400 --> 0:17:33.960 Shock to a lot of her followers when everyone saw 0:17:34.000 --> 0:17:38.320 the paparazzi rock up. I wasn't surprised because my understanding 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:40.880 is they weren't really there for Zoe. They were there 0:17:40.880 --> 0:17:44.640 for Molly because Molly will sneeze and the media will 0:17:44.640 --> 0:17:46.560 report on it like they are obsessed with her. 0:17:46.600 --> 0:17:48.440 She is the UK's biggest influence. 0:17:48.480 --> 0:17:50.680 Yeah, you're definitely right, but I think it has also 0:17:50.800 --> 0:17:54.359 grown Zoe and Danny's profile. And there are reports that 0:17:54.560 --> 0:17:59.000 searchers for Lakes District's weddings, which they had, has skyrocketed 0:17:59.040 --> 0:18:02.760 after their big day, with searches up by one thousand, three. 0:18:02.600 --> 0:18:04.159 Hundred and fourteen percent. 0:18:04.560 --> 0:18:07.760 As Australians, we're so lucky having our weddings outside because 0:18:07.800 --> 0:18:10.280 most of the time people will have an outdoor ceremony 0:18:10.280 --> 0:18:13.119 and will be beautiful weather. However, I was talking to 0:18:13.280 --> 0:18:15.639 an English couple who flew over for my sister in 0:18:15.720 --> 0:18:18.879 law's wedding and it was held in the botanical gardens, 0:18:18.880 --> 0:18:21.240 and they were just saying, like, we cannot get over 0:18:21.280 --> 0:18:24.520 this wedding, Like no one has their weddings outside. 0:18:24.600 --> 0:18:26.520 We're all stuck in these you know. 0:18:26.560 --> 0:18:30.520 Awful little chapels or buildings or whatever weather and everything, 0:18:30.520 --> 0:18:32.920 because the weather's always so shit. But but for Zoe, 0:18:33.359 --> 0:18:36.560 they had their wedding outside in this beautiful guarding setting, 0:18:36.560 --> 0:18:39.880 as you say, at the Lake Districts. Luckily they missed 0:18:40.000 --> 0:18:42.560