1 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to Outspoken. It's your dose of the 2 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: hottest influencer and pop culture news twice a week. I'm 3 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: Sophie Torba and coming up on today's show, the TikTok 4 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: couple forced to flee their new home, Why Sky Wheatley 5 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 1: can't stop complimenting strangers, and Zoe Haig's surprise wedding budget. 6 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 1: But first, Sarah's Day is livid with her husband Kurt 7 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: for his night our antics. A pregnant Sarah, who is 8 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 1: a self confessed early bird, says she's been led astray 9 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 1: by his late night routine. I let it happen again 10 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 1: my best friend aka night Our husband infiltrated my night 11 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 1: and has effectively ruined my day. 12 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 2: Yep, room him. He has ruined my day. I know 13 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 2: I'm in charge of my own bedtime. Like I am 14 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 2: thirty one years old, I'm twenty seven weeks pregnant. 15 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 1: But like I just I have fomo if he's awake 16 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: at midnight. 17 00:00:57,880 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 2: I don't want to be awake at midnight, but like 18 00:00:59,280 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 2: I want to chat. 19 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 1: Sarah went on to say how terrible she was feeling 20 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 1: with the lack of quality sleep, and it made her 21 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:08,319 Speaker 1: reflect on the fact that she is going to be 22 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:11,479 Speaker 1: feeling shit like this all the time when baby number 23 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,639 Speaker 1: three is here and she's doing overnight feeds. I'm always 24 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 1: curious to find out what different couples do when it 25 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: comes to their sleeping habits, because my partner, he tends 26 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:23,759 Speaker 1: to go to bed a lot earlier than me. I'm 27 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:26,479 Speaker 1: kurt in this situation. I am the night out, but it. 28 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 3: Seems to work for us. 29 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: When I first moved in with Brandon, I thought I'd 30 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 1: be like you and be staying up late and he'd 31 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 1: be going to bed early. But we have this routine 32 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 1: where we go to bed at the same time. And 33 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 1: I think that's because we watch the same shows. We'll 34 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:41,119 Speaker 1: give each other shows a go so you don't feel 35 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 1: like you have to be staying up late to get 36 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:44,839 Speaker 1: finally a turn to watch your show. 37 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 3: But it's more so. 38 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: Sometimes he starts as early as four point thirty in 39 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 1: the morning, or I mean most mornings he'll get to 40 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: work at about six am, so he goes to bed 41 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 1: super early, and I'm just I'm not about that. 42 00:01:58,440 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 3: No, I couldn't do that. 43 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 1: I think you can suddenly become a morning person. No, 44 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think you were either born 45 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: a night hour or a morning person, and it's very, 46 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: very difficult to change me. 47 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 4: After realizing that everything I own is being stolen. 48 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: Popular TikTok couple Isabel Peltz and Mitch O'Leary have been 49 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: forced to flee their new home after just three nights. 50 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:25,079 Speaker 1: The couple were targeted by thieves who broke into their 51 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: home whilst they were at an influencer event in Sydney 52 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:30,959 Speaker 1: now Amy. For those who haven't heard of the couple, 53 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: what are they best known for? Well, they went viral 54 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: on TikTok last year after they shared a video each 55 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: morning of them dancing to wake up via the vamps 56 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 1: and this song is all about seizing the day and 57 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: being grateful for what you have. They now boast over 58 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: six hundred thousand followers on TikTok and are known for 59 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 1: their fun, positive content. 60 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 5: So. 61 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 1: Isabelle is just nineteen and she works as an influencer, 62 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 1: so she's done collaborations with brands like Beginning Boutique and 63 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:02,080 Speaker 1: pepper Mao Whilse. Mitch is twenty two and he owns 64 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: Popular Street where brand outdated Now. They used to live 65 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 1: in Queensland, but they recently moved to Adelaide. That's a 66 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 1: weird decision as an Adelaide person, Why when you're building 67 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:17,360 Speaker 1: an influencer career would you move from Brisbane to Adelaide 68 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: Because there are not that many pr opportunities here. 69 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:21,079 Speaker 2: We don't have. 70 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 1: Big influencer events. It's a very small influencer community. Arguably 71 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 1: a lot of the influencers in Adelaide don't have many 72 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 1: genuine folds. I think Mitch is originally from Adelaide, so 73 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 1: that was part of their decision. So just last week, 74 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 1: isabel shared a series of tiktoks which she dubbed her 75 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 1: Moving Diaries, and she took followers along the journey of 76 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: moving into their new rental. And isabel not only showed 77 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: shots of the interior of the house, but also the exterior, 78 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: including vision of. 79 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 3: Their house number. 80 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: Now I won't say what suburb it is in Adelaide, 81 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 1: just in case they choose to live around there again. 82 00:03:57,760 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 3: But if you know the. 83 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 1: Area, you would have been able to instantly identify where 84 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 1: it was. Now thieves took their chance when Isabelle shared 85 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: that she and Mitch were heading to Sydney for an 86 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: influencer event, and when the couple returned home, they found 87 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 1: their bedroom window had been smashed, and bizarrely, only Mitch's 88 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:18,160 Speaker 1: belongings had been stolen. 89 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 3: Let's have a listen to what went down. 90 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 6: If you did this, I don't know what Mitch did 91 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 6: to you, but thanks to. 92 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 7: Leaving my staff for someone obviously, but anyway, enjoy everything 93 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 7: that you stole of mine in the house. So yeah, 94 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:33,480 Speaker 7: Mitch pretty much doesn't really have much to his name 95 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 7: at the minute. 96 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 4: One thing they didn't steal my humor, I didn't take 97 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 4: that on now. 98 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: Thieves also took Mitch's spare key to his you and 99 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:46,359 Speaker 1: whilst they didn't steal the car, they did access it 100 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 1: and they took coins and the sunglasses he'd left in there. 101 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:50,479 Speaker 3: They did leave one pair. 102 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 1: They were joking that maybe they weren't the robbers type. 103 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 1: This is reminding me of when Shiny Grimman got robbed 104 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 1: because the thieves had her car keys, so in this 105 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 1: instance it meant they could come back and use her 106 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: car whenever they wanted. But they also left random things 107 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 1: that weren't to their liking. It makes me feel like 108 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:13,159 Speaker 1: these it's a gang of very young people. 109 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:14,040 Speaker 3: I wonder if it has. 110 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:17,039 Speaker 1: Something to do with Mitch's business success because I see 111 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 1: those outdated hoodies everywhere, so people would be jealous of it. 112 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 1: I don't think they're necessarily doing it and targeting him 113 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:24,840 Speaker 1: because they're jealous of him. I think they just saw 114 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 1: an opportunity and thought, well, if he's running this successful brand, 115 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 1: he probably has a lot of cash. 116 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 3: And it was pretty easy for. 117 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 1: Them because they've been brazen enough to put where they live. 118 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 1: They you know, you just go to real estate dot 119 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 1: com you can figure out where most rentals are. You 120 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 1: would stem from jealousy, though, people would see that a 121 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 1: lot of these influencers have a lot of flashy things, 122 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 1: and then they're jealous, so people want to break in. 123 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 3: And steal it. 124 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 1: I think that it's either the jealousy or it's maybe 125 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: the thieves got disturbed and they had just started taking 126 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 1: Mitch's stuff, because you can see in the vision that 127 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 1: there's a few socks and different items that are just 128 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 1: strewn all over their driveways, so it's clear the thieves 129 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: left in a hurry. 130 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:06,039 Speaker 3: My favorite part of this story. 131 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 1: Though, is the fact that Mitch and Isabelle decided to 132 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 1: set up their own sting, so they put up a 133 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: series of fake posts saying that they were heading back 134 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:18,239 Speaker 1: into state following the robbery to see if the thieves 135 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:21,480 Speaker 1: would return. It's clever, but it's also dangerous because they 136 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 1: were almost sitting ducks waiting for thieves thieves to return 137 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:29,720 Speaker 1: and potentially I mean, stats show that most home invasions 138 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: do turn vile. Well, they shared a TikTok days later 139 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: and it showed them giggling in bed as they armed 140 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,839 Speaker 1: themselves with household items to protect themselves. 141 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 3: Let's have a listen. 142 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 6: So Mitchell's weapon of choice is hammer, so we've gotten 143 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 6: this podcast or everything else? Mine mine is two screen 144 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 6: and enough that was used to cut up your state. 145 00:06:56,800 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: And now they were clearly joking, but this gives me 146 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 1: so much anxiety. Because the thieves had the keys to 147 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 1: Mitch's car, it was likely they were going to return. 148 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: I know it's supposed to be a joke, but generally 149 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 1: with home invasions, the people in the home generally get 150 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: the weapons turned back on them and things escalate from there. Well, 151 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: the scariest thing is the robbers actually did return, So 152 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 1: poor Mitch and Isabel were woken in the middle of 153 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 1: the night by the sound of multiple people trying to 154 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 1: break into the house. However, once the robbers realized the 155 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 1: couple were inside, they fled and there hasn't been any 156 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 1: update yet from Essay Police about whether any arrests have 157 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 1: been made, did they set up any security cameras or 158 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 1: anything like that. Don't understand why you would antagonize someone 159 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 1: but then not have a proper plan of attack, because 160 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 1: in this situation, they haven't caught anyone on camera robbing 161 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: from them. They've just put themselves in a dangerous situation. 162 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 1: There's no police action taking place, and subsequently it sounds 163 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: like they've been forced to move out of this rental 164 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 1: and go and find safety else. 165 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. 166 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 1: Well, we've spoken in the past about influencers like Molly 167 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 1: May and Chloe Zett being robbed, and I'm just so 168 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: surprised that influencers continue to share so many identifiable features 169 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 1: about their houses online. 170 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 3: It's a double edged sword. 171 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 1: Though, because I can see from the perspective of an influencer, 172 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 1: it's great to take your followers on a journey with you, 173 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: and it's relatable to be moving into a new rental 174 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 1: into state. 175 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 3: However, just think you need to be careful. 176 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 1: Don't ever show the outside of your house don't ever 177 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 1: show your house number, don't ever identify which suburb you 178 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:37,679 Speaker 1: live in. Those things are crucial because people will take 179 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: advantage of you. Well, they clearly were foolish for doing that, 180 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 1: but we've got to remember they're nineteen and twenty two. 181 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 1: And I have to say I hadn't heard of them 182 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:49,439 Speaker 1: until I saw this story pop up, and I actually 183 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: quite like them from watching their tiktoks. They seem really positive, 184 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 1: like they weren't winging about it. You know, sometimes when 185 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: something terrible happens and you see these big named influencers 186 00:08:57,840 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 1: who crack the shits. 187 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 3: They were actually very cool about the whole thing. They 188 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:02,439 Speaker 3: laughed at all. 189 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: We often get people asking in our Facebook community who 190 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,679 Speaker 1: can I follow online? Who's someone new? And it sounds 191 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 1: like they're quite a good couple. Yeah, one that's actually 192 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 1: is sharing about their life. Maybe they need to set 193 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: up a few more boundaries. But it's always fun following 194 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 1: people when they're starting out their career or. 195 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 3: They happen quiet. They've got six hundred thousand followers on TikTok. 196 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:24,120 Speaker 1: Six hundred thousand on TikTok isn't that big? Like some 197 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 1: people have a million followers and they're still not making 198 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 1: a full time living off it. 199 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 5: Something non genuine about two hot girls, but already probably 200 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 5: get a million compliments compliment each. 201 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:41,320 Speaker 1: Other, Sophie, I wantn't know where do you stand on 202 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 1: complimenting strangers in public, because Sky Wheatley and her partner 203 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 1: Lockey have sparked debate about the sincerity behind it. I'm 204 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 1: a big one for giving strangers compliments. 205 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 3: I am known. 206 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 1: If I go order food or if I buy something 207 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:59,680 Speaker 1: at the shop, I will often generally girls, I don't 208 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: give compliments. 209 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:03,199 Speaker 3: I will always give a girl a compliment. Yeah, you're always. 210 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 1: Every time someone serves you, you will notice their nails. 211 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 1: You're like, oh my god, I love your nails. And 212 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 1: it's genuine. They always have really nice names. 213 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 2: Genuine. 214 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: But I also think it's I do it because I 215 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 1: think it's a way to almost make someone's day. Like 216 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 1: I know that set might sound to be over the top, 217 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:18,680 Speaker 1: but if I notice something, I think. 218 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 3: Oh, that's really cute, I think why not say it? 219 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 1: Because sometimes those comments can really bolster you up if 220 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:27,599 Speaker 1: you're having a shit day. And again, it's also a 221 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:29,680 Speaker 1: good way to strike up a conversation with someone and 222 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 1: be friendly. Yeah, well, Skywheatley is the same as you, 223 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 1: because she was in Kmart when a woman approached her 224 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: saying you're so pretty, and she replied you too, babe. Now, 225 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 1: Sky told Locky she genuinely thought the woman was attractive 226 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:45,680 Speaker 1: when she walked past her, so that's why she was 227 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 1: so quick to repay the compliment. However, this is what 228 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: Lockie had to say. 229 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 5: I just think that when girls say that to other girls, 230 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 5: it's just like, I feel it's a bit fake. 231 00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 4: I don't think it's quite genuine. I think it's more 232 00:10:59,200 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 4: like a jealousy. 233 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 2: Oh oh my gosh. Do you know how many times 234 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 2: I compliment strangers. I've always been like that. I always 235 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:11,319 Speaker 2: compliment strangers. 236 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 8: I always say you have nice eyes, you have a 237 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 8: beautiful smile, like it's a nice thing to do. 238 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 2: Oh my god, this man, I just can't. I can't 239 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 2: quite put my finger on it. 240 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 5: I really can't. But I just feel like it'd be 241 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 5: like it'd be like one male going up to another male. 242 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 2: Saying, Oh, you're really hot, bro. 243 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 5: You're no. It's not completely different. 244 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 1: Why, because females and men are completely different. I don't 245 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 1: understand his point about it being a jealousy. Thing, because 246 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 1: quite often I find if people are jealous, it's human 247 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 1: nature to then not bring forth the great qualities about 248 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 1: that person. If anything, you're trying and drag them down. 249 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 1: I think I think he's getting confused, and I think 250 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 1: he thinks it's a bit like on Mean Girls, the movie, 251 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 1: you know, when they're like, I love your embrace and 252 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: they're like, that's the fucking ugliest bracelet I've ever seen. 253 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 1: I think he thinks that they're fake compliments. I don't 254 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 1: know people doing that in the shops though, or just 255 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 1: in public. Maybe it's fake compliments if it's to someone 256 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 1: you don't like in your life friends. I have another 257 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 1: take on Lockey's point about male compliments. While I agree, 258 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 1: I've never heard two men compliment each other at the 259 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:21,960 Speaker 1: shop by telling each other they're hot. I do think 260 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 1: men compliment each other in other ways. So they might 261 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:29,199 Speaker 1: compliment them about their cut or they're bid is a 262 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 1: big one. That's the male equivalent of clothes. They'd be like, oh, 263 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:35,079 Speaker 1: look at it, how lush that guy's beard is, or 264 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 1: that's very nicely I was gonna say, manicureed I don't 265 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 1: know what the corect is, or they'll be like, oh, 266 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 1: you're looking jack like you've been in the gym. That's 267 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: what men will say to each other. So it's another 268 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 1: form of basically saying, oh, you look pretty. But it's 269 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 1: it's an interesting one with men too, because men will 270 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 1: absolutely rip into each other and say the most awful things, 271 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 1: and it's all under the guise of it being a 272 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 1: bit of a joke, whereas women would never make those comments. 273 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 1: They'd only do it behind other women's backs. Yeah, which, 274 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 1: I don't know what's worse. So if there's one more 275 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 1: part of the TikTok I have to play you that 276 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 1: cracked me up. 277 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 3: Let's have a listen. 278 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 5: If both girls are pretty, why do they need to 279 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 5: tell each other they're pretty? 280 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 4: Because they don't. 281 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 1: Though not all pretty girls know that they're pretty, lots 282 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 1: the pretty girls are very insecure, like. 283 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 5: Me, I don't think I think you were pretty. 284 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 2: You wouldn't be posting yourself twenty four seven hours. I 285 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 2: don't don't. 286 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 8: I don't think I'm ugly, but I don't look in 287 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 8: the mirror and go, oh, you're so dropped at gorgeous. 288 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 8: I look in the mirror and I pick at myself. 289 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:39,199 Speaker 2: And that's what most women do. So it's uplifting, it's kind, 290 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:40,239 Speaker 2: it's nice. 291 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: I get what Sky is saying, because often you can 292 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 1: assume that someone is up themselves, or that they're overly 293 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 1: confident because they're putting themselves out there, or maybe they 294 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 1: wear a lot of makeup, whatever it may be. But 295 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:56,200 Speaker 1: quite often the person is having to go to that 296 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 1: extent to do themselves up or put themselves out there 297 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:01,200 Speaker 1: because they are in secure and they want the validation. 298 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 3: Well, I think the. 299 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:04,959 Speaker 1: Moral of this story is continue to pay people compliments. 300 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 4: So you won't let me pay for anything for the 301 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 4: weddings I've gotten to. 302 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:11,079 Speaker 2: That was another question, who's paid for the wedding? 303 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 4: I've got the DJ? 304 00:14:13,040 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 7: All right, look, you lot can go on Google at 305 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 7: Google my wage. 306 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 8: Yeah no, but if if I'm still on army wage, 307 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 8: we'd have just scheduled everything down. 308 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 4: No, no, yeah, we would have done it. 309 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:32,880 Speaker 7: It just means that like all the money I've saved 310 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 7: up would well would be gone on a wedding, which 311 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 7: is what everyone does. Yeah, whereas we're in a nice 312 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 7: fortunate team position where I'm still able to keep them 313 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 7: most of my savings. 314 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 2: We've kind of done it off, like percentages of earnings. 315 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 4: That's I think that's probably what most people do. 316 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, like we're not going to go fifty to fifty 317 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 2: on something. 318 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 7: No, I've got no problem or qualms with the fact 319 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:59,240 Speaker 7: that you know, you earn more money than I do 320 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 7: and we've got to combine. 321 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 2: And is such a taboo, But it doesn't need to be. 322 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 4: Ye, Like, it doesn't to hide what I am because 323 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 4: you could google it. 324 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 2: Listen to an episode of the Yeah very true. 325 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 8: I was listening to an episode of the Girl's Barroom 326 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 8: and they were talking loads about money, and one of 327 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 8: the questions was like when you go on dates, how 328 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 8: like how do you split a date? And like the 329 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 8: main thing that people came back with was you sort 330 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 8: of do it on percentage of earnings. Yeah, so like 331 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 8: if someone earns more, that'll get maybe two to like 332 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 8: one dinner dates. 333 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, I've just seen a good question about divorced parents 334 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 7: and stuff and feel intention. 335 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 1: UK influencer Zoe Haig has broken her YouTube silence after 336 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 1: her much anticipated wedding to partner Danny ray So. Zoe 337 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: is the sister of Molly May Haig, and she explained 338 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 1: that her three week radio silence from YouTube was due 339 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 1: to a family member ruining her SD card. So this 340 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 1: SD card contained vision of the lead up to her wedding, which. 341 00:15:58,480 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 3: She was going to share. 342 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 1: What an absolute nightmare, like, not only if you're a YouTuber, 343 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 1: but just in general, if you'd captured these important memories 344 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 1: and the lead up to your wedding and they'd been 345 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:11,320 Speaker 1: destroyed by someone. And this SD card was destroyed in 346 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 1: the most bizarre circumstances because Zoe and her family were 347 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 1: out on a boat and one of the family members 348 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 1: had a drone and they were like, oh, I'd love 349 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 1: to fly the drone, but I don't have an SD card. 350 00:16:22,520 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 1: And Zoe had a camera with her, so she's like, oh, here, 351 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: you can borrow my SD card, and she made a 352 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 1: joke about but do not lose this. 353 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:30,600 Speaker 3: Because it's really really important. 354 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 1: So as they're going along in the boat, they start 355 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:37,160 Speaker 1: up the drone. The drone falls into the water and 356 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 1: it destroys the SD card. 357 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 3: Oh my god, what an absolute nightmare. 358 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 1: I always get nervous when people fly drones, and it 359 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 1: is for this reason because you can never trust them, 360 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 1: like they get out of your eyesight, they can fall 361 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 1: into water. 362 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 3: Like it's just there's. 363 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 1: A lot going on when you fly drone. I've flown 364 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 1: them before and it is quite scary. Now a few 365 00:16:57,000 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 1: people have messaged us saying please talk about Zoe's wedding, 366 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:04,160 Speaker 1: and we are talking about it now because Zoe and 367 00:17:04,320 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 1: Danny have finally released a few more details about this wedding. 368 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 1: This wedding was getting a lot of press in the 369 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 1: UK when it happened a few weeks ago. It was 370 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:15,199 Speaker 1: all over my TikTok feed and I was dying to 371 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 1: find out more details about the wedding. I found it 372 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:21,480 Speaker 1: quite surprising all of the media coverage because Zoe is 373 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 1: known as being the more down to earth sister, so 374 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:26,160 Speaker 1: she used to work in the army, and it's only 375 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 1: been over the last year or so that she's focused 376 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:30,439 Speaker 1: on her social media career. 377 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 3: So it was a bit of a. 378 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:33,960 Speaker 1: Shock to a lot of her followers when everyone saw 379 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 1: the paparazzi rock up. I wasn't surprised because my understanding 380 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:40,880 Speaker 1: is they weren't really there for Zoe. They were there 381 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:44,640 Speaker 1: for Molly because Molly will sneeze and the media will 382 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 1: report on it like they are obsessed with her. 383 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 3: She is the UK's biggest influence. 384 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:50,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're definitely right, but I think it has also 385 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:54,359 Speaker 1: grown Zoe and Danny's profile. And there are reports that 386 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 1: searchers for Lakes District's weddings, which they had, has skyrocketed 387 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 1: after their big day, with searches up by one thousand, three. 388 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:04,159 Speaker 3: Hundred and fourteen percent. 389 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 1: As Australians, we're so lucky having our weddings outside because 390 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 1: most of the time people will have an outdoor ceremony 391 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:13,119 Speaker 1: and will be beautiful weather. However, I was talking to 392 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:15,639 Speaker 1: an English couple who flew over for my sister in 393 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:18,879 Speaker 1: law's wedding and it was held in the botanical gardens, 394 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: and they were just saying, like, we cannot get over 395 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 1: this wedding, Like no one has their weddings outside. 396 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:26,520 Speaker 3: We're all stuck in these you know. 397 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 1: Awful little chapels or buildings or whatever weather and everything, 398 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:32,920 Speaker 1: because the weather's always so shit. But but for Zoe, 399 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 1: they had their wedding outside in this beautiful guarding setting, 400 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:39,880 Speaker 1: as you say, at the Lake Districts. Luckily they missed 401 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 1: a sprinkle of rain, like it was perfect weather for them, 402 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:45,399 Speaker 1: and her partner looked like Prince Charming because he was 403 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:49,200 Speaker 1: dressed in some sort of soldier outfit. They would look 404 00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:51,120 Speaker 1: like he was part of the royal family. Yeah, because 405 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: he's still serving in the army. But apparently they've got 406 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 1: a lot of people saying, why is he dressed up 407 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 1: like Prince Charles? 408 00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 3: Is he pretending to be royal? I liked it. I 409 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:01,119 Speaker 3: was like, God, I wish Brandon could have worn something 410 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:03,160 Speaker 3: like that. There's something about. 411 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 1: That uniform, there definitely is. And there has been a 412 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:09,119 Speaker 1: lot of interest into how much they spent on their wedding, 413 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 1: because The Sun in the UK reported that they dropped 414 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:15,919 Speaker 1: two hundred thousand pounds on the day, but Zoe and 415 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 1: Danny were quick to host down these reports, so they 416 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,959 Speaker 1: told their YouTube followers that their wedding actually costs between 417 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: forty to fifty thousand pounds. Zoe also revealed, and this 418 00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:29,440 Speaker 1: really surprised me, that her dress cost two thousand pounds, 419 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:32,159 Speaker 1: so that was her ceremony dress, and she also had 420 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:35,560 Speaker 1: an eight hundred dollars reception dress. Let's throw to what 421 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:36,359 Speaker 1: she said about it. 422 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 8: But I got it from a shop near us called 423 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 8: the Nutsford Wedding Gallery. It was a designer called Mullinova, 424 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:47,400 Speaker 8: and it was sorry eight hundred pounds, which is quite 425 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:50,119 Speaker 8: expensive for a second dress. But I thought, because my 426 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 8: first dress was only two thousand pounds, two dresses together 427 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 8: being less than three thousand pounds, that's more than that's 428 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:59,680 Speaker 8: less than what people spent for like wonderful dress smashed. 429 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 4: It didn't you. 430 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 1: We've got to remember that is pounds. But I was 431 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:06,679 Speaker 1: astoundard that that's all she's spent, particularly when we see 432 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 1: Molly made her sister. 433 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:09,479 Speaker 3: Living quite large. 434 00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:12,119 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think Molly could barely lift her 435 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 1: bloody hand. Her ring is that enormous. And I'm sure 436 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:18,440 Speaker 1: that her wedding dress is going to be some custom 437 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:23,439 Speaker 1: made coature gown that's tens of thousands of pounds. Zoe 438 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:26,159 Speaker 1: said that she got Molly to actually pick out the 439 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 1: bridesmaid's dresses and she opted for some courture gowns. I 440 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:33,400 Speaker 1: think that's almost a bit unfair that the bride'smaids potentially 441 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:36,399 Speaker 1: had more expensive dresses. Well, she didn't say whether they 442 00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 1: were more expensive, but she did be tho. Well, she 443 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:40,399 Speaker 1: just basically said, oh, I couldn't be bothered, so I 444 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 1: just left it up to Molly, and I really liked 445 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 1: the dresses that she chose. In the end, do we 446 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 1: think that Molly foot the bill for those then I'm 447 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:48,919 Speaker 1: not sure they didn't touch on that, but they have 448 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 1: been really open, as I said, about talking about their budget, 449 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:56,679 Speaker 1: which I have found really fascinating because before they got married, 450 00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:59,439 Speaker 1: Zoe and Danny did a Q and A and they 451 00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,360 Speaker 1: were asked about how they divided up the costs. 452 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 3: Let's have a listen to what they said. 453 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:06,760 Speaker 4: So, yeah, you won't let me pay for anything for 454 00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 4: the weddings I've gotten to. 455 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 2: That was another question, who's paid for the wedding? 456 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:19,160 Speaker 7: I've got the DJ All right, look, you lot can 457 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:22,200 Speaker 7: go on Google at Google my wage. 458 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 8: Yeah no, but if if I was still on on 459 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:28,239 Speaker 8: army wage, we would have just scheduled everything down. 460 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:29,880 Speaker 4: No, no, yeah, we would have done it. 461 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 7: It just means that like all the money I've saved 462 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 7: up would well would be going on a wedding, which 463 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:40,360 Speaker 7: is what everyone does. Yeah, whereas we're in a nice 464 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:44,359 Speaker 7: fortunate team position where I'm still able to keep them 465 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 7: most of my savings part. 466 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 2: We've kind of done it off like percentages of earnings. 467 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 4: That's I think that's probably what most people do. 468 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:51,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like we're not going to go fifty to fifty 469 00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 2: on something. 470 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 7: No, I've got no problem or qualms with the fact 471 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 7: that you know you earn more money than I do. 472 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:00,040 Speaker 4: And we've got a combined. 473 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,280 Speaker 2: Such a taboo, I don't know, but it doesn't need 474 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 2: to be. 475 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, like I need to hide what I am because 476 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:07,479 Speaker 4: you could google it. 477 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,479 Speaker 1: This is why everyone is falling in love with this 478 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:14,879 Speaker 1: couple because they're not shying away from awkward questions about money. 479 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:16,159 Speaker 3: They're happy to address it. 480 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:20,320 Speaker 1: And clearly Danny feels secure enough and comfortable enough to say, yeah, 481 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 1: Zoe did pay for the majority of it, but I 482 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 1: really wanted to help as much as I could. And yes, 483 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,199 Speaker 1: I don't earn as much money as her, because in 484 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:30,560 Speaker 1: the past a lot of men would hold shame about 485 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 1: the fact. 486 00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 3: That their partner earns more than them. But he seems 487 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 3: to be. 488 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:37,440 Speaker 1: Very proud about that, and they just seem so cute together. Well, 489 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:40,360 Speaker 1: I think the reason that Zoe is becoming so popular 490 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 1: too is she's always going to be the more relatable 491 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,359 Speaker 1: one than Molly Matt. Yeah, Like, she's probably the person 492 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:48,639 Speaker 1: that you go to to think, oh, okay, what's her 493 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 1: affordable outfit? 494 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:50,800 Speaker 3: She looks good, Yeah, it's. 495 00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:53,680 Speaker 1: Going to be within my budget, whereas with Molly May Yeah, 496 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 1: she's great for outfit inspo, but you know you're not 497 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 1: going to be able to afford anything that she's wearing. 498 00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,479 Speaker 1: I mean, I enjoy following them both. They don't need 499 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 1: to be pitted against each other. They're great, but it'd 500 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 1: be really interesting to look at their demographics, y what 501 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 1: their cell rate is. Well. In a recent vlog, Molly 502 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 1: was saying that Zoe had actually sold more of something 503 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 1: than her that's how strong her audience is. Let's kick 504 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 1: off our new segment called Agony Sisters. 505 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:22,240 Speaker 3: It's a play on Agony Aunts. 506 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:24,400 Speaker 1: Maybe we should have been the Agony Aunties because when 507 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,400 Speaker 1: new Aunties, but we thought Sisters was more fun. 508 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:26,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 509 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 1: We thought a lot of our followers might not have 510 00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,679 Speaker 1: sisters that they want to ask for advice from. So 511 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:35,159 Speaker 1: I always get honest advice from sisters, even sometimes you 512 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 1: don't want it to be so honest. 513 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,480 Speaker 3: We do have a mailbox you put up her Q 514 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 3: and A. 515 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,679 Speaker 1: But if this is something we're hopefully going to be 516 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:46,239 Speaker 1: doing every Friday, so send us in a DM what 517 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,280 Speaker 1: your issue is. It can be about anything, but the 518 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:50,560 Speaker 1: dms are a good space because they're a bit longer, 519 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 1: so you can give us more detail and we will 520 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:54,640 Speaker 1: keep you one hundred percent anonymous. 521 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:56,359 Speaker 3: So one of our listeners. 522 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:59,119 Speaker 1: Has asked what to do when your best friend doesn't 523 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 1: make time for you slash only when she wants something. 524 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 3: The difference with. 525 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:09,440 Speaker 1: Best friends and sisters is you often have to be 526 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 1: more thoughtful when approaching an issue with a best friend 527 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:16,360 Speaker 1: because they're not a family member. You have to really 528 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 1: think about what you're going to say. You don't want 529 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 1: to offend anyone. I know there are some best friends 530 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,159 Speaker 1: who can say anything to one another. 531 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,360 Speaker 3: So it's a really difficult one because you've got to. 532 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 1: Think about does my best friend have something big going 533 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,160 Speaker 1: on in her life? So is she busy because she's 534 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,000 Speaker 1: got a new partner, Is she busy because she's got 535 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:36,360 Speaker 1: a lot of pressures at work, or is it because 536 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 1: she is trying to freeze me out. I think you've 537 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 1: got to talk to her about it and approach it 538 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:46,440 Speaker 1: in a non confrontational, non aggressive way, because she might 539 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,719 Speaker 1: get her back up about it. If she's your best friend, 540 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:51,960 Speaker 1: you should be in a position where you can tell 541 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 1: her that you feel like she's not making time for you. 542 00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:59,200 Speaker 1: It's difficult because when people get older and maybe they 543 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:02,320 Speaker 1: get a long term partner or work gets really busy. 544 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:05,960 Speaker 1: Sometimes it's hard fitting everyone see. I think it would 545 00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 1: be difficult to say to your best friend, oh, you're 546 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:09,960 Speaker 1: not making time for me, because I feel like that 547 00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:14,040 Speaker 1: could spark an argument. I would almost do some little 548 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:17,359 Speaker 1: tests to see if they were genuinely busy, Like there 549 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,479 Speaker 1: might be genuine reasons why your best friend can't see 550 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 1: maybe you need to start making a big effort, Like 551 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 1: it sounds like you're already making an effort, but maybe 552 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,679 Speaker 1: you just need to go, hey, let's go out for dinner, 553 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:31,680 Speaker 1: like we really need to catch up. I feel like 554 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 1: I haven't seen you. I really miss you. I think 555 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 1: it's really important to set regular catch ups with people 556 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,159 Speaker 1: in your life that are important to see, like a 557 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:42,879 Speaker 1: best friend, for instance, we see our best friend at 558 00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 1: least once a week, so we will make time. 559 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 3: We know that there's going to. 560 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 1: Be some sort of lunch, dinner or house catch up. 561 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:52,560 Speaker 1: Same with our cousins who I classify as my best friends, 562 00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:55,200 Speaker 1: we see them every week. It's just with a best friend, 563 00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 1: it's just should be implied that there's going to be 564 00:25:57,560 --> 00:25:59,560 Speaker 1: regular catch ups. And that's really why you're feeling a 565 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 1: bit up because maybe these catch ups are starting to 566 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 1: dwindle and you're not seeing each other as much and 567 00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:08,480 Speaker 1: you're becoming disconnected in one another's lives, and she might 568 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:10,760 Speaker 1: want to see you. It might be that she's so 569 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,760 Speaker 1: genuinely busy, or maybe she's bogged down in this new 570 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:17,240 Speaker 1: relationship and she feels like she doesn't have the time 571 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 1: to see you, which is shit. 572 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 3: As a friend. 573 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 1: Receiving end of that, I've always got to make time 574 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:24,560 Speaker 1: for your friends. It's one thing that's really important, even 575 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 1: if you're in a new relationship, because those relationships can 576 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:31,119 Speaker 1: end and then you're left potentially with no friends. My 577 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 1: suggestion would be to reach out to her again, try 578 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 1: and see if you can catch up for dinner or 579 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 1: something that's face to face, and get a feel for 580 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:42,879 Speaker 1: what's going on in her life, if there are some 581 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 1: big events or moments going on that are keeping her 582 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:49,200 Speaker 1: really busy, and just say something like I really miss you. 583 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 1: Can we catch up more. I feel a bit sad 584 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 1: that we haven't been catching up regularly. Because if you're 585 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:56,880 Speaker 1: saying you're sad and you miss someone, they can't really 586 00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:58,679 Speaker 1: get mad. I have heard of this happening quite a 587 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:02,240 Speaker 1: bit when people get into their thirties. Sometimes their best 588 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,400 Speaker 1: friend goes hay Wi like, they just act a different way, 589 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,199 Speaker 1: and sometimes they almost need to be called out. All 590 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:11,480 Speaker 1: the friendship needs to end because they're not healthy. There's 591 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 1: some people who outgrow certain friends. 592 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, or you just becomes toxic. 593 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, it does become toxic, and you need to decide 594 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,159 Speaker 1: if you're willing to put up with that behavior. Because 595 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 1: a good friend will reach out, a good friend will 596 00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:29,119 Speaker 1: make time to see you. It's not that difficult to 597 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:31,879 Speaker 1: pick up your phone in this day and age and 598 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,959 Speaker 1: have a conversation. So yeah, you've got a weigh up. 599 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:36,960 Speaker 1: Obviously it's very difficult because we're only reading a small 600 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,480 Speaker 1: message here, but you have to weigh up whether the 601 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:42,080 Speaker 1: way they're treating you, whether you're happy for that to continue, 602 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:44,760 Speaker 1: or if you just need to broach the topic maybe 603 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,120 Speaker 1: firstly in a sensitive way and see how it goes 604 00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 1: from there. 605 00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 3: Well, good luck with it all. We hope it does 606 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:50,160 Speaker 3: work out. 607 00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 1: If you have a question for the Agony Sisters to 608 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:54,879 Speaker 1: send it in, well, thank you so much for listening 609 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:58,440 Speaker 1: to another episode. 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