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Speaker 1: It's a special Will and Woody podcast Mini. We are

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Speaker 1: joined in the studio woods right now by the two

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Speaker 1: women who run the undone podcast. Mum Me is the

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Speaker 1: undone podcast. Emily and Lucy in the studio. Hello, of course, welcome.

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Speaker 2: We're giving you on applause. But let's let's just cover

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Speaker 2: the elephant in the room ladies. So Will was a

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Speaker 2: guest on your podcast. Was we're a duo? What's the story?

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Speaker 3: Emily wife put me on the spot. Well, Will was

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Speaker 3: our first man. Yeah, so we had to test the

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Speaker 3: waters first, Yeah he did.

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Speaker 1: Does that mean that I'm like more feminine than Woody?

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Speaker 1: Like you felt like, you know, he was like more

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Speaker 1: of a march o guy.

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Speaker 4: So you sort of tipped your toe on the water

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Speaker 4: with me.

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Speaker 5: Maybe we wanted to extend the relationships. So maybe there's

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Speaker 5: an upcoming up like you don't know.

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Speaker 4: So you're thinking, maybe I will make an appearance on you.

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Speaker 3: I think do you have a dating story?

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Speaker 4: I'm sure I could think of one. I think of one.

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Speaker 1: You can think one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can think of a couple.

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Speaker 6: Maybe are they supposed to be good dating stories or

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Speaker 6: horror dating stories?

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Speaker 3: We prefer the horrid.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've got heaps.

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Speaker 1: They do like relationship wizards. So they run this podcast

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Speaker 1: called The Undone and he came up with a term

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Speaker 1: recently that I thought was like truly genius because everybody

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Speaker 1: can empathize with it. Emily took me through the eck.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so the ink is something that happens when you're

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Speaker 3: really attracted to someone and then they do something and

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Speaker 3: then you lose all attraction.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and then like everything they do from there is just.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, future can't bring it back.

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Speaker 4: Is there an example, Lucy?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Of course.

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Speaker 6: What would be one example of what someone's done in

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Speaker 6: front of you which has.

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Speaker 4: Made you go.

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Speaker 5: If the bath is too hot or like the shouts

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Speaker 5: too hot and they kind of put like a body

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Speaker 5: part in and it's too hot, so they go.

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Speaker 3: Very It's very like little thing so like if a

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Speaker 3: guy drops change and a coin rolls away and he

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Speaker 3: has to run after it, or running with the backpack

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Speaker 3: and holding the straps, are trying to call the check

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Speaker 3: for a waitress and she doesn't notice you.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, So now all very insignificant? Is that?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean that's significant to us?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, Oh my god, I feel so vulnerable all

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Speaker 7: of a sudden.

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Speaker 1: I've done all those things.

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Speaker 5: But we're not immune from it either, right, It is

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Speaker 5: just it's usually something really mundane and like a normal

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Speaker 5: everyday thing, like wearing invisible socks. You know, there's so Yeah,

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Speaker 5: the man takes up a shoe when I see a socket,

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Speaker 5: I'm out.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's totally fair enough. We've got more with Emily

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Speaker 7: and Lucy from Mom and MEA is the undone? Get

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Speaker 7: it wherever you get your podcast, just search the Undone.

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Speaker 7: Emily and Lucy they're going to stay with us in

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Speaker 7: the studio because we're having a boddy good time. We

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Speaker 7: have got the hosts of the Undone, which is a

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Speaker 7: podcast from Mum and mea search Mamma Maya the undone

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Speaker 7: rev get your podcasts. Emily and Lucy in the studio.

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Speaker 1: Now, guys, are you the fiftieth edition of your podcast?

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Speaker 1: I was the I was the guest for the fiftieth edition.

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Speaker 4: Would such Johns.

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Speaker 6: I've already said it in my jobs multiple times, but

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Speaker 6: the podcast is.

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Speaker 4: About a weird comment a number of times.

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Speaker 6: But guys, the podcast is it all about dating stuff?

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Speaker 6: Is that the vibe of the podcast or what is

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Speaker 6: the vibe of the podcast it's.

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Speaker 3: Pretty much everything that we're talking about in our twenty

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Speaker 3: So the premise is very what we're talking about in

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Speaker 3: our group chats. So it's not just dating. We also

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Speaker 3: talk about politics, friendships, family dynamics.

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Speaker 1: Right, So just to give you guys an idea, So

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Speaker 1: I've got in front of me a meme that you

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Speaker 1: guys put up things we could have done if the

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Speaker 1: pandemic didn't happen. So one of these is slept with

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Speaker 1: at least seven more men time.

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Speaker 4: Minimum?

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Speaker 7: Is that is that cumulatively or is that just one

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Speaker 7: of you saying that.

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Speaker 1: It was just me?

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Speaker 4: Are you single? Emily? Is that? Yes?

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Speaker 3: I am, I'm not problematic, I'm single.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So sleven seven guys, travel to your standard, visiting

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Speaker 1: my sisters standard cured my vaginismus.

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Speaker 3: Okay, clearly Lucy took the safe for it on this meme.

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Speaker 5: Well I didn't. I was just asked the SENSENCEMNCS.

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Speaker 7: Also, you've gone with to see my sister, travel to Europe,

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Speaker 7: and Emily, you put yourself out what is your what

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Speaker 1: If you don't mind?

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Speaker 3: Okay, vaginis miss is a condition that a lot of

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Speaker 3: people don't know about it's a condition where I'm going

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Speaker 4: Of course said.

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Speaker 1: Is fine.

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Speaker 3: It kind of tightens up and it makes penetrative sex

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Speaker 7: Well, there we are.

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Speaker 4: It's a turn. That's a.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, you did well.

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Speaker 7: Then it sound relatively scientific and at the end of

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Speaker 7: the day, you're a woman talking about this.

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Speaker 1: No very good.

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Speaker 4: Family friendly though, Like, how does one go about.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think we need to delve any further

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Speaker 1: into that. Main I never put that down.

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Speaker 7: I never put that down.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about the fact. So one of the great

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Speaker 1: So you guys had me on the fiftieth edition of

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Speaker 1: The Undone talk about a dating story. I've got a

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Speaker 1: you guys. This is from when I was nineteen and

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Speaker 1: I was dating a girl who was at least twenty seven,

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Speaker 1: and she didn't know that on the first date, and

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Speaker 1: it became very obvious when she ordered the food.

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Speaker 4: Have a listened.

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Speaker 1: I still don't know what tapas is. I've never been

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Speaker 1: Obviously it's tapas, so it's sharing, so I don't have

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Speaker 7: She orders for me. I just don't know what is

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Speaker 4: Then it started getting in my head like maybe she

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Speaker 1: With it, so she orders tapas. The bit the way

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Speaker 1: she ordered tap ass, I thought she was saying, like

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Speaker 1: in a kinky sort of a way, that's.

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Speaker 5: Going to give it the egg.

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Speaker 1: I thought she was saying, you thought what I thought.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, I thought we're taking a family, family friendly route.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, well tap my ass is totally different to talking

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Speaker 1: So yeah, the data ends horribly. Yeah, it's a long story.

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Speaker 1: Go go and ever listen to it on the undone

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Speaker 1: from Mom and May Guys, it's been a pleasure to

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Speaker 1: have you in here. Honestly, it's been absolutely Please welcome

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Speaker 1: back anytime as long as I can keep Emily on

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Speaker 1: the on the straight and arrow.

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Speaker 7: That the producers really fainted out completely. That reality, that's

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Speaker 7: the reality single.

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Speaker 1: That is a thing and I'm bloody. That's the best

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Speaker 1: part about with you guys. It's transparent, it's honest. It's

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Speaker 1: actually something that everybody, particularly women who are your age,

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Speaker 1: actually go through and probably should talk about. As you

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Speaker 1: said before, Lucy, this is the stuff that's on your

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Speaker 1: WhatsApp threads, so why not put it out in the

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Speaker 1: open so people can absorb it through their ears. That

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Speaker 1: sounded gross, You guys checked them there again. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: get out of here. Guys, thank you so much for

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Speaker 1: joining us. Emily and Lucy. Check out the undone from

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Speaker 1: Mum and Me or wherever you get your podcasts. Thanks

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Speaker 1: for joining us.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, Ben a pleasure, good vibe.

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Speaker 1: You're more of the boys on the Full Show podcast.

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Speaker 7: You know you want to