WEBVTT - MINI! The Pickup have Lyndall from MAFS hear Cam's final vows FOR THE FIRST TIME!

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<v Speaker 1>It's the pickup around the country. Britt, Laura and Mitch

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<v Speaker 1>Hey get ahead of the spread this flu season with

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<v Speaker 2>There was truly the most brutal breakup last night on Maths,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was between Lyndall and Cam. Now, Cam is

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<v Speaker 2>he's from Darwin. He's the guy who loves fishing and

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<v Speaker 2>going getting lost in the bush. For so much of

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<v Speaker 2>this experiment, she was kind of She was just like

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<v Speaker 2>warning him to love her, and he was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not there yet. I'm not there yet. Clearly was

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<v Speaker 2>never going to get there.

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<v Speaker 1>His mine was still in the bush.

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<v Speaker 2>But last night Linda really stuck it to him.

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<v Speaker 3>I realized that there was never anything I could do

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<v Speaker 3>to be the partner you wanted, because you simply don't

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<v Speaker 3>want one. This entire relationship has been on your terms

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<v Speaker 3>and yours alone, like a movement has been taken for gran.

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<v Speaker 3>If there is one good thing that cistipibrosis has given me,

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<v Speaker 3>it's resilience. I have now been given a miracle, a

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<v Speaker 3>fresh start, a new version of my life that is

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<v Speaker 3>completely unburdened and unlimited. I won't spend another moment of

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<v Speaker 3>that life restricted not by my condition, not by my body,

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<v Speaker 3>not by fear, and certainly not by you. Before you start, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I just feel like, no matter what you say, today's

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<v Speaker 3>and they're going to disappoint me again. I think I've

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<v Speaker 3>just done.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi you in the car, I'm out of here.

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<v Speaker 2>High lux boom, and then Cam threw his vows on

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<v Speaker 2>the ground and walk right out of there. Very dramatic.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it was, but you know what we have lindall

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<v Speaker 2>right here on the phone, Linda, welcome to the pickup.

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<v Speaker 5>Bye, hey you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Halloe.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you feeling after watching that all go down

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<v Speaker 2>last night?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, I mean I feel mostly relieved actually,

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<v Speaker 5>like it's been such a hard slog rewatching it all

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<v Speaker 5>and then to finally be like, now there she is.

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<v Speaker 5>That's that's me, Like that's what I deserve.

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<v Speaker 2>It was really like such a powerful speech. But did

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<v Speaker 2>you ever, like, after Cam had thrown his vows on

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<v Speaker 2>the ground, did you take a moment where you were like, god,

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<v Speaker 2>I really want to read them.

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<v Speaker 5>There was so much going through my head at the time,

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<v Speaker 5>Like it wasn't until I've walked off, but I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>maybe I should have picked them up.

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<v Speaker 1>Cam was on the Ale and Jackie Oh Show. They

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<v Speaker 1>asked him to recite the vows, and he recited the vows,

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<v Speaker 1>so we thought we'll play them for you when we'll

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<v Speaker 1>get your actual take, so you can actually hear what

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<v Speaker 1>he would have said if he didn't get his highlights

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<v Speaker 1>and go straight to BCF.

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<v Speaker 4>Throughout this experiment, amongst all the good times we'll share

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<v Speaker 4>the horse, they had my fair share of concerns about

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<v Speaker 4>the future. We have completely different lifestyle and being together

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<v Speaker 4>would mean one of us would have to change our

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<v Speaker 4>life completely. Another major concern is the way we handle

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<v Speaker 4>our conflict. You can say I can't sit down and

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<v Speaker 4>talk through tough times that you never asked the question

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<v Speaker 4>because you're too scout of the answer. I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>you like to air our dirty laundry in a public environment,

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<v Speaker 4>which really pushes my buttons. Throughout this experiment, you have

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<v Speaker 4>needed more affection, presurance, an emotion from me. I've taken

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<v Speaker 4>the time to reflect on what I've been able to

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<v Speaker 4>give you these things. I think these things flow naturally

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<v Speaker 4>when you are falling in love, which I'm not.

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<v Speaker 5>Hearing that I don't know. Pretty unsurprised, actually, I think

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<v Speaker 5>Cam has a very set way of how he thinks

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<v Speaker 5>everything should go and how he thinks that I should

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<v Speaker 5>have behaved. But like also know that, like it just

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<v Speaker 5>continued to be hypocritical. It was like you never asked

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<v Speaker 5>the question. I'm like, well, when I did ask questions,

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<v Speaker 5>you would get mad and storm out.

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<v Speaker 2>So what do you.

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<v Speaker 5>Want me to do? How do I win? How do

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<v Speaker 5>I get that conversation going? Then if you're gonna constantly

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<v Speaker 5>leave and then never readdress it with me, it's also

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<v Speaker 5>not my job to ask you how you're feeling all

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<v Speaker 5>the time. So it's a lot more than welcome to

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<v Speaker 5>come to me. And then I think as well airing

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<v Speaker 5>dirty laundry, like did this guy not realize we were

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<v Speaker 5>recording and get to be on national team?

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, well, did.

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<v Speaker 2>You feel like he led you on throughout the process?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I think it was only really right there at

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<v Speaker 2>the end that he actually started to be honest.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I definitely felt led on, and I felt like

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<v Speaker 5>extremely confused because.

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<v Speaker 1>We were really good and.

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<v Speaker 5>We did have a very good connection, a very strong connection,

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<v Speaker 5>and it's got along, I don't know, better than I

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<v Speaker 5>was expecting to get along with whoever I was mad

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<v Speaker 5>with But yeah, it wasn't until those last few weeks

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<v Speaker 5>that he started saying things like it'll never work, and

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<v Speaker 5>like every conversation we'd had before that was that we

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<v Speaker 5>were going to work and he was going to travel

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<v Speaker 5>to WA and like work his way down the coasting.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what it sounds like. He was gaslighting you

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time, only to drop the vows at the

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<v Speaker 1>end and walk out. What a sick But that's my question.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think he was gaslighting you the whole time?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think it was the whole time. I think

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<v Speaker 5>that first like that, especially that first month was absolutely incredible,

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<v Speaker 5>and like even the challenges and the task that we

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<v Speaker 5>got from the experts. I remember doing an active listening

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<v Speaker 5>one where I was trying to get him to talk

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<v Speaker 5>about maybe why he was struggling with talking or struggling

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<v Speaker 5>with showing that affection or showing that emotion. And he

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<v Speaker 5>did really, really well, He really tried, and I was

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<v Speaker 5>like jumping up and down on the couch saying how

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<v Speaker 5>proud I was of him, Like it's hard because there

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<v Speaker 5>was so much good that just that didn't get shown. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>but also like it was really I don't know to

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<v Speaker 5>have that change was I was completely like unaware of

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<v Speaker 5>how to fix it.

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<v Speaker 2>We heard you've already filmed the reunion episode. Yeah, what

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<v Speaker 2>was that like?

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<v Speaker 5>It was very interesting because I think after everything that

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<v Speaker 5>happened at final about it was like all the respectives

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<v Speaker 5>went out the door. So yeah, we hadn't spoken at all,

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<v Speaker 5>and then going into reunion there were quite a few

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<v Speaker 5>like little rumors and things swirling around that upset me

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<v Speaker 5>quite a bit. It's hard as well because I genuinely

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<v Speaker 5>don't like tearing other people down, especially not in a

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<v Speaker 5>public setting, and so it was really hard for me

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<v Speaker 5>to approach those issues in a setting where I was

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<v Speaker 5>emotional and I knew that everybody was there and like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>so it was it was really quite tough to see

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<v Speaker 5>him again.

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<v Speaker 1>Were hashtag team Wendell. There, she's from married At first side,

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<v Speaker 1>it's Lindall. I can't wait for that reunion, that's for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Next everyone, she's an Aussie superstar. Yeah, Jesse's here,

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<v Speaker 1>new music out from jess A lot going on in

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<v Speaker 1>our lives. She's married now, she's.

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<v Speaker 2>A stray sweetheart Jessica.

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<v Speaker 1>My boy, she is, and we're blessed to have her

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<v Speaker 1>on the show. After this, a kiss