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Speaker 1: You're listening to Willinwoody you mis Stein's and doctor Melissa Kange.

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Speaker 1: She's former former Dolly doctor doctor Melissa Kaning have written

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Speaker 1: his brilliant book. It's called Welcome to Sex Woods Keep

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Speaker 1: congratulations you.

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Speaker 2: Me, thank you. It's been it's been a ride.

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Speaker 1: Taken off the shelves at Big w Are you surprised

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Speaker 1: by the level of negative feedback?

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Speaker 2: Well, look, a lot of it's died down and yesterday

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Speaker 2: so Wednesday, I got a news that the rights had

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Speaker 2: been sold to a UK publisher, So that's really good,

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Speaker 2: and it's going to be out in the US, which

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Speaker 2: is I think going to trigger an avalanche of really

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Speaker 2: crazy hate and death threats, which you know, I'm pretty

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Speaker 2: apprehensive about that.

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Speaker 1: What are you doing there to look after cell fumes?

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Speaker 1: Knowing that that's like storms coming? Like, are you doing

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Speaker 1: anything with social media you're going to try and get

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Speaker 1: off or what?

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Speaker 2: Like? Are you I don't know what You'm I Like,

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Speaker 2: I said, I'm apprehensive because these these people are pretty

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Speaker 2: scary sometimes and I don't take it lightly. I don't

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Speaker 2: go either. Is some keyboard warrior who's fifteen a living

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Speaker 2: in his mind spacement because often they're not. There's a

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Speaker 2: lot of personal trainers who send me death threats for

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Speaker 2: whatnot reason. Yeah, it's it's been a pretty foul time.

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Speaker 2: But I think that what I keep thinking about is

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Speaker 2: all the people that will benefit from seeing the book

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Speaker 2: that probably wouldn't have read it if it weren't for

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Speaker 2: the controversy, you know. So that's that's a whole generation

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Speaker 2: of young kids who now their parents are alert to

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Speaker 2: the book, they've purchased it, and they're going to have

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Speaker 2: this sex education that they probably wouldn't have without it.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think you should know, Yumi. For people that

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Speaker 1: are thinking rationally and reasonably about this and you know,

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Speaker 1: sort of having their emotions removed from it or certainly

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Speaker 1: religion removed from it, it's a really good thing you're doing.

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Speaker 1: I really and I'm not sure that but for two

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Speaker 1: guys that recently brought daughters into the world, I'm really

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Speaker 1: happy that a she will have access to this sort

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Speaker 1: of information, but be importantly that other young girls and

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Speaker 1: boys that she might hook up with in the future

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Speaker 1: will also have access. I think that's the bit that

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Speaker 1: you get worried about as a parent, isn't it. It's

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Speaker 1: not necessarily what your little girl, little boys are gonna do?

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Speaker 1: Is that you know who over they're with. You just

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Speaker 1: want them to have a good, good time, a.

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Speaker 2: Good consensual time where you've talked about it and you

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Speaker 2: can go at your own pace as well. You know.

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Speaker 2: I think that we all experienced as young people this

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Speaker 2: sense of scarcity that if I don't, if I don't

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Speaker 2: hit home run tonight, it could be another three years

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Speaker 2: before anyone shows any interest in me. So you have

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Speaker 2: this urgency to race through things, check off a checklist,

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Speaker 2: and at any time are you thinking does this feel

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Speaker 2: nice for me? Does this feel nice for them? Like?

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Speaker 2: Are we actually enjoying ourselves? And I think that's such

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Speaker 2: a lovely it's a lovely permission to be given that

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Speaker 2: your pleasure matters.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's his new book, Welcome to Sex, available now

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Speaker 1: at all Good bookstores. Good luck with the US release.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, thanks Villain Mardy, and thank you so much

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Speaker 2: for your beautiful, sensitive questions. I cried after the Welcome

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Speaker 2: to Consent book interview because you were so kind and

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Speaker 2: you got it it. It made me so glad. I

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Speaker 2: was like this, I guys get it.

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Speaker 1: Oh well unfortunately, Yeah, happy to be flying the flag

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Speaker 1: for all the watch jerks out there. Hear more of

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