1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: Hello, my name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yor 2 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: the Order Kerni Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before 3 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,319 Speaker 1: would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country, 6 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:22,240 Speaker 1: acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming 7 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: through as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing 8 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: and the storytelling of you to make a difference for 9 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 1: today and lasting impact for tomorrow. 10 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 2: Let's get into it. She's on the Money. She's on 11 00:00:37,159 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 2: the Money. Hello and welcome. She's on the Money, the 12 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:04,919 Speaker 2: podcast for millennials who want financial freedom. Today, my friends, 13 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 2: it is Friday again, which means it is time to 14 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 2: get my little team together and celebrate you our incredible 15 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 2: She's on the Money community Today is just Grich is 16 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 2: going to be sharing our favorite money wins from the community. 17 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:19,119 Speaker 2: Miss beck say Ede, She's got a few broke tips 18 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 2: of her sleeve that she's gonna share. We're going to 19 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:23,680 Speaker 2: be helping to answer a juicy money dilemma, which this 20 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 2: week is all about why you should invest, and we're 21 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:29,759 Speaker 2: going to unpack something that you slim into our DMS 22 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 2: about this week. We're talking about owing money to your friends. 23 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 2: So before we get there, I want to know how 24 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 2: your weeks have been. Misterscricci. We threw you straight under 25 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 2: the bus last Friday because you had your wisdom teeth out. 26 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:44,199 Speaker 3: I know I missed your guys. 27 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 2: Are you better? How did it go? 28 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 3: I'm good. Doctor Chris was very kind, very good to me, 29 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 3: because I think we've said before on the show, I'm 30 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 3: a little baby when it comes to going to the dentist. 31 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 2: So it was just a baby. 32 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 3: I'm just a baby. I was very afraid, but he 33 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 3: was so good and so it went better than I expected, 34 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 3: which was lovely. He gave me. 35 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 2: I'm not surprised. 36 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 3: Lots and lots and lots of nubbing, but lots of 37 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 3: did you go home just drooling pretty much? I had 38 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 3: my partner come get me because I was worried or 39 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 3: he like drove me there and took me home because 40 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 3: I was worried that I would be like a little bit, 41 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 3: a little bit stressy, a little bit out of it. 42 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 3: And so I was sitting there and I just they 43 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 3: gave me gauze to like staunch the blood or whatever, 44 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 3: and so I was just like dropping bloody gauze and 45 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 3: because I was so like out of it in the moment, 46 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 3: I forgot. And obviously when we got home, I just 47 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:29,079 Speaker 3: like got out of the car and went to bed, 48 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 3: and then he drove his friend. His friend went to 49 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 3: the gym that night, and he drove his friend and 50 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 3: he was like, did you did you maybe leave something 51 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 3: in my car? And I was like in bed, like 52 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 3: like he sat and nearly sat on a pile of 53 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 3: just bloody dishuices. 54 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, his friend would have been like, did you kill literally? 55 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 3: So what happened to you? 56 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:50,639 Speaker 2: Been doing? 57 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 3: But you're recovering well, feeling really good? Chatty Kathy back 58 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 3: and ready to go. 59 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 2: I love to see big perfect miss excited. How has 60 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 2: your week been. It's been a roller coaster. I've gotta 61 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 2: be honest. Why roller coaster? 62 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 4: Well, okay, so as everyone knows, I've been mo redone 63 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:09,799 Speaker 4: and blah blah blah, like seven years ago. 64 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 2: But anyway, it was like not even seven weeks ago, 65 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 2: but okay. 66 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 4: And as also as everyone knows, I'm not the best 67 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 4: of money, and I kind of just like had a bad, 68 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 4: a really bad day the other day where I was like, 69 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 4: oh my god, I have no money and I was 70 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 4: kind of like, you know, I was stuck in Southierra 71 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 4: because I couldn't afford petrol to get home, and it 72 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 4: was a whole thing. But anyway I want I wouldn't 73 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:29,080 Speaker 4: like trauma dump on it. 74 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:31,839 Speaker 2: No trauma dumb, because I feel like lots of people 75 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 2: are gonna go relatable. 76 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 4: Okay, good, I would hope. So that's the only reason 77 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 4: I'm kind of saying. It's like, oh, I'm sure there's 78 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 4: someone out there that's kind of been in this position, 79 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 4: and but my mom helped me out, and like, you know, 80 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 4: it was all good. I was like, oh my god, 81 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 4: I'm thirty thirty one and I'm calling my mom. 82 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 2: Crying and I'm I don't know what to do. But 83 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 2: it's all been up from there. 84 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 4: And I've just had a really good week just with friends, 85 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 4: just doing like really cute, wholesome things and just doing 86 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 4: things that like don't cost any money and that you know, 87 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 4: it's it's been. It's actually been really nice, trying to 88 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 4: find waste have fun without spending anything. 89 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 3: Did you see the Southern Lights? I feel like that 90 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 3: would have been right up your alley over again, so 91 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 3: up my alley, jest. 92 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 4: But I didn't realize it was happening until after it 93 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 4: happened me either. 94 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 2: No one called me, and then all my friends text me, 95 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 2: Oh my god, look at this picture I took. And 96 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm so jealous. 97 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:21,599 Speaker 4: Yeah, but the good thing is I don't think you 98 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,799 Speaker 4: could have seen it with your human eye. 99 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like James ragensy could see like a 100 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 3: little tinge of color, but you couldn't see anything like 101 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 3: how you could in photos. 102 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 2: So we were on the peninsula. I didn't I was there, 103 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 2: I could have had the opportunity to do so. But 104 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 2: my parents saw it and said it was beautiful and 105 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 2: really really cool because that's something that my mum had 106 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 2: always wanted to see, so that was really cool. I'm 107 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 2: glad she got to see that. But then also my 108 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 2: best friend lives in Tasmania and she sent me I'll 109 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:53,359 Speaker 2: show you after the coolest photo of the sky and 110 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 2: I was like, that can't be real, and she was 111 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 2: like yeah, over Hobart like they were out near the airport. 112 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:01,559 Speaker 2: Apparently it was elite and very very visible. But again, 113 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 2: there's not a lot of light pollution in Tasmania, so 114 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,279 Speaker 2: you know, you guys live quite close to the city, 115 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 2: so I'm not surprised we couldn't see it. 116 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 3: It was as good. Yeah, oh that's so cool. We're 117 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 3: all just gonna have to go to Iceland and see 118 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 3: the norm. 119 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:19,039 Speaker 2: Alright, absolutely rude, not too so let's do that. 120 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:19,799 Speaker 3: I'm showing. 121 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 2: Oh thanks, you see really good. I have my very 122 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 2: first Mother's Day, honestly, very exciting, but also kind of 123 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 2: weird because I don't identify with being a mother yet. Yes, 124 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 2: like I am, but I also feel like a teenage parent, 125 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 2: Like I'm thirty two and I've heard my first teenage 126 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 2: pregnancy and I'm not equipped for this. So when people 127 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 2: were like, happy Mother's Day, I was like a baby, 128 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 2: just a baby myself. Yeah, So that was really fun. 129 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 2: Got to spend it with my mom. We went out 130 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 2: for some all you can eat Japanese which was amazing. 131 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 2: Get this, Jess Beceruy knows because Becky, we've both been 132 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:04,039 Speaker 2: to this place. Thirty nine dollars or you can eat 133 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 2: thirty nine money money mean, I would take you next time. 134 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:13,799 Speaker 2: Unlimited tempure vegetables. Oh it's really good food, delicious amazing. 135 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 2: All right, let's get into the show because I'm really excited. 136 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 2: I have been trolling through the Facebook group this week, 137 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 2: just like reading all of the comments, so I can 138 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 2: basically bet that I've already heard all of the money 139 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:25,919 Speaker 2: wins this week. But I regret nothing. So jess, what 140 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 2: have you pulled out for us? 141 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 3: All right? This week? Firstly, I have one from Tory 142 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 3: who said a great name, excellent name. I needed a 143 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 3: new puffy jacket and I wanted a Patagonia jacket, but 144 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:38,279 Speaker 3: it was three hundred dollars. She found it on sale 145 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 3: for fifty percent off this weekend. 146 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 2: Oh that's your god of money. 147 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 3: Wine brand new for one hundred and fifty dollars and 148 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 3: Patagonia is an awesome We've spoken about them before like 149 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 3: they're morals a body. Yeah, great quality and like a 150 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 3: company with really great ethics, which is awesome. Next, I've 151 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:53,599 Speaker 3: got a money win from Gabby who said win, I've 152 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 3: saved six hundred dollars that I was quoted for a 153 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 3: bond clean by just doing it ourselves. Had a huge 154 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:01,479 Speaker 3: day of grubbing, but we got there. 155 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 2: I feel like you've got a few trip nails from that, 156 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 2: But that would be worth it. I think bond cleans 157 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 2: are so bloody expensive. 158 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 3: And little pro tip. I got into an argument. I've 159 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 3: ever done this before. I've made a comment on an 160 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 3: Instagram post. 161 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 2: And I was like, well, you're getting in an argument 162 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 2: happens regularly on an Instagram post. No, that's usually me 163 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 2: just like sends me screenshots of my own comments and 164 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 2: says delete this right now. And I'm like, fine, fine. 165 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not one to have a little argument on 166 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 3: the internet. But I commented because someone was talking. It 167 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 3: was someone talking about like a similar thing, rental clean, 168 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 3: and I said, oh, at least in Victoria, did you 169 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 3: know that they actually can't legally force you to have 170 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 3: a professional clean done. 171 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 2: Some the kboard warrior decided to correct and I was, 172 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 2: let you know that you were wrong, that, like Jess 173 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 2: is never wrong. But I could just know this as 174 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 2: a fact, Jess never wrong. It's really nice. 175 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 3: I wish I could relate to people who were but 176 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 3: I simply can't. 177 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 4: I don't think i've ever no, I don't think i've 178 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 4: ever experienced no. 179 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 3: No, I definitely haven'ten But yeah, it was I anyway, 180 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 3: that isn't either. He was just a little and an. 181 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 3: But if you're in Victoria, did you know they can't 182 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 3: force you to pay because they often try to. They 183 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 3: put it in like your lease agreement. That's actually not enforceable. 184 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 3: It's illegal. 185 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 4: But I want to know how this conversation, like what 186 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 4: did the person say? 187 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 3: So they I replied to them and said, oh, it's 188 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 3: actually not you can't do that. It's not legal, like 189 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 3: it's on the Tenants Fick website if you want to 190 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 3: check it. Don't know about other states, but for Victoria specifically, 191 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 3: that's not nice. All I'm talking about, Yeah, exactly right. 192 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 3: And then they came back and said something. I can 193 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 3: get to see what they said, because when I went 194 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 3: to it, the comment was actually gone. 195 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 2: So that is them recognizing that Jess is always right. 196 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 2: As they were embarrassed, they put their tail between their legs, 197 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 2: and they went home. 198 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 3: Well good as they should. Hopefully that's a money win 199 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 3: for anyone in Victoria. You don't have to You can 200 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:47,839 Speaker 3: do a perfectly good job cleaning it. 201 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:49,839 Speaker 2: Yourself, unless you're really a boad at cleaning, in which 202 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 2: case maybe get a cleaner. 203 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, next moving or a long next money when 204 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 3: I've got is from April, who said long term money win. 205 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:59,600 Speaker 3: I made a three thousand dollars lump sum repayment on 206 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 3: our home loan. She did the most must be nice, 207 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 3: it must be very nice. But that three thousand dollars 208 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:08,079 Speaker 3: equals eleven thousand, eight hundred and ninety one dollars that 209 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 3: they've saved in interest. It's that cool, very very cool. 210 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 2: Do the maths because you'll feel much better about making 211 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 2: those payments. 212 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, and she said it's going to make her really 213 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 3: rethink they're spending first, saving and stuff, which I thought 214 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 3: was just like a cool thing to like have a 215 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 3: play around with and super motivating. Yeah, exactly right. Next, 216 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 3: I've got a money in from Nicole who said I 217 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 3: was going to have to pay four point five thousand 218 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 3: dollars to get my daughter assessed for autism. I did 219 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 3: not know it was that expense. WHOA, that is crazy. 220 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 2: He's anything neurospicy. 221 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 3: Yes, so expensive. 222 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 2: HD. Like I was saying this to my mum the 223 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 2: other day. I'm like, I'm so glad you guys had 224 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 2: to pay for my diagnosis when I was a teenager 225 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 2: because I couldn't afford it. 226 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 3: Now I want to do it now. 227 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 2: No, absolutely, not absolutely not. 228 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 3: But money in for Nicole. She said she found out 229 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:57,320 Speaker 3: that the school can actually assist for a much more 230 00:09:57,360 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 3: affordable price because they have a psychologist on their stuff. 231 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 2: Oh money, we very cool and great if you had 232 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 2: good to know and to ask the school to get involved. 233 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 2: If you're going through that with a kid, I would 234 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 2: have thought of that. 235 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know that's perfect, really lucky for the col 236 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 3: Orful that people have to pay that, I'm so sorry. Lastly, 237 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 3: I have a moneyman from Kristen who said I had 238 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 3: to clean out old stuff from my old bedroom at home. 239 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 3: In doing soon, I found two hundred and forty dollars 240 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 3: and a winning crosswords scratchy tucked away an old birthday card. 241 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:27,959 Speaker 2: Oh my money, money, it's nice just having two hundred 242 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 2: and forty bucks accidentally in your room. Again, can't relate, No, 243 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 2: I don't think I've found five bucks or ten dollars. Actually, 244 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 2: one time I lucked out and found like fifty dollars 245 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 2: in a coat pocket, my own coat pocket, so it 246 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 2: was technically in my own money, but it would have 247 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 2: been cooler if it was like from the shop or something. 248 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. I love reading those stories, like what have you 249 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 3: found in something? You got to the shop, like someone 250 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:49,319 Speaker 3: bought a box and they opened it and there was 251 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:50,319 Speaker 3: a bunch of cash. 252 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 2: Or yeah, seriously, I've gotten onto the side of TikTok 253 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 2: where people are buying things secondhand and realizing they're haunted. 254 00:10:56,960 --> 00:11:00,839 Speaker 2: So maybe different, but I'm trying the same. No interesting though, 255 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:03,319 Speaker 2: people buying stuff and then being like, ah, yeah, so 256 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 2: I bought this doll and I'm like looking at the 257 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 2: video being like, how did you not know the doll 258 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 2: was haunted? Like it haunted? But I love those kinds 259 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 2: of stories. Anyway, moving on, Beck, I want your brocust 260 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 2: of broke tips. What have you got? 261 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:19,199 Speaker 1: So? 262 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 2: Oh, she's ready, She's. 263 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 4: Got it, I've got it up, I'm ready. This again 264 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:27,320 Speaker 4: won't be as rogue as some of my. 265 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:33,080 Speaker 2: Exactly exactly, snaughty laughing. We have to stop recording. I 266 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:35,080 Speaker 2: don't want it, Okay, well I can. 267 00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:39,680 Speaker 4: I was speaking to an old friend of mine and 268 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 4: realizing how wild a lot of the old things I 269 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 4: did was, And this is not what I'm doing today. 270 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 4: Those just same Beck, different day, exactly exactly. But those 271 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 4: will come, those stories a right, okay. First one comes 272 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:00,679 Speaker 4: from Emma, who says, honestly, go to cost for free, 273 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:02,199 Speaker 4: samples around meal time. 274 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 2: That is such a good idea. Genius. They always do 275 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:09,679 Speaker 2: like they're sliced pizza or the dips and stuff. What 276 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:11,560 Speaker 2: if you just do lots of laps and just like 277 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 2: have a whole entire pizza. Yeah, exactly, No, I reckon 278 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 2: they cut you off. I don't think. 279 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 4: So we put a little hat on, put a fake mustache. 280 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:22,680 Speaker 4: They would never know that you're the same person. I think. 281 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. 282 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 3: See so many people, surely they wouldn't even notice. 283 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 2: Totally. We love Costco in this team. In fact, we 284 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 2: were literally in New Orleans and brook who's on our team. 285 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:36,199 Speaker 2: You've probably met brook You would have met Brooks. She's 286 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 2: been on the podcast before. Yes, So she's obsessed with 287 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 2: Costco and every country she goes to she has to 288 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 2: go to a Costco there just to check it out. 289 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 2: That's such a funny obsition. Was an actual activity for 290 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 2: all of us, or we just went to Costco like 291 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:52,080 Speaker 2: that was an afternoon activity, like it was like on 292 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 2: the iterial. I guess it was on the itinerary. We 293 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:56,560 Speaker 2: went to Costco. Turns out they're all the same. We 294 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 2: learned nothing and then Brooke got a pizza. You did too, Jess. 295 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 3: It was delicious, so good. 296 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:04,719 Speaker 2: But it was the same as the Costco pizza. You 297 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 2: could have got what you want. But I'm sitting there 298 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:08,079 Speaker 2: being like this same. 299 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 3: Yeah as someone as a pickie eater, I appreciate knowing 300 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:13,959 Speaker 3: that no matter what country, I mean, Costco pizza tastes 301 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 3: the same. 302 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 2: You're also a very big fan of McDonald's. 303 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:18,439 Speaker 3: Exactly that, exactly exact reason. 304 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:20,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, I get that. I like get that, all right, Beck, 305 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 2: What else have you got on their table for us? Okay? 306 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 4: Also should say free samples anywhere, Like you know, you 307 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 4: go to butchers and sometimes they have all which I 308 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 4: know be very feeling, but you know you got to do. 309 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 2: We gotta do sometimes. Okay. 310 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 4: This next one comes from Laura, who says cultural broke tip. 311 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 4: If there is a ticketed exhibition, say art design film, 312 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 4: you want to attend, wait until the last two weeks. 313 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:45,560 Speaker 4: They usually sell fifty to seventy ish percent off tickets, 314 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 4: mainly big galleries like NNGV ACME. I feel like ACME 315 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:53,319 Speaker 4: might be free or I don't know, mate, you're telling 316 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 4: this story not me. 317 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 2: That's true. 318 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 1: I don't know what. 319 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 3: I should have. Sorry, what we're gonna say, just I 320 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:01,959 Speaker 3: think they occasionally do like special exhibits that you might 321 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 3: pay for, but like a lot of it is free. 322 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 3: Oh okay, MGV is the same. There are parts I 323 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 3: actually not sure. 324 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes MGV is free as well. 325 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:11,439 Speaker 4: Actually, but that's just good to know if that if 326 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 4: it is an exhibition that you want to go to, 327 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 4: but they are actually charging for that. So these you know, 328 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:19,120 Speaker 4: obviously again in Melbourne. I know that some of the 329 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 4: community members are not in Melbourne, but if you are 330 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 4: going on. 331 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:27,280 Speaker 2: In your local area anyway, totally that could be like global. 332 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, and there's some great apps and stuff that do 333 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 3: last minute tickets for shows, like I use last ticks. 334 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 3: I'm trying to win forty five they do like the lottery. 335 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 3: I'm trying to get the forty five dollars wikied tickets. 336 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 3: But they like it's like the end of the run 337 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 3: of a show. They'll usually yeah, because they they'll like 338 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 3: I guess a lot of people obviously, like every Wednesday 339 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 3: they go you can enter to like be able to 340 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 3: buy these like seven you're. 341 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:54,479 Speaker 2: Always on to something. She actually is, She's just ridiculous. 342 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 2: You're always on. One of our girls at Zella Money 343 00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 2: actually a kind of vibe. She's in New Zealand this 344 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 2: week for a holiday with her family, and I remember 345 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 2: I was in New Zealand a little while ago and 346 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 2: they have you remember how I was obsessed with that 347 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 2: first table app? Oh yeah, yeah, So I was like, 348 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 2: you can get on first table because they actually, like 349 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 2: lots of the restaurants in New Zealand are on first table, 350 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 2: which is if you haven't heard of it. Back you 351 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 2: get the app and the first table of the night, 352 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 2: like the bookings are like at five pm. She has kids, 353 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 2: so this works really well. You get fifty percent off 354 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 2: for being first in the door off your bill money. 355 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 2: We are okay, which kind of all comes out in 356 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 2: the wash. 357 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 3: When you're home in nine drink. 358 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 1: Guys. 359 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I did that on the weekend when I did 360 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 2: my thirty nine dollar all you can eat Japanese with 361 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 2: my family. We took my parents and my sister and 362 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 2: my husband and Harvey came and it was really good. 363 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 2: It turns out Harvey he's not that into Japanese yet, 364 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 2: but that's all. We'll work on that. Yeah, we had 365 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 2: a five thirty booking, so excited. We were back home 366 00:15:58,680 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 2: by like seven thirty eight. I was like this, guys, 367 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 2: this is living. Yeah, no, I agree with that. Peak 368 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 2: motherhood yeah pee no, no, just pick living. Yeah, I 369 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 2: agree with that. What's your broke tip though? 370 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 4: Okay, so this one my best friend live actually told 371 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:13,880 Speaker 4: me about this, which is like. 372 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 2: Some people lives broke tip. Sometimes you gotta do what 373 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 2: you gotta do. Yeah, that's that's broke away. 374 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 4: I do have a few in the bank though, but 375 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 4: I thought, you know, I'm going to spread them out, 376 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 4: So lives one is if you work in an office 377 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:28,520 Speaker 4: environment or if you just like have like a trilliant housemates. 378 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 4: You know, obviously like loyalty cards are really good to 379 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 4: keep on hand. This might be a little bit dodgy, 380 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 4: but what we do is you get everyone's coffee order, 381 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 4: You get everyone to pay you for the coffee order, 382 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 4: and then you get the and then you get the 383 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 4: free one. So you've paid nothing at all, do you 384 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:44,080 Speaker 4: know what I mean? Like, you get the free you 385 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 4: put you deserve that. 386 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 2: That's not even payment for doing coffee, So no one 387 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:51,840 Speaker 2: had to pay. They just allowed you to have the 388 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 2: free one. Exactly. So yeah, exactly. And if they want 389 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 2: to tick off their loyalty thing, they can go get 390 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 2: their own coffee and take it off in their own time. Yes, 391 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 2: exactly right. 392 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 4: So I feel like that's like I never thought to 393 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 4: do that, but I'm going to start doing that for sure, 394 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 4: like when I get a job. 395 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 2: Speaking of stuff that you can do at work, this 396 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 2: is probably not legal in any other organization except for 397 00:17:10,359 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 2: my own. Jess has her shot pack for work purchases. 398 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so I'm funding the purchase, she's getting the 399 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 2: cash back. Don't you know what I feel? It all's 400 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 2: fair in love and more. She I know she does 401 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 2: it if I really with permission, but like maybe ask 402 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,439 Speaker 2: your boss. Like if you're an AA or you're, you know, 403 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 2: doing lots of transactions, you could literally be like, hey, 404 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 2: can I just add my shop back to this? Why 405 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 2: would they say no? 406 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 4: Or your rewards card if you're doing like all these 407 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:40,879 Speaker 4: purchases for whatever. 408 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:45,639 Speaker 2: But don't just do it like first, ask first, because 409 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 2: otherwise I think it could be constituted as fraud, and 410 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 2: we don't endorse. 411 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 4: Fraud, no, not publicly exactly. 412 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:59,160 Speaker 2: Jess is like, yeah, yeah, really really quickly. 413 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 4: I'm going to Japan next week and I just want 414 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 4: to say that I got really cheap tickets from the app. 415 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:05,679 Speaker 2: Hold on hold on Japan? Did you know that she 416 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 2: was going to Japan? Did we know that she wasn't 417 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 2: going to be on the podcast? 418 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 4: Oh, let's tell everyone actually said I had no money, 419 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:14,640 Speaker 4: but you gotta do what you gotta do sometimes. 420 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 2: All right, Jess and I yes, will man the desk. 421 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:20,639 Speaker 4: Thank you, so we've got you, Thank you. I just 422 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:22,119 Speaker 4: wanted to put that out there. I know the pilot 423 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:23,879 Speaker 4: app is really really good for very cheap tickets. 424 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:25,920 Speaker 3: I've hearsed that before. 425 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:27,639 Speaker 2: Six hundred dollars return. 426 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:29,400 Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's so cheap. 427 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:30,920 Speaker 2: How do you learn about that app? 428 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 3: Did you get check luggage? You need to be wearing all. 429 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:37,679 Speaker 2: I'm going to be wearing everything. Just think that's the 430 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 2: funniest thing that's ever ever ever happened. Think it. Sorry, Sam, 431 00:18:48,119 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 2: If you edit out that's snort, you're done. You're done. 432 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:53,160 Speaker 2: That stays. The snort stays. 433 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:54,919 Speaker 3: Did you get check blaggage? 434 00:18:55,560 --> 00:19:03,680 Speaker 2: I didn't. Why is no one? No one's concerned? Oh 435 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 2: my god. All right, guys, you know what, we know 436 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:09,959 Speaker 2: what she's gonna do. Let's go to a break because 437 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:11,920 Speaker 2: on the flip side, we're going to be talking about 438 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 2: why you should invest, and we're going to be unpacking 439 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 2: something you slid into our dams about This week, we're 440 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 2: talking about owing money to your friends, so guys, don't 441 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 2: go anywhere. 442 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:30,679 Speaker 3: Welcome back, everybody. Let's take a listen to this week's 443 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:31,400 Speaker 3: money dilemma. 444 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 2: Hi, there, have you got a money dilemma you just 445 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 2: can't solve that She's on the Money Team is here 446 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 2: to help. Every week we tackle your dilemmas, both big 447 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:44,840 Speaker 2: and small, to answer your most burning money, career and 448 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:48,080 Speaker 2: life questions. To get involved, simply head to our website 449 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 2: and leave us a short voice recording and you might 450 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 2: just find yourself on the show. Now, let's take a 451 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:54,640 Speaker 2: listen to this week's money dilemma. 452 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 5: Hi, Fees on the Money Team. My question is why 453 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 5: should I I be investing rather than putting money into 454 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:07,400 Speaker 5: my super account. I know that there's lots of chat 455 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:12,800 Speaker 5: about micro investing and other platforms like chareseas, but I'm 456 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:17,400 Speaker 5: a bit confused why that's beneficial over salary sacrificing and 457 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 5: putting money in my super with all of the tax benefits, 458 00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 5: and it seems like a much safer option. 459 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 2: What do you guys reckon before I take over? Because 460 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 2: that's all I do. 461 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 4: I would only say that, like with super you can 462 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:34,399 Speaker 4: get it after your sixty five would unless, like you know, 463 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:39,199 Speaker 4: special circumstances. But so that's like, if you're investing, you 464 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 4: don't have to wait as long. Like forgive me if 465 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:46,479 Speaker 4: I'm completely incorrect, but that's what my my thinking is. 466 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:49,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right, totally right. You can't access your super 467 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:50,920 Speaker 3: unless you're putting in for like the first home super 468 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 3: save a scheme or something like that, you generally can't 469 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 3: access until you're sixty five, whereas your investments you can 470 00:20:56,880 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 3: liquidate them at any point. Right, all circumstance is allowing, 471 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 3: Like obviously it takes some time to process the tax, 472 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:05,679 Speaker 3: like you tax benefits you have to take into account, 473 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:08,440 Speaker 3: like it's something worth thinking, but they're not going to 474 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:10,639 Speaker 3: be applicable to everyone. And I think a lot of 475 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 3: the time she mentioned our listener mentioned micro investing specifically, 476 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 3: I think a lot of the time, if people are 477 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:20,440 Speaker 3: investing small amounts, we want you to be investing those 478 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:23,359 Speaker 3: small amounts because they do grow into large amounts. But 479 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 3: the tax benefits that you may see from that may 480 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 3: not be quite so significant from my perspective, So you've 481 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:31,560 Speaker 3: got to kind of weigh up what the tax benefit 482 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 3: is versus what you're doing. I mean, I think it's 483 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:36,920 Speaker 3: it really is up to you personally. Like some people 484 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:38,399 Speaker 3: do prefer to invest in a super, you don't have 485 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 3: as much control. I think, like you can't pick your 486 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 3: individual shares generally speaking, like you can't choose a platform 487 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 3: that's really user friendly. I think you just have more 488 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,439 Speaker 3: control when you invest for yourself, which is what I like. 489 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 3: But that's not to say that investing in super is 490 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:55,919 Speaker 3: a bad option at all. It just is to use 491 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:59,239 Speaker 3: Victoria's favorite phrase, different horses for different courses. Where did 492 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 3: you even get that from? I don't know, but I 493 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 3: think it's so funny. So I use every chance that 494 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 3: I can courses. 495 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,960 Speaker 2: I also like to say, not my circus, not my monkeys. 496 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,360 Speaker 2: And I also like to say play stupid games, get 497 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:11,160 Speaker 2: super prices. 498 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:14,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, Peach, sorry, I don't want to talk about Peach 499 00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:16,439 Speaker 4: close Taylor Swift. 500 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:19,000 Speaker 3: What's the thing. 501 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 2: Each to their? 502 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 4: Peach Sorry is what I try to say, and I 503 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 4: just sort up Peach. 504 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 2: I like that. 505 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 3: I like that. 506 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:27,080 Speaker 2: It definitely sounds like something Jess would say. 507 00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:28,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, very cutesy. 508 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:29,399 Speaker 2: It's very cutesy. 509 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 3: Lust you actually knows that they're talking about. 510 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,639 Speaker 2: Perhaps all right, So first things first, should I be 511 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 2: investing rather than putting my money in my super account? 512 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 2: You are investing in both. So the one thing I 513 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 2: want you to understand about supranuation, or the one thing 514 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:44,320 Speaker 2: I want you to take from this segment of the 515 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:48,400 Speaker 2: podcast today, is that supranuation is not an investment. Supranuation 516 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:52,720 Speaker 2: is a tax structure in which you invest under and 517 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 2: that tax structure exists to put you in a better 518 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 2: position for retirement because the government wants to support us 519 00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:02,160 Speaker 2: so that they don't have to pay many pensions. Makes sense, right, 520 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,119 Speaker 2: But something that our listener said that I really wanted 521 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 2: to like stamp out really quickly is she said, I 522 00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:12,679 Speaker 2: know it's safer inside Super, and that is not true 523 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 2: at all, because if you're investing inside of Super or 524 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:19,119 Speaker 2: outside of Super, the risk is exactly the same. The 525 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 2: tax structure of superannuation doesn't add any more security or 526 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 2: take any away because if you're investing inside Super and 527 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:28,879 Speaker 2: you've got you know, some ETFs and a managed fund, 528 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 2: if you had that outside of Super, it's not more 529 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:34,920 Speaker 2: or less secure. It's just a different type of asset. Right, 530 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 2: So I think it's important to understand that SUPER is 531 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,159 Speaker 2: a tax structure that exists to put us in a 532 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:44,119 Speaker 2: better financial position. You're right beg about being able to 533 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:47,119 Speaker 2: access it after sixty five, and Jess, you are absolutely 534 00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:51,119 Speaker 2: correct about the control. So I like investing outside of 535 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:54,200 Speaker 2: SUPER because I'll be able to access it before I 536 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 2: turn sixty five. And I want to be able to 537 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 2: access my money before then because I want to retire 538 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 2: before then, because old A is a privilege that is 539 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:02,880 Speaker 2: denied to many people, and they don't want to wait 540 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 2: until I'm like sixty five or sixty seven or even 541 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:07,920 Speaker 2: seventy before I get access to my cash holder. 542 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:08,240 Speaker 3: Right. 543 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 2: But if we're talking about the tax benefits only, there 544 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:14,120 Speaker 2: are a lot of tax benefits to putting your money 545 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 2: inside SUPER, And these numbers that I'm going to spit 546 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 2: at you are relevant for the First Home Super Savior Scheme, 547 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 2: which is a mouthful but also a really important thing 548 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:24,800 Speaker 2: to take into consideration if you're saving for your first home, 549 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 2: because at this current point in time, you can contribute 550 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 2: up to fifty thousand dollars into the First Home Super 551 00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 2: Savior Scheme, which at a marginal tax rate of thirty 552 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:37,880 Speaker 2: two and a half percent, will mean, you are nine 553 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:42,479 Speaker 2: and a half thousand dollars better off by using that scheme. 554 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 2: So that's nine and a half thousand dollars of what 555 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 2: I would say is free money, and we love free 556 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,400 Speaker 2: money in this house, right, So what we are going 557 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 2: to do is a quick example. So let's say we 558 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 2: have ten thousand dollars of cash pre tax. You've just 559 00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:59,199 Speaker 2: earned it, beck and you're trying to decide whether it 560 00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,440 Speaker 2: goes into super or whether it goes into your investment 561 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 2: portfolio or your savings or just keeping in your bank account. Right, 562 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 2: So ten grand pre tax, if you put that into 563 00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 2: your bank account and you're on a marginal tax rate 564 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 2: of thirty two and a half percent, which is you 565 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 2: earn between forty five thousand and one hundred and twenty 566 00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 2: thousand ish dollars, that's you know, I think what most 567 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 2: of the population would fall into. That ten thousand dollars 568 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,959 Speaker 2: post tax becomes six thousand, seven one hundred and fifty dollars, 569 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 2: So that's what goes into your bank account, and then 570 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 2: the rest goes to tax. If that amount of money 571 00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 2: went into your supranuation instead of your personal bank account, 572 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 2: instead of being charged thirty two and a half percent 573 00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 2: in tax, you would get the supranuation tax rate, which 574 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 2: is only fifteen percent, and that money would then be 575 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 2: worth eight thousand, five hundred, So it's worth more than 576 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 2: that six thousand, seven hundred and fifty dollars, which is 577 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:58,280 Speaker 2: a difference of twenty one percent. So to be a 578 00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,879 Speaker 2: difference of twenty one percent, that's basically like an instant 579 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:04,200 Speaker 2: return on your money right just by choosing the superannuation environment. 580 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:06,639 Speaker 2: But does that mean that we should be investing all 581 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:09,919 Speaker 2: our money in super because obviously you're making more. Absolutely not, 582 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,200 Speaker 2: because it's locked away, and so we need to kind 583 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 2: of make this balance of how much is going to 584 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,000 Speaker 2: be in SUPER for when I do retire versus how 585 00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,919 Speaker 2: much is going to help me achieve my goals today? 586 00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,080 Speaker 2: How much is going to help me, you know, be 587 00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,639 Speaker 2: in the best possible financial position. Do I want to 588 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,360 Speaker 2: invest outside of super so that I can achieve financial 589 00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:33,640 Speaker 2: freedom earlier? It's a fine balance between what you're doing 590 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 2: inside and outside of SUPER. If you asked me personally, Victoria, 591 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:41,199 Speaker 2: do you add additional money to your super so that 592 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 2: you know you can make the most of that At 593 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:46,240 Speaker 2: this point in my life, No, because I really want 594 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 2: financial freedom before I retire some point when I'm a 595 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:51,679 Speaker 2: little bit more, you know cash they could, and you 596 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,520 Speaker 2: know my businesses are able to pay me a bit more, 597 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,720 Speaker 2: I will put more money into SUPER. But right now 598 00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:01,879 Speaker 2: my goal is actually my mortgage and paying for Harvey's 599 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:05,480 Speaker 2: future education and all of those things that are important 600 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:08,879 Speaker 2: to my husband and I. So just because on paper 601 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 2: it's twenty one percent better, that doesn't mean that that 602 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 2: works for me. So I think the important thing here 603 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:20,040 Speaker 2: is really understanding that, No, it doesn't necessarily mean that 604 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:23,880 Speaker 2: SUPER safer. SUPER feels safer because we like structure, and 605 00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 2: superannuation is forced upon us, so you have to have 606 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 2: it back, and because it's always been there, you assume 607 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 2: it's a safe option. But that doesn't mean that investing 608 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,920 Speaker 2: outside of SUPER is unsafe. You just have to make 609 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:36,560 Speaker 2: a decision that's in line with your risk profile. So 610 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:39,440 Speaker 2: for me, the safety thing, I just wanted to stamp 611 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,720 Speaker 2: that out really quickly. Is it better to put it 612 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:44,960 Speaker 2: in SUPER? The answer is very unclear because I don't 613 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,399 Speaker 2: know your personal circumstances. But what I need you to 614 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:52,120 Speaker 2: understand is that tax environment can be beneficial, but it's 615 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:55,480 Speaker 2: not as accessible, and that's where I go, well, what's 616 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 2: going to work for you? Right now? You're able to 617 00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:01,320 Speaker 2: contribute up to twenty seven thousand, five hundred dollars each 618 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:05,679 Speaker 2: financial year to your superannuation and get that fifteen percent 619 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,199 Speaker 2: tax rate above and beyond that you go back to 620 00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:11,879 Speaker 2: your marginal tax rate. So it's completely up to you 621 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 2: what you do. But if you're thinking about the first 622 00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:18,639 Speaker 2: time super savior scheme, great scheme, great scheme, nine and 623 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,080 Speaker 2: a half thousand dollars better off if you were to 624 00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:25,200 Speaker 2: think about using that over a five year period. That's 625 00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,439 Speaker 2: my rant on supranuation. Thank you for coming to my 626 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 2: Ted Talk solid advice. Yeah, that's great. Oh thanks thanks. 627 00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 2: That's all I've got though, So let's move on. We 628 00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,119 Speaker 2: had a DM this week. Are you guys ready to 629 00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 2: unpack it? Very good? All right, Hi, she's on the money. 630 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,840 Speaker 2: I have a money dilemma. My Bessie really wanted me 631 00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 2: to come on a holiday with her to Bali. She 632 00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 2: was trying to convince me for a full month. I 633 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,959 Speaker 2: told her I would love to, but probably couldn't because 634 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 2: I didn't have the cash. No problem. If you're beck though, 635 00:28:54,800 --> 00:29:02,360 Speaker 2: Hey true little jabb going to Japan. Yeah, no, you're 636 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 2: so right, I won't no judgment. I love you and 637 00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:07,840 Speaker 2: all of the decisions do you make. Thank you so much, 638 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 2: she said. In response, she said she was more than 639 00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:12,640 Speaker 2: happy to loan me the money if it meant that 640 00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,920 Speaker 2: they could go on the holiday together, which is really nice. 641 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 2: We have been friends for years, so I didn't think 642 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,240 Speaker 2: that this was weird. I took her up on it, 643 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,800 Speaker 2: telling her I would need about three months post trip 644 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 2: to pay her back, and she was really okay with that. 645 00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:27,040 Speaker 2: She paid three thousand dollars for me and we had 646 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 2: the best time. But we've been home for a couple 647 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:32,320 Speaker 2: of weeks and she's told me that she needs the 648 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 2: money now. She's spontaneously decided to move out of home. 649 00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 2: Post getting home, she saw someone post on Instagram with 650 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,080 Speaker 2: a free room up for rent for a few months 651 00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 2: and took them up on it really quickly. I literally 652 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 2: can't pay her now or I wouldn't be able to 653 00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 2: pay my rent and buy food. What do I say 654 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,239 Speaker 2: to her? We agreed to three months, but it is 655 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:52,080 Speaker 2: her money, and if she wants it now, do I 656 00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 2: have to cough it up as help? Okay? 657 00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:58,520 Speaker 4: So I find myself in this situation a lot actually 658 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 4: going to Japan. My rent actually offered me money to go, 659 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:05,360 Speaker 4: and that's one of the reasons why I am able to. 660 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 2: It's really funny. It's very well timed. It's really Yeah, 661 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,360 Speaker 2: it's not a plan, it's just very well timed. I 662 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 2: just think it's so funny. Yeah, this is so because 663 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 2: I didn't say anything to you guys before. No, no, 664 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 2: we had no idea. 665 00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:21,920 Speaker 4: So I guess the thing is, I have borrowed money 666 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 4: from friends before. I always pay it back when I 667 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 4: say I will. I guess like your friend, unfortunately, has 668 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 4: gone back on what she said. You have an agreement. 669 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 4: It's kind of like the same as like say you're 670 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 4: borrowing from a bank or whatever, Like you have X 671 00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,440 Speaker 4: amount of time to pay it back. When you agreed 672 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 4: to this, you didn't have the anxiety and stress and 673 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,160 Speaker 4: pressure of having to pay immediately as soon as you 674 00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,000 Speaker 4: got back, and so that's why you agreed to do it. 675 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,000 Speaker 4: That's why you went and had a great time. I 676 00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 4: understand that it's her money and she is like, you know, 677 00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 4: she's owed that money and she will get that money back. 678 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:52,760 Speaker 2: But if I. 679 00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:55,720 Speaker 4: Feel like if this person knew that they would have 680 00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 4: to pay it immediately, as soon as they got back, 681 00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:00,680 Speaker 4: or like within the first few weeks, they would have 682 00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,120 Speaker 4: definitely said no, they actually can't ford this. If you 683 00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:06,120 Speaker 4: have all the information available to you and you agree 684 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,520 Speaker 4: to do it, but then you just can't make it happen, 685 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,880 Speaker 4: that's the story for another time. But this is like 686 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 4: you had all the information given to you, you thought 687 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:16,880 Speaker 4: you had X amount of time to pay back, and 688 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,320 Speaker 4: now your friends kind of come back and be like, no, 689 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 4: I need it now, which is completely unfair to you. 690 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 2: I feel like your friend is in the wrong here. 691 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 2: Obviously it is their money. 692 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,080 Speaker 4: They do need their money back eventually, but if you 693 00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:28,760 Speaker 4: had that information, you probably wouldn't have gone. 694 00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:30,240 Speaker 2: I think if your friend had said, yeah, you'll have 695 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 2: to pay me back when you get back, you would 696 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 2: have been like, well, I just can't go then. Thanks though, 697 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:36,440 Speaker 2: and they should be aware of that, right, Like you 698 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 2: literally were being convinced for a month to take them 699 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,120 Speaker 2: up on this offer, right, Like, I feel like it 700 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 2: is kind of unfair. Just what are your thoughts? 701 00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:47,560 Speaker 3: I completely agree, Like, I think the changing last minute, 702 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 3: especially over something that's not necessary, like if the friend 703 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 3: had had a medical emergency and I'm like, well I 704 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:54,000 Speaker 3: have to pay for a surgery. I could be a 705 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:57,840 Speaker 3: bit more understanding, but she's making a choice. It seems 706 00:31:57,880 --> 00:31:59,640 Speaker 3: to me that perhaps she wasn't in the position to 707 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 3: lend the money. And I have a perspective on this 708 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:06,320 Speaker 3: that is said with lots of love and care, but 709 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,479 Speaker 3: I think across the board, perhaps we're not all managing 710 00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 3: our money in the most responsible way in this scenario. 711 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:15,160 Speaker 3: I think that if you're going to lend somebody money, 712 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 3: you should be able to function without it for a 713 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 3: significant period of time, unless it's a super emergency. Again, 714 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:22,600 Speaker 3: if you've got a friend in trouble and you can 715 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,160 Speaker 3: help them by all means. But I think like in 716 00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:27,480 Speaker 3: this case, if she was going to pay for a 717 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 3: holiday for someone, which is obviously a luxury, she probably 718 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,880 Speaker 3: should have ideally been in a bit more of a 719 00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:36,080 Speaker 3: financially stable position where she wouldn't have to go back 720 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 3: on her word and ask for it sooner. On the 721 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,400 Speaker 3: flip side, I also think that if you can't afford 722 00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,680 Speaker 3: to pay for a holiday, I don't know that it's 723 00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,360 Speaker 3: the best or most responsible choice to go. 724 00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 2: I'm really sorry. 725 00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:52,600 Speaker 3: I feel incredibly bad saying this year after you've just 726 00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 3: been so excited. 727 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 2: Sorry, sometimes it needs to hear the truth. And we 728 00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,520 Speaker 2: love Beck, but like, I don't think it's going to 729 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:03,160 Speaker 2: come as a surprise that if she said, V, do 730 00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:05,160 Speaker 2: you think this is a good idea? Beck, I will 731 00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 2: outwardly say Beck, I think it's a terrible idea. But 732 00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:12,040 Speaker 2: I also know that Beck just does whatever she wants, 733 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:14,440 Speaker 2: like no, but I'm not the boss of you, and 734 00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 2: my opinion is worth literally nothing like it. 735 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 3: It's my opinion. 736 00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:20,800 Speaker 2: You could put it in the bin, you could take it, 737 00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:22,760 Speaker 2: you can do whatever you want with it. You haven't 738 00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:25,000 Speaker 2: asked me if it's a good idea, and it's not 739 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 2: my place to say so. Or is this money diarist 740 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,200 Speaker 2: or this you know member of our community is like, V, 741 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,120 Speaker 2: what are you doing? In that case, I'll give you 742 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:35,040 Speaker 2: my opinion, But like, you're in a position, Beck, where 743 00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 2: you know you've got all the resources. You've already said, look, 744 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,480 Speaker 2: I probably know I shouldn't, but you're in a position 745 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 2: where you feel comfortable to do that. You're probably really 746 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 2: comfy with a friend who's making this decision with you, 747 00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:49,239 Speaker 2: and like Yollo, like, yeah, you know it's kind of 748 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:51,200 Speaker 2: like you know, Jess, I don't know the ins and 749 00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:54,200 Speaker 2: outs of your relationship and it's not you don't know everything. 750 00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 2: You can't judge someone for the decisions they're making. I mean, 751 00:33:57,880 --> 00:33:59,440 Speaker 2: I wouldn't get on the podcast and be like, do 752 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:03,840 Speaker 2: what Beck do? Like no, but really it's in Beck's 753 00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,480 Speaker 2: best interests because she's probably weighed up the pros and cons. 754 00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:08,120 Speaker 2: As you said, I know who it is like, and 755 00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 2: I know you two have a very close relationship and 756 00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,840 Speaker 2: it's not going to go south. Yeah, So it's fine. 757 00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:14,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's. 758 00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,600 Speaker 2: Different for everybody, and you can't just give the blanket 759 00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,839 Speaker 2: advice that what Beck's up to is absolutely fine, because 760 00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 2: look what's happened to this member of our community. Her 761 00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:25,960 Speaker 2: friends come back and changed the dynamics, and that's a 762 00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:27,600 Speaker 2: really tricky position to be in. 763 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:29,960 Speaker 3: And that's why I kind of feel like hindsight is 764 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 3: twenty twenty and like, obviously it's all well and good 765 00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:33,800 Speaker 3: for me to say, oh, like you probably shouldn't have 766 00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:35,440 Speaker 3: gone on the trip if you couldn't afford her, but like, 767 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:37,120 Speaker 3: the trip is done and she had a great time, 768 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:40,160 Speaker 3: and that's awesome. So I guess from here my advice 769 00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 3: would be that you you I feel like I say 770 00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:44,360 Speaker 3: this every time, but you really need to tell your 771 00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:46,920 Speaker 3: friend what you told us, like, yeah, it's I completely 772 00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 3: agree with what you were saying, Beck that it's it's 773 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:52,359 Speaker 3: very unreasonable of her friend to shift the goalposts. And 774 00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 3: I think that if there is any wiggle room for 775 00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:58,319 Speaker 3: you to expedite the repayments, try to do that, but 776 00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:01,759 Speaker 3: not obviously at the sacri or the cost of being 777 00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:04,040 Speaker 3: able to feed yourself, being able to pay your rent, Like, 778 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:06,840 Speaker 3: those things have to come first. Your physical safety and 779 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:10,040 Speaker 3: health has to come first. And I guess the other 780 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:13,920 Speaker 3: thing that i'd mention is reviewing your discretionary spending because 781 00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:15,719 Speaker 3: the fact that you went on this holiday when you 782 00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:18,760 Speaker 3: maybe couldn't quite afford it says to me that maybe 783 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 3: we're being a little flexy with our budget what we're 784 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,280 Speaker 3: choosing to spend on, which is fine normally that's totally 785 00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 3: your call, but I think that we've kind of had 786 00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:30,680 Speaker 3: the flip side of this as a question or a 787 00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:33,600 Speaker 3: dilemma before. You know, if you've said to your friend, hey, 788 00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:35,759 Speaker 3: I really can't pay you back yet, we've got this 789 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:38,320 Speaker 3: agreed timeline. Can I do it over the three months? 790 00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 3: And that's reasonable because that's what you agreed to. But 791 00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:44,240 Speaker 3: if she then saw you going on a weekend away 792 00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:48,400 Speaker 3: or blowing all your money on new shoes or something. 793 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:51,319 Speaker 3: Then I can understand how the friend would also feel 794 00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:54,400 Speaker 3: a little bit put out. So I think, like just 795 00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:57,480 Speaker 3: making sure that on both sides we're doing everything we 796 00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:00,520 Speaker 3: can to be fair and reasonable your prior urtizing that 797 00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:03,920 Speaker 3: debt repayment. It is so annoying that that timeline that 798 00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:07,000 Speaker 3: she's trying to change it. And I completely empathize with 799 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:09,200 Speaker 3: you because that's not what you discussed. You did the 800 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:11,520 Speaker 3: right thing and you put a timeframe on upfront, which 801 00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:14,040 Speaker 3: was a great call. Very well done from you. That 802 00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,480 Speaker 3: was so smart. But you know, doing everything you can 803 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:19,800 Speaker 3: to pay her back as quickly as possible where possible. 804 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:22,800 Speaker 2: I find that it's so hard because I mean flipping 805 00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,320 Speaker 2: the tables only because it seems really relevant at the moment. 806 00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:28,520 Speaker 2: I'm assuming Beck, if you thought that that would happen 807 00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:30,680 Speaker 2: to you and the second you got back you'd o 808 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:32,480 Speaker 2: the money, you probably would have said no to Japan, 809 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:35,560 Speaker 2: right totally. Yeah, that's true. Whereas right now you're like, oh, 810 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:37,799 Speaker 2: I feel really comfortable and you trust the person to, 811 00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:40,319 Speaker 2: you know, work with the terms that you've set up 812 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,320 Speaker 2: between the two of you. Yes, So Beck's not worried 813 00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:47,120 Speaker 2: about that. You'd feel pretty muckdover if you got back 814 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 2: in your friend was like, oh, Beck, you have to 815 00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:50,360 Speaker 2: pay me this week. You'd be like, well, I can't. 816 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,600 Speaker 2: Like that's a stressful position I wouldn't have accepted in 817 00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,319 Speaker 2: the first place. So I feel like, yeah, maybe just 818 00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 2: going to your friend. Hey, I really like this is 819 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,680 Speaker 2: why we agreed to the because I genuinely couldn't. 820 00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:02,720 Speaker 3: Like that's what's doable. 821 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:04,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, and maybe try and work with them as well 822 00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:06,400 Speaker 2: and be like, is there anything I can help you 823 00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:08,440 Speaker 2: with in the short term, Like, you know, maybe I 824 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:11,640 Speaker 2: could do two payments instead of one, but like that's 825 00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:14,400 Speaker 2: probably it. So I think just negotiating with them. But 826 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:18,719 Speaker 2: when it comes to lending money to friends, I do it. 827 00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:20,040 Speaker 2: At the end of the day, I feel like we're 828 00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:22,440 Speaker 2: in a cost of living crisis, and I feel very 829 00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:25,800 Speaker 2: privileged that if my friends are stuck in a hard place, 830 00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:28,120 Speaker 2: they are comfortable enough to share that with me, and 831 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:31,439 Speaker 2: I am in the very privileged position to be able 832 00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:33,600 Speaker 2: to help. And I love that I'm that type of 833 00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:35,799 Speaker 2: person that like I just feel like, I don't know, 834 00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:37,560 Speaker 2: I really like that I can be that person for 835 00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:41,600 Speaker 2: my family and for my friends, right, But I always 836 00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:45,319 Speaker 2: lend money with the idea in my head that I 837 00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 2: will either lose the money or lose a friend, and 838 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 2: I have to be happy with one of those outcomes. Yeah, 839 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:52,000 Speaker 2: I don't want to lose my friend. I'd prefer to 840 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,000 Speaker 2: lose the money, and like, it's on me if I 841 00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:56,439 Speaker 2: lend it and it doesn't come back. But if you're 842 00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,359 Speaker 2: not comfortable with either losing the money or losing a friend, 843 00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:01,879 Speaker 2: you shouldn't be ending money out. Yeah, like, because it's 844 00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,160 Speaker 2: one or the other that you will lose if you're 845 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,160 Speaker 2: not happy with that. So I'm not saying that you 846 00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:07,799 Speaker 2: will lose your money and you will lose your friend. 847 00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:09,120 Speaker 3: Yes, nothing happy. 848 00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:12,399 Speaker 2: Ideally, nothing happens. You know, they're a friend like Beck 849 00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,600 Speaker 2: who pays it back, you know, as soon as they can, 850 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,200 Speaker 2: and we don't even talk about it ever again. But 851 00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 2: I think that you have to really go well, if 852 00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,239 Speaker 2: I'm willing to do this, I also have to be 853 00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:25,000 Speaker 2: willing to lose one of those things, because I don't 854 00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,919 Speaker 2: want to lose my friends. I'd much prefer to lose 855 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:28,600 Speaker 2: you know, the five hundred bucks, I'd lent them. But 856 00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:30,719 Speaker 2: I think you need to kind of put yourself in 857 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:33,040 Speaker 2: that position, and if you're not willing to lose that cash, 858 00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:35,759 Speaker 2: you actually can't lend it out. Yeah, and that would 859 00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:37,880 Speaker 2: be a okay. Well, maybe we plan a holiday for 860 00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,479 Speaker 2: in twelve months, because a lot of the time these 861 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:43,319 Speaker 2: things are yes, you can't go right now. Well why 862 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,640 Speaker 2: can't we plan it for in the future. You don't 863 00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:49,120 Speaker 2: necessarily have to miss out completely. But yeah, I think 864 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,200 Speaker 2: it's an interesting perspective. We did ask the community and 865 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:55,040 Speaker 2: we said, would you ever borrow money off a friend 866 00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:58,040 Speaker 2: for a holiday, and nine percent of you said yes, 867 00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:01,000 Speaker 2: I would trust my friends, so it's fine. Ninety one 868 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:03,760 Speaker 2: percent of you said no, things could get too messy. 869 00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:06,560 Speaker 2: We also asked you, do you think this person needs 870 00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:09,800 Speaker 2: to pay back the money right now? And eight percent 871 00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:12,200 Speaker 2: of you said yes, only eight percent of you, So 872 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:14,480 Speaker 2: I think everybody else is sitting on our side of 873 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 2: the table where we're like, well, that's so unfair to 874 00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:20,239 Speaker 2: change the goalposts, because ninety two percent of you said no, 875 00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:22,720 Speaker 2: they'd agreed on three months time. You need to stick 876 00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:25,360 Speaker 2: to it. We then asked, do you think it's okay 877 00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:27,719 Speaker 2: for the friend to change their agreement and ask for 878 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:30,719 Speaker 2: the money back. Ninety three percent of you said no, 879 00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:33,600 Speaker 2: shouldn't have offered it if she didn't mean it, and 880 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,560 Speaker 2: then obviously seven percent of you said yes, so money, 881 00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:40,279 Speaker 2: she can ask for it back whenever she wants, which no, 882 00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:40,680 Speaker 2: you can't. 883 00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:42,839 Speaker 3: I feel like it's not such a simple thing where 884 00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:44,919 Speaker 3: you're going, oh, like I said, you could borrow my sweater, 885 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:46,560 Speaker 3: but actually I want to wear a sweater like it's 886 00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:51,040 Speaker 3: to me, it's a much bigger thing. And you're lending 887 00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:53,920 Speaker 3: the money knowing that your friend is in a tight 888 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,000 Speaker 3: spot financially, like you're offering to help them out of 889 00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,200 Speaker 3: that spot, which is very kind and very well meaning, 890 00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:00,720 Speaker 3: but the amount of stress that you're then on them 891 00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:02,520 Speaker 3: by going ha ha, just kidding. I need it back 892 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,560 Speaker 3: because I want to move out into this free room. 893 00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,080 Speaker 3: Like as much as it sucks, I feel like the 894 00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:08,920 Speaker 3: responsible thing from them would be to do would be 895 00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:11,560 Speaker 3: to pass up the opportunity let your friend payback on 896 00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:12,560 Speaker 3: the agreed timeline. 897 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:15,239 Speaker 2: And no, agreed, I agree. We did ask for your 898 00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:18,880 Speaker 2: two cents as always, and you won't be surprised at 899 00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,560 Speaker 2: some of these responses. So someone said, I would never 900 00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:23,560 Speaker 2: demand money from my friends if it meant that they 901 00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:26,279 Speaker 2: were going without their basic survival needs, which I think 902 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,719 Speaker 2: is fair. Someone said, I really wonder if they would 903 00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,520 Speaker 2: have the same feeling if it was a medical emergency, 904 00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,719 Speaker 2: which you brought up before. Someone else said, she can 905 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:36,399 Speaker 2: ask her to pay the money back, but if it's 906 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,200 Speaker 2: not there to be paid back, then tough. 907 00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:40,160 Speaker 3: What are you to do? Where you can I pull 908 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,120 Speaker 3: it from? Doesn't grow on trees? 909 00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,640 Speaker 2: Well, someone else said, and I think this is interesting 910 00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:46,920 Speaker 2: because this is I guess, in the spirit of open, 911 00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:49,600 Speaker 2: honest conversations around money. She said she's more than welcome 912 00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,040 Speaker 2: to ask if she can pay it back early. Maybe 913 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:54,400 Speaker 2: her friend came into some cash and she wasn't aware, 914 00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,399 Speaker 2: but she did agree on the three months, which needs 915 00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:01,040 Speaker 2: to be adhered to if necessary. So like, I think 916 00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,319 Speaker 2: it's actually fair if her friend turned around and you know, 917 00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:07,440 Speaker 2: now talking this out, I suppose you know, if I 918 00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:10,200 Speaker 2: borrowed some money from you, Jess, and then Jess, you 919 00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:11,759 Speaker 2: were like, oh, V do you reckon you could pay 920 00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:13,759 Speaker 2: it back early? And I went, oh no, sorry, Jess. 921 00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:16,160 Speaker 2: You might go, oh, no, worries. I just thought I'd 922 00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:18,359 Speaker 2: check because that would have been helpful. Maybe we are 923 00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:21,680 Speaker 2: just overthinking this and thinking it's a mean thing, or like, 924 00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:23,840 Speaker 2: you know, her friend's putting it back on her. Have 925 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:26,000 Speaker 2: you had that conversation to be like, oh, look, I 926 00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:27,520 Speaker 2: really would love to be able to give you that 927 00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:29,840 Speaker 2: cash holder back, but I just don't have it to 928 00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:33,520 Speaker 2: give you right now. Maybe it's as simple as a conversation. Yeah, 929 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:37,600 Speaker 2: and having open, ongoing conversation about money. Someone else said, 930 00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,520 Speaker 2: never lend anything you can't do without friends. Should have 931 00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:44,000 Speaker 2: considered pre trip and moving out before giving it away. 932 00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:46,560 Speaker 2: Someone said she shouldn't have offered to pay for it 933 00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:49,879 Speaker 2: if she didn't have an emergency fund. Oh, we love 934 00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:53,879 Speaker 2: an emergency fund in this house. Someone said, never go 935 00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:56,640 Speaker 2: into debt for a holiday. Sorry, girl, but you do 936 00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:57,960 Speaker 2: have to pay up asap. 937 00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,880 Speaker 4: Asap could still mean three months. Yeah, I feel like 938 00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:02,839 Speaker 4: as soon as you can. 939 00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,520 Speaker 2: Yes, I mean I feel like that one's double ended. 940 00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:05,799 Speaker 3: Right. 941 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,560 Speaker 2: Never go into debt for a holiday I would agree 942 00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:11,440 Speaker 2: with if you can not do it, but then sorry, girl, 943 00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:13,080 Speaker 2: got to pay up. No, I don't agree with that. 944 00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:16,600 Speaker 2: And then there are a whole heap of responses that 945 00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:18,360 Speaker 2: are very similar to what we've said. So I won't 946 00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,719 Speaker 2: bore you with that, but I think that's all we 947 00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:24,000 Speaker 2: have time for guys, really going on and on, especially 948 00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:26,799 Speaker 2: when I had that rant about superannuation. So I just 949 00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,239 Speaker 2: need you to understand that it's a tax structure, not 950 00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:32,480 Speaker 2: an investment, and investing inside and outside of super it 951 00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:35,240 Speaker 2: carries the same risk because they're often exactly. 952 00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:35,440 Speaker 5: The same thing. 953 00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:41,239 Speaker 2: It's really passionate, passionate because they just want you doing best. Yeah, understood, 954 00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,759 Speaker 2: All right, Well, I hope you have a really good 955 00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:46,080 Speaker 2: weekend guys, and we will see you bright and early 956 00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:49,799 Speaker 2: on Monday for our money diary, so it can't wait. 957 00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:51,360 Speaker 2: Be good bye, guys. 958 00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:57,080 Speaker 3: Bye. 959 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,320 Speaker 2: The advice shared on She's on the Money is general 960 00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:05,240 Speaker 2: in nature and does not consider your individual circumstances. 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