Speaker 1: Flex and Friends.
Speaker 2: I'm Kida.
Speaker 3: Welcome to the podcast. Everybody you're with Flexi and Fumina.
Speaker 3: I've got this book here with me. Our producer Brook
Speaker 3: keeps hanging extreme shit on me for wearing this outfit.
Speaker 4: No is no, I can't even interpreting it. It's a compliment.
Speaker 4: If someone says you look like a sexy librarian, that
Speaker 4: means you are a vision of fantasy.
Speaker 2: A lot of people are nodding in the space. My
Speaker 2: grandma was a librarian. Huh.
Speaker 3: AnyWho apple doesn't fall far from the true. I'm going
Speaker 3: to tell you a fact from this book, a fresh one.
Speaker 2: Yep. Why did women.
Speaker 3: Shave their heads in ancient Egypt? You told me it
Speaker 3: was a sign of feminine beauty.
Speaker 2: That's it, yep.
Speaker 4: Because I feel like I need to get give me
Speaker 4: some more, give me like a Do you think I
Speaker 4: would look beautiful with a shaved head?
Speaker 2: Are you hinting at something? Have you ever shaved your head?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: If I have the head shaped for it, I've got
Speaker 4: the face for it.
Speaker 5: No out about it.
Speaker 2: I'm not out about it? Have you You've had it really short?
Speaker 2: You've shared my head multiple times? Made you do it?
Speaker 2: Ah feeling. I want to be free.
Speaker 3: I like the look of it esthetically on women. But
Speaker 3: the longer that I get, the more I just would
Speaker 3: never want to do it again. It's funny that it's
Speaker 3: like Stockholm syndrome of short hair.
Speaker 4: Reminds me of when I was on that reality show
Speaker 4: that won't be named and I jumped off this seven
Speaker 4: meter pole. On the first time, I did it fine.
Speaker 4: The second time, I was like, never again.
Speaker 2: You jumped off a seven meter pole? Yeah? Like was
Speaker 2: the pole perpendicular?
Speaker 4: It was like imagine a ladder with a very baby
Speaker 4: platform that was like twenty centimeters seven meters into what
Speaker 4: into the air? But like where did you know this harness?
Speaker 4: But it was like a harness that like carries you
Speaker 4: like a bungee. It just like it's like a one
Speaker 4: and a half second drop. Never again fell.
Speaker 3: We're gonna talk about a guy that DMed me a nag, yeah,
Speaker 3: and how we responded.
Speaker 2: I've never liked being negged. I've never responded to it. Really.
Speaker 2: I think people losers who do that.
Speaker 3: Okay, I put a high price on my head, and
Speaker 3: if you can't afford it, I can tell.
Speaker 4: What's the price, what's the bare minimum you expect from
Speaker 4: someone trying to like push to you, move to you.
Speaker 2: It varies, but mostly plans. Give me plans.
Speaker 3: Okay, no open ended plans. You're saying we should catch up.
Speaker 2: Give me a date.
Speaker 3: Yes, If you don't give me a date, then I'm
Speaker 3: just going to assume that you don't want to and
Speaker 3: I'm only going to ask you one more time.
Speaker 2: I feel like.
Speaker 4: My tolerance is really low, Like I need a plan,
Speaker 4: I need consistency, I need reliability, I need humor, I
Speaker 4: need all of it. Because everyone can be on the fringe.
Speaker 4: But if you're really gonna like permeate, penetrate this outer layer,
Speaker 4: then at least come through with something like of value.
Speaker 4: I don't want to be buddy buddies. If you're a
Speaker 4: bum friend, I don't know if.
Speaker 2: We're talking about friends or dating or anything else. You
Speaker 2: have to be a friend in order to date me.
Speaker 3: Wow, I don't agree with that, So we're gonna leave
Speaker 3: it at that. Enjoy the podcast, and yeah, leave you
Speaker 3: on a cliffhanger here, FLEXI.
Speaker 1: This is flex and frooms on Cada.
Speaker 4: We find two things important, giving people unsolicited love, advice,
Speaker 4: making fun of each other, and what comes in at
Speaker 4: close second, but is ultimately a third is generating ways
Speaker 4: to become rich. I'm probably gonna stop you there, maybe not.
Speaker 4: I don't make fun of you, not a nuss, And
Speaker 4: that's a opportunity because I give you, I give you
Speaker 4: the material to work.
Speaker 2: With I do.
Speaker 4: I'm just nice. Don't let anything go, call it all out.
Speaker 4: Everything is content continued ol a couple of weeks ago,
Speaker 4: maybe it was last week. Time is a myth we
Speaker 4: discussed Belle Delphine, the twitch streamer adult content creator who
Speaker 4: sold her bathworder for millions of dollars, inspired us.
Speaker 2: We might do the same, we might not.
Speaker 4: Time will only tell, And since then I've been on
Speaker 4: a quest to find other potentially absurd ways to make
Speaker 4: a quick buck. What I found out recently is there
Speaker 4: is a thing called domain squatting. I've known about it
Speaker 4: for a little while, I hadn't known where it originated from.
Speaker 4: So basically, domain squatters are people who register potential domain
Speaker 4: URLs and buy it for really low So for example,
Speaker 4: somebody might buy the domain for TikTok dot com when
Speaker 4: it's getting really popular, assuming it hasn't been bought yet,
Speaker 4: or maybe there's an underground rapper who's come to SoundCloud,
Speaker 4: same buy their domain. Imagine buying Kanye West dot com
Speaker 4: before Kanye did, Because what ends up happening is that
Speaker 4: the person who rightfully so should own that domain is
Speaker 4: going to want to buy it off you. What happened
Speaker 4: in two thousand and eight, Well, in nineteen ninety four, sorry,
Speaker 4: the I was born. This guy called Chris Clark bought
Speaker 4: the domain pizza dot com.
Speaker 2: Very simple, new to the Internet. See what it feels
Speaker 2: like by domain? Right?
Speaker 4: Then in two thousand and eight, so what's that? Fourteen
Speaker 4: years later he sold that domain name for two point
Speaker 4: six million dollars.
Speaker 2: Could you imagine?
Speaker 4: Well, could you imagine I, for one, do the same thing.
Speaker 4: I'm a domain squatter myself. It's one thing you don't
Speaker 4: know about me.
Speaker 5: What do you do?
Speaker 4: When I started making conversation card games with my business
Speaker 4: flex Factory and evere Press, I was like, wait a second,
Speaker 4: nobody has the domain name for conversation cards dot com,
Speaker 4: Conversation cards dot com dot are you how to have
Speaker 4: a conversation dot com?
Speaker 2: I bought it.
Speaker 4: All and I redirected it to my business. I also
Speaker 4: made an Instagram page for sun Kiss. It used to
Speaker 4: be my favorite orange soda in hopes that when they
Speaker 4: wanted an Instagram presence, they would buy from me. So
Speaker 4: you got sun Kissed Yeah, all sun kissed AU Okay,
Speaker 4: a localized version.
Speaker 2: Does anyone really shout for that? Not yet?
Speaker 4: But I also don't know the password to that account.
Speaker 4: I don't know the email I made with it. So
Speaker 4: I just have it and it is mine. And I
Speaker 4: think it's also calmer because contrary to what you might think,
Speaker 4: I don't own at Flexmamy on Instagram. Some mother bro
Speaker 4: does and it's rightfully his.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'd love to know who he is. Maybe we'll
Speaker 3: interview one day and we'll get my frooms tuos. Yeah,
Speaker 3: got him in battle head to head.
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's fight them, hurt them, hex them. We can
Speaker 4: do it well, no violence, We don't control violence theoretically,
Speaker 4: figuratively annihilate them. Flex and it's Flex on Kit And
Speaker 4: this week we are making dreams come true. I swear
Speaker 4: to you we surprise Rooms my special co hosts one
Speaker 4: of her favorite people in the whole white world, Gavin Rubin.
Speaker 4: Scene from Lux Listing Sydney. We had in the studio
Speaker 4: and when I tell you she squealed was.
Speaker 2: In hysterics, huffing, puffing. It was really quite beautiful.
Speaker 4: I think there was chemistry all round, and I think
Speaker 4: you want to pay attention and stay tuned so you
Speaker 4: can hear exactly how it went down.
Speaker 2: Oh god, this is phenomenal.
Speaker 4: Last week threw me over here, probably gave us a
Speaker 4: fifty minute monologue about how obsessed she is. Not just
Speaker 4: lux listening. So it's not even about that, it's about you.
Speaker 5: I appreciate that, Thank you very much.
Speaker 2: She is freaking I actually am.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I don't even get nerves. I forgot what it's
Speaker 5: like to be nervous.
Speaker 3: I know that I said that we both love Simon
Speaker 3: and Gavin flex big fans appreciate that.
Speaker 2: I said, I'm probably more of a Gavin.
Speaker 5: You better not have said you prefer Simon.
Speaker 6: I would never say that she's good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I wish we had the tape, Peter play it back?
Speaker 2: Do we no?
Speaker 3: When I finished the first season, I was lining up
Speaker 3: to go to the rooftop, my first ever time. I
Speaker 3: was a fish out of water and I was lining up,
Speaker 3: and who did I see walking out of the venue.
Speaker 3: Gavin Gavin Rubinstein flunked by a bevy of women, and
Speaker 3: other hanger honers of course, and he's getting out and
Speaker 3: getting into a Bentley and I screamed.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, Gavin, I love you.
Speaker 2: Did you really?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 2: Something came over me. I've never done it before.
Speaker 4: It has to be one of the most composed people
Speaker 4: I've ever met in my life.
Speaker 2: If there was anyone who would choose.
Speaker 4: Professionalism tacked grace over being a bansheet, it is this
Speaker 4: woman on this show Flex and Rooms. I would describe
Speaker 4: us both as like professional friends you Simon and Dealen.
Speaker 4: What is the relationship there?
Speaker 5: It's a weird dynamic.
Speaker 6: So like Deleene and I have no real friendship all
Speaker 6: and that's true percent on a professional level. If we crossover,
Speaker 6: we cross over, But we don't have much of a
Speaker 6: professional relationship either. Simon and I have a good working relationship.
Speaker 6: We've got a good friendship. We don't always see eye
Speaker 6: to eye. You've got to remember he's kind of representing
Speaker 6: the buyer. I'm representing the seller. He's trying to buy low.
Speaker 6: I'm trying to sell high.
Speaker 2: In Enemies Love Story, I know about love story, Yang.
Speaker 4: These are direct quotes I'm getting from Gavin's math Mortal Enemies.
Speaker 3: Love this last week, I opened my letterbox. I live
Speaker 3: in Bondo Beach and what I got was a little
Speaker 3: letter from TRG. You guys canvassed the area and put
Speaker 3: a letter into my letterbox saying we have a buyer
Speaker 3: that urgently needs to buy a two bedroom apartment in
Speaker 3: Bondi in this exact location. I actually message you on
Speaker 3: Instagram and you liked it.
Speaker 4: I just want to play something for you. We're getting
Speaker 4: too far into home buying territory.
Speaker 3: This is simply a short message for young Gavin. Big
Speaker 3: fan of your work and would love to have you over.
Speaker 2: I mean, the apartment is not mine to sell.
Speaker 3: It's roughly one million dollars more expensive than I can
Speaker 3: afford right now, but I'm happy to show you around.
Speaker 4: The thing about miss Lucinda Firm's price her real name,
Speaker 4: is that she will always take a bit too far. Now,
Speaker 4: while we're here, I want to say thank you for
Speaker 4: extending your time to us.
Speaker 5: It's a pleasure, and even.
Speaker 2: Do it if I have a full day. I'm not
Speaker 2: stopping for anyone. However, while you're here, a few rapid
Speaker 2: fire questions. I want to get to know you.
Speaker 4: Have you ever used a property you were selling for
Speaker 4: anything other than work purposes.
Speaker 2: Don't incriminate yourself.
Speaker 4: But if it's a yeah, okay, that's all we need.
Speaker 3: Cool Who do you think is dirtier people that sell
Speaker 3: houses or people that sell cars?
Speaker 5: Depends?
Speaker 6: They're both pretty much on the same level, right, you know? Really,
Speaker 6: I think the perception of used car salesmen and real
Speaker 6: estate agents from a society perspective is they're pretty even.
Speaker 6: I do what I can to change that perspective. One
Speaker 6: guy is not going to change. I know there are
Speaker 6: a couple of other good agents who do it.
Speaker 5: Three Yeah, there's three or four out there.
Speaker 2: And I've got one last question? Do you have one?
Speaker 4: You go and I'll see probably the most important question
Speaker 4: I've asked as I guess.
Speaker 5: What it is.
Speaker 2: Of course, Burple far not at all, Banks, not at all.
Speaker 2: I'm using this time properly. I'm planning for the future.
Speaker 5: But yeah, just what were the kitchen?
Speaker 3: Was there?
Speaker 5: I thought i'd just answer it.
Speaker 4: Wow, would you rather be the first or last person
Speaker 4: to know about a zombie apocalypse?
Speaker 5: And what? I want to be the first because I
Speaker 5: want to plan.
Speaker 2: What are you planning for?
Speaker 5: Escape?
Speaker 6: We're going I'll find a way, I'll find a place,
Speaker 6: got resources, use them.
Speaker 5: There's always a way. There's always a way. Man is overrun,
Speaker 5: there is always a way.
Speaker 4: Well, thank you so much for coming on. I feel
Speaker 4: like this is probably the best I've ever done, and
Speaker 4: I can't even.
Speaker 2: Take full credit for it.
Speaker 5: I appreciate you.
Speaker 4: Shout out to Brooks this one, Thanks brook Shout out
Speaker 4: to you Gavin for coming through and humoring us.
Speaker 5: I appreciate it. Thanks for having me, and thank.
Speaker 4: You for making rooms. I'd say at least for the
Speaker 4: next three months you can really write.
Speaker 2: It's a big deal. Who's going to believe you? You
Speaker 2: met the Gavin.
Speaker 1: This is flex and frooms on Kita.
Speaker 4: It is my duty to get at least a million
Speaker 4: people interested in reading books more frequently than they already do.
Speaker 4: As an avid reader of mostly vampires, smut, and self
Speaker 4: development books your own room, including my own, yes, best
Speaker 4: selling author that is me, I find it most favorable
Speaker 4: to share the books I read, because even if you
Speaker 4: don't end up reading it, you have some of the
Speaker 4: knowledge and that might push you further down. Books are fantastic,
Speaker 4: very underrated, so many, so much good stuff in them, Like.
Speaker 2: Where do you think the internet came from? Babe.
Speaker 3: A book, it's like breaking a hymen. Until you do it,
Speaker 3: you are never going to see what's inside. That's what
Speaker 3: a book is to me. It hurts when you first
Speaker 3: start reading me, like how could does ever be good?
Speaker 3: And then you break it and there's a whole other inside.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna take it back.
Speaker 4: You are so much I think you need a time out.
Speaker 4: Mostly corner corner, Yeah, just enough. The book I've been
Speaker 4: reading is called Attached by Emir Levine and Rachel sf Hell.
Speaker 4: The self development girlies are reading it, definitely, The Don't
Speaker 4: Want to Be gas Lit by My Next Partner people
Speaker 4: are reading it. The I've Broken one too many hearts
Speaker 4: people are dabbling into it.
Speaker 2: It essentially talks.
Speaker 4: About attachment theory, which is the relationships between humans, how
Speaker 4: humans speak to each other, deal with each other, perceive
Speaker 4: each other. It's actually quite great, but the most important
Speaker 4: core tenet in the book talks about how young kids
Speaker 4: need to develop a relationship with at least one primary
Speaker 4: caretaker for them to be well rounded people. So the
Speaker 4: book talks about how the way we were raised and
Speaker 4: our relationship to our primary caregiver, how that affects how
Speaker 4: we attach to people in our adulthood. So there are
Speaker 4: three ish attachment styles, secure avoidant, anxious, anxious avoidant, and
Speaker 4: all of these types have kind of a clear approach
Speaker 4: to how they deal with other people. For example, securely
Speaker 4: attached people is what we all want to be, the
Speaker 4: kind of people who can give and receive love freely,
Speaker 4: who don't hold grudges, who can express what they want
Speaker 4: when they want, who can set boundaries, who can be forgiving.
Speaker 4: This is all really great and dandy. We're all orbiting
Speaker 4: between anxious avoidant and somewhere in between. So as I
Speaker 4: was reading this book, I said, you know what's coming
Speaker 4: to mind. We're doing telepathy ah our relationship. No, I
Speaker 4: just want to see what you say. Do you know
Speaker 4: what your attachment style is, let's say, in dating.
Speaker 3: I do, Actually, I think because I've seen a psychologist
Speaker 3: for this her come on therapy girls seeing a therapist,
Speaker 3: And she said, she sent me all the different types
Speaker 3: and she told me you're anxious avoidant and she goes,
Speaker 3: this is the hardest one to change.
Speaker 2: And I went, cool, I'm gonna stop you there. I've
Speaker 2: done your bit.
Speaker 3: But yeah, essentially anxious avoidant. And she said to me
Speaker 3: pretty much point blank, you need to get a partner.
Speaker 3: You need said you need to have a boyfriend. And
Speaker 3: at the time I left and called Mum and I was.
Speaker 2: Like, what, why would she say that? She agreed?
Speaker 3: But then a month later I got a boyfriend and
Speaker 3: it actually unlocked something in me because it was a
Speaker 3: very secure relationship until oh and this is where the
Speaker 3: anxial avoidant comes in.
Speaker 2: Is this turning into a thriller with a relationships that
Speaker 2: I'm in?
Speaker 4: It?
Speaker 3: It's to the year mark. Yeah, and suddenly I'm y
Speaker 3: eating out of the bill.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm eighteen month or two eighteen year. It gets
Speaker 2: to a point and then I have to leave immediately.
Speaker 2: It is what it is? What's yours? What do you feel?
Speaker 4: Well, you were giving me a lot of agreeance there, okay,
Speaker 4: but what if I was just trying to mirror you
Speaker 4: for your own safety and comfort.
Speaker 2: Well, that's quite a vulnerable conversation.
Speaker 4: That's giving anxious I think. Okay, So what do you
Speaker 4: think I am? From what you've gathered?
Speaker 3: From what I've gathered, I could say, hand on heart,
Speaker 3: knowingly I put money on this.
Speaker 4: Avoidance avoidance stand up, know your community, you know your people.
Speaker 4: I think avoidance are the most sensible people of the
Speaker 4: whole bunch despite secure why because.
Speaker 2: Avoidance it for what it is.
Speaker 4: You come into this world on your own.
Speaker 1: You're listening to flex and frooms ONITA.
Speaker 3: So last week I received a DM. Somebody slid in,
Speaker 3: cheeky one, a cheeky DM from a man. Yes, very presumptuous,
Speaker 3: but he slid in saying, oh, just give you a
Speaker 3: bit of context.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So I didn't know who he was, but I clicked
Speaker 3: on his profile because his little avatar was like quite attractive.
Speaker 3: And it turns out that he is an ex survivor stuff.
Speaker 4: Oh I've never watched the show, okay, but like we
Speaker 4: get it. We get to watch the viver to know.
Speaker 3: So he slides into my DMS saying, you're funny at times.
Speaker 2: Oh, that's worse than I thought. What do you think
Speaker 2: I thought?
Speaker 4: You said you're kind of funny sometimes you're funny at times?
Speaker 2: I yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Pissed off. I'm feeling anger
Speaker 2: in my loins at this.
Speaker 4: Because now I want the I don't want the feedback,
Speaker 4: but like, what's not clicking?
Speaker 2: You know, like what didn't hit, what didn't land? Which
Speaker 2: bit fell fell dry?
Speaker 3: Is it the Shrek content. Is it a bit too weird?
Speaker 3: Are we going more for the skits like I.
Speaker 4: Need and also funny compared to what? What's your humor,
Speaker 4: mister stranger, aside from what he's.
Speaker 2: Come in with?
Speaker 4: How do you feel about a cheeky DM slide? I
Speaker 4: feel like I don't respond well to compliments coming from
Speaker 4: straight men because I worry about their taste sometimes. Oh,
Speaker 4: do you know, like there's that meme that says that
Speaker 4: if you ever give your opinion on the Internet and
Speaker 4: a bunch of straight guys agree with.
Speaker 2: You, you've given the wrong one. You've given the wrong one.
Speaker 2: It's not the correct one. You gotta read them, you know.
Speaker 4: That's what it feels like sometimes, And of course there
Speaker 4: are exceptions.
Speaker 3: Well, my approach to getting dms can't say it's ever worked.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we'll say the ego boost, don't.
Speaker 4: Stop appreciated, keep sliding in because it could be your
Speaker 4: turn next.
Speaker 3: In this instance, let's call him James. We've decided that
Speaker 3: there's only one way to reply to this slid in.
Speaker 3: He said, you're funny at times. Yeah, it's jog behavior.
Speaker 3: So you have suggested that we send him Barks.
Speaker 4: A voice memory of us barking at him. Okay, that
Speaker 4: is as sensical as.
Speaker 2: What he said. All right, should I go first? Okay,
Speaker 2: we're gona give him two tracks? Two tracks?
Speaker 4: Okay, any tips?
Speaker 2: Just go with your heart.
Speaker 7: Wait, go with your god baby? Yeah, yeah, right, not
Speaker 7: too much.
Speaker 5: I need to do it.
Speaker 8: Well.
Speaker 2: You got to back yourself, babe. Okay, hold on.
Speaker 3: All right, earth O, Nah again it sounds let me do.
Speaker 8: It all right, center, thank you.
Speaker 2: It's gonna give.
Speaker 3: Him ns, so carry on it.
Speaker 2: I'm comfortable with that.
Speaker 4: This is literally the grown up equivalent of sitting in
Speaker 4: a circle at lunchtime in year eleven and getting all
Speaker 4: your friends to co sign the text you send the
Speaker 4: guy who literally wouldn't care if you lived or died,
Speaker 4: and you're.
Speaker 2: Like, do I do one emoji? Two emojis? He doesn't
Speaker 2: know if you exist? Okay, well we'll tune in. We'll
Speaker 2: give you an update next week. You are you lost it?
Speaker 4: Do you know what's gonna be really funny if he
Speaker 4: turned out to be like such a nice guy and
Speaker 4: we've gotten like the context wrong, like he said it
Speaker 4: in like the most loving way possible, and we're like,
Speaker 4: kill he's a dog. Let's back at him, and then
Speaker 4: he comes up with something really earnest and genuine, and
Speaker 4: then you fall in love and get married. I don't
Speaker 4: think that's gonna happen either way. I'm happy with my contribution.
Speaker 4: You did drop the ball. That's okay, Flick and I
Speaker 4: make a conscious effort to orbit into spaces virtually that
Speaker 4: are meant for men, like bro podcasts, bro tiktoks, bro
Speaker 4: reddit forums. I'm just so curious as to what men
Speaker 4: speak about. We need to do a series where we
Speaker 4: ask men what's in their notes app because.
Speaker 2: I, for one, so intrigued. I want to know. Here's
Speaker 2: the thing.
Speaker 4: I saw this TikTok the other day of this men's podcast.
Speaker 4: They were doing an imagination exercise. They said, let's say
Speaker 4: you're driving to a location with your mom and your girlfriend.
Speaker 4: Who gets the front seat your mom or your girlfriend?
Speaker 4: And you know what I said, that is complex. That
Speaker 4: is ten points for the bros, because like, what are
Speaker 4: you expecting? You are on a date with your boyfriend,
Speaker 4: your boyfriend's mom, it's time to drive. What are you
Speaker 4: doing instinctively? Oh, I'm judging your answer. Of course, I'm
Speaker 4: going to sit in the back.
Speaker 2: Dah dah. But but yeah. When I'm sitting in the back,
Speaker 2: I'm thinking.
Speaker 4: A second, I'm thinking Oedipus complex. I'm thinking, do you
Speaker 4: want to date your mom?
Speaker 2: Is that just in the front?
Speaker 4: I know I'm in the back, but why is she
Speaker 4: in the front?
Speaker 2: Just say it? Just say it?
Speaker 4: And then so what I found to be the most
Speaker 4: fascinating is like watching these three guys argue about it.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 4: One guy's point was, you know, at one stage your
Speaker 4: mum would have been the most important woman in your life.
Speaker 4: That stage has passed when you get a girlfriend. I
Speaker 4: didn't know this is how men thought. I didn't think
Speaker 4: it was that regimented, like I have girlfriend, girlfriend.
Speaker 2: Priority, mum no priority.
Speaker 4: But then another guy was saying, well, my girlfriend should
Speaker 4: know her place, and that's below my mom, beneath my
Speaker 4: mom either way, And I was like, WHOA. The way
Speaker 4: I see it, I get that from the perspective of
Speaker 4: the girlfriend, You're like, it's awkward anyway, figuring out who
Speaker 4: against the front seat when there's more than two passengers, right,
Speaker 4: it's not a really fun thing to do. I think
Speaker 4: you're just sitting in the back to remove a layer
Speaker 4: of awkwardness, not because you view yourself with inferior to
Speaker 4: your boyfriend's mum. However, is that the vibe it's giving.
Speaker 4: We need the moms to weigh in. What are you
Speaker 4: thinking when the girlfriend takes the front seat.
Speaker 3: I would love to know. I think there is so
Speaker 3: much politics with car sitting. I think about it with
Speaker 3: my family always. Dad must drive, naturally, only time I'm in.
Speaker 4: A fatherless household, so it's mum must drive. But that's okay.
Speaker 4: Maybe that's why I want to drive everywhere.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it is.
Speaker 3: You're good at driving around And the only time when
Speaker 3: the person in the front would switch between front and
Speaker 3: back would be if I took mum's place, which reminds me.
Speaker 3: I'm sure you've heard about this about how some women
Speaker 3: like are mean to their mums. Yeah, to get in
Speaker 3: with their dads because everyone's demeaning the woman. Yeah, and
Speaker 3: I was definitely in that camp. Brutal and it was
Speaker 3: a real It's kind of like the passitive thing. You
Speaker 3: hit it and you're realize and you're like, WHOA, I
Speaker 3: wasn't even thinking about.
Speaker 4: It, but now we are thinking about it, and now
Speaker 4: we can't stop thinking about it. So just be aware
Speaker 4: of the optics. M you know, what does it look
Speaker 4: like to get in the front seat?
Speaker 2: What does the front seat even mean? Anyway, we can't
Speaker 2: get into it now, what does.
Speaker 3: The front seat Someone's in the car listening to this
Speaker 3: with somebody in the front.
Speaker 2: In the back.
Speaker 4: We're just gonna ask about it, because I don't think
Speaker 4: that anybody's thought about it consciously. But if we ask
Speaker 4: them to think about it, they're going to have perhaps
Speaker 4: a more certain view than we think.
Speaker 1: Flex and frooms.
Speaker 4: There's nothing but cordial politeness between us, respects. I have
Speaker 4: been thinking about companionship, more specifically getting an animal of
Speaker 4: some kind. I've never had a pet before. I don't
Speaker 4: know if I'm a pet person. All the signs are
Speaker 4: saying no, and yet I'm still thinking about it. I'm
Speaker 4: on cat TikTok now because my soulmate convinced me that
Speaker 4: I should get a cat because her cat loves her.
Speaker 4: But I've been looking at the way cats behave, and
Speaker 4: ultimately I don't think they're my people. I need a
Speaker 4: very small tea cup rabbit puppy.
Speaker 2: Me too, Yeah, what style?
Speaker 4: I think that I want a Chihuahua, But I also
Speaker 4: think that I want like a what do you call that?
Speaker 4: Fluffy one like a pom Pomeranian or a papillon I love,
Speaker 4: just like a law one with an attitude.
Speaker 3: I get a papion if I are you, however, sorry
Speaker 3: to interrupt you, no please.
Speaker 2: I also want a chiuaha.
Speaker 3: My whole for you page on Instagram is chiuhahas I
Speaker 3: post about them frequently. I'm obsessed and if I know
Speaker 3: my lifestyle does I don't think it.
Speaker 2: Not at all. This could be a really terrible idea.
Speaker 1: Let us go with it.
Speaker 2: What about if I we put in money for a chiuaha?
Speaker 2: The money's not the issue.
Speaker 3: Okay, half the time with you, half the time it's
Speaker 3: with me, because our schedules don't align always.
Speaker 2: This is true. Could that work? That feels better to me?
Speaker 2: Co parenting, and because I have.
Speaker 3: An exit strategy which would not sit well for our
Speaker 3: personal brands, but my parents could always take it. Oh yeah,
Speaker 3: if we got over it. Would you ever consider getting
Speaker 3: a pet with somebody?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I'd really be on board for a
Speaker 4: de facto pet, long term relationship, our pet, your pet,
Speaker 4: my entertainment.
Speaker 2: Yeah that's a mood.
Speaker 4: I'll buy the food, I'll go on walks. But in
Speaker 4: terms of responsibility, you figure out what's happening. And this
Speaker 4: is why I am reconsidering parenting anyway. I read a
Speaker 4: fact and I read it from a fact Instagram page,
Speaker 4: and as we've discussed, I don't think they are the
Speaker 4: most credible places. There are no sources, no citations. But
Speaker 4: that's not my business, all right. I read that cats
Speaker 4: may have decided to live with humans because humans attract rodents,
Speaker 4: making it convenient for them to stick around. It's possible
Speaker 4: that cats domesticated themselves. If that is not the ultimate flex,
Speaker 4: I don't know what is. They said, we're only here
Speaker 4: because you people are gross, cherylbe and.
Speaker 2: We need food. That makes a lot of sense, because
Speaker 2: cats don't.
Speaker 4: Even seem to like people that much, not enough for
Speaker 4: them to be like the primary pet.
Speaker 2: They They're anxious avoidant for sure, for sure. See, don't
Speaker 2: think too hard about it. It could be fake news.
Speaker 4: Don't let it change your self perception or the perception
Speaker 4: of cats.
Speaker 3: I don't like cats as is, Okay, I don't hate them.
Speaker 3: I just they I'm allergic to them.
Speaker 2: Sounding prejudice.
Speaker 5: I don't hate them.
Speaker 2: I'm going to get it, Okay.
Speaker 3: The point of this is that we're going to get
Speaker 3: a chumaba time shared chiuaba time shared from puppy age onwards.
Speaker 2: That's oh controversial.
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