1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: Are you a rule lover or a rule breaker? Some 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: of us really like rules they can provide boundaries and 3 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 1: make decisions easier, while then there's others who actually hate 4 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 1: them and find that it ignites a desire to do 5 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: exactly the opposite of what the rule suggests as an 6 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: active deviance. So in today's episode of The Nutrition Couch podcast, 7 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 1: Leanne and I have an open and honest discussion about 8 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: where we see rules fitting in the role of diet 9 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: and nutrition and are they helpful or not so helpful, 10 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: And we also share some of our non negotiables when 11 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: it comes to our own dietary rules. Hi, I'm Susie 12 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:37,199 Speaker 1: Burrow and a Liah Moore, and we bring you The 13 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 1: Nutrition Couch, a bi weekly podcast that keeps you up 14 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 1: to date on everything you need to know in the 15 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 1: world of nutrition as well as diet rules. Leanna and 16 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: I talk about the hardest phase of weight loss and 17 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 1: how we help our clients to move through it, and 18 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: our listener question comes from one of Leanne's own clients 19 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: who wanted to know how she can encourage her family 20 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: to include more plant based meals in their diet each week. 21 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: And we haven't seen each other for a few weeks 22 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: what's going on? 23 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 2: And it's been sad, isn't it? And I miss you well. 24 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 2: I was very jealous of your Hawaiichi if I was, 25 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 2: you know, watching your stories every single day thinking raining 26 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:14,400 Speaker 2: in Brisbane and you know many parts of the stories. 27 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 2: It's been a little bit depressing lately with the sums out. 28 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:19,040 Speaker 2: This weekend, I went from a little ten by the pool. 29 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 2: It's going well, you know, MEA's on the move now 30 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:23,559 Speaker 2: we're just talking about that. The poor thing's got carpet burns. 31 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 2: You started crawling, climbing, pulling yourself up on everything. She's 32 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 2: got a couple of little bruises. As they do. They 33 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 2: got to climb up, they've got to fall down sometimes, 34 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 2: which is going well. It's just that busy time of year. 35 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 2: I feel like everything's you know, you know, it's summer, 36 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 2: summer starting. It's just busy. You want to get out, 37 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 2: you want to get about, you want to do everything. 38 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: It's party season and I think it's a really pertinent 39 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 1: time for our clients and our listeners coming into a 40 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 1: lot of food being around. It's about to be Halloween, 41 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: you know, there's a lot of treats around and coming 42 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: into silly season where there's cocktails and foods, and so 43 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: what lee Ann and I will really try and do 44 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: over these next few weeks is really tailor our content 45 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 1: to help you through this busy phase of life and 46 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: how you can maintain the diet structure you need to. 47 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 1: It's not about way, but just feeling good in your body, 48 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 1: because you know, when you're eating out a lot and 49 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: having a lot more treats, you tend to feel bloated 50 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 1: and heavy, and no one wants to go into party 51 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 1: season like that. And so I think I just need 52 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:13,799 Speaker 1: to come out to Brisbane and have some time by 53 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: the Pulian and to brainstorm this content. That's what I'm thinking. 54 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 1: So maybe another cheeky trip is in order. But getting 55 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: onto our main content today, I saw, just as we 56 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 1: were about to put this episode down, an article popped 57 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 1: up on the Daily Mail and a well known dietitian 58 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 1: had spoken about her food rules and it was a 59 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: bit tongue in cheap because it was not about rules 60 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: in terms of cutting back, but more her rules to 61 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:38,679 Speaker 1: help you or help make healthy eating easier. And I 62 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 1: thought that's quite interesting actually, because if I do think 63 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 1: about it, I do have quite a lot of food rules, 64 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 1: but they're not restrictive as such. I just find that 65 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 1: they make decisions easier each day. And I thought it 66 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: wasn't something we'd spoken about before, and it was worthy 67 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: of a discussion. And indeed, when we've just spoken, we 68 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: do have slightly differing opinions on it, which I think 69 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: that's always helpful to listeners to see two sides to 70 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:03,079 Speaker 1: an argument. So my positioning with food rules is that 71 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 1: because on a day to day basis, we are given 72 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 1: so many different decisions to make and in many cases 73 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: offered so much food each and every day. You know, 74 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 1: you go to a cafe, there's four hundred items on 75 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:18,959 Speaker 1: the menu, you go to a food court, someone offers 76 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 1: you something, at the office, there's many, many choices to 77 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: make on a daily basis. I just find rules can 78 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 1: help to guide and make those decisions easier and free 79 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: up basically some mental energy for other things. So some 80 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: examples of what I'm thinking about rules not about you 81 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: can never have this or not eat that, much more 82 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: about how to structure your diet so it becomes easier 83 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 1: to eat well. So, for example, a rule that I 84 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: would always go back to and I follow myself and 85 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 1: really try and encourage my clients to take on is 86 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: make sure every time they eat a meal or a 87 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 1: snack there's some vegetables or salad. And that's a big 88 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 1: shift because they might be used to having plain toast 89 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: in the morning, or cereal or a sandwich or sushi 90 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 1: for lunch, and it really doesn't come naturally to be 91 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: adding that much salad and vegetle bulk, or even in 92 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: the case of a snack, you know, they're grabbing a 93 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: snack bar and they don't think to have a carrot 94 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: with it, Whereas I will always do that, you know, 95 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 1: just as part of my day, and I encourage my 96 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 1: children to do it. Another one of the rules that 97 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 1: I do have and really try and share this is 98 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 1: I try not to eat myself sweet food in the day, 99 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 1: So I try not to include sort of sweet biscuits 100 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 1: or cakes or treats, because anecdotally, I find as soon 101 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:26,160 Speaker 1: as you start with those sweet foods, you want more 102 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 1: and more and it keeps it really difficult to keep 103 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,040 Speaker 1: on trap. So if people or my clients myself want 104 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: something sweet, I try and limit it to after they've 105 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:35,720 Speaker 1: had dinner, because I find it just helps to regulate 106 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: that intake. Or another rule I would have is I 107 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 1: really only buy the very leanless cuts of meat, so 108 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 1: I would never myself go and buy cheaper mints or 109 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 1: even say chicken thighs, chicken drumsticks. I would always eat 110 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 1: less but have better quality meat and really put my 111 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 1: budget into that. So they're just a few examples of 112 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 1: rules that I stick to try and, as I said, 113 00:04:55,680 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: make healthy eating easier each day. But I understand you 114 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 1: know when we spoke, you thought, oh, but my clients 115 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 1: can have too many rules, And I thought, actually, that's 116 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 1: a really good point to discuss, because on one hand, 117 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: we might be speaking about people who are trying to 118 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 1: actively lose weight or improve their eating, and so we're 119 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: trying to build that foundation. But in the case of 120 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 1: people who are already high regulators and very strict on themselves, 121 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: with a perhaps past history of dieting, or you know, 122 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: often eating too few calories and over exercising, perhaps the 123 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 1: rules in those cases can be more detrimental than beneficial. 124 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: So the questions I have for you then, is your 125 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,839 Speaker 1: thoughts on where rules can be perhaps not so helpful. 126 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 1: But also do you have any rules personally that you 127 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 1: do think that you would have that perhaps clients and 128 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: listeners would benefit from hearing. 129 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 2: I don't know if I so much as call them rules, 130 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 2: but I always sort of like to say to my clients, 131 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 2: no starting over. That's the perfections. I work with a 132 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 2: lot of clients with that type a perfection as much 133 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 2: like myself, where they're like a mother on the dart, 134 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 2: or I'm off the dart, I'm doing it perfectly, or 135 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 2: I'm not doing it at all. So I say to 136 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 2: them from day one that we work together. This is 137 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 2: day one of the rest of your life. There's no 138 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 2: starting over it, there's no quitting, there's no failing well, 139 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 2: just keep moving forward. Doesn't matter what happens, doesn't matter 140 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 2: if you're fall you stumble your stuff up a little bit. 141 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:14,039 Speaker 2: We just keep going. So my rule is there's no 142 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:16,159 Speaker 2: starting over. You don't get to quit. You don't get 143 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 2: to basically say, oh well, I bug it up. Let 144 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,479 Speaker 2: me wait again until tomorrow, wait again till Monday. So 145 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 2: that's sort of I don't know if you call it 146 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 2: a rule, but it's sort of more of a mantra 147 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 2: that I have. And another one I always say to 148 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 2: my clients is no eating from the packet or the pantry. 149 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 2: So don't stand in front of the pantry and just 150 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:33,919 Speaker 2: start grazing and picking at things. And don't just grab 151 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 2: a packet of bikis or a block of chocolate or 152 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 2: start eating ice cream from the tub. If you're going 153 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 2: to have something, measure out a portion, take it away 154 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:43,479 Speaker 2: out of the kitchen, in to say, the living room, 155 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 2: Go sit at the table, take it outside, look at 156 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 2: the view, and enjoy it mindfully and actually savor the 157 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 2: taste of it. I think a lot of what happens 158 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 2: when it comes to overeating is done in a really 159 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:57,719 Speaker 2: mindless way. So they're probably two. I wouldn't say they're 160 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 2: exact nutrition rules, but they're more just like health living 161 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 2: and healthy lifestyle rules. And the other one, of course, 162 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 2: is just listen to your body. And again I wouldn't 163 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:06,280 Speaker 2: call it a rule, but too many of us are 164 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 2: eating because we're looking at the clock or it's time 165 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 2: to eat, or you know, everybody else in the office 166 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 2: is eating all that sort of thing, or we wake 167 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 2: up and we have breakfast even though we might not 168 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 2: necessarily be hungry. So I think for some of my clients, 169 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 2: in fact, for a lot of them, rules are too 170 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 2: rigid that it's sort of like a lot of clients 171 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 2: come to me and when they start working with me, 172 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 2: they go all, I'm not going to have any carbs, 173 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 2: and I've cut out all sugar, and I'm banning coffee 174 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 2: from today, and there's no alcohol, and it's like this 175 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 2: cut out, cut out, cut out, cut out versus. The 176 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 2: more you restrict things, the research shows this, the more 177 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 2: your brain wants it more and more, And it's only 178 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 2: a matter of time before you fall off the wagon 179 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 2: and you feel like you're restarting over again. So I 180 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 2: always say to my clients, like food in abundance, rather 181 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 2: than focusing on what we're cutting out, focus on what 182 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 2: we can add in. So, like you, Susie, the rule 183 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 2: might be always having veggies, And one of my other 184 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 2: rules is really always having veggies and protein with every meal. 185 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 2: So I don't care if you just want a cheese toasty, 186 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 2: but how can we make that into a more balanced meal. 187 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 2: Can we add a bit of chicken onto it? Can 188 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 2: we add a side salad with it? Or do you 189 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 2: want some two minute noodles? Okay? Cool? Can we add 190 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 2: a tin of tune in to it and some frozen 191 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 2: veggies to bulk it out, so there's always protein and 192 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 2: veggie with pretty much every single meal. That's sort of 193 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 2: one of the rules that I have for my clients. 194 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 2: And water as well, I feel like is really important 195 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 2: one before and during meals, and there's a lot of 196 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 2: mists with water, particularly in like the natural health therapy field, 197 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 2: where a lot of people say, oh, your body can't 198 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 2: digest water and food at the same time, or I 199 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 2: don't know, some other bs like that. So I always 200 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 2: say to my clients, make sure you're having a big 201 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 2: glass of water before your food or with your meals 202 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 2: as well, because it really does help to fill you 203 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 2: up and it prevents a lot of overeating as well. 204 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:40,839 Speaker 2: So I don't know if you'd so much as call 205 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:43,679 Speaker 2: them rules, but I feel like it's structure that our 206 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 2: clients really like. And for some people, you know, with 207 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 2: past eating disorders and rigid style patterns of eating, rules 208 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 2: aren't so great. So maybe it's focusing on what we 209 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 2: can do when the abundance type mentality versus what we 210 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 2: need to cut out. Maybe that's better when we're thinking 211 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 2: about food rules to help establish us to live a 212 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 2: healthier lifestyle, it's what can we add in so what 213 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 2: can we focus on that's really going to benefit us 214 00:09:06,559 --> 00:09:08,959 Speaker 2: versus water we actually have to restrict in order to 215 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 2: live a healthy lifestyle. 216 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 1: I think the one I loved most was the not 217 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 1: standing and mindless munching. I love that because the other 218 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: one I have is trying to not eating in the car, 219 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 1: because it's that behavior that quickly becomes a habit. And 220 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 1: then we know from the research that when you're not 221 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: mindful of the calories you're consuming, you basically just don't 222 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,319 Speaker 1: count them, so it can be that kind of snack 223 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: food that slips in. So I love that. I love 224 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 1: sit down and actually have a proper meal or rather 225 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: than just grabbing things on the go when you're not 226 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 1: mindfully consuming those. So I actually really like them. And 227 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 1: I think the other time that I find creating a 228 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:43,080 Speaker 1: rule and whether you look at it as you know, 229 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 1: structure or guidelines or whichever, whatever works for you, because 230 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:49,960 Speaker 1: it's got to be helpful when I find when there's 231 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: a problem for a client. So for example, they may 232 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 1: feel out of control when they're eating out, or they 233 00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 1: may be socializing and be offered certain things, or when 234 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 1: they're having a problem in terms of getting to the 235 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 1: outcome they want, which may be keeping their calories controlled. 236 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: Whatever is the individual outcome, creating a rule can help 237 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: make the decisions easier for that. So I'm just thinking 238 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 1: of an example that I had. So a client of 239 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 1: mine has started to socialize a lot because it's the 240 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 1: end of the year, and they're sending me with their diaries 241 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:28,559 Speaker 1: and really finding it difficult to regulate themselves when their 242 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 1: environments where there's a lot of tempting food. So in 243 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 1: this example, there were canopays and a number of drinks, 244 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 1: and she just didn't know how to work through it. 245 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:39,319 Speaker 1: And I said, you know, one thing we can try 246 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 1: is working out what for the weak ahead. You know, 247 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 1: you've got seven days and five of those days are 248 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:49,079 Speaker 1: out socializing. That's quite confronting when you're trying to keep 249 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 1: your calories on track. And that is the reality for 250 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 1: a lot of people coming into end of year celebrations. 251 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 1: And it's not about you can't go or avoiding it, 252 00:10:57,679 --> 00:10:59,959 Speaker 1: because again, we ideally want to learn how to manage 253 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 1: yourselves in certain situations. Certainly on a weekly basis, I 254 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:05,200 Speaker 1: would be out at least, you know, two or three 255 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 1: nights and managed to keep my weight very stable. So 256 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: there's a way of doing it. So I said to her, look, 257 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 1: let's look at some rules and what is going to 258 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 1: work for you. So it was an interaction between her 259 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 1: and I. It wasn't me saying you can't do this 260 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: because long term that won't last either. But what we 261 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 1: worked out was if she agreed to have, you know, 262 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:24,960 Speaker 1: just two drinks on this many nights versus one which 263 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 1: was more debaucherous because it was a special occasion, so 264 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 1: she didn't have to be overwhelmed with the decisions. It 265 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:33,680 Speaker 1: just made it easier to keep it controlled. So I 266 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 1: think in that context, if you're having difficulty with something 267 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: and it's causing you to stress and certainly not helping 268 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 1: you reach your goals, that's a time when creating some 269 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 1: of those guidelines or rules or structures can go a 270 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 1: really long way in getting a balance, you know, between 271 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 1: more indulgent eating and things that are more calorie control, 272 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 1: particularly when it's party season and there are a lot 273 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 1: of tempting cannopays, etc. On offer. 274 00:11:57,480 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 2: I like that, and I think I liked just the 275 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 2: change the wording around it, Like you're saying, you know, 276 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 2: guidelines and structure versus rules, like to me that Automatically, 277 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 2: my brain goes, oh, yeah, I could do that, Like 278 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 2: I go out and have two drinks and maybe say 279 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 2: four cannopes if that was the structure that my coach 280 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 2: gave me in exil right lyand go and do this 281 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 2: at the party, Versus if someone said to me, don't 282 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,959 Speaker 2: have any drinks and don't touch the cannopes and eat 283 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:22,319 Speaker 2: before you go. Like, to me, it's just that rule 284 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:24,960 Speaker 2: and it's rigid, and I just automatically want to fight 285 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 2: back against it and be like, yeah, no, I'm not 286 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 2: doing that. Versus if someone said, here's the guideline or structure, 287 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 2: try and do this. It just gives you, like it's 288 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:35,680 Speaker 2: just allows you a little bit more. I guess flexibility, 289 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 2: doesn't it. It doesn't put too much rigidity on you that 290 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:39,839 Speaker 2: you want to rebel against it. It doesn't. 291 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:41,320 Speaker 1: A lot of that will come down to our early 292 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: programming with rules. If you grew up in a very 293 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:45,320 Speaker 1: authoritarian house where you were told what to do all 294 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:49,079 Speaker 1: the time, subconsciously, you probably defy. You're probably defiant even 295 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 1: though it's against what you would say that you're trying 296 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 1: to achieve. So I would also say that it's really 297 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 1: important when creating those rules or structure that you have 298 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:57,839 Speaker 1: buy in and you actually have to like it because 299 00:12:57,840 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 1: if you don't, that's why you won't do it long term. 300 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 1: And that's why fad diets fail, because as long as 301 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 1: you're prepared to be that rigid with it, it will work. 302 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 1: But if you actually don't like it and it's not 303 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:10,559 Speaker 1: conducive to being sustainable long term, eventually you'll go off 304 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 1: track and to fire it and it's all undone. So 305 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:15,559 Speaker 1: you've actually got to understand the rule and why you're 306 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:17,679 Speaker 1: doing it. So, for example, another client just takes with 307 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 1: me earlier today and said, that recipe that you put 308 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 1: up on your Instagram looked really yummy. Can I have it? 309 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 1: It was like a muffin thing, And I said to 310 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 1: her no because but I said, the reason is because 311 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:33,200 Speaker 1: you're going to make twelve muffins. What are you going 312 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 1: to do with the rest of them? You're not going 313 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 1: to have one? And she was like, oh, that makes sense, 314 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:39,960 Speaker 1: I understand. So I think the other thing is understanding 315 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 1: how the balance works is a really important part of 316 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:45,400 Speaker 1: creating that rule that suits you. So in the case 317 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:48,199 Speaker 1: of sweet food, if you understand that, you start having 318 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:50,600 Speaker 1: a sweet snack in the afternoon and then you want 319 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: more and more. You'll be like, you know what, the 320 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 1: benefit outweighs the negative of not having it now. So again, 321 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: when it comes to that buying, you have to understand 322 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 1: why the coach or the dietitian is helping you to 323 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: create that guideline or rule, because then it suits you. 324 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 1: And that's the beauty of working with a one on 325 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 1: one professional to help you craft this balance for you 326 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: versus buying a diet book and trying to follow it 327 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 1: because it's actually not written for you and not specific 328 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:17,079 Speaker 1: to your individual circumstance. And every single one of my 329 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 1: clients are completely different in their age, their lifestyle, their preferences, 330 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:25,239 Speaker 1: their food issues, and hence, you know, having a dietician 331 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 1: or a health coach cater for you and that's the 332 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 1: benefit of investing in that for yourself. And you can 333 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 1: see just from those examples the way Leanne and I 334 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: are creating models and structures that suit our clients, that 335 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 1: allow them to have all the benefits and the nice 336 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 1: parts of their lives while still you know, reaching those 337 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 1: weight loss goals. But as we move on to our 338 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 1: next segment, ly and we know that that also can 339 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 1: be a little bit of a hurdle. So what are 340 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 1: we going to talk about when it comes to client 341 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 1: case study today that will also translate another issue that 342 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 1: props up as part of this rule based. 343 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 2: So you and I have both had clients within the 344 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 2: last week that have really got into a couple of 345 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 2: weeks into their journey with us and they found that 346 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 2: they're struggling. And for me, it's typically with my clients 347 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 2: and I preframe this when they start with me. I say, look, 348 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 2: the first couple of weeks is going to be easy. 349 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 2: Your motivation's high. You're just like, let's get in and 350 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 2: let's do it. It's anywhere between about the four and 351 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 2: six week mark. I feel like for my clients, Susie, 352 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 2: where that motivation dips off a little bit. Things get busy. 353 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 2: You know, you just don't prioritize your nutrition as much 354 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 2: as you were. It's not new and exciting and shiny anymore. 355 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 2: And you're like, oh man, I got to keep doing this. 356 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 2: They got to keep meal properly, how to keep buying 357 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 2: all these damn vegetables, They got to keep doing my 358 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 2: walks each day. It starts to get very difficult in 359 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 2: the I would say the middle sort of part of 360 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 2: a weight loss journey. So that's what we're going to 361 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 2: chat about today, is why the middle part of the 362 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 2: weight loss journey is the most difficult. And I feel, 363 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 2: like Susie, it's because most of us, or most of 364 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 2: our clients rely on motivation. Whereas we know from working 365 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 2: a lot in terms of the psychology behind eating and 366 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:59,000 Speaker 2: the behaviors behind eating. With our clients, you can't start 367 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 2: off and keep going with motivation. It's like I think 368 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 2: I read a quote somewhere that said something like motivation 369 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 2: is like a bas You need to do it every day, 370 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 2: and it's not just going to be there on some 371 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 2: days it's really high and other days you're like, yeah, 372 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 2: I just can't be bothered. So I really say to 373 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 2: my clients it's about creating the habit and the discipline 374 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 2: and the routine that's going to get you there, because 375 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 2: I think when we rely on motivation, it quickly wears off. 376 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 2: And when we're busy, when we're stressed and we've got 377 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 2: other things going on, when other people need us, particularly 378 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 2: little people such as kids or pets, you know, we 379 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 2: tend to put ourselves last. So we tend to put 380 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 2: everybody else before us, so that motivation's gone. The will 381 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 2: to do whatever task it is we need to get 382 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 2: done to be healthy quickly fades away. So is there 383 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 2: much research in science? Susie behind the middle part of 384 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 2: the weight loss journey being the most difficult. Is it 385 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 2: about habit am I on the right track? 386 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 1: It's so interesting, isn't it? Because I can't sum it 387 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 1: up better to me, it happens around ten kilos. You know, 388 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 1: in context, I'm seeing people who generally need to lose 389 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 1: twenty or want to not leave want to lose twenty 390 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 1: to thirty kilos. So by the time they've done ten 391 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 1: kilos it might be three or four months. They've been 392 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:10,639 Speaker 1: pretty excited to start, you know, everything's new looking at 393 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 1: the time of year, like look, we're now October. You know, 394 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 1: they've been working on this since winter and they're feeling great. 395 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:23,440 Speaker 1: They're actually feeling a huge amount better. So it's the 396 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:26,479 Speaker 1: glosses worn off. It's a bit harder metabolically, because if 397 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 1: you've got significant amounts of weight to lose. I don't 398 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 1: want to say it's easy to lose the initial kilos, 399 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:34,640 Speaker 1: but it's certainly easier than whittling down closer to the goal. Metabolically, 400 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 1: you've got to start to get the muscle working better, 401 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:39,360 Speaker 1: which can really be a case of trying different dietary 402 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 1: regimes or exercising in a different way when perhaps you 403 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: didn't have to do before. And then in this instance 404 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:48,920 Speaker 1: you're teaching the body to burn more efficiently rather than 405 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:51,920 Speaker 1: just starving or taking the calories off with a few 406 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:55,920 Speaker 1: less calories each day. Life's busier, so there's a lot 407 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 1: more going on. You're starting to go out a bit more, 408 00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 1: which is difficult sometimes to stick to the calorie control, 409 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 1: and there's certainly a little bit of I guess diet 410 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:06,720 Speaker 1: resentment then can seep in, because it's like, you know, 411 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:08,399 Speaker 1: I've done this long enough. Why do I have to 412 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:11,000 Speaker 1: work so hard? It shouldn't be this difficult, you know, 413 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 1: And sometimes you can get even annoyed at the health professional, 414 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 1: you know, a bit resentful of things that they're guiding 415 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:18,880 Speaker 1: and telling you. And so I think the first thing 416 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 1: is understanding and answer to your question, no, there's not 417 00:18:21,359 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 1: a huge amount of research about the middle phases being 418 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 1: more challenging. This is certainly just my personal experience and 419 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 1: anecdotally and just at the moment, I seem to have 420 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:31,239 Speaker 1: had a whole influx of clients who are sort of 421 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:34,120 Speaker 1: just platauing out when prior to this they were consistently 422 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 1: losing killer a week, and I just think it's just 423 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:39,439 Speaker 1: a bit hard with everything else going on in life. 424 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 1: So what I've been talking to them about is understanding 425 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:45,679 Speaker 1: that like anything in life, good things come when you 426 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 1: work hard, and so you've got to get over that 427 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 1: mountain and it will get easier again. And when the 428 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 1: body slows down with fat loss, it's simply a sign 429 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:56,080 Speaker 1: that things need to change up. It's not a time 430 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:58,439 Speaker 1: to give yourself permission to do and go back to 431 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 1: old habits. It's about pushing through and being smarter and 432 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:05,639 Speaker 1: changing things up and committing to the process. And inevitably, 433 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 1: once you get over that hill, you know, it's like 434 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:09,679 Speaker 1: climbing a mountain. You get to the top and then 435 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:12,240 Speaker 1: downhill is a lot easier. It's just a sign you've 436 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:14,880 Speaker 1: got to press on through that hurdle. But it will 437 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 1: differentiate lean people who will reach their weight loss goals 438 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 1: and people who will lose ten and then keep it 439 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:23,400 Speaker 1: off for a short amount of time and inevitably put 440 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:26,479 Speaker 1: it all back on, because the reality is they have 441 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 1: not changed those baseline behaviors and attitudes to shift from 442 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 1: into a healthier version of self in which they've accepted 443 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 1: that eating pretty well and exercising has to be part 444 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 1: of their long term lifestyle and it's not something they're 445 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 1: just doing in the short term. So this is particularly 446 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,680 Speaker 1: the case for people who are on that twenty thirty 447 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 1: kilo plan. It's a bit different if you're only need 448 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 1: to lose ten kilos and you might get five or 449 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 1: six off, and then this is happening again. If you 450 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:55,000 Speaker 1: don't cement those behaviors, you'll platau at that five six 451 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:57,640 Speaker 1: kilos and it will creep back on again. So that's 452 00:19:57,680 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 1: the harsh reality of it. But there has to be 453 00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:02,639 Speaker 1: a level of acceptance that, yeah, it's not easy. If 454 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:05,119 Speaker 1: it was easy, everyone would be a lot leaner. It's hard. 455 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 1: It's hard in this environment, but it's not impossible. And 456 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 1: if you remain focused on the goal and work with 457 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:13,359 Speaker 1: your dietitian your coach to work through it. Rather than 458 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 1: being annoyed and angry, that's the transition emotionally, Whereas when 459 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:20,400 Speaker 1: my clients are angry and annoyed, it's a sliding scale, 460 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 1: because it will either go badly where they just completely 461 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:26,359 Speaker 1: get annoyed and stop, which is upsetting because you know 462 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 1: that if they push through, they'll come out the other 463 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 1: side better, or whether they do work through it and 464 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:34,520 Speaker 1: work through those emotions, which are often anger and resentment, 465 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:37,120 Speaker 1: and come to a level of acceptance that yeah, it's 466 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 1: not easy, it's unfortunate, it is hard, it's not fair. 467 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:41,639 Speaker 1: Not everyone has to work as hard as you do, 468 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 1: or that, even if that's your perception, but to get 469 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:47,919 Speaker 1: to the goal, it will be worth it, and a 470 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,439 Speaker 1: hardness just means we need to try different things and 471 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 1: push through. So yeah, I do, I won't lie. 472 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 2: You know. 473 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 1: I lose people at that point because some people don't 474 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:58,160 Speaker 1: have the emotional capacity or time or energy to work 475 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 1: through it. You can do as a health professionalist is 476 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:03,119 Speaker 1: lay it out there and say, yeah, I do know 477 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:07,960 Speaker 1: it's hard, but ultimately we do need to push through. 478 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:11,119 Speaker 1: Otherwise you'll just unwind all the work we've done and 479 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:13,280 Speaker 1: end up in a worse place in twelve eighteen months 480 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 1: and you'll be the same. I've had clients who I've 481 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,119 Speaker 1: lost a lot of weight and you see them again, 482 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:20,200 Speaker 1: you know, five ten, even twenty years later and they're 483 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 1: back where they started. So you know, that's the reality 484 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:25,679 Speaker 1: of being human. No one's perfect life is challenging, But 485 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 1: for anyone listening who is in that middle ground, just 486 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 1: stick with it because eventually, you know, if you push 487 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:34,119 Speaker 1: through the things that are hard and really work on 488 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 1: metabolism and becoming better at burning and trust in the 489 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 1: health professional and the process, you will come out the 490 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: other side. And once you've broken the back of it, 491 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 1: and I consistently down that twenty it's a lot easier 492 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:47,880 Speaker 1: to maintain that than it is to sort of get 493 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 1: to ten and let it unravel. 494 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 2: And I've got two I guess points or thoughts there, 495 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,239 Speaker 2: which where about what are we now six seven, eight 496 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:57,440 Speaker 2: weeks till Christmas, Like we're getting to the nitty gritty 497 00:21:57,480 --> 00:21:59,480 Speaker 2: end of the year, and I'm starting to think of 498 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 2: basically all of my reverse arts of my clients. So 499 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:03,639 Speaker 2: I've been working with some of them. You know, we're 500 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:05,720 Speaker 2: ending up our twelve week program. Some have sort of 501 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:07,399 Speaker 2: just started with me. They're about four or five, six 502 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,480 Speaker 2: weeks in, and others are sort of around week eight 503 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 2: or nine. So what I'm thinking about is returning them 504 00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:14,920 Speaker 2: all back to maintenance calories by Christmas. It's very rare 505 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:16,399 Speaker 2: that I would run any of my clients and a 506 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 2: deficit over Christmas. So I think that that's something to 507 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,360 Speaker 2: remember that all of the hard work that you've done, 508 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 2: you don't have to go and put it back on again. 509 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 2: You can slowly start to eat more and return back 510 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:28,119 Speaker 2: to your maintenance calories, or as we like to call it, 511 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 2: that slow reverse diet, where you can learn to maintain 512 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 2: the weight loss that you've got to date and maintain 513 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 2: that over Christmas versus always pushing and losing and then 514 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:40,440 Speaker 2: regaining and losing and regaining. So I think that that's 515 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 2: a skill in itself. I always say to my clients 516 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 2: maintenance is a win, and maintenance is a skill in 517 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 2: itself because so many people have absolutely no idea how 518 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:50,879 Speaker 2: to maintain. So I've got a couple of clients at 519 00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:53,159 Speaker 2: the moment, Susie, who are roughly about that eight to 520 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:56,119 Speaker 2: ten kilos down. So what I'm teaching them now is 521 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 2: how to eat for that body that is eight to 522 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 2: ten kilos less. Because I've never done that before. They've 523 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:04,000 Speaker 2: either been significantly heavier or they've lost it and they've 524 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,199 Speaker 2: regained it straight away. So, like you said, a lot 525 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 2: of our clients have goals of say twenty kilos. But 526 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 2: what I like to do is sort of work in 527 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 2: ten kilo. I guess buffers where they lose ten, they 528 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 2: learn how to spend two three months in that new 529 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,640 Speaker 2: body that's ten kilos less. Then we push on again 530 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 2: and we drop another five to ten. Then we learn 531 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:23,360 Speaker 2: to sort of eat for that new body, because it's 532 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:26,240 Speaker 2: a skill in itself to learn the requirement so that 533 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 2: a new body has. And people might think, oh, I'm 534 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 2: only ten kilos down, but it's a significant amount of weight, 535 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,639 Speaker 2: and even though your goal might be thirty, just learning 536 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,880 Speaker 2: to maintain that initial ten is something that so many 537 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:39,280 Speaker 2: people have no idea how to do, and then pushing 538 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:41,920 Speaker 2: on for another five all ten, learning to maintain that, 539 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 2: and then pushing on for the final five all ten. 540 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 2: You know, think of it like a marathon, not a 541 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:49,400 Speaker 2: short sprint. And I think give yourself a full year. Heck, 542 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:51,439 Speaker 2: give yourself two or three years. Like if you just 543 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 2: learned to lose ten kilos every year and then learn 544 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,360 Speaker 2: to maintain that and then push on for another five 545 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,239 Speaker 2: all ten, I think we'd be far better off if 546 00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 2: we just gave ourselves permission to take longer than what 547 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,400 Speaker 2: we would ideally like. And another point that I had 548 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 2: is I just signed a new client last week, Susie, 549 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 2: who has lost ten herself during this very restrictive gym challenge, 550 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 2: which this is a fifth time that she's done it, 551 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,199 Speaker 2: and she said it was like, you know, nine kilos 552 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 2: or something, and she said, I'm going to put it 553 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,240 Speaker 2: back on again. I always do. I've lost ten, I've 554 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 2: lost night, and I always put back on again. She said, 555 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,400 Speaker 2: I'm signing up with you now because I still got 556 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 2: ten to lose and I need to maintain this ten. 557 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 2: So I feel like that's a great position to be. 558 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,480 Speaker 2: And if you're someone who can lose five or ten 559 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,919 Speaker 2: kilos easy, great, go and do it, whether it's whatever 560 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:34,960 Speaker 2: way you're going to get it done, and then work 561 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:38,280 Speaker 2: with your dietitian to then maintain it and lose the 562 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,400 Speaker 2: next five to ten, because I feel like, as you said, 563 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:43,200 Speaker 2: the motivation and the shininess of it all wears off 564 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:46,280 Speaker 2: after three, four, five months, So maybe you know, people 565 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 2: can get it going themselves, but then is the time 566 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:51,439 Speaker 2: to link in with a dietitian to maintain it and 567 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:53,719 Speaker 2: push forward. And lose a little bit more because it's 568 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 2: that barrier and we all have it. Whether you're you 569 00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 2: know the goal is five kilos, people say to a SUSI, oh, 570 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,399 Speaker 2: I can only lose two or three. If the goal 571 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 2: is ten, people say, well, I get eight off and 572 00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:04,640 Speaker 2: I put it back on again. Or if someone says 573 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:06,399 Speaker 2: my goal is thirty, I can only get ten or 574 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:08,679 Speaker 2: twelve off and I always regain it. So maybe do 575 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 2: the initial push yourself and then link in with a 576 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,920 Speaker 2: health professional and that can take you to the next step. 577 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:15,960 Speaker 2: So I think it's just taking a step back and saying, 578 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 2: what does my journey look like, what have I been 579 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:21,119 Speaker 2: doing to date that's not working? And how can I 580 00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 2: change that around? And if you lose that motivation in 581 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:26,080 Speaker 2: the middle part, perhaps that's a great time to link 582 00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:28,879 Speaker 2: in with a health professional to guide you through that 583 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 2: difficult part, learning to maintain and learning to push forward 584 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,919 Speaker 2: from there versus bouncing back to the old body that 585 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:36,479 Speaker 2: you always seem to end up back in. 586 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,399 Speaker 1: It's really good advice. Even I've enjoyed listening to you 587 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:40,960 Speaker 1: today lean very. 588 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,200 Speaker 2: Nice because I've had a double coffee. 589 00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:47,240 Speaker 1: Well, our listener question is a slightly different slant than 590 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 1: weight control, because I loved it. Actually, you had a 591 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:52,000 Speaker 1: great question that came from I think it's one of 592 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,919 Speaker 1: your clients actually even probably a listener, but also a client, 593 00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 1: and she was asking how she can get her family 594 00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 1: to eat more plant based meals. Now I can absolutely 595 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,880 Speaker 1: put my hand up to this because if I serve Chris, 596 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:08,120 Speaker 1: my father of my children and my life partner, a 597 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:11,919 Speaker 1: mushroom cauliflower rice rosotto, which I love for dinner, he 598 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:16,159 Speaker 1: looks at me like I'm starving him and is like not. 599 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 1: He never says that was great dinner. Let me tell 600 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,640 Speaker 1: you so, I think this is something that we can 601 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:22,959 Speaker 1: all benefit from, especially at the momently and when the 602 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 1: cost of meat and protein is so expensive, so simply 603 00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:29,119 Speaker 1: for the household budget, having a bas meal or two 604 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,200 Speaker 1: each week is a really smart choice for families. 605 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it was a client of mind, but also 606 00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,200 Speaker 2: a friend who it's a hubby specifically, and she said, 607 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 2: you know, the kids, I can kind of trick in. 608 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:40,919 Speaker 2: I can get them into doing it, like no problem. 609 00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 2: It's hubby will screw his nose up be like yuck, 610 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,840 Speaker 2: I'm not eating that, and then the kids follow suits. 611 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,120 Speaker 2: A dad's like oh, yuck. I'm not eating that. Kid's like, yeah, 612 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 2: we don't want that either, that's gross. So she was 613 00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:54,960 Speaker 2: really struggling to even implement something simple like meatless Monday 614 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:57,440 Speaker 2: like she wanted to do on her household. So one 615 00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:59,359 Speaker 2: of the best tips that I have, SUSI, have you 616 00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 2: ever seen that brand called corn So? It's Quo r 617 00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:06,399 Speaker 2: n So. It's based on egg white proteins. It's not vegan, 618 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:09,679 Speaker 2: but it's a really nice vegetarian alternative. They do like 619 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 2: a it looks like a mince basically. That would be 620 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 2: my first option if you're trying to do a vegetarian 621 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 2: or a plant based meal for your family, substitute any 622 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 2: mince dish, whether you're doing a shepherd's pie or a spaghetti, 623 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,920 Speaker 2: bolonnaise or tacos with that corn product. You can fight 624 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 2: it in kal g you and fight it in wool 625 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 2: is in the frozen section, I believe. 626 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:28,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's in the frozen section. 627 00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 2: It's really really good quality. It's like high fiber, it's 628 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,480 Speaker 2: high protein, it's you know, moderate in terms of like 629 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 2: phenergy as well. It's a really great option and it 630 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 2: doesn't taste bad, but it also resembles a texture of meat, 631 00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 2: which I find like that's the hardest part, you know, 632 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,760 Speaker 2: particularly when people go, oh, I want to eat plant 633 00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 2: based and they're like, oh, tofu, Like I can't get 634 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,120 Speaker 2: around it. A lot of people struggle with just the 635 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,919 Speaker 2: texture of tofu just because it's so different to what 636 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 2: like a steak is obviously, So I really love the 637 00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 2: corn mince. They do it another few products in the 638 00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,480 Speaker 2: range where they do like a you know, a chicken 639 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 2: filla ten you know, fake other types of meats, but 640 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,320 Speaker 2: they're not as high quality in terms of nutrition. I 641 00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:09,040 Speaker 2: really like either the corn pieces or the corn mints, 642 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,640 Speaker 2: So they're my two favorite options. And the other one 643 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 2: is just using like start off slowly, like do say 644 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 2: you're making a spaghetti, do a can of beans and 645 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:19,639 Speaker 2: a little bit of mince meat, or use three quarters 646 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:22,120 Speaker 2: of the amount of mints and a quarter of legumes 647 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,639 Speaker 2: or beans, So don't go one hundred percent plant based, 648 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 2: just cut them down gradually, or get the family or 649 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 2: hubby onto eating more beans and legumes alongside the meat 650 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,199 Speaker 2: portion of it and cut it back gradually. So do 651 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,879 Speaker 2: you know, use your mince and use sixty percent and 652 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,560 Speaker 2: then use fifty percent, then use forty percent. So gradually 653 00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:40,440 Speaker 2: over time. It may take a few months, it might 654 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 2: take six to twelve months, but you can kind of 655 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 2: transition the whole family over to enjoying more beans than legumes. 656 00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:48,479 Speaker 2: And it doesn't have to be if you thought about, oh, 657 00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 2: I just want to have one plant based meal every 658 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,920 Speaker 2: single week. If you just took twenty percent of the 659 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 2: meat out of five meals across the wick, you're basically 660 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 2: doing one plant based meal, right, So I don't think 661 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 2: it has to be about that again all nothing we like, 662 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 2: we can't have meat at all today. If the family's 663 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 2: really struggling or Hubby's really struggling to get his head 664 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 2: around not having some sort of animal product on his blade, 665 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,720 Speaker 2: just try cutting it back gradually, Like take twenty thirty 666 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 2: percent of the meat out of a meal and in 667 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,720 Speaker 2: a month's time do fifty percent you know, tofu and 668 00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:19,280 Speaker 2: fifty percent chicken, or fifty percent meat and fifty percent 669 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,080 Speaker 2: corn mits or something. So I think it's about that 670 00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 2: gradual shift down over time versus cutting it all out 671 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,040 Speaker 2: and say we're having a totally vegio meal today and 672 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 2: then there's upro all from the rest of the family members. 673 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think there's a couple of things. First 674 00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 1: of all, I wouldn't be making a big deal of 675 00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,760 Speaker 1: it at all. I would never even tell them that 676 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,240 Speaker 1: it's vegetarian, because that's the thing with parents. They'll say 677 00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 1: you must eat vegetables. They don't say you must eat 678 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 1: ice cream. So don't say if you're having a vegetarian meal. 679 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:44,800 Speaker 1: You might just say it's pasta or whatever. The two 680 00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 1: ways I think can work quite well with men who 681 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:50,600 Speaker 1: or other family members, or I'm talking now, I am 682 00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:54,040 Speaker 1: talking about men or even teenagers. Perhaps if I find 683 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,960 Speaker 1: with my own husband, if you spice it up, like 684 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 1: if I do a chili con kine with beans that 685 00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 1: doesn't have mints in it, he probably wouldn't really notice 686 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 1: if I had a lot of chili through it, because 687 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 1: he loves chili, so he'd still get the texture and 688 00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 1: the heaviness of the meal. If I was doing a 689 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:14,680 Speaker 1: chili with you know, some I'd probably do it like 690 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 1: with corn chips on the side or something like that 691 00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,560 Speaker 1: and some avocado and things. So I think that if 692 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 1: you flavor it strongly in that flavor profile, that can 693 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:26,320 Speaker 1: work quite well. Because I certainly would would offer beans 694 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:30,160 Speaker 1: in a taco or burrito, but the other dish that 695 00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:33,760 Speaker 1: I've been doing more frequently is dumplings at home, because 696 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,480 Speaker 1: I find that we've spoken about dumplings before, and there's 697 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:38,480 Speaker 1: quite a few brands that have got a really strong 698 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:43,000 Speaker 1: nutritional profile. And if I was doing dumplings and did 699 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:46,360 Speaker 1: veget vegetarian dumplings and serve them with at a marmaie, 700 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:50,200 Speaker 1: I don't think my husband would really notice, like not, 701 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:52,600 Speaker 1: he wouldn't. He wouldn't notice to say it. I don't 702 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 1: think you know what I mean. He'll sort of eat 703 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 1: what I give him. So I think that there's a 704 00:30:56,720 --> 00:31:00,200 Speaker 1: few cuisines that lend itself to more vegetarian based to eat, 705 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 1: or even a spicy pasta lyanne, Like if you did 706 00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:07,280 Speaker 1: an arabiata with a penne and a delicious olive sauce 707 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,000 Speaker 1: with some spice through it, my husband wouldn't ask me 708 00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:11,680 Speaker 1: for me on that night. He would be happy with 709 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 1: a spicy pasta. So I think you can use some 710 00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,840 Speaker 1: of those flavor profiles to put it through. Or even 711 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 1: a stir fry if you did tofu cut up with 712 00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 1: soy sauce, throat and loads of veggues. I don't know 713 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 1: if they would really pay that much attention in general, 714 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:27,600 Speaker 1: and I wouldn't make a deal of it. I certainly 715 00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,920 Speaker 1: wouldn't be telling them anything. If you're the one cooking 716 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,320 Speaker 1: the dinners, I feel like you've got the decision. You 717 00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,160 Speaker 1: don't have to tell them anything. They're lucky your dough it. 718 00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 1: That would be my thoughts as well. Make your own 719 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 1: if you don't like it. But there's a few little 720 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:41,960 Speaker 1: strategies you know that perhaps can slip in a little 721 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 1: bit more vegetable stuff, definitely in legumes in the case 722 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,960 Speaker 1: of trying to get more cheaper and nutritious forms of 723 00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,000 Speaker 1: protein that aren't necessarily animal based. 724 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:51,320 Speaker 2: So few little tips. 725 00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 1: But if you've got any others, let us know one 726 00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:54,959 Speaker 1: will share them on the potty all rightly and well, 727 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,320 Speaker 1: that brings us to the end of another episode of 728 00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 1: the Nutrition Catch podcast. 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