Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the
Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Coomboo
Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present
Speaker 1: and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and
Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,
Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Concer podcast. This is
Speaker 1: the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and
Speaker 1: becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs,
Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses
Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo
Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No
Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, we're here to
Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical
Speaker 1: self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's
Speaker 1: seat of your own life and stop letting life pass
Speaker 1: you by, then you're in the right place.
Speaker 2: Hello everyone, and welcome back to the podcast. Today's episode
Speaker 2: is a follow up from last week's EP where we
Speaker 2: spoke about the f boy theory. So if you haven't
Speaker 2: listened to that, i'd highly suggest listening to that one
Speaker 2: before you listen to this one and Funnily enough, in
Speaker 2: this episode, g is actually contradicting herself, so remember to
Speaker 2: use some discernment when listening to this, but we do
Speaker 2: think it'll be super valuable. Nonetheless, if you're someone who
Speaker 2: is currently on your self development journey and you feel
Speaker 2: a little bit disconnected from the relationships in your life,
Speaker 2: maybe you've drifted a bit from your partner or your
Speaker 2: close friends and you're not really sure what to do
Speaker 2: or where the line is between cutting a relationship off
Speaker 2: or deciding if you can hold space and have gratitude
Speaker 2: for those real relationships anyway, then this is the perfect
Speaker 2: episode for you. I know this is a current theme
Speaker 2: as we have seen it in the Facebook group a
Speaker 2: little bit, so I think you're all going to absolutely
Speaker 2: love it. But before we get into it, a quick
Speaker 2: recommendation from me. It technically isn't out yet, but it
Speaker 2: will be out when this EP goes live, and that
Speaker 2: is Bridgeton Season three, Part two, so I highly highly
Speaker 2: recommend that. I obviously haven't watched it yet, but they
Speaker 2: never miss so that is what I will be doing
Speaker 2: with my weekend. And another reminder as well, that we
Speaker 2: are starting the Riiz and Conker project this Sunday. We
Speaker 2: are so excited. The whole team is so excited. We're
Speaker 2: all going to be sharing what we're manifesting in the
Speaker 2: Facebook group. It is the last live round we will
Speaker 2: ever run. And if you are alumni as well, we
Speaker 2: do have an alumni option to purchase so that you
Speaker 2: can join this live round and be in the Facebook
Speaker 2: group with everybody else, and it's just going to be
Speaker 2: so magical and amazing. Are feeling the pool. I will
Speaker 2: leave the link in the show notes with more information,
Speaker 2: but we'll get straight into the episode.
Speaker 1: So in this episode, I know in a couple of
Speaker 1: episodes ago, I spoke to you guys about energetic Minimums,
Speaker 1: and if you haven't listened to that episode, highly recommend
Speaker 1: you do. We'll link it in the show notes, and
Speaker 1: it basically just talks about the concept of like what
Speaker 1: you accept and allow will continue. So if you have
Speaker 1: people treating you a certain way, having low vibrational behavior
Speaker 1: and you're accepting that, that's what will continue in your reality.
Speaker 1: And obviously if you want different, you need to move different.
Speaker 1: So it's having those hard conversations or getting you know,
Speaker 1: getting rid of those people and that sort of thing.
Speaker 1: I did want to honestly kind of contradict myself and
Speaker 1: bring a whole other conversation to this. But I do
Speaker 1: think it's really important to talk about this concept because
Speaker 1: what can happen is, you know, if you're listening to
Speaker 1: this podcast, you're a self development galley. You are either
Speaker 1: starting your self development journey or you're in the midst
Speaker 1: of it. And when we are on our self development journey,
Speaker 1: we do, like we do, tend to rise quite quickly.
Speaker 1: We learn these concepts, we embody these concepts, we see
Speaker 1: them working in our life, and we're like, yes, this
Speaker 1: is the life I want to live. I need to
Speaker 1: keep living by these you know, concepts and theories and ideas,
Speaker 1: and it's amazing. And so what can happen, though, is
Speaker 1: when people no longer align with us. You know, sometimes
Speaker 1: they just fall away, and that's amazing. But then sometimes
Speaker 1: you do have this kind of choice where you're like,
Speaker 1: do I just need to get rid of these people
Speaker 1: in my life because they're no longer serving me? But
Speaker 1: that can be hard if that is a husband, a wide,
Speaker 1: a family member, like you know, someone where it is
Speaker 1: a very serious relationship or a long term friendship. And
Speaker 1: so I did want to bring in a different conversation
Speaker 1: of what to kind of you know, do in those
Speaker 1: scenarios and how you can play in the duality of
Speaker 1: being so grateful for a relationship in a person for
Speaker 1: where they're at. So obviously, again, you guys need to
Speaker 1: use your discernment in this conversation. And obviously, if someone
Speaker 1: is just super toxic and they are just treating you
Speaker 1: not okay, obviously they get rid of them, they can
Speaker 1: leave like that is totally okay. But for example, I'm
Speaker 1: just going to tell you a couple of examples in
Speaker 1: my life. So a friendship example is my best friend Licinda,
Speaker 1: who I met when I was thirteen at high school.
Speaker 1: We you know, were so we were so close in
Speaker 1: high school and then especially after we finished high school
Speaker 1: when we went through our eighteen stage and we were
Speaker 1: partying a lot, very very close. So that's like, you know,
Speaker 1: a good eight years of being glued to each other's hips,
Speaker 1: seeing each other every week. And then I kind of
Speaker 1: went on my personal development journey. I found manifestation and
Speaker 1: I started really like delving myself in this work, and
Speaker 1: I very much you know, started evolving and changing, and
Speaker 1: she hadn't found personal development yet and we kind of
Speaker 1: went through this in between stage where we were definitely
Speaker 1: still friends, but I distanced myself from that whole scenario,
Speaker 1: that whole group and you know, her included, and I
Speaker 1: just wasn't really seeing her as much. When I did,
Speaker 1: it was, you know, fine, it was great. She's an
Speaker 1: amazing person. And I did have moments around like, oh
Speaker 1: do I you know, do I even want this friendship?
Speaker 1: And I'm sure she had those moments too, and like, honestly,
Speaker 1: there would be periods in there where we probably went
Speaker 1: six months without seeing each other. And what kind of
Speaker 1: happened though, is I still held on to that love
Speaker 1: for her, and I still had space for her to,
Speaker 1: you know, do whatever she was doing, you know, if
Speaker 1: she was still partying or you know whatever. I can't
Speaker 1: really remember, but I still had space for her while
Speaker 1: working on myself, and I think and then basically what
Speaker 1: happened is a couple of years later, she also got
Speaker 1: into self development. She also got into manifestation. She's actually
Speaker 1: also a manifestation coach herself. You know, she's done her
Speaker 1: life coaching course and shadow work course and she's very
Speaker 1: much into it and now whenever, and she also has
Speaker 1: two children, so she's a mom. So now whenever we
Speaker 1: catch up, we have the most beautiful, in depth conversations
Speaker 1: and she can absolutely meet me spiritually, emotionally, intellectually, and
Speaker 1: it's an amazing relationship. And I'm not gonna lie. I
Speaker 1: still don't see her sometimes for six months, but that's
Speaker 1: just more because we're so both of us are so busy.
Speaker 1: But it is this beautiful example of I didn't just
Speaker 1: cut her out of my life because she wasn't making
Speaker 1: the cut. Even though I was evolving, I you know,
Speaker 1: distanced myself, but I still held onto that love because
Speaker 1: she was a good person and I could see her
Speaker 1: other qualities and I could see that. And now I'm
Speaker 1: benefiting so much. And now I'm benefiting so much because
Speaker 1: I have this beautiful and credible relationship with her, of
Speaker 1: knowing her for you know, fifteen years now, of having
Speaker 1: that long term memories, that long term relationship, but then
Speaker 1: also this new and deeper, more connected relationship, which is
Speaker 1: you know, that's beautiful. So that's like a friendship. Example.
Speaker 1: Another example is with my husband Tim. Again, I went
Speaker 1: on my personal development journey, you know what, like eight
Speaker 1: ten years ago now, and he didn't go on his
Speaker 1: personal development journey till last year. So there was these
Speaker 1: huge and in saying that, I'm kind of seen in hindsight,
Speaker 1: he still very met me in ways of he showed
Speaker 1: me so much love, support, kindness, and even though maybe
Speaker 1: he wasn't meeting me at an intellectual or like emotional
Speaker 1: depth scenario, I was getting my cup filled with the
Speaker 1: other aspects. Yeah, and so I could, you know, contintinue
Speaker 1: that relationship. And also he wasn't He wasn't bringing down
Speaker 1: my growth. He wasn't like, no, don't go to that course,
Speaker 1: or don't do that course we can't afford it, or like,
Speaker 1: don't go to that retreat. He was very encouraging of
Speaker 1: my evolution and my growth while still just kind of
Speaker 1: doing his own thing. And so again I very much
Speaker 1: chose to obviously continue that relationship and not just put
Speaker 1: him in like put him in the bin and be like, no,
Speaker 1: he's not in self development, you're in the bin. And
Speaker 1: now again I'm benefiting a lot from him being able
Speaker 1: to meet me in other ways and that evolution. But
Speaker 1: if I had just gone, oh no, we're two different now,
Speaker 1: we're not meant to be together, I wouldn't be benefiting
Speaker 1: of what I am now. Of course, then on that
Speaker 1: flip side, there's the whole conversation of maybe if we
Speaker 1: did break up and I met someone or you know,
Speaker 1: or and that's totally a possibility. So I'm not saying
Speaker 1: there's a right or wrong. Yeah, that's kind of what
Speaker 1: I'm getting out, But I'm just saying, don't I think
Speaker 1: it can be from a place of ego when you
Speaker 1: do go nuh, they're not meeting me, You're out because
Speaker 1: even think of yourself, like you have gone through lag periods.
Speaker 1: You have gone through periods where you weren't conscious, you
Speaker 1: weren't into self development, and you had people who people
Speaker 1: who were at a higher consciousness hold space for you,
Speaker 1: keep you, you know, still talk to you, still have
Speaker 1: relationships with you. So I think there is this conversations
Speaker 1: for not completely getting people, you know, cutting people from
Speaker 1: your life because they're not meeting you, but really exploring
Speaker 1: can you hold that relationship? Can you still be your
Speaker 1: best self? Why that person maybe that you know, I'm
Speaker 1: not saying they're not being their best self, but they're
Speaker 1: into something different? Can you hold that?
Speaker 2: Something I like to think about too, is with those
Speaker 2: relationships that's helped me know the difference as to whether
Speaker 2: to continue to hold space and maybe just distance myself
Speaker 2: a little bit. First, actually like putting in a boundary
Speaker 2: and being like this is it is if that person
Speaker 2: A makes me feel good, Like do I feel somewhat
Speaker 2: filled up after seeing them? Or do they put me
Speaker 2: down or drag me down? Because obviously if they're putting
Speaker 2: you down, you need to put a boundary in place totally.
Speaker 2: And the fact that it's almost like do they fill
Speaker 2: up at least one of your buckets?
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you.
Speaker 2: Might have one friend that maybe they're not into self
Speaker 2: development and manifestation, but they absolutely love reading all the
Speaker 2: same books as you, and they love watching the TV shows,
Speaker 2: and they love going to these concerts and stuff, and
Speaker 2: that is a value of yours and it fills up
Speaker 2: a cup of yours. So of course you're going to
Speaker 2: keep talking to them because you don't need one person
Speaker 2: to fill up every single bucket of yours. You can
Speaker 2: have multiple people and as long as they're filling up
Speaker 2: a bucket, it's fine, Yes, exactly.
Speaker 1: Well that's even like with Tim is he has not
Speaker 1: a lot of interest in like business. So for example,
Speaker 1: when I get home. I'll obviously update him of what's
Speaker 1: happening and H and R and C. But I'm not
Speaker 1: talking about business strategy with him, whereas I get that
Speaker 1: from Cooper. Yeah, and so again I'm not like being
Speaker 1: like war Tim, you're not into business, you're out which
Speaker 1: absolutely though for someone that might be super important that
Speaker 1: their partner is also business driven motivated and if you
Speaker 1: have acknowledged that part of yourself and that is a
Speaker 1: want and desire, go like, go and get that absolutely Again,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. There's no right or wrong here, guys.
Speaker 1: It's you feeling into yourself, watching your ego. Because what
Speaker 1: our ego does is it protects us and it wants
Speaker 1: black and white. It wants there to be right and wrong.
Speaker 1: So any time that you're thinking something has to be
Speaker 1: an exact way or a certain way and there's no
Speaker 1: other option, that's when you know you're in your ego.
Speaker 1: And that's when you're like, oh, I even say to myself,
Speaker 1: can I see this a different way? And it's opening
Speaker 1: up your mind because the ego it brings us in
Speaker 1: and I'm using my hands again, but it puts the
Speaker 1: blinders on and it's like no, the only way you
Speaker 1: can be successful is if your husband's into business. That's
Speaker 1: not an actual truth. For example, I'm your evidence. So
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Is for example, if you're like, no,
Speaker 1: but that's what I want, that's what I desire. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's amazing, that's beautiful. But just watch the beliefs of
Speaker 1: like it has to be this way or you know
Speaker 1: this will happen, because that's when you're like, Okay, I
Speaker 1: do need to open up my mind here. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: getting back to it again, and I think there is
Speaker 1: so much room for I just truly believe that if
Speaker 1: you keep working on yourself, you're clear with what you
Speaker 1: want and what you need, these people will either meet you,
Speaker 1: maybe it's years, maybe it's ars like me and Tim,
Speaker 1: or they fall away. And I've had both scenarios and
Speaker 1: both scenarios are beautiful. So you know, again, don't make
Speaker 1: it right or wrong. But also, like you said, tit,
Speaker 1: have a think about these relationships, like what are you
Speaker 1: grateful for? Is it that I actually really love that
Speaker 1: when I see them, we're not talking about personal development
Speaker 1: or business. We're talking about smart books.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, And again, don't get me wrong.
Speaker 1: You can have both. But also, like the relationships and
Speaker 1: the people you have around you, you've attracted them for
Speaker 1: a reason, and it's really beautiful to honor that reason.
Speaker 1: So again, what I want to do at the end
Speaker 1: of this episode is just give you some prompts to
Speaker 1: have a think about currently, like the relationship that you
Speaker 1: know you're you're men, maybe you know, not feeling as
Speaker 1: grateful for or like you feel like you might be
Speaker 1: tapping out of that relationship. And wait, before I go
Speaker 1: through these prompts, there's also a huge responsibility for you
Speaker 1: to have hard conversations about your needs, about your boundaries,
Speaker 1: about what you will accept. I've had those conversations with Tim.
Speaker 1: I've had the conversations of it's fine that you're doing
Speaker 1: your own thing, but these are my new needs, these
Speaker 1: are my new boundaries, these are my new desires in life.
Speaker 1: Are we aligned here? And then you know, we'll have
Speaker 1: that conversation again. With friendships, like, for example, that friendship
Speaker 1: with Lycinda. If she was constantly bringing me down, if
Speaker 1: she was like, you know, not meeting my needs, if
Speaker 1: she was not being a very good friend when I
Speaker 1: did see her, maybe that relationship wouldn't well, it wouldn't
Speaker 1: have continued. So she was still meeting my needs. She
Speaker 1: was still meeting something at some point, and that's why
Speaker 1: it continued. It's just now I get the benefit because
Speaker 1: I did hold onto that relationship and I didn't just
Speaker 1: cut it. Yeah, So again, think about this relationship that
Speaker 1: maybe it's a you know, a purse, a romantic relationship
Speaker 1: where you're like, I'm just not sure about it anymore.
Speaker 1: I feel like we've grown a part. Maybe it's a
Speaker 1: friendship where you're like, I feel like it's grown a part.
Speaker 1: And go through these problems and this will kind of
Speaker 1: help you get clear on what you want to do
Speaker 1: moving forward. Oh guys. Also these prompts that I say,
Speaker 1: there will be like a longer cinematic version in the
Speaker 1: Rise app where if you do want to feel really
Speaker 1: grateful for the people that are currently in your life
Speaker 1: and kind of like celebrate the differences, this meditation is
Speaker 1: going to be really beautiful for you, and it is
Speaker 1: in the Rise app. We'll put links in the show notes.
Speaker 1: And I think what's really beautiful with this sort of
Speaker 1: conversation is being able to hold duality in other people.
Speaker 1: And because if you think about it, it's a very
Speaker 1: kind of like godlike complex. If you just think everyone
Speaker 1: needs to be at my level, everyone needs to be
Speaker 1: here with me, otherwise you're out. Yeah, like that's you know,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would like to be friends
Speaker 1: with that person. No, you do need to have space
Speaker 1: and depth and range for people being different, because otherwise,
Speaker 1: if you're just surrounded by Honestly, if you're surrounded by
Speaker 1: the exact same people around you who are doing the
Speaker 1: exact same things, who have all the exact same everything,
Speaker 1: you're never really going to grow alone or learn because
Speaker 1: you've just got like you're an echo chamber. So it
Speaker 1: is really beautiful to have different people in your life
Speaker 1: as long as they are adding value in some way.
Speaker 1: So let's go through these brom what are you grateful
Speaker 1: for in this relationship list? You know, five or ten things,
Speaker 1: whatever comes up, like what are you currently grateful for?
Speaker 1: Next prompt what is their love language? And even think
Speaker 1: about have you been showing love to them in their
Speaker 1: love language? Because I think sometimes again this is obviously
Speaker 1: more of a romantic relationship, but we can get in
Speaker 1: the oh, well, you know, they haven't been putting an
Speaker 1: effort and they haven't been this and whatnot. But then
Speaker 1: you actually think about it and you're like, well, I
Speaker 1: kind of haven't been either. And again it has to
Speaker 1: be that beautiful mutual exchange. So they've also got to
Speaker 1: be making some actions, and so do you. I then
Speaker 1: want you to think about the polarity in the relationship. Oh,
Speaker 1: let me actually talk about this. This is a problem,
Speaker 1: but let me talk about this. So I think polarity
Speaker 1: in relationships is so important. It's what it's the passion,
Speaker 1: it's the fire. And I think what can be really
Speaker 1: great is you listing, you know, what makes them different
Speaker 1: and almost why that benefits you. This is going to
Speaker 1: be huge. So let me give you an example. I
Speaker 1: was actually talking to someone about this, and in this conversation,
Speaker 1: he was saying, I often, you know, my ego would
Speaker 1: often go to this place where he works and his
Speaker 1: wife also works and they've got two kids. And he
Speaker 1: was saying, you know, I often he loves working, he
Speaker 1: loves his job. And he was saying, I often go
Speaker 1: to this place where I'm like, oh, if my wife
Speaker 1: didn't work, and if she was a stay at home mom,
Speaker 1: and you know, she just got the girl sorted, and
Speaker 1: it was like all sorted, our life would be easier.
Speaker 1: I'd be able to work more. You know, life would
Speaker 1: be easier. But then he's like, but hang on, let's
Speaker 1: have a thing. The benefits that I get because she's
Speaker 1: like this. So a benefit is financially, there is another
Speaker 1: income coming in, so financially it doesn't all rest on him.
Speaker 1: There's obviously a benefit to that. Another benefit is because
Speaker 1: she isn't just the stay at home mum who does everything,
Speaker 1: you know with the kids. He has such a beautiful
Speaker 1: relationship with his kids. He has to go to the
Speaker 1: soccer games, he has to go to the you know,
Speaker 1: take the girls to the doctors, and do all those
Speaker 1: things because sometimes she's working. And he knows because he
Speaker 1: is a workaholic. If she had it all sorted, he
Speaker 1: wouldn't go to half the things. And so he values
Speaker 1: being a good dad. So he's like, you know what,
Speaker 1: it's actually a huge benefit because it makes me a
Speaker 1: better dad because I literally have to be there. And
Speaker 1: so the alternative of like, oh, life would be easier,
Speaker 1: I could work more. It's like, do you act want that?
Speaker 2: I know?
Speaker 1: And again it's opening up your brain. It's being like,
Speaker 1: for example, let's even go to my relationship with Tim totally.
Speaker 1: Sometimes my brain goes, oh, would it be easier if
Speaker 1: I had another partner who had a business, who you know,
Speaker 1: was really into business or driven, you know, and really
Speaker 1: motivated and we can talk about business strategy. But the
Speaker 1: alternative to that is I'd probably fucking go crazy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: not crazy, sorry, I would probably never shut off. I
Speaker 1: probably wouldn't have the work life balance I have. Like, literally,
Speaker 1: when I get home, I don't think about work anymore.
Speaker 1: I have worked really hard on that, but I don't
Speaker 1: think about work anymore. I can be such a present
Speaker 1: wife and mum, so that actually benefits me so much
Speaker 1: that he's not like that.
Speaker 2: And a benefits Divy because she has parented at home
Speaker 2: with her totally.
Speaker 1: And so do you see how our brain could kind
Speaker 1: of play tricks on ourselves. And it could be that,
Speaker 1: you know, that self development, Maybe it's like that friendship
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, I just wish me you know
Speaker 1: my friend was into self development. But it's like, well,
Speaker 1: then maybe you wouldn't have those conversations about pop culture,
Speaker 1: about the books, and you wouldn't have that beautiful enjoyment.
Speaker 1: So I think a huge thing that you can kind
Speaker 1: of hack your brain is think of the polarity of
Speaker 1: this relationship and the benefits that you get from it,
Speaker 1: And again, this will help open up your mind so
Speaker 1: you'll be less than your ego. Another good prompt is
Speaker 1: like just describing what this relationship brings out in you.
Speaker 1: So you like that relationship a tia you know, with
Speaker 1: the books and whatnot, that probably brings out like a
Speaker 1: really fun side of you and that's like, that's really
Speaker 1: cool that that comes out with that friend. Yeah. Again
Speaker 1: with me and Tim, it's like, because he is so calm,
Speaker 1: he makes me a calmer person. He makes me slow down,
Speaker 1: and that's a huge benefit to me. A good prompt
Speaker 1: is like what are you excited about in this relationship?
Speaker 1: Like think about like future plans or you know, what
Speaker 1: you guys want together, or like if it's with a friendship,
Speaker 1: like you know what's gonna happen in the future, and
Speaker 1: think about like what can be exciting about that. Like
Speaker 1: maybe with a friendship, it's like how cool when we're
Speaker 1: both mums together? Yeah, you know that that sort of moment.
Speaker 1: And then the last prompt is just how can you
Speaker 1: connect deeper with this relationship?
Speaker 2: Get our conversation cards.
Speaker 1: Absolutely get our conversation cards. That's a no brainer, like
Speaker 1: city up. But I think it's like, yeah, think about
Speaker 1: because often we it's so much easier to just go, nah,
Speaker 1: I'm out, you're not meeting me, your toxic and whatnot.
Speaker 1: It's actually harder to have hard conversations, to connect more,
Speaker 1: to meet them at their level. Like that's the harder
Speaker 1: thing to do, but often and you will get so
Speaker 1: much out of being the first one to take the step.
Speaker 1: And like I said, there's such a conversation for you
Speaker 1: shouldn't always be the one taking the step. You shouldn't
Speaker 1: always be the one dragging the relationship, you know, pulling
Speaker 1: this person up, and you will know when time's enough.
Speaker 1: But like take some ownership and it's like, oh, I
Speaker 1: have been kind of tapping out of this relationship. Can
Speaker 1: I connect more? Can I lean into this relationship?
Speaker 2: And I also like to think of it from the
Speaker 2: fact of when you're deciding whether to cut someone out
Speaker 2: or not, ask yourself, have I tried having a hard
Speaker 2: conversation with them? Have I given them the opportunity to
Speaker 2: meet me where I'm at? Because if roles were reverse,
Speaker 2: that's what that's what I would want like if my
Speaker 2: friend was feeling that, I would want them to say, hey,
Speaker 2: I'm feeling x y Z when you talk about this topic,
Speaker 2: or like I find you've been really down at the moment,
Speaker 2: what's going on? Like can we be a bit more positive?
Speaker 2: I would want that conversation to be had to give
Speaker 2: me that chance before cutting the relationship totally.
Speaker 1: And I think that's what makes you like a more
Speaker 1: emotionally intelligent person. I honestly think if you are just
Speaker 1: the one, you're like, nah, you're out. Like again, I
Speaker 1: think there is obviously a time and space, time and
Speaker 1: space for that, and again use your discernment in this podcast,
Speaker 1: but totally the harder option is having those hard conversations
Speaker 1: and is making those moves. But like you said to you,
Speaker 1: it's like, wow, what would you want? Especially if it
Speaker 1: is like a good relationship and it is like a
Speaker 1: good person and you know they've got a good heart.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, hope you enjoyed that thought provoking episode.
Speaker 1: Bye Ron, Thank you so much for listening to another
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