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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Christian no Connel Show podcast.

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Speaker 2: So eight days ago my oldest daughter Ruby turned at eighteen,

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Speaker 2: and these last eight days there's been some bumpy stuff

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Speaker 2: going on. It's like we're in an asteroid belt being

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Speaker 2: pelted by some big old rocks. At the moment, there's

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Speaker 2: a lot of well, I'm an adult now, so you

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Speaker 2: can't tell me what to do. We had the tattoo

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Speaker 2: last week. She's past her driving test, she's got her independence,

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Speaker 2: she's got her wheels.

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Speaker 1: She is good to go at the moment. She's primed.

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Speaker 2: Yesterday I tried to have a sort of an easy

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Speaker 2: conversation because this weekend she's got a joint birthday party

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Speaker 2: at at a venue that is not her house. We're

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Speaker 2: not stupid with her best mate. They've got a joint

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Speaker 2: birthday are and I said, look, she doesn't want my

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Speaker 2: wife and I had to come along, even for a drink, right,

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Speaker 2: I said, look around?

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Speaker 3: So ungrateful by the way, but that's this being eighteen. No,

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Speaker 3: I remember in my eighteenth and your parents there, yeah,

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Speaker 3: and all the eighteenth I went to.

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Speaker 1: I remember, just a drink. How do I stay in?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: You know, throw shade over.

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Speaker 2: It's just like you just want to come along for

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Speaker 2: a drink to sort of say happy birthday and we

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Speaker 2: get out there.

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Speaker 4: I don't think that's too much to us.

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Speaker 2: No, So I say to her, Hey, listen, you know

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Speaker 2: I've been asking around quite a few parents. They just

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Speaker 2: come along for a drink. Went, Oh, it'd be really

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Speaker 2: odd if.

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Speaker 1: You were there, Like, how would it be odd? Ruby?

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Speaker 1: Who is that guy over there? That's my dad? Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, that's so odd on your eighteenth the guy

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Speaker 1: paying for all this, he's here. Do we get security?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Your father, Your father's here in the building. Who's a

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Speaker 1: woman with him? That's my mum?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: This is so odd.

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Speaker 4: On your celebrating. When you're celebrating your milestone, your parents

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Speaker 4: want to come and crash it.

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Speaker 5: See I didn't have mine. There's no business for parents

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Speaker 5: to be there though. You don't need to be there

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Speaker 5: getting in the way.

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Speaker 1: This is what Ruby said.

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Speaker 2: Thought, Yeah, Ruby said, you'd be getting in the way.

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Speaker 2: You odd, I said, But we've got to be around.

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Speaker 1: We're going.

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Speaker 2: We're nearby anyway, just in case anything happens, you know,

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Speaker 2: like a baut swat team.

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Speaker 4: Just sitting help in the car, like a Steakhout.

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Speaker 1: Basically just said, take a book or two. What a lovely,

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Speaker 1: fun Saturday night.

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Speaker 2: That would be so excell from my daughter's eighteenth sat

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Speaker 2: reading a book on a Saturday.

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Speaker 1: Night in paran Oh, that would be really nice. I

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Speaker 1: can't wait for that Saturday night.

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Speaker 2: Well, I just hear like breaking glasses and happy birthday.

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Speaker 1: We'll be Why shame with parents aren't here?

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Speaker 2: She hates her parents. So perhaps you you're with Ruby,

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Speaker 2: you know Sarah's like you. Well, no, Sarah's just said, well,

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Speaker 2: we're going to be there anyway.

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Speaker 1: Wait, we can't. Well we can't have that scene. We

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Speaker 1: can't have that scene.

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Speaker 2: Ruby said, no, No, when I get there, we've got

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Speaker 2: to rearrange some of the tables, and that's a job

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Speaker 2: for your moment. I we can do that, rearrange a

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Speaker 2: few tables, have a quick drink and go. She said, no,

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Speaker 2: So you you don't think we should go? No, I

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Speaker 2: don't respect her wishes.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I just don't think you've got it. You don't

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Speaker 5: need to. You've got no business being there.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I have daughters eighteenth in disguise one of the

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Speaker 3: village people.

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Speaker 4: That's one of the kids.

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Speaker 1: It's mister Harris the English teacher. Did you recognize me

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Speaker 1: there a couple of years ago.

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Speaker 5: That's beesty, You've got no business being there.

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Speaker 1: I have business.

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Speaker 4: You should be doing a Spain.

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Speaker 5: Leave them to.

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Speaker 1: Go down any well, not only my lot. Allows could

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Speaker 1: just get the microphone on.

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Speaker 2: Here's a speech and a PowerPoint that I put together,

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Speaker 2: your life in eighteen sights.

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Speaker 5: No, she's an adult. Now let her have an adult party.

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Speaker 1: An adult pay for it. Do you know I've got

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Speaker 1: to go there to pay for it? So I literally

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Speaker 1: go and leave, get out. Yep, I guys, got image

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Speaker 1: of the bouncies. Throw me out to the side of it.

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Speaker 6: Don't come back.

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Speaker 1: Sit in the car, the carage your book loser. The

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Speaker 1: Christian Connell Show podcast.

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Speaker 2: Had his daughter turn eighteen eight days ago, and it's

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Speaker 2: our joint birthday party this Saturday. My wife and I

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Speaker 2: thought it might be nice to go along, Yes, ten

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Speaker 2: twenty minutes, have a drink, say cheers, and.

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Speaker 1: Off we go. Now turn up, pay for it and

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Speaker 1: then get the hell out of their dad. I tried

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Speaker 1: to have just a private chat with her yesterday, you know,

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Speaker 1: just saying hey, you know what, it's the norm. We

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Speaker 1: don't want to ruin your night. It's not for us

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Speaker 1: to hang there. It's not about it about you and

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Speaker 1: your friends.

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Speaker 2: But you know, I think other parents do this where

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Speaker 2: they were just there for a bit like half an hour.

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Speaker 2: And also we're a nice hang yeh, there we go

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Speaker 2: so right anyway, so Jack is saying, you know, absolute

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Speaker 2: should we got Patsy's the other way we've got Patsy said,

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Speaker 2: no business being there.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, correct, Mine weren't at mine, Jessica.

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Speaker 1: Oh, parents, definitely must go.

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Speaker 7: I had a mealer with my mum and then she

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Speaker 7: drove out of this into the city of Melbourne and

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Speaker 7: went to a nightclub with us and we all had a.

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Speaker 1: Brilliant time and she took us all home and it was.

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Speaker 5: Probably the best night I can remember. Definitely, stay and

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Speaker 5: enjoy it, Jessica.

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Speaker 2: If I placed with my daughter, it feels like I've

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Speaker 2: written a speech. None of this sounds believable. On my

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Speaker 2: side of this sounds like costu report.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, she needs to sort herself up.

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Speaker 7: You're import in her life and she needs to have

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Speaker 7: fun and enjoy it with you.

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Speaker 4: Still sounds like you're from the sea.

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Speaker 2: That's to try it where Jessica. Also, it was a

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Speaker 2: line you missed off when I said it to you yesterday. Uh, Stephanie,

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Speaker 2: good morning.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Stephanie. What do you think?

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Speaker 6: Well, I had both of my parents there and for

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Speaker 6: my twenty first as well, and that's the only time they've.

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Speaker 1: Been in the same room together.

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Speaker 5: They're divorced.

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Speaker 1: My mum was too emotional to make a speech, so

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Speaker 1: she got my drunk uncle to actually make that one.

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Speaker 2: Well, he's like a sort of Switzerland, like an independent

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Speaker 2: family member.

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Speaker 1: To a drunk uncle. That could be worse.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, he called me his favorite niece when you know,

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Speaker 6: seventeen other cousins were in the room.

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Speaker 5: So that was that was fun.

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Speaker 2: Always slightly a creepy badge of one of the old

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Speaker 2: favorite niece from a drunk uncle as.

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Speaker 1: Well, Stepane, even as a threat.

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Speaker 7: Maybe sure what threat is?

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Speaker 1: This isn't helping whatsoever.

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Speaker 2: I'm going further into the wheat Guys. This is the

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Speaker 2: Christian O'Connell show podcast. Anyone knows any good size streets

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Speaker 2: that I can just spend Saturday night into the car

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Speaker 2: reading that book in Paran or winsor please please let

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Speaker 2: me know. The darker and dinger the better, really for

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Speaker 2: our funk Saturday night met my wife eighteen year old

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Speaker 2: daughter celebrates their eighteen party.

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Speaker 1: We pay for that. We are banned from.

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Speaker 4: You know what you can do? Have you been introduced

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Speaker 4: to chap Laps yet? Sorry chap Laps. Would you just

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Speaker 4: drive up and down Chapel Street.

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Speaker 1: I'll just rev the harding a toyo to Cougar.

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Speaker 2: I haven't seen any of the Clugars in the fasts

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Speaker 2: movies with Oh.

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Speaker 1: It was great Bootspace. This is really good.

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Speaker 2: He cannot call as well on the fuel guys. All right,

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Speaker 2: So yeah, is my eight now eighteen year old daughter.

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Speaker 2: She turned eighteen eight days ago and it's her birthday

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Speaker 2: party this weekend. We're the best friends. She's told my

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Speaker 2: wife and I that would be odd if we were there.

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Speaker 2: We do have to go to pay for it, and

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Speaker 2: then we're told to go. I tried to just talk

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Speaker 2: about it. Yes, I said, look at just for half

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Speaker 2: an hour a drink, say cheers, you know, buy you

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Speaker 2: and your friends drink and then we'll go, you know,

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Speaker 2: and so smart. I want to know were your parents

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Speaker 2: at your eighteenth jack us the saying to me like

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Speaker 2: we really it'd be nice for us to be there.

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Speaker 6: I have good fond memories of my parents being in

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Speaker 6: my eighteenth and every eighteenth we went to people's parents

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Speaker 6: are there, and it's a fun novelty to have a

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Speaker 6: few drinks and talk to somebody's dad and say, I

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Speaker 6: guess what I'm mates now with Rio's dad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I might take some merch and on and I

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Speaker 2: have a little signing table and stuff like that, Q

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Speaker 2: and A for an hour, and Patsy's saying we've got

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Speaker 2: no business being there. Rio said a call in winning

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Speaker 2: with someone, what do they say about pats.

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Speaker 6: She's merely asking the question, Patsy, because you're against it.

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Speaker 1: Of course, what if it was already's eighteenth?

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Speaker 4: And she said, no, no, I.

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Speaker 7: Know, I know, after what I went on about the

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Speaker 7: books yesterday, I know. But I think there's no, no,

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Speaker 7: I think there's a right of passage once they're eighteen.

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Speaker 4: Do you have to back off, break the door down

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Speaker 4: to eighteen?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 5: I won't.

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Speaker 1: No, I would biggest.

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Speaker 5: Mom, No way, No, you have my word. You have

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Speaker 5: my word.

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Speaker 1: Get this on tape. He's just going to come back

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Speaker 1: and bite you.

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Speaker 5: Oh you can.

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Speaker 7: She is her own woman at eighteen, and she can

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Speaker 2: And you notice, by the way, Jack and I were

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Speaker 2: too scared to pass that on I made would fly. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he couldn't even keep with even a couple of books

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Speaker 2: over the weekend.

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Speaker 1: That's a long.

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Speaker 5: Way down the track. Yet, I will have.

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Speaker 1: Come to been coming.

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Speaker 3: So when she goes to eighteenth that came up where

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Speaker 3: she has all her birthday parties and you won't step foot.

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Speaker 1: In the store, you will you.

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Speaker 5: I will make this promise right now. You got me

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Speaker 5: on tape. I will know to keep my distance.

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Speaker 1: Get out of it. You won't trust me.

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Speaker 5: Good morning, Karen, Good morning guys.

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Speaker 1: Wether Real. You're going to need to get into witness protection.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to have to go team Ruby. Oh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: give me a take, Give me a take, Karen.

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Speaker 7: Well, I've got five adult children and I didn't go

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Speaker 7: to any of their eighteenth so we had family things

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Speaker 7: at home.

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Speaker 5: We celebrated, we talked to had all.

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Speaker 5: But then they went out and they celebrated with their friends.

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Speaker 5: I think that you give them all the.

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Speaker 7: Things they need in life, and they want to be

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Speaker 7: an adult, and you need to trust them that they'll

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Speaker 7: make good decisions.

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Speaker 2: You're quite right, Yeah, we have done that. You know,

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Speaker 2: the whole family stuff and stuff like that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, you wanted to make decisions and then have

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Speaker 2: But do you know what, I don't wonder how anyone

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Speaker 2: likes to hang out with me in the morning on

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Speaker 2: the radio.

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Speaker 1: Don't want to hang out for like twenty minutes a

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Speaker 1: dream Christian, Christian, Christian.

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Speaker 7: It's not about you.

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Speaker 1: It's very hard for me to hear that.

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Speaker 5: Pretty hard.

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Speaker 6: What you do is you make sure you've got plenty

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Speaker 6: of pie, your light and all those drinks for them

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Speaker 6: for in the morning, and you make them.

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Speaker 1: All breaks sort of refueling stations. Maybe she's on the bags,

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Speaker 1: and just be there for them and make them breakfast

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Speaker 1: and have a chat and how should die like a

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Speaker 1: short order?

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Speaker 6: Trust me, trust me, trust me, I've done that five times.

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Speaker 1: Voice of Experience, Thank you caring that she's good to

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Speaker 1: get a different take.

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Speaker 6: Go Ruby, have a good time.

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Speaker 1: She is going. You're listening to the question, you know.

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