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Speaker 1: The Will and Woody Podcast, the grossest thing that you

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Speaker 1: have done as a pregnant woman, because I do think look,

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Speaker 1: Sam's pregnant at the moment, and I do think that

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Speaker 1: she tends to get more, she tends to get grosser.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, no, well, I don't come again.

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Speaker 3: Sound, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I choose your words again, mate, I reckon and choose

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Speaker 4: your words wisely. I'd say, if you want a home

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Speaker 4: to go home to tonight, you can stay in my

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Speaker 4: bed like spare bedroom if you want.

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Speaker 3: I want a job to come back to tomorrow.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, easy, that's not again.

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Speaker 3: It's got nothing to do with her physical appearance. She's beautiful.

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Speaker 3: She looks amazing, she really does.

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Speaker 2: She's glowing. But but but as is my beautiful pregnant wife.

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Speaker 3: Very I think we've nailed that.

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Speaker 1: But I think in terms of the things that she

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Speaker 1: has the potential to do, she can be quite gross.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, sure, okay, God.

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Speaker 1: So it actually came up the other day because we

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Speaker 1: were on the Wiggles podcast and they were asking about, oh,

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Speaker 1: you know, how do you find your parents being pregnant,

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Speaker 1: how do you find your partner's being pregnant, et cetera,

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Speaker 1: And I said it had just happened that morning.

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Speaker 3: One of the grossest things.

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Speaker 1: I have been I've ever borne witnessed towards was we

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Speaker 1: have a drain in our shower which I try and

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Speaker 1: get them to. Well, it's her job to empty it

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Speaker 1: because it's her hair that blocks it. Sure, so I'm like,

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Speaker 1: it's got to be your bag. Anyway, She hadn't done

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Speaker 1: it for a few weeks because of the pregnancy.

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Speaker 3: She vomited in the shower.

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Speaker 1: And then that wouldn't go down the drain because it

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Speaker 1: got clogged in the hair.

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Speaker 2: Little chewbacker was stuck in.

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Speaker 3: They can't even I can't.

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Speaker 1: And then rather than reaching down and sorting it out

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Speaker 1: of herself, she called me in.

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Speaker 4: I think that's fair because is she having struggles bending over?

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Speaker 4: Is she at that stage now where she can't make

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Speaker 4: give it to her?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 6: I think.

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Speaker 2: Some mobility. Was she vomited, carrying.

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Speaker 1: In discomfort and then she made Look, we call her

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Speaker 1: and get her to explain a little bit of what

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Speaker 1: happened because it was it was vile.

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Speaker 3: Okay, sure she might be thinking she's getting scammed, actually scammed. Yes, hello,

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Speaker 3: it's crazy calling from nabor Wards. I will very funny

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Speaker 3: I was just ringing because.

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Speaker 7: Creek, I.

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Speaker 1: Was calling because I was talking to you about that

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Speaker 1: globulous gu of hair and vomit that ended up in

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Speaker 1: the shower the other day.

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Speaker 8: Why do you find that so funny.

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Speaker 7: To publicly ask me like that?

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Speaker 4: If I'm being fully candid, He told the Wiggles as well.

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Speaker 4: So all the Wiggles know about your chunky vomit now,

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Speaker 4: he did, he did, Yeah, I want you to be

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Speaker 4: a little bit more embarrassing. You're not embarrassed about you.

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Speaker 9: I just found it very funny because we all was

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Speaker 9: so grossed out by it, so grossed out he nearly

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Speaker 9: started vomiting on the spot.

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Speaker 2: And I just find.

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Speaker 8: Real grossed out one of the funny things.

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Speaker 2: It's the best. It's the best in the world. Will

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Speaker 2: uncomfortable my favorite. Will.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, Will exactly really uncomfortable so much.

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Speaker 4: Because I am most comfortable most of the time, I know,

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Speaker 4: and it's annoying, so like when you're in heat, for example,

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Speaker 4: when you can't handle the hate.

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Speaker 2: I love it. I just love it so much.

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 9: Do you.

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Speaker 3: Do you find it funny when you're gross when you're pregnant?

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Speaker 7: What do you mean?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, like you can be a bit grosser

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Speaker 4: Easy will easy, like physically more gross.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't mean physically, I mean like, I mean

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Speaker 3: like some.

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Speaker 1: Of the things that you do can be a bit gross,

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Speaker 1: just eating like whole watermelons at a time. I think

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Speaker 1: your farts are generally pretty a little bit worse spewing

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Speaker 3: With the Yeah.

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Speaker 10: Wait, so what was the question.

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Speaker 2: Let's focus on this. We'll focus on the vomit.

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Speaker 4: I heard sim that it wasn't only the vomit that

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Speaker 4: was disgusting, but also because you've clogged all the plants

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Speaker 7: The against like the country.

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Speaker 11: No, not the kind.

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Speaker 3: The ring from the Ring.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, great reference, It was the chick and it.

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Speaker 3: Comes out of the world and it came out of

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Speaker 2: That's it. That's great.

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Speaker 9: Actually, but it was I was quite surprised, very very windy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we might let you go, Sam. That's great.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, Oh yeah, thank you, thank you

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Speaker 2: so much for that.

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Speaker 3: Bye, goodbye.

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Speaker 1: Now all right, there you go. So from the Horse's

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Speaker 1: Mouth really ranked the chick from the Ring. Love to

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Speaker 1: take some calls from other people, probably other pregnant women,

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Speaker 1: I think is if if, if they're willing to divulge.

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying that.

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Speaker 1: I just want to get the language right here, because

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Speaker 1: it might come across as if I'm saying pregnant women

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Speaker 1: are gross, which they're not.

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Speaker 4: You've got it a bit wrong. Before the song you've

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Speaker 4: done you have you written something down?

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Speaker 3: I just slipped into it. I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I just meant to say, yeah, Sam is gross as

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Speaker 1: in like as a verb, sorry, no as an adjective.

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Speaker 1: But I'm describing her behavior, not her as a person.

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Speaker 1: So she's currently pregnant, and I just feel like it

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Speaker 1: looks beautiful. Absolutely, But she does kind of use it

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Speaker 1: that she can be a bit gross. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: it's almost like a bit of a cart blonde for her. Sure,

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Speaker 1: I'm pregnant, whatever, don't care. Sure, there's a sense of

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Speaker 1: like recklessness that comes with it. She's like, you know what,

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Speaker 1: made me fish out some I can't say it, some

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Speaker 1: hair drenched vomit from our shower drain, and that's your role. Well,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it was because it was carrying

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Speaker 4: Yeah, if she says pick up ms picking up. You

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Speaker 1: She was like, I'll just leave it there for a

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Speaker 2: That's very funny. In the shower after sure to put

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Speaker 2: a glove on, you put a glove on? Yeah, man,

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Speaker 2: oh that's offensive to your mate.

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Speaker 1: That was so that was It was actually like it

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Speaker 1: was close to the most heinous thing I've ever seen

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right, Like it was like why I wanted to

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Speaker 3: go into it. I think we can all imagine it.

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Speaker 4: I think I think we've covered a lot. Let's go

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Speaker 4: to Erica here on thirty one and six five. Erica,

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Speaker 4: thanks so much for calling I was calling pregnant women.

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Speaker 3: Gross, right, I've cleared that.

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Speaker 10: Hey, hey, hey, yeah, so I'm being pregnant. Obviously constipation

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Speaker 10: is a normal thing. Yes, I probably. I think I

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Speaker 2: Morning, little tree.

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Speaker 4: I think it's nice to show him though, because I'm

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Speaker 4: sure he would have been across the constipation would have

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Speaker 4: been like, there's been a movement and you can go

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Speaker 4: and check it out. And just on that topic, Erica,

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Speaker 4: So my wife, this happened in the first pregnancy. It

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Speaker 4: has started happening again now with this second pregnancy. But yes,

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Speaker 4: the constipation, it's it's such a real thing. One of

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Speaker 4: But she has a theory that when she sits on

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Speaker 4: do that it actually moves things along. So, Erica, if

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Speaker 4: you are struggling with constepation, I'm not sure of the

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Speaker 4: scientific backing of that, but just just yell at yeabadabado.

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Speaker 2: I'll just take of that, just give it a go.

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Speaker 2: She couldn't believe it.

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Speaker 4: She was like, it's happening to Faith there.

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Speaker 3: Six five Faith talking the grocers. Hello, hello, currently pregnant

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Speaker 3: or it's only you did in the past.

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Speaker 12: Not not currently pregnant. But it was something that happened

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Speaker 12: when I was pregnant, Okay, Yeah, ended up in the

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Speaker 12: hospital with gastro. Really horrible and horrible as it is,

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Speaker 12: let alone when you're pregnant.

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Speaker 6: Oh god.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I could not.

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Speaker 12: Make it to the toilet obviously to vomit and new boats.

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Speaker 12: So I'm sitting there pregnant belly's mass is in the

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Speaker 12: you're vomiting so all over the stomach, all over the floor, everywhere.

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Speaker 2: That's tough. That's tough.

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Speaker 3: In the hospital, Yeah.

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Speaker 12: In the hospital. So yeah, no gastro when you're pregnant,

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Speaker 12: stay away from anyone sick.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so fair hospital. Though the hospital's are saying far

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Speaker 4: worse than a bit of spufa. It's totally fine place.

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Speaker 3: To do it.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna be good involvement anywhay, Yeah, we get someone

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Speaker 1: to clean it up for you.

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Speaker 3: Let's just do it so someone.

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Speaker 4: Candent mimes other one because obviously so as everyone knows,

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Speaker 4: finding hair ties like that's just a thing with the females.

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Speaker 4: It's just like hair ties are everywhere, right, Yeah, But

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Speaker 4: for mem getting finding the hair ties a bit more

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Speaker 4: difficult when she gets more pregnant because often the hair tires,

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Speaker 4: they're scattered around the ground, et cetera. In the morning

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Speaker 4: when she really needs to put her hair up and

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Speaker 4: she can't necessarily reach her hair tie, she she can

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Speaker 4: sometimes not every day put to take a dirty G

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Speaker 4: string off and use that as a hairtye.

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Speaker 2: Wow yea clever actually when you think about it.

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Speaker 4: And then every now and then she'll do the daycare

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Speaker 4: drop off and go oh or just go over the

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Speaker 4: morning walk to go and get coffee, and it's like,

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Speaker 4: do I have a G string.

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Speaker 2: In my head?

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Speaker 4: That's one of those moments where you're like, I think

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Speaker 4: maybe the lie is better here.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: It's going to find out anyway, Yeah, she is. You

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Speaker 1: just don't want to be the one to break it

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Speaker 1: to them, that's right, Natalie. Five grossest thing you did

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Speaker 1: as a pregnant woman.

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Speaker 4: That's hard to listen to that one ask Louis Tomlinson,

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Speaker 4: And this is why you're going to succeed in life

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Speaker 11: One Direction puts from my face because it's all embarrassing.

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Speaker 2: I love that analyst, I absolutely love it.

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Speaker 4: She wanted self Lady Gaga tickets. You want yourself, lady

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Speaker 2: Guys?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no one, no one else was game

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Speaker 4: I think the young people are very much willing to

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Speaker 4: what's the most embarrassing thing you've ever done.

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Speaker 2: Let's prove this psychologist wrong.

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Speaker 3: Love that woods, love it for jen z n you.

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Speaker 4: Go you go live as well, do something really embarrassing

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Speaker 1: On the radio, mate, So I think they will be

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Speaker 1: live to quote strictly ballroom A life lived in fury

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Speaker 4: Half lived nice very I think quoting strictly ballroom is

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Speaker 2: I'm not living in here.

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Speaker 3: Lemon's calling in a second Furious. That's a great movie.

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Speaker 3: That's one of the greatest trained movies.

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Speaker 2: More you talk about that, the more embarrassing is getting,

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Speaker 2: So, Reese, how old are your mate?

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Speaker 5: Hi, I'm twenty one.

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Speaker 4: You're twenty one years old, and do you think you're

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Speaker 4: someone who's willing to embarrass yourself? I think, so, okay,

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Speaker 9: Well?

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Speaker 5: I don't know about the most embarrassing, but I remember

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Speaker 2: That is really not that embarrassing. Appreciate.

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Speaker 3: I think we're just proving.

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Speaker 2: That is the qualification of embarrassing for young people.

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Speaker 4: Maybe this thing isn't it like they're just you always

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Speaker 2: It's like a daily scene. Let's go to hi Riley. Hello,

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Speaker 2: how old are you? Riley?

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Speaker 4: Okay, now, Riley, are you willing to have a laugh

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Speaker 13: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Sorry mate, you aware woy beautiful spot?

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Speaker 13: And I was riding my e bike and I crashed

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Speaker 13: did nothing.

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Speaker 3: No, it wasn't deliberate though, Riley, right, I was.

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Speaker 10: I was looking at a bird.

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Speaker 2: That's pretty embarrassing.

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Speaker 3: It's embarrassing again, it's you just had to stack there

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Speaker 3: like that sucks.

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Speaker 2: This is worrying.

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Speaker 3: It's accidental. Cringe is cringe.

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Speaker 1: I think the definition of cringe is like deliberately going

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Speaker 2: Like for example, like calling over is not cringe.

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Speaker 3: That's just an accident.

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Speaker 2: That's just part of life.

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Speaker 4: I think, Like for me, for example, every time I

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Speaker 2: I think it looks a bit sexy. That's obviously embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: Well, that is embarrassing now that you've revealed it. But

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Speaker 1: but but again you're doing it. Do it to me, right,

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Speaker 1: I go side?

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Speaker 2: You do the eight mile? Yeah, I look and then

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Speaker 3: That's really strange, really strange.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. And at least does that as well. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: just like bomb ready for the day. Let's go to

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Speaker 4: Again, that's the that's just the bar we're expecting in.

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Speaker 3: Front of it. Again, that is cringe that you've revealed it.

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Speaker 1: But again I think there was differentiating because you do

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Speaker 2: Like when I knew Toboggans. That's probably pretty.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right, it was.

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Speaker 2: It was Let's go to Jenny. He let's see if

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Speaker 4: If young people have proven that they put themselves out

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Speaker 4: there and are willing to do cringe things.

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Speaker 2: But what's the most cringe thing you've done?

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Speaker 11: Wow, this is something that holds me back now. But

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Speaker 11: when I first got Instagram, I used to like make

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Speaker 11: my own little songs and I would sing them and

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Speaker 11: I would post them to there for all my school

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Speaker 11: friends to see.

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Speaker 4: Jenna, to prove that young people are willing to put

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Speaker 4: themselves out there, I'm gonna need you to sing one

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Speaker 4: of those songs right now.

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Speaker 11: Oh, I could not tell you. I honestly wouldn't know them.

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Speaker 2: Shame that I cringe, I reckon.

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Speaker 11: That's I definitely got commented on too, Like I knew

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Speaker 11: for sure that people saw them. And yes, since then,

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Speaker 11: I don't think I posted anything anymore.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's really putting yourself out there posting a song

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Speaker 1: that you've recorded. Is it's social media and online when

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Speaker 1: gen z is just a little bit more freedom there.

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Speaker 1: My wife isn't a gen Z, but I know that

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Speaker 1: when she went through a breakup.

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Speaker 2: She's gonna hate me saying this.

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Speaker 4: She went through a breakup, so she invited two or

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Speaker 4: three of her friends over. They got ready like they

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Speaker 4: were going to have a night out, and then when

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Speaker 4: stood in front of a blank wall which could have

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Speaker 4: looked like a nightclub and filled up drinks of alcohol

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Speaker 4: to make it look like they are out partying having

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Speaker 4: a good time.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna be in trouble when I get hard right now, though, will.

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Speaker 3: Beware of the spend a lot of time on reddits.

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Speaker 1: I spent a lot of time on Reddit, and the

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Speaker 1: producers seeking me bring it up in the meeting room.

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Speaker 1: So I've got this tiny little five minute spot which

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Speaker 1: is just not enough gear enough for him. For all

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Speaker 1: the gear I've got woods, I've got the best gear

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Speaker 1: of read it from the last week, and.

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Speaker 2: I'm the judge of that.

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Speaker 4: So you are there's some things you're into which I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna be honest, most of the population would find incredibly boring.

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Speaker 3: And most of the population are uncultured.

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Speaker 2: And this is the kind of thing he says.

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Speaker 4: So what you need to know is that the buzzer

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Speaker 4: is uncultured. And that's fine. So if at any point

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Speaker 4: he gets boring or too in depth or too deep,

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Speaker 4: I will move your mind.

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Speaker 3: If you are liking it, though, what.

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Speaker 2: I'm honest, I'm always honest, I got around a lot

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Speaker 2: of stuff.

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Speaker 3: I'm not talking to you, okay, I'm talking people listening.

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Speaker 1: If you if you are liking it, hit us up

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Speaker 1: and it's like, well i'd love to know more about that,

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Speaker 1: and you know, send it to Kate on the d

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Speaker 1: MS and she'll tell me and she's loving us.

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Speaker 2: It's just a bit of validation for Will if we

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Speaker 2: could guys.

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Speaker 1: I mean, sometimes it's nice to find people who you

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Speaker 1: know are like minded and they're like, you know, yeah.

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Speaker 4: If you're interested in things, community things, you want to

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Speaker 4: create a community, well, go out and a cult. But

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Speaker 4: it's not that you'd anyway. I've got to get through,

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Speaker 4: so just stop distracting me. Distract you? Are you wanted

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Speaker 4: to start a car?

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Speaker 3: No? No, okay, here we go. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, So apparently at Disneyland there is a code

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Speaker 1: word for when guests attempt to scatter ashes at the

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Speaker 1: theme park.

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Speaker 2: Cool, very cool. So what's the theme? What's the what's

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Speaker 2: the code word?

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Speaker 3: So so it depends on the Disney theme park. People

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Speaker 3: do that all the time.

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Speaker 1: So there's a so that there's an ex Disney cast

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Speaker 1: member because you know, like the princesses and stuff, one

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Speaker 1: of them trying to hook up with you on the

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Speaker 1: show Who Go and Dance at the theme park? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the ex Disney princess remember date? What his dad remember

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Speaker 1: that one?

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Speaker 9: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, anyway, so there was it was a radio bit.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she still had to pass.

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Speaker 2: Anyway. So there was a woman who.

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Speaker 1: Used to work as a Disney princess at Disneyland, and

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Speaker 1: she said, in at her Disneyland, the code was Grandma,

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Speaker 1: and then they would request the supervisors to call ghostbusters.

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Speaker 1: That was that was the that was the code. Yes, anyway,

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Speaker 1: pull it off you and.

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Speaker 4: Me, right, challenge except on it because go and scatter

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Speaker 4: the rat sashes.

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Speaker 2: He would let it. He would love Disneyland.

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Speaker 3: Great idea.

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Speaker 4: I feel like there'd be an issue and Disney are

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Speaker 4: very litigious. But yeah, well anyway we could do it.

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Speaker 4: Let's keep it quiet, now, keep it off their now,

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Speaker 4: but we'll do that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: This kicked off a pretty amazing discussion between lots of

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Speaker 1: other people who worked at theme parks for the different

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Speaker 1: codes they used to have at theme parks.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, give me more.

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Speaker 1: So this guy walked and worked it in an Orlando

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Speaker 1: theme park and he said, the saddest code was an

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Speaker 1: eight to two. It's eight two eight two, and it

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Speaker 1: meant that the rider was too large for the seat

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Speaker 1: that they were trying to get on on the on

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Speaker 1: the ride, why would you bubbleis on? It was called

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Speaker 1: an eight too because they ate too much. Yeah, anyway,

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Speaker 1: it was a prettish I put that on the thread.

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Speaker 1: Got a bit grubby radio because they have because and

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Speaker 1: also the other ones go just go No, another one.

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Speaker 3: Talking not you.

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Speaker 1: So there was another one, buzz disrespectful, Buzzy, you're disrespectful.

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Speaker 2: This is a good bit, Buzzy.

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Speaker 3: You want to know if they call you, apparently, if they.

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Speaker 1: Call you our most treasured guest at any Disney theme park,

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Speaker 1: that means that you're beat.

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Speaker 3: So you're back in.

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Speaker 1: That means that you're being like an absolute prick. And

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Speaker 1: there and they're calling security. Another good one. I know,

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Speaker 1: I'm on. Okay, here we go. Another one here for you.

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Speaker 2: It's still about Disneyland.

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Speaker 4: No red Yeah, okay, here we go. Keep up, keep up, No,

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Speaker 4: you've been rude. Don't buy that feeds you. You don't

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Speaker 4: feed me. Reddit feeds me in this you know youd.

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Speaker 3: It feeds me my bits. Okay, So this is really

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Speaker 3: cool video going around. I think it was actually filmed

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Speaker 3: in Australia. You know ring cameras.

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Speaker 4: Yes, So these kids are in a band, and well

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Speaker 4: you can have listen.

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Speaker 3: You gotta go and watch the footage for yourself and

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Speaker 3: have some of the audio.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, it's made from next floor. Is it okay

577
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Speaker 2: if we use your ring to make a music video?

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Speaker 4: Please?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I guess.

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Speaker 3: Thanks.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So they record their band's music video on his

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Speaker 4: ring camera.

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Speaker 3: The whole music video is on his ring camera.

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Speaker 2: I don't get it.

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Speaker 3: I do you not get that? Sos a ring camera

587
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Speaker 3: front door?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 4: I thought you was one of those cameras with the

590
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Speaker 4: big circle light that they use for zoom meetings.

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Speaker 3: That's a ring light. So ring camera, so camera, it's

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Speaker 3: a ring camera. It's a door camera. Mate, I do

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Speaker 3: not I'm not going to try and keep you up

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Speaker 3: with pop culture and give you the best to reddit.

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Speaker 1: That's too many things. Next, this one's really good. I

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Speaker 1: want to get this one before the news.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Two, I want to get to for the news, big one,

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Speaker 1: big no, No, I'll get too.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So apparently I'm gonna say I don't have to say

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Speaker 1: to the firm because bugget case. There's there's a there's

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Speaker 1: a famous Just listen, there's a famous real estate firm

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Speaker 1: in Melbourne called Nelson ellen Xander. Okay, okay, now they

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Speaker 1: are just probably stereotypical real estate firm.

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Speaker 3: Sure, just in terms of all.

607
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Speaker 4: Real estate, domestic real estate agencies can.

608
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Speaker 3: Be a bit like this.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, this bar, this bar got asked if they could

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Speaker 1: host Nelson Alexander's Christmas party. Okay, So, Nelson Alexander sent

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Speaker 1: this email saying, Hi, could you please confirm if you

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Speaker 1: have a valuability for a Christmas party for forty two

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Speaker 1: people who would need the whole venue on insert the date.

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 4: They posted this on Reddit because this is what they're

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Speaker 4: emailed back. Hi, Steven, thanks for reaching out. Before confirming

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Speaker 4: any availabilities for Christian party, we'll need to see copies

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Speaker 4: of the following Nelson Alexander's bank account statements dating back

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Speaker 4: fourteen calendar years, previous venue, higher history and assigned static

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Speaker 4: that Nelson Exlander.

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Speaker 1: Staff nor management will engage in any undesirable capitalist tendencies.

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Speaker 2: Very good.

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Speaker 4: Plus, we will take a bond which will you will

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Speaker 4: never see again.

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Speaker 1: That is goody very popped off that is good star,

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Speaker 1: that's very good gear it.

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Speaker 3: No, they didn't get the last one.

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Speaker 4: Last one, I promise, yeah, last like it?

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Speaker 2: You like it, you don't like it.

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Speaker 1: Weird, but you don't like it. It's actually from the

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Speaker 1: subreddit weird. Okay, four months after thirty two year old

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Speaker 1: actress Britney Murphy died.

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Speaker 3: Of pneumonia, and.

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Speaker 4: You are hell bent like a dog with a bone,

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Speaker 4: or rather a dog with a fish. No, no, we

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Speaker 4: we bend. I'm just adding a little bit of class

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Speaker 4: in this studio. We went out to dinner on Friday night.

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Speaker 4: It was classy restaurant. Sure there was no taxi Derman

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Speaker 4: animals on the walls, but I actually.

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Speaker 2: I actually it did. I feel I feel.

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Speaker 3: Like deep over all the taxa animals table, but.

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Speaker 4: I feel like even that restaurant could have benefited from

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Speaker 4: some taxi German animals on the walls.

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Speaker 2: Class So I just think in this radio studio.

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Speaker 4: Looks a little bit bland right now, How good would

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Speaker 4: it be, yeah, to have a taxidermied fish on the wall.

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Speaker 2: If you've missed any of the journey, have listened to this.

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Speaker 4: I love the idea of having a taxidermy animal in

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Speaker 4: the studio.

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Speaker 13: It is a tw two year old goldfish who's probably

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Speaker 13: twenty five centimeters long, and he's been in a freezer

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Speaker 13: for about three weeks.

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Speaker 4: Taxidermy extraordinary, Hannah, can your taxidermy fish?

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Speaker 13: You certainly can't. Taxidermy actually just means movement of this skin,

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Speaker 13: so we're moving the skin onto an artificial form.

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Speaker 4: Really need someone who's going to be driving from Sydney

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Speaker 4: to Melbourne. I would do it to you, boys, I've

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Speaker 4: been listening for It is absolutely a lot of everything

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Speaker 4: that you guys do. Oh, Harry got a soldier and

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Speaker 4: Harry he joins us on the phone right now. Harry

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Speaker 4: just wanted to confirm my friend that you are available

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Speaker 4: and willing to go and pick up a fish from Sydney.

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Speaker 5: I'm so sorry, boys, I couldn't move a couple of

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Speaker 5: things around. Like I said, I've got work and I

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Speaker 5: can't do it for you.

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Speaker 2: Harry.

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Speaker 4: Harry, Harry, Harry, Harry. It I remind you how important

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Speaker 4: this show is to you. Did it did feel like

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Speaker 4: last time we spoke you you spoke at length about

671
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:06,479
Speaker 4: how much you love Will and I and how much

672
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 4: you wan to do for the show.

673
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 2: What are we talking? Would it be a horrible offense

674
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 2: to skip work this week.

675
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 8: It very much could be.

676
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 5: I've asked every single person that I can.

677
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 4: I can't take you off. I'm so sorry, boy, it's mate,

678
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 4: it's okay, it's okay. If there's any guilt there, I

679
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 4: really don't want you to feel awful about that.

680
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, we don't need to feel awful. We

681
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 1: will blacklist you from going the show again, Harry.

682
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 2: We won't do that. We love your work, Harry.

683
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 4: But if you can spend the week now looking for

684
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 4: a replacement, it's fine. No, it's fine, absolutely, Harry. You're

685
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 4: an absolute legend. Mate, will send you a mug or something,

686
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 4: or we'll send you some stuff.

687
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 2: Harry. You're a good man. You're a good man. Thanks

688
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 2: for coming on the show. Too easy.

689
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 9: Thank you boys.

690
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 8: I promise I'll still listen.

691
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 4: Thank you, Harry, Thank Youank you so much, Thank you

692
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 4: my god, Harry.

693
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 3: Okay, so when did we know this?

694
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 2: When did we know that Harry was out today? Like

695
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 2: an hour ago? Were just I just.

696
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 4: Feel like we're behind the eight ball now. I wanted

697
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 4: this fish picked up on the weekend. Okay, fels we're nowhere,

698
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 4: so we drop it. No, no, no. Now, Unfortunately Australia,

699
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 4: we're spending the entire week. I wanted this wrapped up

700
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 4: like tomorrow. I wanted to fish in the studio today.

701
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 4: Was Harry busy on the weekend. I'm going to stop hammering, Harry.

702
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 1: We could just buy a taxad like a pre taxidermy

703
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 1: fish boring will okay?

704
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 2: Boring, Okay, Okay, I'm just I'm just so boring.

705
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 3: I knew you'd be like this.

706
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: This is why I was trying to say, like your

707
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 1: hell beend on this, and I was just like, well,

708
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 1: you know, well okay. I was just trying to coax

709
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 1: you out of it a little bit. And that's a

710
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: bad tactic with you. No, no coax I forgot how

711
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 1: prior you, how proud you are. I still want that fish. Okay,

712
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: So well I did this. I did this last week.

713
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 1: You wouldn't even know if it was if it was

714
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 1: another fish, I would You wouldn't know.

715
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 2: It's twenty five centimeters and it's a goldfish, so don't.

716
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 4: You it's I'm just saying, can we think of other options?

717
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 2: No, it's a lot. I don't like other options.

718
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 4: But if you're telling me right now that we are

719
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 4: incapable as a national drive show to get a frozen

720
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 4: fish from city to city. I mean that that's very disappointing.

721
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, look, look I tend to agree with you, but

722
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 3: I just know we.

723
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 2: Put a man on the moon.

724
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 4: We put a man on the moon sixty five years

725
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 4: that we didn't imagine if Neil Armstrong said to NASA, hey, guys,

726
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 4: do you mind if I get a frozen fish up

727
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:28,719
Speaker 4: there dreck? And they would have said we can't do that,

728
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 4: Neil probably, Yeah, right, Okay, what a bad example. That's

729
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 4: a bad example.

730
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 1: But okay do I have had a chat with the

731
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: producers before, and I think they're stretched.

732
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:39,120
Speaker 3: They've tried all weekend. We worked all weekend.

733
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 2: Did you Oh you were hungover after a big party

734
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 2: on I was very hungover. I had a tough weekend.

735
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 3: I was also very hungover.

736
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 2: That's very tough.

737
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 4: Maybe a little bit of that impatience is coming through

738
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 4: the radio. I've got a baby coming. I can't leave

739
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 4: the state. That's now, I can't. I saw my ob

740
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 4: this morning. I can't leave.

741
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 3: I told you, I told you you can't leave.

742
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 2: Right. I'm going to pay for a courier.

743
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 3: A courier.

744
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, and when I say I pay, will provide.

745
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 6: It is.

746
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:09,840
Speaker 2: I'm getting a courier. I'm getting.

747
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: Well, we're just open the phone lines now and see

748
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 1: if anyone else Am I allowed to do that?

749
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 3: Open the phone lines?

750
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, if you're shut up, for sure, I'm not

751
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 2: going to shut up.

752
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 4: I will continue about it all weak because I can

753
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:21,840
Speaker 4: do this personally in private.

754
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 1: I would like now, thirty one and six five, are

755
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 1: you driving from city in Melbourne?

756
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:29,720
Speaker 3: Can you take a frozen fish?

757
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:30,240
Speaker 2: Perfect?

758
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 3: Let's do it again.

759
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 2: Perfect. It does feel like we're in last but that's fine.

760
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 2: Hey's fine. Two steps backwards, one step forwards.

761
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 3: Let's do it.

762
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 1: That's what we've done so far. Okay, well no, we're

763
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,360
Speaker 1: just on the two steps back bit. But let's technicals.

764
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 1: We haven't done the step forward. We're mid step.

765
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:48,240
Speaker 2: Again. The dream for me is that you're already planning

766
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 2: on driving from.

767
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 4: City Melbourne fish in your car.

768
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:55,360
Speaker 3: Someone incidental, Yes, yes, driving to okay.

769
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:05,359
Speaker 4: Thirteen six five who's driving from Sydney Melbourne and wants

770
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 4: to bring with them a fish.

771
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 2: Finally you're on board. Thank you.

772
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 3: No, no, I'm just doing my job.

773
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 4: Man.

774
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:10,279
Speaker 3: Now, I'm just back.

775
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:13,399
Speaker 2: Now, that is not your job. It is my job.

776
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 3: That's my job.

777
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 6: This is the bit.

778
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 2: You're not going to say it with passion passion.

779
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 3: I did feel it.

780
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 2: I didn't feel it well.

781
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 4: So look, yes, as Bill said that, I do want

782
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:28,280
Speaker 4: to confirm that he is right. We're looking for someone

783
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 4: to pick up a frozen fish in Sydney and then

784
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:35,400
Speaker 4: drive it to Melbourne. You're probably gonna need like an

785
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 4: eskie or so. I've never moved a frozen dead animal

786
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 4: before that. It's not shocking first, that'd be a first.

787
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 4: But look, I am just looking for someone to do

788
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:48,839
Speaker 4: us a huge favor here because we want to get

789
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:52,280
Speaker 4: that fish in this studio and then get it taxidermed.

790
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 2: Then we'll have a taxidermed fish on.

791
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:59,359
Speaker 4: The wall here in the studio, and I just think

792
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,320
Speaker 4: that will give the studio a certain amount of X factor.

793
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 4: I mean, we'll let me let me ask this question.

794
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 4: How many other drive radio shows in this country right

795
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 4: now have a taxidermed fish.

796
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 2: On the wall? How many?

797
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:12,359
Speaker 9: Well?

798
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 2: None, but I don't you go there.

799
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 4: That's all the answer. That's our X factor. So you know,

800
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 4: if Lady gard Girls, Lady Gargar's coming at the end

801
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,399
Speaker 4: of the year, right and her team's going okay, look,

802
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 4: you've got time for one radio interview.

803
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,320
Speaker 2: You go, okay, Well, tell me a bit about the shows.

804
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 2: No worries x y Z blah blah blah. Actually Will

805
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 2: and Woody the show.

806
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 4: There, they've got a taxi fish on the wall before

807
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 4: they even finish. Guard goes book it. Let's go to

808
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 4: Bron here. I'm six five. I can't believe everyone knew

809
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,240
Speaker 4: where you were going when you started that story.

810
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 3: And I want I want that good seconds, good.

811
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:50,840
Speaker 2: Finish, Bron.

812
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 4: The only hurdle I've got is that I need the

813
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 4: fish delivered from Sydney to Melbourne.

814
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 2: Can you do it for me?

815
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 3: Yeah?

816
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:58,839
Speaker 10: Look boys, we can.

817
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 9: It's our wedding and three and my mom my husband

818
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,719
Speaker 9: surprised me with a trip to the opera at the

819
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 9: Opera House. So we're flying out Thursday night. We're back

820
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 9: Saturday afternoon.

821
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 10: I can pick up your fish to put him.

822
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 9: On ice and put him on the carry on and

823
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 9: Bob your uncle.

824
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 2: So you Bron, so just to confirm you would be

825
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 2: happy to have a frozen fish on ice in your

826
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:22,919
Speaker 2: carry on.

827
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 9: I'm happy to do anything for you too.

828
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:30,399
Speaker 2: Ron, Bloody love you. That is absolutely a couple of.

829
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: Questions marks over taking a frozen fish on a plane,

830
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 1: which we.

831
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 2: Do not need to answer that.

832
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:36,320
Speaker 3: Well, no we do because we can't.

833
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:39,479
Speaker 1: We can't send bron into it, into a death trap.

834
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 4: We'll do our due diligence there about it?

835
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:44,240
Speaker 8: Google?

836
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 2: Are you Google? You're already good and we're good. We're

837
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 2: good to go.

838
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:49,280
Speaker 9: Yeah, look, I think it'll be all right.

839
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 2: I like it. I'm willing to go with I think

840
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 2: it'll be all right.

841
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: Not if we're going to the effort here. Let's just

842
00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 1: do our due diligence. I'm sure we'll be able to

843
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: speak to she googled.

844
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 3: Yes, I know, but like we don't work because then

845
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 3: if the fish ends up in an airport loss and found,

846
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 3: you're going to be, oh, how do we get the

847
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 3: fish out of there? You know I'm doing that tomorrow

848
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 3: thirty one and six five? Do you work at the

849
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:14,760
Speaker 3: I mean, Katrina's killed.

850
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 2: By the journey, not the destination.

851
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 4: Let's go to Katrina here, Katrina, whoa, here we go.

852
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 4: I mean, I hate to make this a competition, but Katrina,

853
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 4: am I riding saying that you are driving from Sydney

854
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 4: to Melbourne tomorrow?

855
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 7: Yeah, we can I've been listening and I was so

856
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 7: excited to hear about the other gentleman who was going

857
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:35,280
Speaker 7: to drive for Melbourne.

858
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 5: Yeah.

859
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:37,879
Speaker 7: No, I thought, I've got my son in the car

860
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 7: and he loves you, always thinks the Will and the

861
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 7: Will and Woody jingle, and I said, let's oll bring

862
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 7: up he's going no note, he's one of those gen

863
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 7: Z thirteen year olds who think that he's so embarrassed

864
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 7: to do anything you like.

865
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:50,239
Speaker 11: Let's just do it.

866
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 4: You can meet Will and Hoody. Yeah, buddy, get a photo,

867
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 4: get a photo with us.

868
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 2: We'll give you. We'll give you heaps some move Okay.

869
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 4: So just to confirm though, Katrina, So you and your son,

870
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 4: you and your son are open to picking up a fish, probably.

871
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 2: Tomorrow tomorrow morning.

872
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, if you can, if you can. Obviously, I don't

873
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:10,680
Speaker 4: want to get to push you, but.

874
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 7: I think dry ice will probably be the best.

875
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 4: Bet a trader. You're a weapon, yeah, bloody, that is

876
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:17,960
Speaker 4: super cold.

877
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 6: Yeah.

878
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:19,919
Speaker 4: And then we get a bit of a smoke show

879
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 4: when you bring the fish into the studio. Nice, Katrina. Look,

880
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:27,360
Speaker 4: I'm going to pass you on to the producers just

881
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 4: to deal with all the details to do. But I've

882
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 4: done my job. I reckon, we might have a fish

883
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 4: will in the studio.

884
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 1: Okay, tomorrow around, turn around, two steps back, one step forward, maybe.

885
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 2: Katrina around a thirteen year old boy? Unreal? What a

886
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:48,840
Speaker 2: road trip on dry ice, mother and son unreal.

887
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:51,279
Speaker 3: I don't know what that's going to do with it.

888
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 4: But yeah, this is a great bonding moment for the

889
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 4: two of them, which leads to us and the fish tomorrow.

890
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:57,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, that's wild.

891
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 1: All right, jeez le me, I'm back, as in maybe

892
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 1: I'm enjoying this bit again?

893
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Speaker 2: Are you having to go drive over?

894
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Speaker 3: Swiller? This sounds like we're an academic show.

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Speaker 2: We're not.

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Speaker 1: But there's this fascinating study from La Trobe University which

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Speaker 1: you're talking about, which actually concerns sex education for kids.

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Speaker 3: So have you got kids who want to listen up?

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Speaker 3: Or actually, just if you're.

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Speaker 1: A dude and you had a really weird sex education,

901
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Speaker 1: you also probably want to listen up because the study

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Speaker 1: found out that there's a huge gap in dad's giving

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Speaker 1: sex education to their kids and as a result, there

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Speaker 1: are hugely concerning results for young boys.

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Speaker 3: And talk a little bit more about.

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Speaker 1: This, doctor Justinson Coolson joins us again on Willem Woody.

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Speaker 3: Welcome doctor Justin Win you guys, great to have you

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Speaker 3: on here.

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Speaker 2: Mate.

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Speaker 1: So I understand that you are actually in the middle

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Speaker 1: of writing a book and you've you've just finished writing

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Speaker 1: a chapter on this.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm writing a book about boys, will be out

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Speaker 8: early next year. You at the publisher at the end

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Speaker 8: of this week. So I'm under the puth. When I

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Speaker 8: got the call, I was like, I've got to talk about.

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Speaker 1: This all right, Great, well, we appreciate the time, mate.

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Speaker 1: So I imagine you've probably come across this study in

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Speaker 1: your research.

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Speaker 3: Then what is this?

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Speaker 1: How is dad's not affecting not talking to young boys

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Speaker 1: about sex affecting them?

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Speaker 8: This is such a tricky one to answer, guys, but

924
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Speaker 8: fundamentally what's happening is the load is falling on mum's

925
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Speaker 8: dads are shirking it and especially for our boys. So

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Speaker 8: here's some status that will blow your mind. Australian child

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Speaker 8: male treatment study published last year, probably the best study

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Speaker 8: of it's kind, certainly in Australia, maybe one of the

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Speaker 8: best in the world, found that twenty eight and a

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Speaker 8: half percent twenty eight and a half percent, nearly a

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Speaker 8: third of Australian has experienced childhood sexual abuse. Female thirty

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Speaker 8: seven point three percent, males eighteen point eight percent. So

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Speaker 8: girls twice is liking to abuse as boys. But just

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Speaker 8: pause on that for a sect. That means one in

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Speaker 8: five boys as well are experiencing sexual assault in the lives.

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Speaker 8: These are really big numbers, and a lot of this

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Speaker 8: happens because we're not talking about consent, we're not talking

938
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Speaker 8: about sex, we're not talking about sexual violence when we're

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Speaker 8: actually not having the conversation. There's another really critical thing

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Speaker 8: to highlight here in research where boys, teenage boys are

941
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Speaker 8: interviewed about this. As much as they pretend that they

942
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Speaker 8: don't care, they don't want to know, and they know

943
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Speaker 8: it all already, they actually consistently say that they want

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Speaker 8: to hear about it specifically from their dad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and so why is it important justin for the dads?

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Speaker 4: Do you think to be doing this rather than mum?

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Speaker 8: I think, as I'm writing this book about boys, one

948
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Speaker 8: of the key things that anthropologists, sociologists, psychologist, pretty much

949
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Speaker 8: everyone agrees on is masculinity is learnt by watching other men.

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Speaker 8: Masculinity is not playing that we just become. We actually

951
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Speaker 8: have to watch other men do it, and there's probably not.

952
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Speaker 8: Probably there's no relationship more important than the sexual relationship,

953
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Speaker 8: the intimate relationship, the partner relationship between the mum and dad,

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Speaker 8: between a husband and wife, between the people who are

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Speaker 8: biologically creating their offspring. And so when a kid, when

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Speaker 8: a sixteen year old or a fourteen year old or

957
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Speaker 8: an eleven year old boy sits down with his dad

958
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Speaker 8: and he's able to talk to his child about that

959
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Speaker 8: procreative process and about things like consent, it just changes

960
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Speaker 8: the game and time an ambassador for the federal governments

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Speaker 8: teachers consent can't wait campaign, and we're just we're having

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Speaker 8: this conversation all wrong, guys, We're having it all wrong.

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Speaker 8: And that accounts for why so many kids are struggling

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Speaker 8: with it so much.

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Speaker 3: It's real.

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Speaker 1: It feels like there's a real lack of soft male

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Speaker 1: leaders in general, let alone in a sort of micro

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Speaker 1: climate of a family where it's probably most influential and

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Speaker 1: most needed.

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Speaker 8: I don't even know if softs the right word, Like

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Speaker 8: the definition that I've settled on to what masculinity is.

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Speaker 8: Healthy masculinity is good men help the people around them,

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Speaker 8: especially if it's all weaker they help them feel safer

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Speaker 8: and stronger. And so what there is acknowledgement that as

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Speaker 8: a man, the average man is stronger the ninety nine

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Speaker 8: percent of females. I'm pretty much any any measure of

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Speaker 8: strength that can come up with, right, So, if you've

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Speaker 8: got that strength and you're in an intimate situation with

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Speaker 8: a partner, you've got you've got the you've got the

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Speaker 8: capacity to physically coerce or emotionally psychologically coerce. But if

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Speaker 8: you're the kind of person who says no, no, no, my

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Speaker 8: job here is to help you to feel safer and stronger.

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Speaker 8: So it's not about softness as much as it's about

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Speaker 8: tenderness and being willing to be considerate. I think consideration

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Speaker 8: is just so lacking here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, that's really interesting.

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Speaker 4: Just to go back on the sexual education ing doctor

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Speaker 4: justin saying that I'm sure boys might do in their

989
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Speaker 4: teen years if their dad isn't having that sex talk

990
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Speaker 4: with them, is go online and try and learn about

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Speaker 4: sex through the internet.

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Speaker 2: What would the dangers of that be?

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Speaker 8: Pornography is the number one sex educator of our young

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Speaker 8: people today in our society. And while I'm not a

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Speaker 8: consumer of it, and I know that many adults works

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Speaker 8: of the show aren't. There's plenty of people who are

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Speaker 8: as well, and they will tell you right away that

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Speaker 8: pornography is not for children. The average exposure we think,

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Speaker 8: I mean, it varies by culture, it varies by gender,

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Speaker 8: it varies by a whole lot of other factors, but

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Speaker 8: on average, we think it's about eleven maybe twelve. So

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Speaker 8: you think about you think about the content that kids

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Speaker 8: are being exposed to with online pornography, and they're having

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Speaker 8: that sexual.

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Speaker 3: Scripture written for them.

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Speaker 8: Like the average first kiss, average first kiss is fifteen,

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Speaker 8: So by the time they had that first kiss, that've

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Speaker 8: had three years of scripting around what it's supposed to be,

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Speaker 8: what that relationship is supposed to look like. And again,

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Speaker 8: do you know what, guys, this is my biggest message

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Speaker 8: of all. A lot of parents don't want to talk

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Speaker 8: about sex and intimacy with their kids because they're like, oh,

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Speaker 8: the kids already thinks they know, and it's awkward and

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Speaker 8: what am I going to say?

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Speaker 10: But we're saying the wrong.

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Speaker 8: Stuff because we say, oh, you've got to use a

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Speaker 8: condom and you've got to make sure that you're being

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Speaker 8: careful and all that sort of stuff. The conversation needs

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Speaker 8: to be this sex is awesome and I can't wait

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Speaker 8: for you to have it at the right time, with

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Speaker 8: the right person, in the right place, for the right reason.

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Speaker 8: And if you can tick those boxes, it's going to

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Speaker 8: be great. But if it's not, if you're not ticking

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Speaker 8: those four boxes, it's not the right time, not the

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Speaker 8: right place, not the right person, not the right reason,

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Speaker 8: then don't do it.

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Speaker 3: I love that that sex is awesome.

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Speaker 2: Don't demonize sex.

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Speaker 1: This is a man to remove the fear factor which

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Speaker 1: is so huge, Doctor Justin Coilson.

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Speaker 3: That is really awesome info. I know you're very busy.

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Speaker 3: What's the book called, mate, when's it out?

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Speaker 8: The book? Well, I think it's going to be called

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Speaker 8: Boys that's the working Table.

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Speaker 2: Okay, nice early next year.

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Speaker 8: Keep an eye on it. Happy families dot com. Do

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Speaker 8: you you can sign up for notifications for when it

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Speaker 8: comes out?

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Speaker 2: Awesome?

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Speaker 5: Mate?

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Speaker 3: All right, mate, thanks so much for coming on the show.

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Speaker 1: They're fascinating insights and what's an incredibly difficult issues, so

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Speaker 1: hopefully that'll be really helpful.

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Speaker 8: I love talking to you guys.

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Speaker 2: See you mate, mate,