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Speaker 1: Seat hot Seed.

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Speaker 3: Full name Victoria Catherine, divine, beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Favorite meal?

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Speaker 3: Oh, my favorite meal far out? Do you know what

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Speaker 3: it would be? Mashed potato with tomato sauce. Oh my god,

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Speaker 3: just so Aussie, just like mashed potato, but only my

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Speaker 3: mum's mashed potatoes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you got to add that Mardi sauce. Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: Do you have a favorite song?

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Speaker 3: I do it is? I have two? Am I allowed

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Speaker 3: to course? So September by Earth Wind and Fire okay

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Speaker 3: and the Luckiest by Ben Folds.

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Speaker 1: Oh I don't know either.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I'll play them for you later.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you. What's the bravest thing you've done?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Start a podcast?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but you're nailing it, mate.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. But I'm still scared. I'm still scared.

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Speaker 1: No, you're a natural.

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Speaker 2: If you weren't doing what you're doing now. So if

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Speaker 2: you weren't a financial advisor.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you're going to take that away from me too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what would you be?

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Speaker 3: Do you know what? I don't know, but I think

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Speaker 3: it would be in medicine. I would love to be

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Speaker 3: a doctor, Like I day dream about going back to

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Speaker 3: at university for another six years minimum.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's an investment of time. Biggest fear, failure,

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Speaker 2: biggest failure.

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Speaker 3: Do you know what? I don't know if I have

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Speaker 3: had a failure. I know that your podcast is all

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Speaker 3: about it, but I really would like to think that

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Speaker 3: each and every time I fail, it's not really a fail,

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Speaker 3: it's a learning. I really do genuinely believe that it's

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Speaker 3: either a lesson or a blessing, like there's no no

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Speaker 3: difference to either, Like they're both gifts. But look, I've

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Speaker 3: failed at a lot of things growing up. I failed school,

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Speaker 3: I failed Yeah, literally everything. I can't even think of

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Speaker 2: I'm being honest, it look to me. I love failure

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Speaker 2: because it comes with growth. So yeah, a lot of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I feel like there's nothing that I would

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Speaker 3: be like, Oh my gosh, I failed at that. It

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Speaker 3: and been completely blank for words.

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Speaker 1: I am seeing an event.

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Speaker 3: Fine, but do you know what I mean? Like I've

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Speaker 3: done those things. But it was a learning and it

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Speaker 3: worked out and it was fine. And everything that I've

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Speaker 1: I love it. What would your spirit animal be?

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Speaker 3: A fox? Oh? Little foxy boy, like not a sexy one,

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Speaker 3: like a little kind of like weird one gets around

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Speaker 3: the bush.

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Speaker 1: I love the preface, weird fox that gets around the bush? Awesome.

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Speaker 1: Do you have a favorite book?

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Speaker 3: Do I have a favorite?

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Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be yeah, I do.

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Speaker 3: I do. It is called On the Jelly Coo Road

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Speaker 3: by Melinda Marshadder and I have loved it since I

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Speaker 1: Is it fiction?

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Speaker 3: It is fiction?

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Speaker 1: Oh great, Okay, sign me up. Okay, this is a

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Speaker 1: weird one.

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Speaker 2: This is just because I have a really weird obsession

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Speaker 3: Is there so bad a movie, are you? Yeah, like,

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Speaker 3: I don't have a favorite movie, so don't you go?

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Speaker 1: Forget the score questions?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, I go for it. I want to hear it.

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Speaker 1: Well, no favorite movies, Like some people know their movie scores,

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Speaker 3: No clue. I'm sorry, really unhelpful. In fact, every time

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Speaker 3: I've flown so literally this week I flew back from

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Speaker 3: LA didn't watch one movie. I just can't do it.

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Speaker 3: What did you watch? I just listened to podcasts.

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Speaker 1: Oh way, I listened.

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Speaker 2: To podcasts and like I did, I did that same

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Speaker 2: seven days before you, and I can tell you exactly

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Speaker 2: what I watched.

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Speaker 1: Who composed every movie that I wrot?

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Speaker 3: No chance?

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Speaker 1: Wow? Amazing? Have you a a skydive?

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Speaker 3: I have? I did it overloud Ladder Brunen in Switzerland,

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Speaker 3: which is the place for that hire world to skyd beautiful?

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: The video is actually on YouTube if you want to

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Speaker 3: look up. If you just look up skydiving Victoria Devine,

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Speaker 1: Amazing though, ten out of ten.

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Speaker 3: Stunning, ten out of ten would do it again.

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Speaker 1: Same. I love skydiving so much.

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Speaker 3: It's funny because I paid for the video. You know,

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Speaker 3: when you get they're like, oh, do you want to

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Speaker 3: pay for the video? I was like yeah, because I'm

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Speaker 3: me being terrified. It's just me being like this is sick.

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Speaker 3: At the end, they're like, would you do it again?

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Speaker 3: I'm like absolutely, like yeah, you probably will, you probably will.

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Speaker 1: Okay, have your swim with sharks?

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Speaker 3: I have? Oh my god, am I doing all right?

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Speaker 1: What kind?

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Speaker 3: And where on the Great Barrier?

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Speaker 3: We went and did like a shark swim, like like

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Speaker 3: reef shark? Yeah, yea, yeah, reef sharks.

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Speaker 1: Like what you're cool?

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Speaker 3: Not a great white no chance favorite?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah that we don't want that.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I have, but I just didn't know.

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Speaker 1: Surprised.

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Speaker 2: Do you have a fashion icon? I know you're like,

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Speaker 2: you've got really nice style and off all day.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. That is very kind. I've tried the Hailey

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's weird.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. See, I'm influenced by everything on Instagram. I don't

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Speaker 3: I feel because I'm quite corporate, but I'm also like

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Speaker 3: You are cool.

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Speaker 1: You are cool. Would you call yourself an introvert or

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Speaker 3: know how to do what I need to do, but

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Speaker 3: like like we're good at it right, But it's also

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Speaker 3: like my recovery time is individual. Like my perfect Friday

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Speaker 1: Like it's just if you say.

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Speaker 3: We're going to a party, I'll be like, have one, babe. Similar.

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Speaker 1: It was my birthday yesterday and my boyfriend was like,

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Speaker 1: what do you want to do? What do you want

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Speaker 3: When I was like nothing, Oh I love that, And

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Speaker 3: people are like, oh my god, she's being so dramatic.

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Speaker 3: She said nothing. No, literally, I don't want to do anything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: That people reward.

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Speaker 1: People get it are the same person that they're like,

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Speaker 1: do know what? We're the same?

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Speaker 2: Okay, final bit single piece of advice for someone that

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Speaker 1: Would you say budget?

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Speaker 3: So I would actually say take the pressure off. Stop

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Speaker 3: expecting too much from yourself at a young age, like

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Speaker 3: right now, life is to be lived. I think that

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Speaker 3: to do that as well. Yeah, Like I remember being

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Speaker 3: I remember being at union seeing those girls who would

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Speaker 3: always save heaps, like, yeah, they might have gotten a

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Speaker 3: Because also when you're like earning forty grand a year

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Speaker 3: sometimes you just don't have the capacity to save. Acknowledge

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Speaker 3: It's just a season of my life. At some point

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Speaker 2: Do you know, I have my best financial lessons like

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Speaker 2: or you need to worry about I got into a

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Speaker 1: You're on your own. And I had to march out

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Speaker 3: Oh no, and it was great.

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Speaker 2: The lawyer like talked me through it. I had to

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Speaker 2: best lesson. Yeah, I felt you so independent. And I

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Speaker 2: always said, Mom, and that is the best gift that

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Speaker 3: Terrible, but at least you learn early.

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Speaker 2: Another one was my dad gave me a credit card

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Speaker 2: for university textbooks, and I quickly figured out that I

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Speaker 3: More than textbooks on that credit card, and I was

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Speaker 1: He figured it out. I got home one day and

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Speaker 1: he goes give me the credit card. Oh no, did

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Speaker 1: he chop it up in front of me?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: Like, how good to learn that?

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Speaker 2: Like eighteen and twenty, and then you don't f around

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Speaker 2: with money anymore because the rest of it's your own.

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Speaker 3: You're well, this is sucky, but it's so good.

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Speaker 2: Like I've treated both my parents as hardcore as that sounds.

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Speaker 1: Loved those persons.

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Speaker 3: I mean at the time, you probably didn't like hindsight though,

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Speaker 3: roast into glasses.

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Speaker 1: That's so helpful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Anyway, there there's my little taste. You have been

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Speaker 2: on real and I'm so honored to have you on

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Speaker 3: Thank you for having me. I love it.

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Speaker 1: What a fun time and I can't wait to get

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Speaker 1: into your new book as well.

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Speaker 3: Come with me on my pod soon. We're talking about

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Speaker 3: money stories.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, sign am I allowed to put myself.

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Speaker 3: Forward from Come on Down, Come on down.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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