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Speaker 1: Jersey and a man does jam Nation.

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Speaker 2: If I'm going to talk, here's a trigger warning. I'm

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Speaker 2: going to talk about toilets right now, but nothing grubby.

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Speaker 1: A little bit la for your trigger warning.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's nothing rubby toilets. It's interesting because men have

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Speaker 2: no trouble going to a public toilet, going to toilet

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Speaker 2: at work, going to toilet at work down mine. I

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Speaker 2: did a story in Japan many years ago with beyond

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Speaker 2: two thousand, probably thirty years ago. If you go to

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Speaker 2: a public toilet in Japan still these days, you can

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Speaker 2: press a musical button that covers the sound of in

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Speaker 2: women's toilets. I don't know what the men are like

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Speaker 2: to cover the sound of you tinkling into the toilet bowl.

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Speaker 2: And then because what was happening was that women were

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Speaker 2: pressing the flush to cover the sound, so they flushed

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Speaker 2: before they went and flush when they went after and

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Speaker 2: was wasting too much water. So now you can disguise

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Speaker 2: the sound of a natural thing of going to the

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Speaker 2: toilet by playing music. I don't there was this whole

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Speaker 2: statistic about women who've never gone to the toilet outside

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Speaker 2: their own homes. And let's talk about number two's for

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Speaker 2: a minute. And this isn't a joke. Women find it

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Speaker 2: very hard to do a number two outside a safe place,

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Speaker 2: I usually your own home, whereas guys don't seem to

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Speaker 2: have trouble do they brendan You know, you guys to

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Speaker 2: joke with each other about, oh, I'm just off to

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Speaker 2: the toilet to whatever am I right in saying?

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Speaker 1: So? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Do it degree when there's different when it's like white collar,

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Speaker 3: blue collar sort of stuff.

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Speaker 1: When you're on the work site, it's not such a

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Speaker 1: big deal.

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Speaker 3: But then the toilet's on the work side are dreadful,

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Speaker 3: like if you go into a portal or that's dreadful.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but he is pretty good. It's like SHANGRILARI.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but still you have no qualms in sitting next

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Speaker 2: to someone else and doing your business.

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Speaker 3: My complaint is they frosted the window, so now we

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Speaker 3: can't look out at the harbor.

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Speaker 2: So but you have no problem going in there to

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Speaker 2: do a number two. Guys just don't.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't choose to do it.

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Speaker 2: But it's always the family trope too, is oh don't

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Speaker 2: go in there. Give it twenty Dad's been in the toilet.

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Speaker 2: It's accepted that men can do stuff that smells, but

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Speaker 2: it's hard for women to be this. I saw a

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Speaker 2: really interesting thing from Queensland Healthy yesterday that came up

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Speaker 2: on my feed. It's a picture of two dolphins and

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Speaker 2: there's a poor emoji over the face of one, but

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Speaker 2: they're all rainbow colored and there's rainbows and it said

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Speaker 2: it's okay to poo at work. And the message is this.

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Speaker 2: It says, lots of people find it difficult, and this

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Speaker 2: is aimed at women to poo at public toilets or

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Speaker 2: at work. We're here to tell you it's okay to

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Speaker 2: go number two. Consistently ignoring your need to pooh can

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Speaker 2: lead to stool getting stuck in your colon and hemorrhoids

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Speaker 2: and other health issues. So it's better to let it

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Speaker 2: out than hold it in. And there's a name for

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Speaker 2: people who find it difficult to pour around other people.

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Speaker 2: It's called parcopressus. It's called pooh paranoia. People with this

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Speaker 2: condition have an overwhelming fear of being judged by others

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Speaker 2: because of the sounds and smells associated with poohing. I

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Speaker 2: guess it goes back to something primal. Our toilets have

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Speaker 2: always been separate to you know where we've eaten, where

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Speaker 2: we've slept, We've always that's we're always private about it.

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Speaker 2: In our most historic sense, our most tribal sense, we've

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Speaker 2: been private. And this still harkens back to that. So

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Speaker 2: many women have the symptoms of hot trying to hold

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Speaker 2: it in, an increased heart rate, sweating and nausea. So

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Speaker 2: they say, here's some tips. This is from Queensland Health.

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Speaker 2: Remember that everyone poohs, they say, Visualize someone famous on

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Speaker 2: the toilet like Taylor Swift Tailor would be thrilled with this.

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Speaker 2: Bring a small fragrance spray to the toilet with you

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Speaker 2: if you need to avoid food or drink that can

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Speaker 2: trigger your bowls. Breathe deeply and just kind of meditate

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Speaker 2: because it's the most natural thing in the world. And

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Speaker 2: they suggest here reach out to your healthcare provider for support.

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Speaker 2: If you need it, you make an appointent with your doctor.

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Speaker 2: I'm having trouble doing a pillot.

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Speaker 1: Woman, and you have no problem with this.

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Speaker 2: No, I do have a problem with this. We all do.

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Speaker 2: Every I reckon, every female has a problem with this.

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Speaker 2: Short of having your own private toilet, you don't want

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Speaker 2: to be overheard over, smelt over known. It's still women

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Speaker 2: still struggle with this.

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Speaker 3: If I see you walk off with the form guide

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Speaker 3: under your how, I'm saying I'm off to the boy.

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Speaker 1: Whose life is that.

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Speaker 2: I dream of being that open